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  • Опубликовано: 9 фев 2025
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Комментарии • 795

  • @ShwetabhGangwar1
    @ShwetabhGangwar1  6 месяцев назад +57

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    • @sanjaykhandelwal6799
      @sanjaykhandelwal6799 5 месяцев назад +1

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    • @Srijan858
      @Srijan858 5 месяцев назад +1

      bro ur discord link is expire i want to join it

    • @amaansahil2331
      @amaansahil2331 5 месяцев назад

      @@Srijan858 Same Issue

    • @hypr3445
      @hypr3445 5 месяцев назад

      Attack mode for free 😠 I don't have money I'm student

    • @prasadshirke5019
      @prasadshirke5019 5 месяцев назад

      Not able to join

  • @yashmehta9238
    @yashmehta9238 5 месяцев назад +1254

    "If someone likes you, you will know. If they don't, you will be CONFUSED."
    - wise man

    • @babayaga12379
      @babayaga12379 5 месяцев назад +26

      Yeah man if they don't they give mixed signals

    • @dank_shiv
      @dank_shiv 5 месяцев назад +21

      You will lie to yourself nothing like confusion.

    • @Be_an_alpha61
      @Be_an_alpha61 5 месяцев назад +29

      If they don't, you will know but you try to convince yourself that it's not that

    • @babayaga12379
      @babayaga12379 5 месяцев назад +5

      ​@@Be_an_alpha61
      I can relate

    • @yashowardhan1706
      @yashowardhan1706 5 месяцев назад +7

      Well that's called manipulation

  • @krishna335
    @krishna335 6 месяцев назад +526

    Never wait on the sidelines for someone who can sideline you anytime.

    • @babayaga12379
      @babayaga12379 6 месяцев назад +2

      Preach! 🙌🏻

    • @GameOn0-d6d
      @GameOn0-d6d 5 месяцев назад +2

      What a line ?

    • @INDMukul
      @INDMukul 5 месяцев назад +7

      Specially when Benching is at peak in this Kaliyug💀

    • @GameOn0-d6d
      @GameOn0-d6d 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@INDMukul what is benching ?

    • @INDMukul
      @INDMukul 5 месяцев назад +10

      @@GameOn0-d6d Looks like you are very new in this field,
      Benching is "A girl will talk to multiple guys, and tell everyone that he is her friend"
      and maybe she will tell you that She don't talk to anyone or maybe She will tell you that all are just friends and I like you only(she will say this to a lot of people believe me😐)
      But at last she will always chose the guy will get success first and not on the basis of how much you love her.
      And this is also done by family of girls also. If you are under 18 then you will have to wait and watch carefully when this will happen around you in real life. What I am saying is a very very clear explanation.
      But in real life this things are very concealed and generally only the girl know about this.
      (and Boys also do this but in a different way,I have seen this, no hate to girls but just reality)

  • @Uprising_bikerking
    @Uprising_bikerking 6 месяцев назад +819

    pain of regret is more than the pain of discipline

    • @PsJk-zw4di
      @PsJk-zw4di 6 месяцев назад +8

      Bro reference?

    • @Uprising_bikerking
      @Uprising_bikerking 6 месяцев назад +17

      @@PsJk-zw4di just own random thoughts

    • @ankurkhare6185
      @ankurkhare6185 6 месяцев назад +2

      Discipline ka pain???

    • @BOLTxdddd
      @BOLTxdddd 6 месяцев назад +29

      ​@@ankurkhare6185 Roz same schedule follow krna jab man na ho tab bhi roz kaam karna that is the pain of discipline

    • @Uprising_bikerking
      @Uprising_bikerking 6 месяцев назад +7

      @@ankurkhare6185 bhai discipline m rho to smj aayega pain kaisa hota h 🙂,

  • @captainnickrowdy24
    @captainnickrowdy24 6 месяцев назад +315

    Best line agar rishta jodna hi hai to
    Insaan ki jagah
    Bhagwaan se rishta jod lo

    • @justabitangrythatsit
      @justabitangrythatsit 3 месяца назад +2

      agar tum religion ko smjh chuke ho to vishwas mushkil hota .
      Khaskar Hinduism to power pe based hai kuchh logo ki superiority k lie banaya gya system .

  • @AdityaKumar-k9j5z
    @AdityaKumar-k9j5z 5 месяцев назад +391

    My 3 years wasted , just waiting for a girl. All three years went on Depression . Now I m taking therapies, just start working for my self. Now next 2 years I will change my life and get that confidence back ! NEVER GIVE UP !

    • @Zikriyachking
      @Zikriyachking 5 месяцев назад +10

      Love for you king

    • @babayaga12379
      @babayaga12379 5 месяцев назад +7

      Keep hustling 🙌🏻

    • @neelanshmehta4005
      @neelanshmehta4005 5 месяцев назад +6

      Stop therapy go play sports.

    • @ssc_with_engineer
      @ssc_with_engineer 5 месяцев назад +2

      How you detached yourself from that girl?

