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Bhai aapne Swami Sarvapriyananda ji ka Who am I? Lecture joki 8 saal pehle IITK me diya tha vo dekha kya? Aapko shi me achha lgega. He gives great talks on Vedanta on RUclips.
In >3 years of relationship (nearly married), I felt like shit, just like this for over a year, NOW I HAVE BROKEN UP! I kinda compromised on the basic rules of a healthy relationship, and because of that everything you have mentioned in this video, I have suffered. Compromising on sleep, health, friends, work, every fucking things were affected, and the funny part is unless you are OUT, you won't realise the severity of these things.
bhai meri bandi bhi bar bar breakup ki dhamki deti h almost 10 baar usne giveup kra h mere upr relationship ke upr + femenist h vo alag se i still compromise adjust even after getting hurted so many times bs isi hope me ke ek din smjh jayegi smjh nhi aata kya kru should i leave her when she again try to giveup?
@@ashishpandey1288 Bro leave! Don't think that there is only this person I can spend my whole life with. Agar dhamki de rahi he .. please leave. There is no respect left, and you should not feel hurt continuously. If someone is hurt and the other person understands and make it right, stay with that person. And, please have some dignity and leave.
@@debadipti but bro I'm attached yr🥺 I don't want to cry and get depressed bhot kuch socha tha sath me uske sath future ka + her past memories will haunt me everyday it's not that easy. Pls help if you can by any suggestions to improve or to leave her
"Absolutely! Let's shift the focus to valuing genuine kindness and respect in relationships, rather than perpetuating negative stereotypes. Respect and empathy should be celebrated, not ridiculed. Let's promote healthy interactions and appreciation for each other's feelings."
bhai meri bandi bhi bar bar breakup ki dhamki deti h almost 10 baar usne giveup kra h mere upr relationship ke upr + femenist h vo alag se i still compromise adjust even after getting hurted so many times bs isi hope me ke ek din smjh jayegi smjh nhi aata kya kru should i leave her when she again try to giveup?
@@ashishpandey1288 bhai mai ek larki hu apne perspective se bol rhi..agr usko nhi man h to chordo ....leaving mutually is best thing u can do..otherwise aage jakr sara blame aap par aayega ki maine to tmko bola tha chorne tmhi mere piche lge hue the ...aur tb tk bhut late hojayega u can't focus on yrself...achi relationship vhi hoti h jisme dono saath mein grow kre smjhe ekdusre ko aur compromise ek tarfa nhi hota..
I was once a guy like that but i broke through the chains of simping and now I'm much happier, i have more girls that i go out with and more friends because I don't waste time chasing around one girl.
@@kunaljha64Bhai, it is not something to teach directly. I think most of us pass through that phase. I used to simp too when I got into relationship when I was 19. I didn’t wanted to lose her no matter what. Tolerated all the shit until she cheated and left. We will go through bad phase and eventually move on. Just do things every hour that you value the most. If you need to choose between valuable hour or someone who doesn’t care, you would choose valuable hour and good company.
Man!!!! I needed this video, because I am in similar relationship. And not getting the attention I deserve. Still trying to fix the relationship hurting myself. It's time to take control of my life and get out this one sided relationship.
Bro I can't believe I faced everything that you said in this video and I was so depressed and kind off lonely. I told her one time that she has to give efforts but it did not change and then i decided to break up and told her that if she changes(starts giving efforts) then only this can work otherwise I'll be gone. And then she started making efforts and now my condition is way better than before ;)
Much needed video... Thank you for showing the mirror for singles especially guys like me since 29 yrs who is without relationship. So Now.. The Essence of this video is to get out of the compulsion of getting into male-female relationship .
Man, had this video come out before. A very close friend of mine was doing this. I had to indulge in a hour long yap session to convince him that the girl is simply using him and that he should step out and simply let her go.
Probably becouse love is sacrifice which is true but wrong perception of sacrifice gives birth to simping. Subconsciously some people purposely want to destroy themselves for the sake of love because this gives them sense of entitlement that they've completely given their ego for one person. Maybe by doing this they experience depth of something which very few can experience but nothing good will come out of this in material world
Simping comes from submissive ness. Those guys who simp put their partner at a higher pedestal ( it's just like humans put gods ). What do you think will happen if you snatch away someone's god or when you threaten someone's belief in a God ? That person will get scared and feel lost. Because he lost his purpose. He was following someone and was not thinking for himself and that made him feel safe ( thinking someone is there to lead him so he needs to relax ) . Thats how simp people are
bhai meri bandi bhi bar bar breakup ki dhamki deti h almost 10 baar usne giveup kra h mere upr relationship ke upr + femenist h vo alag se i still compromise adjust even after getting hurted so many times bs isi hope me ke ek din smjh jayegi smjh nhi aata kya kru should i leave her when she again try to giveup?
@@ashishpandey1288 Have a serious conversation on whether she's serious about your relationship or it's just a fluke. If you cannot do that, Leave her. Uske liye break up kuch bhi nahi hai. Take it she threatened you with "giving up" which literally means she thinks you are replaceable. If that were me, I would have cut off my connections at that very moment. Tali hamesha do hatho see bajti hai.
