If you go to a dry cleaners the Indian wife may be working along with her husband. In Chinese or any foreign restaurant the parents and their teen or college age kids are often helping 7:21. Ive seen Hispanic wives helping their husbands do landscaping. Many western women have it totally backwards. Everybody contributes... dont let selfish women try and use specious gold-digger arguments on what is a provider or what they consider "a real man".
Their mother's aunts and grandma's told them and the world they don't need a man . Black women created hood culture . They run the hood . Pookies throw their lives away behind them . This is why most of us are dysfunctional.
They just want the money. I don't even think they care about the title at this point. They don't care about the ring or the dress...They just want the money. If he's white, they'll front all of that....just to get the mixed kid. They'll pay the divestor tax... but brothers gotta pay to be with them.
All they talk about provide this provide that, it all boils down what you can do for me what kind of money you have in your pocket. They are like glorified prostitutes real talk.
@@bduceythey’ve been with too many men along with a group of other ill-advised women who speak from hidden envy, resentment, and mishaps rather than true inner-standing misleading them which brings us here.
Highest poverty rate. Highest eviction rate. Highest debt rate. Highest homeless rate. Highest bankruptcy rate. No man with significant resources, is going to align with this.
They'd rather spend a thousand dollars on a new weave than to pay for their kid to get braces or put that money away for a rainy day... like when they're about to get evicted.
@KtotheG Bingo 👈 And when they get put out, all you see out there is NASTY MATTRESSES, because the "Boss Chick" herself has been sleeping on the floor the whole time🤣
She told on herself. She doesn't want to commit financially because she thinks the man is always gonna cheat on her. Leave her to herself and her fears. Insecure women are a headache.
But when she gets bored and want to monkey branch onto another dude she’s going to still want to take HALF of everything, including the house of which she’ll try to get it all; despite her rhetoric of a woman not being obligated to contribute in any way. Hypocrite. If she REALLY was genuine and felt that then she’d just walk away with what she came in with; nothing. But we all know how divorce goes.
Right. She wants to be able to take the house in total which she never contributed to. This is *THEFT* plain and simple sanctioned by the Government you pay taxes to. Stop marrying them until they have to change this. It will happen. Give it time.
That's why she needs to either put in on the mortgage or signs a quit claim deed up front. She didn't want anything to do with the house right, so she'll have nothing to do with it in divorce either. If she won't sign, then no house, or else no marriage period.
How much do you want to bet that once she gets bored and wants out, she is going to demand that she should get half the value of the house only he has ever paid for?
There is still a Captain on that Team aka a Leader aka the head of the household typically the Father aka the Husband. In my marriage I am the H.N.I.C. my wife is trusted council, but the final decision is up to me. And, that is not contingent on how much money I, nor she earns. God, Husband, wife, children is the natural order of things, and that's what I made clear my wife knew BEFORE we got married 20 years ago.
Not only that most married women worked and contributed to the household. Whilst it is true that men pay the lion’s share of the bills, most men are not high earners so they cannot bear all of the financial load. Living above your means puts your family at risk.
i think it's call, Jim Crow! They are their master's/Massa pitbull guard dog against the so-called Black Man. I did not believe this 30 years ago, when I first heard it. Damn if them Brothers preaching on the corner were not correct!
Too many black women take on the ‘sweet looking’ lifestyle they see on tv and the net and incorporate it into what they believe they deserve. They live in this damn fantasy world.
When it comes to so called “princess treatment” even the princesses in history worked. Queen Elizabeth even when she was princess Elizabeth fought in world war 2.
Fellas, steer clear of any woman who refuses to work with you to build a life SHE wants or expects. Not to diminish her value as a person, but she's effectively useless as a partner. She's a taker and a user and will destroy what you've built because she can never truly value what she didn't contribute to building.
The Bible says at Proverbs 31:10-31, that a capable wife is supposed to work hard for the benefit of her family, while being under the leadership of her husband. These women want to work for themselves, and that's why marriages are failing. A lazy woman will never make a good wife. Genesis 2:18 shows that a wife is supposed to be a helper for her husband, as a complement of him. NOT JUST A COMPLEMENT!!
I appreciate times like this because men can’t pretend that women don’t think like this! Before men were naive about this type of delusional thinking and get blindsided by the woman he wants to love.
