that's our biggest enemy, he can rule the entire world (and we can't) that's why we like night, because we're not under sun's imperium (we still kinda are but nevermind)
Yep, my mom (ESTJ) is a real people person and you'd almost think she was an ESFJ. But when you listen carefully you figure out she isn't. ESTJs can have a really good "DO ABSOLUTELY NOTHING" mode too, when they've finished everything they need to do.
@zener respect their opinions, feelings, worldview, if u wanna discuss it - make it a polite discussion, no harsh statements, or infp WILL retaliate 100 times worse. No one is allowed to disrespect their worldview. Well, otherwise, just don't be a stick in the ass all the time. Oh also, I think the most impressive part of the sentinels (assuming u ARE ESTJ) for the diplomats is actually getting stuff done - chores, lists, overall - being able to just do it, so if u can help them with that (to get them out of their head and help do the real world stuff) - you'll be a prince[ss] Charming. (From an enfp who can shapeshift into an infp)
@@ShipperTrash yeah my biggest gain from ESTJ partner has got to be the 'get it done' pushing and also 'don't let people treat you like a doormat' mentality
I've never been quite able to figure out whether my mom, who tested as ESTJ, really is that type or not. I've ultimately come to the conclusion she is just really balanced, though I do think she borders somewhat on ESFJ. :-)
@@nerysghemor5781 Te can seem pretty similar to Fe. Both are problem solving functions, who often will focus on the problems of others. Fe will focus more on the emotional side of things, trying to solve the emotional climate, harmony or individual people's emotions and Te will focus more on the classical sense of problem solving, either of individuals or whole groups (such as work). So Te doms, often try and solve other people's problems, but depending on how healthy they are they can either do it in a domineering way (Gordon Ramsay), do it in a calm, cold and collected way (most common type of Te dom) or even in a warm way (when they are comfortable enough to show their Fi). But main way to tell a Te dom, is that even if the problem is internal (such as emotional) they will focus on solving it externally, via either doing things for you, helping you solve real life problems, finding solutions. They are the most natural problem solvers. So a healthy Te dom can seem like a healthy Fe dom, but you will notice they focus much much more on solving external problems instead of internal ones.
@@farrex0 Ultimately I’d say my mom does go the external solutions route but is very balanced and healthy so she doesn’t feel a need to hide her feelings too much.
As an ESTJ (who is not like Dwight) I don't like the Office, why would you work for years in a boring place that you hate? I enjoy working and want to do a job I like.
@@sarahberkner Dwight never hated to work on dunder mifflin. He, as an legit estj (like me) always fought to be the best on the company and to make everyone have their job done
I'm INFJ, and I'm pretty sure that my sister is ESTJ. We are pretty much the opposites except the judging part. We both prefer to have a plan to stick with, even though I can be more openminded for new ideas. We both also got pretty similar moral ideas, although I usually try to explain calmly my POV while she usually just shouts that they're wrong
I’m an INFP and I actually liked having an ESTJ most of the time on group projects at school because they could whip everyone else into shape and I didn’t have to be the one to do it. And as teachers I often liked them because yes, they were hard asses but they were clear about what they wanted, didn’t play favorites, or change the rules midstream.
@@nerysghemor5781 yep pretty accurate on most of the group projects iam on iam the leader and basically command everyone give them roles and stuff most people think iam an asshole for being so commanding but like who cares
This is so right. These are the people that will gaslight you and make you their scapegoat. The Karens of the world. My mom is one. She makes my life hell as an INFJ-T.
I'm sorry that she does that but that's not because she's an ESTJ, if she is one. We don't all have serious anger management issues or are emotionally manipulative. Healthy ESTJ parents are direct and rather unemotional and genuinely want to do a good job as a parent, not saying that she's healthy. I'd recommend talking to her about why her methods aren't efficient and maybe suggest a compromise, "I'll work on this if you work on that". Try to be as reasonable as possible. It might not work but it's worth a try.