@@arpan9937 brother it's not that easy yr🥺 I'm attached and in love what should I do step by step pls help if you can I'll appreciate you from my heart
I heard this from somewhere. Why do we take abuse from our partners because our body is corrupt. As it tries to keep us enslaved in a sexual yet toxic relationship. Yet our soul suffers because our soul is pure and it tries to revolt against the injustice against our partner.
Thanks bud. Sometimes people need a reality check. They know this all within but need a friend to say this outlook to them. It na zyaada self doubt hoti hai toxic relationships mein k puchho mat.
i think BOLLYWOOD and cinema has ruined the true essence of love. coz in our childhood, in movies we saw that the male or female just suffer nd suffocate herself/himself in love in order to get the other partner attention or to get acknowledge by other partner and in the ending they both comes as one for a happy ending. BUT IN REAL LIFE things are not like that coz in real life most of the times the other partner leaves the relationship leaveing the other half to just suffer in pain which truly opposite to a fake movie ending. we need to stop romanticizing the pain nd should more care about our mental peace.
Your videos really too much help in coming back on new arc of life very effective way ❣️some distraction comes making away to dream but these information too much help ❤
When I was in that relationship, even after knowing all this which shwetabh told, i wasn't able to leave her. Ultimately she left me with very inhumane behaviour as if i was just her slave and nothing else. Now i want to train myself such that I breakup asap when i realise that this person is not my type.
My advice stop being in this hookup or ONS cultures or whatever this bullcrap they have introduced. If you genuinely like someone go with it or just stay out of this relationship saga. What kind of drama is this where you keep dating other people's and then one day you were like you know what among all the choices you're the best so let's get married 😐
Pichhle kuch saalon mein, meri zindagi bahut uljhanon se bhari rahi hai. 2020 ka lockdown aane ke baad, maine padhai karna bilkul chord diya. padhne ki jagah, shortcuts le liye, copy-paste karke exams mein pass ho jata tha Is bekaar adat ne mujhe padhai se door kar diya. Phir, itne saare porn dekhne se mera dimaag bhi distract ho gaya aur mujhe padhne ka mann hi nahi karta tha. fir 9th me maine ek ladki se pyaar kiya (uske sath khud imagine kar kar ke pagal hua hu ye sabh mene 4 saal keeya ) par usne mujhe reject kar diya (25june2023). Uske baad se toh har jagah sirf failure aur disappointment hi nazar aata hai. 10th mein compartment aa gayi (may2023). kisi ne suggest kara ki diploma karle uska entrance deeya vo hogaya tha par chodh kar aagaya kuch reason ki vajah se fir naye school mein bhi yahi kahani, yahi dard. Abhi tak kuch nahi padha , sab mein fail hoon. Ab final exams hai aur mujhe kuch samajh nahi aa raha.or mujhe dar hai fail na ho jau kyuki me kyu padhunga? pdha jo jata hai nhi mujh se... Zindagi ki yeh journey, ek sad reality ban gayi hai, jismein sirf disappointments aur failures hain.
One thing you can do is to: 1)sit and initiate the act of studying You have that starting problem for sitting for long hours Switch off your phone and sit with a book infront of you,I am sure you will start studying something and you can increase the number of hours later World's greatest boxer Mohammed ali said *I h@ted every minute of my training but I did it* Every one in this world have this problem of laziness but you should push yourself Btw What's your age now? Note:Read my answer again
Tereko samjh aya matlab tune Tera mistake identify karliya , ab same galti maat karna kabhi bhi, aur mehnat kar. Baas make sure that you are improving on a daily basis.And kabhi hope maat loose karna.
@@sabyasachichakraborty6637 ha kal raat yahi soucha mene ki mera downfall akhir shuru kaha se hua ab realisation hogaya ab me aapni preparation kar rha hu ye exams ki or fir 2025 me jee mains bhi nikal na hai
Love you man ❤ lots of love to you shwetabh bhai❤ these simps are the reason of womens thinking hurting a man or cheating with own partner is absolutely normal. .. Stop putting womens on a pedestal treat them how they treat you .. let them get the taste of their own medicine
u explained this problem like 1000 times and still peoples did not get it.What are they DUMB ? Your explanation is soo easy to understand and still peoples do not get it ?
I’m a girl and I can relate to each n every point that Shwetabh bhai has mentioned. I’m 16 and was in my first relationship at the age of 15 ( nibba nibbi shit I know) that was the worst decision of my life I swear. Ahh that shit still haunts me, even thinking about the incidents makes me anxious. I was very much inspired by the bollywood presentation of what Love is! Now when I think about my perspectives I really feel embarrassed 🥲 I could see the red flags in the boy ( he had been a famous play boi..who used to have 6 gfs at the same time. I really don’t know how I thought that he would be loyal to me) I was naive to comprehend anything critically as a result now I can’t trust anybody. I used to be the topper, that all rounder kid who used to be the PERFECT in everything be it academics, fashion, dance, singing, video editing or creating. People used to wonder how I could manage to do so much :) However, that event (heart break) made me much mature and I realised that being too ridden over emotions is extremely disastrous. Also no one is permanent in life. People will come n go so don’t assume that they are going the be forever coz forever doesn’t exist. Career banaao pehle chaahe bhai ho ya behen yeh hormones ka chakkar hai babu bhaiyya pyaar vyaar kuchh nahi hota hai :) Apna dhyaan khud rakho, kisi par bhi dependent mat rehna dost otherwise last m bohot hurt hoga.
