Tony the Antonio
Tony the Antonio
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Bought a New Car Right Out of College—Before My First Paycheck--Here’s What Went Wrong
Right out of college, I made a huge financial mistake by buying a brand new car before my first paycheck-here’s the story of what went wrong and the lessons I learned about debt, budgeting, and avoiding costly decisions.
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This content is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered personalized financial advice. I am not a financial advisor, and the views shared are solely my opinions-not a substitute for professional guidance. Investing carries risks, including potential loss of principal, and past perfo...
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Frugal Living for the Unemployed #finance #frugalliving
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In this video, I break down my journey into frugality, sharing practical ways I’ve cut monthly expenses to save money without sacrificing a comfortable lifestyle. ► DISCLOSURE This content is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered personalized financial advice. I am not a financial advisor, and the views shared are solely my opinions-not a substitute for ...
Why I Kept Buying Things I Didn’t Need-and How I Finally Stopped
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In this video, I dive into my journey from emotional spending and debt to financial control, uncovering how childhood habits drove my need to buy-and sharing the tools that helped me break free. ► DISCLOSURE This content is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered personalized financial advice. I am not a financial advisor, and the views shared are solely m...
Turn Your $10-a-Day Coffee Habit into Thousands of Dollars
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Discover how cutting a small daily expense, like your $10 coffee habit, and investing it could potentially grow into thousands of dollars over time-unlocking new possibilities for building wealth. ► DISCLOSURE This content is for informational and entertainment purposes only and should not be considered personalized financial advice. I am not a financial advisor, and the views shared are solely...
Money Traps - Avoid These Temptations to Reach Financial Freedom Faster
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Money Traps - Avoid These Temptations to Reach Financial Freedom Faster
Top 10 Things That Irritated Me as an Introvert
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Top 10 Things That Irritated Me as an Introvert
My Youtube Journey So Far
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My RUclips Journey So Far
Losing It All - How I Rebuilt My Life After Hitting Financial Rock Bottom
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Losing It All - How I Rebuilt My Life After Hitting Financial Rock Bottom
How to Maximize Your Discretionary Income - Smart Money Habits
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How to Maximize Your Discretionary Income - Smart Money Habits
Working Class vs Inflation - How to Stay Ahead of Rising Costs!
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Working Class vs Inflation - How to Stay Ahead of Rising Costs!
The Simplest Path to Financial Independence
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The Simplest Path to Financial Independence
The Real Meaning of Forgiveness (And Why You Can’t Fake It)
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The Real Meaning of Forgiveness (And Why You Can’t Fake It)
Tough Choices: A Family's Financial Struggle
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Tough Choices: A Family's Financial Struggle
Grateful for the Views & Engagement - Small Wins, Big Gratitude!
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Grateful for the Views & Engagement - Small Wins, Big Gratitude!
Doing It Alone | Finding Strength and Beauty in the Struggle
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Doing It Alone | Finding Strength and Beauty in the Struggle
4 Eye-Opening Reasons I Hated Everyone (Until Now)
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4 Eye-Opening Reasons I Hated Everyone (Until Now)
How One Simple Breathing Tip Helped Me Pass the Army Fitness Test
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How One Simple Breathing Tip Helped Me Pass the Army Fitness Test
It's not too late - You Still Have Time to Achieve Your Dreams
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It's not too late - You Still Have Time to Achieve Your Dreams
Avoid these bad habits when making videos
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Avoid these bad habits when making videos
I chosed career over friendship and betrayed a friend
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I chosed career over friendship and betrayed a friend
I don't have anything to say - What I learned so far as a new content creator
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I don't have anything to say - What I learned so far as a new content creator
The Simple Trick That Helped Me Eliminate All My Debt - Assets vs Liabilities
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The Simple Trick That Helped Me Eliminate All My Debt - Assets vs Liabilities
How Joining the Army Helped Me Escape Poverty and Open New Doors
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How Joining the Army Helped Me Escape Poverty and Open New Doors
Not Artsy Enough? How I Almost Flunked an Elective
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Not Artsy Enough? How I Almost Flunked an Elective
When i tried to get out of basic training
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When i tried to get out of basic training
He Thought I Was Dumb - Then This Happened | First Impressions
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He Thought I Was Dumb - Then This Happened | First Impressions
How Persistence Got me a College Degree (Against All Odds)
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How Persistence Got me a College Degree (Against All Odds)
I Quit My Job During the Pandemic | Burnout, Health, and Life After Leaving a 9-to-5
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I Quit My Job During the Pandemic | Burnout, Health, and Life After Leaving a 9-to-5
I've Been Lied to | Shocking Family Secrets
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I've Been Lied to | Shocking Family Secrets
I'm 52 years old and starting my own YouTube Channel
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I'm 52 years old and starting my own RUclips Channel

