Rebuilding a Kick Ass Life!
Rebuilding a Kick Ass Life!
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Why I love living alone at almost 60! I have not dated in 10 years!
I have now been living on my own after my divorce for almost 10 years and have never been happier! I’m not saying it’s better or worse than being in a partnership, for me it’s been the most peaceful time of my life!
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Are you sweating the small stuff??
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Are you sweating the small stuff??
Happy New Year! Valuable lessons from 2024
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Happy New Year! Valuable lessons from 2024
When one door closes another one opens!
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When one door closes another one opens!
Catching up and The Golden Bachelorette recap.
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Catching up and The Golden Bachelorette recap.
Pain will come, it will find us!
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Pain will come, it will find us!
Building a community! We all want to feel like we belong!
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When I started this journey over eight years ago of rebuilding my kickass life, I wanted to help others feel like they were not alone. I am here to share my experience in hopes of inspiring you to try and rebuild yours too. We are all so much more alike than we are different! I want this to be a community for all of us to come together, support each other and build each other up ! xx
Starting over again at 58!
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Throughout my life, I found myself having to pivot many times! I never thought at 58 I would be here, starting over again! I have come to learn is that no one is coming to my rescue and if I want a better life, I have to be the one to create it! We need to push ourselves to do the crap that we don’t want to do in order to become the people that we are capable of becoming.
Money, money, money! Recovering financially after Divorce!
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Money, money, money! Recovering financially after Divorce!
Recapping The Golden Bachelorette! Second chance at Love.
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It’s never too late to start the journey of rebuilding a kick ass life. Love can come at any time in your life, don’t stop believing!
10 things I’ve changed in my 50s to look and feel better than when I was in my 20s!
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10 things I’ve changed in my 50s to look and feel better than when I was in my 20s!
When your Ex’s - ex contacts you!
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When your Ex’s - ex contacts you!
Starting a new job, need a new look, don’t have the money!!
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Starting a new job, need a new look, don’t have the money!!
How to save money by shopping your own closet. New job outfits!
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How to save money by shopping your own closet. New job outfits!
Starting over AGAIN at 58!!
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Starting over AGAIN at 58!!
What to do if you are not receiving your child/spousal support.
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What to do if you are not receiving your child/spousal support.
This too shall pass! How to cope when life gets tough.
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This too shall pass! How to cope when life gets tough.
Why Good women do leave…
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Why Good women do leave…
How to walk away with dignity. Just let them go!
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How to walk away with dignity. Just let them go!
I’m back! My trip to Borneo was life changing!!
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I’m back! My trip to Borneo was life changing!!
My YouTube Journey!
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My RUclips Journey!
Living life unapologetically single!
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Living life unapologetically single!
Don’t spend your money on dumb stuff!!!!
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Don’t spend your money on dumb stuff!!!!
Catching up and purging my closet!
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Catching up and purging my closet!
58 today, divorced, alone and reflecting on the next 20 years!!
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58 today, divorced, alone and reflecting on the next 20 years!!
Single at 58 and doing what makes me happy!
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Single at 58 and doing what makes me happy!
What the?? Crazy menopause symptoms!
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What the?? Crazy menopause symptoms!
Finding the joy again after divorce at 58.
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Finding the joy again after divorce at 58.
Your questions answered: What is hyper independence and why was my divorce so expensive?
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Your questions answered: What is hyper independence and why was my divorce so expensive?
My 80 year old mother ran herself over with her car!! Can’t make this sh*t up!
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My 80 year old mother ran herself over with her car!! Can’t make this sh*t up!

Комментарии

  • @Lysistrata2025
    @Lysistrata2025 3 часа назад

    Great topic and very relevant to women of all ages. You also look great! If you had said you were 50 I would have also believed it. Maybe there is really something to living alone that keeps us healthy.