As an INFP, I haven't met a certified ESTJ in real life, but I would like to meet one. Like, are we as different as everyone saids we are? Or can we come to an understanding and maybe, maybe not, create a friendship out of it? Although... I don't really talk that much, nor do I make 'friends' that often. I find it rather stressful to keep up 'relationships' with people as well. Am I biting off more than I can chew? Probably :| I'll bring my INTJ best friend for support and my INTP friend for hilariously structured commentaries if the conversation ever gets too dry^^
I actually think there are types that can be even more different. ESTPs have all the reverse functions and their energy can be outright terrifying to me sometimes. My mom is an ESTJ and we do get on each other’s nerves sometimes but with people who have the same functions you do but backward it’s that little hint of common ground that really gives you the knowledge of how to push each other’s buttons to such a degree. 😈
as an ENFP, I can confim that the answer is yes!! XNFP and XSTJ is so different, especially the way we see the world and how we face difficult situation in life! but I would say, NFP and STJ will complete each other really well just because your weakness is their strength and vice versa.
ESTP's are far more terrifying for an INFP. My ESTJ boyfriend I at least find his patriarchal old-school temper quite amusing to watch. ESTP are more like just..... actual jerks. ESTJ do actually care, they just have no idea how to do that in a soft way. INFPs are probably the only people who can break or soften them a bit. I reckon it's because the ESTJ subconscious is INFP. So I always see them as deep down adorable puppies.
@@amytiffanyhemingway totally agree with you Amy!! I'm dating ESTJ and honestly he cares about me in his own hard way. they love you by telling you the truth and they try to shape you to be a better person.
@@Sweetcakeyum exactly! I've had to learn not to get upset when he gives me harsh truths, as it is actually childish of me to get upset and cry and think that gets me out of it. Actually I have to face up to myself and try and improve. I've learned more from being with him for a short time than I have my whole life.
Some of that is true, but if you are a well-developed ESTJ like me, I did not resonate with much of this. This is a representation of an immature ESTJ.
parent one hit me hard. mother is estj, but luckily i want to be a psychologist which isnt too far off from scientist, what she is, so therefore it is acceptable. 😃
@@amytiffanyhemingway anything is possible, it’s not just your dad who raises you. There are a bunch of influences, my mum is an ENFJ with an ISTP dad for example.
The Bible says not to curse *but I don’t know if you’re a Christian or not but If you’re atheist/not Christian feel free to ignore although it may not seem like that big of a deal. Ciao😊✌️
You said "You're fired" in the wrong voice. I'm an ESTJ and this was annoying to me (as someone who prefers clean, wholesome humor) and only a little accurate. I like Dear Kristin and Frank James' channels, they rely on stereotypes as well but they're a little more accurate and funnier.
The ESTJ's are one of the most horrifying personalities i've ever seen. Hope i never encounter one of them in my life! This personality terrifies me so much to the point where i just want to escape from them! ☹️😖 P.S. - No hate to ESTJ's. - I'm an ISFJ
I think you encounter us daily! Most of the managers, agents, officers, ... are ESTJs. Don't be so afraid, not all of us are so mean or cruel for no reason! You know, most things can't be done if we're not around.
A normal ESTJ is ok but you’d have no idea how I changed from ENFP to ENTP by having a toxic narcissistic ESFJ boss for 4 years 😂😂😂 Always pick a fight to feel superior and I have to fight back with logic everyday. 😂😂😂 Always gaslight other people that our team are the bad guys. I have to prove myself all the time that it’s not my fault. All my co-workers (in my team) are “I” and she always pick a fight with me “E” … like what is wrong with you. You can’t habe fun so you want to put me down? The “You’re fired, even if you’re not working for me” is so accurate. she literally said that to me …kind of … she said “If you don’t do just as I said … do you want your bonus this year to fly away?” But she’s not the one who pay the salary and she’s not actually the boss she’s just the oldest but our positions are on the same level so we have to find someone to act as a head of the department. She used to be okay until the previous head quit her job and she took place, that’s when shit happen she revealed her true self. At least in our department nobody likes her and she finds it crazy how can we hate her…like …girl it’s not us, it’s you. What can I do, she’s sick and need therapy but I won’t feel sorry for her. I used to hope she would realize it one day but now I don’t. I hope she rot and burned in hell instead.😊❤ What a long complaining 😂 Hope she saw it so she can get crazy and pick more fight. It’s kinda fun now since I’m getting used to it.
ESTJs could fight the sun and win
Neither I knew that
Ty 💪shine bright like a diamond
Hah?
