I have had the same boundary issues until I realized through the biblical female prototypes - Martha and Mary - that the main role of a female is to ALLOW a male to serve God and his family/wife without her trying to lead him. bc the essence of a man is sacrifice for God/family/wife. and when he sacrifices for her, wife fully submits because it`s beautiful to see how a man can love. powerfully.
Pastor comment - TRUTH!!! (Pastor’s wife here.) And I agree with your points and I’m glad YOU’re sharing. I often can’t get people to “hear” me bc I’ve mostly tried to follow the female role of the Bible.
The one of the problems with us Spirit filled Christians is that we try to out do the Holy Spirit and we stop resting in him not giving Him time to manifest Himself In The Way The Truth and The Life and we end up over Exhausting our selves and we end up breaking down or giving an untimely word or doing something in the physical in a untimely manner by running ahead of our Father
What's so interesting about You, is You have experienced both sides, pure Evil and pure Love, and not many could handle it ! That's outstanding strength and will power! I've been Married 38years but separate bedrooms for about 11 years, but I'm hanging in there, she doesn't love me but won't divorce me , I guess Im unleavable! How much longer can I hold on , we have custody of the Grandkids and I hate to destroy their minds by splitting up, sometimes the welfare of the children is more important than our selfish desires! Anyway I love Christ Jesus with all I got!
Men have such huge responsibility. Now that I’m born again I would never want the leadership that men have. The higher you are in leadership the more responsibility you have especially to serve those that God has put under your leadership.
Hi. This is Brian's wife. I have been a subscriber for a few weeks now and I want you to know you are such a BLESSING to me and I am sure to others as well. Your gentle, and unwavering straight up way of talking is RARE! It is so refreshing to hear your sweet conversational style as you cover very important topics that are pivotal in many people's lives right now. Never stop what you are doing. We live in a town where witchcraft is being pushed by bitter women, whether single, divorced, widowed, lesbian, or past victims of men or tradegy. It is easy to see they are determined to never be hurt again and they believe power will solve all their problems. These are the very women who need Christian compassion and help but one must somehow get around the rage and down to the deep sorrow that is the root of it all. The real Jesus has all the answers to this. I am so glad you are presenting the real, authentic and POWERFUL Jesus to these women DUNAMAS power! RESURRECTION powe! JESUS is the actual power they seek! I will recommend your channel to my friends, many of whom are staggering under the weight and temptations of this Jezebel spirit which they are drawn to simply because they perceive it to be female and therefore sympathetic to the female circumstance .They must ultimately realize as many have,, that real power and the freedom of salvation are far better than sympathy and crumbs of inferior powers. Peace and love to you and yours.
Beautiful! This message is needed. Boundaries are very important in our lives. If I had learned this earlier, I would have made a lot less mistakes through the years. I have always allowed people to come into my life, & treat me as if “I” owe them everything. We do not! I lived that way for many decades, because I was born to narcissistic parents who drained me. I could never do enough for them, no matter how much I tried. In growing up this way, I became a people pleaser & married a narcissist who hurt me. Lately in my walk, Jesus keeps telling me “patience” and “boundaries”. I got the idea that He was simply telling me that…instead of giving all my energy to other people, I should be giving all my energy to Him. Jesus is so patient & kind, but our time & energy shld always be pointed at Him, not at people who take advantage of our kindness & patience. Jesus deserves better than what I gave Him. He deserved all the attention & my abusive ex deserve none. It all comes down to priorities I suppose. Jesus is now my #1 priority. I talk to Him about everything now, & I try to lead people to Him…but we can only lead the horse to water sometimes. I think you are amazing sister! Your messages are beautiful. So glad I found you! Jesus bless & maranatha! 🙏🏻❤️
sounds similar to my story, only my parents were healthy great parents, which makes me wonder why I seem to attract narcisitissts. My friends all say I have the "savior syndrome". Well, I'll try to turn it more into just looking at the Savior himself!
@@mirasetfree4503 I’m sure it all has something to do with the Holy Spirit too. I love people, because Jesus loves people. So who knows. We True Believers in Jesus do have sympathy for others out of love, but my empathy for others did come from the way my parents treated me…& I’m ok with it now. 🙏🏻❤️
When done biblically and in submission to the Lord, being a pastor is the hardest and most thankless job in the body of Christ, and anyone who has that calling has both my respect and also my sympathy! The power feminine spirit goes all the way back to Genesis 3:16, and it helps to understand that it’s a strongman in all women and also many men. It’s a very complex scenario, there’s so much to say on it tbh, but you’ve articulated how you notice it very well in the video, so may God use it for His glory 👍
It's the Jezebel spirit, it's so seductive for women and we are so vulnerable to it. Yes, we must be aware and set boundaries... thanks, love your chats!
Oh my, thank you so much for making this. I’ve been struggling so badly with my anger towards men… I’m a victim of sexual assault and it hurt me so deeply that it’s hard to like men… I’m glad that you made this, I was desperate to find someone who also struggled with that dislike of men. I’m praying that the Lord will help me heal from the trauma and see that not every man is evil.. praying he teaches me how to love even more. I need that heart of flesh
Blessings to you Sister ❤️🙏✨ He will heal you. Just have your focus on Jesus and share everything to him... And Know that he will heal your soul and body ❤️❤️❤️
I used to hate men. Had contempt for them because of longterm childhood abuse. God is healing me. There is a wee bit of residue but for the most part, I love men. Saved or not..I treat them with respect. I'm praying for u.
I'm so sorry you were assaulted. We certainly need more women believers testimony and biography glorifying how God changes women's minds and hearts so more women out there have true and living hope illustrated before them that God is not at all like the men or man who abused.
It’s interesting how I have watched this video before, yet this time realised it may of been god who lead me to watch again. As I am extremely angry towards men, I have many Christian men in my life who are so lovely. Yet at the same time I find myself getting angry towards them if I feel they are “annoying their wives”. I’m from a coercive controlled relationship with a lot of spiritual abuse. I know deep down there are many wonderful men out there, but I am struggling I admit.
As a PK (pastors kid) I’ve seen it all. I literally could not fathom why any women would want to be in leadership at all. My parents although gained lots of fruit, they also gained many battle scars. Praying for you guys, I know first hand how hard it can be. Also when you talked about Glastonbury, I remembered as a kid my parents joined with the local churches there and led a March for Jesus through the whole town. It was powerful, hundreds of not thousands of Christians marching through the town singing worship to Jesus. The ground trembled. I was young and remember being freaked out when all the witches handing out their lavender on the streets began to scream whilst running and shutting themselves it shops or the nearest houses. 😂 Goes to show how powerful the light is x
You are such a wonderful storyteller and easy to listen to. You hold a lot of wisdom and i hope you never stop sharing your content with everyone. God bless ❤
this is so interesting! this topic really made me think this last year so much too! after experiencing a relationship where "i had the pants on" it obviously didn't work out and I went to God to process this all and learn from him so much more. Now I'm actually also worried about all these churches in Berlin where more and more women are taking on the show and I feel so much more peaceful in churches (including mine) where only men are preaching. And that says God really is workin in me cause I am actually also a very dominant stage person but rather wanna learn God's way! 💚
Amen!! I am going through my own issues with boundaries and other things too. I love when you make these videos and go deep. Its wonderful to hear your prospective on these matters. Thank you. God bless you & James. 🙏🙏❤❤
I adore the way you speak with such love and patience yet sternness in speaking biblically in your videos. This definitely answered a few questions about my own boundaries that I had pondered. I do truly believe women aren’t to lead a church. I’m thankful there there’s a time, place, and space such as RUclips for women led by the Holy Spirit to give a good word. ❤ I thank God and you for these videos where I’ve found clarity and affirmation in His word. God bless and keep you. ❤
To walk in truth, you must be willing to walk with your eyes, ears, nose, tongue and toes! God bless you for exposing the new age dynamic and the current world we live in. Sending love from Tasmania 🙏
Thank you, Chelsea, wonderful message and very spot on. Great that you got confirmation from your mum too. God uses you and your husband amongst the wolves, you are so bold and brave. God bless you, keep up the good work, you are encouraging and insightful as ever. Maranatha ~
Thank you!! We were saved within months of each other from very similar backgrounds and the Lord's work in you has been blessing me since I was saved. This message is timely. Thank you, the Lord has also been showing me its OK to have boundaries just recently as well.