    • @ashutoshramteke8353
      @ashutoshramteke8353 5 месяцев назад +11

      Bro I can feel your pain...I stopped talking a girl for 4 years..no msg no stalking nd all still my heart sometimes want her....🤐😬.
      Now i am out of depression..but you know how it it🙂

  • @sohinimukherjee4838
    @sohinimukherjee4838 5 месяцев назад +323

    I am saying,being a girl, that never ever be in a relationship where your partner is not ready for commitment because most of the time,he/she is looking for better options. Please have self respect 🙏

    • @Another_dot5
      @Another_dot5 5 месяцев назад +2

      Mam further ky steps lene chahiye??
      1. Block
      2. Ignore call/msg
      3. Pls bataye

    • @WaqarAhmad-oz7os
      @WaqarAhmad-oz7os 5 месяцев назад

      Block ​@@Another_dot5

    • @WaqarAhmad-oz7os
      @WaqarAhmad-oz7os 5 месяцев назад +27

      ​Bhag le bro block karke mil jayegi dusri......par jabtak stable na ho jaa life me dusra relation aur attachment me jana mat.............har insan jo teri life me aayega.......usse tu aesa chahiye jo uski jimmedari le paye...........aur tu bhi jab stable rahega tab hi kar payega sahi se pyar.............apne action se na ki sirf pyari baat karke........... personal experience bol raha hu bro......nikal jao thoda din ka takleef hai seh le.......... mummy papa ka sapna pura kar......tere pe invest kiya hai pala hai tujhe ab tujhe palna hai unhe.........teri life me dost bhi honge but unke pass bs tu hai chahe tere kitne bhai behan ho...........but unke liye tu waise hi hai jaise ki tu eklota hi hai......... isliye unke liye mehnat kar le jivan me kuch na bhi kar paya to km se km mummy papa ke samne aankh mila ke bol pao ki tum....... mummy papa maine apni puri mehnat ki.........bs yahi sunna hota hai maa baap ko......tera success rate ni dekhna hota andar ki baat bata raha hu bahar se jo bhi bole wo but andar yahi hota har maa baap ke

    • @Arpit_Sharma_-.-
      @Arpit_Sharma_-.- 5 месяцев назад +3

      Thanks a lot sister. Been in that situation 7 years ago........

    • @bubblysprinkles
      @bubblysprinkles 5 месяцев назад +7

      ​@@Another_dot5 focus on yourself!! Block if that helps..but most importantly block their thoughts from your mind!

  • @AVIJITMONDAL-sz9ke
    @AVIJITMONDAL-sz9ke 5 месяцев назад +66

    Thankyou Big Brother ♥

  • @swapniltripathi6206
    @swapniltripathi6206 6 месяцев назад +168

    Someone please remind me daily !! being a girl i appreciate shwetabh a lot🙌

  • @Mr_Marinaru
    @Mr_Marinaru 5 месяцев назад +274

    I blocked her 2 months ago. Maybe she wasnt toxic to me, maybe she did nothing wrong. But the fact was that I was hurting myself and my goals over the wait of her texts. Feeling anxious for days before she replied. It wasnt healthy. Knew I had to do it. So I did it. Trying my best to move on by accepting that it was a mistake, and that I have nothing but good wishes for her in her life. After all, I did like her and spend an year on her.
    That's just how I gotta move on. Thank you Shwetabh bhaiya, your videos and your book helped me in becoming a better human.

    • @yash2361
      @yash2361 5 месяцев назад +2

    • @Dk-kq1jr
      @Dk-kq1jr 5 месяцев назад +4

      ​@@Medhawin28me 5 sal se ek ldki se bat kr rha hu jb bhi me usko puchta hu tum like krti ho ya nhi tab vo muje clear answer nhi deti aur bolti he abhi me bank ni preparation kr rhi hu
      Me confused hu kya kru

    • @AKaman1807
      @AKaman1807 5 месяцев назад +2

      @@Dk-kq1jrbhai prep par focus Karo Mai bhi SSC ka aspirant hu, ye time boht imp. Hai Mai bhi face kar Chuka hu 8 mhine ho chuke hai move nhi ho para tha thik s uppr se Jo exams mere liye imp the vo bhi clear nhi hue the us wakt, job mil jaegi aur acche log milege baaki best of luck bro

    • @Dk-kq1jr
      @Dk-kq1jr 5 месяцев назад

      @@AKaman1807 tq bro

    • @harshkallepawarf8618
      @harshkallepawarf8618 5 месяцев назад +3

      Mee too bro glad you prioritize yourself 💫

  • @EshanAbbas
    @EshanAbbas 5 месяцев назад +124

    Found this channel a few weeks ago. I went through a breakup from a 5 year relationship a year and half ago, which started beautiful but started to become toxic at the end of it. The girl broke up with me knowing we could have dragged on the relationship for 10+ years.
    I refused to break down. I chose to keep working on myself. Work extra hard.
    Fast forward to now, I ended up authoring 2 research papers, one book chapter, found my best friend and calisthenics trainer, and more academic publications coming.
    I am now building my career as a researcher. An Independent researcher. ✌️

    • @shaunakkadam3877
      @shaunakkadam3877 5 месяцев назад +2

      Which researcher bro

    • @brokengenius315
      @brokengenius315 5 месяцев назад +1

      Bro do independent researchers even earn money in india ???

    • @EshanAbbas
      @EshanAbbas 5 месяцев назад +2

      @@shaunakkadam3877 let’s just say for the simplicity of it, Bioinformatician.

    • @EshanAbbas
      @EshanAbbas 5 месяцев назад

      @@brokengenius315 I have no idea where that goes. But I like the goal of being one. I have been trying to work towards this. When I properly become one, I will tell you the exact numbers.

