Has Toxic Masculinity Become Toxic Femininity?
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- Опубликовано: 28 сен 2024
- There is a new trend on TikTok highlighting toxic femininity. There are so many problems with this trend, so let's unpack it.
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The vibe I get from these women is that they got dumped and never got over him, so they try to reinvent the situation.
Yes.
It's actually pretty obvious. They're projecting that they can't keep a man so they embarrass themselves by putting a video saying men regret not keeping her
Annnnd there we go. Demonize women. Do you feel cool now? Special?
We in the manosphere call them _"alpha widowed"._ She got imprinted & now can't settle for less than that best man they ever had.
If she does settle, she takes it out on him for not being perfect and makes his life miserable for not being good enough, or at least on-par with what she's had.
EXACTLY!!!
They aren’t shaming wives. They are shaming themselves. They must have been rejected so hard.
I don't think it's because they've been rejected so hard, I imagine it's because they had a sense of pride or something that they can use to one-up the men
@Daku Daddy I’m single at the moment and all I want is someone to watch anime with and enjoy the moment 🤙🏽
They are upset that their superficial facade hasn't been able makeup for their lack of personality, common sense and basic moral fiber. They can't come to terms with the fact that they're not quite marriage material, apparently, allegedly...
Haha, yes, that's the vibe I got, too.. The second woman definitely can't get over the guy who nexted her, and the third one looks like she keyed a dude's car right before making the video. Hopefully, they have at least one friend who can let them know those dudes aren't reaching out because they've moved on, as hard as that may be to accept lol
they watch too many movies lol
To be fair, I do 100% think about these people while I am with my “vanilla wife”. I think "Man Im so glad Im married to my amazing thoughtful and supportive wife and not to that one crazy chick I dated when I was too young to understand what qualities I truly desired in a significant other." Cope harder crazy ladies that I left behind. You'll never get me back.
Heck yeah.
Exactly.
"Cope harder" dude I'm using that every day now
This comment needs to go viral istg.
‘[You] had us in the first half not gonna lie’😂😂😂
As a woman who's been with my husband since 18 (now 38), I can honestly say, I regret nothing. I was told to date more. I did a bit before I met him. And I stopped looking because I knew I found someone that would be my partner in life and spur me on to be better, and me the same for him. It sounds to me like you have a pretty dang healthy outlook on this, and I applaud you for that. Wisdom beyond your years. Good job to you and your parents. I hope my children understand and speak this kind of truth when they reach adulthood. Well done.
I met and started dating my husband when I was 20, and we are the only ones the other has dated. We knew what we wanted and are now married and pregnant
@@faithtinywishes8232 congrats and good luck!
I met my wife in high school. I was 15, and she was 17. Her mom convinced her to break up with me because she had never had a boyfriend. After about a month of us both being miserable, we got back together. We have been together for almost 21 years now and are happily married with two kids.
@@joshw3010That is such a sweet story. I hope your mother-in-law came around - hopefully she was just trying to get you both to take stock of how serious you were since you were so young, and not just meddling. 🙂
You're lucky. All I got was narcissists and psychos.
A common quote of mine:
Toxic masculinity isn't a thing. Masculinity isn't toxic. Being an a-hole is. And that knows no gender.
The turtle has spoken🙏
This is excellent. Especially the last two sentences. Genius 💯🙌🏼
Sensei Turtle teach me the ways!
Well put.
thank you master for the wise words
As a 52 year old woman, I can tell that these ladies have always been around. The difference is that now we have social media. The reality of things is, that these ladies can say whatever they want but at the end of the day, they are not the ones married, with the house, no ring, they didn’t get the man.
Amen, sista. The truth is TRUE. Men don’t want to live their happily ever after with a slut. Life is so much more than sexual intercourse, if it were only about that the prostitutes would be the top tier of society desirability.
They die sad and alone, that’s called justice
I think one advantage in age of internet men at least can look up their social media before getting involved too much.
They are the ones that buy a dog and die alone lol
@@renedejong5258 Sad, alone, well, maybe not alone, but definitely with cats who eat their corpses!
Telling me that sex is the only thing in a marriage that's going to make me happy, just shows how miserable these women really are.
They seem mad that "vanilla" just has way more to offer than they do.
It shows that it’s all they have to offer…hence the reason they’re probably not married
The fact that they are focused on something that isn't going to last is disturbing. We're all going to fade over time. The vanilla people will have their partner's companionship. These toxic women will be that desperate old alcoholic woman at the bar throwing herself at men that don't want her to touch them because she's creepy. Everyone gets old. You can do it gracefully, or become an ugly weird creep.
I would be happy with a 80 year old wife then them.... Nasty minded woman
It's the only things these girls can offer because they have no other personality traits.
As a conservative guy I have literally zero interest in these kinds of women. I'm not gonna think of any of them when I'm with my future wife because I'm not going to sleep with any of them. I'm waiting for the right woman. I don't need to think of anyone else.
Edit: To all traditional men and women who have been ridiculed or shamed by these so-called progressive liberals, just know that you are awesome and I wish you all the best in life. Stay the way you are and don't fall for their propaganda.
And Brett, you're simply awesome!
You dropped this. 👑
I hope you find your perfect submissive wife ❤️
Thank you! As a conservative woman, I sometimes question my beliefs and convictions due to my surroundings. I need to remind myself that God is preparing my Godly husband and I don't need to follow the culture and society
@@sunshinethea27 While it's fine to question one's beliefs at times don't do it from a desire to fit in with modern society.
It's okay to stand out as old-school :)
Thanks for the pick me up. I was feeling discouraged a bit and needed this one
Holy cow! As a woman who married young and married my best friend, I always feared I would become boring, but whenever I bring that up to my husband he just laughs. We are two nerds, he proposed to me at the Renaissance Faire, and we have so many things in common, it was an obvious fit. I feel like these women feel like they need a reason to excuse their promiscuous behavior, rather than working on themselves and finding a best friend to marry. Because you need to know yourself before you can give yourself to someone else truly.
Absolute W
Your husband looks like Elijah Wood!
Those woman say vanilla or even boring BUT what they really mean is high quality.
And those woman are super low quality.
Dang, I'm jealous; my husband _hated_ the Renaissance Fair. 😅
27 years here and I’m happy with my “boring” life! We love AND like each other. 😊
Dear Brett, on behalf of all men, all real men. Men who respect women and have traditional values... We appreciate you standing up for what's right. We love you.