In my experience and from what I see most black women are stuck in a state of solecism which is basically the female version of narcissism, just the extreme self centered version.
Look it’s 🦇 💩 crazy in the culture with the street version of words that aren’t accurate at all. Watching some women explain being worthy and worthless at the same time has been the most embarrassing part of all this.
I remember when I first started to get my business started. I paid everything and put in the work to get it off the ground. She didn't offer any bread or input. So when I went to apply it was my name only. Of course, she felt some type of way because I didn't put her name on the business. Now she's my ex, and business is booming. Only ones who's gonna eat off me are our children.
@mrAhollandjr She had no wiggle room on that end. I take care of our girls, and I found out if we be honest with our kids. Their mom won't be able to deter them from loving their father. I've imprinted on our children, so she knows if she were to pull that ish. Our girls will not make her life pleasant, lol!
One guy married a woman with heavy college debt. She convinced him to pay it off for her. Once he paid off her debt she divorced him. This can apply to credit card debt, medical bills, IRS debt or anything else she hopes to sweet talk you into paying. Yes you have to be careful out here.
exactly that's the point thats goin missing and what stood out to me, most these hoz will put a man in debt living well above there means and soon as hard times come she out and it was all his fault smh
Sounds much like shes under Sprinkle Sprinkle influence. The sister hood keeps trying to redefine relationships in their favor or to the mans detriment. If she keeps all of her income shes going to hoard money, spend it needlessly or spend it on her sidepiece aka Chad/Pookie.
You know what, at this point BM just need to just leave them alone and tell them to date out. I can agree with Crimson Cure that most BW have no clue about finances
All the money is in one pot in a marriage there’s no my money and his money. As a married couple, you should have common financial goals and having both incomes contribute will make reaching those goals easier!
The world needs to take away the stigma of a woman being just a girlfriend (modern day concubine) because that's all some women will ever be and it's nothing wrong with that.
Here's something that kills me about this entire situation. Some women ALWAYS get online talking about they make 6 figures but NEVER speak about taxes! The first time that I made $82k on paper and saw the amount of tax that was taken, and they still wanted MORE racks after I filed? I'm talking to women about moving out of the country, and they're worried about their friends and the type of food that's there! I'm trying to buy us some rental/vacation property and the fact that travel is cheaper and your money goes longer. These women are actresses for pay and want a title that only a wife deserves. They do NOT want to follow you. I stopped talking money with women because they do NOT know money!
You said something towards the end that I have been thinking for a while now.. Some women are not "team players" ... I think some of these women need some sports in their lives.. the concept of "team success".. Or "cooperation over competition" never occurs to them Together we are strong enough to win.. But some people are soo selfish that they cannot work with others to achieve a goal that benefits both of them
Some of us blacks are barely learning how to be in a relationship and stable family structure due to systematic racism, slavery and oppression. Now all the offspring of single mothers are getting into relationships with each other and failing miserably.
It seems like all she wants to contribute to the marriage is going to Dollar Tree and buy toilet paper other household items for the house. And the husband pay the mortgage and car payment 😂
Those same businesses have their kids on the register, granny in the kitchen, wife washing dishes, and bussing tables, i have been confused for years where they see these other races of ppl just sitting around doing nothing at all, my moms handled the financial paperwork end of my Pops business for years
I dated a chick that hated the idea of me being a provider. She didn't like me making plans or decisions. She didn't even like me driving. She kept wanting to be in control of everything.
I agree with you, Kendra. Women never had the power to take their rights. I say it ALL the time. Men gave women the position they have today. The independent woman was ALLOWED by men. Still is. The power construct makes so much money from the independence of women. More workers, more taxes, and more consumerism. That's why feminism was allowed to exist.
Within a successful conversation for development for the both of us, a negative thought always seems to come up in the conversation of the man doing something out of order, when he is the one that thought of the plan. Never fails! 🤦🏿♂️
She reminds me of my future X. Her math aint mathin. I dont get it. Cooperation?! Yeah right! When trying to explain which way is up, I'd been better of talking to a tree. This guy must exhausted because I was. Its a battle all the time. The world wasnt bulit it one day. It takes a plan & time to build. These modern women want the glass to be full now, while only contributing one drop. Lastly, dont worry about be messin around Monique n Keisha. I'm too stressed n weary after dealin with U!
