Thank you Judge Lynn for being so transparent and always giving us life lessons. You are truly loved, smart, amazing and beautiful. Definitely miss seeing you on tv but I will take whatever I can learn from you on social media. Blessings and Love 🙏🏾🙌🏾🫶🏽💪🏽👏🏾❤️
Judge Lynn, j lost my fav aunt (9 years older than me) and my son unexpectedly two weeks apart in Nov. I was released from my job bc I was physically unable to work & I was put on medical leave by my doctor. It’s been a year and a month now and I’m still standing outside the padded room, naked. Idk how to really live without my son. He was my calm that kept me going, even when we’d clash. I completely changed my life to be a better mother and person for him…then he had three kids. They’ll never know that part of me but my son walked me through it. I literally just feel like I’m existing. I have started hosting death cafe’s monthly in my home town for ppl to get together to discuss the nuances of their grief & life after death but, that’s all I got. I try to remind myself of how far I’ve come but I still feel naked & afraid. I love when you share and impart wisdom bc you know the pain of losing someone so close, even if it isn’t the same exact pain. Thanks so much and I am sending you love and healing energy ❤
🙏🏻❤️🎚prayers for your journey, because it is. Jesus healed my ‘existence’, yet I’m standing waiting, dressed FINALLY not knowing where to be, having faith, thinking maybe🤷♀️I’m in the waiting room…🤔🙃🙏🏻 grief is a taskmaster. 🙏🏻❤️❤️❤️
@@lindabuck2777whew!!! The TASKMAKER… I’m so happy to hear that you’ve made it to the waiting room. I’m trying to push. I promise, I am, but this is the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do!! Continued blessings & abundance all of 2025❤
Thank you for always sharing your life stories. You are such a helper. Much love, my precious sister, I really appreciate you most than you will ever know, Maria Thomas! 😇🙏🙏🙏
You still have a comforter and that comforter is Jesus. Please remember you are still grieving and some days are going to be and other May not be so good. I will be praying for you. And sending you much hugs and love ❤❤❤
Blessed encouragement😊.The Holy Spirit thru Jesus Christ knows how to put the pieces together, He can fix it for Judge Tolar. I feel her pain, Bless her Lord Jesus , Amen🙏!
Judge Lynn, I could listen to you all day. Your courage, insight, and feelings are so impactful. Thank you for sharing with us. Stay strong, Beautiful Lady. Love you. ❤
Lynn Toler, I NEED for You to be STRONG💪🏾. “ This Too Shall Pass”. You’ve always been STRONG. Had you not been, you would never have met Big E👍🏿👌🏿❤ I love the woman that’s inside that shell waiting to bust out😍
It is absolutely inspirational, motivational, and effectively in encouraging those of us who walk in similar ways in this life... thank you for your unadulterated support 🙏🏽 ❤️
Right on Lynn‼️ At 65 its good to bend your knees sometimes.😀 Doing the same thing over & over with the same results is called? Don't be so hard on yourself. Sone days will be good, some days not so good. You are striving so you're good. Look to the LORD & trust in him‼️
Yes, Judge Lynn Toler, I been a widow,for 15 years (+) and I have been given permission, to seek happiness,again through him coming from god.. Well listening to you especially,gim and god. I finally met someone, enjoyable,etc..I'm taking it slow,I will say.I will continuously,listen, watch, love you and everything you say herein, You have tremendously,helped,me out alot.I"ll definitely keep you updated.Looking,forward,on getting re-married, again.. 💕💕Best Regards, Kimberly
Wow. I just broke up with my friend bringing this new urine.Trying to be celebrated this whole year and it's crazy cause I'm at the crossroads, but I'm like put Myself bk together.You still got kids to raise❤❤❤❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥💯💯💯💨💨💨😮💨
My friend group just kicked me out saying I'm a narcissist. This friend group has been fractured for some time. During the fracturing, life was going and I was healing. Learning to love me the way I love others. When I asked for the support I had provided over the years, I was called selfish. Not participating in old behaviors and thinking patterns. I was upset at first then I realized I grew in ways they did not. I am not who they used to know. So they are entitled to be angry about a person they do not know. I am OK walking away from anything that didn't value me when I was there. My program check is dealing with it by silence. I'm used to pleading my case and showing facts. Shutting my mouth!