True! She is like perfect example for woman I would like to have for loving marrying etc. Good values, natural beauty and that spice what Brett has when she talks about important stuffs for her and her country x) plus I always get lost in her eyes 😍
I don't want to sound like a simp. But yeah. I can't disagree.
still weird and funny that her name is the same as a very loud and angry brittish man playing video games
Why don’t you just say “step on me Brett”
For standing up for what is right because if we men try to do this it'll cause a riot and women will scream down the streets until we are silenced.
The idea that vanilla sex is “boring” is ridiculous. Losing my kinks and learning to enjoy sex as it’s meant to be is one of the wonderful things that happened to me due to having a healthy marriage.
Have to say, same. It becomes more about bonding than variety. When people are chasing it as a high or following schmorn, they need bigger and badder to get that dopamine hit. To say vanilla is boring is means that it is all that they are getting out of the relationship because just like most people would prefer a plainer flavor to go on the side of their dessert, when it is only a part of your relationship, it doesn’t need to be a $1000 sundae every time.
Idk about kinks disappearing, but sex in a committed relationship is a million times better every single time👌
how did you drop your kinks? i’m currently celibate but i don’t want my kinks to get in the way of my future married sex life. sometimes i feel like a complete pervert.
Aweee that’s so cute. Good for you.
@@tersuhh I feel you, thinking about this a lot myself. I was so messed up as a teen and got sucked into the whole boss-girl feminist tale, being sexually liberated, I don’t have the slightest idea how an honest, respectful and meaningful relationship works, let alone “vanilla sex”.
I had experience with a girl like that. I'm from SEA and I dated a girl from Connecticut, USA. She was a self proclaimed player and cheated on me. My dumb ass stayed with her, which was the worst mistake of my life. So a few months later I ended it saying I didn't want her anymore. She got mad and blamed me for it. She then said that I'll never meet another girl like her and to that I said thank god for that.
I'm 31 years old and THANK GOD I got married 10 years ago. Blessings to all of you who are looking for that significant other. MARRIAGE IS A BEAUTIFUL THING!
Yes! I was blessed to meet my husband early and get married at 19, become a mother at 21. I'm well aware that I have more power and influence than women much older than me who are sleeping around.
Married 17 years ago, and reflect the same sentiment ... holy moley ... current environment is nuts
Someone definitely has a gun on u . 😂 No way u wrote that sober .
I'll be keeping my eyes peeled, though God might have to slap me in the face with her in this crazy world.
when it works
Our culture has created a society of narcissists--they need social media for constant supply. It is incredibly sad.
Seriously. Those first women are literally just using social media as a form of copium to deal with the fact that they were unable to secure commitment from a guy in their past and he's moved on and gave his commitment to someone else. Their egos are so absolutely massively overinflated that they think it's appropriate to take a video of themselves, overlay a caption explaining that the real reason why that man did not commit to her is because she's too hot and that he will be thinking about her (as a sex object mind you) while he's with his wife.
Nevermind the fact that she is unable to secure commitment from ANY man. She needs the internet to tell her that she's strong and empowered for being good in bed.
Narcissists.
I mean the biggest narcissist in the world was President so 🤷♂️
It's the sickness of this media culture. For me since Tv and social media got even worse. Don't care about another people supply.
It bothers me that people around me guess I need their attention and approval to think/say/wear whatever I want to.
@@ylakety thank you and I was Thinking I was the only one with that Opinion.
Yep! Exactly!
My husband and I have been discussing this lately… you can’t have toxic masculinity without toxic femininity.
See why make it about gender and contributing more DIVISION! It's just toxic behavior! Has nothing to do with gender- it's just bad and unhealthy and toxic all by itself.
They go hand in hand. I was discussing this with my wife also, although specifically through the lens of the toxic relationship culture in Mexico (she's from there, and their pop culture is practically the perfect test case for this topic). Philandering and adulterous men ultimately are only enabled by narcissistic unfaithful women, and their consequences are heaped up equally between them. Authentic men and women depend on different kinds of tactics to avoid being burned by either type, although both their differing strategies necessarily spring from the same well of Wisdom.
It's toxic feminism, not femininity.
Ashley I'm not criticizing you here at all or your husband. But why talk about toxic masculinity and "now" toxic feminity?
Is just toxic people like always... Is just social media making people louder but not necessarily better or wiser. Thanks for sharing.
Edit: I might have read your "lately" too hard.
@@newtonbomb God, I wish they'd go hand in hand and leave "normal" people out of their shennanigans... :D
This is honestly so "ICK", I met my husband at 19 and he was 23, He is my first and only partner. We have been together for 8 years and married for 4. These women saying married women are vanilla is so unbelievably untrue. The reality is what you want is a good outstanding hardworking man to marry, but you can't find one, so you make these videos to make yourself feel better about yourself. I love being married and I feel so unbelievably lucky that I met my hardworking, wonderful husband at a young age!
Lol don't worry, they'll be making the "I'm 40 and I desperately want kids but men see through the games I play and don't want me" videos in 10 years.
The amount of second-hand embarrassment I get from these crazy women is beyond me 🥴
The word youre searching for is "fremdschämen" my lad
They are just narcissists, which can sometimes cross with psychopathy and sociopathy. Do not ever listen to anything a narcissist says. Just stay far, far away.
Oh dear, I understand you very deeply. I love being a woman, but lately, I have been so disheartened by the current decline of our gender.
I have been married for 28 years. I have never slept with any other woman. I have no regrets, no worries, and I love my wife. Seriously, man up gentlemen have some self respect and self control. You'll live better.
She's lucky to have you. Personally, I'm fine with the everlasting love that God provides me and we're doing great. I learned to let go of relationships and dating a long time ago because of girls like this and I've been great.
Man up? Men aren't the problem, farm boy.
@@johndeaux3703 men and women are the problem. if a man cheats on there spouse for these women, thats wrong. If the women knows the man is married and cheats with him thats wrong. Did you not see the vid?s
@@cpeugh123ad If a man doesn't commit he can't cheat.
@@johndeaux3703
the high% OF fatherless home say otherwise and show that men don't care about women or their own child. Most " pussy Men" which is the majority today just reproduce and leave no wonder that crime is on the rise .it even higher if the child is disable.
As a 27 year old woman that has been married for 9 years, i laugh at these videos, the manipulation, the need to be wanted. I’m just gonna sit here with our three homeschool kids in my happy marriage bubble with 100% confidence that my husband is a good faithful man whom I admire and love with everything I am. Hope the women in these videos can find the love and genuine relationship that I have it’s beautiful and comfortable and sometimes vanilla and boring, and there is a peace in that.
