In the words of MHD: “A good man makes a woman feel bad about herself, because she’s not a good woman. A bad boy makes her feel good about herself because he takes away the pressure of being a good woman.”
My lion husband met me when I was 20 years old. I had been raised by hyena females but was myself a young lioness. I absorbed his SOS like a camel in the desert. Thirty- five years later and I consider meeting him to be the biggest blessing of my life.
@@azariahyisrael3209Also those women over there are "timid" and "submissive" because they have no options if you get with one of them, break bread on her and show her things she will default to female nature and ya'll who thank they will be perfect and save ya'll gonna get your feelings hurt and be crying. If you can't realize what it is in real life and not think this imaginary, perfect woman doesn't exist and realize that you have to have a foundation and always be ready to end the relationship or always be ready to let her go, you will always be broke around the bar this Sunday.
We are good men now and most are learning and most women prefer toxic men. We simply backed away and let them have each other. We prefer not to clean up after they have been broken.
black women are the root of all evil ...... There iz nothing more schupid than a bwomen.. They will never acknowledge the fact that they are the reason why Isreal black kingdom fell as bwomen betrayed Black men (the woman king) .they make deals with the devil(wyt man) since the dawn of time (Eve) Even today bwomen are still allowing themselves to being used as puppets ... AS THE CHOSEN ONE I AM TELLING YOU TODAY, EVERY BLACK WOMEN WHO HAS EVER BEEN ALIVE WILL SUFFER WORST THAN HELL... I dare any of you bwomen reading this to not take this srcly.. Bwomen are now officially useless as there is no more a need for reproducing more black children cause This is the last year for humanity and it is time for black God to return.
Cap, they go hard for Pookie. Putting their lives, family, finances, everything on the line for him. It’s only hard to deal with a real one because they bring all the garbage to him after being completely used up.
Pookie be going through it, pookie get disrespected, humiliated, abused it be a lot going on. All the pookie hate is actually a sign of weakness. Pookie get to hit and chill but she goes “hard” for pookie because that’s all she has left of the Boyfriend experience
Thank you Crimson Cure. This says a lot as to why she blew up when I showed accountability for an issue and then shortly after all hell broke loose. She then tried to use that against me and pile up more dirt that IMO wasn't superficial. The relationship was short lived and we soon parted ways. I guess all and all after I stepped up and held myself accountable before she did it automatically put a mirror up to herself for any future occurrences. I just figured that I would keep it 100 in the beginning in light of having a stable and harmonious relationship. After the toxicity began to spew out all I could do is stand back and say WOW. Not to mention she told me that she told her best friend everything. So I guess its true, "Single Women Keep Women Single". I can only imagine. Thanks again for the insight and enlightenment!
Oh, my goodness, Crimson COOKED these hyenas with every bit of seasoning she had in the cabinets! I agree with everything she said. I have experienced how women walk away when I tell them, "This is going to go this way and that is going to be that way." They cannot not handle it lol! Their response is usually, "you're too hard!" Translation: this means that it will be too difficult to undermine you, trick you, lie to you or pull the wool over your eyes fellas. Like Crimson said, "you will vet/weed them out completely because they cannot fake it, they just can't. If she really like you and wants to be with you, she will get on your program knowing that you will take care of her and her knowledge and input will be considered (as it should be). But the final decision will come from you as the man. Thank you, Crimson Cure for your continued knowledge and wisdom.
black women are the root of all evil ...... There iz nothing more schupid than a bwomen.. They will never acknowledge the fact that they are the reason why Isreal black kingdom fell as bwomen betrayed Black men (the woman king) .they make deals with the devil(wyt man) since the dawn of time (Eve) Even today bwomen are still allowing themselves to being used as puppets ... AS THE CHOSEN ONE I AM TELLING YOU TODAY, EVERY BLACK WOMEN WHO HAS EVER BEEN ALIVE WILL SUFFER WORST THAN HELL... I dare any of you bwomen reading this to not take this srcly.. Bwomen are now officially useless as there is no more a need for reproducing more black children cause This is the last year for humanity and it is time for black God to return.
I use to hear this phrase “ You fire yourself”. Meaning rules and standards are already in place to hold you accountable. You either meet them or you don’t. System order and Structure in action, I see now.
@@canadianbrotv1303 he didn't speak an opinion to say "wrong" about. Women's nature isn't cooperation and obedience. They're going to deviate and rebel whenever left to their own devices. Those women overseas only comport themselves this way BECAUSE of the structure and social framework to which they must adhere. Not because they are good in and of themselves.
