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Tony the Antonio
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Embark on a transformative journey with me as we explore the depths of personal development, self-improvement, and mental health. As an Army Veteran and a Software Engineer, I've navigated the challenges of overcoming adversity and career changes, and I'm here to share the life lessons and inspiration that have fueled my persistence.
Whether you're seeking motivation to pursue your dreams, strategies to enhance your financial well-being, or insights from a military experience, this channel is your go-to resource for uplifting content and practical advice. Together, we'll delve into stories of resilience, actionable tips for personal growth, and meaningful discussions on building a fulfilling life journey.
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Whether you're seeking motivation to pursue your dreams, strategies to enhance your financial well-being, or insights from a military experience, this channel is your go-to resource for uplifting content and practical advice. Together, we'll delve into stories of resilience, actionable tips for personal growth, and meaningful discussions on building a fulfilling life journey.
Please checkout my podcasts www.youtube.com/@TonyTheAntonioPodcasts
► MY KINDLE BOOKS
● Modern Java for Beginners - amzn.to/4e1ZnPi
● Children's Books - amzn.to/3C0wki5
Amazon’s Return-to-Office Mandate: Why Employees Are Fighting Back
Amazon’s Return to Office mandate has sparked backlash - here’s why it could cost billions, hurt morale, and push employees to the brink.
► Sources
• PwC’s U.S. Remote Work Survey (2021)
www.pwc.com/us/en/library/covid-19/us-remote-work-survey.html
• The Pulse of the American Worker Survey: Post-Pandemic Work & Life
news.prudential.com/presskits/pulse-american-worker.htm
• Future Forum Pulse Research
futureforum.com/pulse/
• Harvard Business Review articles on remote work:
Remote Work Has Been an Unexpected Success. So What Comes Next?
hbr.org/2021/11/remote-work-has-been-an-unexpected-success-so-what-comes-next
Don’t Let Hybrid Work Set Back Your DEI Efforts
hbr.org/2021/02/dont-let-hybrid-...
► Sources
• PwC’s U.S. Remote Work Survey (2021)
www.pwc.com/us/en/library/covid-19/us-remote-work-survey.html
• The Pulse of the American Worker Survey: Post-Pandemic Work & Life
news.prudential.com/presskits/pulse-american-worker.htm
• Future Forum Pulse Research
futureforum.com/pulse/
• Harvard Business Review articles on remote work:
Remote Work Has Been an Unexpected Success. So What Comes Next?
hbr.org/2021/11/remote-work-has-been-an-unexpected-success-so-what-comes-next
Don’t Let Hybrid Work Set Back Your DEI Efforts
hbr.org/2021/02/dont-let-hybrid-...
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Let's End Ageism - Here Are the Signs
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Discover the 10 subtle ways ageism shows up in job interviews, and learn how to spot these red flags before they steal your chance at the job. ► Chapters 00:01 - Intro 00:24 - Age-Coded Role Titles 01:22 - Absence of Anti-Discrimination Language 02:27 - Biased Work Sample Tests 03:52 - Bias in Cultural Fit Policies 04:44 - Questions About Long-Term Career Goals 05:38 - Requesting Graduation Dat...
Are You Getting Quiet Fired? Here Are the Signs
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Discover the 5 subtle signs your company might be quietly pushing you out, and learn how to spot and handle quiet firing before it's too late. ► CHAPTERS 00:01 - Intro 00:45 - The Disappearing Promotion 01:55 - The Sudden Workload Avalanche 02:53 - The Denied Furlough (Seed Story) 03:41 - Forced into a Role You Didn’t Want 04:34 - Radio Silence on Feedback ► DISCLOSURE This content is for infor...
Once I Learned These Biggest Life Lessons, I Was Never The Same (What 52 Years Taught Me)
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After 52 years of life, I'm sharing 7 powerful lessons I wish I knew earlier - insights that can save you time, headaches, and help you live a better, more fulfilling life. #lifelessons #motivation #softwareengineer ► DISCLOSURE This content is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered personalized financial advice. I am not a financial advisor, and the view...
Too Old for Tech - Why Should We Hire You?
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The realities of being a software engineer over 40, debunking age myths, addressing age bias, and highlighting how experience can be a powerful advantage in the tech industry. ► DISCLOSURE This content is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered personalized financial advice. I am not a financial advisor, and the views shared are solely my opinions-not a su...