That genuinely sounds like bliss, and nice one with the home-schooling. How do you find home-schooling? My sister is looking to start with her children in the UK, due to the shocking state of public schools, and we're just looking for people's real life experiences with it :) A strong and solid family is something I hope to one day find
I'm sorry but when you get married at 18 you don't need to put your whole life story out there like you did the world a favor. getting married at 18 is immature, childish, and you don't even know yourself yet nor have you finished developing yet.
@@xronann The fact that you are trying to shame her marriage because she is happy in response of those lonely women who shamed married women,
and because she got married at 18 years say a lot about you. You are probably the childish immature18 years old by your comment.
@@xronann not all society are like Usa 🤷♂️ strange to look at the world under the lens of Us values
@@xronann how is getting married and starting a family childish? Thats the total opposite of childish.
My girlfriend of 4 year left me after getting into this new woke work environment, she saw her co-workers with their own flat, car and trips, while we were having a hard time. Funny thing is, every time she talk me about them, she said all of them were unhappy or filled with bad blood or bad relationships. That she didn't felt right about that but she had to fit in because, yeah she was now pulling the weight on the bill and we were more relived economically. 6 months later, she starts getting more and more complains about me, Even when I was working more hours in a harder work, about money, about expenses.... then it happened, she left me, she was now in a new league above me according to her, even when for the last 3 years I was supporting everything she did. This feminist movement want women miserable, because if women are miserable, men are miserable.
I’m sorry man… Pick yourself up, the Son of Man may redeem you and give you much better
Bruh. Nothing makes me happier to be married to a sane, stable woman than watching what current women are acting like. Dayum.
Same, dude. “Boring” traditional wives are the best.
@@KyleT1990 Seriously don't know what is "boring" in a wife at this point. Are we rejecting the basic necessities of a healthy relationship?
💯 💯 absolutely
Amen to that friend.
I think this is proof that women are more emotionally invested in sex and further proves why monogamous relationships are so important and saving yourself for marriage. These women can't stop thinking about the guys they've been with in the past and I think deep down regret their promiscuity because they gave a piece of themselves to someone else who is no longer with them.
Most men are aware of this. It's why most family men value virgin brides.
This is on point , I totally think thats the case
Preach
@@sinAnon6689 You should care about a womans bodycount. They loose the ability to pair-bond much faster than men. If you want a long lasting relationship, stop wasting your time with these 304´s. And at the same time also practice what you preach. Rampant promiscuity is killing us all.
I think so too
"They're all clapping like girl boss seals" I tried not to laugh but I did.
Met a girl at an internship once who talked and laughed about how she liked to get with married men becuase it was “funny when their lives fell apart”. She and the other girl who laughed were really confused when I didn’t want to be around them anymore.
To be fair that's on the men, don't take their accountability away, they're the ones who are supposed to be loyal.
It's on both. Come on now
@thecrow5006 She didn't say it's not also on the men but why on earth would you hang around with women like that? They are terrible people.
@@thecrow5006beat
@@thecrow5006 "Don't take their accountability away,"
*Takes away the accountability of the person trying to ruin other people's lives on purpose*
'You can't make this sh*t up' -- Kevin Samuels, 2021
From a 40 years men who is a widow, the rare times I thought about any ex-girlfriend while I was married always came with a sense of profound relief I had not to deal with them anymore, because the ones you remember years later are the ones that traumatized you so much that you associated them with some bad feeling or situation and that you hope never to meet again in life.
Sorry about your loss and I agree. It‘s not a good thing that we sometimes can‘t forget…they came as A WARNING. 🚩
lmao i love this, i feel the same way with exes
Well said.
Movies and media have really made it seem as if every person in a marriage feels trapped, depressed and has horrible sex. There are many happily married couples!! Don’t fall for it young people, marriage is wonderful
"Ewww, married and monogamous? So vanilla!"
How would she know if she's never actually tried it? Sure, plenty of people are vanilla and perfectly happy to be so - but that's not all married couples or monogamous couples. Plenty aren't vanilla at all
Plenty of people are feel loved, supported, and more free. TV ain't real life.
Probably because it is true, certainly in my case, but I promise you none of the above have anything to do with the wife, or marriage.
If one cannot distinguish fiction from reality then they either need more education or never to be exposed to any type of media because their brains can't tell what's real what's not.
Marriage has become nothing but a risk for men. This is sad but still true.
Along with this came the idea that dads are utterly incompetent, and young boys have the IQ of a potato. In this age of calling out stereotypes, some were clearly ignored
That awful, depressing "in the third life" nonsense reminds me of when Matt Walsh said something along the lines of "If I had a thousand lifetimes I'd find my wife and marry her in all of them." Really shows the difference between some people.
I had the same thought. It took me a moment to realise that the poem essentially said 'all the glamour of that life outweigh the occasional feeling of longing (which would make me seem "profound"), so you should feel grateful that you're anything to do with me.'
It's properly Regina George behaviour.
Or maybe the difference in circumstances. If I had 3 lives, I wouldn't want to be married to my ex in any of them. The fear of ever possibly stepping into another relationship like that has shied me away from ever even dating again. Sometimes being alone is a much better option.
Brett is %100 better wife material than all of these women doing the trend and even most women out there. Congratulations on the engagement Brett we love you.
Any girl who engages in this trend is making sure everyone knows who not to wed.
and the likes and positive comments. this is e-fficient discernment lol
Or even bang... unless it's a hatefuck...
The funniest part about that person saying low maintenance women get married is that most low maintenance women are beautiful without all the makeup. Many of the high maintenance ones (with inflated egos) are the plain Janes.
Toxic mascilinity this, toxic femininity that... What happened to just not being toxic?
Pfft right?
Toxic is the normi pc word for evil bad or wrong. Because the truth hurts.
Glorification of harmful things and the abdication of things that build society up.
Which is just a fancy way of saying, moral decline.
I think it's useful to have words like "toxic femininity" and "toxic masculinity" because femininity and masculinity are a thing, and both have a positive side and a toxic side that should be understood. What really irks me is when people talk about "toxic masculinity" and somehow mean basically any masculine trait
Next is Toxic Trans-shit.
I have been binging your videos and just have to say… I am ELATED to see there’s women with real true, good morals and ethical morals left in this world. Thank you for helping restore some kind of faith in women again. Love your content!