That was a very thorough and accurate explanation of that entire Social Dynamic. Every Teenager and Young Adult should have it explained to them that exact same way. A short and less far thorough way of saying it would be something like, " Water seeks its Own Level". Superb commentary.
When a man has a System, Order, and Structure that is the standard because a woman must qualify to even be subordinate to his leadership. If she is unwilling to cooperate not submit to his commitment to her and understand his priorities moving forward she immediately fails because she doesn’t recognize his humanity and sacrifice. To negate any attention or responsibility on her part she must know her role and play her position according to the parameters of the relationship at hand. It is not one size fits all the variables must be taken into account when dealing with male and female relationship dynamics with communication being held in high regard in terms of consideration. I just told a woman this in the exact terms your submission gives me the motivation to support you in every avenue. Then she said “You don’t have enough time for all that!” exactly because I work 3 jobs but if I make time for you I expect you to consider and understand my sacrifice due to my commitment to you. The ego and selfishness must be abandoned by all modern women or men will continue to walk away and more importantly not care the decline in just common decency in steep.
Naw... 99% of the women aren't broken... It's just a trend for 99%of the women to say they are broken, especially having trauma from the father of some sort! Women these days want to be as strong as men, not knowing it drains them of the innate power within them!
my daughter lied about me to her boyfriends family saying she didn't know her father all lies for sympathy now with my grandson they are finding she is just like her mother i am done with black women i am not upset it is just a waste of time now and i was around all women who turned out to be liars so i am just over it
This was one of the most complete and concise commentaries I have heard to date. I am sharing this with a number of my chosen sons. Much thanks..Mis Crimson Cure. Your presence here at this time is required.
@@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp Grown man here. You may be a little too young to be talking about things like this. The OP is right to share this information with _anyone_ who will hear, what to speak of family.
black women are the root of all evil ...... There iz nothing more schupid than a bwomen.. They will never acknowledge the fact that they are the reason why Isreal black kingdom fell as bwomen betrayed Black men (the woman king) .they make deals with the devil(wyt man) since the dawn of time (Eve) Even today bwomen are still allowing themselves to being used as puppets ... AS THE CHOSEN ONE I AM TELLING YOU TODAY, EVERY BLACK WOMEN WHO HAS EVER BEEN ALIVE WILL SUFFER WORST THAN HELL... I dare any of you bwomen reading this to not take this srcly.. Bwomen are now officially useless as there is no more a need for reproducing more black children cause This is the last year for humanity and it is time for black God to return.
@@judysmith-randle1558black women are the root of all evil ...... There iz nothing more schupid than a bwomen.. They will never acknowledge the fact that they are the reason why Isreal black kingdom fell as bwomen betrayed Black men (the woman king) .they make deals with the devil(wyt man) since the dawn of time (Eve) Even today bwomen are still allowing themselves to being used as puppets ... AS THE CHOSEN ONE I AM TELLING YOU TODAY, EVERY BLACK WOMEN WHO HAS EVER BEEN ALIVE WILL SUFFER WORST THAN HELL... I dare any of you bwomen reading this to not take this srcly.. Bwomen are now officially useless as there is no more a need for reproducing more black children cause This is the last year for humanity and it is time for black God to return.
The way the information was presented this morning has really saved my mind and spirit. I was going a little toward depression honestly, but now I understand why so many things have not lined up. Your analysis on this situation has given me hope. Thank you. Peace
I cannot thank you enough for confirming that you have a great man when they have the self esteem to not be persuaded by you. I don’t think people know how much we are taught that women are supposed to ‘follow’ us. To please us.
The Real American Dream used to be, having a good Job, a good real woman, & you being a homeowner. Today with all the Scandelous Politics in America, these things are just added Xtra Drama & Pressure that the mind & body don't need. I surley Miss the good Old Days when those things were EZ'r to Do
The only reason men feel some type of way about those women choosing the toxic men is they have to talk shit and bunch all men in the same category while also saying they want a nice understanding man who will lead
I have told Black men for years... STOP arguing or trying to reason with them. They aren't complaining about solid men. They're complaining about the trash guy they chose or the one who they wanted and found out they didn't qualify for. They're not dealing with 80% of us so why bother when they complain?
