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Girl. It feels so good to have someone explain my behavior. I am crying because I got into this negative pattern for so long… Yes, presence and wholehearted commitment. Thank you I do have the ability to shift my life. I love your videos, please make more if you can! 💕

The fact that im an INFJ attracted to the ISTP personality lol I just need to find an ISTP man in my life, they are the wholo opposite of me, I think thats the reason, I just love how independent and self-eficient they are, I wish to have more of that in my life, and for some kind of reason they intrigue me

Your so freaking fine.

My dad is an istp. My entire existence offends his gnat sized Fe.

mam u are an enfp with an istp husband/boyfriend

So well articulated! I'd want to know what an ISTP needs from an INFJ lol if you ever get around to that.

by default infjs are born with closed doors... no other could understand that. Even if there is light.. it is always too far, infj can only delve in chances that are likely designed for them. otherwise doors will be closed no matter how much efforts are being set in.

The “dinner” predicament is me 100% I hate when my husband asks me “what’s for dinner?” at 7am. Ugh!!!!!

ISTP here. I had no idea I was so popular. Plz keep massaging my ego

We are still better though. -INFJ

They are funny, surprisingly intelligent at times, but they have some blind spots, if they haven’t done much inner work. They are also late bloomers, but can be remarkably creative and productive, later in life - they are certainly fun, a touch stubborn. I’m a more independent INFJ so the alone time and the hobbies are essential, and I’m less methodical than you sound. I’m on the edge barely on the judging side, so I’m a bit more adventurous as well. So interesting…Impressive video. -INFJ

This is such a great video, I felt as it was so relatable. Definitely got some good pointers with how I interact with other as an Infj. I’m working really hard on socializing and getting out of my upbringing of being anti-social. It’s a great Adventure and I’m enjoying the self discovery I’m embarking on! Thank you for this video! :D

INFJs also have the capacity to be the most productive once they make the switch🙌

You explained everything perfectly, I’m an ISTP and my fiancé is an INFJ, we learn so much from each other

Aww this was nice to hear 😊 this is a new type for me. Im infj... only thing that didn't relate is that I'm also pretty chill... the istp is way more anxious than i am lol.... and I'm pretty happy and joyful in life. Sounds like a fun experience

ISTPs seem like too much work.

It boggles my mind why INFJs like me (ISTP) and sometimes I like em back. On paper INFJs are exhausting to be around and kind of bad at life. Then again I'm not one to be dating people based on types...that's astrology-type BS. Oh well I guess I like this shit

You are one of the most helpful person (if not the most) to explain INFJ mechanisms. Your authenticity is fresh and beautiful.

Now I start searching for infj gf 😂 thenks for help❤

I'm INFJ and my bF is ISTP🥰

My ex wife and I could literally do anything together. We moved a whole house in the middle of the night while the kids slept. The kids literally woke up in a different house. Kinda funny.

He might have been burned alot because i wasnt really jealous but like you said could be life experiences.

you said low FE, its the super low FI. If you can get him to work on it, it will get better. What I do it attempt to listen to my wife for ten minutes (when she is venting). Thats my effort. Her effort is to release me from my obligation if I get too overwhelmed. This allows me freedom and growth without feeling guilty. Finally, I know you said wait till the end but I am an ISTP and you married one so you already know..... =-) =-) BTW I LOVE MY INFJ FRIENDS, I always have atleast one. They are theeee bestest. so im not dogging you just talking =-) inferior FE =-)

ISTPs biologically cant handle that much emotion. There is a thing called viral emotions. When you are angry he will feel it whether you want him to or not.

We are only sensitive to a handful of people. INFJs can be super rough as well in their personal relationsjhips

My advice as an ISTP (no offense) but skip the INFJ and go straight to ENFP. Im telling you if you can get past the quirky way they tend to act, they are fing amazing. =-)

Yeah its an echo chamber relationship

Get me rid of laziness and procastination. I can't even imagine how big I'll become if these two will be an absense in my life. I've been scholar with very less hours put in compared to other like 5:1 or like 8:1 and still beat them. But it was a time when I had to in system. Now there is no pressure and kind of no goal either.. there are deadlines in work but I just not seem to care and don't care at all in climbing corporate ladder!

INFJ (F) married to an ISTP (M). I will say this as nicely as I can. My husband is very...one dimensional. If I could go back, I'm not sure I would get married to anyone at all; I'm not sure there is anyone in human form that would fit me. I don't believe in soulmates anymore. If anything, we are our *own* soulmates... In my journey of emotional health, I have come to this internal realization that *everything* I need...is already inside me. Sometimes we just have to know how to use our keys to open each lock inside us, but it's all inside of us already. There is nothing external to you that could ever have something you *need*...it's simply not how the universe works. Things or people outside of us can be lovely, we can cherish them, enjoy them for the temporary time we have with them...but we are complete inside ourselves. If a person finds themselves yearning for something external to themselves or feeling empty and incomplete, it's a sign that *internal* works needs to be done, not stuffing away the feeling with more *external* things. This is all just my perspective of course, but I feel very strongly about it. Had to experience a horrendous amount of pain to be gifted with these realizations. Love to you all.

your lack of sense of advanture has nothing to do with you r personality type, I am an INFJ and I love sports

This is a delightful segment! It does feel like there's a weird sort of harmony and appreciation between infj and istp. I can see how there would be some challenging growth in long term relationships, friendships--and rewarding outcomes.

Thanks for your videos. Im an infj male with an istp female. Not married but we like eachother alot...infatuated? We'll see how it goes in the long run 🤞

Hey I'd really appreciate if you could answer -- is your husband a secure attachment style? It seems ISTPs generally lean dismissive avoidant. My 8 year relationship with my ISTP recently ended with a lot of attachment style issues becoming big deals. I still can't totally understand what parts were him being an ISTP and what was him having an avoidant attachment style.