FINALLY SOMEONE SAID IT!! I always see posts from girls being like "he will never forget me especially when he has a new girl" it is absolutely disgusting and sad. They need to move on and find someone new!! I hate seeing other women tear another woman down just because she is the girl that came after her
Men think about their flings about as often as women do… which is like barely ever 🙄
My favourite is “you will never find someone like me again”….. yeh that’s kinda the point love
I had that single life until I was 25. I traveled, I read and knitted, I cooked and worked out, I had a career I loved and lived a very quiet life. I didn’t party or sleep around though not my style. But it was so unbelievably lonely. It was so lonely it would physically hurt. I had a few friends and coworkers but at night no one was there but me. Then I met my husband. And I knew that day I was going to marry him. He was everything I had ever wanted. And we clicked. Call it soul mates or Gods will but he was made for me and I for him. Now my life is loud with 3 kids to look after, I don’t travel I read on the occasion, I still knit and took up crocheting and I quit my job. But I am so unbelievably happy. Yes there have been days I have wanted to give up, things get hard But there are just as many days that have been laughter and fun and beauty. My husband has been there through all of it. He held me when I cried and I held him when he did. We went through it all together and I don’t have this piece missing anymore. Those other things I no longer have or do I don’t miss. I’m happy and if I had a 100 lives Id do it all over and over again
So sweet ❤ I’m 20 now, I felt your pain, moreso in high school. Recently I met someone who I hope is the real thing!! Never met someone like this in my whole life and even just meeting them I feel so much less lonely. Is that what it was like for you? Thanks for sharing
@@somesweetdreamm yes definitely. That’s how I felt about my husband he was unlike anyone else and felt like he was made just for me. I can’t even imagine anyone else filling his role in my life.
I think this poem is just romanticizing teen angst and wanting to be the main character in a "female empowerment" book.
@@madelainevanderschuit3236 whats wrong with that?
@@nikkiXx19 I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it except the teen angst you got to grow up at some point. But I think it’s more on the point that everyone act like you have to be this girl boss, it girl, diva etc in order to be validated. The poem is in a way looking down on married life and telling her spouse “I love you but I’d rather be off living my best life without you”. It’s ok if single life is your thing but not everyone wants that and shouldn’t be put down or shamed for it. And married life shouldn’t always be regarded as a mistake or a regret. This goes for single women they shouldn’t be shamed and forced to marry if that’s not what they want. I have two daughters and I want them to choose and know that they are respected and supported in what ever life they choose. As long as they are happy that’s all I care about.
If all of this was flipped gender wise, the world would be up in arms. If I don’t want my sons acting that way, I sure as heck don’t want my daughters doing it.
There are people doing that, your app’s algorithms just didn’t serve you with that.
@@Lifeangel2908yes, but alot less…
@@the_only_lonely not really.. I have seen tonnes of those. If women are bad, men are equally bad. Reason being, both are human beings which is so basic that people forget it.
@@Lifeangel2908yes, vut more women get away with it.
@@Lifeangel2908like the last reply from the other person, they get away with it. Because women are viewed as stupid right now. That’s why most of feminists think they’re right, because they were viewed as stupid throughout history, the truth is, after we did start being seen as more intelligent, third way feminism came along, and now we’re back to stupid.
As a man ( 40 ) I can tell you that all these women’s are dealing with some sort of trauma. And its just sad. Cause deep down inside they just want to be loved. But in their head they think that this is the love they need.
I just want to say I love your channel, as a father of a daughter i’m glad to see young girls like you with a great mindset like that.
I have had someone try to give my husband her phone number, even though I’m CLEARLY pregnant and we have our wedding rings on. I was the one paying for that night so he slides the check over after seeing the number and just laughs. I see it and laugh too. I then respond “thanks but I’m not into girls and I’m married.” The girl was SO pissed and my husband just glared at the waitress while she came back to take the card. I know this man loves me with all his heart.
I’ll never understand the mentality of wanting to take someone else’s partner just for shits and giggles😠
What did she think would happen ☠️
@@evaphillips2102 I don’t even know man 😂 it was funny though! The girls near us are very desperate, especially knowing that most are military (like my husband) so they’ll do anything to get that bag 😑
Because they want to feel "superior". That's all there is to it. Taking something from someone who she perceives as not attractive anymore (like pregnant women, sounds hilarious but there are women who think like this) makes her feel prettier. It sounds so petty but it's true.
My friends mom once said, "no matter how pretty someone is on the outside, if they have ugly hearts, then that inner ugliness will become outward. Ugly in spirit, ugly in countenance. "
@@Meowz3r they want the bag? They can get a little something called a job!
People have such an insane capacity for lying to themselves and pretending to be happy when they’re miserable, lonely, bitter, and and completely out of control.
@@sinAnon6689 you need to find better ponds to fish in. It’s true that finding a good woman nowadays is hard, but nearly every young person at my relatively large church has found a good spouse and now have healthy marriages. I met my wife at a Bible study and she just happened to come with a friend one time. And I had only been single for a few months prior to meeting her. But when you know you share core values because you’re both involved in the same worldview system like Christianity, it eliminates a lot of the variables right off the bat and there becomes a lot less to figure out when dating and a lot less of a chance of dating a looney tune.
@@sinAnon6689maybe don't even try "dating", just literally go out in the world and....participate! Go places you enjoy, do things that bring YOU joy....you may or may not meet someone, or anyone, as no one is guaranteed anything in this life.....but those are your best bets for anything of meaning added to your life. Have fun out there, be safe and smart! ☀️
Rather have a woman that I can treat like a princess, rather than one who thinks that she is one already
That's a nice quote
Treat a women like a princess and she'll treat you like a peasant.
@LAWINO NICOLE I wanna defend women but... they're making it hard ahhahaha
This is the sweetest quote. I love it.
@@johndeaux3703 I treat my husband like a king, and he treats me like a queen. Not all women take their men for granted.
Honestly, best thing I did this year was to decide not to join tiktok when so many people around me decided to do so.
You know what I find more enjoyable than sex? Going on a drive/adventure with my husband, sitting on a mountain top, having a picnic together, and just being around the person that loves me as much as I love him. Marrying my best friend has been the best decision we made.
This. I have to add though... Married mountain top sex aka making love sounds amazing...
And, you know, you can have sex on the mountain top too if you want. It's all upside!
That's the thing. A day will come when you both are old and ugly. If you're still happy with each other as people, not purely looks, you'll be way better off. My wife and I are the same. We will get old and ugly, and I won't be able to get it up anymore. We still enjoy each other and going out on adventures. There's more to real relationships than lust.
Ngl bretts execution with her adds are golden, she catches me off guard every single time 😂 love it
My sister in-law tried that “I need you to” BS, I politely looked at her and said, “Do you mean; Can you? Or would you mind?” I couldn’t believe the full body shakes she got over asking me to do something rather than telling me or manipulating me. I am a nice guy and will do anything (within reason) if someone ASKS, but TELL me or manipulate me and it’s a stern NO!