Nicely said this is one of many reasons I divorced my wife the accountability part is like beyond kryptonite you try to gold her accountable and you try to act like a victim
Ecclesiasticus 13:15-16 [15]Every beast loveth his like, and every man loveth his neighbor. [16]All flesh consorteth according to kind, and a man will cleave to his like.
Quick to choose a toxic man and have a list of ridiculous reasons why they do…but then have a list of ridiculous demands and requirements before she will get with an actual good man. Make it make sense
One thing we keep missing from these conversations is the “broken” woman doesn’t have a type. I know too many women on the surface who are clean but that broken spirit becomes flat out evil quick.
Females & women are two different things , altogether Like pro sti tu te s & h o s are completely different but are confused most of the times , . . . ???
In my opinion (before I watch the video) we as men at times act as if women are immune to the lost value system. If we as men like the drug life why wouldn't women. If we're affect by it why wouldn't them
But, in all fairness, both the toxic man and the toxic woman are addicted to that dopamine or adrenaline rush. Nice, decent, caring men don’t produce that “adrenaline/dopamine kick” which so many black women DESPERATELY CRAVE for.
In other words, I have no accountability and I refuse to grow up and grow out of the mind of a 13 year old girl and I need someone that will just shut up and accept that. FFS really??
I’ve been saying this and I’ll continue saying it: A lot of women and men don’t qualify for good men and women because of their values. The woman in the video proves this and crimson touches on this by talking about good men and women having a strong spiritual value to develop your standards because it will weed out the bad men and women. 8:07
I think the sadness for me comes with the fact that there are so many beautiful black women who could make better decisions and get with quality men like myself but choose not to. All of this is choice, I think people can choose to be better people and good to others but choose not to. That part is what makes me sad and to me it almost seems like that is the majority of people, for my purposes the majority of women.
Women encourage each other not to date a man they have to raise. Basically, neither should men. And no disrespect, but I always want to know a woman's relationship with her father.
They have proven to be monkish 😢😢i have daughter's and they are going in that direction. I have no more desire to even conversate with black women sorry i am done.
Naw... 99% of the women aren't broken... It's just a trend for 99%of the women to say they are broken, especially having trauma from the father of some sort! Women these days want to be as strong as men, not knowing it drains them of the innate power within them!
It may not be 99 percent, but it's probably over 50 percent at least. And I would say it is NOT a trend for women to say they are broken. The trend is to brag about how strong, independent, and accomplished they are. It's only when they hit rock bottom do they cry about being broken, like B Simone and many others. But the main trend is to pretend they "got it goin on" and claim men are the problem.
In so many words, she is basically saying NOBODY IS ACCOUNTABLE FOR HIS OR HER BEHAVIOR OR CHOICE. That's the impression that I get from what she said. I could be wrong. Altogether, that's somebody who is comfortable being dysfunctional, and it is not normal human behavior on any level regardless how it is explained. Lack of accountability is the problem.
Life is very simple but we insist on making it complicated by all these back and forth and going around in circles. Relationships between men and women is like choosing your lifestyles. If you are not into alcohol, you don't want to have an so called I have to have a drink of alcohol every other day, you're dealing with an alcoholic. Oh I like to have a little bit of drugs now and then you are dealing with a drug addict. Oh I like to have a little back and forth now and then you are dealing with someone with dysfunctional behaviours. I like to put my foot in my relationships, you are dealing with a war machine mouth like a loaded gun. You know all the likes and dislikes, red flags standing their ground, no white flags of a peaceful lifestyle. Always love the rivers of blood, no clear water to look at the fish's swimming. I love the colour of that one, no no no. You are a wrong look at the one to the right the colour at the side, when it hits the sunlight, that's true. You see we can eye to eye on the simple things, that can bring us closer together. A Relationship is between two, not the whole world. Human viruses, which they're calling in society "toxic" which I think is bull crap, because it's easier to get rid of toxic than viruses. "For example the common flu, oh every single year there is a new, every single day these new viruses of men and women just surfacing with some new viruses in the form of ideas and they can spread very very very fast. In our culture on a whole we don't like to have long conversations, we don't like long comments. Because we don't want to time the time to discuss facts that's on the truth, the truth to some of us is toxic, while lies to some of us are healing. Even the very religious systems in our community, 95% of them are viruses, let's start there. Come as you are, if you are going to the court of law enforcement of dress code, you can't come in as you are. In the black community churches you can come as you are in the house of God. Let's leave it alone, foolish people like foolish people. That's where they find comfort, that's where they like comfortable. To spread their viruses among each other, to have more viruses babies 👶👶 feeding on the milk of dysfunctional behaviours, an apple doesn't fall far from the tree. So the father, so the child or children. So the mother, so the child or the children, the Apples don't fall far from the trees. Every single one for their own. They choose each other, I'm will to stand back and see how it plays out, and keep my mouth shut, I didn't say, I didn't do, my hands are clean.