Its odd that women ask "where are the real men" like the men who raised their families in the 60s or 70s. Those "real men" often built together with their wives even though he was the primary breadwinner. A 100% provider is if he has it and is willing. Sometimes he may not be the sole provider but they can make it work 80/20, 70/30 or whatever works for them.
If THAT'S the case about buying a new house 🏠 then she is NO GOOD to him as a WIFE or a Girlfriend 😢 I would walk 🚶♂️ AWAY right then and NEVER RETURN !🎉!🎉!🎉
Why average people love to use extreme imagery when explaining something. Notice there's a million dollar house in the picture, but it's not million dollar people having the conversation. And a man most likely put up this split screen.
I think women who shares that ladies view. Are not in their relationship with a longevity mindset. She's only going to be there until she gets whatever she wanted. So she has to have an "excape" plan.
And ladies that’s one of the reason why guys are choosing to stay single. It’s cheaper for him. I mean, one less mouth to feed, don’t have to put you on his health insurance, don’t have to pay your auto insurance. He saving a grip
... what if he decides... His first mistake is to marry. He deserves everything that follows. There are 10 things you must discuss before marriage. You discover, you didn’t see the signs before, her attitude on money. You (d)ucked up as a man.
💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯.... People really don't understand the work and sacrifice and teamwork it takes to be married. Some people just like the idea of being married and saying they're married, but when it gets real, that's when the "problems" start.. Just ask my ex-wife... I'm glad I divorced her.. Us men prefer unity with the person we married.. As rare and as painful as it is, we men will not be putting ourselves and our children through that, so if we're already married we'll leave and if we aren't married we'll stay single..💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
I went through this with my last relationship. We were long distance. So I would drive 600 miles round trip twice a month. One of these times, she takes my to the affluent part of her town. Houses at the time were 500k to 1M. My response was "If you expect me to be the sole 'FINANCIAL' provider, we are living in a house the I am comfortable paying for. However, if you want something like this, you are going to have to either help me make more money, or throw some money in the the pot. But you are going to have to input something."..... This completely went over hear head. She did not understand that life is better when there is more of a surplus of cash and resources. Not to mention the cost of taxes and up-keep on a big house. Or that a house like that can be worked up to/a future goal. But that is a sign of the times. Everyone wants to be a dictator in a partnership and/or get something for nothing. Men and women. Not realizing the long term wealthy people are mostly married. They also worked TOGETHER. That goes beyond money........
"Seal not the sayings of this prophecy...for the time is at hand. Let him who is unjust be unjust still...let him who is righteous be righteous still." The ark to build these days is not one of planks and nails...but one of the mind and heart.
You *NEVER* hear women of other cultures saying this nonsense.. EVER.
Exactly...
If you go to a dry cleaners the Indian wife may be working along with her husband. In Chinese or any foreign restaurant the parents and their teen or college age kids are often helping 7:21. Ive seen Hispanic wives helping their husbands do landscaping. Many western women have it totally backwards. Everybody contributes... dont let selfish women try and use specious gold-digger arguments on what is a provider or what they consider "a real man".
@@sayitaintso7544 Yep as a BW I have seen all of this as well.
Because they have sense vs zero sense
@@sayitaintso7544The irony is the scenarios above shows why those groups are progressing much faster than Black people. I tell BW just date out.
They have no idea what a wife is and weren't taught. Lost value system
Yep. Exactly
Their mothers taught them how to be 3 oh Fours.
Their mother's aunts and grandma's told them and the world they don't need a man . Black women created hood culture . They run the hood . Pookies throw their lives away behind them . This is why most of us are dysfunctional.
They want the wife title, not the responsibility.
They just want the money. I don't even think they care about the title at this point. They don't care about the ring or the dress...They just want the money. If he's white, they'll front all of that....just to get the mixed kid. They'll pay the divestor tax... but brothers gotta pay to be with them.
@@elevatedcharmm they want the wife title so they can get divorce benefits
They want a wife title without being a wife. They just wanna play a role for a price.
That part!!!
I'm so sick of these hose telling what a "real man" is.. yet they are clueless on what a "real women" is.
Exactly
All they talk about provide this provide that, it all boils down what you can do for me what kind of money you have in your pocket. They are like glorified prostitutes real talk.
Since they know so much of what a real man is. What's keeping them from having one?
@@bduceythey’ve been with too many men along with a group of other ill-advised women who speak from hidden envy, resentment, and mishaps rather than true inner-standing misleading them which brings us here.