    • @Sumitkmishra
      @Sumitkmishra 5 месяцев назад

      Bhut sahi kiya bhai. Been there done that. Bas ab therapy ki feees deni pad rahi bc. 😂

  • @babayaga12379
    @babayaga12379 6 месяцев назад +205

    Just want to say thank you for being a role model to me when I was at my absolute lowest. I graduated from college this year and was stuck in a one-sided love situation with this "friend" and she was well aware of it because I confessed
    She wasn't the prettiest (5/10) but I fell for her because of how "sweet of a person" she was, or at least that's what I thought.
    She used to give me crazy amount of mixed signals. At times she'd be super friendly and playful, and at times she'd act distant or ghost me over DMs. Behind the friendly persona was a toxic manipulator.
    She wasn't even a friend, she just used me to getting passing grades in her assignment because I was kind of a nerd
    I'm glad to completely eliminate those feelings I once had for her. She meant a lot to me but she broke my heart.
    You, sir have influenced me to an extent to come full circle. Thank you! ❤🙏🏻

    • @pag3160
      @pag3160 6 месяцев назад +2

      Koi Nahi Launde 👍 Experience se badha koi nahi

    • @babayaga12379
      @babayaga12379 6 месяцев назад +37

      To all the readers, big lesson, stay away from chicks who act all playful, sweet and warm but then randomly act distant. They seem like fairies but they leech out your sanity like vampires

    • @babayaga12379
      @babayaga12379 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@patilakshay14
      Good decision. Friendships are made out of conservations as opposed to asking people to be friends with you blatantly
      You saved yourself from mixed signals, congratulations 🙌🏻🫂

    • @siddhantsharma7557
      @siddhantsharma7557 5 месяцев назад

      She belongs to the streets.

    • @77pranjalsingh46
      @77pranjalsingh46 5 месяцев назад +16

      ​@@babayaga12379Noted first year is going to start in 20 days I will keep this in mind thanks bhaiya

  • @grafia2183
    @grafia2183 6 месяцев назад +81

    Much needed therapy...exactly at right time..thanks gangwar💝

  • @rgseven6557
    @rgseven6557 5 месяцев назад +39

    Haiz. I wish I had such advice when I was in my early 20s. I ruined my mental health running after the wrong girls. In the end, I either frequently got taken advantage of or ghosted by women. To all the young men out there, please take Shwetabh's advice seriously. Time is the most valuable currency. Once you lose it you cannot get it back.

  • @SYEDAMAN-yp5yt
    @SYEDAMAN-yp5yt 5 месяцев назад +32

    Exact time when i need this, and how this man know what accurate going on, each word is relatable.

  • @patelprem5213
    @patelprem5213 Месяц назад +8

    i am not financially stable enough to purchase attack mode , but whenever i am distracted from my work , i just see your video and then my fuel refils for the next few months , thankyou so much sir ❤❤❤❤😄😄

  • @Souravsh078
    @Souravsh078 4 месяца назад +21

    I am a shy person and I waste my time on a cheater girl and now i am in suffering awakd depression anxiety. I understand that no one love any one love only money. I promise that I grow myself and spent time to me

    • @babulsahu9041
      @babulsahu9041 Месяц назад

      Same Mera b situation he app k jaisa

    • @jamimazada7428
      @jamimazada7428 13 дней назад +1

      Start by learning proper English

  • @ShwetSangamYT
    @ShwetSangamYT 6 месяцев назад +80

    Thanks for the free therapy, been in a toxic one-sided oversea distance relationship, and needed this at the moment

    • @babayaga12379
      @babayaga12379 6 месяцев назад

      Likewise dude

    • @ShwetSangamYT
      @ShwetSangamYT 6 месяцев назад

      @@babayaga12379 💯

    • @Tuggspeedman0z
      @Tuggspeedman0z 5 месяцев назад +2

      As Someone who doesn't believe in LDR, what you are saying is true then get out of it immediately. One sided thing never works out. I learned the hard way.

    • @ShwetSangamYT
      @ShwetSangamYT 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@Tuggspeedman0z i wish i could explain the whole situation but i can't I've even wrote a whole book about this

    • @punitgoswami2017
      @punitgoswami2017 5 месяцев назад

      @@ShwetSangamYT would love to read that book buddy

  • @adhishsharma5015
    @adhishsharma5015 5 месяцев назад +18

    Finally I reached the cross-roads, A decision was made under same kinda situation and after trying every aspect in order to hold this no-value situation which was rather draining my energy in every aspect; I finally choose myself.
    Advice: Never be a pawn for such devilish people out there who takes your generosity for granted' Period.

  • @Arpit_Sharma_-.-
    @Arpit_Sharma_-.- 5 месяцев назад +58

    Daamnnnn !! It's been 7 years to this thing when the girl i loved also said that she loves me but she never committed , she never made things clear, she would always step back . But from my side, she always wanted a treatment of a girlfriend😑. She always blames for the things she has done wrongly and never takes the accountability of her own actions.
    And then she behaves as if she has done nothing wrong.😑😑

    • @DeepakKumar-ym1wr
      @DeepakKumar-ym1wr 5 месяцев назад +3

      7 years bro 😅, move on left her, block her immediately from alll platforms and join gym channelize your focus on work and your development, good luck. You really deserve this ask yourself

    • @sachu_seth
      @sachu_seth 5 месяцев назад +4

      7 years thats fucking traumatic move on bro just move on get busier do exercise it takes time to heal

    • @babayaga12379
      @babayaga12379 5 месяцев назад +4

      Sounds very toxic. How did you do in getting over her?