Now I done had Street women, attitude drugs alcohol been with pookie and Ray Ray so many times, which is their business, because pookie and Ray Ray need love too, but anyway, I don't have them come to me interested in being with me, although I shoot that down, but then I get to thinking, is that a sign of them changing, and a lot of people say they come to you when it's too late, that's not the case all the time cuz most of them are young, and middle aged, instead of older. I think in time black people are going to change, you have to remember our history here started off and chains. And I think it's going to take time for us to completely change. So to all the men RUclips channel that talk bad about black women, and to all the black women that have RUclips channels, talking bad about black men, I understand the frustration but we have to learn our history here and see why, why are we acting this way it's not our fault, it is, that slave mentality that is still in us, we still call each other the n-word, we still have white men last name, we still eat the same slave food that give us our bad health, now what is wrong with the people, who don't recognize error in ourselves, and try to change it, I'll tell you, we are a dead people because of slavery.
Crimson sound crazy what man want a woman that acts a dam fool and she not being accountable holding the past as a crutch ain't no way y'all chicks say anything
In the words of MHD: “A good man makes a woman feel bad about herself, because she’s not a good woman. A bad boy makes her feel good about herself because he takes away the pressure of being a good woman.”
MHD?
That's profound and so fitting 😮😊
Facts!! Nothing but the truth
@@MomoAfterDark Manosphere Highlights Daily (MHD)
so in other words they are hell bound
because they want their energy to be matched. A toxic woman hates a chill and relaxed man, that shxt frustrates them.
My lion husband met me when I was 20 years old. I had been raised by hyena females but was myself a young lioness. I absorbed his SOS like a camel in the desert. Thirty- five years later and I consider meeting him to be the biggest blessing of my life.
🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎
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@@ksmith96 Marvelous!! 😎
She just confirmed her types are weak, and not a strong woman, the women who are feminine loving and caring are truly the Strong Women.
Fact!...💯
None of this will translate to change behavior, so, Black Men, protect yourself and your peace and go where you’re appreciated. ✈️.
Absolutely 💯 but flying abroad is not going to help either because feminism has permeated the four corners of the earth. Good luck with that.
Yep we're on our own guys
@@azariahyisrael3209Also those women over there are "timid" and "submissive" because they have no options if you get with one of them, break bread on her and show her things she will default to female nature and ya'll who thank they will be perfect and save ya'll gonna get your feelings hurt and be crying. If you can't realize what it is in real life and not think this imaginary, perfect woman doesn't exist and realize that you have to have a foundation and always be ready to end the relationship or always be ready to let her go, you will always be broke around the bar this Sunday.
@@azariahyisrael3209 Get, find the solution that best fits.
@@tdogg65 yep.
Because their "Toxic," Women.
We are good men now and most are learning and most women prefer toxic men. We simply backed away and let them have each other. We prefer not to clean up after they have been broken.
exactly
Yup
The TOXIC AVENGERS strike AGAIN. They want toxic guys because WITH us Hard working men We ain't going for that tomfoolery. Either Step Up or SIT DOWN
I’ve always said that
Birds of feather flock together.
black women are the root of all evil ...... There iz nothing more schupid than a bwomen.. They will never acknowledge the fact that they are the reason why Isreal black kingdom fell as bwomen betrayed Black men (the woman king) .they make deals with the devil(wyt man) since the dawn of time (Eve) Even today bwomen are still allowing themselves to being used as puppets ... AS THE CHOSEN ONE I AM TELLING YOU TODAY, EVERY BLACK WOMEN WHO HAS EVER BEEN ALIVE WILL SUFFER WORST THAN HELL... I dare any of you bwomen reading this to not take this srcly.. Bwomen are now officially useless as there is no more a need for reproducing more black children cause This is the last year for humanity and it is time for black God to return.
Cap, they go hard for Pookie. Putting their lives, family, finances, everything on the line for him.
It’s only hard to deal with a real one because they bring all the garbage to him after being completely used up.
Pookie be going through it, pookie get disrespected, humiliated, abused it be a lot going on.
All the pookie hate is actually a sign of weakness.