I would flip it and say “I’m going to need you to ask me and say please.” Lol
Lol I am kind of the same way. If someone ASKS me to do something (referring to big things like making decisions) I'll be more likely to give it some thought. If someone TELLS me to do something, I'm more likely to lean into saying NO without as much thought. Might be bc I'm a girl but I think if I ever heard that "I need you to" thing from another girl (even directed at a man) in that little flirty tone I think I'd get way madder than is called for lol
@@NatetheGr891🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Wow, so much different between "I need you" and "can you" 🙄
@@whosdis5999 a HUGE difference. You must demand things from others.
I’m married at 22…. Best decision I ever made. Feel just as loved, supported and advocated for as the day we started dating 6 years ago. When it’s the right person & you’re BOTH willing to put in the work to make it last, marriage never feels like a cage.
I'm in a similar boat! 21 and married, and I wouldn't have it any other way.
Exactly! Same experience! I married at 21, and it helped me a lot to be a better version of me to be braver, and to enhance my life in general.
Some people are unhappy in their marriages but that is not the norm. I feel people who are unhappy instead of trying to pursue happiness they label as " bad" the things that didnt work for them. That is a big mistake because then they block for themselves the path to achieve it.
We all have failures and bad moments, I had failures in different areas of my life, but I could accept it and keep trying.
But for some reason, bitterness gets spread much quicker than positivity, I don't know why.
Congrats! I’m getting married at 23 this year. People always told me to “have fun and enjoy being single in your early 20s.” “Just flirt, go on dates, have fun.” Nothing is wrong with that! But I’m so much happier and having so much fun with my soon-to-be husband in my early 20s and I wouldn’t have it any other way ❤️
Married at 19 and still going strong at 31!
Caitlin Klitscher what dating and marriage advice, could you... possibly share with me?
In ten years they are going to be complaining that they don't have someone to love them.
I'm happy you covered this, as men we've been dealing with this for years without being able to say much without being labeled as "misogynistic". I'm thankful for the more traditional women I have met over the years and those women, including my current partner, are appreciative and thriving because they found the right man and aren't bitter. Happy people don't complain or brag, those who are broken and desperate are the ones who need to put up a facade or complain to be happy. It's sad that we've normalized the trashing of traditional relationships and the "kill all men" content. Sickening.
I doubt anyone says "kill all men", otherwise I agree with you
never be afraid of being labelled...its a tactic to silence the truth..!!
Your so called traditional woman became traditional after they stopped getting attention from Chad and Tyron. They weren’t traditional in their 20's and you guys were in friendzone..And now you are proud of having her😆😆😆😆Nice guys are Cuckolds
@@AlissaSss23 im guessing you dont use twitter?
@@AlissaSss23 a lot of women say "kill all men" and "men are trash". And tbh, at some point of my life it made me think I wasn't worth living (I saw a video of a woman saying these stuff, rewatched it a few times to be sure I heard it well, and the algorithm thought I liked this kind of content, so I kept seeing people telling me to die every single day for weeks or even months)
As a 24-year-old married medical student, I have to sacrifice some things for my marriage, but what I get in return is much more valuable. That is the truth; no one can have everything, but a family and someone that loves you and cheers you on are worth a lot. I worked and supported us while he went to dental school, and now he is working and supporting us while I am in medical school. Marriage is having another human support your goals and dreams. It allows you to be more successful, not the other way around.
Sounds like you and your hubby are a great team!
@@Carey86 indeed!
She thinks she's caviar? ... oh wait, she's really salty and smells fishy? OK, I can see that.
"Caviar chick" isn't entirely wrong, I did marry my wife cause she's not high maintenance and knows how to deal well with her own emotions. Shocking that men want women who are self-reliant and can contribute to the relationship.
It's clearly a dude
@@kevinwilde3814 Changed the quotation marks for you.
@@kevinwilde3814 Oh yeah. Which just adds a whole other layer to it 😶
I’m obsessed with this episode. I can’t believe this generation I’m so freaking embarrassed but you takes give me hope for humanity
Not just this generation
Thank you for making a video on this! I have definitely noticed this weird trend and it is just sad. Women have basing all of their self-worth on their appearance and sexuality. At the end of the day, none of that matters, or is as important as having good character and morals to stand on. It's really scary thinking young, impressionable girls have seen these videos and possibly bought into this nonsense. I'm genuinely glad young women like you are bringing forth the truth and common sense!
❤ JESUS LOVES YOU AND YOUR FEARFULLY AND WONDERFULLY MADE TRUST GOD HE HAS AMAZING PLAN FOR YOU❤️ (PSALM 139:14 AND JEREMIAH 29:11)❤
Eh appearance actually does matter. It’s what gets you through the door.
Where are you from? Are you from the West? Are there women like you exist in West?
I absolutely agree with your points but I think as women when we get into a relationship we do tend to forget about ourselves and our needs and often prioritise the needs of other over our own, which is why we overlooked our needs in a relationship and give more attention and care towards the other person(man). Ofc it is wrong to completely forget your ownself but sometimes you do make these mistakes and again blame a man for it who is not exactly at fault here cause we do make these mistakes ourselves.
This is one of the many reasons I don't have TikTok. I live the good life lol
Facts
Me too 🎉
I do have TikTok, and the comment sections are 90% of the time very hateful, delusional, and sad. I should really get rid of the app…
@@ultimategamereditsFr I’m 3 days clean clean of that trash app
@@ultimategameredits the app reminds me of everything that’s bad. The amount of hate is heartbreaking
OMG!!!!!! I just found out who you were and I’m so happy because I’m not crazy.
I had a “friend” said “girls like me get married” in the most condescending way and proceeded to tell me how she won’t settle, insinuating I settle for my husband. I’m sorry for considering my husband and compromising so we’re both happy. I’m sorry I’m happily married, with a kid and a safe predictable life.
Its friends like that who become ex-friends because I won't put up with that disrespectful treatment.
She’s envious. Trash that friendship because that’s what she is, trash.
Exactly As women men desire for us to = Respect him , be feminine, appreciate him , be submissive, being a woman worth having. Does that mean u must be a submissive doormat? No. I aspire to be all those things & ironically what women fail to realize anymore is by being these qualities - we - I run by household - because my husband has likewise respect for me because I respect him!