  • @Kaylee-7kerr
    @Kaylee-7kerr 3 часа назад

    💜💜💜

  • @golfgirl4211
    @golfgirl4211 5 часов назад

    I’m married and cherish my solitude. I’ve always enjoyed being on my own and never feel lonely. That’s why I actually love it when my husband and son head out for the weekend! I’m almost 60, and I believe it’s a stage in life we’ve earned. We’ve spent years catering to others, and now it’s our time!

  • @aliciav63
    @aliciav63 6 часов назад

    Divorced 5 years ago after 30 years of marriage with 4 grown children also was rather afluent indeed here in Los Angeles once I was living on my own I started dating a man I fell madly in love It was 2018 we were in a relationship 3 years I was truly never more in love but he could not commit I ended the relationship in 2021 it destroyed me more than my divorce it took up until today to revover I am now 61 and will NEVER EVER EVER HAVE ANY MORE DATES NO MORE REÑATIONSHIPS NO NO NO I want to protect my soul my heart my being my life because I cannot ever let a man back in … Im very fine with this choice …. Im a RN my exhusband is a surgeon and I really was awarded a good settlement but I also get irrational fears of becoming destitude as well !! 😂 But never will need a man again y focus is my adult children my career my solitude my cats I have 8 and just doing things alone … at times its lonely but I am ok with that … I have 2 daughters 2 sons and they are all very busy but we are all in contact daily 🙏🏻🫶🏻🐈👼☀️👯‍♀️

  • @lindarobinson8381
    @lindarobinson8381 День назад

    Hello from Ireland i just found and subscribed to your channel. I am over 50 live alone and never married. No regrets there as divorce rates almost every where are up and many people are realtionships that are not happy or suited too. I have dated up to recently but apart from who hurt me by dumping me by text i would like to meet a suitable partner but i am happy and at peace living alone. I have 2 cats and love animals. I do get lonely but i would not be with a man for this reason and mostly i am content. I don;t have close friends or see any family much. I do get out and socialise with meetup groups mainly. I am well over menopause i started. I do value my peace and quiet and having just me and the cats. Its the little things i miss in a relationship but we have to well suited and some values and interests.

    • @Mamamoynes
      @Mamamoynes 13 часов назад

      Well hello!!! Wow from Ireland, welcome! I have 2 cats and 2 dogs and they make me very happy! I too am not willing to settle!! I’m open to a relationship but it needs to be the right one or I’m not interested. Thx for stopping by, chat soon❤️

  • @blueseptember2174
    @blueseptember2174 День назад

    Missed your videos but life is complex so we understand! ❤

    • @Mamamoynes
      @Mamamoynes День назад

      @@blueseptember2174 thank you ❤

  • @Mamamoynes
    @Mamamoynes День назад

    The foundation I was talking about and couldn’t remember the name is infallible by L’Oreal. And the colour I’m wearing in the glow lotion is number 902.

  • @leonorperez5439
    @leonorperez5439 День назад

    Hello Emily, great video, very inspiring as always 😊you're 💯 correct peace of mind is priceless!! Love the recommendation for the glowy skin. Which color do you use? we have similar skin tone... Enjoy your stay in NY hope you're daughter continues to do well❤🙏

    • @Mamamoynes
      @Mamamoynes День назад

      @@leonorperez5439 thank you❤️ I’m such a freaking amateur I should’ve said the colour of his wearing. Anyway it’s number 902 light glow.

  • @peacefulsleep7052
    @peacefulsleep7052 День назад

    The HRT will settle down and your breasts will reduce a little.

