Today with Terri K
Today with Terri K
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Worst Decluttering Advice & the TRUTH that Works for Me
Worst decluttering advice & the truth that works for me. I am guilty of buying the books and watching all the decluttering advice on RUclips, Instagram, and TikTok but some of the things that I see are just bad! As someone who knows first hand how hard it is to deal with clutter and hoarding, I can tell you that when you have a lot of clutter, some decluttering advice actually makes it worse.
If you struggle with hoarding, clutter, or knows someone who needs help, please check out hoarding.iocdf.org/ for info on local resources.
00:00 Worst decluttering advice & the truth that works for me
00:48 #1 Worst advice for decluttering
01:08 The reality of a big declutter
01:55 STOP listening to this ...
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Видео

Seriously the 👉ONLY👈 Weekly Home Routine You Need!
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Seriously the 👉ONLY👈 Weekly Home Routine You Need! I have tried so hard becoming that mom with the perfect house, making it looks so easy. ⭐️Get monthly motivation & download your Free Baby Steps Tracker witty-knitter-223.ck.page/80d89e9df7 From FlyLady to Clean Mama and about a ton of other cleaning routines that failed. When you can't seem to make other cleaning routines work, build your own ...
🧼Adulting 101: 20+ lazy cleaning habits THAT WORK!🧼
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20 lazy cleaning habits that I have found to help keep the house looking cleaner longer. Cleaning for lazy people or cleaver shortcuts for smart people...either way, get ahead of the mess and make the house look cleaner longer! 00:00 Lazy cleaning hacks or cleaver shortcuts? 00:45 Simple, easy cleaning solutions 01:00 Hacks for keeping a cleaner kitchen all of the time 05:30 Get more laundry do...
BATHROOM CLEAN WITH ME IN LESS THAN 10 MINUTES! (QUICK CLEANING 2024)
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Bathroom clean with me in less than 10 minutes for those weeks when life is too crazy and you just need to catch up. I can honestly say that cleaning the bathroom is high on the list of things that I do NOT want to do! If you are a reforming messy mom like I am, shadow cleaning/body doubling can actually help keep you focused on getting the bathroom cleaned as quickly as possible. In today's vi...
I Disappeared for 2 Weeks, here is what happened…kids, marriage, cat?
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In this video, I share the surprising aftermath of my 2 week disappearance and reveal the unexpected challenges I faced upon my return. Join me as I recount the lessons learned during my time away and how long it took me to bounce back from the unexpected turn of events. If you're curious about the impact of taking a break and coming back stronger, this video is a must-watch! 00:00 I disappeare...
Unlock the Secrets of Top YouTubers' Decluttering Techniques.
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These Top RUclipsrs decluttering advice will take the overwhelm out of getting started decluttering. In this 15 minute video, the best tips and tricks on declutter are shared by some of the top youtubers. Whether you are trying to start decluttering or have been stuck in the middle of a big declutter project, you will find decluttering truths to make decluttering easier and more efficient. This...
10 Budget-Friendly Home Organization Tips & Ideas
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Simple and easy home organization on a budget is the goal today. Check out my personal favorite money saving organization tools that I use in my house right now: Magnetic shelf: amzn.to/3xCrSDP Bamboo Stackable Shoe Rack: amzn.to/4aXROIE 2 pk Can Rack: amzn.to/3UkDXGI 2 pk Over Door Hooks: amzn.to/449e4Nu Over Door Shoe Org: amzn.to/3xB4cQ9 3 tier Shoe Rack: amzn.to/3vUZb4B Plastic Drawer Org B...
The 9 Most Common Time Wasters (around the house) & How to Save Time Instead!
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Today let's talk about the 9 most common time wasters when cleaning the house and how to save time and money when cleaning. If you don't love cleaning, why make cleaning harder for yourself? A simple change in cleaning can actually save time vs waste time cleaning. I am not a naturally tidy person so I have had to learn to keep the house clean using these simple cleaning tips to stop wasting ti...
Oven Cleaning Hack: The Secret to No Scrubbing!
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Today I am sharing this oven cleaning hack & secret to not scrubbing the oven and you are going to love it! I must confess, I hate cleaning my oven. I don't like scrubbing my oven. I have tried all the oven cleaning hacks and they are not as easy as promised. 00:00 Easiest way to clean my oven 00:13 Busy mom struggle to clean oven 00:50 Cleaning oven with me 02:23 The secret to not scrubbing th...
9 Things I Always Clean for Spring! come clean with me...
Просмотров 9004 месяца назад
If you call it Spring Cleaning or Zone Cleaning, today I am sharing the 9 things I always clean for spring! Finally I am seeing some sunshine and flowers which makes me more excited about cleaning. I love my FlyLady Cleaning Routines but I honestly struggle to keep up with zone cleaning. Today I am sharing the 9 things that NEED cleaning around my house that I sometimes forget. 00:00 Is it Spri...