Women now think they deserve a man who makes six figures and all these other list of demands they have in their heads without considering if she is what any man would want. Women don't act like wifes but expect to find men who act like perfect husband. " Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free"
Piece of advice - if a past love interest reaches out to you out of the blue a decade or two later - stay away and leave the past alone - whether they are married or not, it is not a good idea to reconnect in at all. In my experience it is better to remember them the way they were and leave it alone. I don't want to sound in any way like the horrible women in the video, but I have had the experience with these married men reaching out and I don't like it. I just ignore and move on. I know they must have issues and just want a distraction, which has nothing to do with me personally.
Its sad that those women think it is alright to post that but expect so much from these men. I am from the Philippines and those actions are unacceptable
Odd she thinks that it requires manipulation to get your man to do things for you, like grab this or zip that. Usually if you are a good spouse, manipulation is not required.
Very true. If you ask nicely and be polite men will help, it’s just being courteous. It’s like the saying says, “you catch more flies with honey than with vinegar”.
I have to remind my own mother to say please when she asks for something. of course I’m going to expect manners, especially when asking for something.
I didn’t almost end up having 5 babies with my husband by having boring vanilla sex. 😂 A stay at home mom isn’t frumpy and vanilla, she’s there with you through your worst and best moments, she’s worthy of being taken care of and a respectable woman. That’s why that man didn’t choose you, because you don’t even respect yourself.
Agreed! The whole theme with these girls making this sort of thing reeks of desperation. They are thinking about a man that left them, so much that they have to console themselves with some made situation that only exists in their heads. No happily married dude is thinking of the girl he hooked up with a few times in the middle of the night that stalked him other than with pity and relief.
JESUS LOVES YOU AND YOUR FEARFULLY AND WONDERFULLY MADE TRUST GOD HE HAS AMAZING PLAN FOR YOU❤️ (PSALM 139:14 AND JEREMIAH 29:11)❤
@@shawna5706 JESUS LOVES YOU AND YOUR FEARFULLY AND WONDERFULLY MADE TRUST GOD HE HAS AMAZING PLAN FOR YOU❤️ (PSALM 139:14 AND JEREMIAH 29:11)❤
@@jmac6350 JESUS LOVES YOU AND YOUR FEARFULLY AND WONDERFULLY MADE TRUST GOD HE HAS AMAZING PLAN FOR YOU❤️ (PSALM 139:14 AND JEREMIAH 29:11)❤
Being stoic, tough, and risk-takers aren't toxic traits, but demeaning others is truly toxic, no matter the gender
💜 thank you for positive & constructive wisdom. I thought of “toxic femininity” years ago but didn’t want to search for content, as so much content is negative. When we need unity between men and women worldwide
Finally feeling more comfortable as a woman in this society, rlly wasn't feeling like I was fitting into everything going on and just can't understand how everyone thinks it's all okay. Thank you for being a voice that actually makes sense
I absolutely love being a stay at home mama, not posting my kids pictures on social media, barely even being on Instagram, deleting my Facebook because of the stupidity. Literally only get my news from Brett, Matt and Ben. 😂💪👌
SAME! Brings me so much fulfillment.
I see 😂all the good men and women hiding from all the craziness of social media
But but...not Michael??
Matt is a bit cringe, I guess they all are at times, but congratulations for everything else, your life sounds peaceful and happy! 😀
Brett, Matt and Ben are also my only sources of news 😅 much less fear mongering and much more logic
They are just trying to make themselves feel better, because they know deep down, he left because you aint shit.
In middle school a girl asked me out because it was a bet on wether I would accept or not. Safe to say I was traumatized considering that was my first “dating experience.”
"They're not wanting a woman to play games with them and manipulate them. Nobody wants that." I felt that in my soul ._.
For the woman who says she hope she did a little damage and broke his heart, what she needs to know is that everybody plays the fool. It will probably come back around to her when she's in love the most. Then the person that she's in love with the most will crush her like a worm.
They already did. Thats why she has to project that man onto the rest of men and take it out on the rest of men.
Sigh, what it really is deep down they know how empty their life is and they're trying to cover up how hurt they really are.
Something personal I’m sharing here. I’m now almost 27, and as a young adult, I also bought into hookup culture and thinking it would be cool to be a woman who slept with guys casually and didn’t get attached. I know deep down it was coming from a place of being hurt from men who were like that, and I just didn’t wanna feel the sadness and pain from getting hurt anymore. I can personally say, hookup culture and sleeping around while trying to not get attached made me feel nothing but like shit. It didn’t empower me, it didn’t make me feel cool or confident; it made me feel detached, sad, exhausted, and craving actual love and partnership. Your frontal lobe doesn’t fully develop until you’re 25, and I can completely see how my decisions were dumber when I was younger haha I realized now that I can like guys, be attracted to them, talk to them on dating apps, want to go out drinking with friends and talk to them, but that doesn’t mean I want to have a casual hookup. And I realized that I don’t even want to sleep with someone unless it’s a serious relationship. I am no longer running away from who I am. And I tell guys up front that I’m looking for a relationship that is going to lead to marriage. I’m almost 27, I wanna get married and start having kids in my early 30’s. Lol I found a guy who is completely on the same page with me on all these things, so I’m hoping it leads to marriage 😁
Careful. Some men know how women are so obsessed with marriage and use it against them.
@@laughandlive377 Thank you! Yeah, I’ve definitely experienced guys lying and saying a bunch of stuff I wanna hear to manipulate me and the situation. I definitely keep myself aware enough to see if there are any red flags.
make sure to have a (celibate) rotation and don't get attached to or rely on one man! if he doesn't step up and marry you on your terms on your time its on to the next. you have to be picky! look into mina irfan's content, it changed my life.
Stay on that wavelength, but embrace having kids if it happens. I’ve had the same mindset!!
A woman will truly never know what it feels like to be alone.
"I'm the woman you'll be thinking about when you're stuck with your vanilla wife."
Lady, you're not even that attractive to me, and I have no interest in a self-absorbed woman who isn't even concerned with a man's feelings. I won't be thinking about you. I'll be thinking about my wife and how much I love her.
(Well, at least, I would be...if I was married)
Based on what I've seen, a lot of women lose their sense of identity and independence when they get married. Sad, but true enough for a multitude of couples I've come across in my life. I wish I knew more healthy couples.
Then that means they were not the right people for each other.
Why does that happen?
Why is it a bad thing?
And what replaces their identity?
As a man, I have been intentionally killing my identity, as it is usually just pride by other names.
"I won't be the woman you marry" says the woman covered in tattoos. YOU ARE CORRECT!
@@sinAnon6689 unless you like rotten corpses..