    • @Mamamoynes
      @Mamamoynes День назад

      @@peacefulsleep7052 oh thank God!!! 🙏

  • @leonorperez5439
    @leonorperez5439 6 дней назад

    Hello Emily, You are so correct about not sweating the small stuff. It makes sense yet we all tend to get wrapped up and forget. Sorry to hear about your dad , I hope you're mom stays strong it's not easy to lose your husband after so many years. My mom is 80 and my dad passed 2 years ago it hasn't been easy. I hope this new year brings some comfort and may your dreams of moving to Portugal become reality ❤

    • @Mamamoynes
      @Mamamoynes 6 дней назад

      @@leonorperez5439 thank you for your well wishes! I know I totally agree, we keep telling ourselves that but then we resort back to worrying and getting stressed out. (Portugal) is definitely still in my plans !!!!! I can’t imagine what it would be like to be married that long and then lose your partner. I don’t have that experience. I can’t stay married more than 10 minutes. 😂

    • @leonorperez5439
      @leonorperez5439 6 дней назад

      @Mamamoynes The married 10 mins part comment!! 😅😅. I know i have to make some decisions this year about selling our home and moving ( 2 hrs away ) still in Florida. It's hard cause we've been in this home for 27 years!! 😒 I know change is good, but it's gonna be tough. The guilt of leaving my 80 year old mom (although my siblings) live down the block from her, but the guilt ayi ayi... let's see

  • @peacefulsleep7052
    @peacefulsleep7052 6 дней назад

    Girl, move your whole family to Portugal. The health care is excellent, the lifestyle is wonderful, and your kids and parents will feel healthier. Blessings to you.

    • @Mamamoynes
      @Mamamoynes 6 дней назад

      @@peacefulsleep7052 yesssss that would be so amazing!!! I mean, my dad does want to be buried there! All my kids are adults, my middle child. He’s a pilot and he absolutely is obsessed with (Portugal). Travels there all the time. I still very much want to sell everything and just move there !! That is the plan ❤️❤️❤️

    • @yeahweburnstuff
      @yeahweburnstuff 4 дня назад

      @@Mamamoynes I just heard this mornning that the next P lan demic is going to effect lungs and kidneys... and I'm already seeing that around me. Probably by end March we'll hear all about it. Prepare now for your move; don't wait until the SHTF. 🙏🙏🙏

  • @druidvw3960
    @druidvw3960 8 дней назад

    Stunning and brave.

  • @LesleyDawnDiaries
    @LesleyDawnDiaries 11 дней назад

    I must admit, I really thought the sleeping bag story was going in another direction. I thought you were gonna say that he died that night because of the cold and that she’s tormented by her decision every day. I’m very glad that it didn’t go that way though. ❤️

    • @Mamamoynes
      @Mamamoynes 11 дней назад

      @@LesleyDawnDiaries ugh! Can you imagine?? That would be horrible.

  • @gurrrrlish
    @gurrrrlish 11 дней назад

    glad things are going well - - you are such an inspiration with your steady and calm ways.. Happy 2025 !!!

    • @Mamamoynes
      @Mamamoynes 11 дней назад

      @@gurrrrlish awww thank you ❤️ Wishing you the very best in 2025 as well! Thank you for your support!

  • @leonorperez5439
    @leonorperez5439 11 дней назад

    Happy New Year Emily!!🎉 Hope 2025 is a much better Year 🙏

    • @Mamamoynes
      @Mamamoynes 11 дней назад

      @@leonorperez5439 happy new year to you as well! Onward and upward bring on 2025❤️

  • @leonorperez5439
    @leonorperez5439 Месяц назад

    Hi Emily just checking up on you friend!!❤

  • @leonorperez5439
    @leonorperez5439 Месяц назад

    Hi Emily, I know you're MIA because of your staging jobs but please come back soon!! ❤🙌 miss your video's 😊

    • @Mamamoynes
      @Mamamoynes Месяц назад

      @@leonorperez5439 oh my God, you must have mental telepathy. I did a video today, but I haven’t posted it yet, and I don’t know that I’m going to… It was not due to aging, but as life would have it, a little shit thrown my way honestly I feel like the last year has been one big test!!!! And dealing with some family stuff… I will definitely post a video. I just don’t know if the one I did today is the one. I don’t want to betray anyone’s trust but at the same time I think it’s such an important conversation that needs to be had and they could help so many people.❤️

    • @leonorperez5439
      @leonorperez5439 Месяц назад

      @Mamamoynes OMG!! I can't believe it 💖you should post it if it's going to be beneficial. You know that we ( your subscribers) value and can definitely relate at least I'm speaking for myself. I know life is not always a bowl of cherries, but we gotta go with the punches. I hope all gets better, my friend 🙌🙏 just know you're not alone. Emily, we're all human. Sometimes crap 💩happens!! Consider posting it.

