if i feel alone, but there are thousands of other people listening to this who also feel alone - none of us are really alone. we're all here together. i hope you can feel better soon
you know the feeling where you don't really care about your birthday but get sad when nobody remembers it? it's not about the fact that i enjoy brithdays, it's the fact that nobody remembers me.
@@user-eu9nt8cv4v Well eventually you will I promise you. I mean what else would we live for except except for good moments. Playing your favorite video game. Calming your mind listening to lofi. And for a moment it feels good. If all we lived for were horrible days life wouldn't be worth living. Whether it be a short period thats what we humans live for. Thats why we work. Its so we can live true but also so we can LIVE if you know what I mean. To have a shot at making ourselves happy even for a moment. Thats why many date, thats why you listened to this lofi, thats why many reminisce about their past and how carefree they used to be able to be. To get that moment. And even if it was for a moment, you'll refer back to it and say to yourself, I wish it could be like that forever. Thats what it means by good ol days. The term is vast. It never means that life was perfect. The sad reality is, thats how close it could've gotten to perfect despite how terrible of a world we live in.
After leaving a toxic friendship, and finally being able to sit in peace, this is just what I need. Thank you lofi community for your love and effort to produce these beautiful songs. :) 💜
More than one doctor told me I have a depressed personality. Next week I'll turn 30 and I haven't accomplished anything in my life: never finished my studies, no job, no prospectives. I spend whole days crying sometimes, and whole nights thinking about things that give me even more anxiety. This music really helps, thank you Dreamy.
hey stranger we don't know each other, probably will never get to, haven't seen each other and never spoken to each other. but here's something; you will be always seen different or not up to society's eyes, but you are a wonderful being. you may think you haven't accomplished anything, but you've definitely made some people happy, made some people inspired and made some people worried about you when you were down. you've struggled so much. You deserve much more. You're a huge,colorful world that no one probably took the chance to look at you and explore you. This may not help a lot, but remember, someone out there still loves you, someone out there is worried for you, someone out there wants to see you smile. take your time and heal. I wish the best for you
Federica We don’t know each other but I know a lot of ppl who are in the same situation you are in, even be. I’ll be 27 this year and I’m now just starting to find who I really am and my purpose. Someone who dealt with depression and feeling like a failure to those who I care the most about I realize after I had my son that if I continue to put my all into it that’s the first step of showing yourself that you care for you. Sit down and express yourself on what it is that you want to do (write it down) this of all the ways that you can give back if the career you choose. I wish you the best and remember you where born for something so go and find it!.
The other day I went to see my friends who live in a city very far from me, I am a person with very few friends since in my town I have no one. The thing is that I had a great time with them until my day came to go and go back to my routines and my lonely and sad life with no one, with nothing just me, my computer and this type of videos that help me get my demons within me. I don't think anyone stops to read this comment but I just wanted to get it out to vent a little. Have a nice day.
same here, sad thing is that when you go visit them all the time and moments that has passed when you where ausent exists just for those people, not for you, thats when you realize that you're not part of that place, like if you had no home nor family to return with
I cannot promise you a happy life. I cannot promise that things can and will get better. But what I can say is: we need to take life, one day at a time. To not take for granted the things we have; including ourselves. We have a light we share to this world, we effect people more than we know or are aware of. It's hard to not feel lonely in a sea of aimlessness that is humanity. Like buoying silhouettes upon the waves we ride the currents, together, and yet always so alone. Work on yourself. That's all we can do. Try to be the best you can be, not for others, but for yourself. Find happiness and solidarity in your unique self. In the end, we are all alone. But that doesn't mean we cannot make this world, and ourselves, a better place. Know that one day, when your time is to come, the people who loved you--who do love you--will remember the unique Light you brought to this world.
“Silence speaks the loudest words” -probably someone I had an experience in high school where this quote resonates with me. I’m high school I went through frequent depressive phases and i still go through them. During one of my phases of depression my parents were late picking me up so I had to sit alone after school to wait for them. One of my closest friends at the time just sat down next to me and leaned up against me. I took off my headphones to see if she wanted to say something but neither of us spoke. But during that moment I had felt the best I have since my childhood. I was 10 when I watched my grandfather pass away in the hospital. I’ve been suffering in silence since that day. Until I met her. Sometimes all it takes is a little bit of company to change your day.
What is so wrong about reality? Since we live on it, let us live and love it! Love my kids, my parents, my wife, love what God made for us, mortals. Love the idea of eternity that we can only reach by the knowledge of immaterial (God again). Don´t worry, young people, you are only bored. All things must pass. Guten morgen brasilien
camilo maganha you probably haven’t heard of school in your live, it starts cool and you meet friends but after 10 fucking years it keeps getting harder and harder. I just passed last year and now they litterly splitted my whole friend group into different classes. And then you think it’s stupid that we prefer games where you can play all the times with your friends and just have a blast instead of thinking about responsibilities and upcoming tests!!
Same bro, sometimes it just feels good to be sad and idk why. Being happy all the time would suck and I guess contemplating life and existence is important too :).
I just realised how kind the community is. Like in other Channels the people are so toxic but here every comment is nice or sad. I guess sad and lonley people are the best :) I love you guys
For anyone scrolling through the comments going through a really hard time I truly hope things get better for you no matter who you are. Please don't give up trying. There is a reason you are here reading this message, to remind you that YOU are so important to God and His Son Jesus Christ. I can only imagine what you are going through but God knows. I also know how difficult life can be and I may not understand your exact experience but I am truly sorry that things have been so tough for you. I care and want you to know that you are not alone, you have a purpose, you are worthy of so much. Please take it one day at a time, one step at a time. I am praying that God will send His angels to each and everyone of you to comfort you, surround you with His love, give you peace beyond measure, and to change things for the better. Please know that you are here for a reason and that sometimes we don't always know why we go through things, maybe to help someone else going through the same thing because you understand such pain that someone else may not. All the pain and suffering is caused by sin which we are given death as a wage for but we have a Savior Jesus Christ who loved us first and He died for you, He loves you more than you could ever know. Please repent by asking Him for forgiveness of wrongs and ask Him into your heart believing with sincerity. (Please see the book the Holy Bible for more information) He can guide you in all things. I speak from experience it doesn't matter what we have done or that we think we don't measure up He will meet us where we are, even in our lowest low. He can give you peace beyond measure, I speak from experience. I can only imagine how hard it has been for you but I truly hope the best is yet to come for all of you. Please never give up, because He won't give up on us. Please remember this when things are hard and you feel at the end of your rope. Jesus Christ has done everything for us and He wants us to be healed. Put your faith in Christ today! To give your life to Jesus Christ here is a sample prayer: Dear Lord Father in Heaven I admit I am a sinner. I have done many things that don't please you. I have lived my life for myself only. I am sorry and I repent. I ask you to forgive me. I believe that you died for me to save me. You did what I could not do for myself. I come to you now and ask you to take control of my life; I give it to you. From this day forward, help me to live every day for you in a way that pleases you. I love you Lord, and I thank you that I will spend eternity with you, In Jesus name I pray, amen...........
this is my life right now. ive got no friends, im studying for exams and i stay at home all day and study for it. no social life too so its the perfect caption "feel so alone". but, this too shall pass. ive got great days ahead and i know that. i just need to grind for now, i can do this. good luck peeps, we all got this! :) Edit: I made it!!! i passed all my exams! :)
You need to explore a different perspective and stop overthinking life. Some books i recommend: "Pneuma by BJR Zwarts" and "Dark places of Wisdom by Peter Kingsley".... some Alan Watts lectures as well :) Read all 3 and you will be cleared of all the nonsense. Trust me.
How come lonely people never find each other Edit: Wow I knew there were other people put there but over 3k likes, and over 100 replies. Thanks evrybody for just still existing, I know its hard sometimes, maybe all the time, but we always fight for that next day. If nobody else believes in you, I do. Keep fighting.
For me it feels the other way around: A feeling of breathing while everyone around you is drowning. İn a way it makes you feel human because when you are depressed you stop playing play pretend, see the world's true face and don't try to force yourself into a false sense of happiness like most of the people around us. We are depressed because we have the courage to look the harsh truth and our ugly problems dead in the eye, face them, except their existence and fight them head on instead of sugar coating them in ignorance. Those few people who have that strength are the ones who are going to be truly happy now and for all eternity.
For everyone who is going through a hard time in their personal life and also trying to study...I am with you my friend. Hang in there. We'll make it through this 😍
4:32AM here Just feeling alone Staying in this dark room Crying I’m not crying for something I’m crying for no reasons I love to cry Crying makes you feel good It’s okay to cry.
me too, i just cried for the first time in months and it felt amazing. i’m in a really emotionally numb state and crying is extremely hard for me, even when i’m super sad, the tears just don’t come but i like crying
The lo-fi mix comment sections are basically, a collection of these small, poem-like texts. They give advice, help and just makes anyones mood just a 100x better. And for that, Thanks.
Same. I'm numb since years...but beep inside of me I just want to have my emotions back and let them out. It was self protection, because there where to much pain and problems around me...it was the only way survive. Now many days it feels like I'm sad inside and wish I could cry, but I can't. It's horrible.
to everyone who is doing homework, leave the chat, breathe slowly, take a sip of water, and focus to everyone who is trying to sleep, leave the chat, grab a blanket, and get the rest you deserve. to everyone who is feeling sad, grab a snack, get some water, get a blanket, and write down your thoughts. when you're done, lay down, and get some rest, no matter the time. to everyone who is drawing, you got this. you're art is amazing. keep your head up (or down, depends on where your paper is) and remember that you matter. i love you all
Thoughts. Okay. Daydreams lit my eyes when the world was somber and quiet. Existing used to feel like something. Friends just... were. Family knew me. Emotions stirred when I read, when I watched, when I listened. Stars used to twinkle. I am a husk. Good things are often ugly and all too necessary. Life is a bittersweet sorrow. Left behind, long forgotten. That's what I am now. Life clung with a stronger grip back then, leaping to and fro between the hurdles I can't hope to reach now. I'm not just alone. I'm not just disillusioned. I'm not just envious and stoic. There's a hole in my chest and nothing fills it. A wound that bleeds more with every bandage I put on it. It isn't scabbing, isn't closing, isn't healing. I'm not getting better. Everything's fading. Maybe it always was.
Because more often than not we care more about other people than ourselves. We've put people ahead of us for so long, it's natural for us to want to help.
The thing is, no one wants to die, they just want to be _happy._ And when they start to believe happiness doesn't exist, that's when they lose their will to live.
" Depression is like a war, some live and some die trying. " -Unknown Have a good day, if you're having a bad one just try to make it as good as you can. I believe in you :)
I want you, yes you reading this. I want you to know, that even if no one has told you today, I'm glad you're here. I'm glad you're alive. We may now know each other, but we know our struggles, our plights, are stories may not be so different. So from me, to you, thank you for being here. Thank you for staying strong. And thank you for never giving up. You got this. We all love you.
Thank you going though a rlly hard time rn and COVID hasn’t helped and it feels like I’m talking to a wall and I’m forgot, and your a random person over the Internet
have you ever feel like you broke up listening to these kinds of music, but you never had a relationship to begin with? the feeling of longing to someone and maybe thats loneliness
Oh i exactly know what it feels to broke up listening these kinds of music. It really hurts, i'm not depressive or anything because i'm someone who like to fight back the life but damn, it really, really hurts. It emplifies the grief and it makes you cry until there is nothing left in your head to cry ... But i don't know, once i was not able to cry i was able to put things into perspectives and then, to go forth. So it hurts but help you to pass that hard moment.
thank you all, i've spent 30 minutes reading all of your comments and it has helped me so much. your problems made me feel like i'm not the only person suffering, and the advice got me to get back up. to anyone feeling "pathetic" for scrolling the comment section just to feel better don't be. i did too but after a while all the positive comments just helps u so much. even though none of us may truly ever meet, i feel as we all really do love each other in this big world.
its strange how you are feeling depressed, have suicidal thoughts and feel useless yet you put on a bright happy face every day and thats all people around you see.... Update: geez 7 months fighting depression and still no improvement 😍
@Bruno Schaab Tried to show that I was in pain after hiding it for so long because people always say it's unhealthy. As soon as I did people didn't want anything to do with me anymore. And by people, I mean literally every "close" friend and family member I have.
I think a lot of us put that happy face on you make sure the people we interact with don't feel the way we do, as someone who is depressed most of the time I know I don't wish this pain and sadness on anyone.
I have no reason to feel like this My life is good I have friends People like me Then why do I feel like I’m drowning in sadness?! I try to push it off but it comes back like a yo-yo, my friends ask if I’m okay but they know I’m not. I’m not even heartbroken or anything I just feel empty and pain. It’s all I feel. :/
You just described exactly how I feel. I have no reason to be sad. I have good family, friends, never been in a relationship to feel heartbroken, haven’t lost a close loved one. I have no reason to feel the way I do but... I drown in it.
You know it's been rough when a "good work" comment by a teacher that really cares about you on a late essay that you worked really hard on while also battling a real bad depressive episode makes you cry... I'm seriously gonna have to email her a letter once I graduate this spring...
@@heavenc3796 ik this is 6 months late, but I told her how she really helped me get through high-school and had an emotional chat. I cried during a speech at my little graduation but hey, it was from the heart. Now I've been out of high-school for awhile with a decent job, very little depression and I'm with my amazing boyfriend (been with just over a year now). Happiest I've ever been even with some health struggles.