Wow, I accidentally came upon this video & listened. I'm glad too! You taught me several things I didn't know.......Thank You!! I'm going to relisten to it again later tonight after work!! ☘🕊
We Must Not Forget how Far He’s brought us and and still working it out and the truth has worked it out once and for all by His Faith That He Has given us in Christ Jesus Through The Holy Spirit you’ve come a very long way my sister remember as I as well remind myself we are all going through as well The Body of Christ that we are is always in my prayer you and your husband are doing great!
This is information I didn't know I needed, but God knew I needed, and I'm so glad I'm listening to this video! The first part about Christian boundaries really caught my attention and opened my eyes and the second part still delivered even though I'm a man. Thank you for talking about these things! Although something I've been trying to understand, and something maybe you can help with, is if Man and Woman were created in the image of God, does that mean God = Everything that a Man is + Everything that a Woman is? Is God as much Feminine as He is Masculine? Not that God the Father is flesh and has the male or female reproductive parts, but God the Father, is He as much a mother as He is a father to His children? At face value this seems to be a Liberal doctrine but there are some verses that make me wonder if it's Biblical or not: Isaiah 66:13, Matthew 23:37, and kind of sort of Isaiah 49:15.
But Jesus called God " Father ", our " Father in heaven", I believe he must be having those qualities of a mother but female n feminine are different things. Also none of the archangels, angels, we're females. God created the first female Eve.
Creation is a metaphor so we can know Him. He is neither male or female, He is beyond our finite understanding. But we have the capacity to know Him, which is Eternal Life. An Eternity of Knowing Love. God is Love. And we will know as we have been known. Its gonna be great.
Hello sister, thank you so much for this one :) it really spoke to me. I have a cult religious background, moving into mainstream Christianity, Spirituality, New Age, and now with a sigh of relief, a balanced love for The Lord. Honouring my true self and my true beliefs. I don't consider myself religious, but I always have and always will study my Bible. Where I live, the Divine Feminine is pushed in your face, as is the New Age, I really appreciate these kinds of videos
As you speak of the heart, what came to mind is this cultural saying so many even in Christendom utter "God knows my heart". Not only do so many of us not pause to reflect and realize the Hebrew meaning of knowing and the intimacy claimed so flippantly, but we also need to acknowledge Jesus as LORD not only Savior and that not only does God know our hearts but God CREATED our hearts, so He absolutely has the right to sculpt our hearts.
I like your statement about culturally brainwashed and felt this also. Genesis 6 comes to my thoughts where fallen angels took daughters of Adam. I pray for your husband and feel he gets insights from you. Keep up the good work Chelsea.
Babe. My father left us when u was 8. My mom never knew how to TEACH us how to set healthy boundaries. The Lord has worked w me for 20 years about this precious needed self love - and that’s what it is self love. This is a NEEDED message for the bride of Christ. May young people and older ones hear this message clearly! In Jesus name. ❤❤❤❤
I agree but not about the unhealthy self love. My mom stayed with an abusive man who claimed to be a Christian but was a Covert narcissist and he is still a dangerous person. She did not teach us healthy boundaries. She did teach a lot of good scripture to me at least I am thankful for but I watched her not live what she preached but instead excuse his abuse by the marriage vow and push me to be responsible with my emotions whilst she did not take responsibility for her own. I remember her saying thst if my dad weren't a part of the picture she would be the woman and mom God had created her to be and thst was so wrong. We need to have the courage to be who God says He created us to be when it comes to His voice verses human voices even if that is our husband in her case and other people's who go through or are going through abuse. I had a lot to sift through and that God had to teach me about prayer...that He takes seriously not listening to the prayers of men who do abuse their wives specifically although abuse also leaks out to others around the abuser as well. That yes it Noble to pray and right to pray for our enemies but thst is not the same thing as praying with an expectation God will change them when that person keeps cherishing sin and continue to physically and psychologically and emotionally abuse others delighting in doing so, there's such harsh words nlyet necessary in the Bible detailing us ad believers to not hold on to thst or hold it close but let such folks go and basically give them over to the devil as the true "test" so to speak to see if they will truly repent or if they simply continue in an evil path. God gave us love to lavish healthily and wisely.
I think you can have a driver and co driver and I think that Men and Women are made by God to complement one another - but yes, ultimately there is a profound sense of God being almighty and absolutely Masculine and powerful and having male authority or masculine authority. I think effeminacy among men/males is a big problem in these times and traditional masculinity and femininity are not in vogue at the moment. Girls wanting to be boys and boys wanting to be girls is very much the in thing. Confusion about gender roles is a big problem right now.
Sometimes it takes confronting or baring witness to Evil itself for us to fully comprehend the errors of our previous ways, and how that very Evil is indeed seeping into the House of God. It's as you said, Men and Women were born with roles they're to fulfill, neither of which are greater or more significant than the other, but are simply roles they're follow with grace and conviction, as God has created them to. This I've always known, and like yourself, little by little those who don't know any better will soon grasp that very fact. Masculinity and Femininity should NEVER be shamed, but embraced. I am a Man and proud of it. You are a Woman and naturally proud of it. That's who we are, and above all, God's children.
I tried to tell another young christian this. She was overwhelming herself with works and college. We are not saved by works but by faith. You need time to commune with Christ and study the word. He will tell you what work he wants you to do. God bless you and fill you more and more with his spirit. He has already given you much wisdom.
Amen 🙏 thank you for speaking on the rise of this Devine feminine spirit. It has even crept into churches. I struggled with this when I was younger in my relationships and it was a long lesson that God really worked on me. I really studied Proverbs 31 about a virtuous woman. God’s order of the family is the man to lead and the woman in submission. Some Christian woman see this as a bad thing but we as Christian wives are so blessed to have two coverings; our own covering and our husbands covering. I had past relationships where my first husband was not in submission to God and my marriage suffered greatly. I also agree that women should not lead. I don’t know it just seems wrong like how I used to feel about horoscopes. No one told me astrology was wrong for Christians I just felt it was wrong. Keep being a beautiful humble woman of God. So much shame is put on us Christians as wives and mothers, it’s shameful.
Wow this is so timely for me! I had a situation this week where a friend started attacking me online and saying that I’d joined a cult because I was a Christian. I found out about a book called Jesus The Greatest Therapist That Ever Lived and how it was all about Jesus’s boundaries. I love the reminder about how we are meant to wipe the dust off our feet and continue if someone doesn’t want to hear. God Bless you and thank you for sharing 🙏💖
Chelsea, wow... yes... same things happening across the pond, my sister.! Keep rejoicing in His leading... :) He's so good to guide us. Praise Him- He's showing us and confirming this pervasive counterfeit female spirit, (whatever it is...) and strengthening us to stand firm against it... You have our prayers and love for you and James!
I need prayer. I work with two pages witches. It is very difficult trying to love them regardless of what they say, but it is time for Holy Spirit and truth.
Love your Soul. Keep sharing please. Im 62, Believer, Widow, Mother, Musician, Warrior. Need companions like you. I harmed my second marraige by working alone with a man who wasnt my husband. We didnt transgress, but now I promote the Orthodox veiw, dont be alone with a member of the opposite sex . Also, when a man is speaking or teaching, I listen quietly, without needing to interupt and take the concepts my way. Let men speak. We are more spiritual by nature, concepts come to us easily. Let us be known by our good works, not our constant talking.
“Behold, I give unto you power to tread on serpents and scorpions, and over all the power of the enemy: and nothing shall by any means hurt you. Notwithstanding in this rejoice not, that the spirits are subject unto you; but rather rejoice, because your names are written in heaven.” Excellent advice to follow…. Jesus has granted us great authority this is true, but it’s his grace we should be the most thankful for.