As a young woman I love both books My mother rules and Dear Sonali. Very pivotal. I lost my mom this year and I hope once everything shakes out you do another book. Much love and prayers
I think you're an awesome black woman in this world, I hope you find the new you❤love you now and in the future journey, I've lost a lot one and it also makes you like you to try to find the new you trust with time you will find what is that keeps you going my sister. Love you ..the sun will shine again I promise..
Amen! Do you know whats wrong with you? And when's the last time you checked your program? Are you still doing what you need to do to get to where you need to go? Or are you still doing what you did to get to where you already were? PRICELESS
Judge Lynn join with your friends and have a ladies trip. To another state, country, or out to eat at a restaurant, or a trip to a mall. You seem lonely. Pray and get out the house. Get busy. God is pushing you to get moving. Your life is not over because your husband is gone.Life needs you to help yourself and others to joy and peace of mind. God bless you!
YEP.I VERY MUCH GOTTA CHECK MYSELF.I USULASY TALK TO MY DAD&BROTHER FOR ADVICE ABOUT ANYTHING&PNE.BUT ALL I GOTS IS MYSELF&GOD.I UNDERSTAND WHATS YOUR SAYING.AS FOR LOOKING 65&DOING THATS.2 ME.''THATS SEXY,HOTT&LOVELY''REMEMBER.BLACK DONT CRACK.YOU REALLY HAVES SOME WISDOM JUDGE LYNN.HAPPY NEW YEARS&I TRULY CANT WAIT TILL THE NEXT VID ON RUclips CHANNEL.''BE BLESSED''
Hello Judge Lynn, my husband died unexpectedly 2016 day after Thanksgiving, I am still having issues and I get so mad at him for leaving me with 3 children. Please take your time to grieve at your pace. People tell me I need to move on and date. I look at them like they are crazy. I do me not them.
Luv u girl, iam in that same boat as u. I was married 36 years when my husband passed. I was totally lost. Nine months after that I thought the answer was to jump into another relationship just to learn I was looking for a replacement of my husband which this guy wasn't even close to being him. I ended it after 1 month n just been focusing on myself. I go thru stages of grief, but that's okay, it's all apart of healing.❤
Hello, Judge, how are your sons doing? This is selfish but I’m glad I found you early in my relationship to my husband. I Found you 8 years ago and I still watch your court cases lol. I use a lot of your advice in my relationship. My David is my best friend and even though we’ve been together for 9 years this year, we still are in our Honeymoon phase. Best advice from you is that Respect should be 1 of the most important foundation in which you should build your relationship on. But anyway, just wanted to tell you I appreciate you, a complete stranger thanks you for helping me blossom into a complete woman who just happens to also have a beautiful marriage ❤
Sounds like you are saying that you need to learn to self-regulate your nervous system and cognitive functioning, instead of externalizing the regulation process, by utilizing others to maintain regulation. Both cognition and the nervous system (emotion) are key, but the nervous system rules. The nervous system triggers the stress hormones, and triggers the cognitive synaptic patterns developed by the person (mostly below the person's threshold of awareness), that responds to the signals the brain receives from the nervous system.