Effortless Spring Cleaning Guide for Busy Moms
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In this video, I'm sharing my Effortless Spring Cleaning Guide for Busy Moms. 🔥 Join me for this FREE menu planning workshop to get 1 month ahead 👉 witty-knitter-223.ck.page/6d35fe3652 🔥 Download this cute printable menu planning bundle👉todaywithterrik.com/shop-today-with-terri-k/#!/ ❤️Ways I can help you even more:❤️ ⭐️Free Baby Steps Tracker Printable: witty-knitter-223.ck.page/80d89e9df7 ⭐️S...
Get In On The Spring Cleaning Action With Flylady!
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What does FlyLady say about spring cleaning? You might be surprised! Today we are discussing the ins and outs of spring cleaning with flylady. As the sun starts to shine, I actually WANT to spring clean. It is a time to freshen up the house, get rid of clutter, and do a little more than the flylady zone cleaning. 00:00 What does FlyLady say about spring cleaning? 01:07 Where to start spring cle...
2024 Spring Cleaning for ADHD & Super Busy Moms
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Today we kick off 2024 Spring Cleaning with a free spring cleaning checklist that is perfect for adhd and busy moms. Join the newsletter for real life tips at witty-knitter-223.ck.page/cb68fc4689 or just grab the checklist here: drive.google.com/file/d/1EVYlQEvwIYhdraDSaVH6i1DJO1W_srRx/view?usp=drive_link Before diving into Spring Cleaning 2024 fully, we need to tackle the basics of spring clea...
Whole House Cleaning Marathon: ultimate night catch-up clean | FlyLady fail extreme home reset
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In today's video, join me for a whole house cleaning marathon. I usually follow the FlyLady, but getting back from a trip and sick caused a FlyLady fail! As promised the BEST business coaching: wanderingaimfully.com/join/ref/424/ I finally got a burst of energy so tonight it is the ultimate after dark cleaning motivation. A good catch-up clean is exactly what I need so that I can reset the hous...
Completing The Flylady Baby Steps
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Completing The Flylady Baby Steps
POWER UP YOUR ROUTINE: Week 3 of the FlyLady Baby Steps
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POWER UP YOUR ROUTINE: Week 3 of the FlyLady Baby Steps
Building a strong foundation: Week 2 of the FlyLady BabySteps
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Building a strong foundation: Week 2 of the FlyLady BabySteps
Week 1 of the FlyLady Baby Steps: Let's Do This Together!
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Week 1 of the FlyLady Baby Steps: Let's Do This Together!
11 Game Changing Mom Hacks that will ACTUALLY Make Your Life BETTER😳
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11 Game Changing Mom Hacks that will ACTUALLY Make Your Life BETTER😳
STAY AT HOME MOM DIGITAL PLANNER: Flip Through of my TIDY Life Digital Planner
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STAY AT HOME MOM DIGITAL PLANNER: Flip Through of my TIDY Life Digital Planner
Step-by-Step Installing a NEW Digital Planner: 2024 Edition
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Step-by-Step Installing a NEW Digital Planner: 2024 Edition
ADHD Adulting DIGITAL PLANNER: Flip Through of my Planning with a Purpose Digital Planner
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ADHD Adulting DIGITAL PLANNER: Flip Through of my Planning with a Purpose Digital Planner
LET GO OF THE CLUTTER: Declutter your home in 15 minutes with FlyLady
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LET GO OF THE CLUTTER: Declutter your home in 15 minutes with FlyLady
BUSY MOMS DIGITAL PLANNER: Flip Through of my Beautiful Life Digital Planner
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BUSY MOMS DIGITAL PLANNER: Flip Through of my Beautiful Life Digital Planner
Drawer Clean Out: 2024 Decluttering Challenge & Cleaning Reboot
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Drawer Clean Out: 2024 Decluttering Challenge & Cleaning Reboot
Day After Christmas Clean with Me getting things tidy when I don't feel like it
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Day After Christmas Clean with Me getting things tidy when I don't feel like it
Say goodbye to overwhelming cleaning and get out of your rut in time for the holidays!
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Say goodbye to overwhelming cleaning and get out of your rut in time for the holidays!
BIG DECISIONS, BIG NEWS, AND DEEP CLEANING
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BIG DECISIONS, BIG NEWS, AND DEEP CLEANING
Guided Kitchen Rescue Clean with Me for 20 minutes!
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Guided Kitchen Rescue Clean with Me for 20 minutes!
15 Quick HACKS for BUSY MOMS to Save Time and Your Sanity! 🤯
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15 Quick HACKS for BUSY MOMS to Save Time and Your Sanity! 🤯

Комментарии

  • @lovefortruth3414
    @lovefortruth3414 7 часов назад

    Hello Terri...just want you to know that I've been thinking of you and praying for you, especially yesterday...I felt a nudge to pray for you specifically. I hope all is well with you. I appreciate the prayerss that you pour out for all of us. Have a blessed day! 😊❤

  • @jackennis9533
    @jackennis9533 3 дня назад

    is the duster soft and fluffy?