    • @leonorperez5439
      @leonorperez5439 Месяц назад

      @@Mamamoynes 💗

  • @juliewhiteside3641
    @juliewhiteside3641 2 месяца назад

    Love your videos. How does the staging work - do you have to purchase the items you use or are they on loan from shops etc? I am in the UK and am interested in getting into this world for myself. 😍

    • @Mamamoynes
      @Mamamoynes 2 месяца назад

      @@juliewhiteside3641 hi Julie. Thank you for your kind words. So for staging, you do not need to own the furniture. There are staging rental companies that you could rent the furniture from past the cost onto your client. However, in my particular case, I do own all of my staging items. It’s a lot more lucrative when you own your own items because then you can charge your rental fee to your clients. So generally , there are two fees, the staging fee, which is for labour and then the rental fee, which is for all of the inventory in their home. The rental fee is collected every 30 days. So you can go ahead and start staging without inventory, but the money really is in the rental fee. Hope that helps.❤️

  • @gurrrrlish
    @gurrrrlish 2 месяца назад

    Awesome ness !!! Thanks for the update... Use chatgpt

  • @txspacemom765
    @txspacemom765 2 месяца назад

    Your hair is not nasty! It's beautiful! <3

  • @HeatherPauline
    @HeatherPauline 2 месяца назад

    I don’t know ma’am….Im team gray hair and think you should let it gooo. And it’s the “in” thing to do currently, there’s 20 year old girls out here dying their hair gray and white so maybe try it! maybe you could have them get dye it all close to a similar white/grayish color so then the grow out period of your natural wouldn’t be so harsh and noticeable, I mean….if you hate it you could immediately dye it back to dark! ❤ Wow that is so amazing lining up those three properties. Wow, maybe everyone was on pause and now everything’s ramping up again lol real estate was not moving at all here for months and months and then this last 2 months it’s hot again. I mean maybe it’s just in preparation for piling up cash for something you will be doing next year ❤ super cool

    • @Mamamoynes
      @Mamamoynes 2 месяца назад

      @@HeatherPauline I thought about letting it go gray and then every time I think I’m gonna do it… I totally chicken out!!!!

  • @leonorperez5439
    @leonorperez5439 2 месяца назад

    Happy Saturday Emily! Thank you for the shout out 😊. This was such a great video, I'm so happy & excited for you!! You are blessed 🙌 my friend because you are a good person and the universe knows it!!❤ you had me laughing with the grey hair situation every 2 freaken weeks those grays start showing up😤. Thank you for all of your motivation. Have a great week🤗

    • @Mamamoynes
      @Mamamoynes 2 месяца назад

      @@leonorperez5439 thank you so much and you have an amazing weekend as well❤️

  • @beautyisageless1
    @beautyisageless1 2 месяца назад

    Congratulations! 🍾🎉🎊 would love to see some of the staging jobs.

    • @Mamamoynes
      @Mamamoynes 2 месяца назад

      @@beautyisageless1 oh don’t you worry I will be posting. I’ve actually hired a professional photographer for my job. I’m working on right now… Stay tuned❤️

  • @peacefulsleep7052
    @peacefulsleep7052 2 месяца назад

    Girl, next year staging may be dead... it's coming. Make up sales go up in a recession, especially mid to low price. Just keep it in your pocket. Congratulations!