Toxic Boss - How I Dealt With It
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I share the story of my first toxic software developer job, the red flags I ignored, and how I quickly turned things around to land a much better opportunity-along with lessons for anyone stuck in a similar situation. ► My Java Book on Kindle (Self-Published) Modern Java for Beginners: A Comprehensive Guide amzn.to/49s8Qz5 ► DISCLOSURE This content is for informational and entertainment purpose...
I am a Narcissist - Here's my traits
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This video is a candid reflection on how a small, everyday interaction made me realize I was unknowingly exhibiting narcissistic behaviors, and the steps I took to become more self-aware and empathetic. ► DISCLOSURE This content is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered personalized financial advice. I am not a financial advisor, and the views shared are ...
Is 50 Too Old to Be a Software Developer?
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Is 50 really too old to be a software developer? In this video, we explore the myths, challenges, and opportunities for developers over 50, and why experience might just be the ultimate superpower in tech. ► Check out my book in Amazon (Self-Published KDP): Modern Java for Beginners: A Comprehensive Guide amzn.to/41Htvxb ► Chapters 00:00 - Is 50 Too Old? 00:32 - The Ageism Myth 02:24 - The Grin...
I am Extremely Envious of You
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I transformed the weight of envy into a powerful motivator, turning feelings of inadequacy into actionable steps that helped me create the life I truly wanted-complete with lessons you can apply to your own journey. ► DISCLOSURE This content is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered personalized financial advice. I am not a financial advisor, and the view...
How I Almost Became Homeless
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Discover how I broke free from the cycle of poor money habits, faced my financial anxiety head-on, and started building a healthier relationship with money. #poor #money #finance #homeless ► LINKS ● Eckhart Tolle 'The Power of Now' - amzn.to/4eQhubH (Affiliate Link) ► DISCLOSURE This content is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered personalized financial...
The Fastest Way to Pay Off Credit Card Debt - Should I Save First?
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This video breaks down whether you should focus on saving money or paying off credit card debt first, with practical advice, relatable examples, and a simple step-by-step plan to help you take control of your finances. ► DISCLOSURE This content is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered personalized financial advice. I am not a financial advisor, and the v...
What It Feels Like to Forgive Yourself After Losing Everything #forgiveness #finance
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I made a life-changing financial mistake that almost cost me everything-here’s how I found the strength and what it feels like to forgive yourself, move forward, and uncover the lesson behind it all. ► DISCLOSURE This content is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered personalized financial advice. I am not a financial advisor, and the views shared are sol...
Corporate America Sucks - Why I No Longer Want to Work
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Why I walked away from a high-paying job and discovered the freedom I never knew I needed. ► DISCLOSURE This content is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered personalized financial advice. I am not a financial advisor, and the views shared are solely my opinions-not a substitute for professional guidance. Investing carries risks, including potential loss...
Don't Ever Buy a Car - Right Out of College
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Frugal Living - Tips to Live Below Your Means
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Money Habits Keeping You Poor - I Have a Spending Problem
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Turn Your $10-a-Day Coffee Habit into Thousands of Dollars
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Money Traps - Avoid These Temptations to Reach Financial Freedom Faster
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Top 10 Things That Irritated Me as an Introvert
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Things I Learned After Losing a Lot of Money - How I recovered from a Big Financial Loss
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How to Maximize Your Discretionary Income - Smart Money Habits
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Working Class vs Inflation - How to Stay Ahead of Rising Costs!
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The Simplest Path to Financial Independence
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You Should Never Loan Money to Family or Friends - The Real Meaning of Forgiveness
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Grateful for the Views & Engagement - Small Wins, Big Gratitude!
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Doing It Alone | Finding Strength and Beauty in the Struggle
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4 Eye-Opening Reasons I Hated Everyone (Until Now)
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Hey Tony, your vids are getting suggested to me now. Nice job on cracking that 300 subs, congrats :)
Thank you so much. God bless.
Stop making excuses for your failed life and get up make a plan to get your life back on track. Everyone says it is this other person’s fault, when it is yours
You need to want it bad enough to make the hard life choices now so you can enjoy life later.
The framing "return to office" is to place "office" into a place of normalcy that we've left to be returned to. Yet, the office is not the natural state of man to be returned to. But I notice how its framed using "return to office" or "back to office". Office work was a function of a specific and recent set of circumstances. Nobody voted to spend hours of our days stuck in traffic and to be away from family all day most days. This wasn't a conscious choice nor are we evolved for office work. For most of human existence, 99.999% of it, we worked with family and local community. Working from home is the normal state. We have returned to home. Tech is about efficiency and it should be able to free many or most from inefficient drudgery and waste of commuting and the isolation/atomization of family. Further, our cities do not create family friendly environments we feel perfectly safe in. (They are in other nations so it is possible.) US cities have been on a decline for many decades. But the decline accelerated since 2020 significantly. Seattle is a shell of its former already grungy self. But many if not most major US cities has seen this decline. I won't be going back. And the young folks need to think carefully about going back. If you normalize going back you'll be stuck in 1-2 hour gridlock daily for decades, and for nothing.