Fight anything but INFP😎
that's our biggest enemy, he can rule the entire world (and we can't) that's why we like night, because we're not under sun's imperium (we still kinda are but nevermind)
When ESTJs work, they work hard. But surprisingly they party hard too and would actually be a great person to have fun with!
Great then!
Yep, my mom (ESTJ) is a real people person and you'd almost think she was an ESFJ. But when you listen carefully you figure out she isn't. ESTJs can have a really good "DO ABSOLUTELY NOTHING" mode too, when they've finished everything they need to do.
Truth!
@@nerysghemor5781 how does that mode look? Ad opposd to other types when they finish all they have to do
That’s me😂😂😂 I work hard but party a lil TOO hard…. Yea I’m a estj
I'm an INFP with an ESTJ boyfriend and this is so spot on lol 😂 "facts don't care about your feelings" haha no shit
You're dating a cluster b
Tell me how can i make infp like me🙂🙂🙂
@@zener5081 Are you male or female? I am soooo happy to help I thought no-one would ever ask no ESTJ anyway
@zener respect their opinions, feelings, worldview, if u wanna discuss it - make it a polite discussion, no harsh statements, or infp WILL retaliate 100 times worse. No one is allowed to disrespect their worldview. Well, otherwise, just don't be a stick in the ass all the time. Oh also, I think the most impressive part of the sentinels (assuming u ARE ESTJ) for the diplomats is actually getting stuff done - chores, lists, overall - being able to just do it, so if u can help them with that (to get them out of their head and help do the real world stuff) - you'll be a prince[ss] Charming. (From an enfp who can shapeshift into an infp)
@@ShipperTrash yeah my biggest gain from ESTJ partner has got to be the 'get it done' pushing and also 'don't let people treat you like a doormat' mentality
ESTJs can be scary, but if you take their inferior Fi out for the world to see, they are cute :D
Don't do that I'd get a heart attack
@@redbest1943 hehe
I've never been quite able to figure out whether my mom, who tested as ESTJ, really is that type or not. I've ultimately come to the conclusion she is just really balanced, though I do think she borders somewhat on ESFJ. :-)
@@nerysghemor5781 Te can seem pretty similar to Fe. Both are problem solving functions, who often will focus on the problems of others. Fe will focus more on the emotional side of things, trying to solve the emotional climate, harmony or individual people's emotions and Te will focus more on the classical sense of problem solving, either of individuals or whole groups (such as work).
So Te doms, often try and solve other people's problems, but depending on how healthy they are they can either do it in a domineering way (Gordon Ramsay), do it in a calm, cold and collected way (most common type of Te dom) or even in a warm way (when they are comfortable enough to show their Fi). But main way to tell a Te dom, is that even if the problem is internal (such as emotional) they will focus on solving it externally, via either doing things for you, helping you solve real life problems, finding solutions. They are the most natural problem solvers. So a healthy Te dom can seem like a healthy Fe dom, but you will notice they focus much much more on solving external problems instead of internal ones.
@@farrex0 Ultimately I’d say my mom does go the external solutions route but is very balanced and healthy so she doesn’t feel a need to hide her feelings too much.
As an ESTJ the thing is that we do what we are supposed to in the moment, like if its to work we work, if its to party we party
My ex is an ESTJ and this is spot on!!! But he's adorable and cute when he expressed his true feelings... They can be vulnerable too, u know.
I'm INTP and my older sister is ESTJ and I can confirm this, she's a Karen
That's messed up😭
Shit damn. Out here, just incase you need an ISTP brother. But you're going on the couch
@@jayjo1819 oh well I'm INTJ lol
I was mistyped
@@nicolo2227 extend this offer to your mother then
Karen’s beautiful shut up
INFJ: most misunderstood mbti
ESTJ: most misunderstood mbti in the mbti community
As an intp, I can appreciate a teacher who will make deadlines and parameters clear.
That's literally Dwight Shrude😭😂 the whole "office" estj skit
As an ESTJ (who is not like Dwight) I don't like the Office, why would you work for years in a boring place that you hate? I enjoy working and want to do a job I like.