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  • @TonyTheAntonio
    @TonyTheAntonio День назад

    What’s the dream you’re chasing? Share it below-we’d love to cheer you on! Remember, as Steve Jobs said, "The people who are crazy enough to think they can change the world, are the ones who do.”

  • @picking4profit
    @picking4profit 2 дня назад

    Loved this. I had to share an office aften a return from extended sick leave and I could not focus at all. People drove me mad and I did feel like I was in a zoo. I was made redundant 6 months later and that was my best day ever as it meant I could take up self employment and not have to share my work space ever again!. I hate socialising and am so relieved when an event is cancelled.

    • @TonyTheAntonio
      @TonyTheAntonio День назад

      @picking4profit Totally get that! Sharing a workspace can feel like pure chaos for introverts. That redundancy sounds like a blessing in disguise-it gave you the freedom to do your own thing and stay in your own space. I hope to be self-employed someday too. And yes, the joy of a canceled event? Absolute gold. Sometimes I secretly hope for the same with our neighborhood get-togethers. Thanks for watching and supporting the channel ❤️ - I love connecting with people... as long as it’s online! 😄

  • @TonyTheAntonio
    @TonyTheAntonio 2 дня назад

    Would you keep using a TV like this or upgrade to a new one? Let me know-am I saving the planet or just being too cheap?

  • @Roro-si4ci
    @Roro-si4ci 2 дня назад

    I really appreciate you sharing this information as a computer science major right now going to graduate I’m trying to be knowledgeable of knowing the next step after gradation so I’m glad the algorithm gave this video because buying a new car was going to be the first thing I was thinking about doing so you are a lifesaver thanks again

    • @TonyTheAntonio
      @TonyTheAntonio 2 дня назад

      @Roro-si4ci Congrats on almost graduating! 🎓 I’m so glad this video helped-planning your finances first will definitely pay off. Wishing you all the best in this next chapter. Thanks for watching and sharing your thoughts!

  • @TonyTheAntonio
    @TonyTheAntonio 3 дня назад

    Thanks for watching! Have you ever made a big financial decision you wish you could take back? Let’s share some lessons in the comments so we can all learn from each other’s experiences. And if you found this helpful (or a little too relatable!), don’t forget to hit Like and subscribe for more real-life money insights!

  • @andrewfox2808
    @andrewfox2808 3 дня назад

    Frugal?

  • @ellucas12345
    @ellucas12345 3 дня назад

    Good luck with your Channel, I hope it grows and make you a lot of money doing something you love. Cheers from Brazil.

  • @vevejean
    @vevejean 4 дня назад

    Thank you very much, Del, for sharing this... I can definitely resonate a lot of points you mentioned.. One biggest is having no kids (not by choice) but I guess the Divine One up there knew that this would benefit me and my husband. One thing I can also share (if I may) is to not buy so much new clothes.. It amazes me all the time how other people will actually shop for new clothes when seasons change.. I can honestly say that my husband & I have a lot of clothes that we've had for years (and a decade too!) already.. And we still wear them except those that had "shrunk" already.. **wink wink** Anyway, watching your video actually made me sit back & think of other possible ways & means to live a simple and "frugalistic" life.. So thank you again for sharing.. I'm looking forward to more videos on simple living..❤

