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I have a rider. A room air conned to shivering cold, with a cold, strong breeze blowing into the lecturn from in front, towels stored in ice, ice cold water in abundance. With hyperhidrosis you can look a bit of a diva.

For anyone who clicked on this video, props to you for recognizing that you are a gaslighter. Everyone is to some extent and it's great that you are recognizing that and trying to improve upon yourselves. Many people don't even realize that they're a gaslighter and just recognizing in itself is a great accomplishment.

Much love❤.

Not worth the paycheck. I even know exactly when she fake cries….when she’s dead wrong. Took a long time to figure out!

Am I wrong that most gaslighting bosses are women?

I love this video! Thank you.

If you work with a bunch of uptight people who are going to judge you over an occasional cry, find another job. I have a boss who cries from time to time. They still get their work done. They have a very high stress position. Let's stop the harsh judgment, people.

Hi my name is Gordon I am a loving boyfriend to my girlfriend DeAnn. And she is an empath and she is in shutdown mode and I do not know what to do. Can I please have some advice as to how to comfort her. When she went on shut down this past weekend I took it wrong and thought she was blocking me out and blocking my love and affection out. I took it wrong and I feel bad because we bickered a little bit over it. I did not know about it until I just watched your video.

Hi my name is Gordon I am a loving boyfriend to my girlfriend DeAnn. And she is an empath and she is in shutdown mode and I do not know what to do. Can I please have some advice as to how to comfort her. When she went on shut down this past weekend I took it wrong and thought she was blocking me out and blocking my love and affection out. I took it wrong and I feel bad because we bickered a little bit over it. I did not know about it until I just watched your video.

This is a little bit strange. Because getting crazy and emotional might be also valid when also a little bit over the top. And yes people can and should also take responsibility for others emotional outbursts if they have something to do with it, e.g.. I think we should just not let us get to the point of crazy. This Sounds very narcissistic

Document it all

Blasphemy is my pet peeve

Badass!

If life was not so expensive and jobs not scarce.... Wish I can quit with immediate effect. Narcissistic bosses see me coming.... Whether I stay quiet or speak I'm disrespectful and always wrong.

Saddens me that this is a huge problem, left a job that I loved with total burn out due to working for narc boss, wouldn't want it for anyone, next job I will have tools to cope and value myself,,, best of luck to everyone with this experience

There is a reason why this video doesn’t have a lot of views. Those who gaslight probably aren’t asking themselves this question. They aren’t their problem, their partners are.

Take pictures and document everything

I have a narc boss, and our manager is a narc at work as well. I've been dealing with a narc Mom and have not seen her in person for six months approximately. The best option for dealing with a narc if at all possible is to not have to be in their presence. I'm looking at changing jobs and possibly moving. I really need a change. My mood has been really low.

You are hilarious. Nailing it. I'm planning my escape. May take a while.

I resigned from my narcissistic boss. He was impersonating an officer and I called him out on it in front of his peers. Pissed him off but it was so funny!

My supervisor was off for almost a month when I realized they were the one that had the problem with me. They had pulled me up on things I am sure I had either done or was otherwise engaged in other duties. The month they were off I had a perfect time, everyone was giving me compliments but I knew this supervisor was coming back. I made a few calls and landed another job with references already through. Last night this supervisor came back to work and started accusing me of not listening to a brief that I was not involved in and speaking to me like garbage (obviously not knowing yet I was leaving), I told them in front of everyone "if you speak to me like that again, I'll be going back home". They tried to call me into the office where there would be no witnesses, I just said " No thankyou".

You have to caught it. Its really hard , but when you notice what your doing is more easy , not to . Im glad you said that , about saying sorry , because i was thinking that being more alpha, might work. I had to learn to accept myself as a beta to me ,.thats a awesome, sweet guy. .

The biggest corporate gaslighting job of all is convincing humanity that it NEEDS corporate culture.

This poor attempt at psycho manipulating viewers. Get a job, 🤡.

Thanks so much. That technique of sorting criticism later really helps get over the ridiculous criticism I have gotten that I was just stuck on. I guess a part of me didn't agree but just hearing my inner voice say that allowed me to let it go

Omg your fantastic! Subscribed!

gaslighters have their own prevalent insecurities and this is why they manipulate, to try to stay on top of a ridiculous game they play. It's about breaking down your confidence... which they will if you let them. I was under pressure to finish an online test.... which I failed by one question. Passing it required maximum 1 wrong answer. I got 2 wrong. Except the documentation and course curriculum was never available to me in the first place. When I found this out, I wrote an email to my bosse's supervisor with a smiley face saying I failed by a single question WITHOUT access to the pertaining curriculum, imagine what I can do once I'm given access to it! This other supervisor gave me access to it and apologized for the mistake. My boss talked to me alone and asked why I didn't mention it. I said that I did mention it before. The conversation ended there. Now she's giving time off to another employee for Xmas time without asking me if I had plans for Xmas as well. We were both hired on the same day so we should have a discussion about it before making decisions. I'm looking for another job. I'm setting boundaries but her game is annoying me. It's difficult to concentrate on my work if I'm constantly trying to figure out what she's up to. Gaslighters are simply showing the level of insecurity they have the more they try to condescend and diminish your confidence. Don't fall into it, trust your perception of the game. Make your own moves to cover your track. Written information is harder to deny especially if it can be sent simultaneously or later to show the lie. One on one can be recorded easily if online. It's much harder if it's in person. Develop a strategy if you can so you're not cornered. Currently, a majority of my team are going to a conference in the middle east... where there's currently a war spreading from Iran and Israel to other surrounding countries. There is an official government warning about travel there. I have refused to go. Top management says they can't force me. They're claiming that they trust that the company wouldn't send them if it was dangerous. I happen to know that this company buys life insurance on their travelling employees so they can prepare to have the budget to replace a missing employee should they get into an accident. My manager will try to use my refusal against me later on. While they'll be there, I'll be here finding an exit. 😉 be vigilant, take care of yourself.

