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Brilliant

Learning so much from this man He's dropping gold nuggets left and right

Where is this from? Please thank you

Americans and their higher power nosnense :p good lecture besides that!

This man is a saint. He is so well spoken and articulate with his thoughts. Such a blessing to have access to this wonderful person and the work he has done.

I adore his power and wisdom

Thanks so much for posting this video! 💐 I'd read 'Homecoming' years ago but either lost the book or loaned it to someone ... It's great to re-discover John Bradshaw now that I'm working through my shame issues in counselling. 🙏💕

Thanks for sharing 🙏 10:00 3:40 5:15

13:26 - "Abuse is the training for addiction."

This is very important work done by John. I wish I had this when I was 18 instead of now at 38.

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Holy crap. The "compulsive compliance"! I remember watching "Ella Enchanted" years ago, and crying desperately when she told her best friend she didn't want to be her friend anymore, and then bawled when she dropped the knife in the room of mirrors. I watched it again a few years ago, and realized, "My God. My life was like that." Of course, not living in some enchanted kingdom with a 'wicked stepmother' but feeling as though suggestions were commands, and just doing what others wanted, due to an overwhelming sense of duty / obligation to others, while ignoring my own needs, that I didn't even know I had. My 'needs' were to make sure everyone else was okay. This video looks like it's from the 1980s/90s...I didn't come to my own realizations about my upbringing until 2010 and later....and the fact that I'm still here, watching these, learning, tells me I still have some healing to do after 13+ years. God bless all those coming to an awakening, learning, hurting, crying, raging, and healing, and all those who help, like Mr. Bradshaw. You / we bring light into the darkness, but the darkness cannot comprehend it.

Thnx for uploading this. Great video!

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"The scapegoat being the most sensitive person in the family", that really resonated with me. Acting out the anger and the shame is something I've always done and everything is coming together it feels. Deep gratitude for this series and the uploading! ❤

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So much is becoming clear through watching and listening to this man talk. Thank you for uploading!

What a great talk. All the boxes checked with the suspicion card... my vulnerability for suggestion has been abused so much in my life and just recently I began to see the trance I've been living in. I'm very grateful for this video and thnx for uploading ❤️

I've done my innerwork with regression, rebirthing etc. and through another video I stumbled on these sessions from John Bradshaw. What a fantastic healing energy is in these. Thank you for uploading! ❤

I love you Mr. John Bradshaw. You saved my life

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Thank you John Bradshaw ❣️🌟

Fred Swartz music of the Mother's heartbeats in the womb! "Welcome to the World!" "I'm so glad You are here!" "I've been waiting for You!" "I will not leave you no matter what!" "I am prepared to take care of You!" "I love You just the way You are!" "You have all the time you need to take care of Yourself!" "I am so glad You are a girl!" "I am so glad You are a boy!" "Miss takes are stepping stones to Greatness while You serve humanity!"

Admitting My need to know that I am Blessed as I say I am.

This is most valuable lecture on childhood trauma and toxic adulthood. Thank you.

5:00 I commonly call this Kids in Adult Clothing acting out a broken childhood.

16:00 It's sad how those with a shame based childhood. Doesn't want to be different.

In my studying Human for 40 years. I consistently see most people go thru life distracted. With trying to get their emotional needs met everyday hour, minute and sec...

5:00 I have called it. Kids in adult clothing acting out a broken childhood.

Guys I want you all to know that , if you choose , you can transform yourself back to Fully Fulfilled , and Fully Powerful , as if you have been reborn. All it takes is the willingness to face your unsolved issues which will hurt but on the other side is your higher consciousness which will make you feel amazing

Thank you for uploading these videos! They are life-changing ❤

Thank you so much for uploading this series. It has been a tremendous help.

I watched this video. It’s just ok.

school systems in the US are completely dysfunctional and lend no love or compassion to children (at any stage). Corruption and abuse are where we place our precious children.

I absolutely love the song 🎵 and those beautiful faces

Once I was so happy to report to my grandma that I made a 96. She hit me with, "you could have made a 100." I graduated high school early, on purpose, with lots of hard work & no one came. No gifts, cards or balloons like everyone else.. went to Burger King with "friends" from another school afterwards. So happy to be healing. Was 25 & was asked why did I want to move.

Addicts don't know how to say no... intense

Boy have I bought a lot of books

What I have observed is that EVEN when you are fully healed from the parental oppression and abuse in toddlerhood , OR you were never oppressed or abused in toddlerhood, there are SO MANY codependent and controlling and manipulative and angry dysfunctional people in society that TREAT YOU as though you SHOULD BEHAVE JUST LIKE THEM and act in dysfunctional ways, or they won't see you as normal , normal like them. What a sickness , a "psychological virus", SO MANY people have and try to pass on as "the norm".

This is so painstakingly wonderful 💖 🥲

One way I can tell how someone has a shame based childhood is. When they call someone "nice" when they are getting respect.

JB isn't telling you the Teachers have a Shame based childhood too. They have been known to Shame students for not measuring up to the level of the other's. I have been following JB for about 40 years. I see Shame based childhood in people everyday. My favorite phrase for some adults are "Kids in Adult Clothing" acting out a broken childhood!

NEVER seek validation from others to find inner peace.

Those whom don't respect themselves generally don't respect others.

Thank you for posting. "Welcome to the world. I'm so glad you're here. I've been waiting for you. I've prepared a very special place for you. I'm so glad you were born. I will not leave you no matter what. Your needs are ok with me. I am prepared to take care of you. I'm glad you're a girl/boy. I love you just the way you are. You will have all the time you need to get your needs met. You can rely on me. I am here to guide and support you in the best way I can" I added a couple. Those affirmations need to be placed all over ever labour ward and home to remember the responsibility of parenthood

I love all this he was the man. I have studied and supported him for over twenty years…. Sharing with my immediate siblings after blow outs. SIP John……

Never have I come across anyone who has stated what I learnt quickly. Infant school was beautiful..creative with lots of loving playmates. As soon as I got to Junior School I became quickly aware of Class distinction, Racism ( I was mistakenly regarded as being Oriental) bullied unmercilessly, not just from children ... teachers could also be tyrants. How can any child concentrate on schoolwork when you'd dread going "Home" and finding your Mother dead.

Genius! John Bradshaw saved my life <3

Mom told me I was fat, ugly and clumsy and walked liked an elephant and I was not lovable because my body was not beautiful.

Wow where can you do things like this today? This looks amazing