If Trump is going to cut Early Childhood Education, why not continue with people staying home to work. As long as they are doing their jobs, should not be a problem....🤔
Thanks for watching and for taking the time to share your thoughts-I really appreciate it! You make a great point-if people can effectively do their jobs from home, it’s a win-win, especially for parents managing their time with young kids. On top of that, the cost of childcare these days is like another mortgage payment-it’s getting ridiculous. Remote work could play a big role in addressing broader issues like education and family support. What’s your take-do you think companies will ever fully embrace remote work as the norm, or is the push to return to offices just too strong?
The "return to the office mandate" across ALL companies over the last year (not just Amazon) is about productivity. Because too many workers have proven that they are not willing to be productive outside the office. If you want someone to blame, blame the unproductive ruining it for the productive. Come to think of it, that's pretty much true of everything. The unproductive ruin the world for the rest of us.
Thank you for watching and sharing your perspective! You bring up a good point about productivity. But it makes me wonder-if an employee isn’t performing by measurable standards, why doesn’t the employer just fire them? Could it be that firing them might force the employer to reveal the data they’ve been collecting, like employee laptop monitoring? And if that’s the case, is it really good for business to rely on that kind of monitoring in the first place? What’s your take-do you think companies should handle unproductive employees differently, or is bringing everyone back to the office the only real solution?
@@TonyTheAntonio I think it's up to each company how (or even if) they choose to work with and/or monitor employee productivity. Just like it's up to each employee how much effort they are willing to put into their job for the compensation on offer. I don't know the ins and outs of working at Amazon, but the traditional carrot and stick approach that fell out of favor since the plague that shall not be named, has worked better than anything else in my lifetime. And by carrot and stick I mean salary, benefits, and bonuses being the carrot, and termination being the sick. I don't know why companies started caring about anything OTHER than the competence and character of their employees since 2020, but it's wrecking entire industries. And on a personal note, it's really hard to bust you a55 and work 20 hours of overtime to achieve a goal for no appreciable benefit when the guy next to you who's just mailing it in 40 hours a week gets promoted just because he checks a box for HR.
Some of us are much more productive out of the office. This is an excuse to push jobs overseas
@@MarieLamour-cv1jc Well if they get more productivity for less cost, why would they not want to move jobs overseas?
@@fatherwilliam7256 You think we should be sending all our jobs overseas? You sound anti-american. Good to know when I hire... We do extensive checks on potential employees. Comments like these, make me toss your resume.
Amazon is your employer. I suspect they will call the shots. Your options as an "at will" employee are, get your ass back in the office or.... find another nanny to look after you.
Okay, boomer
Retired recently but we couldn't work from home during the cough. Industrial equipment service techs had to be in the factory service dept to make repairs. Had to deal with corporate and government employees "working" from home and was not impressed. Maybe they were working hard but things didn't seem to get done very quickly. I suspect Amazon isn't concerned about work efficiency. They're probably hoping a bunch of people quit so they don't have to pay layoff benefits.
@keithej2 Thanks for sharing your perspective! I can definitely see how that would be frustrating, especially as someone who had to be on-site. It's true that not all jobs can be done remotely. And yeah, the layoff benefits angle is definitely something some people are concerned about. Given how focused Amazon is on the bottom line-I mean, they're known for quickly shutting down unprofitable ventures-it does make you wonder if this is a factor. What do you think makes this situation different from their usual approach to unprofitable projects?
This RTO bs is masked lay off. There is NO good reason to RTO, so this is weaponized to create artificial pressure to make people quit.
Quite the coincidence that January 2 is literally Day 2; it's not even a Monday, which is the strangest thing about that choice. I'm literally the only person on my team who is assigned to my office. Everyone else is in Seattle. My work routine won't be impacted much at all. The only difference is now I'll have to do it in the office 100% of the time. The funny thing is that I actually prefer going in to the office 2-3 days a week. Now they're gonna be forcing me to go in 5.