    • @Mamamoynes
      @Mamamoynes 2 месяца назад

      I totally agree with you. I remember working at L’Oreal when we were in a recession and our sales went through the roof. My goal would be to be back working with cosmetic company, and doing staging as a side hustle.… That is of staging goes by the wayside

  • @DeniseMartin-f6m
    @DeniseMartin-f6m 2 месяца назад

    How awesome for you! One when door closes another shall open! EM’s Haus of Design 🤷‍♀️

    • @Mamamoynes
      @Mamamoynes 2 месяца назад

      I actually like how “Haus” thank you❤️❤️

    • @HeatherPauline
      @HeatherPauline 2 месяца назад

      @@Mamamoynesyes I love Haus instead of house! Could combine your ideas and do Elite Staging Haus that sounds sooooo good! Or could do Emily’s Staging Haus

  • @fabulisa5561
    @fabulisa5561 2 месяца назад

    How exciting for you, I love to see women succeed at something they are PASSIONATE about! BTW, love the hat, I too wear hats after going thru a Brain Surgery, and having the top of my head shaved, to remove a Brain Tumor, non malignant, Praise God! I also bought a nice wig, not cheap, like you can't tell it's a wig, and my hair is growing back, slowly, but at least it's growing. And talk about saving time, when you don't have to do your hair, saves a lot of time and money! I believe in Prayer, God has turned something so devastating into a Blessing🙏🩷 Will keep you and your staging business in my prayers.

    • @Mamamoynes
      @Mamamoynes 2 месяца назад

      I’m so sorry that you had to endure that. Sounds like you have an amazing attitude! life is too short to not be passionate about living it! Thank you for your kind words and prayers going your way as well ❤️

  • @leonorperez5439
    @leonorperez5439 2 месяца назад

    Beautiful ❤❤

  • @l.gibson6422
    @l.gibson6422 2 месяца назад

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @leonorperez5439
    @leonorperez5439 2 месяца назад

    Such great tips Emily, thank you for sharing 🤗

  • @leonorperez5439
    @leonorperez5439 3 месяца назад

    Great video, good luck with L'Oréal 🙏❤Happy Thanksgiving 😊

    • @Mamamoynes
      @Mamamoynes 3 месяца назад

      @@leonorperez5439 thank you!!!!!!🙏 ❤️

  • @peacefulsleep7052
    @peacefulsleep7052 3 месяца назад

    Girl, it's a no brainer. Dream job or social media (which can cancel you anytime)? Don't hesitate and jump! Good luck!

    • @Mamamoynes
      @Mamamoynes 3 месяца назад

      @@peacefulsleep7052 thank you!!!! I’m jumping!!!❤️

  • @DonFonzarelli-uq9yx
    @DonFonzarelli-uq9yx 3 месяца назад

    You sure got a purty mouth.

  • @gurrrrlish
    @gurrrrlish 3 месяца назад

    ...and - - happy thanksgiving ..

    • @Mamamoynes
      @Mamamoynes 3 месяца назад

      @@gurrrrlish thank you so much! And if you are Canadian, happy Thanksgiving to you as well❤️

  • @gurrrrlish
    @gurrrrlish 3 месяца назад

    scary - - thank goodness - - you are so lucky you got away from that insane relationship - without injury to your person... scary the Gaby story...

  • @carlasamuels479
    @carlasamuels479 3 месяца назад

    I feel what you say about them being tech savvy .....but their face to face social skills are terrible....the way they talk & interact with older generations is off puttiing, borderline disrespectful . . so i think us senior workers do bring a LOT of value ( im 56 & restarting my life after SAHM)

    • @Mamamoynes
      @Mamamoynes 3 месяца назад

      @@carlasamuels479 agreeeeed!!!❤️

  • @fabulisa5561
    @fabulisa5561 3 месяца назад

    Going with your Passion will always be the most rewarding. Sounds like L'Oréal needs to hire you. Keeping you in my prayers😊🩷

    • @Mamamoynes
      @Mamamoynes 3 месяца назад

      Yes they Dooooooo!!!!