Thank you from America. As a woman, I completely agree with you & God on the matter of women leading churches - a church leader should be the husband of one wife - 1 Timothy 3:2. That’s Gods’ Word & we should quench our worldly feelings about equality in leadership in the church - there is still plenty of work for us women to do :) God bless you! 🌷
Praise God for the seed sown in those women's lives! And no, we can't persuade everyone. Just like the verse about casting your pearls before swine, we need discernment & to be lead by God because He knows when someone is ready for the gospel, when the soil of their hearts is ready to receive the seed of God's word. Until then, we can love them & pray for them.
It's so fun to watch your videos after hearing your testimony awhile back and seeing the fruit of God in your life! Hallelujah! Bless you and your husband. Keep preaching on the women issue...the world needs to hear it. If you feel called! Also, check out Bindi Marc here on RUclips.
Thank you for being willing to discuss this and shine a light on this, even though it is currently unpopular in our society. The church that I am a member of has a male Pastor, but there are some women who serve as some of the Elders. I had considered leaving in the past because of this, but I love my brothers and sisters who are there SO much. Now I am serving a lot more and wondering if maybe the Lord has me there for some future purpose? I am grateful to hear you speak about this. I absolutely agree with you...the scriptures are clear.
I've also been led to the scriptures that you're referring to in this video in the last few days. I used to be a new age heathen too. I appreciate you and your videos.
I have heard Catholic pastors saying that turning the other cheek should not be interpreted literally. I am sure that many other denominations think the same. And I love what you said that we should give ourselves to Christ. And regarding head coverings, I don't mind you wearing it, but I think that we should just not wear things that would accentuate our sexuality. Regarding male or female dominance, I don't think tbay either should be dominant and that we are all the same in Christ. "There's no Jews or Greeks, there's no male or female, we are all one in Christ".
Interesting food for thought! Thanks for sharing. Indeed Jesus is the ultimate hero because he underwent the ultimate act of submission, sacrificing himself for wretched sinners like me.
I appreciate this video so much. I was a Christian from the age of 18-34 roughly… I ended up walking away and got involved with new age. Tarot, spells, universe as god, crystals… The whole bit. Every time I try to come back to the true God I feel this block. Like I can’t quite get that relationship back on track with Him. And I don’t really know what it is. I do still own crystals but just as pretty rocks (I collect rocks), I don’t believe they hold any special powers. Is that wrong? I really haven’t had any peace since walking away from God. I want that relationship back, I’m just not sure how to mend it or make it right. Or perhaps the enemy just wants me to FEEL that way? On another note… I’ve often said that I’m all for equal rights amongst men and women but on a whole I believe that the feminist movement completely destroyed the family unit. 😢 It’s definitely an evil spirit that is leading that.
Being a pastor can de a thankless job. The more you go along with the worldly influences the more one is at odds and out of allienment with God's Truth. And on the other hand the more you mirror Jesus, and reflect his light, the more they want to treat you like they treated Jesus.
I recognize these things in California a lot and I pray and follow the promptings of the Holy Spirit. I also have a dark background and recognize the enemy in the church. Blessings to you and your husband. The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom and the knowledge of the Holy One is understanding proverbs 9:10
Apparently there’s some evidence that the first church was in Glastonbury which makes me wonder if that’s why the enemy has tried to take it over with new age.
One of the truths that has been on the table, and in conversations is relating to the two kingdoms, Light and Darkness. We have a High Priest they have a High Priest, our truth, their truth. Satan never created anything just copied. We have a Blood sacrifice Jesus, and they have theirs. We have a Holy Bible and so on and so on, right down the line. We have a eternal Home in heaven they have a eternal home in hell. Now Is The Day Of Salvation. "All things serve God even the wicked for the day of judgment. "
As Eric's fiancé, writing on his RUclips account here--Here's the thing too...when you or anyone really digs in their heels into the ultra complementarian view theologically from a human understanding, we are as people trusting/leaning on our own understanding which God calls us NOT to do. The ultra complementarian viewpoint messes with an illustration we have no business as human beings messing with and instead distorts God's own illustration of Who He is, Who Jesus is and who the Church is. To obliterate women's voices from the body is to deeply hurt Jesus' bride. I find it a good and beautiful thing of God that He included in His scripture in Proverbs the importance of the voice, the teachings not only of the father but also the mother. As a Christian woman myself who in my early 20s learned a LOT from the Messianic sect of the Judaic Christian faith, as I reflected more on what you've initially shared on here and see and hear your passion for head coverings, I pray and hope you come to understand how confusing it is and can be for you to adopt one aspect (in this case, head coverings) rooted in the Judaic and Messianic and yet not see or perhaps know evidentially, in your verbal sharing the role of women in the early church. PLEASE please you and your husband do more research on the early church. How it went from Messianic to "Christian". I hope you will listen to the sermon link I sent from Sandal's church. I hope both your hearts are willing to learn and pray to God in what aspects you one or the other or both perhaps of you clinging to the denomination or tradition and always be open to what the Holy Spirit is speaking. I love you both. God bless.
'As for My people, children are their oppressors, And women rule over them. O My people! Those who lead you cause you to err, And destroy the way of your paths.”' Isaiah 3:12 this end times prophecy is so accurate for now where men are becoming more weak and effeminate, and women are gaining the dominance over them.
I needed to hear this today. I can relate to it in so many ways.. Thank you for putting this out, glory be to God. When I hear others speak on things I feel, it restores my faith, don't feel so alone. Stay blessed my sister. God lives in us he loves us so much. Long suffering..Much needed encouragement 👑✝️🙏💛
I really enjoy your videos. The profound and simple word of our Lord shines through your postings. I also follow Spencer Smith! He puts out some really great stuff...plus he can be super funny in a dry/sarcastic way. Thank you for your ministry to the body.
God Our Father bless you and for giving you boldness to speak on this truth.🙏🏽 May we study the word so we don’t get fooled by the enemy. The verse that came to mind when listening to you was Matthew 5:19. God bless you my Sister in The Lord Jesus Christ 🙏🏽
I’ve been so blessed by your content. I’ve seen the 3rd Adam video a few times and agree it’s a powerful film. Thank you for your truthful words delivered with grace 💕
I have done a video on my channel called "is the holy spirit female?" taking a scriptural look at modern day idea that the holy spirit is female, and we've all been wrong this entire time. The amount of rage in the comments I get from people who are utterly outraged that I, a woman, would teach the holy spirit is masculine, not feminine, is so sad. We are in very dark times.
So would you say that it’s ok to have a woman leading a large group Bible study for women? Also thank you so much for having this channel and sharing!! 💖🙌🏻
Spencer Smith’s videos are so eye opening . His Third Adam videos are awesome and he’s currently working on part 4. I really love your videos sister !! You are a huge blessing to me . Please keep up the videos . Thank you for boldly sharing the truth of Gods word . Praying for you & your husband and the church . Quick question …. Do you think it’s ok for a women to teach an adult men and women’s Sunday school class ? Love you sister !!!
Commenting just to speak to the dominant female issue. My history is not in the new age, but is of rebellion and defiance. Raised in a legalistic Christian home where dad was a pastor. They separated when I was 9. By age 13 I wanted nothing to do with this legalistic God I witnessed, so up went my middle finger in defiance and off I ran for nearly 30 years. I am a prodigal daughter whom the Father compassionately received though the filth of the pigpen hung off me. I will not get into the details of my testimony here. I have been married 34 years and my husband has yet to find Life in Christ. My history of rebellion & defiance was full of my own dominant personality. The Lord continues to discipline and humble me as He conforms me to the image of the Son. What once was carnaly believed that I was somehow "superior" to and had more "knowledge" than my husband, since I was saved and he wasn't, I therefore needed to be the one to make the final decision. The cross of Christ in my soul and spirit has been slowly, painfully, transforming me to a Christ-like wife. Like the kind Peter wrote about in 1 Peter 3:1-6; this "gentle and quiet spirit" would never have been attractive to me in my rebellious years. It is only as I've come to know Christ as "gentle and quiet" that I want that! And we can win our husbands "without a word," praise the Lord! As a former over talker, even that is a part of the transformation! Hallelujah, all glory goes to Him who saves! I am your sister, Becky
This sounds a lot like me. It's very hard to overcome, but it's the most important thing in my life - to be obedient. I've always been rebellious, but I realize now that it's because I've never had a man who is self controlled and able to lead me. That's partly my fault because I wanted the upper hand in my relationships. My husband doesn't follow Jesus and says "whatever works for you ", but he doesn't really want to step up and be responsible and that's really what I need from him.