If I may, I think you’re being too hard on yourself…. Way. Life alone can be cruel with unexpected circumstances that have twists. For everyone. One door has been closed. Well at least two for you. Find and open a better one or at least equal. In order to do that? You have to forgive and reconcile with yourself. Life isn’t over it’s just waiting for you to experience and explore new and better things yet while you live….. You can make that happen. You got everything you need right there to make that happen… Next thing you know today will be long past. And joy and peace and happiness will be found/ Rediscovered. Just my two cents. Hope I haven’t given any offense… Peace unto you may it be fitting
Very intense with common sense. I would love to have u in my life to talk to . I love to listen to u speak, I'm jjst like u..I am a very accountable person...and I'm continuously delving into responses of mine,actions of mine,past and present, striving to make sense of everything..I am a thinker,constantly striving to make sense of everything. I've always loved me some Lynn Toler..when I was on Twitter back in the day,I would direct message u..my profile was me wit white Stacy Adams, a white shirt and brim,and the picture on the channel was a wolf...I'm sure you met a family member of mine,she was always in the audience on ur show,like every episode..she'd be on other court shows as well..her name is Vanessa Redding..she lost her husband some years ago,my homeboy Spanky..his last name was White So her name may be Vanessa White 🤷🏿♂️...always been a fan of ur verbiage, ur beauty and wisdom...blessings Queen
Yeah its gotta be tough being accomplished as you are, probably feel like you gotta keep it up..but with no Mr E feeling like a ship without a sail. Not religious but spiritual. Finding yourself Mt 16:25-26 devote your time energy to a higher cause. Mt 6:19-21. But really what do i know i use to watch you on tv my top judge then brown, judy. Peace 🕊️
Ditto. I miss my husband so much it hurts! It was 3 years on November 30th 2021. Feels like yesterday. Anyway, I bought a new bed & such a year ago. It sat in my living still in the boxes. I figured, I don't go in there anymore anyway. Yesterday, I had someone come over to put the bedroom together. I also ask for a new download ever so often. To erase the old, look for viruses (things that do not belong) and up|download a new program into me. For instance, erase the hurt, the sadness and depression caused by the loss off my husband and mother. It weighs heavy. I basically decorated the dresser with our photos. Anyway, your voice sounded like you were in the same room. ♡
You need to get mental illness therapy. Mental illness is really real. It really helps to keep it real and talk to someone. Please Lynn. Talk to someone
Judge Lynn men get over death of a spouse by marrying 6 to 10 months later. Women heed to stop believing that they can't live without their dead husband'. Your comforter is the holy spirit. Your husband is Jesus.he will take of you. And God is your father. Talk to him in Jesus name. He brought your husband to you years ago. And He can give you another good man for comfort and love. Everyone goes through feeling lost. Get busy. Stop putting spouses up there. When it was God leading him to assist you! Bless you
Mama, get rid of the other judge. She's a playing games on me. I had a feeling that but how should you come up? I didn't have you on a page. It's so mean right, but yeah, I think she'll be working with the judge. That I am the dog can enjoy. I know that probably your friend but she aint no friend of mine but I love you have a blessed day I was but I was blocked yesterday. You too will get me blocked. Cause I get rid of my phone.
Yes Judge Lynn, you will have to find yourself in general and start all over again with your flexibility lady. Hey, that's the reason I want to meet you flexibility!! 👋🏾🤎👌🏾
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Love hearing you speak, you are healing yourself and others.
Thank you Judge Lynn for being so transparent and always giving us life lessons. You are truly loved, smart, amazing and beautiful. Definitely miss seeing you on tv but I will take whatever I can learn from you on social media. Blessings and Love 🙏🏾🙌🏾🫶🏽💪🏽👏🏾❤️
I love this wise woman ❤
I love you Judge Lynn Toler. I learn so much from you.❤❤❤💪🏽🙏💯
