Had that you are not attractive enough, meanwhile he was always at the mirror admiring himself. Just about every morning when I would be at the sink below the mirror brushing my teeth, he would push me aside to look at himself and say that I was so lucky to have someone so good looking. This would really get me as I was working hard since the baby was 8 weeks old because he said his money was for his use and on top of it expected me to pay for his expenses, dental, mobile phone, cigarettes and fast food etc . If I didn't there would be rage. When he left he took a 4foot long and 2foot wide heavy mirror with him that belonged to me, he said he needed it for shaving!
You're going to ruin marriages instead of fixing. The positive gave a positive advice could yield an excellent result, good shape, good health, and physical attraction.
These comments are DEMONIC. Yes a woman/man should take care of themselves & satisfy each other. But life happens, ppl age, kids…etc. BODIES CHANGE. You can get into an accident and lose your all your limbs! That is STILL not an excuse to cheat. ITS CALLED FOR BETTER OR FOR WORSE. Have a convo with your partner, work with each other and see if you can fix the issue, #1 TALK TO GOD ABOUT IT!! Cause at the end of the day you can’t blame anyone else for YOUR sins. When you’re standing in front of your creator there is no pointing fingers. You just have to REPENT.
Exactly what I was thinking. Its funny cause he started by saying his mission is to help save as many marriages as possible and the solution just is about breaking off from the marriage 😂 Man needs advise sometimes for how to see the world with correct lenses but women shutting down will rub on his ego fire even more pushing this marriage to a dead end, I mean why would you advise her to do so, thats a very toxic feministic advise.
I understand we're you coming from. But at the same time she needs to take some accountability. If when they first met she weighed 130 pounds and now she weights 300. That is also on her for not having self control and being a glutton.
I disagree with you .Women usually gain weight especially after pregnancy. Then men want to cheat on the women who gave them a child because she is not shape with is usually normal. That why I can't stand men
WOW! From day one I took appearance bashes and went crazy trying to please him. I was told this was the way. He took no effort to understand my hurt when I lovingly and creatively confronted him. So I tried 4 more years with less passion. He moved on. You are about as bold as God, but I 100 percent agree.
Mine went from sexy/beautiful to a not caring about her physical appearance and diet. Even then I never went astray. Did not find her attractive at that point, but never went to another "womans' embrace." I loved her, believed in the scriptural version of marriage, and was going to ride that train to my death. It did not help in this particular case. Oh well, as pastor Greear says; "Sometimes the marriage does not work out." It hurts when it happens, but you trust in Yhwhs', Yashuahs', and the Holy Spirits' plan. HALLELUJAH!
@@josephholt7425 you still disrespected her. You stayed while you chose to be disgusted and unatractedand probably hating and resenting her.. It is all a choice. Love is a choice. Sex is a choice too. It's all in your head. You think you respected her? What a joke.. Let me guess you watched anc still watch and at pornographic content and you lasted after every other female but your wife. And you think she didn't know it or see it. No mate, you did not respect her. It was a convenience thing for you and you also didn't want to be the bad guy in your film. Respect would have been honesty, conversation and ultimately separating so you could still view her in a respectful way. You sentensed her and yourself to resentment. Again by choice. You could choose to view her differently but you didn't. Now if you stayed because of kids - don't sell this as respect, this is just your duty, the bare minimum.
This is one of most idiotic advice, guys we are visual creatures and we are attractive to the beauty I understand and I agree if you're not attracted to your spouse anymore just end it, but not having sex The guy clearly he doesn't even want to have sex with this woman That's why he had sex with somebody else probably younger and more attractive so dude don't give bad advice
BAM! In just a few minutes, Dr. Clarke hands out the tough medicine needed. "You're no Brad Pitt!" The Bible is clear that our body is not our own ( 1 Cor 7:4) but we belong to our spouse. Treat your spouse like you are still dating. Do little kind things for each other. Look in the mirror yourself! Affair-proof your marriage. WORK AT IT. Your best chance at a good marriage is to save the one you're in now. Get counsel! Read one of these books! Never quit!!!
These comments are DEMONIC. Yes a woman/man should take care of themselves & satisfy each other. But life happens, ppl age, kids…etc. BODIES CHANGE. You can get into an accident and lose your all your limbs! That is STILL not an excuse to cheat. ITS CALLED FOR BETTER OR FOR WORSE. Have a convo with your partner, work with each other and see if you can fix the issue, #1 TALK TO GOD ABOUT IT!! Cause at the end of the day you can’t blame anyone else for YOUR sins. When you’re standing in front of your creator there is no pointing fingers. You just have to REPENT.
This is terrible advice and you reccomended she get angry and start insulting him Wild way to get back in to love but ok Also where’s the accountability for one letting themselves go? Crazy
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Had that you are not attractive enough, meanwhile he was always at the mirror admiring himself. Just about every morning when I would be at the sink below the mirror brushing my teeth, he would push me aside to look at himself and say that I was so lucky to have someone so good looking. This would really get me as I was working hard since the baby was 8 weeks old because he said his money was for his use and on top of it expected me to pay for his expenses, dental, mobile phone, cigarettes and fast food etc . If I didn't there would be rage. When he left he took a 4foot long and 2foot wide heavy mirror with him that belonged to me, he said he needed it for shaving!