    • @TonyTheAntonio
      @TonyTheAntonio 4 дня назад

      Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts! It means a lot to hear that my video resonated with you. I completely agree about the clothes-it's amazing how much we can save by sticking with what we have instead of shopping every season. It sounds like you and your husband have really embraced a sustainable approach! I’m so glad this video inspired you to reflect on more ways to live simply, and I’m definitely planning to share more on this topic soon. Thanks again for watching, and for your wonderful insights! ❤️

  • @cruzerbager3242
    @cruzerbager3242 4 дня назад

    What does your family think about this choice you are making? Are other closer friends wondering if you are turning into a N.E.E.T?

    • @TonyTheAntonio
      @TonyTheAntonio 4 дня назад

      Hey @cruzerbager3242! Thanks for checking out the video and for your question. My family is totally supportive of me going the frugal route while I'm searching for new opportunities. They understand that it's just a smart move right now. As for friends, a few are a bit worried I might be turning into a NEET, but most are actually interested and want to learn some frugal tips themselves. I believe one of them is starting to value time and how precious life is because he's also taking some time off work. As far as how long this will last, time will tell. Rhetorical, but: Am I being a bad or good influence on that person? In my naive perspective, I'd like to believe I am. Appreciate you reaching out!

  • @deborahcurtis1385
    @deborahcurtis1385 5 дней назад

    There's another element to this; browsing as a form of self-soothing. So you select a few things and put them in your cart or Wishlist. Then in 24 hours you're eliminating from the list until you make a selection and buy. That's the wrong way around, just don't browse at all. This is my problem and I get emails constantly urging name to look. Just looking can be fatal to your budget if you end up selecting.

    • @hermes667
      @hermes667 4 дня назад

      For my part I do the browsing after I got the idea from something I´ve seen in the real world. As building models is a hobby of mine sometimes I decide just integrate the things I like in my models instead of buying the real one.

    • @TonyTheAntonio
      @TonyTheAntonio 4 дня назад

      That tempation gets me everytime :-). I forgot to mention in the video that there are some sites that will remind you that you have some outstaning items in your cart, I think the subject of the email is "Did you forget to checkout?". The strategy of leaving items in the cart can backfire sometimes if the site sends you a reminder email about items left in the cart. For the "avoid browsing" altogether part: My adjustible standing desk is starting to act up and am thinking about a replacement. I am totally telling myself not to BROWSE for a replacement for this reason. For the wish lists: I feel like it takes a few clicks to get to the wishlist so I rarely use it. If there is a "Save for Later" feature at the cart screen, then I'm more likely to use that instead even if my items are uncategorized and unordered somehow. Thanks for watching and sharing. Take care.

  • @hermes667
    @hermes667 5 дней назад

    I wonder a bit about the pest control but this may be because of the region or kind of house. In my region houses are build of brick and mortar, even my garage is made this way. So there is only the roof construction which could be affected by bark beetles. We also have some mice running around because I have haselnut trees on my property but I have some traps around so they never get a bigger problem. I do all home maintenance myself and most of my neighbours do as well. It is only the elderly employing someone mowing the lawn. I also grow some vegetables and fruits in my garden, however a garden needs always some investment and what I can save by growing them does not make a big benefit from the garden. But I think one must see it different. Studies show that working in the garden, growing vegetables and so on is quite as good for ones health as doing yoga. You get fresh air, need to use your muscles and get a lot of sunlight.

    • @TonyTheAntonio
      @TonyTheAntonio 4 дня назад

      The pest control service price is definitely redic IMHO. The neighborhood used to be a farmland/forrest type. When we first moved in about 5 years ago, there were quite a few pests ranging from beetles, giant ants, house spiders, garden spiders, and a few I don't know the name of. Also, wasps started nesting way above the house (I can't reach, smart wasps). It's annoying how expensive the pest control service is and the work to remove hives are also an extra charge. I sprayed the wasps nests with a dawn-soap solution one time and that worked, but only if I can reach the hive. The wasps are not the harmful types, so I just leave 'em alone for now. I wish sometimes that I settled for a 1-level home instead of two. BTW, we now have a mole that regularly visits once in a while. I share the same opinion about the therapeutic nature of gardening. I used to value doing the work when I was working from home at one point because it would take my mind away from work. Thanks for watching and sharing.