@@sarahberkner bro chill it's just a sitcom about a paper supply company mockumentary
@@sarahberkner Dwight never hated to work on dunder mifflin. He, as an legit estj (like me) always fought to be the best on the company and to make everyone have their job done
Voldemort fears this guy.
they called it work for a reason
😂 best wisdom words of the century
i am an ESTJ and this shorts describe me well and correct
ESTJs are like a stereotypical Drill Sergeant
I'm INFJ, and I'm pretty sure that my sister is ESTJ. We are pretty much the opposites except the judging part. We both prefer to have a plan to stick with, even though I can be more openminded for new ideas. We both also got pretty similar moral ideas, although I usually try to explain calmly my POV while she usually just shouts that they're wrong
bro I'm an estj-a and my brother is an infp-t, this video is everything🤣
I love ESTJs!
I’m an INFP and I actually liked having an ESTJ most of the time on group projects at school because they could whip everyone else into shape and I didn’t have to be the one to do it. And as teachers I often liked them because yes, they were hard asses but they were clear about what they wanted, didn’t play favorites, or change the rules midstream.
I don’t :D - INFP
@@Ropewatch No personality type, when unhealthy, is pleasant to be around.
@@nerysghemor5781 yep pretty accurate on most of the group projects iam on iam the leader and basically command everyone give them roles and stuff most people think iam an asshole for being so commanding but like who cares
@@Ropewatch what did my personality type do to you
This is so right. These are the people that will gaslight you and make you their scapegoat. The Karens of the world. My mom is one. She makes my life hell as an INFJ-T.
I'm sorry that she does that but that's not because she's an ESTJ, if she is one. We don't all have serious anger management issues or are emotionally manipulative. Healthy ESTJ parents are direct and rather unemotional and genuinely want to do a good job as a parent, not saying that she's healthy. I'd recommend talking to her about why her methods aren't efficient and maybe suggest a compromise, "I'll work on this if you work on that". Try to be as reasonable as possible. It might not work but it's worth a try.
I'm an ESTJ but not that annoying because my Te is feminine
I dont know how but i like estjs a lot
-Infj whose Fe is on loose
He make me think about Sheldon
As an INFP, I haven't met a certified ESTJ in real life, but I would like to meet one. Like, are we as different as everyone saids we are? Or can we come to an understanding and maybe, maybe not, create a friendship out of it?
Although... I don't really talk that much, nor do I make 'friends' that often. I find it rather stressful to keep up 'relationships' with people as well. Am I biting off more than I can chew? Probably :| I'll bring my INTJ best friend for support and my INTP friend for hilariously structured commentaries if the conversation ever gets too dry^^
I actually think there are types that can be even more different. ESTPs have all the reverse functions and their energy can be outright terrifying to me sometimes. My mom is an ESTJ and we do get on each other’s nerves sometimes but with people who have the same functions you do but backward it’s that little hint of common ground that really gives you the knowledge of how to push each other’s buttons to such a degree. 😈
as an ENFP, I can confim that the answer is yes!! XNFP and XSTJ is so different, especially the way we see the world and how we face difficult situation in life! but I would say, NFP and STJ will complete each other really well just because your weakness is their strength and vice versa.
ESTP's are far more terrifying for an INFP. My ESTJ boyfriend I at least find his patriarchal old-school temper quite amusing to watch. ESTP are more like just..... actual jerks. ESTJ do actually care, they just have no idea how to do that in a soft way. INFPs are probably the only people who can break or soften them a bit. I reckon it's because the ESTJ subconscious is INFP. So I always see them as deep down adorable puppies.
@@amytiffanyhemingway totally agree with you Amy!! I'm dating ESTJ and honestly he cares about me in his own hard way. they love you by telling you the truth and they try to shape you to be a better person.
@@Sweetcakeyum exactly! I've had to learn not to get upset when he gives me harsh truths, as it is actually childish of me to get upset and cry and think that gets me out of it. Actually I have to face up to myself and try and improve. I've learned more from being with him for a short time than I have my whole life.
Estj x entj either a power or full blown chaotic Boss type
As an INFP idk why m laughing😂😂😂😂
Please as an INFP DON’T GIVE ME THIS PEOPLE AH DON’T
Im INFP and I love ESTJs wayyy to much D:
Thanks for saying that a lot of people think iam an absolute asshole for being an estj
@@der.schutze estjs are great, iam an infp with estj best friend, he's like my brother to me
@@der.schutze im estj..itsa love hatesituation with everyone..i just accept it more with age. Quality over quantity.
Why? What qualities do you like about them?