Judge Lynn, j lost my fav aunt (9 years older than me) and my son unexpectedly two weeks apart in Nov. I was released from my job bc I was physically unable to work & I was put on medical leave by my doctor. It’s been a year and a month now and I’m still standing outside the padded room, naked. Idk how to really live without my son. He was my calm that kept me going, even when we’d clash. I completely changed my life to be a better mother and person for him…then he had three kids. They’ll never know that part of me but my son walked me through it. I literally just feel like I’m existing. I have started hosting death cafe’s monthly in my home town for ppl to get together to discuss the nuances of their grief & life after death but, that’s all I got. I try to remind myself of how far I’ve come but I still feel naked & afraid. I love when you share and impart wisdom bc you know the pain of losing someone so close, even if it isn’t the same exact pain. Thanks so much and I am sending you love and healing energy ❤
Ms. Tiffany 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 I just want to hug you, so much love to you💛💛
@@MamihasSolme too!🤗🤗🤗🙏🏻🎚❤️
@@MamihasSolI really appreciate it. Continued blessings to you & HNY!❤
🙏🏻❤️🎚prayers for your journey, because it is. Jesus healed my ‘existence’, yet I’m standing waiting, dressed FINALLY not knowing where to be, having faith, thinking maybe🤷♀️I’m in the waiting room…🤔🙃🙏🏻 grief is a taskmaster. 🙏🏻❤️❤️❤️
@@lindabuck2777whew!!! The TASKMAKER… I’m so happy to hear that you’ve made it to the waiting room. I’m trying to push. I promise, I am, but this is the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do!! Continued blessings & abundance all of 2025❤
Thank you for always sharing your life stories. You are such a helper. Much love, my precious sister, I really appreciate you most than you will ever know, Maria Thomas! 😇🙏🙏🙏
You still have a comforter and that comforter is Jesus. Please remember you are still grieving and some days are going to be and other May not be so good. I will be praying for you. And sending you much hugs and love ❤❤❤
Blessed encouragement😊.The Holy Spirit thru Jesus Christ knows how to put the pieces together, He can fix it for Judge Tolar. I feel her pain, Bless her Lord Jesus , Amen🙏!
This is a powerful reflection! 🙌🏽
Judge Lynn, I could listen to you all day. Your courage, insight, and feelings are so impactful. Thank you for sharing with us. Stay strong, Beautiful Lady. Love you. ❤
A lovely wise beautiful woman. Keep on blessing us with your wisdom. I really miss seeing you on TV 😢
Such a light in this world. Shine on Judge Lynn!!!
May God Continue to Bless You with a Glorious Life Judge Lynn Toyler
Lynn Toler, I NEED for You to be STRONG💪🏾. “ This Too Shall Pass”. You’ve always been STRONG. Had you not been, you would never have met Big E👍🏿👌🏿❤ I love the woman that’s inside that shell waiting to bust out😍
Gods power works thru our weaknesses. Grace is truly sufficient. Unconditional love and truth to you and yours.
That's a skill that will help keep you agile and mobile!
Remember you're wonderful ✨️🪄
You are so real!!!
It is absolutely inspirational, motivational, and effectively in encouraging those of us who walk in similar ways in this life... thank you for your unadulterated support 🙏🏽 ❤️
Keep giving people this work.
-FBA
Right on Lynn‼️ At 65 its good to bend your knees sometimes.😀 Doing the same thing over & over with the same results is called? Don't be so hard on yourself. Sone days will be good, some days not so good. You are striving so you're good. Look to the LORD & trust in him‼️
I am praying for you. I love hearing your words of wisdom.
I agree, Judge Lynn. I always want to know what's wrong with me or what's going on, and so forth. Because I want to be able to fix it or get it fixed.
Praying for your Continued Strength 🙏🏽🙏🏽I luv you and I Thank you for being such an Inspiration ❤❤
Yes, Judge Lynn Toler, I been a widow,for 15 years (+) and I have been given permission, to seek happiness,again through him coming from god.. Well listening to you especially,gim and god. I finally met someone, enjoyable,etc..I'm taking it slow,I will say.I will continuously,listen, watch, love you and everything you say herein, You have tremendously,helped,me out alot.I"ll definitely keep you updated.Looking,forward,on getting re-married, again..
💕💕Best Regards, Kimberly
I appreciate this. It’s something, especially when perimeters change!
I needed to hear this today-- thank you so much!! 💕💕💕
Wow.