Ur this comment made me more anxious As i m 17.5 boy I want one girl throughout my whole life but want to be forming first relationship for both Preparing for JEE so didn't engage in any thing till now although got 2 chance in itself but priorities were diff Now I regret that will I be able to find such girl in 19 or 20s Hope so I will
@@user-vu5hj8np7o Bhai...discourage nahi karna chhahta...but ye perspective ki uski bhi 1st relationship ho aur teri bhi...(some people loosely define it as no seal no deal or 0 body count or whatever...you get the point)... ye aajke zamane mein milne ki possibility extremely low hai. And let's say even if you get one... it can also be because that person also had some really big behavioral issues or emotional instability and so she did not get along anyone...warna aajkal 6th-7th ke bachhe shuru hue pade hai... Toh 1st 2nd ka nahi sirf quality ka filter rakho... kya person emotionally available hai, considerate hai, kahi narcissistic tendencies toh nahi.... Baaki maine bahut jagah haath jalaya hai red flags ignore karke...tab jaake ye strict criteria develop kia hai... to safeguard my mental health...😊 P.s. Jab bhi kisi relationship mein ghuse ...yeh mat sochna ki "she's the one" like immediately shaadi, bachon ke naam mat soch lena... pehle observe karna then gradually apna stake 10% se 20,30,50,80 aur phir 100% leke jaana 😅😂
@@Travel_Junkie007lol as expected reply That’s why I mentioned (nibba nibbi shit) 😂 Alright! You can say I was a nibbi but I ain’t now, I’m a much mature and practical person.
I used to do this stuff when I was in my 1st sem and 2nd sem, then I decided to take revenge, I stopped talking with her, I got 3 backlogs in my 1st sem, from 3rd sem I came across shwetabhah's content, my life transformed to 360 degree, at the end of the 8th sem I was topper in my college. Thanks a lot shwetabh... Going to Germany for my master's studies and got a fully funded scholarship from the German government. Thanks a lot man.... ❤❤❤❤❤
I agree but yaha ladko k simping zyada hai kyuki apni country bahut conservative hai. Badi mushkil se koi ladki milti hai. Dating culture hai nahi. West k kisi college me jaoge to mushkil se 10 bande milenge ek class me jinki koi girlfriend na ho. Yaha to ulta hai.
Once married I was showing extra attention and care towards husband. Not sure if he was reciprocating. Though it seemed get care in the traditional way but I think he did... in some ways
Bro you opened my eyes. Jo aap dant fatkar k bolte ho aisa lagta hai literally real me humse face to face baat kar rahe ho.. Apki batein sunke dimag kaam karne lagta hai.. You are motivating many people. Keep sharing such content. God will always bless you 😇🙏🏻
Welcome back ..we dont want red pill from you not antifem...we want just old shwetabh .. jenuiwin...reality ....bhai apki 27 min ki old video abhi bhi hila deti hai kasm se
I'm a 20-year-old man who's short, balding ,kaalu and facially disgusting looking . Every woman I've tried to flirt with has rejected me with disgust on their face , and it's incredibly painful. I'm starved for physical touch and attention, and it feels like the only solution is to pay someone to spend time with me, even if it means they're just doing it for the money. Watching videos about relationships and its problems feels sooo alien to me; instead, I prefer to focus on productivity and general life knowledge content.
If looks was the Only criteria half of the Indians would not Have get married and 140cr population. Instead of running behind a girl try to become good wholesome person. Learn skills earn good money. Work on your body, communication skills. Be a interesting person! Make new friends. Get yourself busy. You won't get feel bad if You've multiple things Going on.
Try building yourself and do not try to show off you will get someone who like you and have some self confidence that you deserve that person ...(coming from a person who have been called boring nerd and rude to somewhat good at relationships)
Very good approach Shwetab ji . I like the natural language you use. One small feedback is that you used the word "gobar' ( cow dung ) nearing end of the video. Next time please use a different word. Reason is that there are news about India may export cow dung to gulf countries soon ( please don't ask me why ). If that really happens then gobar perception will change.
@@sigala2376 in video gobar wird is used in a negative sence to represent shit. Now when cow dung gets exported in future and revenue starts comming from it than people may not perceive gobar as negative. So better use another word like shit or gu to represent bad.