  • @doodsanddudes
    @doodsanddudes 10 дней назад

    Great cleaning tips ;)

    • @TodaywithTerriK
      @TodaywithTerriK 2 дня назад

      Thanks! 😊Do you do anything differently for back to school like declutter or revamp your routines?

  • @lovefortruth3414
    @lovefortruth3414 12 дней назад

    Haha! I'm hinking now, my approach IS kind of a combo of the 2, but in Flylady form, if that makes sense. I have my zones fone over a week's time, and my Weekly Home Blessing, Swish and Swipe, and all the things Flylafy stylr. However, my break down of my Weekly zjome znlessing and my Zone Cleaning are similar to Clean Mamma or the 3-wave sydtem. S9, in my Weekly Jome Blessing, I do eaither ip to 3 really smalm weekly tasks or one large tasks (mopping, even the simple mopping, takes me more like an hour or so, gor exsmple), pet day for 6 days. And for zone cleaning, with each zone, I focuse on only 1 type of seasonal or rotational task each day for 5 days. So, I save Weekly mopping and vacuuming for days 4 and 5, and I'll do simple vmopoing and vacuiming in my msin areas, but then detail mop or vacuim in whichever xone I'm in a zone that I'm still foing major de-cluttering in. I am not about to tske out tge same cleaning supplies very single day.

    • @TodaywithTerriK
      @TodaywithTerriK 10 дней назад

      Agree! I’ve been using the FlyLady as a routine foundation but Clean Mama has so many elements that I like by tackling one task at a time. I’ve even considered joining her society so I can go deeper and learn more…

    • @lovefortruth3414
      @lovefortruth3414 10 дней назад

      @TodaywithTerriK also, I recently switched my Swish abd Swipe to evenings. I already have a Tobe of things thstcare not on Flylady list fie ny mirning routibe before I even sut down fie ny tea; planning and such. I've found, in tge oadt week or so; my evening routibe us actually starting f to get a lityle quicker and easier, since msking that switch. You'd hiding adding one more thing after dinner would mske it longer. Nut it just clicks for me. Doing that and dojng the final daily clean-up in t he kitchen then a quick sweep through yhe main areas with a vroom at yhe end of yhe day, gives my house that final dsily reset lolk and feel, and my bathrooms ate already company ready when I get up in the morning. I serioisly just taje a tissue or dry wash cloth to dry gge insude of the sink after brushing my teeth in tge morning. The "slightly" more detailed touch-up of the toilets and sinks are already fine before I go to bed.

  • @violetsinspring5863
    @violetsinspring5863 14 дней назад

    Hi Teri! Thanks for this video. I’ve been doing Flylady for 7 years now. I agree that the FL website confused me so bad at first. I started following Flylady Kat and it made all the difference!!! Flylady works! It’s the best plan ever for me! Thank you❤

  • @dazzleree
    @dazzleree 18 дней назад

    Such a thoughtful and honest take on decluttering! Thanks for sharing your insights and practical advice. 🙏

  • @laurahanson3749
    @laurahanson3749 20 дней назад

    I do exercises whilst doing housework great workout as is gardening 💐

  • @Jasmine-j4c
    @Jasmine-j4c 20 дней назад

    Great job lady❤!!!

  • @sflasaint811
    @sflasaint811 26 дней назад

    When I was younger and working I just cleaned the whole house on Saturday morning and did all the laundry on Monday night. I wish I could do that now but I'm older so I have to do a little at a time or I'd be in traction. 😂

    • @TodaywithTerriK
      @TodaywithTerriK 17 дней назад

      I certainly have to pace myself more now!

  • @suz6593
    @suz6593 26 дней назад

    I needed this! Thank you 🥰

  • @rachelfrght3841
    @rachelfrght3841 28 дней назад

    I’ve never been to her website but I’ve been using her app for two years

  • @sherrymazza2133
    @sherrymazza2133 28 дней назад

    The sweeper works well on our outdoor rug on the deck

  • @innamuthmainnah6942
    @innamuthmainnah6942 Месяц назад

    Hi....thanks for ur vidio i am sure i can do it....i have problem about cleaning, dont know starting from where n i am fell alone doing cleaning...btw my husband canadian n i am Indonesian alot argue between US is about cleaning...hope this Will help me

    • @TodaywithTerriK
      @TodaywithTerriK 26 дней назад

      Please let me know how it goes. I would love to help!