Hearing everybody else's storys honestly does make me sad. I feel so sorry that some of you are going through this. Personally I know I have depression but I don't want to tell my parents because I know how they will react. They will either make a big deal about it or call me an attention sleeker. Reading your comment puts a little joy in my heart. Not because you are in pain but because I know I'm not alone and neither are you. This is just a message to tell you to keep going. No matter how hard or sad I gets you still have a future ahead of you. I love you all and stay safe. 😊
Sometimes I just wish someone could tell me “it’s all gonna be okay” but I have no friends and my parents seem to never know how I feel. I don’t tell them though because I want to hear them say it in their words. So, if you’re reading this: it’s all gonna be okay
I know what that’s like. Maybe I don’t know how YOU feel, but yeah, sometimes it would just be really nice for someone to uplift you without you asking them. It can seem selfish to want others to do that for you, but when you need it, you need it, and when others can’t see it, it makes you so mad on the inside or something. I have hope though that others out there can actually see through us
hey!!, you may be feeling alone, but doesn't everyone has to go someday and never meet again, everybody we know will come and go just like waves coming up to the sand in the beach. well, there is someone who is always with us and by knowing this you will not be alone, he is always with us but we don't see it. God is always with us, so don't lose hope!! ilysm
Now I've hit a point where I don't feel happy or sad or excitement anymore...just kinda existing these days Edit: (1 month later) it hurts seeing the replies knowing that so many of u feel the same way. It really does suck but after a whole month of staying away from my phone, journaling, meditating and focusing more on myself, I can tell you I feel much happier at the moment. Hard times will eventually pass I promise but it's different for everyone. I won't be this happy forever now, god forbid it could change after I post this but my point is, I hope all of u can overcome the hard times. Life really is like a rollercoaster. You're gonna feel so damn low but then you'll feel over the moon and you'll come crashing down again. I just hope you find healing ways/ ways to cope during those falls that work for you. Try to discover what makes you feel alive, even if of just watching something to help youescape for a little. To those still reading, thank you. Sending you all love and stay strong 💜 Edit: (3 months) Never thought I'd say this but my mental health is at the best it's ever been. It's taken patience, understanding, learning and so many years though. But it's worth it because I feel like I'm living a good quality life finally? But the fact that I'm also aware that life will become really hard again is what helps my peace of mind. I'm not going to feel this great for the rest of my life and you won't feel hurt for the rest of your life because that's not what life is. It could be amazing one day then terrible the next. Quarantine actually was the hardest but taught me the most. How I'm taking care of my mental health now? I did some soul searching after feeling like I had no worth or purpose on earth, found out about things I truly liked, spent a lot of time alone to focus on myself and do things that make me happy or feel alive, even though they were as small as watching water fall in nature surrounded by petals or allowing myself to be creative or even just cleaning my room. Since I found little fun things to do each day, I felt like I was living to the fullest personally. Another thing I did each day, change my sleeping habits so instead of sleeping at 5am n waking up at 3pm (it was so bad lol) I started sleeping around 11 and woke up at 6am. Then I would NOT go on my phone first thing but instead listen to a guided meditation, repeat my own affirmations, calmly stretch outside or do yoga while listening to the birds sing. As for my anxiety...still need a lot of work there but I will hopefully overcome it one day. There's no rush, life is long. Slowly by doing these small things and questioning who I am as a person, I learnt that life is too short to worry what people tell me or say about me. In no way will we be happy 24/7 and have the perfect routine everyday or talk to ourselves with love every second, but I think what would help us live more at peace is if we can become more aware of what we're feeling (happy/sad/worried..etc) and remember "Everything Goes". This feeling is temporary and you'll feel happy again. Look up to the sky if it's daylight and just watch the clouds, how they pass slowly then a new one comes in...now think of those clouds as your thoughts and feelings. It will pass. If you really thing about it...we're all just tiny human beings on a planet in this huge ass universe where no one truly knows for sure why we're here..we actually are just existing, so why not exist doing what makes you feel happy or alive? It might take a while for you to figure out what that is but with a little alone time, look inside yourself and genuinely reflect on times you felt alive and excited. Then do more of this :) I'm not saying you have to do ANY of what I did in order to be happy at all, I was only sharing what I felt personally helps me want to wake up in the morning and helps me cope with my depression that I've had ever since I can remember but what I'm saying is to just focus on yourself and question yourself in many aspects of your life, you may or may not find the answer to them straight away but they will help you become more self aware, therefore learning more about yourself and what makes you feel happy in peace. Anyway that was my update and advice so if you're still here reading this, I hope it gave you a little hope. you will get through it with patience and a little work. Theres is over 7 billion people in the world and no one has any idea what we're actually doing as humans on this small planet. Let's just continue to uplift eachother and remember that everything good and bad will eventually pass. Seeing your replies make me feel so happy. You all have a growth mentality and it's not easy but at least that tiny bit of effort is what makes you so damn strong. Every single one of you deserve to live a life you dream of. Sending you all my love and virtual hug or a shoulder to cry on 🤍 Cheering for you all💪 you are never alone ✨
relatable, but we have to keep at it and win over and over and over and over with many falls in between for some more than other but we keep going over and over and over and win and lose and keep winning, hope you all are doing fine
Melancholy is an emotion we don’t pay enough attention too. It’s deeply cathartic and emotionally satisfying. Life is inherently difficult. It’s never what we want it to be. Your expectations will fail you, whether they be in a job field, romantic affairs, or familial relations. It’s a reality of life that doesn’t fit the narratives of a culture that is dead set on selling and promoting constant, nauseating happiness. To lament and despair over these paradigms is sadness, which can be cathartic in its own right. But to accept the world for as it is and for how we’ve experienced it, with all of its disappointments and contrasting joys, and to reflect and ponder deeply the ramifications of our continued existence is, I believe, melancholia. I can only speak to my experiences, but I have found, in my faith and social circles, that to accept the ephemerality of all things and befriend the pain that comes with the loss of all things is a satisfying, fulfilling way to move forward. I feel passed the point that happiness is the goal of life. As vague as it is, the goal of life, or the secret to the good life, is fulfillment-as the Greeks would call eudaemonia. When fulfillment is the goal, happiness becomes an impermanent friend in our life; coming and going with no promise of staying because it has no obligation to. When it is around, perhaps, we appreciate it more as we should deeply appreciate all the emotions we feel. To be in the state of melancholy that I most often find myself has been one road to such fulfillment. I come up short, the source of my disappointments being often myself; and the healthiest emotional, spiritual, mental response I’ve been able to have is forgiving the world. Forgiving myself that I change as often as I do, forgiving the ecosystem of friendships and loves that they are autonomous and change. Forgiving happiness and sources of it that they change. Forgiving the pains themselves, too, that they change. Perhaps pain stems from change. How expectations of potential relationships change when we learn that they aren’t interested in us as we are them. When we are in one state of joy and euphoria because of delightful and hopeful expectations, then in the next we are distraught and find ourselves in the annals of RUclips Lofi comment sections searching for catharsis, something indeed changed to cause us the pain we are in. Melancholy doesn’t offer us a way out, but offers us something deeper. Understanding, and perhaps disappointing resolution, but resolution nonetheless. Melancholy says “yeah, I feel you there.” It’s empathy is thus rooted deep into our broken souls. Melancholy enables us to give up our claim on what we thought, wanted, and/or expected the world to be for us. Doing so gives us a more profound satisfaction than what can be offered in the world’s attempts to Disnify human existence. As one of my favorite living philosophers says: “The actual work of sacrificing all things [or giving up our claim to what we want the world to be] looks like the continual work of forgiving all things. It looks like the continual work of forgiving the world the fact that it is passing away. That it is not going to last. That it is not going to satisfy me in the way that I want to. That the world is never going to stop and freeze in place and be what I hoped it would be and that as a result, to be a Christian who doesn’t run away from the loss of all things, who actively takes up the work of sacrificing all things, that as a practical matter, mostly looks like my continually engaging in the work of forgiving all things. In particular, forgiving the loss of all things. Forgiving even the loss of what I hoped things would be even in the best of scenarios. Forgiving myself the fact that I have lost what I thought I wanted to be, to one degree or another, in one way or another, professionally or religiously or in relationships with other people. Coming back again and again here to the work of forgiving all things.” - Adam S. Miller (Maxwell Institute Podcast) If you read this, thank you. Sleep well and hold out. And, if I may, may God bless you and keep you.
Yeah bro, melancholy has always been so poetic to me, I've started listenning to old timey brazillian sad songs (I'm brazillian), which reflect different kinds of sadness, melancholy has always been my favorite emotion, because it's a simple pain that I know I can tolerate, it's that underrated color that might not be much on it's own but gives a big contrast that the painting wouldn't have otherwise, I love to feel happy, but only when I have a reason to (e.g, my workout progress is finally showing), otherwise it just feels.. empty And melancholy is that feeling that when you're alone you might be sad, but not sad in the rain, more like sad and warm, it depends on why you're sad too, sometimes I just doubt myself, I've reached a pretty stable mental state where I wake up and listen to songs that pump me up to become better everyday, songs that inspire me, to improve as a human and on myself, and it's working But sometimes, at night, there is that lingering feeling as if I am still not enough, that I can be better, for me, the people around me, and that if I haven't dated the girl I love yet, is because I still gotta improve, and when I wake up it's so satisfying to listen to the songs that I do, look myself in the mirror, realize I'm getting more tonned, and believe that I can do everything Sadness gives a contrast to life that other emotions don't Anger is not satisfying, it's a mental state where you perceive anything as a threat, it might be good to let your emotions out but it often makes people miscommunicate Now sadness is kinda poetic, there are many layers to it, many whom are unhealthy, but the top ones, that feeling of "damn, I still have a long way to go, she deserves better, I can be better", is so good (of course there must be a balance, I'm talking about myself here but I've talked to others about it, I'm not alone in this), mainly when you wake up next morning, prepare that bowl of cereal, and listen to some alternative rock that makes you feel like you will be better I hate when people say that things will get better, because when things were bad for me, I expected the world to suddently spin, to have someone appear in my life that would accept me the way I was (I was under weight, annoying, basically terrible in every aspect) But then I've slowly realized, I can get people to gravitate towards me by being nice, people made mean jokes and treated me poorly because I treated others that way Then I realized, damn, I'm really skinny, how do I expect to date that gorgeous girl being an underweight guy, that barely showers and is a giant prick And so I started bettering myself I recognize of my privillege and luck, of being born in a financially and emotionally stable household, with both loving parents and a realist big sister (she used to do bad stuff, but she learned, and she never wanted me to follow her footsteps, but she also knows why somebody would do the stuff she did, etc..), also I have really great friends, people I can trust, and I found love in an amazing girl, whom I hope to date one day, she likes me too but due to a multitude of factors (a recent breakup of a long relationship for example) she isn't really looking forward to a new relationship, but at least I got her amazing friendship and anything other than an official relationship is fair game So yep, I know not everybody has the luck I have, I've started becomming healthier because I had the money to hire a nutritionist, the money to frequent the gym, etc.. But I believe that anybody with enough force of will can do anything, I didn't need to pay anyone to better myself, that was achieved through introspection If you're overweight for example, you don't need to go to the gym to lose weight So yep sorry for the rambling, but basically, melancholy (or controlled sadness) is powerful, a beautiful emotion that can help us improve, it's satisfying, it gives new perspectives to life
That's the whole problem, I think in the end tho, we could be hero, we should be hero. We're probably part of the same abyss, I think tho that there's a light above, that we can get to, it's not easy, but being a hero isn't easy in the end, it requires will, courage and strength. The point is that everyone can get there, and should, to feel at least free, at last. I personally feel things like these, it isn't easy, I don't know why and I don't know how, but one day things turned out to be so hard for me. But still, we could be hero, we should be hero, at least for ourselves.
@@lilY-f1t Do you know how life brings sudden changes, that just turn whole your life around?That happens randomly and at any moment of course,but i'm not here to tell you to wait a little longer for that big of a change.Although yes,life does it suddenly and randomly,there are always causes to such changes,that only we can achieve,so we would get the right criterias for the life we want so much Do the first step,and maybe everything can develop afterwardsLike seeds,that after just being put into the ground,thrive by themselves so gracefully and strong.
Don’t underestimate yourself and what you can do to helps others, your voice sounds good in your head, but it still comes out that way, just a bit worse, but not too bad, you can still understand what they were trying to say
I try to say I want to feel alive but I had a time where I was close to my happiness but I saw someone upset and I took my happiness to give to them and know I am alone again but how are you
Everyone I've ever loved has eather disappeared, died, or betrayed me. So now I just keep my distance so I never get close enough for that to happen again.
Hey, don’t give up. I’m really sorry you had to go through that.. but all those experiences have shaped you. You’re not only stronger now, but also extremely unique. I’m sure someone will come and see that and wanna stick around. And even if they don’t, it’s life eh? You fall down 7 times, but you stand up 8. (That was from a song lol) sooo yea. I’ve dealt w feelings like this and no one replied to your post so I felt like I should 🙂😗😚
I can't say the exact same, but I understand the betrayal thing. Even if you don't believe it, there's someone there for you. I think there's a person for everyone. Whether that's a bf/gf, a best friend or a family member. Soulmates have to be real. 7 billion of us, they have to. And I've seen soulmates before. And it can take you half of your life, but they will find you somehow. I promise you. Sending much love. Take care.
I wanna cry all the time, and when i don't it bursts out unexpectedly and strong. All my mind wants is piece and rest, but it can't get any. Please, people, put yourself first so you wouldn't turn into a mess like this.
@@sahilchhabra2391 Hey man. I am really sorry for your loss and hope that you will get better one day. It took me some time to recover, but time did help. I hope it will help you too.
@@gottastoppo I hope so, it's been couple of months since I have felt like this, no genuine smile, unending sadness, friends are too busy to listen to my drama.
@@dinkle3206 here you go. This hug is special full of appreciation. You are one wonderful person I know it. If you need to talk to someone I am open to talk feel free I am here for you. :)
I have terrible anxiety to the point where I think I will die if I fall asleep. This music is the only thing that works in drowning out those thoughts enough so I can sleep. Thanks for posting often
Don't give up. If people look down on you. Without knowing it, they act like a stepping stone to you. Thank them, because now it's up to you to make the step and climb on top of them, so they have to tilt their head up.
You'll get through it man. I was like that for almost a year. I was terrified to go to sleep and would stay up till like 5 am. And then I realized. If I've been doing this for 300 days in a row, every single night, and I haven't died yet, then why would this night be any different than the last 300? The fear of dying in your sleep is a real thing. I pray you can overcome this. It is one of the worst feelings in the world.
Its the same with me. Except I find it extremely hard to fall asleep without music because my own thoughts scare me so much and when I don't have music for any reason, I have anxiety attacks and honestly I wouldn't fall asleep if the attacks didn't tire me out. The music distracts me and I dunno how to explain this but it just tires me out enough to let me fall asleep.
"The strongest part of the tree is the roots, and ironically, they are in the darkest area of the entire tree." -me when I was 4, alot wiser than I am now.
I see life. as a notebook : Imagine, it’s your birthday and someone gives you a drawing notebook. You can do whatever you want with it, just like life. You can draw nothing in it, and just leave it all alone. But you can also draw drawings in it, not all of those drawings will be beautiful but that’s just like live. Just go to the next page of your notebook (go on with life) You can draw anything, nothing is impossible. Take this notebook (your life) and go do something amazing with it. Good luck
I have a bunch of blank notebooks cause I'm afraid that whatever I put in them won't be good enough. And I realize this is kinda how I've approached my life, scared to try things cause I might mess up. This is good advice, I really needed this.