Swetabh ❌ Kratos ✅ !! 💖🔥 Love You Sir..!! Thanks For Always Standing For Uss..!! Maybe Your "Swetabh Gangwar" Gang Is Not With You ... But Your "Mensutra" Titans Who Are Watching Your From Last 6 Years Like Me , Iss..!! 💖
5 months and guess what after 4 years still stuck and thinking about why she did this why? slowly I realized that she never put any effort in the first place it's only me who romanticizes things so much... And yes Shwetabh is right these short-term relationships and endurance have a bad effect.. I totally destroyed my health because I ate too much, had no exercise, Had so much stress and lost hair, had No preparation for my career and now searching for a job.. She is happy she never thought about me in fact 2 years earlier I got to know it's never my fault it's just she got a new guy and because she wants to get rid of me she just uses and manipulates romantic moments to guilt like all that hugging kissing etc all became the reason like I just want her body I can't see her happy...etc etc. What all that endurance gives me at the end it's not like anyone will see how much I try to make her stay or how much I love her or am loyal to her and In my current state how I'm capable of having someone else in my current state.. and How I can expect to someone to choose me... My moods are not in my control nights became hellish because 70% of the time crying over it.. Know everything that it's not my fault but unable to handle myself. Please if you want to leave just leave them don't make an unnecessary excuse that becomes a guilt for him/her. And believe me, this guy is saying the truth no matter how much you put effort if it is not two-sided you will hurt, and if they leave you it will be so difficult for you.
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Bhai aapne Swami Sarvapriyananda ji ka Who am I? Lecture joki 8 saal pehle IITK me diya tha vo dekha kya?
Aapko shi me achha lgega.
He gives great talks on Vedanta on RUclips.
Please make a video of :-
How to study perfectly for gainning a skill with ADHD issue.
@@saurabhverma25who told you that you have ADHD
Bhai abhi do ladkiyo par simping chal rahi hain lage pade hain
Thx 🙏 bhai aur jyaada is par baat karne ke liye
Relationships now a days are myth they leave u like u were nothing.
Man I used to think like that to, but its only untill u realise it was not their but your and u let go
only money have power to hold the relationship because the girl also think that he have more options to choose
In >3 years of relationship (nearly married), I felt like shit, just like this for over a year, NOW I HAVE BROKEN UP! I kinda compromised on the basic rules of a healthy relationship, and because of that everything you have mentioned in this video, I have suffered. Compromising on sleep, health, friends, work, every fucking things were affected, and the funny part is unless you are OUT, you won't realise the severity of these things.
Was about to write the same 🫥
Did she let you sxx in this type of relationship? When you put that much effort???
bhai meri bandi bhi bar bar breakup ki dhamki deti h almost 10 baar usne giveup kra h mere upr relationship ke upr + femenist h vo alag se i still compromise adjust even after getting hurted so many times bs isi hope me ke ek din smjh jayegi smjh nhi aata kya kru should i leave her when she again try to giveup?
@@ashishpandey1288 Bro leave! Don't think that there is only this person I can spend my whole life with. Agar dhamki de rahi he .. please leave. There is no respect left, and you should not feel hurt continuously. If someone is hurt and the other person understands and make it right, stay with that person. And, please have some dignity and leave.
@@debadipti but bro I'm attached yr🥺 I don't want to cry and get depressed bhot kuch socha tha sath me uske sath future ka + her past memories will haunt me everyday it's not that easy. Pls help if you can by any suggestions to improve or to leave her
"Absolutely! Let's shift the focus to valuing genuine kindness and respect in relationships, rather than perpetuating negative stereotypes. Respect and empathy should be celebrated, not ridiculed. Let's promote healthy interactions and appreciation for each other's feelings."
Wah kya baat kahi h
bhai meri bandi bhi bar bar breakup ki dhamki deti h almost 10 baar usne giveup kra h mere upr relationship ke upr + femenist h vo alag se i still compromise adjust even after getting hurted so many times bs isi hope me ke ek din smjh jayegi smjh nhi aata kya kru should i leave her when she again try to giveup?
Feminist??? bhai abhii chorr usse, wo kahi bhi maar kha jayegi, kaha kaha bachayega usse. Chorr bhai, Koi mentally stable ladki ke saath reh aur khud pe toh focus karna hi hai. @@ashishpandey1288
@@ashishpandey1288 bhai mai ek larki hu apne perspective se bol rhi..agr usko nhi man h to chordo ....leaving mutually is best thing u can do..otherwise aage jakr sara blame aap par aayega ki maine to tmko bola tha chorne tmhi mere piche lge hue the ...aur tb tk bhut late hojayega u can't focus on yrself...achi relationship vhi hoti h jisme dono saath mein grow kre smjhe ekdusre ko aur compromise ek tarfa nhi hota..
@@Rashu661 Good advice thank you tanvi
I was once a guy like that but i broke through the chains of simping and now I'm much happier, i have more girls that i go out with and more friends because I don't waste time chasing around one girl.
Teach me brother
@@kunaljha64Bhai, it is not something to teach directly.
I think most of us pass through that phase.
I used to simp too when I got into relationship when I was 19. I didn’t wanted to lose her no matter what. Tolerated all the shit until she cheated and left.
We will go through bad phase and eventually move on.
Just do things every hour that you value the most. If you need to choose between valuable hour or someone who doesn’t care, you would choose valuable hour and good company.
True bro@@Iron_man220
@@Iron_man220 Did she let you having sxx??? In this type of relationship
Would she let you having sxx in this type of relationship??
Shwetabh always posts the right video at the right time. It's incredible how he gets it every single time!
exactly dude, because he works on problems which are very alarming and almost ppl have that problem + without any red pill shit.