@@higherlove8886 , my heart hears your heart. I long for the day my husband, whom I love dearly, comes to a living faith in a risen Christ. But until then remember that all is perfectly clear to Him whom we serve, even to ours which can often be a conflicting relationship/marriage. 1 Peter 3: 1 says, "Wives, in the same way be submissive to your husband so that..." We have to read 1 Peter 2:13-25 to gain the lens of "...in the same way..." And of course we cannot do this in our own strength but only as we decrease and He in and through us increases. Dear one, remember that we do have One leading us. Of course in marriage, which is so daily and so intricate in the many decisions to make, this will be a fine line as we must be obedient to the Holy Spirit's guidance. His work is conforming us to the image of the Son and He is loving, meek and trusting the Father. May the same be said about us in ever progressive ways
@@beckyjohnson321 that was so beautifully written. Bless your heart, dear sister ❤️. I pray that our husbands allow the holy spirit into their hearts. In Jesus mighty name I pray. Amen 🙏.
I’ve always said many Christian’s say there alrite and there not . There frightened to say anything because of negative words they might speak. We should tell one another we hurt.
I found messages linked to this one in an amazing book called "When Strivings Cease" by Ruth Chou Simon. She's also married to a Pastor in the States. She's an artist and author - many of her books are beautiful items - and I found the one I mentioned literally changed my life.
Do you not know of what a breathe of fresh air you have been from the beginning of your walk in Christ? I am a 70 yr old Christian woman that has been so encouraged by the Word thru your YT media. God is in control always. Amen So it is not that your are not good enough in the eyes of God in being a woman, because that is what you sound like to me sometimes. God created us as equal, male and female, He created them. I pray that your past experience not inhibit the value of your being a woman, created by God the Father. The wife of a pastor is a hard place. Just don't loose yourself, in all the incredible gifts as a woman of the Word that you have to offer to us. To me submission to the Father is not the same as submission to a man...just saying. Luv you Chelsa....
Hi Chelsea 😊 Once again you manage to put out a video that hits the mark for me personally,both past and present. It came just at the right time,thank you 🙏 Living in Scandinavia,the dominant feminine spirit here is enormously powerful, its easy to sense its roots back to the old pagan norse gods and goddesses..like in Glastonbury in many ways. God bless you and James 🙏
Thought you might like this too Thought you might like too. Stuart here is convinced that through the entertainment industry and commercialism many are being drawn into to Occult practices. Wouldn’t it just be so much better if we as Christians explained the true and positive meaning behind these festivals? They are a time indeed when we can reflect on and give thanks for those who have died in the faith of Christ and now rest in peace from their Labours. Wouldn’t it be good if of course we did not strip the ‘fun’ out of Halloween (yes we all like a good scare and a spooky story) but if we Christians could say to!people for us we celebrate the victory of light over darkness. We indeed thank God for the passing of the seasons , even the work of all who gather the harvest off of which we live, but we thank God that the very cycle of our lives continues. This critique is from his Channel Messages for Our Time. Todays ‘message’ was ‘Satan’s Door is Swinging Open’. Obviously prompted because last night was ‘Halloween’ or more strictly ‘All Hallows Eve.’ Now this is a Christian festival. It appears in the Christian Calendar along with ‘All Hallows Day” which falls on 1st November every year We remember those who have died in the faith of Christ and gone on to Heaven. We give thanks to God for their lives & the example of their Christian witness. Yes it’s another festival the Church has Christianised from some Celtic and celebration of the passing of another season. Yet sure enough some fundamentalist like Stuart has to get everybody to believe this stuff opens a door to the occult, the demonic, the hidden and the depths of real evil that is here in our World. You hear them in the Daily Hail saying ‘Vicar Bans Harry Potter Costumes in Church’ Not only that but he has the idea that it is the entertainment industry that is controlled by ‘dark powers’ and that getting a thrill out of being scared leaves us open to demonic forces. (One US fundamentalist Christian Woman on Bible Camp USA said to a group of young children ‘if Harry Potter had been a Witch and Hermione Granger a Witch when Jesus was alive they would have been stoned to death’ (See Exodus 28)) Oh and just to round it all off and possibly to highlight the evil entertainment industry that Satan is using to recruit converts Stuart then has a snipe at Philip Schofield who has come out as Gay. He of course says Philip has ‘come out as Homosexual’. This man is joyless and certainly does not believe in the God I believe in and it’s clear he detests the idea of our Christian community welcoming people who are LBGTQI+ plus in our Churches and Communities. ruclips.net/video/jX7vil707dI/видео.html
I have no problem with being lead by my husband, that is a completely consensual and understood agreement I have with my man and my God. I just wish he knew what was going on tbh I just know more than he does a lot of the time so I don’t know what do to about that
Not going to lie. The idea of only men in leadership roles is what I struggle most with. I don’t think I could submit to anyone but the Lord himself. I couldn’t even submit to my parents as a child.
What did our Messiah say? Don’t put too much faith in what Paul preached. Our savior had several women who were very close to hm. It’s sad to see now how you have been conformed to submission through modern religion and the authority of a man. Don’t be shy. You have been given a great story of redemption. Be confident in your faith and proclaim the gospel!!
Thanks for sharing, as this was on my mind for the last seven days regarding women preaching and teaching in the church and a controlling spirit that seems to take hold. I'm not into family run churches either where the husband and wife become the power couple and have a select inner circle of minions, who fall inline with their manipulations. Cold shouldering also seems to be a skill heavily used, as well as the all too common fake smile. Talk about spiritual abuse.
The dominant female that demasculates is the Jezebel spirit. Just like Jezebel in the old testament married to Ahab. She was controlling & manipulative.
And that, "divine feminine", spirit is of the world; of the wicked one, and lends itself to so-called, "empowerment", wherein babies are aborted, there's no accountability and total rebellion as you've said to the Holy Spirit of Truth and our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, King of kings. God bless you, your family, your marriage and your ministry in Christ Jesus name.
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I have had the same boundary issues until I realized through the biblical female prototypes - Martha and Mary - that the main role of a female is to ALLOW a male to serve God and his family/wife without her trying to lead him. bc the essence of a man is sacrifice for God/family/wife. and when he sacrifices for her, wife fully submits because it`s beautiful to see how a man can love. powerfully.
Pastor comment - TRUTH!!! (Pastor’s wife here.)
And I agree with your points and I’m glad YOU’re sharing. I often can’t get people to “hear” me bc I’ve mostly tried to follow the female role of the Bible.
As a Christian I’m allowed to say NO. 😅🙌🏻 Thanks for the great reminder sis! 💟🙏🏻✝️
The one of the problems with us Spirit filled Christians is that we try to out do the Holy Spirit and we stop resting in him not giving Him time to manifest Himself In The Way The Truth and The Life and we end up over Exhausting our selves and we end up breaking down or giving an untimely word or doing something in the physical in a untimely manner by running ahead of our Father
Never thought of it that way before. Thank you for sharing. Good gleaning 😊
🙏🏾 GOD, in His complete HOLINESS, is about to gather His people; Come Lord Jesus!
What's so interesting about You, is You have experienced both sides, pure Evil and pure Love, and not many could handle it ! That's outstanding strength and will power! I've been Married 38years but separate bedrooms for about 11 years, but I'm hanging in there, she doesn't love me but won't divorce me , I guess Im unleavable! How much longer can I hold on , we have custody of the Grandkids and I hate to destroy their minds by splitting up, sometimes the welfare of the children is more important than our selfish desires! Anyway I love Christ Jesus with all I got!