    • @adhishsharma5015
      @adhishsharma5015 5 месяцев назад +5

      Sharma ji from another sharmaji here, I have been in same situation..for past couple of months and now reaching crossroads and have now realised this kinda people are not worth it. Be a Man Bhai, rise above this manhole💪

    • @Arpit_Sharma_-.-
      @Arpit_Sharma_-.- 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@adhishsharma5015 bro, did you confront this to the girl you liked that she is not commiting or giving mixed signals ?

  • @akashdev2797
    @akashdev2797 5 месяцев назад +13

    This guy always comes whenever I need him the most. Thanks a lot shwetabh.

  • @khushi6690
    @khushi6690 5 месяцев назад +8

    Juss moved on from this toxicity nd started focusing on goals ,, new chapter of life juss bczz of you 🎉

  • @harshalsayare8495
    @harshalsayare8495 5 месяцев назад +16

    This guy solved 99 of my problems in just 13 mins.

  • @PihuSethia
    @PihuSethia 3 месяца назад +4

    I found this channel 3 days ago. It's a very good channel to overcome ur insecurity and overthinking. Thank u so much sir for making me feel so much better after discovering this channel. Best channel i subscribed this year.

  • @babayaga12379
    @babayaga12379 6 месяцев назад +18

    You have nothing to lose but your mind if you let her pester your mind
    Remember that she's not worth a penny, and watch how you naturally detach yourself from her

  • @pratikchowdhury3368
    @pratikchowdhury3368 5 месяцев назад +12

    Sir,I dont know how?? but u popped up in the youtube when I needed you badly. Thank you for your wonderful content sir

  • @iviidev
    @iviidev 6 месяцев назад +82

    Mr Mensutra, I have been your student since 2016 when i first saw your video. I am from Nigeria and I don't understand Hindi.

    • @Mr.manthan88
      @Mr.manthan88 5 месяцев назад

      Oh really 😮

    • @diptangshudey568
      @diptangshudey568 5 месяцев назад +4

      Try to download his videos and use AI to translate hindi to english this might help you

    • @coldbaby09
      @coldbaby09 4 месяца назад +1

      I'm watching him from 2018😅

    • @dhruvgupta1124
      @dhruvgupta1124 Месяц назад

      He at start use yo made videos in English then shifted to hindi...mensutra channel was damn

  • @mayankgupta9841
    @mayankgupta9841 5 месяцев назад +24

    God, Been In a mess of a obsessive toxic relationship for more than 10 months, This channel is what I "NEEDED". Can't Thank you enough Swetabh Bhai. Broke up Today.

    • @babayaga12379
      @babayaga12379 5 месяцев назад +1

      You got this, keep hustling

    • @sahilChauhan-y9b
      @sahilChauhan-y9b 18 дней назад +1

      Now feeling well brother?

    • @mayankgupta9841
      @mayankgupta9841 18 дней назад +2

      @@sahilChauhan-y9b much better bhai ❤

    • @sahilChauhan-y9b
      @sahilChauhan-y9b 18 дней назад +1

      @@mayankgupta9841 going through same situation like you bro, finding it tough

    • @sahilChauhan-y9b
      @sahilChauhan-y9b 17 дней назад

      @@mayankgupta9841 any word of advice brother going through similar situation as yours

  • @Banditxam5
    @Banditxam5 5 месяцев назад +34

    Bro mei iss condition mei tha 1 saal pehele.. she left me alone but after 6 months I was having best time of life

    • @Ayush-vm6zv
      @Ayush-vm6zv 5 месяцев назад

      Bhai kese kiya tumne pls btao kya kya krte the tum

    • @Ommdev09
      @Ommdev09 5 месяцев назад +3

      ​@@Ayush-vm6zvtry to stay busy and stay out mostly spend time with people around you

    • @mrkhiladi5369
      @mrkhiladi5369 5 месяцев назад

      Just join a BPO do job there you will be busy and happy​@@Ayush-vm6zv

    • @Banditxam5
      @Banditxam5 5 месяцев назад +4

      ​@@Ayush-vm6zv focused on my goals and most importantly accepted the fact the person who used to call me baby everyday and used to spend so much time with me doesn't want me anymore... That was really hard but... Really blissful as the same time....
      Mujhko woh pasand nahi karti .. ok that's her choice and she has power to make decisions over her life now it's my turn to make decisions... Usne abhi mujhe unblock bhi kar diya hai but mujhe msg karneka koi dil hi nahi karta... On real... Kya yaad ati hai? Ha but that's a part of yourself you are destroying so pain to hoga now to better things in my life....

    • @Ayush-vm6zv
      @Ayush-vm6zv 5 месяцев назад

      @@Banditxam5 thank you bhai, tumse kahi connect kr skta hu kya?

  • @Letsdoit119
    @Letsdoit119 5 месяцев назад +6

    I am watching you from 1 week, I'm changing, i think you are one of the most underrated youtuber.

  • @thekarnox2533
    @thekarnox2533 5 месяцев назад +16

    I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart. I was a little confused before, if I was doing the right thing by ignoring. I was a little worried about ending a so called friendship. But, this video just gave a wave of clarity and now I have no doubts. The things you said about hurting your self being in the delusion of a struggling story of yourself, I can just relate with every single word of you. Abb ye dost dosti ka natak mein bilkul participate nahin karna hai . Pehle bhi kaam kar raha tha abb toh aur bhi zyada kaam karunga. Thanks a lot sir for this video❤.

    • @digamber270
      @digamber270 3 месяца назад

      How is it going bro
      Me bhi same situation me hu 😅
      Kya lagta hai dosti khatam kar du

  • @bulupathak3805
    @bulupathak3805 5 месяцев назад +94

    And One day i woke up and became the most dangerous man, and i never looked back 🗿 ...mark it...