Let the market decide . My gut feel is that only the best of the best gets to work from home if they so prefer. Another leverage😄 . Every one else get ready to quit or get back to your cubicle. One more thing bro. DEI is dead. It should be all MERIT where by the best person gets the job .
Your gut feeling is wrong. Whoever took that decision at Amazon (or any other mega corporation for that matter) does not know you and doesn't give a sheet if you are "the best of the best" or not. If they demand RTO, you will do it, or fly. DEI is VERY FAR from dead, in fact, in the past year and a half it has never been more alive. It should be all merit, but it's not. The market right now is in the favour of corporations, so they get to do all this BS everywhere and get away with it, but when the cycle will turn competent people will remember how they for fired (officially or masked) and will be less eager to engage with these mega corps.
What about 32yo for a first tech job? I started a cs degree and applying to internships now. I'm worried that my younger colleagues have a better advantage.
Hi @bojanab409, Thanks for watching! Internships are always a positive step and definitely work in your favor over not having any internship experience. Starting a CS degree and applying for internships at 32 is definitely not too late. Your experience and perspective can actually be a big advantage. Don’t worry about the age gap with younger colleagues-focus on building your skills, and you'll do great! ❤️
I've been a research tech for over 30 years. We have to go to the lab to work. Many people have to go in to work to provide for society like construction workers, retailers, repair men, surgeons, etc. I see a place for remote workers in certain fields, but naturally, empathy is easy, but compassion is hard.
A significant amount of positions do NOT need in-office employees. They keep pushing for green new deal bs, thus this would reduce traffic. You chose your position, so did many others that are required to be at the office or site. No reason to make everyone go in that do not "need" to. People like you are obnoxious on this issue. Less of us on the road, makes it easier for those that need to go in with less traffic. If you don't want to work at the site that is required i.e. nurse, surgeon, lab etc., then get a different career.
Why not keep the roads less busy for the people who do have to go out to work? We all make our choices. I do home health and have to run around all day. I kinda like it but sometimes wish i could stay home but that’s impossible for the job.
@kc6810 Well, you do make a good point I have to admit.
Get to work. I'd fire everybody then hire back the people willing to work with me. You can stay home in your underwear.
After being made redundant time after time after time I had enough and work for myself now and have for a few years. Yes I don't have as much cash, but I don't have to juggle time and life while making someone else rich anymore.
I don’t know what I did to the algorithm, but it’s resulted in small channels like yours popping up in my feed. I’m so grateful for that too. Small channels, but BIG voices, with such important, profound things to share. I subscribed to your channel because what you shared resonated with me and my experience as as a mixed race Mexican that came from a poor family with a single mother. Thank you for being the man you are, and sharing your struggles and triumphs with us. It’s inspirational. Wishing you the best in the New Year.
Wow, thank you so much for your kind words! After leaving my job in 2021, I set out to try RUclips to share my life journey, hoping it might inspire someone. It’s comments like yours that make it all worthwhile. Right back at you-Merry Christmas 🎄and Happy New Year! I truly appreciate your support and for subscribing. Gotta love the magic of the RUclips algorithm. 😊
Entitle workers, Your bad life choices is not everyone else's issue, let me explain : A lot of remote workers had move away from the state they had to in person work, thinking remote work is here to stay when it started, or you had 2 cars and got rid of one because you no longer do in person work, and you got rid of the babysitter and other non essentials that come with in person work, So do to remote work you were able to shed a lot of your non essentials that you may have needed when you did in person work. So the 1st bad life choice was assuming remote work was here to stay and the 2nd bad life choice you made was getting rid of all non essentials that were needed for in person work. What do you think. ??? Thanks
Without any clear data showing in-person work is more productive than at-home work, the only bad life choices that are being made are Amazon's. The employee's life choices weren't any one else's issue until Amazon decided to make it everyone else's issue.
@@gta4everrr If you are talking about Amazon workers they can leave and find a better job, if they feel they are not being treated fairly. It is a free country you can do or be anything you want. You just need to want it bad enough to work hard to get there. Remember nothing in life that is worth wild is easy, You need to want it bad to get it. i think that is the whole point-- No one is willing to work hard and make the difficult choices to reach your goals. Nothing in life that is worth while is easy to get.You need to want it bad, to work hard to get it.
BTW Tony - the middle ground is coffee badging...
Still have to commute to do that
@robtathome @Will_0001 Ha ha, coffee badging-☕️! Time it right, dodge the traffic, and it’s practically a productivity hack, right? Who knows, maybe a techie with some RSU stocks to burn could snag a Jetson ONE. Could faster coffee badging be the next big thing? 😄
Hey - there's been some big changes in office work! Fluorescent lights are now LED...