Pookie get to hit and chill but she goes “hard” for pookie because that’s all she has left of the Boyfriend experience
Thank you Crimson Cure. This says a lot as to why she blew up when I showed accountability for an issue and then shortly after all hell broke loose. She then tried to use that against me and pile up more dirt that IMO wasn't superficial. The relationship was short lived and we soon parted ways.
I guess all and all after I stepped up and held myself accountable before she did it automatically put a mirror up to herself for any future occurrences. I just figured that I would keep it 100 in the beginning in light of having a stable and harmonious relationship. After the toxicity began to spew out all I could do is stand back and say WOW.
Not to mention she told me that she told her best friend everything. So I guess its true, "Single Women Keep Women Single". I can only imagine.
Thanks again for the insight and enlightenment!
Thanks!
They choose chaotic men to feel better about their poor behaviors.
Oh, my goodness, Crimson COOKED these hyenas with every bit of seasoning she had in the cabinets! I agree with everything she said. I have experienced how women walk away when I tell them, "This is going to go this way and that is going to be that way." They cannot not handle it lol! Their response is usually, "you're too hard!" Translation: this means that it will be too difficult to undermine you, trick you, lie to you or pull the wool over your eyes fellas. Like Crimson said, "you will vet/weed them out completely because they cannot fake it, they just can't. If she really like you and wants to be with you, she will get on your program knowing that you will take care of her and her knowledge and input will be considered (as it should be). But the final decision will come from you as the man. Thank you, Crimson Cure for your continued knowledge and wisdom.
Now I know why I felt the way I felt in my last toxic relationship she was very toxic no femininity in that woman whatsoever
🎶Don't save her, she don't wanna be saved🎶
black women are the root of all evil ...... There iz nothing more schupid than a bwomen.. They will never acknowledge the fact that they are the reason why Isreal black kingdom fell as bwomen betrayed Black men (the woman king) .they make deals with the devil(wyt man) since the dawn of time (Eve) Even today bwomen are still allowing themselves to being used as puppets ... AS THE CHOSEN ONE I AM TELLING YOU TODAY, EVERY BLACK WOMEN WHO HAS EVER BEEN ALIVE WILL SUFFER WORST THAN HELL... I dare any of you bwomen reading this to not take this srcly.. Bwomen are now officially useless as there is no more a need for reproducing more black children cause This is the last year for humanity and it is time for black God to return.
"CAUSE DEY GOT SWAAAG GUUUUUURL!!!!!!"😋😛😝😜🤪
"GUUUUUURL, HE BLEW MY BACK OUT!!!!!"😋😛😜🤪
(SARCASM)
That's why right there everything else they talking bout is cap
I use to hear this phrase “ You fire yourself”. Meaning rules and standards are already in place to hold you accountable. You either meet them or you don’t. System order and Structure in action, I see now.
One thing about Arab, and Asian cultures, their men put structures in place for their women.
We used to have those same structures, but weak men let them be torn down.
BW ran to section 8 to “run” the community. Trust, BM going their on way is the reason why BM will rebuild the Black community with NONE BW. Simple.
wrong their women know how to follow and be mature in a relationship with a man with morals and structure, have you dated an Asia or Arab women.
@@canadianbrotv1303 he didn't speak an opinion to say "wrong" about.
Women's nature isn't cooperation and obedience. They're going to deviate and rebel whenever left to their own devices.
Those women overseas only comport themselves this way BECAUSE of the structure and social framework to which they must adhere.
Not because they are good in and of themselves.
And if they get out of line they quickly get that act right
You gotta heal the inner child yourself. No one can do that for you
Most women will do this in a heartbeat! They usually never can get or keep the man they really want. So they think they settled.
Commentary is deep on so many levels
That was a very thorough and accurate explanation of that entire Social Dynamic. Every Teenager and Young Adult should have it explained to them that exact same way. A short and less far thorough way of saying it would be something like, " Water seeks its Own Level". Superb commentary.
Great commentary!! This conversation is needed!!
When a man has a System, Order, and Structure that is the standard because a woman must qualify to even be subordinate to his leadership. If she is unwilling to cooperate not submit to his commitment to her and understand his priorities moving forward she immediately fails because she doesn’t recognize his humanity and sacrifice. To negate any attention or responsibility on her part she must know her role and play her position according to the parameters of the relationship at hand. It is not one size fits all the variables must be taken into account when dealing with male and female relationship dynamics with communication being held in high regard in terms of consideration. I just told a woman this in the exact terms your submission gives me the motivation to support you in every avenue. Then she said “You don’t have enough time for all that!” exactly because I work 3 jobs but if I make time for you I expect you to consider and understand my sacrifice due to my commitment to you. The ego and selfishness must be abandoned by all modern women or men will continue to walk away and more importantly not care the decline in just common decency in steep.