  • @TheKatelinn
    @TheKatelinn Месяц назад

    I found fly Lady in 2008 also, never quite got the hang of it. I do manage some things daily, but need to restart this thing. Oh watching more of your video..we are the same person 😮❤😅

  • @mobilehomemama5
    @mobilehomemama5 Месяц назад

    Hey sweet friend ❤ I was happy to see a new video up. I hope you are enjoying your summer! My poor house looks terrible after a busy VBS week. I’m going to rest today and reset tomorrow.

    • @TodaywithTerriK
      @TodaywithTerriK Месяц назад

      Ah, I miss VBS! Crazy times but so worth it. My house is a mess and I’m crazy too. Things are a bit off schedule but I’m needed for the family a lot right now. I have some fun ideas but just not home long enough to film!

  • @charlabillington6273
    @charlabillington6273 Месяц назад

    I still have a Kirby. My husband bought it at a garage sale for $20.00 about 15 years ago. I mostly use one of my lighter weight vacuums now.

    • @TodaywithTerriK
      @TodaywithTerriK Месяц назад

      It’s a beast which is why I was so excited to get a stick vac!

  • @susanhoward2305
    @susanhoward2305 Месяц назад

    I hang a clean dish towel inside the door of my dishwasher when the cycle is done. It absorbs the moisture clinging to the dishes. I may have to blot a little water from items that don’t have flat bottoms, but otherwise dishes are dry

  • @charlysimone8999
    @charlysimone8999 Месяц назад

    Hi Terry. I’m Cindy, 68, I work as a flight attendant, still working, grown kids and have 5 cats. Your video popped up today so I listened as I wanted some motivation while attempting to clean. I felt your genuine message and wanted to thank you. Then i put on another and then I put on this video to listen. I want to add that I first found Flylady in her beginnings in 1999. I have been trying to find a routine and tried her systems off n on since then to create less chaos and nothing has worked. I’m exhausted of trying and at this point in my life, I’d just like to have some sense of organization and routine before I die and so frustrated that I cannot get on board like so many other people. Like Many others I’ve tried many other systems and watched other tubers, books, etc, like most people I find that the fly ladies website is overwhelming. I thought that in 1999 and I still think it today but I do think she has a lot of good baseline ideas and I think she’s amazing because she has created and opened the door for so many RUclipsrs and made them money with their businesses and helped so many people, She truly is the queen and deserves upmost respect. Well…. today I am once again starting over and trying after 25 years of no success. I might add, . I have had success off n on for about 2 weeks ish and then I fall apart …back to the drawing board. I am the one who just does a 24 hour rush insane clean the house if I have to and I get it all done… it looks fantastic but then it’s soon falls apart because most of the stuff wasn’t put away in a proper place as I never know where to store it as I have storing issues. So it will get stuffed in the closet, etc., or putting bags in the shed etc. Am I the only person Who can’t figure it out in 25 years? ( rhetorical question) for me, it isn’t just routines. It’s trying to find a place in my small house for items with my five cats ( one just passed after 23 years ) trying to figure out where to put things with no closet space etc., I have decluttered, I have joined Facebook decluttering groups. I started my own Facebook Declutter group and made friends. . I’ve bought apps , my other hone had a basement and seemed to be more organized then, and I’ve bought book’s, I’ve given away tons and tons of items and I regret giving away so many . .. by the way people say they never regret giving stuff away, I’ve regretted it and I’ve bought many items back . I just feel like I’m completely different than everybody else. .. I have a love of so many things that I like to do and still want to try to do but of course the lack of routine and organization just throws a wrench in most things. All this in combination with my zero work schedule causes chaos and anxiety because I never have the same schedule . Well, I’m going back to try to start again. At least I don’t give up, but I don’t think I’m gonna have success. ( oops, yes so I know not suppose to be negative but after 25 years of trying I’m guilty ………I do think that when I pass I will never reach this simple goal of trying to have a neat and tidy home so that someone could just come in at any time without being worried because that’s the way I’ve lived my entire life. Any suggestions? Lol