Men need to stop talking to them. (Hands Washed)
They just want a man to cash them out without him asking questions or having expectations
Bingo
That's the real truth
"Yeah now that's a REAL MAN!" 🤮🤮🤮🤮
EXACTLY
Facts 💯
All they see provision to be is being a sponsor to their frivolity.
Of course the EsquireOfSports uses the word 'frivolity'. Salute!
@@ttownhornet 🦾
Leader means sponsor to them
Call it what it is. A "trick"
@@xunknown6073 Long and short of it.
“Free Stuff.” That’s all these 304’s see.
When a BW says Provider it means blowing money on foolishness like cars, clothes and trips
🤔🏆
The💰👈:
That's what it all comes down to 🤣
Highest poverty rate.
Highest eviction rate.
Highest debt rate.
Highest homeless rate.
Highest bankruptcy rate.
No man with significant resources,
is going to align with this.
Keywords: *No* *Man*
They'd rather spend a thousand dollars on a new weave than to pay for their kid to get braces or put that money away for a rainy day... like when they're about to get evicted.
@KtotheG
Bingo 👈
And when they get put out, all you see out there is NASTY MATTRESSES, because the "Boss Chick" herself has been sleeping on the floor the whole time🤣
That same woman would fight for that house in divorce.
Facts 💯🤣
She told on herself. She doesn't want to commit financially because she thinks the man is always gonna cheat on her. Leave her to herself and her fears. Insecure women are a headache.
She is projecting exactly what she plans to do
There is no such thing as cheating anymore. The social contract is broken.. and they broke it.
@@ericdeadmon401Plan she already has a side dude
But when she gets bored and want to monkey branch onto another dude she’s going to still want to take HALF of everything, including the house of which she’ll try to get it all; despite her rhetoric of a woman not being obligated to contribute in any way.
Hypocrite. If she REALLY was genuine and felt that then she’d just walk away with what she came in with; nothing. But we all know how divorce goes.
Right. She wants to be able to take the house in total which she never contributed to. This is *THEFT* plain and simple sanctioned by the Government you pay taxes to. Stop marrying them until they have to change this. It will happen. Give it time.
That's why she needs to either put in on the mortgage or signs a quit claim deed up front. She didn't want anything to do with the house right, so she'll have nothing to do with it in divorce either. If she won't sign, then no house, or else no marriage period.
This is divorce in OUR TRUE culture (Exodus 21:10-11 KJV).
How much do you want to bet that once she gets bored and wants out, she is going to demand that she should get half the value of the house only he has ever paid for?
Precisely. She's full of it. Saying stuff cuz if sounds good to her lizard brain.
I thought that when a man and woman get married they are a TEAM. There’s no I it is we.
There is still a Captain on that Team aka a Leader aka the head of the household typically the Father aka the Husband. In my marriage I am the H.N.I.C. my wife is trusted council, but the final decision is up to me. And, that is not contingent on how much money I, nor she earns. God, Husband, wife, children is the natural order of things, and that's what I made clear my wife knew BEFORE we got married 20 years ago.
Not only that most married women worked and contributed to the household. Whilst it is true that men pay the lion’s share of the bills, most men are not high earners so they cannot bear all of the financial load. Living above your means puts your family at risk.
@@DeeboX-vv8jiThis shud be the pinned comment of this thread!💯💪🏼
Almost a non-existing thing with the Black Westernized woman with her European woman "Standard of Beauty, Lust, Vanity, and Desire."
No, they wanna be kept hoars.
"We don't supposed to have this house." That's the first sentence she said. Her grammar leads me to believe she's of low education.
Low education and low class
😂😂
Pretty much. She's the platation slave that carries the water bucket all day. Simple Minded one.
Whatever spirit that's influencing these black women in masses is destroying black families and relationships. They're doing Esau's work.
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Man, it's some truth to this.
@@irvingtaylor5353 right. Truth is stranger than fiction
i think it's call, Jim Crow! They are their master's/Massa pitbull guard dog against the so-called Black Man. I did not believe this 30 years ago, when I first heard it. Damn if them Brothers preaching on the corner were not correct!
Finally somebody gets it….we are under spiritual curses…most definitely are women
These chics watch too much tv..
Black people in this country don’t come from wealth and prosperity. Those things have to be built.