This is golden! Very well explained
Naw... 99% of the women aren't broken... It's just a trend for 99%of the women to say they are broken, especially having trauma from the father of some sort! Women these days want to be as strong as men, not knowing it drains them of the innate power within them!
my daughter lied about me to her boyfriends family saying she didn't know her father all lies for sympathy now with my grandson they are finding she is just like her mother i am done with black women i am not upset it is just a waste of time now and i was around all women who turned out to be liars so i am just over it
The Toxic Avenger needs a sidekick so why not?
😂
Thank you, that filled in all the gray I needed colored in.
You straight cookin'. Ain't shyt people don't like structur and order. Having standards expose them real quick
Chaos is their peace...
Probably thee most important episode CC has shown. Salute sis!
A real one will make you keep you’re self, you’re kids, you’re house, you’re work other relationships etc up and makes it even better ❤
Fellas don't deal with toxic women
We not Crimson LOL...17 years strong ova here.
"They deserve one another," well said!!
This was one of the most complete and concise commentaries I have heard to date. I am sharing this with a number of my chosen sons. Much thanks..Mis Crimson Cure. Your presence here at this time is required.
your sons should be listening to their father or another MALE, not a woman.
@@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp troll..troll..troll..troll..
@@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp Grown man here.
You may be a little too young to be talking about things like this.
The OP is right to share this information with _anyone_ who will hear, what to speak of family.
black women are the root of all evil ...... There iz nothing more schupid than a bwomen.. They will never acknowledge the fact that they are the reason why Isreal black kingdom fell as bwomen betrayed Black men (the woman king) .they make deals with the devil(wyt man) since the dawn of time (Eve) Even today bwomen are still allowing themselves to being used as puppets ... AS THE CHOSEN ONE I AM TELLING YOU TODAY, EVERY BLACK WOMEN WHO HAS EVER BEEN ALIVE WILL SUFFER WORST THAN HELL... I dare any of you bwomen reading this to not take this srcly.. Bwomen are now officially useless as there is no more a need for reproducing more black children cause This is the last year for humanity and it is time for black God to return.
@@judysmith-randle1558black women are the root of all evil ...... There iz nothing more schupid than a bwomen.. They will never acknowledge the fact that they are the reason why Isreal black kingdom fell as bwomen betrayed Black men (the woman king) .they make deals with the devil(wyt man) since the dawn of time (Eve) Even today bwomen are still allowing themselves to being used as puppets ... AS THE CHOSEN ONE I AM TELLING YOU TODAY, EVERY BLACK WOMEN WHO HAS EVER BEEN ALIVE WILL SUFFER WORST THAN HELL... I dare any of you bwomen reading this to not take this srcly.. Bwomen are now officially useless as there is no more a need for reproducing more black children cause This is the last year for humanity and it is time for black God to return.
Vital information, Mrs Kendra. 🌷
The way the information was presented this morning has really saved my mind and spirit. I was going a little toward depression honestly, but now I understand why so many things have not lined up. Your analysis on this situation has given me hope. Thank you. Peace
I cannot thank you enough for confirming that you have a great man when they have the self esteem to not be persuaded by you. I don’t think people know how much we are taught that women are supposed to ‘follow’ us. To please us.
Great topic. Found this out long time ago. They don't want to be helped professionally. Keep up the good work sweetie
Lovely commentary with solid facts, thanks Crimson
It's weird i make women uncomfortable quite often with my stabdards ...
The Real American Dream used to be, having a good Job, a good real woman, & you being a homeowner. Today with all the Scandelous Politics in America, these things are just added Xtra Drama & Pressure that the mind & body don't need. I surley Miss the good Old Days when those things were EZ'r to Do
The only reason men feel some type of way about those women choosing the toxic men is they have to talk shit and bunch all men in the same category while also saying they want a nice understanding man who will lead
I have told Black men for years... STOP arguing or trying to reason with them.
They aren't complaining about solid men. They're complaining about the trash guy they chose or the one who they wanted and found out they didn't qualify for.
They're not dealing with 80% of us so why bother when they complain?