@@sinAnon6689 so did the corpse
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So true! And the one comparing McDonald's to caviar wasn't even a woman. These people are just ridiculous 😂
@@scottmccausland746 And that is why you'll see them on the arm of geriatric ' daddy's until next younger ' pretty girl ' comes along. Interchangeable and disposable.
This gives the same vibes as the mean girls on Disney, who think everyone wants to be invited to their party.
The amount of times I yelled “EXACTLY!!” out loud in this video. So glad I found your content 👏🏼 Appreciate you Brett!
This trend is gross. Imagine if guys did the same thing. “I may not be the one you marry, but I’ll be the one you think about when you’re 45, alone, childless, and surrounded by 12-20 cats.”
Meh already say that
Every day😅
@@irisreyes148💀
Women are doing cause men did it first 😂
That's exactly what they say lmaoooo
The reason us men are marrying the vanilla ice cream and not the whatever crazy swirl in a cone, is because we are looking for what is better for us instead of a stomachache and a week full of regret. If we get the vanilla we won’t have to workout 3x as hard to try to rid our bodies of the poison we just let come in.
That's good stuff right there
Im lactose intolerant so any ice cream gives me the ick
This is why I am 30 and have never kissed or held hands with a guy (that and I'm LDS/Mormon in a place where few are, and I struggle with crippling self doubt). I know I look 5-10 years younger, but to the sort of traditional guys I'd want, I'm "leftover goods" and I struggle to get past that emotionally because I'm terrified they're right.
Girl sorry 5 months late but u first dish go out there find yourself a man and good luck
Hey I'm LDS too! It's definitely hard living with a horrible hookup like dating culture, but you'll find somebody someday!
That last poem made me sad. I would never want a life without my best friend (husband) and our children. They give my life beauty and laughter and purpose. I would live NO lifetimes without my children. I would give up all the "independence" just to hold them or to hear them laugh. I don't know when motherhood became such a huge downer in our society. Children are the best of us , and my children are the greatest legacy I could ever leave this earth. I LOVE being a mom.
I've been with women just like this. It's really sad no matter how much someone loves them they will never believe it because they don't love themselves. Most women are beautiful and have traits that men love about them but they've been taught to hate themselves and it makes it really difficult to be what they need a partner to be for them. I've never been more lonely than when I was with the wrong person it's a feeling that I can't describe it's so bad. I love women especially the really bad ones that this video is about, these women have obviously been hurt very bad and their behavior is an obvious coping mechanism. A very unhealthy coping mechanism at that.
I love your comment so much! 💛
That's a lie, how are you going to say they don't love themselves when they are literally saying they are better than other women? Most women think they are the greatest thing since sliced bread and that all women are perfect. It's what they communicate constantly is it not?
Fuck em, treat them like the narcissists they are and stop with this fake woe is them crap. Glad you love them, because I can't fucking stand them as human beings anymore.
I love your response x
Why you wanna be together with a 304?
I definitely used to behave like this when I was in my early twenties. I hope these women mature enough to realize how much it sucks NOT to be marriage material.
"I MAY NOT BE THE ONE YOU MARRIE BUT I WILL BE THE ONE TO COPE ABOUT IT"
This feels like the definition of tell me your insecure without telling me you're insecure, men probably run away from these women and for good reason.
That’s why I am not on social media anymore. I realized at one point that it was bringing out the worst in people in general. People rubbing their stuff on people’s faces. This trend would annoy me to no end. But also seeing women using their children as props bothers me too. I had a friend who did that. Like “look at me, I have a baby, you didn’t have a baby. I did!” It rubbed me off the wrong way, because it was condescending too. She was doing it all to rub it specifically on her ex husband’s face, like saying she’s happy and he’s not. And then there are redpill men too. I just really don’t think social media has brought the best in people. So I’m glad I shut down everything. RUclips was always different for me. It’s more about the videos.
You don't like redpill men, women should stop giving them reasons to complain that other men can relate to. Preventing the red pill stuff was wholly within women's power, but y'all chose not to. You chose to be antagonistic and make it worse.
@@Bonesawisready926 who is “y’all”? I didn’t do that. So who are you referring to with your statement? You’re redpilled because you want to be. I didn’t cause that. Get it right. I didn’t antagonize anyone. I’m married, so this is technically not even my fight. And I love how you ignored everything else I said and specifically only targeted my comment about redpilled men.
Anytime people can say something to someone without fear of consequence, it’s going to bring out the most questionable behavior. Maybe we should have an app that reads or reviews these posts like a grandma and shocks the hell out of you if it’s inappropriate?
Exactly why I deleted tiktok. Too much negativity that isnt needed.
We found the "both issues" guy
as a 23 year old straight man who has been broken and thrown away a few times it is so hard if not impossible to open up and trust anyone let alone a woman i like. the fear of opening up and being betrayed again is hard. i wish there were more women out there like you brett with a bold personality, not afraid to speak the truth but also cares about the people you choose to spend your valuable time with. i hope someday tho most days even today i don't believe it will happen i hope to meet a woman like you. your a light for all men who have been thru these things. you help us see that tho times are tough there are still a few good ones left.
Don’t worry, you’re still young and your value as a man only increases as you get older.
Don’t go to the bar to find a girl, go to church. 😁
You will find one.
Even if they don’t see the value you already have at the age you are, either you’ll find someone or they’ll find you. At this point in time, try to put your trust in God. And things will turn out eventually. You’re not fighting this battle alone.
I reall appreciate you guys. I do about anything for someone with the same values as Brett at this point. Shits rough. So much darkness in my life that would go away if I had someone to focus and put my mind too
@@brownieboi2868 I'll just give you the two questions you need to ask yourself about any woman you get involved with:
- Does she get along with her father?
- Can you get along with her mother?
With regards to the poem, I don't think there is much wrong with the premise of it. As a happily married man with two beautiful children, I understand the sentiment. I don't think the author of the poem truly believes that the life they've depicted would bring them genuine happiness, but that in the day-to-day struggles of being a provider/supporter, there is something appealing about living a modern day monk's life. I'd write the book I don't have the time to write. I'd prioritize my health more not having to give that time to my kids. I'd read veraciously and hungrily with no care for time. This is a poem about the moments in which we feel overwhelmed by the trials and tribulation of being a good partner, because being a good partner is hard work. This poem is just providing context for a feeling many of us have but would never choose to act on. In this poem, we don't have to choose. We get to be the spouse and parent we need to be, while also expressing a desire for isolation in our tired moments. That 30 minutes a day my wife takes to garden without me or kids distracting her is her version of this poem. The poem is about the fantasy of that 30 minutes being expanded into a life in which she gets to feel that peace all the time. And then once that 30 minutes is over, she joins her family inside to find her true joy, me and the kids. The poem isn't about leaving us. It's about recognizing that 30 minutes.