Life actually means nothing...You are born...rush to get school done...And then you work until you die or retire...Why do we overthink life so much and is the life society created actually a life worth living or will you be forgotten in a few years...Why do we want to put ourselves in so much pain and discomfort if we all know what the outcome is gonna be (death)
To have an experience, it may seem small but the little moments (making cookies with your mom, your first kiss, telling your friend and joke a she laughs so much milk comes out of her nose, going with your lover to the top of the roof and talk for hours) somtimes it dose not feel like it’s worth it but if you wait for the next moment. You may find that it means something, to you, to your family, for friends. People are just specks of dust in the long run, yes. But you make an affect for future people, you would not be here if not for that.
I know there is no meaning in life just like music music serves no purpose but we all enjoy it so find a life you like just like you you find your taste in music
She lost interest in me, So I lost hope. Why does this hurt me so much. Everything I’ve been through with her, every future plan we discussed, it all just feels pointless. I gave my all and she dropped it. I need her back. she was my happiness. I know there are so many in this comment section that struggle with the same thing. I don’t wish it on anyone. Everyone please be okay.
In Kabala, they say to always look at bad situations as gifts from God. Why? Because maybe what seems like a bad situation is actually a gift. You may miss her, but she is not the person for you. You should be happy she is gone. Maybe she never loved you and set you free. Do you really want to be with someone who doesn't love you? She probably loved you so much, she left. She wants you to find happiness with someone who will really truly love you. If she stayed with you, it'd be depriving you of finding your soul mate.
Hey man. To be happy with someone else. You need to first be able to be happy yourself, if you cant, try your best to find something that makes you happy, about yourself, but don’t rely on someone else to make you happy, I did that and..it didn’t work out..
I’m the person who’s always supporting my friends, and I’ll always be there for them. Unfortunately I don’t know how to socialise anymore, so there’s nobody who’s going to be there for me.
Whoever reads this, i wish you the best this world can offer, life's tough , relationships are complicated , the struggle is real ! we all go through thick and thin, darkness is a chapter of your life that makes you realize how valuable light is , breathe deep and trust the process , this too shall pass:) i wish you the very best, god bless🙏🌹
This type of music make me have this kind of feeling that I don't know what it is but it feels good and empty at the same time, like if all my feelings get in to the songs and I start to listen them, it make me cry so bad but honestly after that I can sleep in pace.
27 years old alone in a foreign country, how much i tried to adapt here and make friends but never succed. I am crying everyday, i am so weak. i go to the supermarekts daily for a human reaction and i go weekly to the same cafe shop to order the same cafe so i can make a little conversation with the waiter.
What country are you in? Maybe we're in the same country... Or people who read this comment are,,, i think we should help each other to not feel or be lonely anymore
Hey bro. Atleast you had the courage to go to an foreign country alone. I couldn't even done that. Good luck on finding new people. Need someone to talk to about anything? My discord is: basement keeper#0001
Hey! I would like to thank you for this warming support and i am afraid to share that i am still alone here in Germany, been kicked out of the Uni because i couldnt focus on my lessons and now i am trying to pass the language exam so i can apply again.. I failed twice but yet i try to get up every morning to study.. what i would like to share that i found my passion in photography and writing.. I think the need of a human contact has produced this passion.. because most of the time i photograph random people in the train or writing some short poems about my feelings.. I started to smoke weed sometimes inorder to make the long days bit shorter.. I just noticed i had just 27 likes on my comment which is the same number i started it the first comment.. I will be honest it drew a smile on my face..
recently i had been deciding whether i should live anymore. i feel so alone and lost. except i decided to give the world another chance. i'm gonna have a month off school to get myself better (i live in aus and where i live we've been going to school for 6 weeks cause we hardly have any cases), and figure out what i truly want to do. i want to find things that interest me and give me a sense of euphoria like i used to feel. cause i honestly miss my old self. i have been constantly crying. i've lost all my friends. suicide is the only thing on my mind. even when something good happened, it's all i could think about. it would drive me crazy. so, now i'm finally allowing myself to breathe. i just really hope it turns out the way i want it to, and i get into a better mental state. i hope anyone out there who is struggling with a similar situation can also rethink their decision and possibly keep fighting like i am. i too, have gave the universe many chances but i decided this is it's last chance. if i don't get better or don't find myself.. well then maybe my place here on earth isn't meant to be. stay strong dreamers
i wanna give u a big fat hug :( u deserve the universe and so much happiness. u matter a lot to so many people. i hope u find ur path in life toward only happiness and success!
Kelly Goodman I too am finding myself in a similar situation. Writing has helped me stave off my plots, though I keep coming back to the same conclusion. Sorry if these words aren’t helpful, or the usual “you can do it stuff”. I just feel similar. I don’t really want to go just yet, but I’m afraid of life. I don’t know exactly what I’m trying to say, except that perhaps you have the opportunity to keep going. So do I, I mean no ones taken our actual lives let alone ourselves. So maybe, just maybe we can overcome. I really hope this doesn’t sound dumb.
Hi Kelly.. it is okay to feel like all is lost and there's not much the world can offer. I can relate to what you are feeling. What helps me is to put my self out of my 'life scene' and become the watcher of my own life; that way I could be more aware of what I am feeling rather than reacting to it. If you are feeling sad, allow yourself to feel sad, it's ok. It is brave to face your genuine feeling like you are feeling right now. You are a brave person, believe in your self
2005 , A young girl got birth. She had the world at her feet. She had a wonderfull mother and a wonderful father. Then years passed. 2010, Her parents divorced. She was young and couldn't understand. So her mom told her everyday : Your father found a better woman than mom dear. 2015, Her mother found another man. The man seemed kind at the first impression. But then years past by. The little girl started to understand life. 2020, The little girl got Anxiety. Then Asthma. Then alot of stress problems. Then Depression. The girl were an anti-social teen with online friends. She didn't wanted real friends because: "I know I will be understood in another dimension with sad teens like me." You just rode MY story. I am an depressed young teen. With surely no future so why shouldn't I already tell my story? -Naomi Nasure.
I don’t know you but I feel you, right now I just want to die tbh, I just want to sleep and never wake up. Everything will be okay in the end, keep fighting! Sending hugs ❤️
cool, im 2005 aswell, but tbh i would want asthma, would just help me y know. looks like u have kinda similar history, but my parents divorce would be just a good thing. kawaii anglerfish#0464
this sounds exactly like me I never want real friends cod when I was younger in kinder garden/nursery I had loads of friends but since m 11 my life changed a lot and I never wanted real friends cud every friend I have in school just uses me for answers in work and poeple steal my only friend guess I'll never have one I hate friends
Real frnds don't exist..... I too had a frnd whom I loved so much she was everything for me, I gave her my all love, I was always available for her in return she used, abused nd refused me.... I left her company now from long tym I feel empty from inside going with lyf, no excitement, I can feel u all..... There's nothing I can do but I'll pray from God for ur happy, healthy nd bright lyf..... I feel glad that I found u all, love u frnds....
Damn just think about how many people feel things while listening to this and everyone got their own life and thinking and all, its crazy to think about Tell me what you feel while listening im really interested in your storys
i feel lonely, but i feel like i am enough. I enjoy my own company because i learned how to be alone... i feel like people around me aren't on the same frequency that i am. It's overwhelming. And i have no real friends, because whenever i find one, the go away or abandon me... yes, feeling sad and exhausted for the last 2 years and now i don't even know how is it to feel happiness like, i dont know, i am very playful around my family but i wish they took me to therapy. I have all the symptoms of social phobia and tourettes... sadly, my mom won't pay attention to my mental health and she doesn't even know much about it. The only friend i have is a girl who i am too scared and anxious to meet in real life so we just talk through the internet (sorry for bad english is not my first language)
@@lanalaniakea Damn I don't really know how to help you I don't really know much about your situation and connections I dont even know how old you are but I know that friends can be a big help if you are searching for happiness. I get that some people aren't on the same frequence as I myself am I get that to from alot of people. If someone asked me who my friends are there would come 2 people in mind. I got more friend thru my old school but we kinda disconnected after I was going to a different school. They were the ones I think arent on the same frequence as I am. That doesn't mean that I don't like them and you can still have fun with them but its hard to connect on a deeper level. I dont really know how to find the right people because I am struggling myself. From you story I can feel that you have a good relation to your family whats really good and there are the ones that will stick with you forever so. I can just tell you that you maybe really talk serious to your parents about your mental state and that you want therapy. I know that its not easy but its worth it. Their are your parents so they should want the best for you. Tell me if you talked to them and how it was :) And remember that every pain is temporary but when you're alone you can spiral yourself into it and its easier to get out with the help of others.
Well the first time I was depressed I randomly started thinking about my grandad that passed in 2013 and my dog that grew up with me , i started to not care about alot of things and stopped trying in school , then school started worrying me alot and it gave me low self asteem (which to be honest I still do) I would get angry alot and didn't want to be around any of my friends most the time , I would write and draw dark things and at one point I would cry every night. Then it went for like a week when I opened up about it but then came back and I still am depressed but it's not as bad really , nowadays I worry about things , feel lonely some nights , stay up late every night (its currently 2 am as I type this) I over think about things , sometimes think about dark stuff ,I feel like a failure and I cant sleep without music. 😐 sorry this is so long I honestly probably missed stuff out but yeah 😕 Edit : also my friend group has fell apart aswell it went from a group of people to ide say like 4 and only 2 of them I see and they've been arguing and it's worrying me that they won't be friends at some point and as with the other 2 I probably won't one as much and the other one I probably won't see for years to be honest ☹ and yes I finished secondary school this May
@@dimitrioslange2789 Damn sounds rough. I feel the thing with your friendgroup for me it was after I finished school that I would do much with them but then you see who your real good friends are. I would say meet new people but I know that thats hard sometimes but 2 friends isnt that bad if they are good friends. Just keep in mind that everything is temporary. Every sadness passes someday so as every human or animal. Think about the good times you had with your grandpa and your dog. That whats really counts. Dont be sad that there are gone, be happy to have known them. Hope life gets better for you soon I know some day it will
I’ve had lots of family issues which lead into a very bad depression that almost became dangerous. Then this guy was an amazing friend to me, and truly cared and was there for me. He helped me, and I felt like I was better… until my parents made me block him from my phone, never talk, or even see him ever again. They think he’s a bad person, when he’s not at all. Now I have nothing to keep me motivated anymore, nothing to keep me going. Rn I can just feel myself shutting down again. I don’t know what to do… I know he would.
Dealing with a breakup, worsening anxiety and depression, constantly feeling so lonely and meaningless, lost without my friends, family problems... Stuff like drawing while listening to these types of songs helps me get my emotions out. Thank you for making these.
Escute a voz no fundo poço e ela mesmo te dirá pra levantar se você não fizer nada pra levantar vai ficar aí,pra sempre,foi isso q eu aprendi,embora pouco é tudo oque me resta de esperança sou muito novo(18) pra tentar dar dar conselhos à alguém q já se separou mas se ajudar tá aí.
Same man, break up started all this, although family problems were still there but i was happy with her. Now that she is gone and she was only close friend I had, idk what to do now. 3 months have passed, I cry everyday, and when I am not I am just sad, really sad. It sucks
Too bleak to be bright Too scared to walk through the night Too weak to fight Too stubborn to let go of my sight Too tired to care Too little courage to dare Too much to bare Too far away to be somewhere Too high to climb Too naive to feel numb Too far to fall Too numb to feel at all Too soon to die Too hard to stay awhile~
Wow that’s actually really good, and I completely relate. I feel really numb and depressed all the time, and people keep telling me that it’s gonna get better, but it just seems to get worse...
I don’t feel alone. I just like to listen to this and relax. Whoever is here because they feel lonely, things will get better and you will always be able to find people who will be there for you. So get out there and find them 🍄🌿
It’s funny how sometimes I feel so alone and feel like everybody around me smiles happily while I just fake mine but then when I go on RUclips to listen to sad music etc there are tons of people like me so how came we aren’t friends yet???
I've attempted suicide during my early 20's. Stepped on the gas pedal while pushing my seat back. Made the garden hose fall off the exhaust. Couldn't here the exhaust sound in the cabin so I went outside to put it back on and stopped. ''The fuck am I doing?'' I asked myself. I was crying. Most of my friends had goals. Didn't have any so I felt stupid. I had tried a lot of things but always given up since I didn't have any interest or motivation. So on top of feeling stupid, I felt weak for giving everything up. Why not give up on life too...but I went back home. The pipe was to dirty for the duck tape to hold anyways. I then realize I've made a lot of people cried. I've decided to give life another try even though nothing changed. Met a girl. Spent 3 years with her before she left me. The best thing she ever did. That's when I realized I was searching for happiness in the wrong things. ''I'll be happy when I get a good girlfriend.'' ''I'll be happy when I get a house, a good job.'' or whatever. I also realized that I had a ''mal de vivre'' or a life ache. Seems like it's possible for a mother to transfer her emotional distress to her child. Anyways, I decided to try to appreciate the little things like good food, sunsets and shit like that. In the long run, it worked. Don't give up. Surround yourself with happy people, good-hearted people. Surround yourself with people that go forward. Don't stop giving even though life takes sometimes. Give and don't expect anything back. It'll come back one way or another. Good friends give without expecting anything back so... If you don't have good friends, get rid of the people around you. Get rid of the complainers as they will bring you down. Get rid of the free-riders, the beggars. Get rid of the manipulators, those who judge you. Get rid of the negative people as well as negative thoughts. Treat yourself. Go out. Please don't stay inside. It's a morale killer. Enjoy the small things. Live day by day, minute by minute if you have to but don't give up. It's hard, I know. Been there. But I assure you, you can do it. Last thing, if you wanna talk, talk. If you don't have anyone to talk to,-----------> I'm here. I'll lend a shoulder and gladly listen.
Hey, i know i am late to this but i could really need some advice. So.. Long story short i don t have any goals either.. My parents are pushing me towards jobs i don t think i like, but i haven t even found anything i truly like to do.... Also, all my life i haven t been in a relationship with any of the girls i loved, recently my heart just broke because of a girl and now i have fallen in love with another but she likes my best friend (but my best friend doesn't like her back) i m not popular.. I think i m dumb.... And recently i don t think life has any meaning for me anymore.. I have given life multiple chances but it seems like fortune isn t smiling towards me.. Never has and never will..... I have suicidal toughts but i think about the few people that will miss me..... I don t know what to do anymore
@Johnny Mitchell yea.. just about 2 nights ago i waked up crying because i dreamed about how all my friends are gonna die and how i will miss them.. i overthink so much as well.... i just wanna be happy but it seems i really can t..