I had my share of broken ladies, YOU CAN'T FIX THEM SO DON'T EVEN TRY!💯🫡
I've learned so much from your breakdowns Crimson Cure. May GOD BLESS You successfully Miss Lady👍♥️
Just another episode of Lost
As Usual Sis'STar Kendra You are Right On 👍 With Speaking the Truth and Tell iT Like iT' iZ' 💥☀️👑🖤🎁
4:00 I think we feel a way because the average woman is broken and it’s hard looking threw the pieces for a woman that’s whole.
But that softness is on full activate when Cartwright comes around. The chameleon knows how to act and when to lay down.
❤ u CC! needed this! 👍
Wait! Say that again! 2:15
Nicely said this is one of many reasons I divorced my wife the accountability part is like beyond kryptonite you try to gold her accountable and you try to act like a victim
I agree will everything Crimson said
Ecclesiasticus 13:15-16
[15]Every beast loveth his like, and every man loveth his neighbor.
[16]All flesh consorteth according to kind, and a man will cleave to his like.
Quick to choose a toxic man and have a list of ridiculous reasons why they do…but then have a list of ridiculous demands and requirements before she will get with an actual good man. Make it make sense
They make demands of thorough men because they count on knowing it will repel him so they can turn and declare there are no good men.
They make demands of thorough men because they count on knowing it will repel him so they can turn and declare there are no good men.
Shouldn't no woman be acting a fool but most do like I said the blame always lead back to the man
parents haven't been parenting for the last 40 years or so. these women/men are doomed.
One of your best ❤
This is why My marriage was a disaster! I didn't come to her with NO STANDARDS to her!
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One thing we keep missing from these conversations is the “broken” woman doesn’t have a type. I know too many women on the surface who are clean but that broken spirit becomes flat out evil quick.
Females & women are two
different things , altogether
Like pro sti tu te s & h o s
are completely different
but are confused most
of the times , . . . ???
Why is courtship and marriage so complicated for blacks ?
In my opinion (before I watch the video) we as men at times act as if women are immune to the lost value system. If we as men like the drug life why wouldn't women. If we're affect by it why wouldn't them
Spot on K-Dot, spot on!
But, in all fairness, both the toxic man and the toxic woman are addicted to that dopamine or adrenaline rush. Nice, decent, caring men don’t produce that “adrenaline/dopamine kick” which so many black women DESPERATELY CRAVE for.
Did I miss the shoutout to JR Wisdom?
In other words, I have no accountability and I refuse to grow up and grow out of the mind of a 13 year old girl and I need someone that will just shut up and accept that. FFS really??
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I’ve been saying this and I’ll continue saying it: A lot of women and men don’t qualify for good men and women because of their values. The woman in the video proves this and crimson touches on this by talking about good men and women having a strong spiritual value to develop your standards because it will weed out the bad men and women. 8:07
No fathers in the house.
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Equally yoked
Life is short. Find your kind. The color doesn't define your type.
I think the sadness for me comes with the fact that there are so many beautiful black women who could make better decisions and get with quality men like myself but choose not to. All of this is choice, I think people can choose to be better people and good to others but choose not to. That part is what makes me sad and to me it almost seems like that is the majority of people, for my purposes the majority of women.
I have one question: Do "good women " have poor looks ? Maybe this is part of the problem. No, the guy deals with looks first.
Yep most “good women “ are only good because they lack looks good looking women could careless about being good until she is 40
Nope I have me 6s who follow and 4s who thought they were a 10
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Women encourage each other not to date a man they have to raise. Basically, neither should men. And no disrespect, but I always want to know a woman's relationship with her father.
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They have proven to be monkish 😢😢i have daughter's and they are going in that direction. I have no more desire to even conversate with black women sorry i am done.
Women never comment on these types of posts
Kendra gets on to "good men" for wanting broken women, but Kendra 99% of black women today are broken!! Thats the problem!!!
80 % LOL
@@elroc757Yeah...99% is a high but 50% seems reasonable to me and even that's high.
Exactly they all mostly like this she might as well tell blk men to date out
Naw... 99% of the women aren't broken... It's just a trend for 99%of the women to say they are broken, especially having trauma from the father of some sort! Women these days want to be as strong as men, not knowing it drains them of the innate power within them!
It may not be 99 percent, but it's probably over 50 percent at least. And I would say it is NOT a trend for women to say they are broken. The trend is to brag about how strong, independent, and accomplished they are. It's only when they hit rock bottom do they cry about being broken, like B Simone and many others. But the main trend is to pretend they "got it goin on" and claim men are the problem.