I just broke up with my friend bringing this new urine.Trying to be celebrated this whole year and it's crazy cause I'm at the crossroads, but I'm like put Myself bk together.You still got kids to raise❤❤❤❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥💯💯💯💨💨💨😮💨
I choose not to talk to therapy.Or no one knows about my situations that's crazy might need to🤔😱🤔😱🤔😱💔❤️🩹💔❤️🩹💔❤️🩹
You are soooo amazing. … you are the friend in my head ..👐🏾🫶🏽
My friend group just kicked me out saying I'm a narcissist. This friend group has been fractured for some time. During the fracturing, life was going and I was healing. Learning to love me the way I love others. When I asked for the support I had provided over the years, I was called selfish. Not participating in old behaviors and thinking patterns. I was upset at first then I realized I grew in ways they did not. I am not who they used to know. So they are entitled to be angry about a person they do not know. I am OK walking away from anything that didn't value me when I was there. My program check is dealing with it by silence. I'm used to pleading my case and showing facts. Shutting my mouth!
As a young woman I love both books My mother rules and Dear Sonali. Very pivotal. I lost my mom this year and I hope once everything shakes out you do another book. Much love and prayers
Thank you for encouraging me to check my program ❤
Yessssssssss this was it for me. Hi judge Lynn have a great day. 🩷🥹🫠
Love your realness. My big sis in the univwrse. Big E was the real deal.
I love My Mother’s Rules! 🫶🏾
I think you're an awesome black woman in this world, I hope you find the new you❤love you now and in the future journey, I've lost a lot one and it also makes you like you to try to find the new you trust with time you will find what is that keeps you going my sister. Love you ..the sun will shine again I promise..
Judge you can’t run away from yourself nor can you neglect accountability.
Lot's Of Love Beautiful Queen 🫡👑❤️💯
Amen! Do you know whats wrong with you? And when's the last time you checked your program? Are you still doing what you need to do to get to where you need to go? Or are you still doing what you did to get to where you already were? PRICELESS
Judge Lynn join with your friends and have a ladies trip. To another state, country, or out to eat at a restaurant, or a trip to a mall. You seem lonely. Pray and get out the house. Get busy. God is pushing you to get moving. Your life is not over because your husband is gone.Life needs you to help yourself and others to joy and peace of mind. God bless you!
Hey Momma Lynn I appreciate you 💕
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YEP.I VERY MUCH GOTTA CHECK MYSELF.I USULASY TALK TO MY DAD&BROTHER FOR ADVICE ABOUT ANYTHING&PNE.BUT ALL I GOTS IS MYSELF&GOD.I UNDERSTAND WHATS YOUR SAYING.AS FOR LOOKING 65&DOING THATS.2 ME.''THATS SEXY,HOTT&LOVELY''REMEMBER.BLACK DONT CRACK.YOU REALLY HAVES SOME WISDOM JUDGE LYNN.HAPPY NEW YEARS&I TRULY CANT WAIT TILL THE NEXT VID ON RUclips CHANNEL.''BE BLESSED''
I feel bad for those who don't get what you are saying, but if they re-watch it they may get it. Very good flexibility, Judge. 👍👍
Bless day please u mama big love beautiful
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FLAWLESS SKIN NATURALLY PRETTY😍
Absolutely adore the thumbnail. 😂
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Hello Judge Lynn, my husband died unexpectedly 2016 day after Thanksgiving, I am still having issues and I get so mad at him for leaving me with 3 children. Please take your time to grieve at your pace. People tell me I need to move on and date. I look at them like they are crazy. I do me not them.
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Luv u girl, iam in that same boat as u. I was married 36 years when my husband passed. I was totally lost. Nine months after that I thought the answer was to jump into another relationship just to learn I was looking for a replacement of my husband which this guy wasn't even close to being him. I ended it after 1 month n just been focusing on myself. I go thru stages of grief, but that's okay, it's all apart of healing.❤
much love and strength.
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Hello, Judge, how are your sons doing? This is selfish but I’m glad I found you early in my relationship to my husband. I Found you 8 years ago and I still watch your court cases lol. I use a lot of your advice in my relationship. My David is my best friend and even though we’ve been together for 9 years this year, we still are in our Honeymoon phase. Best advice from you is that Respect should be 1 of the most important foundation in which you should build your relationship on. But anyway, just wanted to tell you I appreciate you, a complete stranger thanks you for helping me blossom into a complete woman who just happens to also have a beautiful marriage ❤
Sounds like you are saying that you need to learn to self-regulate your nervous system and cognitive functioning, instead of externalizing the regulation process, by utilizing others to maintain regulation. Both cognition and the nervous system (emotion) are key, but the nervous system rules. The nervous system triggers the stress hormones, and triggers the cognitive synaptic patterns developed by the person (mostly below the person's threshold of awareness), that responds to the signals the brain receives from the nervous system.