@@K0ndensed I'm assuming you're still young since you haven't found a career. Don't stress too much about your career. It's the least of your worries, believe me. I've tried a bunch of things when I got out of high school and couldn't find a fit. I had a bunch of small jobs here and there. Did my fair share of clubs, parties, drugs and alcohols. I went back to school at 26 in art. Worked in 2D animation for 3-4 years afterward and then went back to school in welding. Worked in the field for 4 years and when the economy crumbled, I came back in my hometown, and now I'm back to school doing a teaching degree at the university: I'm 44 years old. It's never too late. Here's the thing. We don't know ourselves when we're young so don't waste time ''thinking'' you're dumb. There are MANY types of intelligence (8 if I'm not mistaken) so just because you're not good in a particular subject, it doesn't automatically classify you as a dumb person. I thought I was dumb too and was socially awkward until I realized in my thirties I had an attention deficit disorder and was an introvert. Life revelation right there for me. It may sound stupid to you but try to find a personnality test and do it. It may surprise you in a good way. About your parents, if they put too much pressure, find yourself an apartment (if it's not already done) so they don't do the ''our house, our rules'' thing. Anyways, they don't get to choose a career for you, you do. Don't say fortune never has smilled or never will. You don't know the future. Did you do the pros and cons on your situation? I don't want you to think I'm denigrating what you are living because I'm not, but we (myself included when I was young) tend to overdramatize things. There is also the fact that we have a morbid habit of seing only our flaws. I still do that at 44 but the difference is that I know myself and my strenghts and this factor alone outway my flaws tenfold. You still trully don't know yourself therefore, you don't know your strenghts. You don't know your full potential so don't give up. You WANT to know your full potential, believe me. As for girls now. You don't want a girl in the situtation you are in right now. It'll be bad for you anyways. If you want a good, smart, confident and happy going girl (because THAT's what you want), you have to change your mind set. Smile at people around you even if you don't feel like it. You attract what you project. That's what I did after my girlfriend left me and I remember that one girl who told me at work that it was always great coming in the morning because I was always smiling. It made my whole weak. Don't complain(people don't like conplainers). Don't confuse confiding with conplaining. You're confiding right now. A complainer is someone who repeats things like ''life sucks'' or ''I'm not lucky'' and do nothing to change that. Put your shoulder back and your shin up. You'll look more confident. Re-read the last paragraph of my first comment. Engrain that in your head. Write down what you would like to change and act on it and if you don't know what to do in life use that as an excuse to travel: You'll learn a lot about the world but most importantly, you learn a lot about yourself. As an ex ''hurting soul'' I can assure you that the more I grow old, the more I like it and you DON'T want to miss that part! If you have questions, ask me. If you still want to talk to me, talk. Please don't hesitate!
@@Marinoninewb you are just a ray of sunshine! I am very grateful for your kindness and just taking the time to respond and encourage me, even though you don t know me (moments like this restore my faith in humanity :) ) and your assumption was right, i am 16 now.. I would love to get my own apartment but i m from Romania and i m not yet financially stable, so i can t do anything right now, except wait 2 more years to get to university.. I wanna leave this country because everybody s brainwashed and the whole system is corrupted.. I don t know where i want to go, but i feel like my future is not in this country. I just want to thank you one more time, i am really grateful for your kind response and your encouraging words, you are just a wonderful person! Also, i want to apologize for my bad english :/
@@K0ndensed My sincere pleasure! If my life experience and knowledge can help, I'll gladly share it. Your English is great, don't sweat it. The best language to travel. The U.S.A, Canada(I live there), Australia, New Zealand are great countries to move to. Unlimited possibilities for you my man. Think about that! And remember, be strong, be proud!
"You cannot protect yourself from sadness without protecting yourself from happiness. Tears come from the heart and not from the brain. To have felt too much is to end in feeling nothing. People keep telling me that life goes on, but to me that's the saddest part" -person
i'm so sad right now. really think my life may be in its lowest point, maybe it will get better, now i'm just crying. it's better to cry over the problems and not leave them inside. thanks for the music, it really helps
When you feel so numb that the only tears left to cry are deep within, when you just want to cry and let it all out but cannot. The scars in your heart of the love and happiness in the past, all the good old days when you were happy, blissful life through the young eyes of a person who is yet to understand the pain and suffering in this world. Where all the things that you hold dear are not worth anymore, and all the people you've kept close just fade into nothingness. When you start to question your reality, and in the end, question if it is worth it.
i feel like im in a never ending loop here, if i act anything else then a perfect oldest daughter everything i love gets taken away, my phone, my friends, and my freedom to even wear or do the things i like. im the polar opposite of my family and they push me away because of it. i wish i could be accepted here. im usually a person who likes electric guitars, punk music, and dark clothing, but my family likes country, light clothing, and piano's. i never get along with them and never feel accepted because of it. even my younger sister feels like it too. she once said "i never get to listen to the type of music i love." it hurts me to hear my sister fall into the same path i took. im just falling into a deeper depression every day and i dont think i can go anymore.
I've found personally that music has been a really powerful part and experience in my life to deal with negative emotions - not to dismiss them but rather process them, and feel them out. Don't listen to what anyone says about your taste in music. Music doesn't judge anyone, so neither should anyone else. I love punk music, heavy metal, but also classical music and jazz. Not everyone will connect with that, and not everyone has to. Like me, there's heaps of people you're yet to meet who you can bond with. Don't give up, now.
Feeling lonely, and feeling like no one wants you. Feeling like you repel love. Repel Romance. Feel like you ain't doing enough. Feeling like you ain't enough. Feeling sad. Missing the happy days. Thinking if they feel the same. Hoping for better days.
hey to whoever is reading this, Please know that you're enough and that you matter. I don't know what you are going through but I understand. keep fighting please!! don't give up, Look at you, You've gotten so far and you should be proud.
Buddy, there's always a chance to start over. Depending on the mistake, time can heal the wounds, have no doubt about it. The only things that can change the whole situation are your actions and how you view it. You may not have faith in yourself, but I have faith in you.
@@anamatronix5357 Man, there’s not just one woman in the world. There will always be women who can make you happy out there and it is not good to be stuck with someone. Trust me, the love of your life will still appear. If the relationship ended, it was because it was not meant to last.
I wish we were all friends. We can talk to each another about our problems each day. I’ve been sad and confused since corona happened. I fell most of you do too. I hope you can have someone to talk to. If you don’t I’m here to listen to anything you want me to hear. I hope you get better and heal and thank you so much for you kind people putting nice comments to make others say and not feel lonely. Also thank you so much for this awesome music.
i wish that too like its night we all have pizza and hot coco and sitting on a roof talking helping eachother out but im rooting for u too kind stranger :)
If I were to create a lofi discord would you be interested in joining? It doesn't have to be about anything it could literally be a place where we listen to lofi, meet new ppl, talk about life and all its problems and its imperfections. Who knows what could become of this discord, but for the time being I think it'd be a safe place for everyone here.
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I really appreciate your support. Thank you
This girl reminds me of Hotaru from Sailor Moon.
The outro song? 🥺
what called last song?
Thks, I'm working nights in a locked psych ward now.
I am so glad I discovered this genera
if i feel alone, but there are thousands of other people listening to this who also feel alone - none of us are really alone. we're all here together. i hope you can feel better soon
Being alone together.
can we be friends ;-;
let's be lonely together
@@aprilskyer of course!
it so nice to know that we are always here for each other even though we don't know who we are
you know the feeling where you don't really care about your birthday but get sad when nobody remembers it? it's not about the fact that i enjoy brithdays, it's the fact that nobody remembers me.
My birthday is coming up on the 20th, sad to say I have no friends currently
@John-Paul L Makes me happier reading this. Thank you very much 🙂 I will try to keep my head up
yes...i told my friend 1 day before my birthday that i have and he still forgot...
Yeah
My birthday is this month and I don't feel anything for it
People saying "i miss the good days"
Man i even don't remember the good days.
Yeah me too.. But it's fine may thinds get better. ❤️
I guess its the fact that "the good old days" were the best moments we could salvage from this cruel world before we were hit with reality
@@handyscenario178 that is a sad reality
I never even had those in the first place
@@user-eu9nt8cv4v Well eventually you will I promise you. I mean what else would we live for except except for good moments. Playing your favorite video game. Calming your mind listening to lofi. And for a moment it feels good. If all we lived for were horrible days life wouldn't be worth living. Whether it be a short period thats what we humans live for. Thats why we work. Its so we can live true but also so we can LIVE if you know what I mean. To have a shot at making ourselves happy even for a moment. Thats why many date, thats why you listened to this lofi, thats why many reminisce about their past and how carefree they used to be able to be. To get that moment. And even if it was for a moment, you'll refer back to it and say to yourself, I wish it could be like that forever. Thats what it means by good ol days. The term is vast. It never means that life was perfect. The sad reality is, thats how close it could've gotten to perfect despite how terrible of a world we live in.
After leaving a toxic friendship, and finally being able to sit in peace, this is just what I need. Thank you lofi community for your love and effort to produce these beautiful songs. :) 💜
My friends if I can even call them friends leave me behind I should do the same
More than one doctor told me I have a depressed personality. Next week I'll turn 30 and I haven't accomplished anything in my life: never finished my studies, no job, no prospectives. I spend whole days crying sometimes, and whole nights thinking about things that give me even more anxiety. This music really helps, thank you Dreamy.
hey stranger
we don't know each other, probably will never get to, haven't seen each other and never spoken to each other. but here's something;
you will be always seen different or not up to society's eyes, but you are a wonderful being. you may think you haven't accomplished anything, but you've definitely made some people happy, made some people inspired and made some people worried about you when you were down. you've struggled so much. You deserve much more. You're a huge,colorful world that no one probably took the chance to look at you and explore you. This may not help a lot, but remember,
someone out there still loves you,
someone out there is worried for you,
someone out there wants to see you smile.
take your time and heal. I wish the best for you
Federica
We don’t know each other but I know a lot of ppl who are in the same situation you are in, even be. I’ll be 27 this year and I’m now just starting to find who I really am and my purpose. Someone who dealt with depression and feeling like a failure to those who I care the most about I realize after I had my son that if I continue to put my all into it that’s the first step of showing yourself that you care for you. Sit down and express yourself on what it is that you want to do (write it down) this of all the ways that you can give back if the career you choose. I wish you the best and remember you where born for something so go and find it!.
Just because you haven't accomplished those things yet doesn't mean you never will. It's up to you, really. Wishing you the best. ♥️
Those docters suck i bet you you're a great person and that you have a great personality. You'll achieve so many things. Don't worry about it!😁
finaly you are better now and I am sorry what you've been through
The other day I went to see my friends who live in a city very far from me, I am a person with very few friends since in my town I have no one.
The thing is that I had a great time with them until my day came to go and go back to my routines and my lonely and sad life with no one, with nothing just me, my computer and this type of videos that help me get my demons within me.
I don't think anyone stops to read this comment but I just wanted to get it out to vent a little.
Have a nice day.
same here, sad thing is that when you go visit them all the time and moments that has passed when you where ausent exists just for those people, not for you, thats when you realize that you're not part of that place, like if you had no home nor family to return with
You're heard
I topped to read your comment and I can assure you that all of this will pass one day and you will be where you want to be in life, happily.
I cannot promise you a happy life. I cannot promise that things can and will get better. But what I can say is: we need to take life, one day at a time. To not take for granted the things we have; including ourselves. We have a light we share to this world, we effect people more than we know or are aware of. It's hard to not feel lonely in a sea of aimlessness that is humanity. Like buoying silhouettes upon the waves we ride the currents, together, and yet always so alone. Work on yourself. That's all we can do. Try to be the best you can be, not for others, but for yourself. Find happiness and solidarity in your unique self. In the end, we are all alone. But that doesn't mean we cannot make this world, and ourselves, a better place. Know that one day, when your time is to come, the people who loved you--who do love you--will remember the unique Light you brought to this world.
you and i are the same. hope your are doing better now.❤️
I wish everyone there was a lofi group where we just lay on the roof play some lofi and talk about life
Let's make a lofi group chat
What about a Discord server? Would be glad to participate on it :D
I would Like to....
I could BE one of the members and one of the mods
like my comment if ur joining :)
“Silence speaks the loudest words” -probably someone
I had an experience in high school where this quote resonates with me. I’m high school I went through frequent depressive phases and i still go through them. During one of my phases of depression my parents were late picking me up so I had to sit alone after school to wait for them. One of my closest friends at the time just sat down next to me and leaned up against me. I took off my headphones to see if she wanted to say something but neither of us spoke. But during that moment I had felt the best I have since my childhood. I was 10 when I watched my grandfather pass away in the hospital. I’ve been suffering in silence since that day. Until I met her. Sometimes all it takes is a little bit of company to change your day.
I’m so sorry for your loss and I hope you recover from it
YOU ARE STRONG MAN LETS GOO
Amen to that 🙏I hope you're feeling better now 🌹
"I'm not addicted to alcohol or drugs, I'm addicted to escaping reality"
- Unknown
I ain't a gamer for fun I am for escaping reality
Daaaaammmn, so deep and relatable holy shit. School and responsibilities everywhere
hm..
What is so wrong about reality? Since we live on it, let us live and love it! Love my kids, my parents, my wife, love what God made for us, mortals. Love the idea of eternity that we can only reach by the knowledge of immaterial (God again). Don´t worry, young people, you are only bored. All things must pass. Guten morgen brasilien
camilo maganha you probably haven’t heard of school in your live, it starts cool and you meet friends but after 10 fucking years it keeps getting harder and harder. I just passed last year and now they litterly splitted my whole friend group into different classes. And then you think it’s stupid that we prefer games where you can play all the times with your friends and just have a blast instead of thinking about responsibilities and upcoming tests!!
I'm not depressed or anything
Just sad for a really long time
Temzie i feel you
I wish that can be my case...
i hope ur ok plz listen to sum cute songs maybe ; )
I have that too bro but u just gotta ignore that just try to be happy just think positive
Same bro, sometimes it just feels good to be sad and idk why. Being happy all the time would suck and I guess contemplating life and existence is important too :).