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Can't wait, Woman, Your my new favorite friend! I'm on Facebook too!
Men have such huge responsibility. Now that I’m born again I would never want the leadership that men have. The higher you are in leadership the more responsibility you have especially to serve those that God has put under your leadership.
Hi. This is Brian's wife. I have been a subscriber for a few weeks now and I want you to know you are such a BLESSING to me and I am sure to others as well. Your gentle, and unwavering straight up way of talking is RARE! It is so refreshing to hear your sweet conversational style as you cover very important topics that are pivotal in many people's lives right now. Never stop what you are doing. We live in a town where witchcraft is being pushed by bitter women, whether single, divorced, widowed, lesbian, or past victims of men or tradegy. It is easy to see they are determined to never be hurt again and they believe power will solve all their problems. These are the very women who need Christian compassion and help but one must somehow get around the rage and down to the deep sorrow that is the root of it all. The real Jesus has all the answers to this. I am so glad you are presenting the real, authentic and POWERFUL Jesus to these women DUNAMAS power! RESURRECTION powe! JESUS is the actual power they seek! I will recommend your channel to my friends, many of whom are staggering under the weight and temptations of this Jezebel spirit which they are drawn to simply because they perceive it to be female and therefore sympathetic to the female circumstance .They must ultimately realize as many have,, that real power and the freedom of salvation are far better than sympathy and crumbs of inferior powers. Peace and love to you and yours.
Yes, Jesus withdrew many times to be with the Father. He had o be refilled & refreshed after pouring out & ministering to others.
Beautiful! This message is needed. Boundaries are very important in our lives. If I had learned this earlier, I would have made a lot less mistakes through the years. I have always allowed people to come into my life, & treat me as if “I” owe them everything. We do not! I lived that way for many decades, because I was born to narcissistic parents who drained me. I could never do enough for them, no matter how much I tried. In growing up this way, I became a people pleaser & married a narcissist who hurt me. Lately in my walk, Jesus keeps telling me “patience” and “boundaries”. I got the idea that He was simply telling me that…instead of giving all my energy to other people, I should be giving all my energy to Him. Jesus is so patient & kind, but our time & energy shld always be pointed at Him, not at people who take advantage of our kindness & patience. Jesus deserves better than what I gave Him. He deserved all the attention & my abusive ex deserve none. It all comes down to priorities I suppose. Jesus is now my #1 priority. I talk to Him about everything now, & I try to lead people to Him…but we can only lead the horse to water sometimes.
I think you are amazing sister! Your messages are beautiful. So glad I found you!
Jesus bless & maranatha!
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sounds similar to my story, only my parents were healthy great parents, which makes me wonder why I seem to attract narcisitissts. My friends all say I have the "savior syndrome". Well, I'll try to turn it more into just looking at the Savior himself!
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I’m sure it all has something to do with the Holy Spirit too. I love people, because Jesus loves people. So who knows. We True Believers in Jesus do have sympathy for others out of love, but my empathy for others did come from the way my parents treated me…& I’m ok with it now.
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When done biblically and in submission to the Lord, being a pastor is the hardest and most thankless job in the body of Christ, and anyone who has that calling has both my respect and also my sympathy!
The power feminine spirit goes all the way back to Genesis 3:16, and it helps to understand that it’s a strongman in all women and also many men. It’s a very complex scenario, there’s so much to say on it tbh, but you’ve articulated how you notice it very well in the video, so may God use it for His glory 👍
It's the Jezebel spirit, it's so seductive for women and we are so vulnerable to it. Yes, we must be aware and set boundaries... thanks, love your chats!
Oh my, thank you so much for making this. I’ve been struggling so badly with my anger towards men… I’m a victim of sexual assault and it hurt me so deeply that it’s hard to like men… I’m glad that you made this, I was desperate to find someone who also struggled with that dislike of men. I’m praying that the Lord will help me heal from the trauma and see that not every man is evil.. praying he teaches me how to love even more. I need that heart of flesh
Blessings to you Sister ❤️🙏✨ He will heal you. Just have your focus on Jesus and share everything to him... And Know that he will heal your soul and body ❤️❤️❤️
I used to hate men. Had contempt for them because of longterm childhood abuse. God is healing me. There is a wee bit of residue but for the most part, I love men. Saved or not..I treat them with respect. I'm praying for u.
I'm so sorry you were assaulted. We certainly need more women believers testimony and biography glorifying how God changes women's minds and hearts so more women out there have true and living hope illustrated before them that God is not at all like the men or man who abused.
It’s interesting how I have watched this video before, yet this time realised it may of been god who lead me to watch again. As I am extremely angry towards men, I have many Christian men in my life who are so lovely. Yet at the same time I find myself getting angry towards them if I feel they are “annoying their wives”. I’m from a coercive controlled relationship with a lot of spiritual abuse. I know deep down there are many wonderful men out there, but I am struggling I admit.
You are a beautiful soul of the Lord.
As a PK (pastors kid) I’ve seen it all. I literally could not fathom why any women would want to be in leadership at all. My parents although gained lots of fruit, they also gained many battle scars. Praying for you guys, I know first hand how hard it can be. Also when you talked about Glastonbury, I remembered as a kid my parents joined with the local churches there and led a March for Jesus through the whole town. It was powerful, hundreds of not thousands of Christians marching through the town singing worship to Jesus. The ground trembled. I was young and remember being freaked out when all the witches handing out their lavender on the streets began to scream whilst running and shutting themselves it shops or the nearest houses. 😂 Goes to show how powerful the light is x
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Very important study. Thank you for speaking about this toxic topic and avoidance! Excited for this! God bless you sister in Jesus name!
You are such a wonderful storyteller and easy to listen to. You hold a lot of wisdom and i hope you never stop sharing your content with everyone. God bless ❤
this is so interesting! this topic really made me think this last year so much too! after experiencing a relationship where "i had the pants on" it obviously didn't work out and I went to God to process this all and learn from him so much more. Now I'm actually also worried about all these churches in Berlin where more and more women are taking on the show and I feel so much more peaceful in churches (including mine) where only men are preaching. And that says God really is workin in me cause I am actually also a very dominant stage person but rather wanna learn God's way! 💚
Amen!! I am going through my own issues with boundaries and other things too. I love when you make these videos and go deep. Its wonderful to hear your prospective on these matters. Thank you. God bless you & James. 🙏🙏❤❤
Thank you sister for being honest with the scriptures in regard to the place that women do not have in the church.
I adore the way you speak with such love and patience yet sternness in speaking biblically in your videos. This definitely answered a few questions about my own boundaries that I had pondered. I do truly believe women aren’t to lead a church. I’m thankful there there’s a time, place, and space such as RUclips for women led by the Holy Spirit to give a good word. ❤ I thank God and you for these videos where I’ve found clarity and affirmation in His word. God bless and keep you. ❤
To walk in truth, you must be willing to walk with your eyes, ears, nose, tongue and toes!
God bless you for exposing the new age dynamic and the current world we live in.
Sending love from Tasmania 🙏
being yourself and use your shield when needed..
Thank you, Chelsea, wonderful message and very spot on. Great that you got confirmation from your mum too. God uses you and your husband amongst the wolves, you are so bold and brave. God bless you, keep up the good work, you are encouraging and insightful as ever. Maranatha ~
Thank you!! We were saved within months of each other from very similar backgrounds and the Lord's work in you has been blessing me since I was saved. This message is timely. Thank you, the Lord has also been showing me its OK to have boundaries just recently as well.
Thanks Chelsea for sharing about this very important topic, bless you and James -Louise and Emily 🙏❤️
Wow, I accidentally came upon this video & listened. I'm glad too! You taught me several things I didn't know.......Thank You!!
I'm going to relisten to it again later tonight after work!! ☘🕊
We Must Not Forget how Far He’s brought us and and still working it out and the truth has worked it out once and for all by His Faith That He Has given us in Christ Jesus Through The Holy Spirit you’ve come a very long way my sister remember as I as well remind myself we are all going through as well The Body of Christ that we are is always in my prayer you and your husband are doing great!