  • @mytechybrother5774
    @mytechybrother5774 5 месяцев назад +10

    Is insan M bahut knowlege h is topic k bare m , ek ek line m logic h . Hum sab sir ko is video m bataye point ko Apni apni jindgi m lane k liye promise kar rahe h

  • @AjitShekhawatTechTalk
    @AjitShekhawatTechTalk 5 месяцев назад +12

    Mansutra baba, sir mza aagya..., thank you for everything

  • @maxtern
    @maxtern 5 месяцев назад +4

    Very well said Shwetabh bhaiyya ❤

    • @yashashviraj2178
      @yashashviraj2178 5 месяцев назад +3

      How tf are people foreshadowing this comment ? 💀🥶🗣️

  • @Thinker965
    @Thinker965 Месяц назад +4

    I was literally struggling with breakup which was lasted 3 yrs . I can't able to move on every time i said myself that she will come but it didn't happened. Thanks swetabh bhai.

  • @SHOURYA2003
    @SHOURYA2003 5 месяцев назад +20

    Choose you , Your Career , Your Work, Your Needs , Demands , Your wants , Your Self Respect , Self - Esteem , Self - Efficacy , Self - Autonomy , Self - Dependence , Self - Reliance , Self - assurance , safety , Sanity ,Peace , Self - Love FIRST ! 🥇
    Any friend , best Friend , brother or sister , Girlfriend or Boyfriend, Romantic Partner , Business Partner , Life Partner , Husband or Wife , lover or the ones you love , Your Spouse , Your Kids , Anyone Will leave you when it suits them and their self . So always Put yourself as No.1 Priority ! .

    • @Jungle_boy123
      @Jungle_boy123 5 месяцев назад +2

      Lekin ye put yourself first bohot tough he hame adat hi he dusre ko pehle khush karne ki to kya kare ki hum put ourself first in everything me ho jaye??

    • @SHOURYA2003
      @SHOURYA2003 5 месяцев назад +2

      @@Jungle_boy123 do what makes you feel better in yourself , what makes you confident , what makes you respect yourself . For me , it is my career , I wanna be super Rich and affluent , highly educated , wise , creative , I also want to be an Entrepreneur, a philosopher as well , I also wanna be a philanthropist , I also learn about alot of things , about the world , economy , people , psychology , human behaviour , even more about myself. I wanna be Financial Independent , atleast I want $100 million us dollars, in my bank account .
      I also wanna help the poor and the needy , who actually need support ! Like the homeless , I wanna be super successful entrepreneur , like Steve Jobs and Ratan TATA sir , I wanna be super fit , I wanna be Emotionally Intelligent , I wanna raise my EQ along with my IQ , I also wanna help my friends if I will have them in future , or current ones will but not to gain something , not even happiness but genuinely because I can , without any expectation .
      I don't want to be needy , or dependent on someone neither financially , neither physically , neither mentally and especially never fckin ever Emotionallly.
      I never ever wanna be dependent on someone for my happiness , for my well being , because only I am responsible for my emotions not anyone else , only I am responsible for my happiness and my well being.
      So , I am going to put my time energy in doing what makes me respect and love my self more than , I respect others .

    • @SHOURYA2003
      @SHOURYA2003 5 месяцев назад +2

      @@Jungle_boy123 in Short the problem is that you don't like yourself , you don't respect yourself and you think others are better than you , and they need all your time and attention cause they deserve it but you don't. That's why you put others first ,but doing this sooner or later you will realise it , others won't be able to live upto your expectations and then you might be able to build some healthy boundaries but still you won't be satisfied , content , fullfilled and proud .
      For that you must start focusing on you , you have to start building a relationship with yourself , you must point on things which makes you takes yourself for granted , and then you must point out things which makes you highly madly respect and admire someone , and then start doing those things , start working on your “Self”. Don't look for approval and validation and acceptance of others look at your s' acceptance .

  • @Harshhhhh____523
    @Harshhhhh____523 5 месяцев назад +6

    for real my biggest prblm is that i dont know how to control my mind my emotions my anger.......like somone destroy my mental peace then i dont know how not to think about that and do my work

  • @StupidNapkin-f1e
    @StupidNapkin-f1e 6 месяцев назад +10

    Thank you sir it was much needed may God bless you 🙏

  • @joeljohnson6616
    @joeljohnson6616 5 месяцев назад +10

    I would like to express my gratitude to you sir, last year I had a breakup, I was in my lowest of my life time during those 4 months your video helped me a lot, a lot. At present I'm working hard, feelings I'm able to address my feelings. Thanks a lot

  • @pratikthoravade2283
    @pratikthoravade2283 5 месяцев назад +2

    Have learned these lessons in college, getting better each and every day Grateful to Narayan and Self improvement .

  • @bobbybhatt6730
    @bobbybhatt6730 5 месяцев назад +10

    Bhai mujhe ni pta ki tum comment dekhoge ki nhi
    But..ap social media ka behtareen example pesh karre ho logo ko educate krne ke liye aur apki conditioning se jo apne sikha hai usko openly share karna,sirf educate krne ke liye is hatss off...
    Great kaam h kyunki log motivate hore hain aur me bhi offcourse..good luck❤

  • @kreetikabhushan3549
    @kreetikabhushan3549 Месяц назад +2

    srsly this person knows what we need actually, recently i have been following u and u r helping me to get out of this all bullshit happening rn , thank you so much.