Haha, good catch! Thank you for watching and pointing that out. Funny enough, after the final review of this video, I realized I should update 'fluorescent' to LED-but I decided to leave it as is. It felt like a fun way to reflect my 52 years of life experience (and memories of those flickering lights... and that guy with the stapler in the basement!). I figured someone might have a witty comment on this, and you didn’t disappoint! Cheers,
What do you experts recommend for returner in the coding game? I did decent amount of training in Java, C# and Python like 3 years ago (it lasted for about 2 years), but couldn't land a job or purpose to that and quit. It feels like effort in vain, but it can be interesting to solve problems and to read others' code. So should one delve again into it just because?
In the 1980s and 90s, to suggest home working got you the suspect look of a crazy heretic! I could never understand the amount of hours wasted in commuting. They had to invent a word to justify it. This was a work system left over from a time when people lived in the same neighbourhood, that had somehow survived into the 20th century - no matter how far a person now lived from their place of work. Most people live on auto-pilot and do not think about why they are doing something. Yet they still want to keep commuting alive now that we have the communications tech of the 21st century! The employer problem is that working from home enables people to “work to live, not live to work.” The employers feeling of not owning you completely creates anxiety for them. Power. The people in charge are usually power and control freaks by definition. Unless these sociopaths are no longer promoted then the commuting will continue.
You nailed it! Thank you for watching and sharing your thoughts. It’s wild how the old commuting model has survived so long, even when modern tech makes it unnecessary. And now, instead of embracing real flexibility, we’ve got tools tracking keyboard, network, or app activity-completely missing the point of what productivity really means. Enter the mouse jigglers to keep the system happy. It feels like employers still cling to control over trust, doesn’t it? What’s your take-will companies ever fully trust remote work, or are we stuck in this outdated control mindset? I’d love to hear your thoughts! 😊
You lazy bum. Don't even want to go to work.
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I never meet any software engineers under the age of 40 in pharma and I talk to people in many of the big companies.
Thanks for watching, Phil! That’s an interesting observation-it seems like pharma companies might really value experience when it comes to software engineering. Do you think that’s due to the complexity of the work, or is it just the way hiring trends have shaped up in the industry? Would love to hear more about what you’ve noticed!
That’s not true. They hire software developers at 50, all day, everyday. It’s about experience.my friends and I are all in our 50s constantly working in tech. Being hired swiftly.
Thanks for watching, Mercedes! You’re absolutely right-experience plays a huge role in staying employable in tech. It’s awesome to hear you and your friends are thriving in your 50s and being hired so swiftly. What’s your take on how the industry views senior developers compared to when you started? Also, do you think some company cultures (though not all) might still lean toward favoring younger developers? Would love to hear your thoughts!
66 Now, retired at 56 and was a developer my entire career. It's ALL I ever wanted, paid to do my hobby. ASM, C, C++ Java some web but preferred the back end. Wrote a low level operating system back in the day. Loved the ride. First job I ever had, still used 'core' memory. Life goes so fast, it seems to be gone in a blink!
@csadler This is great! I totally share the same aspiration of getting paid to do my hobby - it’s the dream, right? 😄 And I completely agree, life does go so fast. Time really flies when you’re doing something you love. My favorite memory with C++ was working on an IEEE modular spec that allowed loading a native library on the fly in Python. This module (whether it's a memory or CPU spec implementation) could be used to prototype or apply static timing analysis on an ASIC chip. This was back in the 2000s. What was your favorite project to work on during your career? Would love to hear more about your experiences! Thanks for sharing!
There are not a lot of well-paying jobs now. The power is with Amazon.
@YoonHangKimMD I know what you mean. Not to mention the current AMZ stock price. Can you imagine the RSUs given each year? 😅 Also, do you think things will turn around and become a tech employee's market again? I'd love to hear your thoughts.
So people might do the bare minimum to scrape out the money to retire early?
@@YoonHangKimMD NO the power is within you always, you just need to want it bad enough. It is easy to make excuses - but hard to make the good life choices.
@@TonyTheAntonio look everyone in the Amazon fight, stop thinking about Amazon and start making choices for your self. Invest in your self and the return on investment we be greater than any job.