  • @Lovemy911
    @Lovemy911 5 дней назад

    🙏👊........

  • @TonyTheAntonio
    @TonyTheAntonio 5 дней назад

    Thanks for joining me on my frugal journey! One thing I forgot to add is use the grocery rewards points to lower your price at the gas pump. Got any tips for cutting monthly expenses or favorite ways to save? Drop them in the comments-I’d love to hear your ideas!

  • @hermes667
    @hermes667 6 дней назад

    I do the same. Putting things on my watchlist or in the cart without buying them. Most of the times I do it because I think I could get a better deal somewhere else. But very often they stay there for weeks and I rethink the whole thing and decide that I do not need them at all. I went through some hard times in my life and this always makes me looking for a better deal. I am also very intrested in history and learned a lot about hard times like WWI and WII. While I usually look for a good deal, bad news like the pandemic or the war in Ukraine get me in a prepping mode. I start to buy a lot of food, but when using a shopping list I can prevent the worst. It is not only the emotionally thing, it is also the amount of stuff filling the house. I feel it is quite easier buying something than getting rid of it - especially if it is in a good usuable condition. Something inside prevents me from simply throwing these things away. I always have to find a way around like selling, donating or giving it a second use. Keeping in my how hard it is to get rid of an objekt, I try not to have it in the first place.

    • @TonyTheAntonio
      @TonyTheAntonio 5 дней назад

      Regarding decluttering, I've started to sort through and remove crap that I haven't used in over a year. It's been a helpful process for me. Thank you so much for watching and sharing your experience!

    • @hermes667
      @hermes667 4 дня назад

      @@TonyTheAntonio yes it is. Despite someone else could use it and you free some space, studies show it is good for mental health. Giving away stuff you don´t need also frees the mind of old projects and hobbies which belong in the past. Gives room for presnt ideas.

  • @TonyTheAntonio
    @TonyTheAntonio 6 дней назад

    Lesson of the day: if your crypto sounds like a meme, your wallet might turn into one too! What’s the wildest coin name you’ve ever heard? Drop it below!

  • @hermes667
    @hermes667 7 дней назад

    I totally can relate to this. I am at work because I work there. So I like to get my work done. But others think it is a spot to socialize all the time without getting their work done. I am not very into suprises, I have my social life quite well aranged. Every monday I met my mother, on thursday a gaming group, every two weeks on friday another gaming group and once a month I met a pal for wargaming. These are all real meetings not online-stuff. So overall I met family or friends 2,5 times per week. My husband thinks that is not enough and I should go out more. He is a extrovert. Why is it always introverts have to change? Do we ever say extroverts should change? No we don´t. You may have it your way, I have it my way.

    • @TonyTheAntonio
      @TonyTheAntonio 5 дней назад

      on "Why is it always introverts have to change?", totally, right? That statement from the start make it sound like there's something with introverts. I just started embracing my introvertness, if that's a real word, for good. Thanks for sharing your experience.

  • @TonyTheAntonio
    @TonyTheAntonio 8 дней назад

    Question of the Day: What's one small financial habit you can start today that will make a big difference in your future? Let’s inspire each other in the comments! Thank you for watching ❤️

  • @TonyTheAntonio
    @TonyTheAntonio 11 дней назад

    Want to secure your financial future? Discover how diversifying across a 401(k), Roth IRA, and long-term stocks can boost growth, save on taxes, and set you up for retirement success! #InvestSmart #RetirementPlanning

  • @TonyTheAntonio
    @TonyTheAntonio 11 дней назад

    Which of these 4 success habits are you excited to try first? Share your thoughts and any other tips you have for staying on track!