I just realised how kind the community is. Like in other Channels the people are so toxic but here every comment is nice or sad. I guess sad and lonley people are the best :)
I love you guys
i just realised that sad and lonely people are the best as they dont want anyone else to be sad cz they know how it feels like
❤️but i think all of it are sad
We just want everyone to live their best life you know
@Nightmxre Otaku Love you too ( ˘ ³˘)♥
Lonely people ARE the best, we have no one to be compared to on our side
So we all just sitting here with tears stuck to our faces from just looking at our homework huh
Yes, we are my friend, yes we are.
Yeah basically
pretty much yeah.
This gives me the "I'm fine, don't worry about me. I hope to see you again sometime, I love you... " vibes, if that makes sense...
Yeah it does take care dude
im literally like this rn...feeling with no soul, cant even cry, i just feel empty
@@kaanskbg its 11:09 pm here and i feel the same and feel like giving up
For anyone scrolling through the comments going through a really hard time I truly hope things get better for you no matter who you are. Please don't give up trying. There is a reason you are here reading this message, to remind you that YOU are so important to God and His Son Jesus Christ. I can only imagine what you are going through but God knows.
I also know how difficult life can be and I may not understand your exact experience but I am truly sorry that things have been so tough for you. I care and want you to know that you are not alone, you have a purpose, you are worthy of so much. Please take it one day at a time, one step at a time.
I am praying that God will send His angels to each and everyone of you to comfort you, surround you with His love, give you peace beyond measure, and to change things for the better.
Please know that you are here for a reason and that sometimes we don't always know why we go through things, maybe to help someone else going through the same thing because you understand such pain that someone else may not.
All the pain and suffering is caused by sin which we are given death as a wage for but we have a Savior Jesus Christ who loved us first and He died for you, He loves you more than you could ever know. Please repent by asking Him for forgiveness of wrongs and ask Him into your heart believing with sincerity. (Please see the book the Holy Bible for more information)
He can guide you in all things. I speak from experience it doesn't matter what we have done or that we think we don't measure up He will meet us where we are, even in our lowest low. He can give you peace beyond measure, I speak from experience. I can only imagine how hard it has been for you but I truly hope the best is yet to come for all of you. Please never give up, because He won't give up on us. Please remember this when things are hard and you feel at the end of your rope. Jesus Christ has done everything for us and He wants us to be healed. Put your faith in Christ today!
To give your life to Jesus Christ here is a sample prayer:
Dear Lord Father in Heaven
I admit I am a sinner. I have done many things that don't please you. I have lived my life for myself only. I am sorry and I repent. I ask you to forgive me.
I believe that you died for me to save me. You did what I could not do for myself. I come to you now and ask you to take control of my life; I give it to you. From this day forward, help me to live every day for you in a way that pleases you. I love you Lord, and I thank you that I will spend eternity with you,
In Jesus name I pray, amen...........
Are you okay? 7 months been a long time just needed to know
“The people with the best most amazing fantasies are the ones with the worst realities “
- s o m e o n e
Yaaaaa
You speak truth sadly but it's honesty. Props to you
2deep4me bro
That’s way too real
@@Lado909 okay
I hate being alone, but at the same time, all I want is to be alone
it's "being alone without the feeling of loneliness" my friend :)
solitude
Better to be alone rather than be with so called "friends" .
So fucking truth
i like being alone......not lonely
this is my life right now. ive got no friends, im studying for exams and i stay at home all day and study for it. no social life too so its the perfect caption "feel so alone". but, this too shall pass. ive got great days ahead and i know that. i just need to grind for now, i can do this. good luck peeps, we all got this! :)
Edit: I made it!!! i passed all my exams! :)
Congrats homie!
Well play bro, try to restart an social life
Aw man this is me right now too, no friends, just studying, playing videogames, learning piano, a new language, completely alone
You need to explore a different perspective and stop overthinking life.
Some books i recommend: "Pneuma by BJR Zwarts" and "Dark places of Wisdom by Peter Kingsley".... some Alan Watts lectures as well :)
Read all 3 and you will be cleared of all the nonsense. Trust me.
Been a year since you commented this and im hoping your doing good. Also congrats on your exams!
How come lonely people never find each other
Edit: Wow I knew there were other people put there but over 3k likes, and over 100 replies. Thanks evrybody for just still existing, I know its hard sometimes, maybe all the time, but we always fight for that next day. If nobody else believes in you, I do. Keep fighting.
Dude...
cuz im hiding
We do. We are just too lonely to realize it.
Rude
Because we're good at hiding it.
*you don't know the feeling of being the only one there to calm yourself down, though you pretend it's someone else.*
Edna mode gettin deep
@@wisemansocrates ofc i am im edna mode. i can do everything except capes.
yeah i do..so many times where iv'e been at the lowest point and i wish someone would come into my room and give me a hug..but thats just fantasy lol
Yeah, is it normal?
Depression.. a feeling of drowning while everyone around you is breathing..
That's exactly what I felt today
For me it feels the other way around: A feeling of breathing while everyone around you is drowning. İn a way it makes you feel human because when you are depressed you stop playing play pretend, see the world's true face and don't try to force yourself into a false sense of happiness like most of the people around us. We are depressed because we have the courage to look the harsh truth and our ugly problems dead in the eye, face them, except their existence and fight them head on instead of sugar coating them in ignorance. Those few people who have that strength are the ones who are going to be truly happy now and for all eternity.
@@vatanc4746 Do you feel a sense of letting go?
@@carinacastro7056 I felt like this for a year and I am still depresed
@@exitzu731 I hope that it's just a phase (a long one, but still a phase) :(
For everyone who is going through a hard time in their personal life and also trying to study...I am with you my friend. Hang in there. We'll make it through this 😍
"I'm afraid of opening up, only i'm not sure which frightens me the most. Letting you in, or the monsters out."
- Beau Taplin
this speaks volumes
mood
Truthfulness indeed 😞
The Feels...
I know I'm 2 years late, but yea, that resonates
4:32AM here
Just feeling alone
Staying in this dark room
Crying
I’m not crying for something
I’m crying for no reasons
I love to cry
Crying makes you feel good
It’s okay to cry.
Crying is good it flushes all the pain sometimes, glad there's someone who feel the same,love you.
Cant cry anymore physically at least its just in the heart now
me too, i just cried for the first time in months and it felt amazing. i’m in a really emotionally numb state and crying is extremely hard for me, even when i’m super sad, the tears just don’t come but i like crying
me to
6:25 am gang :( i just want the pain to stop, I'm high, but it's not stopping the tears
The lo-fi mix comment sections are basically, a collection of these small, poem-like texts. They give advice, help and just makes anyones mood just a 100x better. And for that,
Thanks.
"what were u doing awake at 3am?!"
oh yk, just the usual. crying alone :)
I didn’t sleep for 2 days and so long it would take before I go insane because...why not
"poeple dont cry because they are weak, they cry because they have been strong for too long"
That's right..
Sometimes I cry without any reason..
And after that i feel very relaxed..
♥♥
That's right..
Sometimes I cry without any reason..
And after that i feel very relaxed..
♥♥
@@ishx_03 💞
Yeah sometimes we can't hold it any longer
-itachi Uchiha I think
I was stuck at bus stop for 3 hours I’m happy to be listening to the dreamy music
Wow thats long bro
Oops it must be quite boring :/
Impossible
Ozgur yeah it was
ReMiNGToN I mean I live in Philadelphia, they cut down transportation
People think that the broken ones are those that don't smile anymore but the ones that are really broken are those that can't even cry anymore.
it sucks, you just sit there not knowing how to let your pain out anymore.
@@sarah.h6250 exactly,that's when I started self-harming,which sucks even more
don't do it
Same. I'm numb since years...but beep inside of me I just want to have my emotions back and let them out. It was self protection, because there where to much pain and problems around me...it was the only way survive. Now many days it feels like I'm sad inside and wish I could cry, but I can't. It's horrible.
talkin about me
I force myself to cry to feel something I guess
When life gives you sadness, I'll be here listening with you.
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to everyone who is doing homework, leave the chat, breathe slowly, take a sip of water, and focus
to everyone who is trying to sleep, leave the chat, grab a blanket, and get the rest you deserve.
to everyone who is feeling sad, grab a snack, get some water, get a blanket, and write down your thoughts. when you're done, lay down, and get some rest, no matter the time.
to everyone who is drawing, you got this. you're art is amazing. keep your head up (or down, depends on where your paper is) and remember that you matter.
i love you all
nice comment
Yeah every one is sharing it
your comment made me ugly cry
i love you
Thoughts. Okay.
Daydreams lit my eyes when the world was somber and quiet. Existing used to feel like something. Friends just... were. Family knew me. Emotions stirred when I read, when I watched, when I listened. Stars used to twinkle.
I am a husk. Good things are often ugly and all too necessary. Life is a bittersweet sorrow. Left behind, long forgotten. That's what I am now. Life clung with a stronger grip back then, leaping to and fro between the hurdles I can't hope to reach now.
I'm not just alone. I'm not just disillusioned. I'm not just envious and stoic. There's a hole in my chest and nothing fills it. A wound that bleeds more with every bandage I put on it. It isn't scabbing, isn't closing, isn't healing.
I'm not getting better. Everything's fading. Maybe it always was.
'we're all just suicidal teens/kids telling other suicidal kids and teens not to do it.' -Unknown
Because more often than not we care more about other people than ourselves. We've put people ahead of us for so long, it's natural for us to want to help.
We have the same picture, except i edited mine.
The thing is, no one wants to die, they just want to be _happy._ And when they start to believe happiness doesn't exist, that's when they lose their will to live.
Sadly as much as we want to end we all have the power of will to refuse. 😔
Love you man
" Depression is like a war, some live and some die trying. "
-Unknown
Have a good day, if you're having a bad one just try to make it as good as you can. I believe in you :)
that's hard its gona be fake
its more like a dark joke ._. but good one
Depression....seems like a body that fights to live with a mind that wants to die
Virtual hugs to other lonely peeps out there. We’ll go tru this together. 🏙🌃🌌🌉
turn the negative into inspiration and drive. 999 for life.
“There are two types of rest.....
One that requires sleep
And one that requires peace.....”
“We live as we dream--alone....”
- Joseph Conrad
kinda true but i sometimes dream of others too.
I want you, yes you reading this. I want you to know, that even if no one has told you today, I'm glad you're here. I'm glad you're alive. We may now know each other, but we know our struggles, our plights, are stories may not be so different. So from me, to you, thank you for being here. Thank you for staying strong. And thank you for never giving up. You got this. We all love you.
:)
Well, thank you too
Thank you going though a rlly hard time rn and COVID hasn’t helped and it feels like I’m talking to a wall and I’m forgot, and your a random person over the Internet
ive never heard that in my life, tysm😭💕
thank you so much for this. You don't know how much it means to me :) i'm glad you're alive too.
"The scars you can't see are the hardest to heal"
- Nao Tomori
Charlotte 💗✨🥺
I love her sm.Shes my fav character.
this is so true fam
you know me
told ya
This comment section honestly really shows there are still good people in this world.....even when you feel so alone.
have you ever feel like you broke up listening to these kinds of music, but you never had a relationship to begin with? the feeling of longing to someone and maybe thats loneliness
Oh i exactly know what it feels to broke up listening these kinds of music. It really hurts, i'm not depressive or anything because i'm someone who like to fight back the life but damn, it really, really hurts. It emplifies the grief and it makes you cry until there is nothing left in your head to cry ... But i don't know, once i was not able to cry i was able to put things into perspectives and then, to go forth. So it hurts but help you to pass that hard moment.
100% loneliness. alot of loneliness people feel that
Akmal Aisyah same. loneliness and the fear of never getting to experience love. I just really want someone to like me as much as i like them
thank you all, i've spent 30 minutes reading all of your comments and it has helped me so much. your problems made me feel like i'm not the only person suffering, and the advice got me to get back up.
to anyone feeling "pathetic" for scrolling the comment section just to feel better don't be. i did too but after a while all the positive comments just helps u so much. even though none of us may truly ever meet, i feel as we all really do love each other in this big world.
"tired of life but scared from death"
-Armin
That’s rough. I haven’t feared death in a very long time but that must be agonizing. I’m sorry
Is this from Attack on titan
@@ibotlimbu3850 yeah
Are you alive armin😆
Actually, I've always wanted to kill myself, but I was afraid of sin
You ain't crying cuz you're weak, you're crying cuz you haven't cried in so long
ive been crying all this week, but ty :)
@@nighter4741 cracked me up haha Hope you can cry out everything that burdens you :)
its strange how you are feeling depressed, have suicidal thoughts and feel useless yet you put on a bright happy face every day and thats all people around you see....
Update: geez 7 months fighting depression and still no improvement 😍
Well its normal for them to see just the happy face you cant expect them to see more than that
@Bruno Schaab It's so that other people don't pry into what's really going on. It's a complicated reason really.
@Bruno Schaab Tried to show that I was in pain after hiding it for so long because people always say it's unhealthy. As soon as I did people didn't want anything to do with me anymore. And by people, I mean literally every "close" friend and family member I have.
I think a lot of us put that happy face on you make sure the people we interact with don't feel the way we do, as someone who is depressed most of the time I know I don't wish this pain and sadness on anyone.
@Bruno Schaab cause it can be embarrassing if I just started to cry out of nowhere which not saying I have not
I have no reason to feel like this
My life is good
I have friends
People like me
Then why do I feel like I’m drowning in sadness?!
I try to push it off but it comes back like a yo-yo, my friends ask if I’m okay but they know I’m not. I’m not even heartbroken or anything I just feel empty and pain. It’s all I feel. :/
I know how you feel, but stay strong. There will be good times again and they're worth it to stay strong.
Because everyone just needs someone to cry to even if they have the best life ever
Yeah, I know this feeling... Don't worry it's okay, you're not alone💜
Its more like being disconnected from reality, like me
You just described exactly how I feel. I have no reason to be sad. I have good family, friends, never been in a relationship to feel heartbroken, haven’t lost a close loved one. I have no reason to feel the way I do but... I drown in it.
You know it's been rough when a "good work" comment by a teacher that really cares about you on a late essay that you worked really hard on while also battling a real bad depressive episode makes you cry... I'm seriously gonna have to email her a letter once I graduate this spring...
I know this is 9 months later, but did you ever email them?
@@heavenc3796 ik this is 6 months late, but I told her how she really helped me get through high-school and had an emotional chat. I cried during a speech at my little graduation but hey, it was from the heart. Now I've been out of high-school for awhile with a decent job, very little depression and I'm with my amazing boyfriend (been with just over a year now). Happiest I've ever been even with some health struggles.
Hey guys, let’s be alone together.