@@YoonHangKimMD I am retired now And have been retired since I was 57 years old, yes I retired 10 years early. You do not need a great job if your in your bid 20’s or any age. If I was 23 working for Amazon this is what I would do-- 1. Find a night job somewhere light a janitor at a hospital, 2. Sign up for night classes in automation systems and work nights go to school full time during the day learn your craft, one year before you graduate look for an internship or start applying g for a job in the field of automation. If you started now by the time you graduate in 2 to 4 years you will be set everywhere you look there is more and more automation, you may never be rich but you will always have good demanding job. When everyone else is still chasing there tails. Good luck and remember always make good life choices now so you can enjoy life later.
I did a CompSci degree 1977-81. I am still working as a software developer and will probably keep at it for a few more years. I like what I do and I enjoy my time off but without something to do during the winter months I think I would be bored stupid.
@MurrayMcDonald4361 That's awesome! I'm on the same boat. For me, sometimes being bored can spark new ideas or projects, though I totally get what you mean about needing something to do. Otherwise, I just hop on an MMORPG game online, which can be a time sink for me as well. I love working with Raspberry Pi's-it's a fun way to stay sharp and explore new things. Do you have any other hobbies or projects that keep you busy during the off-season? Always cool to hear what others are up to! Thank you for sharing.
This is ageist as hell to even be talking about IMO.
Hey @GameDevChad , I totally agree! I really appreciate that you're aware of how this video can come off as ageist - it's something that can affect both sides (young and old). The idea behind the video is to spark some conversation and bring attention to the topic. I’m glad we can have this discussion! Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
Hello, sir. Do you use Cursor IDE or something else?
Hi There, No. Not using any AI-based IDE. Did you have a specific question regarding Cursor IDE? I'm curious. Thanks for watching!
This is my favourite format. I love your talking head videos, man ❤
Hi @SoloByteStudio, It's my fav as well. Every now and then I experiment with a different format because I'm learning. Have you ever done a video yourself that is not a talking head? Thanks for supporting the channel. Cheers,
Thanks for the feedback. I'll make more of these.
@@TonyTheAntonio what I found useful is doing shorts. All of mine got like 500 views very consistently. How-to style seems to be more popular than my comedy shorts though. I have done one full length video trying to solve a hacker game while explaining basic concepts of the Linux command line, but it was very difficult to produce and took me a lot of time. And also it was one of my first vids, and ofc it was kinda bad. So I decided to stick with talking head for now.
A company that I was working for during the pandemic was quiet firing me, they banned me from working from home.
Hey @SoloByteStudio, that sounds like a tough situation! Were you working with masks on too? I can't handle them for long - I'd probably pass out! 😅 Did you push through it? Thanks for watching and sharing your experience!
@ Yeah mask on all the time. I had to power through because that position was linked to my apprenticeship/education thing, it was beyond stressful though. At some point I had enough and notified them that I am not coming to the office anymore and that they should fire me, if they didn’t like it. I got a very angry email in response, but luckily no consequences. After 4 months receiving that email of theirs, I was done with the apprenticeship program, passed my exams and left the company.
Now imagine being someone dissatisfied with an earlier career/degree in the middle of a profession change in their mid 30s or even in 40s. Too bad, so sad, you should have collected a decade of experience with the correct degree in your 20s, now your only prospect is a customer service rep phone bank in “IT”. The entire system is designed around the 18-27 yo track of high school to college.
I get where you're coming from, @electrikjohn8954. The traditional system does seem to favor that younger track, and it can feel frustrating to try and break into tech later in life. But I think there are always opportunities to pivot, no matter the age. A lot of people are making successful career changes in their 30s and 40s-it's all about the mindset and finding the right path. What’s your take on how we can make that transition easier for people who don’t follow the traditional route? Thanks for watching!
@ probably more availability of 1-2 year internship/apprenticeship programs that don’t demand 4 year $60k+ degree, so people making the change can get those crucial first 3 years of experience in. It also gives opportunity to network, so you don’t bash your face against the wall of the HR lady throwing your resume in the trash because she got a degree and can’t see why anyone else wouldn’t. Having a network of people inside a company can help get past those filters into an interview stage or even job offer if you prove yourself on the intern/apprenticeship. Unfortunately this is a matter of leadership culture, and unless leadership is interested in hiring outside fresh college graduates for entry/junior positions, it will remain an uphill climb. I’m glad you mention age based discrimination should be reported in the video. Government sponsored programs where people undergo certification programs later in life could offer tax incentives to companies who meet a certain threshold of program members. It’s just hard to get people motivated to address the age based prejudice in continuing education and career development.
It is simple, just lie, get the job and then see HR and say they got your birthday wrong. problem solved!