  • @DaMomento
    @DaMomento 12 дней назад

    Second divorce She cleaned me out including half of my super now she wants child support even though we agreed none Started work after 8 months and struggling like hell I really can't get myself to get back into things I hate the traffic People you work are like robots no emotions 30 percent goes to tax 20 percent goes to child support No motivation left to work any more Been working 35 years and got nothing much left Life sucks Whoever says things will sort out says bs I don't believe any of that anymore

    • @TonyTheAntonio
      @TonyTheAntonio 12 дней назад

      Hi @DaMomento, It sounds like you're going through an incredibly tough time, and I genuinely appreciate you sharing such a personal story. Divorce, financial strain, and feeling unappreciated at work can make everything seem like an uphill battle, especially when it feels like you’ve given so much and have so little left. I created this video in the hope that it might help someone avoid the mistakes I made. But in the process, making it became part of my own healing journey. When I was at my lowest, prayer and holding onto faith were what helped me keep going, even when I couldn’t see the way forward. Looking back now, I’m so grateful to have come through to the other side. And believe it or not, as I write this, I’m sending positive energy your way, even if we don’t know each other personally, because I genuinely feel your pain. I hope you can feel a bit of strength and peace from it, and I truly pray that things will turn around for you, even if it doesn’t seem possible right now. Thank you for being so open here. Please take care of yourself.

    • @DaMomento
      @DaMomento 9 дней назад

      @TonyTheAntonio thank you for your support man It's been very hard for me after divorcing a narcissist ex. After 20 years. Been struggling ever since. I try to be positive but it just adds up and I stuck in more sht. Sorry for the language. I try hard believe me. I hope I can get through. Thanks again.

  • @TonyTheAntonio
    @TonyTheAntonio 13 дней назад

    If you swapped your daily coffee for an investment, what would you do with the extra cash in 10 years? Dream big! Comment below and let’s see everyone’s goals!

  • @tylerbleau9861
    @tylerbleau9861 18 дней назад

    Thanks for sharing, I can appreciate a man sharing his mistakes so others can learn from it.

  • @grant6481
    @grant6481 18 дней назад

    Well most won't like this answer but I worked 80 hours a week 18-33 for 15 years & paid a house off & have 500k in stocks. It's not what people want to hear but work 2 jobs for 15 years then inflation won't matter.

    • @TonyTheAntonio
      @TonyTheAntonio 18 дней назад

      80 hrs/week is wow! Not many people can pull this off, but if something is important you have to do it. There's no greater feeling than to pay off your home (early?). Imagine how much we'd be paying to the full maturity of the loan. Now...only if we can lower the propert taxes :-). It's high here in King County, WA and it keeps going up. Thanks for watching. Much appreciated!

  • @Lipos007
    @Lipos007 18 дней назад

    We build the moments and memories, we the people matter. Not the houses, not the cars or other materialistic things. You can make it all back man. i am 37 yo from Greece so excuse my english, but i have been through something similar (smaller numbers but smaller economy also), so i felt all of it especially with the panic attacks. Keep strong my friend! You can and you will always be able to overcome these things. Health is more important than anything. Be safe

    • @TonyTheAntonio
      @TonyTheAntonio 18 дней назад

      Thank you so much for sharing this, and your English is perfect! You’re absolutely right - it’s the moments, memories, and the people around us that truly matter. When I realized that, it was easy to let go of the material things. The panic attacks and the fear are real, but so is the strength to rebuild and refocus on what’s important. I’m inspired by your resilience and am grateful to have connected with someone who truly understands. Wishing you health, happiness, and peace as we both keep moving forward. Be safe and thank you for watching!

    • @Lipos007
      @Lipos007 18 дней назад

      @TonyTheAntonio Thanks for your response. I appreciate it! Wishing you all the best as well. Health and happiness as well and a calm spirit. Remember, the sun rises everyday. As long as you are healthy everything is possible. Keep strong my friend. 💪

  • @MrBoxofplastic
    @MrBoxofplastic 19 дней назад

    Never invest in something you don't understand Mel Abraham says.