    • @TodaywithTerriK
      @TodaywithTerriK Месяц назад

      Nice to meet you! I can feel your frustration and I sympathize. I can only offer up ideas based on what has worked for me-a recovering hot mess that isn't naturally a perfectionist. First, I had to figure out what a happy home looks like for me...my mom was perfectly tidy and strictly clean but I cannot live that sterile life. So, I figured out my level of "comfy clean" that I try to keep. Basically I am ok with a slightly lived in look. We have animals, live in the country, and make messes but I don't ever want to smell animals or see piles of anything (paper, shoes, clothes). Once you have the vision of how you want YOUR house to be (realistically) then look at the 3-5 trigger points that are driving you crazy. I had to buy an auto feeder and water system so I didn't have that to deal with and a large covered litter box to stop the mess on the floor. I also invested in a Roomba to maintain the floors. Anything that I can do to limit piles, so baskets on the bathroom counters to catch makeup and in the living room for all of the blankets/pillows/toys. It helps me to just be able to toss them into a basket instead of having to "put things away". I started with my dishes/sink because it caused me a ton of anxiety to see and/or smell it. It did not happen overnight. If you can start tidying as you go...basically if you get up to go to the kitchen see if anything needs to go back and take it. We eat in the living room so this saves me sooo much mess from trash and plates! Figure out that one thing that is the tipping point for you and then find a solution to make it better every day you are home. Once you're consistently seeing progress, try to add one more thing. I am talking 15 min or less. I am 100% not spending hours doing anything, small chunks of time. Since you travel a crazy schedule, planning will eventually be your saving grace but if you don't already plan I would not try to be elaborate with it. On Sunday night, I list out all the things going on this week and what I need to do. It just helps me focus and face things without being surprised. I hope this helps.

  • @conniewagler7089
    @conniewagler7089 Месяц назад

    Thank you! This answered a lot of my questions! 😊

  • @sherrysmith4592
    @sherrysmith4592 Месяц назад

    Girl I agree 100% with you!!! Also I am one of those who struggle with sentimental things bc all my family has passed.

    • @TodaywithTerriK
      @TodaywithTerriK Месяц назад

      It is really hard to be objective if you are the one responsible for keep the memories. I have one aunt and mother alive and my aunt did not have kids so I will be her beneficiary as well. That means that I will be the only one to keep family stuff left. I know it will be really hard!

  • @vickiemckinney1004
    @vickiemckinney1004 Месяц назад

    I enjoyed this video. There are suggestions about cleaning/decluttering that don't work for me. I need to work on one shelf or drawer at a time. Pulling everything out of my pantry at once is overwhelming.

    • @judylynnturner
      @judylynnturner Месяц назад

      @@vickiemckinney1004 I understand that feeling. I did my kitchen over a few months by doing 1 shelf, 1 drawer, and 1 tiny cabinet section at a time. You can do it! Progress over perfection!

    • @TodaywithTerriK
      @TodaywithTerriK Месяц назад

      I pulled everything out of my pantry a few years ago and it helped me to feel more organized because I moved into my hubby's house and had no idea what he had anywhere. That being said, I learned that the cabinets were a mess because of a terrible design...very deep and narrow cabinets. I never did find a great way to make it look "good". Basically, I worked too hard and got way overwhelmed to put it back in basically the same way. Really bad idea.

  • @qtluvBilly3
    @qtluvBilly3 Месяц назад

    I've been doing her system since 2004. Reading her book Sink Reflections is probably the best way to get a grasp of her system. While it took me awhile to read through things on the website at the time, which was different back then, it wasn't at all complicated once I read more and got the hang of it and it became more familiar. There's really 3 main parts, and they are all simple unless we complicate it with perfectionism. Daily routines, weekly home blessing and zone. I've tried other systems, and I always go back to FlyLady. There tends to be much more of wanting instant everything now days, and perhaps that plays a part in why people quit many things, not just FlyLady.

    • @TodaywithTerriK
      @TodaywithTerriK Месяц назад

      I agree 100%. I got lost in the website but when I got the book it all made sense. The app is great too. However, you still have to actually do the work every day. That is the thing people who never want to clean are running from. I was ready to do better and just needed to learn how. They will come back when they are ready.

  • @Es24688
    @Es24688 Месяц назад

    I randomly downloaded her app because it was free, and I was looking for something to help me. It’s actually quite well organized and easy to edit and get going with.

    • @TodaywithTerriK
      @TodaywithTerriK Месяц назад

      I really enjoyed it when I was looking for something quick and easy to track!

  • @TodaywithTerriK
    @TodaywithTerriK Месяц назад

    Today is a daily declutter in the kids room. This is part of a decluttering challenge and you can jump in anytime and work along with me. Don't forget to grab the decluttering tracker if you want to declutter daily! The trackers are in the Facebook group Today's FlyBabies facebook.com/groups/723582731477234 for you to print or download to your digital planner. Let's have fun and get it done!

  • @TodaywithTerriK
    @TodaywithTerriK Месяц назад

    Welcome to a daily declutter with me in my closet! It is time to dive in...Plus, there are trackers in the Facebook group Today's FlyBabies facebook.com/groups/723582731477234 for you to print or download to your digital planner. Let's have fun and get it done!