Some of that is true, but if you are a well-developed ESTJ like me, I did not resonate with much of this. This is a representation of an immature ESTJ.
well thats cool
Favorite estj is the music one!! And God bless ya!
parent one hit me hard. mother is estj, but luckily i want to be a psychologist which isnt too far off from scientist, what she is, so therefore it is acceptable. 😃
I was hoping for some compilation videos.😁
I’m an infp and I think my boyfriend is Estj. There is some truth to this but he is equally hilarious. His truths get coddled by his cute delivery.
My dad’s an ESTJ 😑
My mom's an ESTJ lol
I think so too but he won't take test lol
I was wondering if ESTJ dads make INFP daughters?
@@amytiffanyhemingway anything is possible, it’s not just your dad who raises you. There are a bunch of influences, my mum is an ENFJ with an ISTP dad for example.
Are you born your type? I wonder what makes you your type
The Bible says not to curse *but I don’t know if you’re a Christian or not but If you’re atheist/not Christian feel free to ignore although it may not seem like that big of a deal. Ciao😊✌️
BRO WTH THIS IS DIFFERENT FROM MY PERSONALITY!!! I NEED TO RETAKE THE TEST
The toilet one 😆😆😆
ESTJs >>>>
ESTJ is the best, MBT I
We can it work for a reason- so true
my best friend is an estj and this isn’t really accurate to her but this was pretty funny.
As an estj this hits annoyingly hard
Based!
ESTJ is the best type
Nah, ENTJ is better
@@kaannagumanov1185 nah
Thanks
@@der.schutze yeah
Love your confidence though
I'm this😂
You said "You're fired" in the wrong voice.
I'm an ESTJ and this was annoying to me (as someone who prefers clean, wholesome humor) and only a little accurate. I like Dear Kristin and Frank James' channels, they rely on stereotypes as well but they're a little more accurate and funnier.
INFP : I hate you !
I don't hate you but I think maybe you'd be happier if you let go of some of your hate and anger toward people you've never met.
My crush mbti is infp!!!!!!!!
The ESTJ's are one of the most horrifying personalities i've ever seen. Hope i never encounter one of them in my life! This personality terrifies me so much to the point where i just want to escape from them! ☹️😖
P.S. - No hate to ESTJ's.
- I'm an ISFJ
boo
I think you encounter us daily! Most of the managers, agents, officers, ... are ESTJs.
Don't be so afraid, not all of us are so mean or cruel for no reason! You know, most things can't be done if we're not around.
What is so horrifying about them?
All's correct
Are you ESTJ
I love how his music version is American while the parents version is asian
A normal ESTJ is ok but you’d have no idea how I changed from ENFP to ENTP by having a toxic narcissistic ESFJ boss for 4 years 😂😂😂 Always pick a fight to feel superior and I have to fight back with logic everyday. 😂😂😂 Always gaslight other people that our team are the bad guys. I have to prove myself all the time that it’s not my fault.
All my co-workers (in my team) are “I” and she always pick a fight with me “E” … like what is wrong with you. You can’t habe fun so you want to put me down?
The “You’re fired, even if you’re not working for me” is so accurate. she literally said that to me …kind of … she said “If you don’t do just as I said … do you want your bonus this year to fly away?” But she’s not the one who pay the salary and she’s not actually the boss she’s just the oldest but our positions are on the same level so we have to find someone to act as a head of the department. She used to be okay until the previous head quit her job and she took place, that’s when shit happen she revealed her true self. At least in our department nobody likes her and she finds it crazy how can we hate her…like …girl it’s not us, it’s you. What can I do, she’s sick and need therapy but I won’t feel sorry for her. I used to hope she would realize it one day but now I don’t. I hope she rot and burned in hell instead.😊❤
What a long complaining 😂 Hope she saw it so she can get crazy and pick more fight. It’s kinda fun now since I’m getting used to it.
Light
This is a male ESTJ in the US not everywhere and everyone
My results say ESTJ but I'm not really like that
This is very stereotypical.
Was that Zucchero?
Facts don’t care about your feelings lol the typical Conservative slogan
You add narcissist to this type and they are monsters!
yes it s me haha
My sister....a botch.
ESTJ parents are basically Asian hahahahahaha
Bruh!!!
heheheehe
Hatred of humans
Mostly not true))