You're going to ruin marriages instead of fixing. The positive gave a positive advice could yield an excellent result, good shape, good health, and physical attraction.
These comments are DEMONIC.
Yes a woman/man should take care of themselves & satisfy each other. But life happens, ppl age, kids…etc. BODIES CHANGE. You can get into an accident and lose your all your limbs! That is STILL not an excuse to cheat. ITS CALLED FOR BETTER OR FOR WORSE.
Have a convo with your partner, work with each other and see if you can fix the issue, #1 TALK TO GOD ABOUT IT!! Cause at the end of the day you can’t blame anyone else for YOUR sins. When you’re standing in front of your creator there is no pointing fingers. You just have to REPENT.
This guy is so so so wrong and clueless. Physical attraction is the MOST important thing. I can’t believe how oblivious this guy is
@@mementomori1022 truth hurts
@@mementomori1022 you are delusional
@@mementomori1022 ha ha ha. You are so so clueless
No, love is.
Exactly what I was thinking. Its funny cause he started by saying his mission is to help save as many marriages as possible and the solution just is about breaking off from the marriage 😂
Man needs advise sometimes for how to see the world with correct lenses but women shutting down will rub on his ego fire even more pushing this marriage to a dead end, I mean why would you advise her to do so, thats a very toxic feministic advise.
Don't agree with this.
Definitely
I understand we're you coming from. But at the same time she needs to take some accountability. If when they first met she weighed 130 pounds and now she weights 300. That is also on her for not having self control and being a glutton.
Someone else’s sin isn’t an excuse for you to sin.
I disagree with you .Women usually gain weight especially after pregnancy. Then men want to cheat on the women who gave them a child because she is not shape with is usually normal. That why I can't stand men
WOW! From day one I took appearance bashes and went crazy trying to please him. I was told this was the way. He took no effort to understand my hurt when I lovingly and creatively confronted him. So I tried 4 more years with less passion. He moved on. You are about as bold as God, but I 100 percent agree.
Mine went from sexy/beautiful to a not caring about her physical appearance and diet.
Even then I never went astray.
Did not find her attractive at that point, but never went to another "womans' embrace."
I loved her, believed in the scriptural version of marriage, and was going to ride that train to my death.
It did not help in this particular case.
Oh well, as pastor Greear says; "Sometimes the marriage does not work out."
It hurts when it happens, but you trust in Yhwhs', Yashuahs', and the Holy Spirits' plan. HALLELUJAH!
Let me guess - she had children and you went mia. By the way so disrespectful the way you talk and thought of her- as bad as cheating.
@@BlueBlossomsBlues Nope. Stayed through the entire thing.
@@josephholt7425 you still disrespected her. You stayed while you chose to be disgusted and unatractedand probably hating and resenting her.. It is all a choice. Love is a choice. Sex is a choice too. It's all in your head. You think you respected her? What a joke.. Let me guess you watched anc still watch and at pornographic content and you lasted after every other female but your wife. And you think she didn't know it or see it. No mate, you did not respect her. It was a convenience thing for you and you also didn't want to be the bad guy in your film. Respect would have been honesty, conversation and ultimately separating so you could still view her in a respectful way. You sentensed her and yourself to resentment. Again by choice. You could choose to view her differently but you didn't.
Now if you stayed because of kids - don't sell this as respect, this is just your duty, the bare minimum.
I actually heard no real help there.. Just a very judgemental fool that lacks compassion and understanding for either side.
This is one of most idiotic advice, guys we are visual creatures and we are attractive to the beauty I understand and I agree if you're not attracted to your spouse anymore just end it, but not having sex The guy clearly he doesn't even want to have sex with this woman That's why he had sex with somebody else probably younger and more attractive so dude don't give bad advice
BAM! In just a few minutes, Dr. Clarke hands out the tough medicine needed. "You're no Brad Pitt!" The Bible is clear that our body is not our own ( 1 Cor 7:4) but we belong to our spouse. Treat your spouse like you are still dating. Do little kind things for each other. Look in the mirror yourself! Affair-proof your marriage. WORK AT IT. Your best chance at a good marriage is to save the one you're in now. Get counsel! Read one of these books! Never quit!!!
The Bible has absolutely no authority. Are you kidding me? Seriously? Do you think the Bible has any sort of authority?
I'm glad I read the comments and saved myself 4 minutes and 38 seconds of bull shit.
These comments are DEMONIC.
Yes a woman/man should take care of themselves & satisfy each other. But life happens, ppl age, kids…etc. BODIES CHANGE. You can get into an accident and lose your all your limbs! That is STILL not an excuse to cheat. ITS CALLED FOR BETTER OR FOR WORSE.
Have a convo with your partner, work with each other and see if you can fix the issue, #1 TALK TO GOD ABOUT IT!! Cause at the end of the day you can’t blame anyone else for YOUR sins. When you’re standing in front of your creator there is no pointing fingers. You just have to REPENT.
What if there is no affair but the husband said that? and what if he is living alone in another state and seems to enjoy his life
I agree with the pastor.
This is terrible advice and you reccomended she get angry and start insulting him
Wild way to get back in to love but ok
Also where’s the accountability for one letting themselves go?
Crazy
This guy is rambling on and he’s not even close…..