I am 34 and single now, it works for me but all my friends are happily married with kids and I really admire that. I don't think there is something better, being married or single, but making the most of your situation. Being in a relationship could be awesome as well as being single, however, love is not always easy to find and single people should not be shamed about it. There is no reason in shaming one or another. As long as you are happy it is all that matters, I am single but I don't crave man's attentions or the possibility of "sleeping around". If a good partner shows around I will go for it.
Wait for it, it will start to get lonely slowly but surely.
Very Few people actually seek out loneliness.
@@Noob-uk4npbest to stay alone than with a man that does not value you.
@@Sarah-gn4fv Sure but there are good men that will value good women but women (I'm a woman myself) all think they deserve a man who makes 6figures& has all these demands without considering am I a woman worth having? Am I feminine? Am I respectful? An I submissive to a man that I see as being my future husband? Women should act like a wife if they want to see a man as being their husband
Well actually I think having a family actually does make us happier - it's what we are literally born to do. Unfortunately women do not get more attractive with age as men do - & I'm a woman so I know it's not fair - but it's the truth. Men can still have babies at 60, women can not (aside from the very small % of exception). When you are 40-50+ life will be very lonely... I'm 34& have a 14 yr old &11 yr old& husband. I'm not saying u should just be with any man but as your fertility goes down as do your options. I'm not trying to be rude. As women men desire for us to = Respect him , be feminine, appreciate him , be submissive, being a woman worth having. Does that mean u must be a submissive doormat? No. I aspire to be all those things & ironically what women fail to realize anymore is by being these qualities - we - I run by household - because my husband has likewise respect for me because I respect him!
It's sad these women don't realize they are being used by the "recreational use" crowd that view them as objects, and the only way these women can cope is to imagine they actually matter to these men who don't give enough of a damn about them to actually commit or be faithful.
Well said
As a woman, it just makes me sad watching women tear each other down. This is why I don't have a lot of female friends. :'(
Most women aren't like that like most men aren't like tha red pill community.
The Red Pill community has a lot of good points though.
Why are women more worried about "tearing each other down"? Slut shaming and etc. should be encouraged. Like male simps should be made fun by men. I think the shame are simps being a thing in the first place.
Yup exactly why I don't have alot of friends. Less than five of close friends . It's really hard to find people that are really real nowadays. Don't even talk about best friends. I don't have any.
You're literally tearing other women down right now though. Acting like all women are like this and that's why you don't have many female friends is very pick-me behavior.
"Everyone knows it costs money to look good" - And her face is literally a completely different shade than the rest of her skin. Kinda like she was put together in a doll factory that used for the head a different plastic than they used for the body.
Not gonna lie… I thought it was originally a dude.
Every one of them looks like a teenage boys dream, the ones that adult men realized are just a nightmare to deal with.
As a guy in my 30s, I'm not sure whether I should be happy I stayed single or sad I didn't get into the dating market before this madness swept western culture.
There's a whole bunch of women in their 30s who are just now ready to leave their career to raise a family.
@@blackswan1983 Rotten cartons of egg
Same can't stand the younger generation and nothing good in my generation
Why not both? That's how I'd feel if I hadn't found my guy before the woke madness took root. And you don't have to be sad forever either. Brett is just one example of a beautiful young woman who isnt caught up in this toxic behavior. There are more
I agree I'm 27 and never got into dating, was just focusing on myself. Had girls falling over me since middle school, but was too dense to realize the signs until last year. I wish I could date( and be successful) but it's so difficult on every front because the internet has corrupted my entire generation. I always got along better with people and women older than me( girls 1-4 years older liked me alot of times), but I want kids so I'd like my age or younger. But my age are horrible and the younger genz are absolutely unbearable. It's like the don't even know what a moral is, and they just complain and play with their phones instead of working or trying to be a "normal" person. I fit into a bunch of different groups, but will never fit in with any because I or they won't like me for some reason... It's garbage.
As someone who has been with my wife for 20 years i have to say they are delusional. The lack of sex due to all of the raising young ones and stress of being younger and stupid has been replaced with spending more quality time with my best friend and better sex than ever. Even with the years together i still find her as hot as i first met her. Relationships are more than sex.
The sadest part is they are single and just saying that some ex is thinking about them yet they don't even know if they are.They are just trying to feel better cus they are lonely!!!
I'm 42 and have been with my husband for more than half of my life. We have grown up together and had the best ride! Plenty of downs too, don't get me wrong but wouldn't change any of it. I am proud to be that wife who plays the role we were born to play. And- I haven't lost myself in motherhood either! So glad you made this video, more young women need good examples like this!!!!!
Same here sis - cheers to the awesome traditional women like us! 🤟🌹
Nice job ladies. 👍👍
9:00 In this part... I felt something strange in my heart. It was just pure evil to do what she says she did
I know awful
As a teenage high schooler, I can actively compare the differences between the "adults" of nowadays and the classmates I have. It is progressively getting so similar that it's hard to even recognize the difference between them. My classmates seem to have lost their sense of control. It's like the "adults" these days are training kids to lose the common values that are so important in life. Sadly the affirmation of my generation's wants and curiosities, leads them to have spoiled lives. Lives where they believe that whatever they think has to be correct. I think a large part of what I'm seeing is the result of the failed public school system.
I appreciate all of the content you create Brett, keep it up!
Stick to your morals and don’t buy into it! You’re on the right track to a long happy life!
Gosh.... My sister does this. She would date 4 men at once and lead them on just because they would buy her food and gifts. She did this 2 years ago but she is starting to do it again I recently caught her kissing a man who she has known for 10 years but he has metal disabilities. I have no problem with her dating one guy but kissing many guys and leading them on especially when they see the world differently with more emotions is just wrong. I'm really disappointed with her
That last part is very true, I think men love more deeply than women. I'm guilty of doing this in the past as well and I can say that it comes from low self esteem and needing constant validation and attention. I got over it by learning how to be content on my own and respecting myself, took a long time.
Bitter. That’s the best way to describe those women.
"Sour grapes" is the shortest description of their twisting and manifestation into their own version of reality.
They're not wrong we will be thinking of them from time to time. Sometimes I think of my exes and just think "Damn I'm so glad I got outta that nonsense!"
“I hope I did a little damage”
And people have the audacity to ask me why I don’t trust women!!! 🤦🏼♂️