  • @TodaywithTerriK
    @TodaywithTerriK Месяц назад

    Back in the closet to finish up the closet declutter. This is an open discussion among friends while we declutter together. If you are just joining, this is part of a daily declutter challenge! Jump in and check out a new video when you are ready to declutter more! 👉Plus, there are trackers in the Facebook group Today's FlyBabies facebook.com/groups/723582731477234 for you to print or download to your digital planner. Let's have fun and get it done!

  • @TodaywithTerriK
    @TodaywithTerriK Месяц назад

    Sorry for the bad audio but this is real life. I had lost the heat with the bad weather but today we are blessed! How are you managing with the decluttering challenge? Grab your decluttering trackers in the Facebook group Today's FlyBabies facebook.com/groups/723582731477234 for you to print or download to your digital planner. Let's have fun and get it done!

  • @TodaywithTerriK
    @TodaywithTerriK Месяц назад

    Daily quick declutter with me to see real progress without the overwhelm! Don't forget to grab your declutter tracker over in the Facebook group to track your progress! facebook.com/groups/723582731477234

  • @TodaywithTerriK
    @TodaywithTerriK Месяц назад

    Congrats on making progress on decluttering your space! It has made a huge impact on me as well. Thank you for taking the time to declutter along with me. This is a series of daily decluttering together so come back tomorrow! Plus, there are decluttering trackers in the Facebook group Today's FlyBabies facebook.com/groups/723582731477234 for you to print or download to your digital planner. Let's have fun and get it done!

  • @TodaywithTerriK
    @TodaywithTerriK Месяц назад

    Do you like this style of "in real life" decluttering videos? This is the real me in my real house...messy hair and all. Progress over perfection in full force. WE DID IT! I am so proud of how much we decluttered during the 2024 Declutter Challenge. 👉Grab your own Digital Planner or Control Journal: todaywithterrik.etsy.com

  • @judylynnturner
    @judylynnturner Месяц назад

    I'm in treatments with a new dr who understands my rare genetic cancer. I'm loving him & the treatment plan! I felt so good that I was able to spend 3 days decluttering with a helper! I'm resting today--it's treatment day. My helper will be back Friday. We will be decluttering the bedroom closet, clothes, and craft supplies. So enjoyed this video! 🥰

    • @TodaywithTerriK
      @TodaywithTerriK Месяц назад

      Thank you for sharing. I think too many people gloss over how "easy" it is to get things done. I am praying for you. In fact, I recently had a biopsy myself and it is so scary. I love that you are using a helper to make progress! Thank you for spending time with me. What is the craziest thing you have found so far?

    • @judylynnturner
      @judylynnturner Месяц назад

      @TodaywithTerriK I found some questionable photos from my husband's time in the Army. We've been together over a decade, and this was the first time seeing them. Ah, to be that young and free spirited again! But I'm so glad he sowed those wild oats and is dearly devoted to me. 🥰

  • @TodaywithTerriK
    @TodaywithTerriK Месяц назад

    Clutter is always trying to sneak into our space...the more people who live with you the harder it becomes! Learning to always be on the lookout for things to donate/toss/sell is key to keeping it under control. What was your takeaway from today? PLEASE encourage each other and let's be a community of kindness and understanding! Thank you for spending time with me today. I appreciate you. If you know anyone who is struggling with hoarding, here is the link: hoarding.iocdf.org/ and if you haven't already joined the newsletter sign up today! witty-knitter-223.ck.page/0b0cb86801 Until I get to see you again, have a blessed week!

  • @lovefortruth3414
    @lovefortruth3414 Месяц назад

    Hey Terri. I have an update on my evening g routine. Lastnight, for the first time in I fon't know when, indtead of taking 2 hours or more to do yhe evening clean-up...it took me...wait for it...1 hr and 15 min! The strategies I've put in place the past few months are now paying off! The one thing, I think, that I ley for me In getting g o. Top of my routines more efficiently, is not to ever quit and start over, but when I get frustrated with jow ling it takes me, just kerp persevering and in the meantime, continue to look for ways to mak even one task easier, or to determine if a task can be done during a different part of the day. And lots of patience with myself. Anyway, just wanted to let you know how it's going, since my evening routines have have a huge struggle for so long. I hope you are having a great day!

    • @TodaywithTerriK
      @TodaywithTerriK Месяц назад

      Congrats!!! I remember when you started off you were so overwhelmed. Just finding that determination to keep going. I love that you have found things that work like the bracelets. I can't wait to see what you figure out next!