    • @TonyTheAntonio
      @TonyTheAntonio 18 дней назад

      I may have kicked myself a few times because of this mistake. A rhetorical question would be for me is that "Was I meant to go through this small mistake, so I won't make a bigger one in the future?", as careless as I was with my financial health. Of course, I prefer not to make any, period 🙂. Thank you so much for watching.

  • @TonyTheAntonio
    @TonyTheAntonio 21 день назад

    Thanks for watching and being part of my journey! Have you ever faced a tough financial setback, or are you dealing with one right now? Let’s support each other - drop a comment with your story, advice, or any questions you have. Remember, bouncing back is possible - it just takes one step at a time. Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share if this video helped you or could help someone you know!

  • @TonyTheAntonio
    @TonyTheAntonio 23 дня назад

    Thanks so much for watching! I hope these tips help you boost your discretionary income and give you more freedom with your finances. If you found this video helpful, let me know your favorite tip, or share how you plan to maximize your extra cash in the comments below! Your feedback means a lot, and it helps me make even better content for you. Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and stay tuned for more smart money insights.

  • @TonyTheAntonio
    @TonyTheAntonio 24 дня назад

    Thanks for watching! 💬 How have you been adjusting to rising costs? Share your tips in the comments below! Don't forget to hit that 👍 if you found this helpful and subscribe for more ways to outsmart inflation. 🔔 Got questions about saving or investing? Drop them here, and let's keep the conversation going! 💡

  • @YouGotOptions2
    @YouGotOptions2 24 дня назад

    In my situation i have achieved financial independence via veterans disability. However when you say "you measure wealth by how long you can live without actually working". That is BARRRRRS sir.

    • @TonyTheAntonio
      @TonyTheAntonio 24 дня назад

      V.A. disability is still a legit way to reach financial independence IMHO. Others that would also fall into this category would be a single kid who lives with parents and does not pay food, rent or utilties; just live-off parents, which is not a bad thing assuming the parents are OK with it. Another would be a parent who lives with her kid's family and does not pay for any expenses. In this case I would say example 1 & 2 are financial independence. Thanks for watching ❤️.

  • @TonyTheAntonio
    @TonyTheAntonio 25 дней назад

    Thanks for watching. Want more content on how to achieve financial freedom? Let me know what topics you'd like me to cover next! Your feedback shapes the channel! 💬

  • @mashier29
    @mashier29 26 дней назад

    Such wise words

  • @TonyTheAntonio
    @TonyTheAntonio 26 дней назад

    💬 Thanks for watching! Remember, forgiveness isn’t about excusing what someone did-it’s about freeing yourself from the burden of holding onto resentment. If you’ve ever had to forgive someone for something tough, share your experience below. Let’s talk about how we can protect our peace while still showing compassion! 🙏 #Forgiveness #LetGo #ProtectYourPeace

  • @TonyTheAntonio
    @TonyTheAntonio 26 дней назад

    Thanks for watching everyone. In this video I shared how going home during "Exodus" made me home sick and had second thoughts about being in the U.S. Army which gave me ideas of sabotaging my training until a Drill Sergeant gave me the talk before I was about to get kicked out. Please like and subscribe and help me grow on RUclips. I appreciate you.

  • @starcatcher3691
    @starcatcher3691 29 дней назад

    Beautiful. I always vote to help workers.❤

  • @MotivationalFresh
    @MotivationalFresh 29 дней назад

    I enjoyed this video.

  • @sydneyevans2637
    @sydneyevans2637 Месяц назад

    Sgt. Kelly knew you could mature in the army and gain confidence as a man. He also knew you would be able to go to school on the G.I. bill. I think there's truth to the saying that they'll make a man out of you. Your recounting of him speaks to the respect you had for him and the care that he took to guide you. He saw a diamond in the rough.