Lets try to be happy toghether... Maybe it sounds better
honestly i don't think i would come so low to say that
but it feels so good to just see someone come and tell me good day
Hearing everybody else's storys honestly does make me sad. I feel so sorry that some of you are going through this. Personally I know I have depression but I don't want to tell my parents because I know how they will react. They will either make a big deal about it or call me an attention sleeker. Reading your comment puts a little joy in my heart. Not because you are in pain but because I know I'm not alone and neither are you. This is just a message to tell you to keep going. No matter how hard or sad I gets you still have a future ahead of you. I love you all and stay safe. 😊
Stay safe bro I know how you feel and when you have a bad level of anxiety it's really worse
Sometimes I just wish someone could tell me “it’s all gonna be okay” but I have no friends and my parents seem to never know how I feel. I don’t tell them though because I want to hear them say it in their words.
So, if you’re reading this: it’s all gonna be okay
It's all gonna be okay ♡
I hope you read this even if your comment is already 6 months ago..
It’s gonna be okay
I feel this same way…
Damn it good knowing that someone else gets this
I know what that’s like. Maybe I don’t know how YOU feel, but yeah, sometimes it would just be really nice for someone to uplift you without you asking them. It can seem selfish to want others to do that for you, but when you need it, you need it, and when others can’t see it, it makes you so mad on the inside or something. I have hope though that others out there can actually see through us
Bro I wish I could give you a hug
hey!!, you may be feeling alone, but doesn't everyone has to go someday and never meet again, everybody we know will come and go just like waves coming up to the sand in the beach. well, there is someone who is always with us and by knowing this you will not be alone, he is always with us but we don't see it. God is always with us, so don't lose hope!! ilysm
Now I've hit a point where I don't feel happy or sad or excitement anymore...just kinda existing these days
Edit: (1 month later) it hurts seeing the replies knowing that so many of u feel the same way. It really does suck but after a whole month of staying away from my phone, journaling, meditating and focusing more on myself, I can tell you I feel much happier at the moment. Hard times will eventually pass I promise but it's different for everyone. I won't be this happy forever now, god forbid it could change after I post this but my point is, I hope all of u can overcome the hard times. Life really is like a rollercoaster. You're gonna feel so damn low but then you'll feel over the moon and you'll come crashing down again. I just hope you find healing ways/ ways to cope during those falls that work for you. Try to discover what makes you feel alive, even if of just watching something to help youescape for a little. To those still reading, thank you. Sending you all love and stay strong 💜
Edit: (3 months)
Never thought I'd say this but my mental health is at the best it's ever been. It's taken patience, understanding, learning and so many years though. But it's worth it because I feel like I'm living a good quality life finally? But the fact that I'm also aware that life will become really hard again is what helps my peace of mind. I'm not going to feel this great for the rest of my life and you won't feel hurt for the rest of your life because that's not what life is. It could be amazing one day then terrible the next. Quarantine actually was the hardest but taught me the most.
How I'm taking care of my mental health now? I did some soul searching after feeling like I had no worth or purpose on earth, found out about things I truly liked, spent a lot of time alone to focus on myself and do things that make me happy or feel alive, even though they were as small as watching water fall in nature surrounded by petals or allowing myself to be creative or even just cleaning my room. Since I found little fun things to do each day, I felt like I was living to the fullest personally.
Another thing I did each day, change my sleeping habits so instead of sleeping at 5am n waking up at 3pm (it was so bad lol) I started sleeping around 11 and woke up at 6am. Then I would NOT go on my phone first thing but instead listen to a guided meditation, repeat my own affirmations, calmly stretch outside or do yoga while listening to the birds sing. As for my anxiety...still need a lot of work there but I will hopefully overcome it one day. There's no rush, life is long.
Slowly by doing these small things and questioning who I am as a person, I learnt that life is too short to worry what people tell me or say about me. In no way will we be happy 24/7 and have the perfect routine everyday or talk to ourselves with love every second, but I think what would help us live more at peace is if we can become more aware of what we're feeling (happy/sad/worried..etc) and remember "Everything Goes". This feeling is temporary and you'll feel happy again. Look up to the sky if it's daylight and just watch the clouds, how they pass slowly then a new one comes in...now think of those clouds as your thoughts and feelings. It will pass.
If you really thing about it...we're all just tiny human beings on a planet in this huge ass universe where no one truly knows for sure why we're here..we actually are just existing, so why not exist doing what makes you feel happy or alive? It might take a while for you to figure out what that is but with a little alone time, look inside yourself and genuinely reflect on times you felt alive and excited. Then do more of this :)
I'm not saying you have to do ANY of what I did in order to be happy at all, I was only sharing what I felt personally helps me want to wake up in the morning and helps me cope with my depression that I've had ever since I can remember but what I'm saying is to just focus on yourself and question yourself in many aspects of your life, you may or may not find the answer to them straight away but they will help you become more self aware, therefore learning more about yourself and what makes you feel happy in peace.
Anyway that was my update and advice so if you're still here reading this, I hope it gave you a little hope. you will get through it with patience and a little work. Theres is over 7 billion people in the world and no one has any idea what we're actually doing as humans on this small planet. Let's just continue to uplift eachother and remember that everything good and bad will eventually pass.
Seeing your replies make me feel so happy. You all have a growth mentality and it's not easy but at least that tiny bit of effort is what makes you so damn strong. Every single one of you deserve to live a life you dream of. Sending you all my love and virtual hug or a shoulder to cry on 🤍 Cheering for you all💪 you are never alone ✨
Same
Same
Yup..... Till I work up the courage to play russian roulette with myself.
relatable, but we have to keep at it and win over and over and over and over with many falls in between for some more than other but we keep going over and over and over and win and lose and keep winning, hope you all are doing fine
i hear ya bruh
Melancholy is an emotion we don’t pay enough attention too. It’s deeply cathartic and emotionally satisfying. Life is inherently difficult. It’s never what we want it to be. Your expectations will fail you, whether they be in a job field, romantic affairs, or familial relations. It’s a reality of life that doesn’t fit the narratives of a culture that is dead set on selling and promoting constant, nauseating happiness. To lament and despair over these paradigms is sadness, which can be cathartic in its own right.
But to accept the world for as it is and for how we’ve experienced it, with all of its disappointments and contrasting joys, and to reflect and ponder deeply the ramifications of our continued existence is, I believe, melancholia.
I can only speak to my experiences, but I have found, in my faith and social circles, that to accept the ephemerality of all things and befriend the pain that comes with the loss of all things is a satisfying, fulfilling way to move forward. I feel passed the point that happiness is the goal of life. As vague as it is, the goal of life, or the secret to the good life, is fulfillment-as the Greeks would call eudaemonia. When fulfillment is the goal, happiness becomes an impermanent friend in our life; coming and going with no promise of staying because it has no obligation to. When it is around, perhaps, we appreciate it more as we should deeply appreciate all the emotions we feel.
To be in the state of melancholy that I most often find myself has been one road to such fulfillment. I come up short, the source of my disappointments being often myself; and the healthiest emotional, spiritual, mental response I’ve been able to have is forgiving the world. Forgiving myself that I change as often as I do, forgiving the ecosystem of friendships and loves that they are autonomous and change. Forgiving happiness and sources of it that they change. Forgiving the pains themselves, too, that they change.
Perhaps pain stems from change. How expectations of potential relationships change when we learn that they aren’t interested in us as we are them. When we are in one state of joy and euphoria because of delightful and hopeful expectations, then in the next we are distraught and find ourselves in the annals of RUclips Lofi comment sections searching for catharsis, something indeed changed to cause us the pain we are in. Melancholy doesn’t offer us a way out, but offers us something deeper. Understanding, and perhaps disappointing resolution, but resolution nonetheless. Melancholy says “yeah, I feel you there.” It’s empathy is thus rooted deep into our broken souls.
Melancholy enables us to give up our claim on what we thought, wanted, and/or expected the world to be for us. Doing so gives us a more profound satisfaction than what can be offered in the world’s attempts to Disnify human existence.
As one of my favorite living philosophers says:
“The actual work of sacrificing all things [or giving up our claim to what we want the world to be] looks like the continual work of forgiving all things. It looks like the continual work of forgiving the world the fact that it is passing away. That it is not going to last. That it is not going to satisfy me in the way that I want to. That the world is never going to stop and freeze in place and be what I hoped it would be and that as a result, to be a Christian who doesn’t run away from the loss of all things, who actively takes up the work of sacrificing all things, that as a practical matter, mostly looks like my continually engaging in the work of forgiving all things.
In particular, forgiving the loss of all things. Forgiving even the loss of what I hoped things would be even in the best of scenarios. Forgiving myself the fact that I have lost what I thought I wanted to be, to one degree or another, in one way or another, professionally or religiously or in relationships with other people. Coming back again and again here to the work of forgiving all things.” - Adam S. Miller (Maxwell Institute Podcast)
If you read this, thank you. Sleep well and hold out. And, if I may, may God bless you and keep you.
Ameanus. Latin for beautiful, picturesque, or pleasing to the eye. That is what your comment is.
Really touched to my heart. Thank you so much!!!!
May Christ's blessings abound in your life. What an eloquent comment and at such a needed time.
Yeah bro, melancholy has always been so poetic to me, I've started listenning to old timey brazillian sad songs (I'm brazillian), which reflect different kinds of sadness, melancholy has always been my favorite emotion, because it's a simple pain that I know I can tolerate, it's that underrated color that might not be much on it's own but gives a big contrast that the painting wouldn't have otherwise, I love to feel happy, but only when I have a reason to (e.g, my workout progress is finally showing), otherwise it just feels.. empty
And melancholy is that feeling that when you're alone you might be sad, but not sad in the rain, more like sad and warm, it depends on why you're sad too, sometimes I just doubt myself, I've reached a pretty stable mental state where I wake up and listen to songs that pump me up to become better everyday, songs that inspire me, to improve as a human and on myself, and it's working
But sometimes, at night, there is that lingering feeling as if I am still not enough, that I can be better, for me, the people around me, and that if I haven't dated the girl I love yet, is because I still gotta improve, and when I wake up it's so satisfying to listen to the songs that I do, look myself in the mirror, realize I'm getting more tonned, and believe that I can do everything
Sadness gives a contrast to life that other emotions don't
Anger is not satisfying, it's a mental state where you perceive anything as a threat, it might be good to let your emotions out but it often makes people miscommunicate
Now sadness is kinda poetic, there are many layers to it, many whom are unhealthy, but the top ones, that feeling of "damn, I still have a long way to go, she deserves better, I can be better", is so good (of course there must be a balance, I'm talking about myself here but I've talked to others about it, I'm not alone in this), mainly when you wake up next morning, prepare that bowl of cereal, and listen to some alternative rock that makes you feel like you will be better
I hate when people say that things will get better, because when things were bad for me, I expected the world to suddently spin, to have someone appear in my life that would accept me the way I was (I was under weight, annoying, basically terrible in every aspect)
But then I've slowly realized, I can get people to gravitate towards me by being nice, people made mean jokes and treated me poorly because I treated others that way
Then I realized, damn, I'm really skinny, how do I expect to date that gorgeous girl being an underweight guy, that barely showers and is a giant prick
And so I started bettering myself
I recognize of my privillege and luck, of being born in a financially and emotionally stable household, with both loving parents and a realist big sister (she used to do bad stuff, but she learned, and she never wanted me to follow her footsteps, but she also knows why somebody would do the stuff she did, etc..), also I have really great friends, people I can trust, and I found love in an amazing girl, whom I hope to date one day, she likes me too but due to a multitude of factors (a recent breakup of a long relationship for example) she isn't really looking forward to a new relationship, but at least I got her amazing friendship and anything other than an official relationship is fair game
So yep, I know not everybody has the luck I have, I've started becomming healthier because I had the money to hire a nutritionist, the money to frequent the gym, etc..
But I believe that anybody with enough force of will can do anything, I didn't need to pay anyone to better myself, that was achieved through introspection
If you're overweight for example, you don't need to go to the gym to lose weight
So yep sorry for the rambling, but basically, melancholy (or controlled sadness) is powerful, a beautiful emotion that can help us improve, it's satisfying, it gives new perspectives to life
Thanks
i don't even feel like trying anymore, everything leaves me emotionless and alone.
Maybe it will, or maybe not. But the journey to that end might be something to live for.
same. I see no point In trying to fight depression. I don’t think it’s worth it.
That's the whole problem, I think in the end tho, we could be hero, we should be hero. We're probably part of the same abyss, I think tho that there's a light above, that we can get to, it's not easy, but being a hero isn't easy in the end, it requires will, courage and strength. The point is that everyone can get there, and should, to feel at least free, at last. I personally feel things like these, it isn't easy, I don't know why and I don't know how, but one day things turned out to be so hard for me. But still, we could be hero, we should be hero, at least for ourselves.
@@lilY-f1t Do you know how life brings sudden changes, that just turn whole your life around?That happens randomly and at any moment of course,but i'm not here to tell you to wait a little longer for that big of a change.Although yes,life does it suddenly and randomly,there are always causes to such changes,that only we can achieve,so we would get the right criterias for the life we want so much
Do the first step,and maybe everything can develop afterwardsLike seeds,that after just being put into the ground,thrive by themselves so gracefully and strong.
hope ur okay... go little rockstar
Nobody can understand how much love it’s in me. Because nobody cares about my feelings...
Ik u have so much love on you, maybe someday i will see it, maybe not, but from my side, i'm sending u the love u deserve
Me too… me too
don't worry tomorrow will be a better day...i hope everyone feels better soon, you can lean on my shoulder.
thank you the lofi community is the best and i will forever be grateful because you guys make me feel loved
Thank you, beautiful comment
everyone says that.
Its too fuckin hard...
No it wont be better all days are copy each other
“Don’t say I feel like dying, say I wanna feel alive”
-me who is not good at advice whatsoever
honestly, thats pretty good advice
Don’t underestimate yourself and what you can do to helps others, your voice sounds good in your head, but it still comes out that way, just a bit worse, but not too bad, you can still understand what they were trying to say
It was actually good..
I try to say I want to feel alive but I had a time where I was close to my happiness but I saw someone upset and I took my happiness to give to them and know I am alone again but how are you
I don’t wanna die, I just don’t care if I do
Everyone I've ever loved has eather disappeared, died, or betrayed me. So now I just keep my distance so I never get close enough for that to happen again.