  • @peacefulsleep7052
    @peacefulsleep7052 3 месяца назад

    Good Luck Emily! What's for you won't go by you. 💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐

    • @Mamamoynes
      @Mamamoynes 3 месяца назад

      @@peacefulsleep7052 I totally believe in this! Thank you!

  • @HeatherPauline
    @HeatherPauline 3 месяца назад

    Good job though on immediately taking action when you knew you were not loving this new job. I was so happy to see your thumbnail this morning, it’s been an extremely hard couple of weeks, and I’m tired too. It’s actually been a hard 15 YEARS….and the pain is so high right now but I know it must happen. 💔

    • @Mamamoynes
      @Mamamoynes 3 месяца назад

      @@HeatherPauline and always remember… This too shall pass. Nothing is forever. I know sometimes it doesn’t feel like that. I know sometimes it feels like we’re in the pain forever, we just can’t catch a break, that we’re the only one feeling this way, but you are not alone in your pain. I can promise you that and I am praying that soon you will come out on the other side.❤️

  • @AuraDawn_Health
    @AuraDawn_Health 3 месяца назад

    Funny.... As I started watching this, I thought "I wonder if she considered going back to L'Oreal." Good luck! 😊

  • @leonorperez5439
    @leonorperez5439 3 месяца назад

    Good morning Emily, such a good video! You touched on a very true subject we're all human, and at some point, we will encounter pain, but its how we go about it. You know you did the right thing by preparing your resume👏and applying for a job in what you love. Your forte is L'Oréal I'm so happy for you. Keep us posted ❤

    • @Mamamoynes
      @Mamamoynes 3 месяца назад

      @@leonorperez5439 thank you so much. I really can’t wait for the day that I can make a video saying I’ve come full circle… I started working for L’Oreal at the age of 21 and was so excited, and I would be just excited to go back at at my age now! And you’re absolutely right there was just no escaping pain at some point in our lives so we will feel it one way or another ❤️❤️

    • @leonorperez5439
      @leonorperez5439 3 месяца назад

      @@Mamamoynes And you will come full l circle! I have no doubt .You are a go-getter age is but a number I know I'm (58) also 😉 You can do this Emily. Have a great Sunday 💕

  • @jmrchell
    @jmrchell 3 месяца назад

    You're doing great too!!

  • @jmrchell
    @jmrchell 3 месяца назад

    😂😂😂 no she didn't

  • @jmrchell
    @jmrchell 3 месяца назад

    Hi! I am so glad I found your channel!! How I have missed you out of all of the videos I have watched I will never know, but today was the day that I found you. I turned 58 last week. I am in a marriage that I should never have been in this long. We have been married 35 years and he is a narcissistic bullying mean spirited alcoholic that I know will never change. What is wrong with me that I am still here is what I am trying to figure out. Money is an object so there is that; but where there is a will there is a way and I have got to find the will. I stay closed off most all the time that's how I survive. I want away from his constant torture and bitching ... I want peace and happiness, and feel like I deserve it!! 🤦🏼‍♀️

    • @Mamamoynes
      @Mamamoynes 3 месяца назад

      You DO deserve it!!! I’ve only been on RUclips for a few months. I’ve been on Instagram for a few years and just decided to create this RUclips channel because I felt like there was a lot of people on here searching for everything that I was searching for years ago and I finally decided to leave my marriage. I’m not gonna say it’s easy because it’s not. It’s hard really hard but it’s definitely worth it. Peace is priceless. !

  • @leonorperez5439
    @leonorperez5439 3 месяца назад

    Great video Emily, I definitely enjoy your videos. Nothing wrong with a little pen & paper old school will not go out of style 😉

    • @Mamamoynes
      @Mamamoynes 3 месяца назад

      Right!!! I’ll always use Pam and paper