This is information I didn't know I needed, but God knew I needed, and I'm so glad I'm listening to this video! The first part about Christian boundaries really caught my attention and opened my eyes and the second part still delivered even though I'm a man. Thank you for talking about these things!
Although something I've been trying to understand, and something maybe you can help with, is if Man and Woman were created in the image of God, does that mean God = Everything that a Man is + Everything that a Woman is? Is God as much Feminine as He is Masculine? Not that God the Father is flesh and has the male or female reproductive parts, but God the Father, is He as much a mother as He is a father to His children? At face value this seems to be a Liberal doctrine but there are some verses that make me wonder if it's Biblical or not: Isaiah 66:13, Matthew 23:37, and kind of sort of Isaiah 49:15.
If we look at Jesus (which is God) he was showing both the masculine and the feminine qualities. So I would say yes ✨❤️✨
But Jesus called God " Father ", our " Father in heaven", I believe he must be having those qualities of a mother but female n feminine are different things.
Also none of the archangels, angels, we're females. God created the first female Eve.
Creation is a metaphor so we can know Him. He is neither male or female, He is beyond our finite understanding. But we have the capacity to know Him, which is Eternal Life. An Eternity of Knowing Love.
God is Love. And we will know as we have been known. Its gonna be great.
Hello sister, thank you so much for this one :) it really spoke to me. I have a cult religious background, moving into mainstream Christianity, Spirituality, New Age, and now with a sigh of relief, a balanced love for The Lord. Honouring my true self and my true beliefs. I don't consider myself religious, but I always have and always will study my Bible. Where I live, the Divine Feminine is pushed in your face, as is the New Age, I really appreciate these kinds of videos
Wow!! Powerful insight you inspire me to dive deeper into my spirituality through my relationship with Christ and God!! 🕊️
As you speak of the heart, what came to mind is this cultural saying so many even in Christendom utter "God knows my heart". Not only do so many of us not pause to reflect and realize the Hebrew meaning of knowing and the intimacy claimed so flippantly, but we also need to acknowledge Jesus as LORD not only Savior and that not only does God know our hearts but God CREATED our hearts, so He absolutely has the right to sculpt our hearts.
I like your statement about culturally brainwashed and felt this also. Genesis 6 comes to my thoughts where fallen angels took daughters of Adam. I pray for your husband and feel he gets insights from you. Keep up the good work Chelsea.
Amen, thank you sister for sharing ❤️
Babe. My father left us when u was 8. My mom never knew how to TEACH us how to set healthy boundaries.
The Lord has worked w me for 20 years about this precious needed self love - and that’s what it is self love.
This is a NEEDED message for the bride of Christ.
May young people and older ones hear this message clearly! In Jesus name. ❤❤❤❤
I agree but not about the unhealthy self love. My mom stayed with an abusive man who claimed to be a Christian but was a Covert narcissist and he is still a dangerous person. She did not teach us healthy boundaries. She did teach a lot of good scripture to me at least I am thankful for but I watched her not live what she preached but instead excuse his abuse by the marriage vow and push me to be responsible with my emotions whilst she did not take responsibility for her own. I remember her saying thst if my dad weren't a part of the picture she would be the woman and mom God had created her to be and thst was so wrong. We need to have the courage to be who God says He created us to be when it comes to His voice verses human voices even if that is our husband in her case and other people's who go through or are going through abuse. I had a lot to sift through and that God had to teach me about prayer...that He takes seriously not listening to the prayers of men who do abuse their wives specifically although abuse also leaks out to others around the abuser as well. That yes it Noble to pray and right to pray for our enemies but thst is not the same thing as praying with an expectation God will change them when that person keeps cherishing sin and continue to physically and psychologically and emotionally abuse others delighting in doing so, there's such harsh words nlyet necessary in the Bible detailing us ad believers to not hold on to thst or hold it close but let such folks go and basically give them over to the devil as the true "test" so to speak to see if they will truly repent or if they simply continue in an evil path. God gave us love to lavish healthily and wisely.
Well said! Thank you so much for sharing this.
Thank you, that message is important for many people. Had a long term problem with narc(s) and wish I would have learned setting boundaries earlier.
I think you can have a driver and co driver and I think that Men and Women are made by God to complement one another - but yes, ultimately there is a profound sense of God being almighty and absolutely Masculine and powerful and having male authority or masculine authority. I think effeminacy among men/males is a big problem in these times and traditional masculinity and femininity are not in vogue at the moment. Girls wanting to be boys and boys wanting to be girls is very much the in thing. Confusion about gender roles is a big problem right now.
Yes , the Word is Full of Boundaries. That is REALLY GOOD
Sometimes it takes confronting or baring witness to Evil itself for us to fully comprehend the errors of our previous ways, and how that very Evil is indeed seeping into the House of God. It's as you said, Men and Women were born with roles they're to fulfill, neither of which are greater or more significant than the other, but are simply roles they're follow with grace and conviction, as God has created them to. This I've always known, and like yourself, little by little those who don't know any better will soon grasp that very fact. Masculinity and Femininity should NEVER be shamed, but embraced. I am a Man and proud of it. You are a Woman and naturally proud of it. That's who we are, and above all, God's children.
I tried to tell another young christian this. She was overwhelming herself with works and college. We are not saved by works but by faith. You need time to commune with Christ and study the word. He will tell you what work he wants you to do. God bless you and fill you more and more with his spirit. He has already given you much wisdom.
Amen 🙏 thank you for speaking on the rise of this Devine feminine spirit. It has even crept into churches. I struggled with this when I was younger in my relationships and it was a long lesson that God really worked on me. I really studied Proverbs 31 about a virtuous woman. God’s order of the family is the man to lead and the woman in submission. Some Christian woman see this as a bad thing but we as Christian wives are so blessed to have two coverings; our own covering and our husbands covering. I had past relationships where my first husband was not in submission to God and my marriage suffered greatly. I also agree that women should not lead. I don’t know it just seems wrong like how I used to feel about horoscopes. No one told me astrology was wrong for Christians I just felt it was wrong. Keep being a beautiful humble woman of God. So much shame is put on us Christians as wives and mothers, it’s shameful.
Wow this is so timely for me! I had a situation this week where a friend started attacking me online and saying that I’d joined a cult because I was a Christian. I found out about a book called Jesus The Greatest Therapist That Ever Lived and how it was all about Jesus’s boundaries.
I love the reminder about how we are meant to wipe the dust off our feet and continue if someone doesn’t want to hear. God Bless you and thank you for sharing 🙏💖
Chelsea, wow... yes... same things happening across the pond, my sister.! Keep rejoicing in His leading... :) He's so good to guide us. Praise Him- He's showing us and confirming this pervasive counterfeit female spirit, (whatever it is...) and strengthening us to stand firm against it... You have our prayers and love for you and James!
Thankyou sister for helping us sisters ❤ I appreciate you
I need prayer. I work with two pages witches. It is very difficult trying to love them regardless of what they say, but it is time for Holy Spirit and truth.
Love your Soul. Keep sharing please. Im 62, Believer, Widow, Mother, Musician, Warrior. Need companions like you. I harmed my second marraige by working alone with a man who wasnt my husband. We didnt transgress, but now I promote the Orthodox veiw, dont be alone with a member of the opposite sex . Also, when a man is speaking or teaching, I listen quietly, without needing to interupt and take the concepts my way. Let men speak. We are more spiritual by nature, concepts come to us easily. Let us be known by our good works, not our constant talking.
“Behold, I give unto you power to tread on serpents and scorpions, and over all the power of the enemy: and nothing shall by any means hurt you.
Notwithstanding in this rejoice not, that the spirits are subject unto you; but rather rejoice, because your names are written in heaven.”
Excellent advice to follow…. Jesus has granted us great authority this is true, but it’s his grace we should be the most thankful for.
Thank you from America.