In so many words, she is basically saying NOBODY IS ACCOUNTABLE FOR HIS OR HER BEHAVIOR OR CHOICE. That's the impression that I get from what she said. I could be wrong. Altogether, that's somebody who is comfortable being dysfunctional, and it is not normal human behavior on any level regardless how it is explained. Lack of accountability is the problem.
Men that is why you need to let these women own cat's and let them be
Life is very simple but we insist on making it complicated by all these back and forth and going around in circles.
Relationships between men and women is like choosing your lifestyles. If you are not into alcohol, you don't want to have an so called I have to have a drink of alcohol every other day, you're dealing with an alcoholic. Oh I like to have a little bit of drugs now and then you are dealing with a drug addict. Oh I like to have a little back and forth now and then you are dealing with someone with dysfunctional behaviours. I like to put my foot in my relationships, you are dealing with a war machine mouth like a loaded gun.
You know all the likes and dislikes, red flags standing their ground, no white flags of a peaceful lifestyle. Always love the rivers of blood, no clear water to look at the fish's swimming. I love the colour of that one, no no no. You are a wrong look at the one to the right the colour at the side, when it hits the sunlight, that's true.
You see we can eye to eye on the simple things, that can bring us closer together. A Relationship is between two, not the whole world. Human viruses, which they're calling in society "toxic" which I think is bull crap, because it's easier to get rid of toxic than viruses. "For example the common flu, oh every single year there is a new, every single day these new viruses of men and women just surfacing with some new viruses in the form of ideas and they can spread very very very fast.
In our culture on a whole we don't like to have long conversations, we don't like long comments. Because we don't want to time the time to discuss facts that's on the truth, the truth to some of us is toxic, while lies to some of us are healing. Even the very religious systems in our community, 95% of them are viruses, let's start there. Come as you are, if you are going to the court of law enforcement of dress code, you can't come in as you are. In the black community churches you can come as you are in the house of God.
Let's leave it alone, foolish people like foolish people. That's where they find comfort, that's where they like comfortable. To spread their viruses among each other, to have more viruses babies 👶👶 feeding on the milk of dysfunctional behaviours, an apple doesn't fall far from the tree.
So the father, so the child or children. So the mother, so the child or the children, the Apples don't fall far from the trees. Every single one for their own. They choose each other, I'm will to stand back and see how it plays out, and keep my mouth shut, I didn't say, I didn't do, my hands are clean.
U cooked at 8:00 to 9:00
What is she talking about?
Now I done had Street women, attitude drugs alcohol been with pookie and Ray Ray so many times, which is their business, because pookie and Ray Ray need love too, but anyway, I don't have them come to me interested in being with me, although I shoot that down, but then I get to thinking, is that a sign of them changing, and a lot of people say they come to you when it's too late, that's not the case all the time cuz most of them are young, and middle aged, instead of older. I think in time black people are going to change, you have to remember our history here started off and chains. And I think it's going to take time for us to completely change. So to all the men RUclips channel that talk bad about black women, and to all the black women that have RUclips channels, talking bad about black men, I understand the frustration but we have to learn our history here and see why, why are we acting this way it's not our fault, it is, that slave mentality that is still in us, we still call each other the n-word, we still have white men last name, we still eat the same slave food that give us our bad health, now what is wrong with the people, who don't recognize error in ourselves, and try to change it, I'll tell you, we are a dead people because of slavery.
Thoughtful and appreciated words. How long can we make the same observations without action and not be responsible for what we see.
Simp rhetoric
Cap , Brazilian women, Caribbean women and plenty of others were slaves also ....We have no excuse.
Crimson sound crazy what man want a woman that acts a dam fool and she not being accountable holding the past as a crutch ain't no way y'all chicks say anything
This paragraph need a question mark, a comma and a few periods. It seems as though you're trying to say SOMETHING, I just can't make it out*
You're the one that sounds crazy, not Crimson.
@@jazzy2027 thats your response
@@rsaeedgreen 😂…I read this and couldn’t understand anything. Some people should just stop commenting.
Absolutely 💯 I couldn't follow what he trying to say and then he calls Crimson crazy haha. Dude you sound crazy. Huh!?
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Thank you sis for this one. Another long standing mystery solved for me. Damn, all these years I thought something was wrong with me.🥹🥲🙏🏾❤️💛💚🖤🙏🏾