Young people are lucky to have you.. I needed this in my time..
Yepp exactly..bhaiya ne bhut ache se gender neutral hokr smjhaya h ..💫
@@Rashu661bhen ki ghodi bdi aayi gender neutral waali.. Sb museebat ki jad tum laundiya log ho.. Mrro kahi jaake
PROTECT THIS MAN 🙏
Bro's gonna save us from simping behavior 🗿👍
Logical brain ki slavery kaise strong kare ?
(Context - attack mode)
Kyu bhai?
Kisika bhi slave mat bano.
@@Chaddest_Maximusexcept GOD
@@Ghost-pb4ts God ko mano but no slavery even if nark ki aag me barbeque hona pde
By exercising in problem solving , you can read book" the scout mindset" .
Man!!!! I needed this video, because I am in similar relationship. And not getting the attention I deserve. Still trying to fix the relationship hurting myself. It's time to take control of my life and get out this one sided relationship.
Have been in this situation! Totally relatable!! The best solution given to come out of this pattern and maintain strong boundaries! ✅
This video should trend on RUclips 🔥🔥🖤
Bro I can't believe I faced everything that you said in this video and I was so depressed and kind off lonely. I told her one time that she has to give efforts but it did not change and then i decided to break up and told her that if she changes(starts giving efforts) then only this can work otherwise I'll be gone. And then she started making efforts and now my condition is way better than before ;)
Did she let you having proper sxx in this type of relationship??
Much needed video... Thank you for showing the mirror for singles especially guys like me since 29 yrs who is without relationship. So Now.. The Essence of this video is to get out of the compulsion of getting into male-female relationship .
I wish I had discovered this channel in my teens...however, I'll make sure my children understand this by the time they hit adolescence...
No words you save life,💯💯💯
Pitch perfect, please bring more videos as this🙏🙏
Man, had this video come out before. A very close friend of mine was doing this. I had to indulge in a hour long yap session to convince him that the girl is simply using him and that he should step out and simply let her go.
Bhai pyar andha kr deta h logical brain dead ho jata h muskil se hi smjhega vo
Best Relationship Advisor Shwetabh Bhai❤
Don’t chase my boys, be a guy that attracts. (love can’t be chased, it comes on it’s own at the right time) .
13:20 you are the real hero❤❤🎉
Probably becouse love is sacrifice which is true but wrong perception of sacrifice gives birth to simping. Subconsciously some people purposely want to destroy themselves for the sake of love because this gives them sense of entitlement that they've completely given their ego for one person. Maybe by doing this they experience depth of something which very few can experience but nothing good will come out of this in material world
Simping comes from submissive ness.
Those guys who simp put their partner at a higher pedestal ( it's just like humans put gods ).
What do you think will happen if you snatch away someone's god or when you threaten someone's belief in a God ? That person will get scared and feel lost. Because he lost his purpose. He was following someone and was not thinking for himself and that made him feel safe ( thinking someone is there to lead him so he needs to relax ) . Thats how simp people are
They are just a masochist. That's it.
bhai meri bandi bhi bar bar breakup ki dhamki deti h almost 10 baar usne giveup kra h mere upr relationship ke upr + femenist h vo alag se i still compromise adjust even after getting hurted so many times bs isi hope me ke ek din smjh jayegi smjh nhi aata kya kru should i leave her when she again try to giveup?
@@ashishpandey1288 Have a serious conversation on whether she's serious about your relationship or it's just a fluke.
If you cannot do that, Leave her. Uske liye break up kuch bhi nahi hai. Take it she threatened you with "giving up" which literally means she thinks you are replaceable. If that were me, I would have cut off my connections at that very moment. Tali hamesha do hatho see bajti hai.
@@arpan9937 brother it's not that easy yr🥺 I'm attached and in love what should I do step by step pls help if you can I'll appreciate you from my heart
I heard this from somewhere. Why do we take abuse from our partners because our body is corrupt. As it tries to keep us enslaved in a sexual yet toxic relationship.
Yet our soul suffers because our soul is pure and it tries to revolt against the injustice against our partner.
Its been my experience. Totally relatable. Thank you for this. Luckily I'm out of it now.
I just love this man !
Thanks bud. Sometimes people need a reality check. They know this all within but need a friend to say this outlook to them. It na zyaada self doubt hoti hai toxic relationships mein k puchho mat.
I agree with Shwetabh. it was really hard for me to leave a long-term relationship but I'm so glad i did.
bro just gives so genuine advice
i think BOLLYWOOD and cinema has ruined the true essence of love. coz in our childhood, in movies we saw that the male or female just suffer nd suffocate herself/himself in love in order to get the other partner attention or to get acknowledge by other partner and in the ending they both comes as one for a happy ending. BUT IN REAL LIFE things are not like that coz in real life most of the times the other partner leaves the relationship leaveing the other half to just suffer in pain which truly opposite to a fake movie ending. we need to stop romanticizing the pain nd should more care about our mental peace.