Thank you all for the amazing support on this video! I'm really grateful for the positive feedback and for everyone who’s shared their thoughts. This is the first video for me to hit such a large number of views, and it’s been incredible to see how many of you resonate with the message that age is just a number, and experience is a strength in the tech world. When I started this journey, I just wanted to share and express my thoughts about what I was going through, and to see the conversation grow has been so rewarding. Whether you're 50 or beyond, don’t let anything hold you back-there’s always room to grow and contribute in this field. Thanks again for watching, and keep the conversation going!
Man, I love hearing about al lthis stuff you're talking about in these videos. I'm wondering how many of these stories from this video in particular are from your personal experience.
Hi @WebDevJapan, I’d say about half of this is from personal experience, especially around 02:27. I had a similar moment early in my career when I walked out of my first interview. It was for a Java position, but they started asking questions about Microsoft-specific programming languages. By the second interviewer, the questions were totally off-track, like asking about image pixel concepts that had nothing to do with the "Server-Side" role. I ended up telling him to grab his manager because I was done with the interview. About 2 years ago, I had an interview with AirBNB after leaving a travel company in Seattle. The first interviewer, who was pretty young and on Zoom, asked about an algorithm I’d never even heard of in my 24+ years as a Java developer. I had thought they were serious about my experience, but after that question, I just said, “I’m ending this interview. Please thank your recruiter for the opportunity.” Thanks so much for your kind words and for watching!
Hi @WebDevJapan, I actually found your channel interesting so I subbed. Cheers,
@@TonyTheAntonio Thanks! Maybe we can do a collab video or something in the future
Never say Never about anything
If you have to choose between quality and speed . Pick speed.
I beg to differ ...
Hi @Kenbomp, Better, faster, cheaper, right? 😅 How’s that working out for you since you prefer 'speed'? In my experience, speed always ends up with a late-night phone call... and sometimes someone getting fired over it! Does speed always imply quality in your opinion? If not, how do you ensure quality is maintained? I'd love to hear how it's been working for you. Thanks for sharing!
Hey @TN-es7ei, totally get where you're coming from! Sometimes quality really is key, but speed can be a game changer in certain situations too. It’s all about finding that sweet spot, right? What do you think? When do you feel quality wins over speed in this subject? Would love to hear about your experience!
You don't have to quit to play Warcraft, just do it at work.
I worked for a company once as a contractor and I sat next to their tech support, and they were allowed to play games when there was no calls 😂. I was like 'I want that job!'. Thanks for sharing!
My guy here looks dead on the inside lol. I guess that answers the video's title.
Hey, this comment honestly made my day! Thanks for sharing your thoughts - I guess I’ve got that ‘dead on the inside’ look down! Appreciate you watching!
Subbed! 👍
@@alexrafter Thanks! Ditto.
Hope not because I'm still doing it :O
Thanks for watching!
I know all the newest frameworks, and I am constantly learning new tech, but I work in Enterprise Core systems. We don’t implement “new” tech on systems upon which the entire enterprise rely on, and if I find someone doing so, they are getting fired if they have not run it by, and gotten it approved by, an Enterprise Architect like myself. If they want to implement the newest version of Angular in their WebApp, that’s up to them and their product owner, but if I find it running on my servers, then you’ve stepped over a line that is going to cost you dearly. Keep that stuff on your UI.
@@rmcgraw7943 This is the way!
I'm 52, started with BASIC and then machine code on the ZX Spectrum, still going very, very strong!
That’s awesome! From ZX Spectrum to today-you’re proof that real developers just keep evolving. I wouldn’t have been surprised if you mentioned Tandy. Remember those? Not even sure if they made it to your area back then. My brother was all about Commodore, though-he spent hours messing around with BASIC on that thing. I was mainly hogging the Apple IIe's or IBM PC's at our high school back then learning BASIC. Those were the days. Thanks for watching!
We had a police officer just graduate the academy. In her first week, she responded to a train station where a man was breaking every window. He was a big guy and didn't respond to de-escalation techniques. The fight was on, and he had super strength. This resulted from PCP and Angel Dust in his system. He didn't survive the fight. The Medical Examiner said he was "walking DOA". His heart was so damaged from drugs that he would've died that week. The female cop never returned to work. I gave it a college try to persuade her, but maybe she didn't belong anyway.
The answer is up to the individual but obviously NO. Both my wife and I are still coding every day in our early 60s.
New/young devs are like python, uncompiled and scripted for the apparent dataset in hand. Older devs are experienced, knowledgeable to the underlying interactions, and resembly C/C++ (proven and rarely in need of rewrite).