  • @ramjan6716
    @ramjan6716 5 месяцев назад +5

    I use to hate you for the way you talk ,, now I'm in these type of situation and watch your videos and realize why it is important to be rude sometime. Thanks Shwetabh

  • @priyanshupriyadarshan6332
    @priyanshupriyadarshan6332 6 месяцев назад +7

    Just came out of a relationship...we had to end it in good terms. But still focusing on my work..although it hurts because we loved each other. I understood one thing we should love ourselves more than anything or else just love god

  • @BeDifferentSaul
    @BeDifferentSaul 5 месяцев назад +2

    A wise man adapts to new circumstances with ease and grace. He understands that life is constantly changing and embraces each challenge as an opportunity for growth. With patience and insight, he navigates complexities and finds solutions where others see obstacles. His perspective roots in the belief that every experience, good or bad, contributes to his journey and shapes his understanding.

  • @ashwin070
    @ashwin070 5 месяцев назад +6

    Change the area change the people change yourself... Khud ke liye kuch to karna padega.. 👍

  • @DeepakKumar-ym1wr
    @DeepakKumar-ym1wr 5 месяцев назад +56

    She left me saying that she can't love me, she was just filling the void into her heart, she realised and blocked me and told me to move on, but before that 4 months she showed she was very interested into me liked me, :/

    • @Ronnie9A
      @Ronnie9A 5 месяцев назад +4

      haa bhai mere saath bhi aisa hi hua tha 1 month ke liye.

    • @DeepakKumar-ym1wr
      @DeepakKumar-ym1wr 5 месяцев назад

      @@Ronnie9A 🫂 ab kya haal hai bhai? But i feel like used i recovered her from her breakup then she left me ki yrr mai usi se pyaat karti hoon mera se nahi.

    • @Levy-p3y
      @Levy-p3y 5 месяцев назад +21

      She got Bored and left , simple.

    • @DeepakKumar-ym1wr
      @DeepakKumar-ym1wr 5 месяцев назад +3

      @@Levy-p3y hm bhai baat toh sahi hai, ab mai bored hoon aur 2 ladkiyon pagal hui padi hai, 😂

    • @Levy-p3y
      @Levy-p3y 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@DeepakKumar-ym1wr haha 😂 , kaam karo aur kya

  • @mohitkr2029
    @mohitkr2029 6 месяцев назад +22

    Dear shwetbah bhaiya,
    make a video about yourself and telling when and how u decided to settling abroad and marrying a videshi woman. also how living abroad did impact your life.

    • @anshulkumar8071
      @anshulkumar8071 5 месяцев назад +2

      Bhai ye kaha rehte hai?

    • @ravi.k.b2182
      @ravi.k.b2182 5 месяцев назад

      Europe I guess​@@anshulkumar8071

    • @Ambasinghh
      @Ambasinghh 5 месяцев назад +2

      @@anshulkumar8071 Austria or Germany

    • @Levy-p3y
      @Levy-p3y 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@anshulkumar8071europe

    • @debeshpramanik4239
      @debeshpramanik4239 5 месяцев назад +3

      Aare bhai ..kya baat kar rahe ho .! 😮
      Ye rehta hi nehi India me ?😧

  • @ballubumper7378
    @ballubumper7378 5 месяцев назад +8

    Studied for 6 hours today while standing

  • @ayonticabanerjee8326
    @ayonticabanerjee8326 4 месяца назад +1

    I was dependent emotionally on a person. My job was toxic. I had no friends. I lived far away from home. I had very strict parents so i could never enjoy life. After a while of taking antidepressants i decided to quit my toxic job, go to an environment where i can find peace. Now i no longer need to depend on him. I think our circumstances lead us to search love. People think it would solve anything. But at the end of the day. Im happy to have a fulfilling life with a career i love and people who love me

  • @RehanDalal-ti8rw
    @RehanDalal-ti8rw 5 месяцев назад +3

    Epic talk at 4.40 .. hats off bro thanks after my break up u r my inspiration and adviser bro .... thanks a lot

  • @BeDifferentSaul
    @BeDifferentSaul 5 месяцев назад

    That's so true. Clarity is usually a good indicator of someone's feelings. Ambiguity often means they're not as interested.

  • @avinashdaniel8309
    @avinashdaniel8309 6 месяцев назад +15

    Bhai aapne aaj meri aankhen khol di bhai dil kar rha h aapke charano me gir jaau😢😢 🙏🙏 I was stucked in the same bullshit now 😔 I'm completely got detached from that ....🙏🙏🙏🙏TQ bhaiya ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤........ infinity

  • @Dibyendu.M
    @Dibyendu.M 5 месяцев назад +2

    Dear Swetabh,
    I have learned so many things from your videos. Your videos address practical issues. Thanks a ton.

  • @priteshpatait6446
    @priteshpatait6446 5 месяцев назад +4

    One day I will be successful and never look back....👍🏻
    Mark my words....

  • @kyarearyan
    @kyarearyan 6 месяцев назад +15

    Move on lads. Focus on your goals and self.

  • @neel1458
    @neel1458 5 месяцев назад +3

    3 Saal se dekh rha hu bro apko, abhi bhi same energy hai👌🔥

  • @akash6732
    @akash6732 5 месяцев назад +5

    perfect timing fr

  • @Uprising_bikerking
    @Uprising_bikerking 6 месяцев назад +34

    Failure is better than regret

    • @Pawan_2812
      @Pawan_2812 5 месяцев назад +2

      Yes your right, regretting even after 6 years

    • @hemang_tandel
      @hemang_tandel 5 месяцев назад +1

      Nope i don't agree regret is far better than failure

  • @dekz0911
    @dekz0911 5 месяцев назад +2

    I think of you as a big brother and i am thankful for your advice. Sabse upar maa baap bhagwan aur fir mai bas.