As a woman, I completely agree with you & God on the matter of women leading churches - a church leader should be the husband of one wife - 1 Timothy 3:2. That’s Gods’ Word & we should quench our worldly feelings about equality in leadership in the church - there is still plenty of work for us women to do :) God bless you!
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There is power in submission/surrender. Amen!
Praise God for the seed sown in those women's lives! And no, we can't persuade everyone. Just like the verse about casting your pearls before swine, we need discernment & to be lead by God because He knows when someone is ready for the gospel, when the soil of their hearts is ready to receive the seed of God's word. Until then, we can love them & pray for them.
It's so fun to watch your videos after hearing your testimony awhile back and seeing the fruit of God in your life! Hallelujah! Bless you and your husband. Keep preaching on the women issue...the world needs to hear it. If you feel called! Also, check out Bindi Marc here on RUclips.
Thank you for being willing to discuss this and shine a light on this, even though it is currently unpopular in our society. The church that I am a member of has a male Pastor, but there are some women who serve as some of the Elders. I had considered leaving in the past because of this, but I love my brothers and sisters who are there SO much. Now I am serving a lot more and wondering if maybe the Lord has me there for some future purpose? I am grateful to hear you speak about this. I absolutely agree with you...the scriptures are clear.
I love your voice and style and delivery. I'm trying to love the message as well. It's a journey, I suppose. Keep up your work!
I've also been led to the scriptures that you're referring to in this video in the last few days. I used to be a new age heathen too. I appreciate you and your videos.
This was such a great message! I needed to hear this!
I have heard Catholic pastors saying that turning the other cheek should not be interpreted literally. I am sure that many other denominations think the same. And I love what you said that we should give ourselves to Christ. And regarding head coverings, I don't mind you wearing it, but I think that we should just not wear things that would accentuate our sexuality. Regarding male or female dominance, I don't think tbay either should be dominant and that we are all the same in Christ. "There's no Jews or Greeks, there's no male or female, we are all one in Christ".
Interesting food for thought! Thanks for sharing. Indeed Jesus is the ultimate hero because he underwent the ultimate act of submission, sacrificing himself for wretched sinners like me.
I appreciate this video so much. I was a Christian from the age of 18-34 roughly… I ended up walking away and got involved with new age. Tarot, spells, universe as god, crystals… The whole bit. Every time I try to come back to the true God I feel this block. Like I can’t quite get that relationship back on track with Him. And I don’t really know what it is. I do still own crystals but just as pretty rocks (I collect rocks), I don’t believe they hold any special powers. Is that wrong? I really haven’t had any peace since walking away from God. I want that relationship back, I’m just not sure how to mend it or make it right. Or perhaps the enemy just wants me to FEEL that way?
On another note… I’ve often said that I’m all for equal rights amongst men and women but on a whole I believe that the feminist movement completely destroyed the family unit. 😢 It’s definitely an evil spirit that is leading that.
Seek Him. Bible. Pray. Church. Pray against old thoughts and ways in Jesus name.
keep fighting the good fight.carry your cross and follow me.God is moulding you sister.
It's time for godly men to kick feminism back to the hellhole it spawned from.
Being a pastor can de a thankless job. The more you go along with the worldly influences the more one is at odds and out of allienment with God's Truth. And on the other hand the more you mirror Jesus, and reflect his light, the more they want to treat you like they treated Jesus.
I recognize these things in California a lot and I pray and follow the promptings of the Holy Spirit. I also have a dark background and recognize the enemy in the church. Blessings to you and your husband. The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom and the knowledge of the Holy One is understanding proverbs 9:10
the balance of the two extremes..
Apparently there’s some evidence that the first church was in Glastonbury which makes me wonder if that’s why the enemy has tried to take it over with new age.
One of the truths that has been on the table, and in conversations is relating to the two kingdoms, Light and Darkness. We have a High Priest they have a High Priest, our truth, their truth. Satan never created anything just copied. We have a Blood sacrifice Jesus, and they have theirs. We have a Holy Bible and so on and so on, right down the line. We have a eternal Home in heaven they have a eternal home in hell. Now Is The Day Of Salvation. "All things serve God even the wicked for the day of judgment. "
As Eric's fiancé, writing on his RUclips account here--Here's the thing too...when you or anyone really digs in their heels into the ultra complementarian view theologically from a human understanding, we are as people trusting/leaning on our own understanding which God calls us NOT to do. The ultra complementarian viewpoint messes with an illustration we have no business as human beings messing with and instead distorts God's own illustration of Who He is, Who Jesus is and who the Church is. To obliterate women's voices from the body is to deeply hurt Jesus' bride. I find it a good and beautiful thing of God that He included in His scripture in Proverbs the importance of the voice, the teachings not only of the father but also the mother.
As a Christian woman myself who in my early 20s learned a LOT from the Messianic sect of the Judaic Christian faith, as I reflected more on what you've initially shared on here and see and hear your passion for head coverings, I pray and hope you come to understand how confusing it is and can be for you to adopt one aspect (in this case, head coverings) rooted in the Judaic and Messianic and yet not see or perhaps know evidentially, in your verbal sharing the role of women in the early church. PLEASE please you and your husband do more research on the early church. How it went from Messianic to "Christian". I hope you will listen to the sermon link I sent from Sandal's church. I hope both your hearts are willing to learn and pray to God in what aspects you one or the other or both perhaps of you clinging to the denomination or tradition and always be open to what the Holy Spirit is speaking. I love you both. God bless.
'As for My people, children are their oppressors, And women rule over them. O My people! Those who lead you cause you to err, And destroy the way of your paths.”'
Isaiah 3:12
this end times prophecy is so accurate for now where men are becoming more weak and effeminate, and women are gaining the dominance over them.
I needed to hear this today. I can relate to it in so many ways.. Thank you for putting this out, glory be to God. When I hear others speak on things I feel, it restores my faith, don't feel so alone. Stay blessed my sister. God lives in us he loves us so much. Long suffering..Much needed encouragement 👑✝️🙏💛
Thanks sis ❤ was looking forward to this video.
I enjoy your videos and sharing so much!! Thank you for this great message. The Lord is incredible.
I really enjoy your videos. The profound and simple word of our Lord shines through your postings. I also follow Spencer Smith! He puts out some really great stuff...plus he can be super funny in a dry/sarcastic way.
Thank you for your ministry to the body.
God Our Father bless you and for giving you boldness to speak on this truth.🙏🏽 May we study the word so we don’t get fooled by the enemy. The verse that came to mind when listening to you was Matthew 5:19. God bless you my Sister in The Lord Jesus Christ 🙏🏽
I’ve been so blessed by your content. I’ve seen the 3rd Adam video a few times and agree it’s a powerful film. Thank you for your truthful words delivered with grace 💕
I have done a video on my channel called "is the holy spirit female?" taking a scriptural look at modern day idea that the holy spirit is female, and we've all been wrong this entire time.
The amount of rage in the comments I get from people who are utterly outraged that I, a woman, would teach the holy spirit is masculine, not feminine, is so sad.
We are in very dark times.
I’m praying for you and your pastor husband to find a shoulder to rely on, especially that of Jesus!
So would you say that it’s ok to have a woman leading a large group Bible study for women?
Also thank you so much for having this channel and sharing!! 💖🙌🏻
I really need to talk to you about some New Age issues. Is there some way I can get in touch with you? Thank you!
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Would have loved to see that. Teavelled to Glastonbury some years ago, found it extremly dark!
God bless Chelsea :) 💙🙏 he's made you very wise. Much love sis
Spencer Smith’s videos are so eye opening . His Third Adam videos are awesome and he’s currently working on part 4. I really love your videos sister !! You are a huge blessing to me . Please keep up the videos . Thank you for boldly sharing the truth of Gods word . Praying for you & your husband and the church . Quick question …. Do you think it’s ok for a women to teach an adult men and women’s Sunday school class ? Love you sister !!!