Simping should be criminalized. All men who protect women should be sent to jail
ayo bro 💀
Thank you brother for saving us from this disaster 😄🙏🏻
Be alone and improve yourself for long term quality Life partner ❤
The boss is here 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Your videos really too much help in coming back on new arc of life very effective way ❣️some distraction comes making away to dream but these information too much help ❤
Aagae bhai 🔥🔥
Literally felt like it was for me. Thanks man 🙌🏻
Bro talked about my situation last year (complete) in the starting of the video to finally living peacefully 😃,it took one year.
When I was in that relationship, even after knowing all this which shwetabh told, i wasn't able to leave her. Ultimately she left me with very inhumane behaviour as if i was just her slave and nothing else. Now i want to train myself such that I breakup asap when i realise that this person is not my type.
you are the big brother every young boy needs
Loved every bit of it.
My advice stop being in this hookup or ONS cultures or whatever this bullcrap they have introduced. If you genuinely like someone go with it or just stay out of this relationship saga. What kind of drama is this where you keep dating other people's and then one day you were like you know what among all the choices you're the best so let's get married 😐
The only video I needed for clearing my doubts... Thank You so much Shwetabh Bhaiya.
Pichhle kuch saalon mein, meri zindagi bahut uljhanon se bhari rahi hai. 2020 ka lockdown aane ke baad, maine padhai karna bilkul chord diya. padhne ki jagah, shortcuts le liye, copy-paste karke exams mein pass ho jata tha Is bekaar adat ne mujhe padhai se door kar diya. Phir, itne saare porn dekhne se mera dimaag bhi distract ho gaya aur mujhe padhne ka mann hi nahi karta tha. fir 9th me maine ek ladki se pyaar kiya (uske sath khud imagine kar kar ke pagal hua hu ye sabh mene 4 saal keeya ) par usne mujhe reject kar diya (25june2023). Uske baad se toh har jagah sirf failure aur disappointment hi nazar aata hai. 10th mein compartment aa gayi (may2023). kisi ne suggest kara ki diploma karle uska entrance deeya vo hogaya tha par chodh kar aagaya kuch reason ki vajah se fir naye school mein bhi yahi kahani, yahi dard. Abhi tak kuch nahi padha , sab mein fail hoon. Ab final exams hai aur mujhe kuch samajh nahi aa raha.or mujhe dar hai fail na ho jau kyuki me kyu padhunga? pdha jo jata hai nhi mujh se... Zindagi ki yeh journey, ek sad reality ban gayi hai, jismein sirf disappointments aur failures hain.
One thing you can do is to:
1)sit and initiate the act of studying
You have that starting problem for sitting for long hours
Switch off your phone and sit with a book infront of you,I am sure you will start studying something and you can increase the number of hours later
World's greatest boxer Mohammed ali said *I h@ted every minute of my training but I did it*
Every one in this world have this problem of laziness but you should push yourself
Btw What's your age now?
Note:Read my answer again
@@Odd342 16
Tereko samjh aya matlab tune Tera mistake identify karliya , ab same galti maat karna kabhi bhi, aur mehnat kar. Baas make sure that you are improving on a daily basis.And kabhi hope
maat loose karna.
@@sabyasachichakraborty6637 ha kal raat yahi soucha mene ki mera downfall akhir shuru kaha se hua ab realisation hogaya ab me aapni preparation kar rha hu ye exams ki or fir 2025 me jee mains bhi nikal na hai
Bro himmat mat haro I'm in the same state like u padhna chalu kardo baaki cheezon pe dhyaan mat do phone se Durr raho
Love you man ❤ lots of love to you shwetabh bhai❤ these simps are the reason of womens thinking hurting a man or cheating with own partner is absolutely normal. .. Stop putting womens on a pedestal treat them how they treat you .. let them get the taste of their own medicine
Brother you are the person who brings dignity and self respect in men.
This man is diamond pure diamond of this world ,protect this man at all costs ❤❤❤❤❤❤
u explained this problem like 1000 times and still peoples did not get it.What are they DUMB ? Your explanation is soo easy to understand and still peoples do not get it ?
I’m a girl and I can relate to each n every point that Shwetabh bhai has mentioned.
I’m 16 and was in my first relationship at the age of 15 ( nibba nibbi shit I know) that was the worst decision of my life I swear. Ahh that shit still haunts me, even thinking about the incidents makes me anxious.
I was very much inspired by the bollywood presentation of what Love is! Now when I think about my perspectives I really feel embarrassed 🥲
I could see the red flags in the boy ( he had been a famous play boi..who used to have 6 gfs at the same time. I really don’t know how I thought that he would be loyal to me)
I was naive to comprehend anything critically as a result now I can’t trust anybody.
I used to be the topper, that all rounder kid who used to be the PERFECT in everything be it academics, fashion, dance, singing, video editing or creating. People used to wonder how I could manage to do so much :)
However, that event (heart break) made me much mature and I realised that being too ridden over emotions is extremely disastrous.
Also no one is permanent in life. People will come n go so don’t assume that they are going the be forever coz forever doesn’t exist.
Career banaao pehle chaahe bhai ho ya behen yeh hormones ka chakkar hai babu bhaiyya pyaar vyaar kuchh nahi hota hai :)
Apna dhyaan khud rakho, kisi par bhi dependent mat rehna dost otherwise last m bohot hurt hoga.