They're too entitled, spoiled and self-centered. I see Isaiah 42:1 coming very soon.
Too many black women take on the ‘sweet looking’ lifestyle they see on tv and the net and incorporate it into what they believe they deserve. They live in this damn fantasy world.
And they won't be built because they're wives and help meets. They don't believe in family or community.
@@rabbannibey1128Already here
@@rabbannibey1128Already here
First mistake he made was marrying a Kiesha
Yup... FBA culture does not produce wives. It's anti-BM and anti-nuclear family. And I'm FBA, btw... not a tether.
When it comes to so called “princess treatment” even the princesses in history worked. Queen Elizabeth even when she was princess Elizabeth fought in world war 2.
See you know your history. These women don’t read their just full of expectations
She didn't fight. She served as a mechanic.
Fellas, steer clear of any woman who refuses to work with you to build a life SHE wants or expects. Not to diminish her value as a person, but she's effectively useless as a partner. She's a taker and a user and will destroy what you've built because she can never truly value what she didn't contribute to building.
Look. Inflation, interest rates, property taxes, and then the value of the 🏠 makes for allot of 🍞 (💰) being spent! Bruh's ole lady is about herself.
CC said one time "All the Disney Princesses worked baby, idk where they get that foolishness!" No lies told Kendra😂💯💯💯
The Bible says at Proverbs 31:10-31, that a capable wife is supposed to work hard for the benefit of her family, while being under the leadership of her husband. These women want to work for themselves, and that's why marriages are failing. A lazy woman will never make a good wife. Genesis 2:18 shows that a wife is supposed to be a helper for her husband, as a complement of him. NOT JUST A COMPLEMENT!!
Men are no longer financing these Heffas cap campaigns….Men are comfortably on the sideline let’n em scuffle it out with bills on the 1st and 15th 😂😂😂
I appreciate times like this because men can’t pretend that women don’t think like this! Before men were naive about this type of delusional thinking and get blindsided by the woman he wants to love.
Men were always gaslit by hoz and simps...
In my experience and from what I see most black women are stuck in a state of solecism which is basically the female version of narcissism, just the extreme self centered version.
Right on
We in a time of separation , this is the will of God
Sounds like more reasons to be a passport bro
Look it’s 🦇 💩 crazy in the culture with the street version of words that aren’t accurate at all. Watching some women explain being worthy and worthless at the same time has been the most embarrassing part of all this.
😂😂😂😂
Proverbs 31:3 Give not thy strength unto women, nor thy ways to that which destroyeth kings.
Eve 👩🏽 name suppose to be on little ass possible
I remember when I first started to get my business started. I paid everything and put in the work to get it off the ground.
She didn't offer any bread or input. So when I went to apply it was my name only. Of course, she felt some type of way because I didn't put her name on the business.
Now she's my ex, and business is booming. Only ones who's gonna eat off me are our children.
I'm surprised she didn't try the sweat equity of raising the children.
@mrAhollandjr She had no wiggle room on that end. I take care of our girls, and I found out if we be honest with our kids. Their mom won't be able to deter them from loving their father.
I've imprinted on our children, so she knows if she were to pull that ish. Our girls will not make her life pleasant, lol!
@@Nolaboy17 got it!
Black Women think that a provider is to pay her bills and pay her debts that you don’t know about⁉️
and get minimal cat
One guy married a woman with heavy college debt. She convinced him to pay it off for her. Once he paid off her debt she divorced him. This can apply to credit card debt, medical bills, IRS debt or anything else she hopes to sweet talk you into paying. Yes you have to be careful out here.
The descendants of our oppressors are nicer than our own women 😂leave them alone
Insanity 😢😂
At least she acknowledges that there is a such thing as living outside of their means.
exactly that's the point thats goin missing and what stood out to me, most these hoz will put a man in debt living well above there means and soon as hard times come she out and it was all his fault smh
You mean LIVING ABOVE YOUR MEANS right?
No she said he's living out of his means. Her means haven't changed because she's got no plans to contribute.
Ridiculousness at it highest form. SMH
I'm going to provide her with freedom. Never gonna date or marry her. She is free to do whatever she wants "without " me.
This is why a lot of black men aren't choosing black women.