    • @lovefortruth3414
      @lovefortruth3414 Месяц назад

      @TodaywithTerriK terri. Thanks! Actually, I've found that good, upbeat classical music, just instrumental, helps me focus during timed cleaning sessions and cooking sessions that need my full focus. I leave videos where someone is talking for tasks that don't need full focus, or for breaks.

  • @sonjaw3805
    @sonjaw3805 Месяц назад

    A belated comment from someone who's just recently found your channel : I can totally relate to your flylady emails comment. They completely overwhelmed me back in 2005 when I tried her system for the first time. It also added to a feeling of failure because I wasn't a wife and mother. Back in 2005, her system was very much for homemakers and homeschooling homemakers. So, I would feel like I couldn't do the system because I didn't see myself there. This is my third try this year and the third try is a keeper. 🙂 It's also an answer to prayer. The Lord nudged me back to the Flylady system. It feels different this time. I'm starting to be consistent with the weekly home blessing that I do on Saturday mornings and I'm already noticing the difference. And I'm adjusting things and experimenting rather than being a perfectionist (which I most certainly was back in 2005!)

    • @TodaywithTerriK
      @TodaywithTerriK Месяц назад

      I’m so excited the third time is the charm. It worked that way for me too. I never found people who struggled with it so I felt alone. I don’t want anyone to go through the isolation I felt.

  • @geepind9442
    @geepind9442 Месяц назад

    This was such a helpful pep talk. Thank you. As someone who cleans for a living, I never want to clean at home, and therefore I procrastinate. I also love perfection which is something I'm fighting against. Small chunks and making things better is definitely the answer. 😊

    • @TodaywithTerriK
      @TodaywithTerriK Месяц назад

      I’m so happy to have you watching. Please feel free to always add insight!

  • @lovefortruth3414
    @lovefortruth3414 Месяц назад

    Ok. Completely off-topix, but our female cat recently had 5 kittens and they just started exploring tgs house tge itger day...well.. I'm in my quiet time right kiw, and 3 of those little smidgets have decided that underneath tge couch cushions is a perfect hiding spot....sooooooo....new rule in my house will be...always lift up and check underneath the couch cushion you are about to sit on lol

    • @TodaywithTerriK
      @TodaywithTerriK Месяц назад

      Ah, baby kittens! Sounds dangerous to sit but so precious too.

    • @lovefortruth3414
      @lovefortruth3414 Месяц назад

      @TodaywithTerriK lol yup! And constantly looking down as I move around the house lol...but they're ao adorable!

    • @lovefortruth3414
      @lovefortruth3414 Месяц назад

      Found a solution n that has helped. I got a big enough cardboard box to fit mama and babies together. Cut out one end for easy entry and exit, put ahold pillow on the bottom and a blanket on top of the pillow....for a bed. The mama and kittens love to be in the kitchen with me when I'm busy in there. Their favorite spot is an area carpet right in front if the stove the sink. Do, I've bern keeping the bed in the kitchen, and the kittens love playing or napping in it whole I run around thd kitchen. Mama will USUALLY nurse them in it if I'm in there working. It makes it much raider to avoid stepping on or kicking anyone lol. I keep it in the li ing room when I'm in there.

  • @lovefortruth3414
    @lovefortruth3414 Месяц назад

    Listening to this whike I crochet for an hour, after a very busy and productive morning. I have 2 hours to spend doing whate ef I want to vefore I get busy again with dinner prep and tiday's weekly and zone cleaning. I admit, i My morning routibes still take ne hyst as libg as before with the task bracelets, but the differwnces now are: 1. Not letting dustractio s detail me. 2. Not over-thinking ir all and just doing it. 3. Less stress over alm tge things. 4. Most days, nothing gets left over to add to the mirning or evenibg routine. 5. Actually having free time between routines, without my brain going crazy over what still needs to get done. And 6, my evening routine is starting to get zhirter and easier. I stick 30 minutes at best and 45 minutes at worst mow, to do the ginal vkean-up, rehardless if what is or is not finished. And I'm getting a,whole bunch more done after dinner in azy less time while sticking ti that strict time limit. I'm telling you, Terri, the 3 main parts of my system: 1 going from digital to paper planning and making building my control journal one of my daily ficuses (buikding a little bit st a time), 2. Embracing the Fly Lady system and dojng it my way, and 3. These task bracelets... Oh, and actuslly, 2 more: Clutter Bug concepts for irganising, and Dana K White's No-Mess De-clutter system...those 5 ghings, in addition to things I skready had in pkace...have changed my lide in how I get through my days! Wat hing you since tge beginning of my "getting my s..t together" journey 3 years ago, I feel like you have coached me tlas yo how yo yhink pitsidd the box and work sith my brain, instead of wirking agaist it. Thank you!

