Somehow, the algorithm brought me here. But I watched your video and I'm glad you're enjoying life in the UK. I read a lot of negativity (and for a lot of people, rightly so) about life in the UK sometimes but it is refreshing to see someone talk positively about their life here. In terms of making friends at work, a lot of people here really value the separation of work and personal life. Working in cities in the UK can be quite lonely, but while it's good to have cordial relationships with people we work with, finding groups/activities outside of work is a really good way to develop new friendships. London has a scene for everything - different music scenes, video game scenes, acting and comedy scenes, activities like run clubs, climbing, football (for all levels beginner to experienced!), table tennis, badminton, tennis and also meetup events for shared interests like language exchange, cooking classes, art classes etc and are all great ways to meet new people and regularly come into contact with the same people to start building friendships.
London has a massive divide between the real Londoners, and those who just live in London. Firstly, a lot of people just move there to play, and have a fancy job. You're never going to be considered gang if you fall into that category, so locals are not really going to waste time building a relationship with you. Also, those rich assholes who move to London because they think it will be cool and they want a fancy job are pretty superficial, so all their relationships seem transactional. Being a born and bred Londoner I felt that working there I was always socializing and close to my coworkers because we had a lot in common, and shared roots there. I imagine if I was an outsider that I wouldn't have much in common with a local, and that most of my time I would have more in common with other ex-pats, but they suck for the most part, so it would be a bit alienating.
Interesting insights. Have you ever considered/applied for jobs outside of London? I gather your particular job/role might limit you a bit, but, I personally find London... annoying.
Somehow, the algorithm brought me here. But I watched your video and I'm glad you're enjoying life in the UK. I read a lot of negativity (and for a lot of people, rightly so) about life in the UK sometimes but it is refreshing to see someone talk positively about their life here.
In terms of making friends at work, a lot of people here really value the separation of work and personal life. Working in cities in the UK can be quite lonely, but while it's good to have cordial relationships with people we work with, finding groups/activities outside of work is a really good way to develop new friendships.
London has a scene for everything - different music scenes, video game scenes, acting and comedy scenes, activities like run clubs, climbing, football (for all levels beginner to experienced!), table tennis, badminton, tennis and also meetup events for shared interests like language exchange, cooking classes, art classes etc and are all great ways to meet new people and regularly come into contact with the same people to start building friendships.
Thank you for the kind response and yes, I agree :)
A great video. So deep.
You're a good example of what hard work and sound decision-making can achieve.
I see a very bright future for you 😊
London has a massive divide between the real Londoners, and those who just live in London. Firstly, a lot of people just move there to play, and have a fancy job. You're never going to be considered gang if you fall into that category, so locals are not really going to waste time building a relationship with you. Also, those rich assholes who move to London because they think it will be cool and they want a fancy job are pretty superficial, so all their relationships seem transactional. Being a born and bred Londoner I felt that working there I was always socializing and close to my coworkers because we had a lot in common, and shared roots there. I imagine if I was an outsider that I wouldn't have much in common with a local, and that most of my time I would have more in common with other ex-pats, but they suck for the most part, so it would be a bit alienating.
Interesting point of view. I’ve been working for donkey years and I understand what you said. Take heed, readers!!
Well done Wenjie x love this! everything's covered!
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Interesting insights. Have you ever considered/applied for jobs outside of London? I gather your particular job/role might limit you a bit, but, I personally find London... annoying.
I have! For now I think London is alright :)
You have developed an English accent!
Cons: Getting shanked
Pros: ???
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Background sudden sound or sharp music disturb to see video full.
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