Hey! I saw your message on my YT page :) Love your videos. I've been watching TONS of INFJ videos since my seperation and I can't believe I never came across your page. Send me a DM on iG if you want :)

would like to add that you have the( immature infj )that seemingly only live in their head, wants, thoughts ect.. and has a tough time coming out of that space to make those things happen. then you as you mature as an infj doing those chores,Goals and forward movement become your dominant functions. This all comes with age , so dont worry! and once you come into that level of your mature infj personality , nothing can stand in your way💓

I'm an infj my spouse is an istp, I love to have deep intelligent conversations and he's more surface-level speaking about sports, and work. I wish I could understand how to get him to internally understand that I need him! Lol! to have more intelligent conversation ,even though our education are very different. I know he's capable, but at times I get so extremely frustrated, because I love him to death! and I want to share things with him. I need for him to be interested in what I'm sharing, don't know why I'm venting this?. on here? but if anyone has any advice I would love to hear it! thank you 💓

My ISTP is strangely very romantic. Very thoughtful and buys me flowers constantly. Tapping into his 4th function a surprising amount.

Love this video. INFJ female married to an ISTP male here. I had always assumed I would marry a fellow intuitive type, namely an INTJ, because of the extremely deep intellectual and emotional connection I had with some in the past. However, when I met my ISTP man, all of my previous (conscious or subconscious) assumptions came crashing down. He's the most amazing person I have ever had the privilege of meeting. We also complement each other seamlessly, while still having enough overlap/things in common to keep things fun. I know this is not the same for every ISTP (they all have their *own* unique talents and strengths), but the extremely logical side of my brain is so blown away by how this man can build or fix legitimately *anything* he puts his hands on. I'm talking he's a master mechanic, was a certified electrician (not just electric around the house; even knows how to fix *high-tension power lines* and anything at substations), is UDOT-certified and is the man *semi truck* drivers call when they are in a bind/slid off the road/crashed, as he knows exactly what to do (and how to do so in a pinch/while under pressure). He can (and has) built an entire house from the ground up completely himself. He also was a paramedic and I've seen him knowing exactly what to do to save a person's life after an accident. He's also an Electrical Engineer and all of the calculus and "high-level" mathematics I took (for my MS in Bioengineering) - he completely understands, which is one of the ways I feel very intellectually satiated and understood around him. The emotional side of my INFJ brain loves how tender-hearted and compassionate he is, and just what a loving, sweet soul he is. He's also very romantic, especially for an ISTP. (Quite a developed Fe.) He constantly surprises me with flowers and other little gestures just out of the blue. I worked as a (low-level) mechanic when I was younger and always had a huge passion for all things internal combustion engine. He *loved* when we met how anything he was working on at his mechanic shop - I would be crawling under the truck and asking him about *everything* and trying to take the tools from him to try to do it myself, ha...I assumed it was annoying as all hell but he told me way later that he had loved it...still does. (Melts my heart.) Anyhow, all things mechanical = one of the "overlap" things we have in common that makes it so fun. We definitely have differences in how we each communicate (although I have this experience with every sensor type I've ever known), but we've both always been incredibly motivated to do what it takes to work through any miscommunications (which I think has been the key). I didn't find him until I was in my 30s...I had written off that the universe had anyone for me, had completely stopped dating for years...because of some life-changing and gutting experiences in the past when dating (including a horrific death). And then when I least expected it, there he was. Just in case any of that ^ is any benefit to anyone else. Apologies for writing a whole book! :)

So few views for such an insightful video

Thank you so much for speaking on this. So helpful. ❤

I'm an ISTP woman and not sure if I've met any INFJ men before... INFJ is so rare! This pairing sounds pretty interesting. 😝

Me too on too much alone time.

My istp likes to stay home and game. Yours sounds like me, I like hikes and going places.

I saw a guy talk about istp and infj relationships as a train wreck. He showed their functions as a long wires crossing diagram. You are more encouraging. Married to 1 and want it to work.

I'm freezing physically all the time.

Loveeeee this series an infj here thank you for making this marrying an istp

As an older ISTP in a long term relationship with an INFJ (38 yrs!), I have one simple comment: "Amen". 😁

I have issues don't get me wrong but I feel my infjism helped me to see God in everything. With archaeology and science there is sooooo much proving the Bible as true. Lee Strobel, Case for Christ. Kent Hovind, Lies in the Textbooks. Noah's Ark, Red Sea crossing, Ark of the Covenant, Sodom and Gommorah have all been found, Hezekiah's door handle. The Creator of the Universe loves you, He made you and wants you to come back to Him. There are only 2 choices, God the Creator and His angels and Satan and his demons. All else is deception. Jesus died for our sins so if we accept His sacrifice we can live with Him in eternity. He will give you peace and help you overcome all sins that hurt us. I had an overeating disorder, Jesus helped me overcome it and now I can eat like a normal person. I am working on more now. I feel He led me here to save my marriage. Thank you! God loves you, please put your faith in Jesus. He can save your hide and your soul if you let Him in.

I just love you. Wanting world peace. How do I get myself back and keep a minimalist home? I was beat down over clutter and rebelled. I have a hard time getting back to who I am, stuff overwhelms me.

#4 Is why I left my church. Our pastor died, 2 kids of fellow members committed suicide. Feeling everyone's grief. 1 person wouldn't speak to me when we were friends prior. A child was bullying mine and parents allowed dark things to be around her and allowed her cruelty. I tried to stay in class to observe. I felt alienated for trying to protect my child. All was just too much for my infj self and codependent aspect. Working on that now.