Ok nibbi,
Ur this comment made me more anxious
As i m 17.5 boy I want one girl throughout my whole life but want to be forming first relationship for both
Preparing for JEE so didn't engage in any thing till now although got 2 chance in itself but priorities were diff
Now I regret that will I be able to find such girl in 19 or 20s
Hope so I will
Did you already lost your virginity to that guy?? Would you let you husband know that??
@@user-vu5hj8np7o Bhai...discourage nahi karna chhahta...but ye perspective ki uski bhi 1st relationship ho aur teri bhi...(some people loosely define it as no seal no deal or 0 body count or whatever...you get the point)... ye aajke zamane mein milne ki possibility extremely low hai. And let's say even if you get one... it can also be because that person also had some really big behavioral issues or emotional instability and so she did not get along anyone...warna aajkal 6th-7th ke bachhe shuru hue pade hai...
Toh 1st 2nd ka nahi sirf quality ka filter rakho... kya person emotionally available hai, considerate hai, kahi narcissistic tendencies toh nahi....
Baaki maine bahut jagah haath jalaya hai red flags ignore karke...tab jaake ye strict criteria develop kia hai... to safeguard my mental health...😊
P.s. Jab bhi kisi relationship mein ghuse ...yeh mat sochna ki "she's the one" like immediately shaadi, bachon ke naam mat soch lena... pehle observe karna then gradually apna stake 10% se 20,30,50,80 aur phir 100% leke jaana 😅😂
@@Travel_Junkie007lol as expected reply
That’s why I mentioned (nibba nibbi shit) 😂
Alright! You can say I was a nibbi but I ain’t now, I’m a much mature and practical person.
I used to do this stuff when I was in my 1st sem and 2nd sem, then I decided to take revenge, I stopped talking with her, I got 3 backlogs in my 1st sem, from 3rd sem I came across shwetabhah's content, my life transformed to 360 degree, at the end of the 8th sem I was topper in my college. Thanks a lot shwetabh...
Going to Germany for my master's studies and got a fully funded scholarship from the German government.
Thanks a lot man.... ❤❤❤❤❤
Bro.. our youth is full of that kind of shit in their head. They need ajaye such kind of guidance. Great effort.. bro 👍👍
Feeling relaxed after watching it
Thank you brother for this video ❤️. I have moved on in life and exactly following this. And today I came across this video.
till the age you are building your career supressing your emotions is necessary.
I was just watching the song "Mai yaha hun yahan", and this thumbnail popped up 😂 lmao
ab "tu yaha hai yaha"
i am sorry for that, ik it's so bad😭😭
@@UtkarshMishra-kw4nz Yes it was bad, I didn't understand your joke 😭
@@UtkarshMishra-kw4nz It's bad, but you tried. 😆 😆
Cracking bad (jokes)@@UtkarshMishra-kw4nz
@@1_RITIK_1 movie bhi achi thi because of yash chopra
Bhai, I am lucky to have your video in time.
😅
Please continue on this type of topic please 🙏
wish i had this when i was in 9th class
You described my whole 11 years of relationship.. she left me .. going through same situation
U saved me bro❤
Please make a dedicated video on 'what if both the partners who are married and have extra marital affairs? In detail
I agree but yaha ladko k simping zyada hai kyuki apni country bahut conservative hai. Badi mushkil se koi ladki milti hai. Dating culture hai nahi. West k kisi college me jaoge to mushkil se 10 bande milenge ek class me jinki koi girlfriend na ho. Yaha to ulta hai.
We are shy and conservative but still 1.5 billion...
Ever heard about incel culture bro ? West mei bhi ye wali problem hai just search about it
@@shivamsingh-cl4zw problem hai par sirf kuch ladke milenge ek class me jinhe koi ghas nahi daal raha. Yaha to majority single rehte hain.
@@screensafari17yaaha par bahut ladke single hai.
Thanks for helping us ❤
Once married I was showing extra attention and care towards husband. Not sure if he was reciprocating. Though it seemed get care in the traditional way but I think he did... in some ways
Man !!!! U r amazinh❤❤❤
Shwethabh always give me what i need in anytime and idk how bhai ko pata chal jata hai what i need in life right now
Bro you opened my eyes. Jo aap dant fatkar k bolte ho aisa lagta hai literally real me humse face to face baat kar rahe ho.. Apki batein sunke dimag kaam karne lagta hai..
You are motivating many people.
Keep sharing such content.
God will always bless you 😇🙏🏻
bhai aisa content aur banaooo........bohot jaruri hai ajkal ke youth ke liye
5:50 💯
Thank you for making these videos and waking the youth from that fairy tale dream.
Sir please make video on career confusion or how to choose career?
Bhai mere boards chal rahe hai. Nuke mode has helped me in consistency with my studies. Thanks shwetabh Bhai🙏 i reccomend everyone to buy no promo
Mere sath same aisa ho rha bhai
Thankyou aapne aankhe khol di
Ab mujhe pta h kya karna h
Love you bhai ❤️
Ultimate Video Sir 🔥
🕉नमः शिवाय् 📿🔱🛐🙏💞
Most of youth is trapped in this type of things nowadays please make more videos like this
I love this man ❤ you helped me a lot
Real top g,
True brother.