    • @TonyTheAntonio
      @TonyTheAntonio Месяц назад

      Oh wow this means a lot, considering Sgt. Kelly was a bad ass and screaming at us endlessly on day 1 as were getting off that cattle truck. I get teary-eyed especially on that moment when I talked to him because I was 100% convinced I wanted out, but when he spoke it was like I heard a higher voice. A voice I could not ignore. I'm a bit spiritual that way. Thanks for watching and I appreciate the comments. ❤️

    • @sydneyevans2637
      @sydneyevans2637 Месяц назад

      @@TonyTheAntonio Badass was his job. An act of humanity was his calling that day. You may have been a reflection of his younger self. You never know. Some people are good at seeing the potential in others. I'm glad your channel came my way today.

  • @TonyTheAntonio
    @TonyTheAntonio Месяц назад

    In preparation ahead of the 3-minute shorts, I wanted to explore a different format for expressing myself with this video. Many of us have faced financial hardship at some point, and I wanted to capture the fear, uncertainty, and difficult adjustments that come with it. This story reflects the tough choices we have to make to get through those challenging times. I hope it resonates with anyone who’s ever struggled to make ends meet. Thanks for watching in advance. Share your appreciated thoughts in the comments.

  • @leesamuels5897
    @leesamuels5897 Месяц назад

    I can relate to your experience

    • @TonyTheAntonio
      @TonyTheAntonio Месяц назад

      Anything points in particular? I totally recall those moments where I avoided a neighbor because I "hated" the part where he was further ahead in life and he was a nice guy :-). I am glad I can talk and laugh about it now and not be that person anymore. Thank for watching. You are appreciated.

  • @juliayoung7662
    @juliayoung7662 Месяц назад

    Ty I can relate

  • @Nothankyouhun
    @Nothankyouhun Месяц назад

    I feel this :(

  • @sidcomegys4154
    @sidcomegys4154 Месяц назад

    Ive always found this curious. We can go back and forth on the trauma, but i dont see context to that; why is it that the sight of perception irates so many? Maybe have there not been enough pain? Entropy and tirals are the base line of existence, so you see a picture perfect person or scenario; have you ever seen one of those people work a full shift on a broken shin, you think if we got hit by a solar flare they would make it past the first 7 months? Whats with all this people being ate by hate; why sre you not making use of loathing and learn something new, disgust is susposed to bring change not stagnation. Any one have insight on why people believe that economics isn't diametric?

  • @JasonS42
    @JasonS42 Месяц назад

    I may be mistaken here but it seems to me that your issue wasn't one of hatred at all. It seems to me that what's really being expressed is envy. In my experience, hatred is a potent mix of anger, frustration, and disgust directed towards someone who has violated a norm I hold sacred. I think hatred is reserved for those we feel are irredeemably harmful to those around them. I think hatred is reserved towards someone that you would feel no regret in killing, maiming or inflicting pain if you were to act on that hatred. I think hatred is the emotion that enables cruelty. I suppose it's possible that what I call hatred is also mislabeled though.

    • @TonyTheAntonio
      @TonyTheAntonio Месяц назад

      Hi @JasonS42, I really appreciate your comment! You make a good point. I think you’re right-what I was feeling was more envy than actual hatred. It definitely wasn’t the deep, intense hatred you’re describing-the kind that comes from feeling wronged or violated. For me, it was more about frustration and bitterness building up over time, without realizing how much it was affecting my mindset. Like, I’d get envious of families that seemed perfect or had money, and I ended up hating the fact that mine was broken and struggling. I guess when all those negative feelings pile up, it can feel like hate, even if it’s not as intense as what you’re talking about. You really gave me something to think about-thanks for that!

    • @JasonS42
      @JasonS42 Месяц назад

      @@TonyTheAntonio My pleasure!

  • @gratuitousfootnote1183
    @gratuitousfootnote1183 Месяц назад

    This was a great video, thank you

    • @TonyTheAntonio
      @TonyTheAntonio Месяц назад

      Glad you enjoyed it and I appreciate you.