Hey, don’t give up. I’m really sorry you had to go through that.. but all those experiences have shaped you. You’re not only stronger now, but also extremely unique. I’m sure someone will come and see that and wanna stick around. And even if they don’t, it’s life eh? You fall down 7 times, but you stand up 8. (That was from a song lol) sooo yea. I’ve dealt w feelings like this and no one replied to your post so I felt like I should 🙂😗😚
I can't say the exact same, but I understand the betrayal thing. Even if you don't believe it, there's someone there for you. I think there's a person for everyone. Whether that's a bf/gf, a best friend or a family member. Soulmates have to be real. 7 billion of us, they have to. And I've seen soulmates before. And it can take you half of your life, but they will find you somehow. I promise you. Sending much love. Take care.
Don't worry many of us are going through what you have been through we are in this together mate stay strong take care
I wanna cry all the time, and when i don't it bursts out unexpectedly and strong. All my mind wants is piece and rest, but it can't get any. Please, people, put yourself first so you wouldn't turn into a mess like this.
Too late , i did put somebody way over me ot anything else in my life.
And she is gone now so I have turned into a mess.. a big one
@@sahilchhabra2391 Hey man. I am really sorry for your loss and hope that you will get better one day. It took me some time to recover, but time did help. I hope it will help you too.
@@gottastoppo I hope so, it's been couple of months since I have felt like this, no genuine smile, unending sadness, friends are too busy to listen to my drama.
I ghosted everyone and stayed in my room as much as possible. Whenever I get out, everything feels haunted
same
Same
I feel I could be friends with anyone in the comments. Goodnight my friends I’ll never meet 🙏🏻 it will all be okay
goodnight
Goodnight dude take care
When being alone is better than being lonely.
For real lol
@@Universe1966r I would love one, im feeling absolutely terrible
@@dinkle3206 here you go. This hug is special full of appreciation. You are one wonderful person I know it. If you need to talk to someone I am open to talk feel free I am here for you. :)
Just remember 'God gives out the hardest battles only for his strongest soldiers'
I have terrible anxiety to the point where I think I will die if I fall asleep. This music is the only thing that works in drowning out those thoughts enough so I can sleep. Thanks for posting often
Don't give up. If people look down on you. Without knowing it, they act like a stepping stone to you. Thank them, because now it's up to you to make the step and climb on top of them, so they have to tilt their head up.
You'll get through it man. I was like that for almost a year. I was terrified to go to sleep and would stay up till like 5 am. And then I realized. If I've been doing this for 300 days in a row, every single night, and I haven't died yet, then why would this night be any different than the last 300? The fear of dying in your sleep is a real thing. I pray you can overcome this. It is one of the worst feelings in the world.
Its the same with me. Except I find it extremely hard to fall asleep without music because my own thoughts scare me so much and when I don't have music for any reason, I have anxiety attacks and honestly I wouldn't fall asleep if the attacks didn't tire me out. The music distracts me and I dunno how to explain this but it just tires me out enough to let me fall asleep.
well...the same thing happened to me...
try to get over it.
Yeah it's currently 1 àm and that's what I am thinking
It's my birthday, I'm tired already. Mentally and physically 😔
happy belated birthday- wish you luck
Hey happy birthday king 👑❤️Enjoy as best you can.
Happy belated birthday....grace and peace *virtual hugs
damn... that's tough. You're not alone happy late birthday
Happy belated birthday...
U don't know but u r helping me a lot
Me too. I didn't even realize I needed help but then I saw all of these beautiful and supportive comments. Thank you everyone
@@paulphelps5262 u r most welcome
"The greatest pain of all is when the old wounds are bleeding; we always want to kill our memories even if it cost our lives."
-Unknown
she's so sad, she didn't blink for an hour
she might be dead then
Felt
150th like.
Well do you ever feel like you have nothing to feel at this point if you feel the very great pain to overshadow your emotions.
been there
she ded
"The strongest part of the tree is the roots, and ironically, they are in the darkest area of the entire tree." -me when I was 4, alot wiser than I am now.
also the roots in perpetual darkness give the whater to the leaf to feel the sun.
e_e. damn
are u an infj..?
And everyone clapped. It's true, I was the tree.
I see life. as a notebook :
Imagine, it’s your birthday and someone gives you a drawing notebook. You can do whatever you want with it, just like life. You can draw nothing in it, and just leave it all alone. But you can also draw drawings in it, not all of those drawings will be beautiful but that’s just like live. Just go to the next page of your notebook (go on with life)
You can draw anything, nothing is impossible. Take this notebook (your life) and go do something amazing with it.
Good luck
thats really beautiful and every day is a new page and the colors are ur mood u can chose from the crayon box :) good luck to u too stranger
I have a bunch of blank notebooks cause I'm afraid that whatever I put in them won't be good enough. And I realize this is kinda how I've approached my life, scared to try things cause I might mess up. This is good advice, I really needed this.
My parents: wake up earlier, why do you sleep so much?!
Me: to escape the sad realities of life for a little longer
This year hasn't been the greatest, but I'm glad music brought people together
Life actually means nothing...You are born...rush to get school done...And then you work until you die or retire...Why do we overthink life so much and is the life society created actually a life worth living or will you be forgotten in a few years...Why do we want to put ourselves in so much pain and discomfort if we all know what the outcome is gonna be (death)
Tf nigga
To have an experience, it may seem small but the little moments (making cookies with your mom, your first kiss, telling your friend and joke a she laughs so much milk comes out of her nose, going with your lover to the top of the roof and talk for hours) somtimes it dose not feel like it’s worth it but if you wait for the next moment. You may find that it means something, to you, to your family, for friends. People are just specks of dust in the long run, yes. But you make an affect for future people, you would not be here if not for that.
@@ceejsicle life doesn't have a meaning to it you make it a meaning some people isn't meant to even live at all :-[
immmm its so so so complicated
I know there is no meaning in life just like music music serves no purpose but we all enjoy it so find a life you like just like you you find your taste in music
The perfect soundtrack to paint my insomnia away. Just flow, no struggles, let the current drift you to peace.
She lost interest in me, So I lost hope. Why does this hurt me so much. Everything I’ve been through with her, every future plan we discussed, it all just feels pointless. I gave my all and she dropped it. I need her back. she was my happiness. I know there are so many in this comment section that struggle with the same thing. I don’t wish it on anyone. Everyone please be okay.
I've been through the same thing man. You won't believe how many tears I've cried. You just need to let go king.
In Kabala, they say to always look at bad situations as gifts from God. Why? Because maybe what seems like a bad situation is actually a gift. You may miss her, but she is not the person for you. You should be happy she is gone. Maybe she never loved you and set you free. Do you really want to be with someone who doesn't love you? She probably loved you so much, she left. She wants you to find happiness with someone who will really truly love you. If she stayed with you, it'd be depriving you of finding your soul mate.
I don't know if I'll ever be okay.
Lll L I don’t wannna be a burden :)
Hey man. To be happy with someone else. You need to first be able to be happy yourself, if you cant, try your best to find something that makes you happy, about yourself, but don’t rely on someone else to make you happy, I did that and..it didn’t work out..
I’m the person who’s always supporting my friends, and I’ll always be there for them. Unfortunately I don’t know how to socialise anymore, so there’s nobody who’s going to be there for me.
for whoever needs to hear this for whatever reason you're listening. you're not alone. everything's going to be okay.
Whoever reads this, i wish you the best this world can offer, life's tough , relationships are complicated , the struggle is real ! we all go through thick and thin, darkness is a chapter of your life that makes you realize how valuable light is , breathe deep and trust the process , this too shall pass:) i wish you the very best, god bless🙏🌹
Good timing, I needed this so badly
i hope ur okay, take care of yourself for me ~ ! have a virtual hug 💕 i love u
@@katharinedoerksen7454 Hope ur okay as well, i'll do my best for u
Hey bro go check out my lofi mix I promise you won’t be disappointed. Thx
You all good?
@@NineOneTJ heyaa I'll gonna check it now. Let's see what u got. All the best ✌️
Roses Are Dead
Violets Are Dying
Outside I'm Smiling
Inside I'm Crying
First one of that Kind I've read - made me laugh :Dgood one
I feel like that a lot
outside i’m crying, inside i’m crying**
Roses are filled with dread
Violets are silently crying
I've been on this road for a while
But my engine's dying
:(
If you're reading this
We're not alone, we've got each other ❤️
This type of music make me have this kind of feeling that I don't know what it is but it feels good and empty at the same time, like if all my feelings get in to the songs and I start to listen them, it make me cry so bad but honestly after that I can sleep in pace.
27 years old alone in a foreign country, how much i tried to adapt here and make friends but never succed. I am crying everyday, i am so weak. i go to the supermarekts daily for a human reaction and i go weekly to the same cafe shop to order the same cafe so i can make a little conversation with the waiter.
What country are you in? Maybe we're in the same country... Or people who read this comment are,,, i think we should help each other to not feel or be lonely anymore
Hey bro. Atleast you had the courage to go to an foreign country alone. I couldn't even done that. Good luck on finding new people. Need someone to talk to about anything? My discord is: basement keeper#0001
I hope you're ok..
It's been 2 months with no update
Stay strong my friend 🌹
Hey! I would like to thank you for this warming support and i am afraid to share that i am still alone here in Germany, been kicked out of the Uni because i couldnt focus on my lessons and now i am trying to pass the language exam so i can apply again.. I failed twice but yet i try to get up every morning to study.. what i would like to share that i found my passion in photography and writing.. I think the need of a human contact has produced this passion.. because most of the time i photograph random people in the train or writing some short poems about my feelings..
I started to smoke weed sometimes inorder to make the long days bit shorter.. I just noticed i had just 27 likes on my comment which is the same number i started it the first comment.. I will be honest it drew a smile on my face..
@@qassas93 also here from germany! You can do it brother hang in there!
recently i had been deciding whether i should live anymore. i feel so alone and lost. except i decided to give the world another chance. i'm gonna have a month off school to get myself better (i live in aus and where i live we've been going to school for 6 weeks cause we hardly have any cases), and figure out what i truly want to do. i want to find things that interest me and give me a sense of euphoria like i used to feel. cause i honestly miss my old self. i have been constantly crying. i've lost all my friends. suicide is the only thing on my mind. even when something good happened, it's all i could think about. it would drive me crazy. so, now i'm finally allowing myself to breathe. i just really hope it turns out the way i want it to, and i get into a better mental state.
i hope anyone out there who is struggling with a similar situation can also rethink their decision and possibly keep fighting like i am. i too, have gave the universe many chances but i decided this is it's last chance. if i don't get better or don't find myself.. well then maybe my place here on earth isn't meant to be.
stay strong dreamers
i wanna give u a big fat hug :( u deserve the universe and so much happiness. u matter a lot to so many people. i hope u find ur path in life toward only happiness and success!
Kelly Goodman I too am finding myself in a similar situation. Writing has helped me stave off my plots, though I keep coming back to the same conclusion. Sorry if these words aren’t helpful, or the usual “you can do it stuff”. I just feel similar. I don’t really want to go just yet, but I’m afraid of life. I don’t know exactly what I’m trying to say, except that perhaps you have the opportunity to keep going. So do I, I mean no ones taken our actual lives let alone ourselves. So maybe, just maybe we can overcome. I really hope this doesn’t sound dumb.
Hi Kelly.. it is okay to feel like all is lost and there's not much the world can offer. I can relate to what you are feeling. What helps me is to put my self out of my 'life scene' and become the watcher of my own life; that way I could be more aware of what I am feeling rather than reacting to it. If you are feeling sad, allow yourself to feel sad, it's ok. It is brave to face your genuine feeling like you are feeling right now. You are a brave person, believe in your self
Awe. You have come so far in life. I am sorry you are struggling. You deserve so much good. :( I really hope things get better. Please stay strong
tapur verma thank you so much🥺🥺 the best goes to you !
2005 , A young girl got birth.
She had the world at her feet.
She had a wonderfull mother and a wonderful father.
Then years passed.
2010, Her parents divorced.
She was young and couldn't understand.
So her mom told her everyday :
Your father found a better woman than mom dear.
2015, Her mother found another man.
The man seemed kind at the first impression.
But then years past by.
The little girl started to understand life.
2020, The little girl got Anxiety.
Then Asthma.
Then alot of stress problems.
Then Depression.
The girl were an anti-social teen with online friends.
She didn't wanted real friends because:
"I know I will be understood in another dimension with sad teens like me."
You just rode MY story.
I am an depressed young teen.
With surely no future so why shouldn't I already tell my story?
-Naomi Nasure.
I don’t know you but I feel you, right now I just want to die tbh, I just want to sleep and never wake up. Everything will be okay in the end, keep fighting! Sending hugs ❤️
cool, im 2005 aswell, but tbh i would want asthma, would just help me y know.
looks like u have kinda similar history, but my parents divorce would be just a good thing.
kawaii anglerfish#0464
this sounds exactly like me I never want real friends cod when I was younger in kinder garden/nursery I had loads of friends but since m 11 my life changed a lot and I never wanted real friends cud every friend I have in school just uses me for answers in work and poeple steal my only friend guess I'll never have one I hate friends
Real frnds don't exist.....
I too had a frnd whom I loved so much she was everything for me, I gave her my all love, I was always available for her in return she used, abused nd refused me....
I left her company now from long tym I feel empty from inside going with lyf, no excitement, I can feel u all.....
There's nothing I can do but I'll pray from God for ur happy, healthy nd bright lyf.....
I feel glad that I found u all, love u frnds....
Vanshika Tiwari you seem to be a great person so stay strong ly
Damn just think about how many people feel things while listening to this and everyone got their own life and thinking and all, its crazy to think about
Tell me what you feel while listening im really interested in your storys
i feel lonely, but i feel like i am enough. I enjoy my own company because i learned how to be alone... i feel like people around me aren't on the same frequency that i am. It's overwhelming. And i have no real friends, because whenever i find one, the go away or abandon me... yes, feeling sad and exhausted for the last 2 years and now i don't even know how is it to feel happiness like, i dont know, i am very playful around my family but i wish they took me to therapy. I have all the symptoms of social phobia and tourettes... sadly, my mom won't pay attention to my mental health and she doesn't even know much about it. The only friend i have is a girl who i am too scared and anxious to meet in real life so we just talk through the internet (sorry for bad english is not my first language)
@@lanalaniakea Damn I don't really know how to help you I don't really know much about your situation and connections I dont even know how old you are but I know that friends can be a big help if you are searching for happiness.
I get that some people aren't on the same frequence as I myself am I get that to from alot of people.
If someone asked me who my friends are there would come 2 people in mind. I got more friend thru my old school but we kinda disconnected after I was going to a different school. They were the ones I think arent on the same frequence as I am. That doesn't mean that I don't like them and you can still have fun with them but its hard to connect on a deeper level.