  • @ojasmokal8137
    @ojasmokal8137 6 месяцев назад +6

    It’s going soo personal for me

  • @Akshat_Sinha_
    @Akshat_Sinha_ 5 месяцев назад +5

    I think its very important to remember ki agar kisi ko tum me genuine interest hai to wo 2-3 din me dikh jayega. You will know. I forget this often. And this experience you will not share with a lot of people or it'd inherently lose it's value.

  • @dharmender4885
    @dharmender4885 6 месяцев назад +7

    Shwetabh means big bro ❤

  • @tauqueer662
    @tauqueer662 2 месяца назад

    So blessed to have mentors like you,as a big brother

  • @BeDifferentSaul
    @BeDifferentSaul 5 месяцев назад

    Absolutely agree. It's always best to prioritize our own growth and make decisions that empower us.

  • @BeveledMesh
    @BeveledMesh 5 месяцев назад +2

    Happy Teacher's Day Shwetabh. Thanks a lot for everything.

  • @shadabpatel47
    @shadabpatel47 4 месяца назад +4

    Everyone have their own sad story and they want to share it with someone who doesn’t judge them and they can feel light! But kisi ko bata kr uss time acha lg skta hai pr jaise hee aap akele khali bethe rehte ho aapko sab yaad aata hai aur hurt hote hai, mera khud kal breakup hua hai 5 6 saal ka relation tha jisme usne mujhe kayi baar cheat kiya kayi baar hurt kiya but i was so attached to her that i keep accepting her, agar aap ka bhi esa kuch chal rha hai to bhai/behen itna hee kahunga ka ki past matters not in the sense ki wo insaan kabhi nahi badlega but aap wo chize khud se nahi bhula paoge aur aapko hamesha lagega ki he/she is still cheating on you! choti choti baaton se insecure hoge aur agr kabhi aap usse kahoge ki mujhe iss chiz se insecurity hoti hai to aapko hee blame krenge ki aap abhi bhi past ko lekr judge kr rhe ho yeh wo but in reality they won’t change anything they will keep doing what they are doing and you’ll be the only one to suffer. Kal usne accept kiya ki yes i have again cheated on you but me usse fir bhi mila iss liye nahi ki mujhe kuch sort krna tha but isliye ki ab me thak chuka tha baar baar itna ganda feel krke stress, anxiety, depression and all. Abhi aap lo lagta hoga ki agar yeh chali gyi ya chala gya to me kaise sab bhul kr aage badh paonga but abhi aap jo feel krte ho itna tensed rehte ho wo sab usko chhodne ke baad aapko realise hoga ki aap kaha fase hue the! move on hoga ni hoga sab kaise krunga yeh sab bilkul mat sochna sach yeh hai ki abhi jaise suffer kr rhe ho waisa aage jakr nahi kroge isliye take a step and let it go! You’ll be in peace.

  • @Mr.Kwatrochi
    @Mr.Kwatrochi 2 месяца назад +1

    The last part is gold🔥🔥

  • @Shankarkakamari0507
    @Shankarkakamari0507 5 месяцев назад

    Joined attack mode today & excited for the journey ahead.

  • @ayushusenpai
    @ayushusenpai 2 месяца назад

    as a teenager i am lucky that I found this channel!!!!!!!!

  • @laxmanram037
    @laxmanram037 5 месяцев назад +26

    Girls don't give commitment nowadays bcz they want to try more guys ,feel free and in hope of better options..💯i experienced it...

    • @laxmanram037
      @laxmanram037 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@swapniltripathi6206 I can understand your problem, I think I have seen more case like u ,so can we talk ... Just on this matter???

    • @swapniltripathi6206
      @swapniltripathi6206 5 месяцев назад

      @@laxmanram037 sure..

    • @dogeboi7279
      @dogeboi7279 5 месяцев назад +1

      True I agree

    • @Nfactor298k
      @Nfactor298k 4 месяца назад +1

      True

    • @jazzed5039
      @jazzed5039 4 месяца назад +1

      Ho sakta hai lekin being a female I am seeing the exact same thing with a man who wanted me to be his gf and do everything with him but without commitment, for two damn years I forgave all his misbehavior just in hope that "one day" but it never came. He always said things that made me realise that I stand no place and value in his life, when recently he said I make him uncomfortable when I talk to him on the phone around family cause they will get to know about me, those members who already know about me, he is ashamed of me to introduce me to them😂 but this shame vanishes when he has his needs. My anger burst out and talked to him in abusive language just how he used to do, but this time it was not like my time where I used to forgive him and gave him a chance but now that said to talked to him this way, he threw me out of his life. All through out this I haven't slept for 3 days whenever I try I get horrible nightmares, I haven't bathed, moved from my place, didn't eat just for his one word "that I forgive you" but no I never got to hear that. For 2 years I have gone through the worst situations because of him. It's not the first time but if I stay it surely won't be the last either. So let me reframe it, all the people in the world who truly invest, commit, and love their partner are the ones who always get back stabbing. Not sure what ur story is but these types of people don't have gender they are monsters disguised in the human face. I don't know why I'm narrating my thing here but to be honest I need someone to at least listen, I can't share it with anyone as I don't have anyone to share. If I tell him all this he will say it's all in my head he makes me feel like I'm mad or something and he is the actual victim in this relationship. I just wish one thing from Narayan that he would help me move on in life, I'm so vulnerable that even a breeze can make me fall apart in pieces.