Bhai itna relatable aj tak kuch nehi laga🙂🙂🙂🙂
Love you bro ❤❤❤
Welcome back ..we dont want red pill from you not antifem...we want just old shwetabh .. jenuiwin...reality ....bhai apki 27 min ki old video abhi bhi hila deti hai kasm se
@6:20😂😂❤
I'm a 20-year-old man who's short, balding ,kaalu and facially disgusting looking . Every woman I've tried to flirt with has rejected me with disgust on their face , and it's incredibly painful. I'm starved for physical touch and attention, and it feels like the only solution is to pay someone to spend time with me, even if it means they're just doing it for the money.
Watching videos about relationships and its problems feels sooo alien to me; instead, I prefer to focus on productivity and general life knowledge content.
I wish you healing, God bless you bhaiya❤️
If looks was the Only criteria half of the Indians would not Have get married and 140cr population. Instead of running behind a girl try to become good wholesome person. Learn skills earn good money. Work on your body, communication skills. Be a interesting person! Make new friends. Get yourself busy. You won't get feel bad if You've multiple things Going on.
@@yogeshparbat2293 Black community bhi itna insecure nhi hoti h jitna india k log hote h
That correct
Try building yourself and do not try to show off you will get someone who like you and have some self confidence that you deserve that person ...(coming from a person who have been called boring nerd and rude to somewhat good at relationships)
Aap ki videos ne mere bhot help ki hai corona time ka baad se mein kuch ni tha aaj bhot khuch ukhad reha hoon. thankyou shwetabh bhai ❤
Bhai Love Your Content🔥
Thanks for this my bro 🫡
Very relatable ❤
Very good approach Shwetab ji . I like the natural language you use. One small feedback is that you used the word "gobar' ( cow dung ) nearing end of the video. Next time please use a different word.
Reason is that there are news about India may export cow dung to gulf countries soon ( please don't ask me why ). If that really happens then gobar perception will change.
Whats the relation? Out of general curiosity
@@sigala2376 in video gobar wird is used in a negative sence to represent shit. Now when cow dung gets exported in future and revenue starts comming from it than people may not perceive gobar as negative. So better use another word like shit or gu to represent bad.
Exactly saying from what i m going through
Just one phrase- content level- god tier
🙏🙏🙏
Sir kabhi aapse kabhi milne ka mauka miley toh apke charansparsh karna chahunga ... aur ek hug bhi... aap aise hi logon ko jagruk karte rahe🙏🙏🙏🙏
Shewtavh bayi bring some kind of old content on self-improvement etc
Self improvement is masterbation
@@doperum8268??
Nice!! Looking good in white coat shwetabh !!
Bhai aapke baaton mai point to h 👍🏼
Swetabh ❌ Kratos ✅ !! 💖🔥
Love You Sir..!! Thanks For Always Standing For Uss..!! Maybe Your "Swetabh Gangwar" Gang Is Not With You ... But Your "Mensutra" Titans Who Are Watching Your From Last 6 Years Like Me , Iss..!! 💖
Love you shwetabh bhai❤❤
Very nice video ❤❤Your videos have been helping me a lot for years 😊😊
5 months and guess what after 4 years still stuck and thinking about why she did this why? slowly I realized that she never put any effort in the first place it's only me who romanticizes things so much... And yes Shwetabh is right these short-term relationships and endurance have a bad effect.. I totally destroyed my health because I ate too much, had no exercise, Had so much stress and lost hair, had No preparation for my career and now searching for a job.. She is happy she never thought about me in fact 2 years earlier I got to know it's never my fault it's just she got a new guy and because she wants to get rid of me she just uses and manipulates romantic moments to guilt like all that hugging kissing etc all became the reason like I just want her body I can't see her happy...etc etc.
What all that endurance gives me at the end it's not like anyone will see how much I try to make her stay or how much I love her or am loyal to her and In my current state how I'm capable of having someone else in my current state.. and How I can expect to someone to choose me...
My moods are not in my control nights became hellish because 70% of the time crying over it.. Know everything that it's not my fault but unable to handle myself.
Please if you want to leave just leave them don't make an unnecessary excuse that becomes a guilt for him/her.
And believe me, this guy is saying the truth no matter how much you put effort if it is not two-sided you will hurt, and if they leave you it will be so difficult for you.
Thankyou so much sir❤️❤️❤️
I saw Schindler in you Shwetabh bhai
Simping is more common among guys. Girls know already a lot about relationships and its dynamics.
Naa bhai
I have been a great simp (I’m a girl btw)
@@Mortalbeing22and I am starting to become a simp, lol. Also, I am a woman as well.
@@wtf_22 bollywood movies m aurat ko akdam sarif nazuk dikhya jata h specially in family drama
@@raja-jl9os arey bhaiya jitna iss Desh ke youth ka bedagark Bollywood ne kia hai utna to kisine nahi kia😌
@@Mortalbeing22uss