Haha, love the comparison! New devs might be quick and flexible like Python, but yeah, sometimes they need a little ‘runtime debugging.’ Us older devs? We’re the C/C++ types-solid, maybe a bit stubborn, but when it comes to performance and knowing what’s under the hood, we’ve got it covered. Just don’t ask us to change syntax too often! Thanks again for sharing.
I’m 55 and I write code every day; however, mostly I end up mentoring and solving other’s problems. I know every programming language, every database, every architecture paradigm, and when, where and why one should be used over another. I learn new things each day. Last night, for instance, I was working on adding functionality to a custom dependency injector, and realized I should add the ability to inject a specify TPL partition (via a generic specifier) depending on whether the collection I am dealing with is a IList or IEnumerable. Custom TPL partitiions are no joke, and besides Steven Taub at MS, I’ve never even heard or seen someone speak of them. I couldnt even explain or describe what I did to my team members. They are clueless with regard to low level code, assembler, lower C#, C, etc. I will say they are very energetic, but often that energy spills over and creates issues I have to backtrack and fix afterwards. Young people tend to code before they thing about how their creation will fit into the enterprise core, which is my speciality.
Your depth of knowledge is impressive! Custom TPL partitions are next-level stuff, and it’s rare to find people who can discuss, let alone implement, them. I totally get what you mean about younger devs diving in without considering the big picture-your experience in keeping the enterprise core solid is invaluable. In my experience, juniors sometimes take a different approach, and everything seems fine at first… until subtle performance issues creep into production, leaving you to untangle a mess of bottlenecks and memory leaks. I’m in the Java world myself, and while frameworks like the Concurrency Package or Spring Batch make parallel processing easier for juniors, it’s similar to how C#’s TPL simplifies things-but understanding what’s really happening under the hood is another story. The complexities of thread management, resource contention, and synchronization can be overwhelming. You’re the glue that holds everything together. I’m glad we, as senior devs, are here to guide them!
Great video Tony. I understand completely how you feel. I have been unemployed for 6 months and it will be very hard to go back and work for a Boss. No matter how good they may be they still control you in regards to what time I'd have to start and when I can go home etc. Thank you for supporting my channel too :) Martin
That’s so nice to hear, Martin! I can totally relate - once I tasted that freedom of not having to clock in, it’s hard to imagine going back. Sometimes, even when I’m stuck in traffic just heading to a store, I catch myself thinking, “I’m glad I’m off the grind… for now 😊.” Here’s to our channels and staying on our own paths! 🥃 Thanks for sharing!
I've worked as a developer for a couple of years, and I've worked with senior devs over 50 with decades of experience under their belt. The negatives: I regularly see these seniors be overly skeptical about genuinely useful tech or even language features. Sometimes, they say they've tried them 10 years ago and had very bad experiences, so they rather do it by hand and create vastly more complex and less reliable solutions. In reality, those problems had been addressed and fixed many years ago, but they generally don't trust it. This varies person to person however. However, I do agree that their skepticism is sometimes warranted with new trends. They have worked themselves into new tech so many times, they can do so very quickly and efficiently. While their skepticism can sometimes eat time away and be tiring to address, it can save you from bad overhyped tech and you can generally convince them of good features. They uplift the rest of the team with their experiences every day. It's very reassuring during stressful and tough times to have someone on the team who can put it into perspective.
Well, I am not a sw dev; 47 yrs old. I was a technical engineer on one of Oracle's software suites. After 12 years I was laid off (also the company was bought by a very large American/Indian company). Then it went down in a spiral, 5 years I did not work. Started as a driver in a van to distribute boxes of food. These were years of hard work, but one of the best in terms of fulfilling, seeing other things from my country etc. It showed you can start again, if you set your mind to it. I also find out I have a form of ASS and ADD. Then I started as a software manager/maintainer of a lesser known suite. I restarted in sw again, without any hassles. The only thing it has a more closed environment, documentation lacks, some tooling only available to consultants. It is something I am not familiar with, but I went along. In any way, life takes you along paths, you never thought of. Jobs, private life. You have to pick yourself up, if possible.
Limited documentation and restricted tooling? That’s like following directions that lead you straight into a brick wall. But you adapted anyway-proof that sometimes you just have to break through the obstacles and keep going. Here’s a story I can relate to: an entire team got fired, and we inherited all their code and its maintenance. And let me tell you, the code was the documentation. Talk about a headache. Thanks for sharing!