Sounds much like shes under Sprinkle Sprinkle influence. The sister hood keeps trying to redefine relationships in their favor or to the mans detriment. If she keeps all of her income shes going to hoard money, spend it needlessly or spend it on her sidepiece aka Chad/Pookie.
Appreciate your vids 😂🎉
We desire marriage but damn this is toooo risky.
I don’t
Non patriarchal environment that doesn't even hold a true egalitarian requirement = a mess
Not everyone was raised to be a spouse.
You know what, at this point BM just need to just leave them alone and tell them to date out. I can agree with Crimson Cure that most BW have no clue about finances
This is an American mindset...BW,are just a scapegoat to overlook others
He thought he had a wife....what he has is a colleague..
Not a colleague but a mooch
No, a spoiled sugar baby
Colleagues help with projects. She doesn't.
Pay for nothing and want half if she leaves the man!
All the money is in one pot in a marriage there’s no my money and his money. As a married couple, you should have common financial goals and having both incomes contribute will make reaching those goals easier!
She don’t want u to trick off her money. No she wanna do that
The world needs to take away the stigma of a woman being just a girlfriend (modern day concubine) because that's all some women will ever be and it's nothing wrong with that.
I had a woman say to me, so I'm not worth a $200 meal? Uh, *NO!!!*
Another great piece 😎🙌🏾
She said Investing 😮😮 That's what your Doing Investing in Yourself with Your Home 🏡 Wow.We as Black People need To do Better.
Here's something that kills me about this entire situation. Some women ALWAYS get online talking about they make 6 figures but NEVER speak about taxes! The first time that I made $82k on paper and saw the amount of tax that was taken, and they still wanted MORE racks after I filed?
I'm talking to women about moving out of the country, and they're worried about their friends and the type of food that's there! I'm trying to buy us some rental/vacation property and the fact that travel is cheaper and your money goes longer.
These women are actresses for pay and want a title that only a wife deserves. They do NOT want to follow you. I stopped talking money with women because they do NOT know money!
You said something towards the end that I have been thinking for a while now.. Some women are not "team players" ...
I think some of these women need some sports in their lives.. the concept of "team success".. Or "cooperation over competition" never occurs to them
Together we are strong enough to win.. But some people are soo selfish that they cannot work with others to achieve a goal that benefits both of them
You can’t build anything with that mindset…
50 star 💫 VID🔥✔️💥⚡️💯💯💯
Great informative video!
Some of us blacks are barely learning how to be in a relationship and stable family structure due to systematic racism, slavery and oppression. Now all the offspring of single mothers are getting into relationships with each other and failing miserably.
It seems like all she wants to contribute to the marriage is going to Dollar Tree and buy toilet paper other household items for the house. And the husband pay the mortgage and car payment 😂
Ma'am you really really learned from Kevin S not a lot of women reach or attain this level of insight, i commend you ma'am
This is one of the MOST underrated streams by CC. It's short but very insightful.
These women always acting like some kids. No maturity what so ever
Thank God for their big mouths! Easier to tell who’s who.
They are for the streets
I'm covinced that most women don't even know what numbers are without the context being something they want to buy.
Ain't it something they pick and choose who does what? Now ask them to clean the house then all of the sudden it's 2024 😂😂
$1000 says she petions to get the house if they divorce....at best ...
My wife and I bought our house in 98 for 300k. we sold it in 2023 for 1.8mil. She made more money than me but we made it work.
Those same businesses have their kids on the register, granny in the kitchen, wife washing dishes, and bussing tables, i have been confused for years where they see these other races of ppl just sitting around doing nothing at all, my moms handled the financial paperwork end of my Pops business for years
I dated a chick that hated the idea of me being a provider. She didn't like me making plans or decisions. She didn't even like me driving. She kept wanting to be in control of everything.
I agree with you, Kendra. Women never had the power to take their rights. I say it ALL the time. Men gave women the position they have today. The independent woman was ALLOWED by men. Still is. The power construct makes so much money from the independence of women. More workers, more taxes, and more consumerism. That's why feminism was allowed to exist.
Other races of people know how to work together.
Oh but she will want FULL INPUT on that house. Trust and believe she will DEMAND she be there to sign on the dotted line to buy that house...
The term provider has a different definition for them. From what was said in the video, provider seems to mean sponsor in their minds.
Women who are culturally not wives commenting on how married people should live🤦🏾♂️ They are self-serving not selfless.