If I may,
I think you’re being too hard on yourself….
Way.
Life alone can be cruel with unexpected circumstances that have twists.
For everyone.
One door has been closed.
Well at least two for you.
Find and open a better one or at least equal.
In order to do that? You have to forgive and reconcile with yourself.
Life isn’t over it’s just waiting for you to experience and explore new and better things yet while you live…..
You can make that happen.
You got everything you need right there to make that happen…
Next thing you know today will be long past.
And joy and peace and happiness will be found/ Rediscovered.
Just my two cents. Hope I haven’t given any offense…
Peace unto you may it be fitting
🙌🏽👑🙏🏽
Ok, now that you've given the feet creeps what they want...
Very intense with common sense. I would love to have u in my life to talk to . I love to listen to u speak, I'm jjst like u..I am a very accountable person...and I'm continuously delving into responses of mine,actions of mine,past and present, striving to make sense of everything..I am a thinker,constantly striving to make sense of everything. I've always loved me some Lynn Toler..when I was on Twitter back in the day,I would direct message u..my profile was me wit white Stacy Adams, a white shirt and brim,and the picture on the channel was a wolf...I'm sure you met a family member of mine,she was always in the audience on ur show,like every episode..she'd be on other court shows as well..her name is Vanessa Redding..she lost her husband some years ago,my homeboy Spanky..his last name was White So her name may be Vanessa White 🤷🏿♂️...always been a fan of ur verbiage, ur beauty and wisdom...blessings Queen
Yeah its gotta be tough being accomplished as you are, probably feel like you gotta keep it up..but with no Mr E feeling like a ship without a sail. Not religious but spiritual. Finding yourself Mt 16:25-26 devote your time energy to a higher cause. Mt 6:19-21.
But really what do i know i use to watch you on tv my top judge then brown, judy. Peace 🕊️
Ditto. I miss my husband so much it hurts!
It was 3 years on November 30th 2021. Feels like yesterday.
Anyway, I bought a new bed & such a year ago.
It sat in my living still in the boxes. I figured, I don't go in there anymore anyway.
Yesterday, I had someone come over to put the bedroom together.
I also ask for a new download ever so often. To erase the old, look for viruses (things that do not belong) and up|download a new program into me. For instance, erase the hurt, the sadness and depression caused by the loss off my husband and mother. It weighs heavy.
I basically decorated the dresser with our photos.
Anyway, your voice sounded like you were in the same room. ♡
You need to get mental illness therapy. Mental illness is really real. It really helps to keep it real and talk to someone. Please Lynn. Talk to someone
Judge Lynn men get over death of a spouse by marrying 6 to 10 months later. Women heed to stop believing that they can't live without their dead husband'. Your comforter is the holy spirit. Your husband is Jesus.he will take of you. And God is your father. Talk to him in Jesus name. He brought your husband to you years ago. And He can give you another good man for comfort and love. Everyone goes through feeling lost. Get busy. Stop putting spouses up there. When it was God leading him to assist you! Bless you
Mama, get rid of the other judge. She's a playing games on me. I had a feeling that but how should you come up? I didn't have you on a page. It's so mean right, but yeah, I think she'll be working with the judge. That I am the dog can enjoy. I know that probably your friend but she aint no friend of mine but I love you have a blessed day I was but I was blocked yesterday. You too will get me blocked. Cause I get rid of my phone.
Who cares
People who are in a similar situation may care. You never know where life may take you.
Yes Judge Lynn, you will have to find yourself in general and start all over again with your flexibility lady. Hey, that's the reason I want to meet you flexibility!! 👋🏾🤎👌🏾