  • @Millionaire-Paul
    @Millionaire-Paul Месяц назад

    I think we all have something to learn from you Tony. Warm wishes from Millionaire Paul 👋

  • @Millionaire-Paul
    @Millionaire-Paul Месяц назад

    Absolutely total full respect my friend. We all grow together but it has to start from within 🙏 Warm wishes from Millionaire Paul 👋

  • @jamestrent-nw9zb
    @jamestrent-nw9zb Месяц назад

    Sorry to hear about your disabled cat. My cat (Malcolm) is dyslexic as well and has always had trouble with the word Xylophone (and Malcolm is Xenophobic too) but also, being a Jewish cat, Malcolm will never lift a paw on a Saturday, due to Saturday being the Jewish Sabbath. Having said all that I do have some intriguing Aunts & Uncles...for my birthday last month they bought me a Combine Harvester, a Scanning, Tunnelling Electron Microscope, an Optical Time Domain Reflectometer, a Pair of Long Stripy Socks and a chocolate frog. Oh yes, nearly forgot...and a Pair of Bluetooth Metal Detecting Wellingtons, which are excellent for walking around a wet field to hopefully detect any metal objects (without having to carry any hand held instruments) and there is a headphone which receives the Bluetooth signal from the Wellingtons...Beep Beep Bip Bip Bip. This is what happens when fat women get King Boko haircuts.

  • @hermes667
    @hermes667 Месяц назад

    Short on point. I worked as a craftsman for 20 years. Friends used to ask for help with moving and crafting, which I always gave. As I get older I bought a house. After renovating the house with my brother, I turned to the garden. My brother was ill that time and could not help me. So I invited all friends which I helped before to a whatsapp-group and asked if we could arange to clear a part of the garden from all bushes and trees (I planed beds for vetables), with an invitation to barbecue at the evening. Out of 8, one offered help. 2 refused with strange excuses and the rest remained silent for two days. I left the group and did it all my own. The one who offered help is still my friend, I helped him later again, he helped my with another project. I never talked to the silent ones that I was disappointed of them, but some of them may got an idea of whats wrong. Others asked later for help as if nothing happens, but I refused to help them with just a "sry, but I have no time to help you". They never asked again, never heard of them again, they never ended our friendship in any way (ghosting is an topic of its own). But after all it was one of my biggest disappointments in life. I helped them a lot and asked only once for an afternoon of help. The other thing was my family. I was the only craftsman in the family and they always asked me even for the simplest tasks. While my brothers sat in their chairs and eat cake i was fixing something, mowing the lawn, cutting trees or whatever. "Because you are the most experinced in this and you do it quickly without need for asking twice" my mother said. While I do not refuse my mothers requests (she is over 80 and needs help), I started to put less urgend things on my long term to-do list or even said: I have a lot to do, so ask me next month again if I could remove that tree. Today I have less people around me who pretend to be my friends.

  • @thinkmirror8507
    @thinkmirror8507 Месяц назад

    I resonate with your video

  • @TonyTheAntonio
    @TonyTheAntonio Месяц назад

    One surprising thing I realized as I grew up, even after getting an education, was how much we’re taught to work for someone else, get old, and then retire. But what no one ever emphasized, and what I never learned in school, was the importance of understanding assets and liabilities. This knowledge is key to building a stable financial future. Another crucial lesson was figuring out how to break free from the cycle of 'working for someone else'-the path to true financial independence. We’re not meant to be stuck in a system that limits our freedom. We have the power to build a life on our own terms. If you’re dealing with debt or trying to take control of your finances, I hope this video offered you some valuable insights. Feel free to share your experiences, questions, or tips in the comments. Thanks for watching and I appreciate you.

  • @TonyTheAntonio
    @TonyTheAntonio Месяц назад

    Thanks for watching! Remember, persistence and consistency are the keys to achieving your goals. On the first day, I chickened out and got scared with all the math and science classes. College really scared the crap out of me because if things didn't pan out, I would still be on my own and unsure how to survive in life. But I pushed through, and you can too! If you’re struggling right now, just know you’re not alone-keep pushing, one step at a time. Drop your thoughts or share your own journey below! I’d love to hear how you’re staying motivated. And don’t forget to like, subscribe, and hit the bell for more inspiring content.