That’s an interesting question, I’m not sure on that one 🙏🏻
@@Jesusistruth3 that’s ok! thank you for your reply ! ❤️
Commenting just to speak to the dominant female issue. My history is not in the new age, but is of rebellion and defiance. Raised in a legalistic Christian home where dad was a pastor. They separated when I was 9. By age 13 I wanted nothing to do with this legalistic God I witnessed, so up went my middle finger in defiance and off I ran for nearly 30 years. I am a prodigal daughter whom the Father compassionately received though the filth of the pigpen hung off me. I will not get into the details of my testimony here.
I have been married 34 years and my husband has yet to find Life in Christ. My history of rebellion & defiance was full of my own dominant personality. The Lord continues to discipline and humble me as He conforms me to the image of the Son. What once was carnaly believed that I was somehow "superior" to and had more "knowledge" than my husband, since I was saved and he wasn't, I therefore needed to be the one to make the final decision. The cross of Christ in my soul and spirit has been slowly, painfully, transforming me to a Christ-like wife. Like the kind Peter wrote about in 1 Peter 3:1-6; this "gentle and quiet spirit" would never have been attractive to me in my rebellious years. It is only as I've come to know Christ as "gentle and quiet" that I want that! And we can win our husbands "without a word," praise the Lord! As a former over talker, even that is a part of the transformation! Hallelujah, all glory goes to Him who saves!
I am your sister,
Becky
@An Odd Slice Of Bread , He is faithful!
Happy 50th birthday! I am 53, will be 54 in March.
This sounds a lot like me. It's very hard to overcome, but it's the most important thing in my life - to be obedient. I've always been rebellious, but I realize now that it's because I've never had a man who is self controlled and able to lead me. That's partly my fault because I wanted the upper hand in my relationships. My husband doesn't follow Jesus and says "whatever works for you ", but he doesn't really want to step up and be responsible and that's really what I need from him.
@@higherlove8886 , my heart hears your heart. I long for the day my husband, whom I love dearly, comes to a living faith in a risen Christ.
But until then remember that all is perfectly clear to Him whom we serve, even to ours which can often be a conflicting relationship/marriage. 1 Peter 3: 1 says, "Wives, in the same way be submissive to your husband so that..." We have to read 1 Peter 2:13-25 to gain the lens of "...in the same way..." And of course we cannot do this in our own strength but only as we decrease and He in and through us increases.
Dear one, remember that we do have One leading us. Of course in marriage, which is so daily and so intricate in the many decisions to make, this will be a fine line as we must be obedient to the Holy Spirit's guidance. His work is conforming us to the image of the Son and He is loving, meek and trusting the Father. May the same be said about us in ever progressive ways
@@beckyjohnson321 that was so beautifully written. Bless your heart, dear sister ❤️. I pray that our husbands allow the holy spirit into their hearts. In Jesus mighty name I pray. Amen 🙏.
I’ve always said many Christian’s say there alrite and there not . There frightened to say anything because of negative words they might speak. We should tell one another we hurt.
I found messages linked to this one in an amazing book called "When Strivings Cease" by Ruth Chou Simon. She's also married to a Pastor in the States. She's an artist and author - many of her books are beautiful items - and I found the one I mentioned literally changed my life.
Thank you for your testimony I really enjoy listening to you, blessings to you and your husband.
I agree with you Chelsea, but the sad part is I don't know many men who lead well.
Do you not know of what a breathe of fresh air you have been from the beginning of your walk in Christ? I am a 70 yr old Christian woman that has been so encouraged by the Word thru your YT media. God is in control always. Amen So it is not that your are not good enough in the eyes of God in being a woman, because that is what you sound like to me sometimes. God created us as equal, male and female, He created them. I pray that your past experience not inhibit the value of your being a woman, created by God the Father. The wife of a pastor is a hard place. Just don't loose yourself, in all the incredible gifts as a woman of the Word that you have to offer to us. To me submission to the Father is not the same as submission to a man...just saying. Luv you Chelsa....
Hi Chelsea 😊
Once again you manage to put out a video that hits the mark for me personally,both past and present. It came just at the right time,thank you 🙏
Living in Scandinavia,the dominant feminine spirit here is enormously powerful, its easy to sense its roots back to the old pagan norse gods and goddesses..like in Glastonbury in many ways.
God bless you and James 🙏
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Stuart here is convinced that through the entertainment industry and commercialism many are being drawn into to Occult practices.
Wouldn’t it just be so much better if we as Christians explained the true and positive meaning behind these festivals?
They are a time indeed when we can reflect on and give thanks for those who have died in the faith of Christ and now rest in peace from their Labours.
Wouldn’t it be good if of course we did not strip the ‘fun’ out of Halloween (yes we all like a good scare and a spooky story) but if we Christians could say to!people for us we celebrate the victory of light over darkness.
We indeed thank God for the passing of the seasons , even the work of all who gather the harvest off of which we live, but we thank God that the very cycle of our lives continues.
This critique is from his Channel Messages for Our Time. Todays ‘message’ was ‘Satan’s Door is Swinging Open’. Obviously prompted because last night was ‘Halloween’ or more strictly ‘All Hallows Eve.’ Now this is a Christian festival. It appears in the Christian Calendar along with ‘All Hallows Day” which falls on 1st November every year
We remember those who have died in the faith of Christ and gone on to Heaven. We give thanks to God for their lives & the example of their Christian witness.
Yes it’s another festival the Church has Christianised from some Celtic and celebration of the passing of another season.
Yet sure enough some fundamentalist like Stuart has to get everybody to believe this stuff opens a door to the occult, the demonic, the hidden and the depths of real evil that is here in our World.
You hear them in the Daily Hail saying ‘Vicar Bans Harry Potter Costumes in Church’
Not only that but he has the idea that it is the entertainment industry that is controlled by ‘dark powers’ and that getting a thrill out of being scared leaves us open to demonic forces.
(One US fundamentalist Christian Woman on Bible Camp USA said to a group of young children ‘if Harry Potter had been a Witch and Hermione Granger a Witch when Jesus was alive they would have been stoned to death’ (See Exodus 28))
Oh and just to round it all off and possibly to highlight the evil entertainment industry that Satan is using to recruit converts Stuart then has a snipe at Philip Schofield who has come out as Gay.
He of course says Philip has ‘come out as Homosexual’. This man is joyless and certainly does not believe in the God I believe in and it’s clear he detests the idea of our Christian community welcoming people who are LBGTQI+ plus in our Churches and Communities.
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I have no problem with being lead by my husband, that is a completely consensual and understood agreement I have with my man and my God. I just wish he knew what was going on tbh I just know more than he does a lot of the time so I don’t know what do to about that
Not going to lie. The idea of only men in leadership roles is what I struggle most with. I don’t think I could submit to anyone but the Lord himself. I couldn’t even submit to my parents as a child.
What did our Messiah say? Don’t put too much faith in what Paul preached. Our savior had several women who were very close to hm. It’s sad to see now how you have been conformed to submission through modern religion and the authority of a man. Don’t be shy. You have been given a great story of redemption. Be confident in your faith and proclaim the gospel!!
You can't have freedom..
Unless you know where the boundaries are.
Thanks for sharing, as this was on my mind for the last seven days regarding women preaching and teaching in the church and a controlling spirit that seems to take hold. I'm not into family run churches either where the husband and wife become the power couple and have a select inner circle of minions, who fall inline with their manipulations. Cold shouldering also seems to be a skill heavily used, as well as the all too common fake smile. Talk about spiritual abuse.
tremendous wonderful message! if u ever visit Vienna in Austria come
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HI, Chelsea, I have sent an email to you. Maybe it has landed in your spam folder..is there any way to get in touch? Thanks.
Did she reply? Do you need answers or guidance from her?
The dominant female that demasculates is the Jezebel spirit. Just like Jezebel in the old testament married to Ahab. She was controlling & manipulative.
And that, "divine feminine", spirit is of the world; of the wicked one, and lends itself to so-called, "empowerment", wherein babies are aborted, there's no accountability and total rebellion as you've said to the Holy Spirit of Truth and our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, King of kings. God bless you, your family, your marriage and your ministry in Christ Jesus name.
Thanks alot for sharing sister, New friend here stay connected God bless you