  • @covidnineteen5249
    @covidnineteen5249 5 месяцев назад +8

    What will you understand ? True love happens only once. You may have had multiple past relationships. I like a girl who doesn't love me back. I am focusing on my goals. I will never marry or have relationship with any other girl

    • @alanasticgamer
      @alanasticgamer 5 месяцев назад +3

      love them who wants you i have been in your place in the end you need to love those who values you as a friend i am giving advice

    • @dogeboi7279
      @dogeboi7279 5 месяцев назад +1

      Same bro. I'd win

  • @scrapskii
    @scrapskii 5 месяцев назад +3

    I really needed this video, thanks so much!

  • @SakshiS7340
    @SakshiS7340 5 месяцев назад

    I was in this dynamic and I recently let go of them and now I feel so liberated.

  • @Tariqazization
    @Tariqazization 5 месяцев назад +12

    This is harsh realty! Am 32 age still i made this mistake.. what hurt is self respect sacrificed.
    Thankfully careerwise am good!!! Doing fine but thanks for this danda we deserve it.

    • @loves90s
      @loves90s 4 месяца назад

      Bro same happened to me also but I am unstable in career which hurts me lot

    • @SA-lz1vx
      @SA-lz1vx 4 месяца назад

      Same age, same mistake 😢

  • @Sarcasmka14
    @Sarcasmka14 6 месяцев назад +12

    Shwetabh bhai aapki vajse Main kafi toxic girl ke chakkar bahar aaya hu... varna mera career, Study, mental health sab kuch kharab ho jati bhai...aapki bahut sari video dekha kar poin to point samjha hu...

  • @jaswinderkalra2350
    @jaswinderkalra2350 4 месяца назад

    Much love, brother! The first video I watched of yours, MENSUTRA, was in English, and it immediately convinced me to follow you. I've been following you ever since, for the past 5-6 years (since 2017). It would be amazing if you could start making videos in English again!

  • @ayushiydvKG
    @ayushiydvKG 5 месяцев назад +5

    4:47 very true sir!!

  • @rishabhgaikwad3388
    @rishabhgaikwad3388 2 месяца назад

    Thankyou so much sir for this reality check 😊🙏🏻✨, going through a lot due to attachment but ab ni , Ab from right now i will focus on myself more 🙏🏻✨

  • @aamirraza8355
    @aamirraza8355 4 месяца назад

    Now i m feeling well by listening you bro......❤

  • @ranurai6452
    @ranurai6452 2 месяца назад

    saved my life !!!! i can't thankyou enough , you are a gem 🥺❤️🤧

  • @shubhamr9578
    @shubhamr9578 5 месяцев назад

    Love has a power to change. Just believe in it.

  • @babayaga12379
    @babayaga12379 5 месяцев назад +6

    Video idea: A video talking about mixed signals shown by women

  • @Battle.Spectator
    @Battle.Spectator 6 месяцев назад +4

    4 task done , 4am achieve karna hai till dec !

  • @daniel_park005
    @daniel_park005 13 дней назад

    thank u so much sir , u made me realise my worth

  • @alankarkadam58
    @alankarkadam58 5 месяцев назад

    The best of what I have heard so far..❤😮

  • @TK-wp3iw
    @TK-wp3iw 2 месяца назад +1

    Bhai Real. 🙏🏽

  • @anuragbhandari4250
    @anuragbhandari4250 Месяц назад

    Life saving Video...❤

  • @ShubhamRawal-cs3dm
    @ShubhamRawal-cs3dm 5 месяцев назад

    Shewtabh Bhai you are like a big brother to me. I have a lot of things to say . Currently, I am doing my Masters, and at this point, I have gained enough clarity to not get into a pointless relationship unless necessary. First, I want to become something.Then i will explore this side .Thankyou brother for teaching me alotttttt of things.

  • @Cosmicgifthub
    @Cosmicgifthub 23 дня назад +3

    Mark my words today is the day i block her and start no contact. If I fail I'll proudly state here.

  • @aavashkuikel1341
    @aavashkuikel1341 5 месяцев назад

    Just on time man. You're a legend

  • @Ronnie9A
    @Ronnie9A 5 месяцев назад +4

    Great Video.Thanks for the help.❤
    Already made similar videos in past.

  • @MrGauravdhyani
    @MrGauravdhyani 5 месяцев назад

    Best life advice ever

  • @santoshlashkar9105
    @santoshlashkar9105 5 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you Swetabh Bhai..🙏❤️🔥

  • @sonakaur4606
    @sonakaur4606 3 месяца назад

    Kitni need thi iski. Thank you so much sir❤

  • @VikramSingh_77
    @VikramSingh_77 5 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you bade bhai 🙏🙏🙏

  • @priyavratkumar7968
    @priyavratkumar7968 5 месяцев назад

    Your videos really make me feel confident and disciplined

  • @rabbyte4243
    @rabbyte4243 4 месяца назад +1

    I opened comments to read stories of people who went through thr same feeling or are still struggling. Instead I got to read normal/average people writing great quotes. 😀

  • @SKY-UKNOW
    @SKY-UKNOW 4 месяца назад +6

    You're the best youtuber who changed my entire life
    You're so underrated 💫