I dont really know how to find the right people because I am struggling myself. From you story I can feel that you have a good relation to your family whats really good and there are the ones that will stick with you forever so. I can just tell you that you maybe really talk serious to your parents about your mental state and that you want therapy. I know that its not easy but its worth it. Their are your parents so they should want the best for you.
Tell me if you talked to them and how it was :)
And remember that every pain is temporary but when you're alone you can spiral yourself into it and its easier to get out with the help of others.
Well the first time I was depressed I randomly started thinking about my grandad that passed in 2013 and my dog that grew up with me , i started to not care about alot of things and stopped trying in school , then school started worrying me alot and it gave me low self asteem (which to be honest I still do) I would get angry alot and didn't want to be around any of my friends most the time , I would write and draw dark things and at one point I would cry every night. Then it went for like a week when I opened up about it but then came back and I still am depressed but it's not as bad really , nowadays I worry about things , feel lonely some nights , stay up late every night (its currently 2 am as I type this) I over think about things , sometimes think about dark stuff ,I feel like a failure and I cant sleep without music. 😐 sorry this is so long I honestly probably missed stuff out but yeah 😕 Edit : also my friend group has fell apart aswell it went from a group of people to ide say like 4 and only 2 of them I see and they've been arguing and it's worrying me that they won't be friends at some point and as with the other 2 I probably won't one as much and the other one I probably won't see for years to be honest ☹ and yes I finished secondary school this May
@@dimitrioslange2789 Damn sounds rough. I feel the thing with your friendgroup for me it was after I finished school that I would do much with them but then you see who your real good friends are. I would say meet new people but I know that thats hard sometimes but 2 friends isnt that bad if they are good friends.
Just keep in mind that everything is temporary. Every sadness passes someday so as every human or animal. Think about the good times you had with your grandpa and your dog. That whats really counts. Dont be sad that there are gone, be happy to have known them.
Hope life gets better for you soon
I know some day it will
I’ve had lots of family issues which lead into a very bad depression that almost became dangerous. Then this guy was an amazing friend to me, and truly cared and was there for me. He helped me, and I felt like I was better… until my parents made me block him from my phone, never talk, or even see him ever again. They think he’s a bad person, when he’s not at all. Now I have nothing to keep me motivated anymore, nothing to keep me going. Rn I can just feel myself shutting down again. I don’t know what to do…
I know he would.
Dealing with a breakup, worsening anxiety and depression, constantly feeling so lonely and meaningless, lost without my friends, family problems... Stuff like drawing while listening to these types of songs helps me get my emotions out. Thank you for making these.
Escute a voz no fundo poço e ela mesmo te dirá pra levantar se você não fizer nada pra levantar vai ficar aí,pra sempre,foi isso q eu aprendi,embora pouco é tudo oque me resta de esperança sou muito novo(18) pra tentar dar dar conselhos à alguém q já se separou mas se ajudar tá aí.
Same man, break up started all this, although family problems were still there but i was happy with her. Now that she is gone and she was only close friend I had, idk what to do now. 3 months have passed, I cry everyday, and when I am not I am just sad, really sad. It sucks
Too bleak to be bright
Too scared to walk through the night
Too weak to fight
Too stubborn to let go of my sight
Too tired to care
Too little courage to dare
Too much to bare
Too far away to be somewhere
Too high to climb
Too naive to feel numb
Too far to fall
Too numb to feel at all
Too soon to die
Too hard to stay awhile~
Wow that’s actually really good, and I completely relate. I feel really numb and depressed all the time, and people keep telling me that it’s gonna get better, but it just seems to get worse...
you forgot one
Too sad to love
anybody ever think what it would be like to float aimlessly in space just to see the stars up close
Never forget God, because when no one is there for you that one day, God will be the only one there for you. ✞❤️
I don’t feel alone. I just like to listen to this and relax. Whoever is here because they feel lonely, things will get better and you will always be able to find people who will be there for you. So get out there and find them 🍄🌿
It’s funny how sometimes I feel so alone and feel like everybody around me smiles happily while I just fake mine but then when I go on RUclips to listen to sad music etc there are tons of people like me so how came we aren’t friends yet???
Let's be friends ^^
i wanna be your friend
@@stawrra let's be all friends
we are friends
but friends through words
not through reality
which makes it more comfortable
@@somerandommicrowave hella nice said sometimes the only way is to escape this reality
I've attempted suicide during my early 20's. Stepped on the gas pedal while pushing my seat back. Made the garden hose fall off the exhaust. Couldn't here the exhaust sound in the cabin so I went outside to put it back on and stopped. ''The fuck am I doing?'' I asked myself. I was crying. Most of my friends had goals. Didn't have any so I felt stupid. I had tried a lot of things but always given up since I didn't have any interest or motivation. So on top of feeling stupid, I felt weak for giving everything up. Why not give up on life too...but I went back home. The pipe was to dirty for the duck tape to hold anyways. I then realize I've made a lot of people cried. I've decided to give life another try even though nothing changed. Met a girl. Spent 3 years with her before she left me. The best thing she ever did. That's when I realized I was searching for happiness in the wrong things. ''I'll be happy when I get a good girlfriend.'' ''I'll be happy when I get a house, a good job.'' or whatever. I also realized that I had a ''mal de vivre'' or a life ache. Seems like it's possible for a mother to transfer her emotional distress to her child. Anyways, I decided to try to appreciate the little things like good food, sunsets and shit like that. In the long run, it worked.
Don't give up. Surround yourself with happy people, good-hearted people. Surround yourself with people that go forward. Don't stop giving even though life takes sometimes. Give and don't expect anything back. It'll come back one way or another. Good friends give without expecting anything back so... If you don't have good friends, get rid of the people around you. Get rid of the complainers as they will bring you down. Get rid of the free-riders, the beggars. Get rid of the manipulators, those who judge you. Get rid of the negative people as well as negative thoughts. Treat yourself. Go out. Please don't stay inside. It's a morale killer. Enjoy the small things. Live day by day, minute by minute if you have to but don't give up. It's hard, I know. Been there. But I assure you, you can do it.
Last thing, if you wanna talk, talk.
If you don't have anyone to talk to,-----------> I'm here. I'll lend a shoulder and gladly listen.
Hey, i know i am late to this but i could really need some advice. So.. Long story short i don t have any goals either.. My parents are pushing me towards jobs i don t think i like, but i haven t even found anything i truly like to do.... Also, all my life i haven t been in a relationship with any of the girls i loved, recently my heart just broke because of a girl and now i have fallen in love with another but she likes my best friend (but my best friend doesn't like her back) i m not popular.. I think i m dumb.... And recently i don t think life has any meaning for me anymore.. I have given life multiple chances but it seems like fortune isn t smiling towards me.. Never has and never will..... I have suicidal toughts but i think about the few people that will miss me..... I don t know what to do anymore
@Johnny Mitchell yea.. just about 2 nights ago i waked up crying because i dreamed about how all my friends are gonna die and how i will miss them.. i overthink so much as well.... i just wanna be happy but it seems i really can t..
@@K0ndensed I'm assuming you're still young since you haven't found a career. Don't stress too much about your career. It's the least of your worries, believe me. I've tried a bunch of things when I got out of high school and couldn't find a fit. I had a bunch of small jobs here and there. Did my fair share of clubs, parties, drugs and alcohols. I went back to school at 26 in art. Worked in 2D animation for 3-4 years afterward and then went back to school in welding. Worked in the field for 4 years and when the economy crumbled, I came back in my hometown, and now I'm back to school doing a teaching degree at the university: I'm 44 years old. It's never too late.
Here's the thing. We don't know ourselves when we're young so don't waste time ''thinking'' you're dumb. There are MANY types of intelligence (8 if I'm not mistaken) so just because you're not good in a particular subject, it doesn't automatically classify you as a dumb person. I thought I was dumb too and was socially awkward until I realized in my thirties I had an attention deficit disorder and was an introvert. Life revelation right there for me. It may sound stupid to you but try to find a personnality test and do it. It may surprise you in a good way.
About your parents, if they put too much pressure, find yourself an apartment (if it's not already done) so they don't do the ''our house, our rules'' thing. Anyways, they don't get to choose a career for you, you do.
Don't say fortune never has smilled or never will. You don't know the future. Did you do the pros and cons on your situation? I don't want you to think I'm denigrating what you are living because I'm not, but we (myself included when I was young) tend to overdramatize things. There is also the fact that we have a morbid habit of seing only our flaws. I still do that at 44 but the difference is that I know myself and my strenghts and this factor alone outway my flaws tenfold. You still trully don't know yourself therefore, you don't know your strenghts. You don't know your full potential so don't give up. You WANT to know your full potential, believe me.
As for girls now. You don't want a girl in the situtation you are in right now. It'll be bad for you anyways. If you want a good, smart, confident and happy going girl (because THAT's what you want), you have to change your mind set. Smile at people around you even if you don't feel like it. You attract what you project. That's what I did after my girlfriend left me and I remember that one girl who told me at work that it was always great coming in the morning because I was always smiling. It made my whole weak.
Don't complain(people don't like conplainers). Don't confuse confiding with conplaining. You're confiding right now. A complainer is someone who repeats things like ''life sucks'' or ''I'm not lucky'' and do nothing to change that. Put your shoulder back and your shin up. You'll look more confident. Re-read the last paragraph of my first comment. Engrain that in your head. Write down what you would like to change and act on it and if you don't know what to do in life use that as an excuse to travel: You'll learn a lot about the world but most importantly, you learn a lot about yourself.
As an ex ''hurting soul'' I can assure you that the more I grow old, the more I like it and you DON'T want to miss that part!
If you have questions, ask me. If you still want to talk to me, talk. Please don't hesitate!
@@Marinoninewb you are just a ray of sunshine! I am very grateful for your kindness and just taking the time to respond and encourage me, even though you don t know me (moments like this restore my faith in humanity :) ) and your assumption was right, i am 16 now.. I would love to get my own apartment but i m from Romania and i m not yet financially stable, so i can t do anything right now, except wait 2 more years to get to university.. I wanna leave this country because everybody s brainwashed and the whole system is corrupted.. I don t know where i want to go, but i feel like my future is not in this country. I just want to thank you one more time, i am really grateful for your kind response and your encouraging words, you are just a wonderful person! Also, i want to apologize for my bad english :/
@@K0ndensed My sincere pleasure! If my life experience and knowledge can help, I'll gladly share it. Your English is great, don't sweat it. The best language to travel. The U.S.A, Canada(I live there), Australia, New Zealand are great countries to move to. Unlimited possibilities for you my man. Think about that! And remember, be strong, be proud!
"You cannot protect yourself from sadness without protecting yourself from happiness. Tears come from the heart and not from the brain. To have felt too much is to end in feeling nothing. People keep telling me that life goes on, but to me that's the saddest part"
-person
i'm so sad right now. really think my life may be in its lowest point, maybe it will get better, now i'm just crying. it's better to cry over the problems and not leave them inside.
thanks for the music, it really helps
When you feel so numb that the only tears left to cry are deep within, when you just want to cry and let it all out but cannot. The scars in your heart of the love and happiness in the past, all the good old days when you were happy, blissful life through the young eyes of a person who is yet to understand the pain and suffering in this world. Where all the things that you hold dear are not worth anymore, and all the people you've kept close just fade into nothingness. When you start to question your reality, and in the end, question if it is worth it.
this is my exact state at the moment. so emotionally numb that i can’t cry
i feel like im in a never ending loop here, if i act anything else then a perfect oldest daughter everything i love gets taken away, my phone, my friends, and my freedom to even wear or do the things i like. im the polar opposite of my family and they push me away because of it. i wish i could be accepted here.
im usually a person who likes electric guitars, punk music, and dark clothing, but my family likes country, light clothing, and piano's. i never get along with them and never feel accepted because of it. even my younger sister feels like it too. she once said "i never get to listen to the type of music i love." it hurts me to hear my sister fall into the same path i took.
im just falling into a deeper depression every day and i dont think i can go anymore.
Dont worry you will get through this!
I've found personally that music has been a really powerful part and experience in my life to deal with negative emotions - not to dismiss them but rather process them, and feel them out. Don't listen to what anyone says about your taste in music. Music doesn't judge anyone, so neither should anyone else. I love punk music, heavy metal, but also classical music and jazz. Not everyone will connect with that, and not everyone has to. Like me, there's heaps of people you're yet to meet who you can bond with. Don't give up, now.
@@moyinoluwaduduyemi763 You do you
Feeling lonely, and feeling like no one wants you. Feeling like you repel love. Repel Romance. Feel like you ain't doing enough. Feeling like you ain't enough. Feeling sad. Missing the happy days. Thinking if they feel the same. Hoping for better days.
I hate that you are describing my life so perfectly with this
hey to whoever is reading this, Please know that you're enough and that you matter. I don't know what you are going through but I understand. keep fighting please!! don't give up, Look at you, You've gotten so far and you should be proud.
thank you so much! you've made my day!
bullshit
i hope everyone can find a kind lofi community for themselves.
I made a mistake, a big one and now I feel even more alone then I did before
Buddy, there's always a chance to start over. Depending on the mistake, time can heal the wounds, have no doubt about it. The only things that can change the whole situation are your actions and how you view it. You may not have faith in yourself, but I have faith in you.
I'm in the same boat as you probably different situations but the outcome is the same I messed up and idk if I can get her back this time
Anamatronix I hope things get better for you.💕
@@anamatronix5357 Man, there’s not just one woman in the world. There will always be women who can make you happy out there and it is not good to be stuck with someone. Trust me, the love of your life will still appear. If the relationship ended, it was because it was not meant to last.
We all made mistakes this is life you know we're not a goddess. ❤️
"yet another day of existing, not living" -me
I wish we were all friends. We can talk to each another about our problems each day. I’ve been sad and confused since corona happened. I fell most of you do too. I hope you can have someone to talk to. If you don’t I’m here to listen to anything you want me to hear. I hope you get better and heal and thank you so much for you kind people putting nice comments to make others say and not feel lonely. Also thank you so much for this awesome music.
i wish that too like its night we all have pizza and hot coco and sitting on a roof talking helping eachother out but im rooting for u too kind stranger :)
Take care
@@ellamellap1239 take care buddy
If I were to create a lofi discord would you be interested in joining? It doesn't have to be about anything it could literally be a place where we listen to lofi, meet new ppl, talk about life and all its problems and its imperfections. Who knows what could become of this discord, but for the time being I think it'd be a safe place for everyone here.