dont argue with a batshit crazy person. that person think everybody besides her are the crazy one and only one person in the world that is the sane one and that is the batshit crazy person.

The only thing I said was.I'm going home and left.

You don't , coz i did and both HR and boss retaliated against me , just try to leave in silence

When I get anxious, I tend to micromanage and become manipulative. I needed this

Thank you for the information.

Thank you gor not judging. I see comments of other people who thi nk we are monster we are the worst people. I dont think so we are the worst i think everything can become addictive like drugs. If you dont work and try to be better it with be really hard to change but nothing is impossible

I was a kid that i have been emotional abused sometime physical abused i was bullied and never knew what other world is what friends are. I was completely in survival mode all the time. I know it sounds like you are making excuses but really no one learned me what arenthose things manipulation or other stuffs that people meed to know and need to stop doing because are bad. I just have done things like i thought without knowing i am wrong. I think i have manipulatet people sometime but never with bad attention. I was ignorant cause my mind was always you have to take care of your brother (i was 7 years old) of your mom of animals you have to go to the school and then i got beaten and i got bullied and then i came home and hearing all the time my stepfather saying me you are a bastard you dont need school. I always try to be the best person and i am kind but i think i have done some things that was not soo good. Wirh the years i have become angry and furious and screaming and throwing things and insulting people who hurt me not those who dont hurt me. I want to be better but i cannot handel anymore all these pain that life give me.

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The gaslighter @ the 5:36 mark is lying, they never change...for long. ruclips.net/video/uahK6dxBB58/видео.htmlsi=D0P8n34nxQjw6HiL&t=335

thông minh nhất chúng ta có thể làm là cầu nguyện cho ông bà chủ đó. có lẽ có những con quỷ đang lập trình chúng theo cách đó. vậy hãy cầu nguyện rằng Chúa sẽ xua đuổi cái ác. nếu Chúa muốn bạn tìm được cánh cửa tốt hơn, sau đó cầu nguyện rằng công việc đó sẽ được bảo vệ và bình an để làm việc lớn cho công ty

I reject the false narrative. ❤ I know the (unspoken) roots of the problem is supply & demand. I will not allow anyone to brainwash me. I will not fancy toxic behavior. I will take this time to allow myself to mentally detoxify. I will mentally notate for each and every time: it is a toxic maneuver. I remain strong. I remain grounded. I am rooted. And I am strong.

My brother was the recipient of some criticism im sure if fair or not, i know lots of times... it is unfair, its just wrong person wrong vocation. I know theyre brilliant, but it hurt me, when they said these things

Elvis Ridges

Good advice

Oh my gosh I didnt know diff between crazy making and gas lighting and now I know I may be guilty of crazy making to vent when im isolated with my narc. I will be working on eliminating this trait / habit including finding a therapist here .. i do not want to continue doing this to anyone esp those I care about I just realise the same as people I know don’t actually talk about their problems to others. I thought maybe they were just more tight but I think maybe they’re normal. Just not normal. I was brought up at a house where everyone was just an open book. there were no boundaries. So. Sounds like I need to learn this boundary.

I took qa long break to raise my kids and serve the community and I worked as a para educator through those years. I rejoined corporate life about 5 years ago to save for retirement. I have had one wonderful manager, one narcissist, and two who were last cheats who took credit for all my best contributions and put me down behind my back to keep me stuck with them. Now I have a boss noticeably on the spectrum. It has me really considering that perhaps all of them, in their way, were just working with what they have. With my current boss, I am learning to accept that he only speaks to me to criticize. If his idea is different, mine is wrong. He comes off confrontational, rude, and arrogant but I don’t think he knows. This has been refreshing in a way, because it is so not personal. I’m trying to get through it with patience and just doing everything his way. It is not fulfilling, but I hope to tolerate it with humility and hard work for 5 more months and then give notice.

Thank you for making videos, that allow us to not just push the blame but become better humans.

I wish Arizona people need to stop. I wish perpetrators need to stop otherwise Arizona people is responsible of their hands.

Hi I’m from the uk. Thank you for your videos. I really don’t find it difficult to apologise when it’s needed n i find it hard that other people struggle with this as it just seems so easy to apologise and own up.

Living this nightmare with two narcissistic bosses, and one of them is also an ultra micromanager as well...

So a logic chain of thoughts is manipulation? Am sorry is just I have that problem too. Many people call me manipulator and I don't understand why

Thanks 🙏🏾

Simplie solution. Quit. Or quietly find another job. Keep in mind. Never post on Linkedin where your going. My ex Narc Boss followed me and ruined one job for me. So Keep that private.