Within a successful conversation for development for the both of us, a negative thought always seems to come up in the conversation of the man doing something out of order, when he is the one that thought of the plan. Never fails! 🤦🏿♂️
She reminds me of my future X. Her math aint mathin. I dont get it. Cooperation?! Yeah right! When trying to explain which way is up, I'd been better of talking to a tree. This guy must exhausted because I was. Its a battle all the time. The world wasnt bulit it one day. It takes a plan & time to build. These modern women want the glass to be full now, while only contributing one drop. Lastly, dont worry about be messin around Monique n Keisha. I'm too stressed n weary after dealin with U!
I just discovered that I was unsubscribed and had no idea!
The enemy is just laughing at black women.
Belly hurting AND everything
Its odd that women ask "where are the real men" like the men who raised their families in the 60s or 70s. Those "real men" often built together with their wives even though he was the primary breadwinner. A 100% provider is if he has it and is willing. Sometimes he may not be the sole provider but they can make it work 80/20, 70/30 or whatever works for them.
Give me money👈
Take me on trips👈
Don't "axe" no questions👈
That's about it 🤣
If THAT'S the case about buying a new house 🏠 then she is NO GOOD to him as a WIFE or a Girlfriend 😢 I would walk 🚶♂️ AWAY right then and NEVER RETURN !🎉!🎉!🎉
It’s obvious they not a team. You never heard a Hispanic women saying some crap like this to there man.
Actually and be having a mindset of a child.
Why average people love to use extreme imagery when explaining something. Notice there's a million dollar house in the picture, but it's not million dollar people having the conversation. And a man most likely put up this split screen.
Delusion is ridiculous in this era...
I think women who shares that ladies view. Are not in their relationship with a longevity mindset. She's only going to be there until she gets whatever she wanted. So she has to have an "excape" plan.
And ladies that’s one of the reason why guys are choosing to stay single. It’s cheaper for him. I mean, one less mouth to feed, don’t have to put you on his health insurance, don’t have to pay your auto insurance. He saving a grip
She gone be sleeping outside then. You don't put in you don't get nothing.
... what if he decides...
His first mistake is to marry. He deserves everything that follows.
There are 10 things you must discuss before marriage. You discover, you didn’t see the signs before, her attitude on money. You (d)ucked up as a man.
💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯.... People really don't understand the work and sacrifice and teamwork it takes to be married. Some people just like the idea of being married and saying they're married, but when it gets real, that's when the "problems" start.. Just ask my ex-wife... I'm glad I divorced her.. Us men prefer unity with the person we married.. As rare and as painful as it is, we men will not be putting ourselves and our children through that, so if we're already married we'll leave and if we aren't married we'll stay single..💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
You stay cookin’ 👩🏾🍳💯🔥🔥
Then let her pay her own mortgage because she will sure ask for that same house in the divorce
Shout Out to ALL BLACK MEN!!! Love ALL your work, Sister Crimson. Bless Up!!
Hyenas trying to put on the accountant’s visor and so some math….🙄🙄🙄
Preach sister preach!!!!
"You can do bad by yourself"
I went through this with my last relationship. We were long distance. So I would drive 600 miles round trip twice a month. One of these times, she takes my to the affluent part of her town. Houses at the time were 500k to 1M. My response was "If you expect me to be the sole 'FINANCIAL' provider, we are living in a house the I am comfortable paying for. However, if you want something like this, you are going to have to either help me make more money, or throw some money in the the pot. But you are going to have to input something."..... This completely went over hear head. She did not understand that life is better when there is more of a surplus of cash and resources. Not to mention the cost of taxes and up-keep on a big house. Or that a house like that can be worked up to/a future goal.
But that is a sign of the times. Everyone wants to be a dictator in a partnership and/or get something for nothing. Men and women. Not realizing the long term wealthy people are mostly married. They also worked TOGETHER. That goes beyond money........
She understood, just didn’t care.
Lightskin Keisha Babble...
This woman done put a whole scenario together about how a woman’s marriage gone be 😂😂man o man
⛽️ lighting at it’s finest ✌🏿
She made No sense whatsoever.
"Seal not the sayings of this prophecy...for the time is at hand. Let him who is unjust be unjust still...let him who is righteous be righteous still."
The ark to build these days is not one of planks and nails...but one of the mind and heart.
2 things hyenas look for in a mate;
Crash out Or Cash out