    • @lovefortruth3414
      @lovefortruth3414 Месяц назад

      Ohmy goodness! I Really need to edit this comment. I will do that soon...probably tomorrow! Lol

    • @TodaywithTerriK
      @TodaywithTerriK Месяц назад

      I am absolutely loving the way you are letting me be a part of your journey! Your comments bring me along and get me so excited for you. Thank you for being so brave and transparent with our community. You are helping me and so many others get reigned in our own routines!

  • @gwillis01
    @gwillis01 Месяц назад

    The paperback book is TEN times better than the website

  • @nickymiller4595
    @nickymiller4595 Месяц назад

    Hey there so it sounds perfect for me leaving at 7am to 4pm mon to sat and Sunday off

    • @TodaywithTerriK
      @TodaywithTerriK Месяц назад

      That’s awesome! Thank you for watching. Any other suggestions for working mommas?

  • @lovefortruth3414
    @lovefortruth3414 Месяц назад

    Hey Terri. So, I made a decision tonight and deided to...wait for it...drop the "shiny sink" goal and instead commit to a 30 minute tidy up, with just getting the dishes moving forward as much as tine would allow, and focusing more on making the kitchen and main areas looking neat, even if all the dishes weren't done. I commited to the timer. And guess what? All the other things got done and the kitchen looks neat, even though there are dishes soaking in the sink and a couple of pots on the counter. And I wa not rushed or stressed. And it didn't take me 2 plus hours just to get dishes done and kitchen cleaned up and laundry switched around. Now this was an easy dinner night. On a normal nighr, I'll have lotss more dishes(I handwash). So, I think 45 minutes will be reaonable on those nights. If I commit to 30 minutes in the morning for morning routine ckeaning and left-over dishes, and then 45 minutes tops adter dinner, my evening routine will go much more quickly with less stress. My sink gets cleaned every time I do a load of dishes anyway. But limiting my clean-up time, whether the job. Is complete or not, will save my sanity , give me more time to relax, and keep it all from getting out of control. The counters and table are clean, the floor is sweot, laundry tajen care of, and the counters aren't covered full of dishes. I can live with that

    • @TodaywithTerriK
      @TodaywithTerriK Месяц назад

      You know that my advice is to do what works for you. You know that you have made some amazing progress. Watching you work it out is so inspiring! Keep on going. Plus the bracelet tracking system is a whole new way to do things that I hadn’t imagined. Very proud and excited for you!

    • @lovefortruth3414
      @lovefortruth3414 Месяц назад

      @TodaywithTerriK thank you! Oh, and I discovered another YTB'ER...Remiclog. check out her video about her Keepy Uppy cleaning method. It's not about what you do when. It's about how to work with your brain's distractibility instead of working against it. It's kind of similar to how Flylafy does her Weekly Home Blessing, or how That Awkward mom dies her Tidy tango ..but a little bit different, and and unique to anything I've heard before.

  • @masakambiccuturic474
    @masakambiccuturic474 Месяц назад

    Watching from Slovenia! Love your amazing channel

    • @TodaywithTerriK
      @TodaywithTerriK Месяц назад

      I just love being able to connect with new friends from all over the world!

  • @user-zk8ed4kd2b
    @user-zk8ed4kd2b Месяц назад

    They have become unaffordable. .

    • @TodaywithTerriK
      @TodaywithTerriK Месяц назад

      I buy some things at Publix but primarily I shop Aldi.

  • @abigailhorton5370
    @abigailhorton5370 Месяц назад

    Your prayer really touched my heart, Terri💗 Thank you for this video, and for showing up as a real person who cares. You are making a postitive difference in the world.

    • @TodaywithTerriK
      @TodaywithTerriK Месяц назад

      Thank you so much for your comment. In this moment, I needed the reminder that it is worth all of the time and money I spend to make videos because it can be draining. God is so amazing for giving us encouragement in so many ways. Thank you!

  • @danielleeleanmiller
    @danielleeleanmiller Месяц назад

    You might have answered this somewhere but I’m wondering how do you assign chores to teenagers? I don’t want to be the only one maintaining the house because they need to run a home when they leave. This is important to me but I’m not seeing this anywhere.

    • @TodaywithTerriK
      @TodaywithTerriK Месяц назад

      It’s funny that you ask because I’m in the process of working with my daughter because she is a senior and will need to manage her own apartment soon. With my other kids, I had set expectations from an early age that I built on so by 16 they knew how to clean a bathroom and limit mess as they get ready. This child is a tornado. She can do laundry but cannot see anything on the floor or that she lays down. I am starting over just like I would teaching. I’m asking what is bothersome to her in her room and bathroom and building her basic daily routine that we can break into 5-10 min chunks. Just started this week but having a different approach seems to be helping so far.