Signs You Are Maturing (Even If You Don't Think So)
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- Опубликовано: 6 июн 2024
- We’re tempted to think a person is mature simply because of their chronological age. But what if we told you that maturity, as a mental and psychological state, has very little to do with physical age, but more to do with how we learn and adapt? Here are few signs you are maturing (even if you don’t think so!)
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Coller, Nancy. (2017). How to quiet the little voice in your head. Psychology Today. Retrieved from www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/inviting-monkey-tea/201710/how-quiet-the-little-voice-in-your-head
Martin, Sharon (2019, May 31). What is self-love and why is it so important? Psych Central. Retrieved from psychcentral.com/blog/imperfect/2019/05/what-is-self-love-and-why-is-it-so-important#Putting-self-love-into-practice
Raypole, C. (2020, April 28). How to control your emotions: 11 strategies to try. Healthline. Retrieved from www.healthline.com/health/how-to-control-your-emotions#read-the-room
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This is the "middle way" in zen Buddhism. Focus through prioritization requires detachment.
Hii
Love you psych2go
Yes, I watch the videos that come out on my feed. 👍🏻😃
1. 0:22 you discuss ideas, not people
2. 1:06 you love yourself as much as you love others
3. 1:50 you take responsibility for your stuff
4. 2:33 you understand not everything requires your opinion
5: 3:15 you know how to give and also how to receive
6. 4:09 you quite the voice in your head that insist that something is always wrong
7. 5:14 you manage your emotions instead of being controlled by them
#3 is at 1:50 not 1:05 thanks for the timestamps tho 🐸
@@twitchykg Thankxzz :bidoof:
Everything except for 2, 6 (but not always) and 7 :D
Im so fking immature gosh..
Kis my azz bith
"Maturity doesn't mean you stop fighting, you just change the things you fight for"
- life
I actually want to just stop fighting. Everyone is saying that life is a fight and keep fighting and I tried to see life as a fight and that's what was killing me. I tried and I didn't like it. To get new results you need new actions. So maybe I should try not fighting.
I agree with finding new results with new solutions. Fighting could cause conflict, sadness, perseverance or maybe even success depending on the person because we're all different in our own distinctive ways.
Maybe, for those who don't want to fight, try going on a journey of accepting or living along with the flow of life instead of pushing against the waves that'll push you right back to where you started. Work with it, hand in hand, and cooperate as a team.
I wish everyone to take care of their wellbeing and to put the betterment of yourself first. Be your #1 supporter and outshine/drown out the #1 critic within you.
Power to you all and as always much love❤❤❤
I highly suggest 2 songs with great philosophy that may help you.
Drift Like a Cloud, and Flow Like Water
And
Overthinker
The artist is Inzo I think? 1 sec I'll double check.
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@@user-ku9xx1gw3vI don't see my original comment? I'm just trying to help someone out with some music recommendations.
If you see my other one and I don't, I double checked, the artist is Inzo. Drift like a cloud and flow like water, and Overthinker both jams have wonderful philosophical lyrics I think may help you out. 😇
After watching this video, I am correct when other people/me say I'm still maturing. Which to me, means I'm on the right track(to positivity). Just not quite there yet. But it has taken me years to get this far and I'm still struggling. But I know/feel that as long as I keep on moving on in the right direction, I'll become more positive one day.😊
remember, if you don't have some of these points; it doesn't mean you're not maturing
it just means you now have a chance to now
as for me, I only have half of them, and all I thought was
"wow, I'm growing; that's good"
100%!!
I have the same. I am Growing. ❤. Way mature than last year
Thank you! Very encouraging
I mean, recognizing the things you can improve is also a mature thing to do (of course, if you just recognize it but don’t do anything to improve your current situation then that might be a problem).
i had like all of them except the last one maybe, ill try to change that
I like to put it this way: everybody gets older but not everyone grows up
Mhm 👍
Exactly, people think they gets older that mean they are grown up, it's actually wrong
Time travelled again
hello fellow time traveller :D 👋
Hello timetraveller 👋 :)
Hello timetraveller 👋 :)
Hello timetraveller 👏 :)
I am from the future
Out of all 7 of these, i only take responsibility in my mistakes and being good at giving but no so much receiving. I know I'm not mature so I'm trying to get better. Thanks for this video ❤
A very mature comment so you're on the right track :)
I absolutely love the lady's voice in all the videos it's so calming & gentle to be able to listen recieve & understand & her tone of voice is PERFECT it's not patronizing critical or judgemental or harsh ( i hope she knows all this as it's important for people so they can learn) please don't change it!!! Love from Australia 🦘😎👍
WHY ARE THE COMMENTS FROM 1 YEAR AGO
this video was probably for members only a year ago
THEY ARE?!?
The channel keeps reposting old videos here and there for some reason.
@@motafu1wait fr??
You know these points if fact resonate with me since back then I used to have a problem with controlling my anger since I was bullied before and at times made fun of.But over the year's I have learnt to stop caring as much as to what people thought about me and just started focusing more on myself and growth as a person.So if anything I have learnt to control my anger even when people try to provoc me.😊
Growth comes from vulnerability and an environment that holds space and love for that vulnerability. Mothers be praised. And Psych2go for holding space too
YOUR VOICE IS THE ONLY ASMR I NEED
0:23 point 1
1:06 point 2
1:50 point 3
2:32 point 4
3:15 point 5
4:08 point 6
5:13 point 7
Timestamps but watch whole video for more deeper insight.
This video actually makes me finally realize that others really are trying to keep others from reaching a place of maturity.
It also verifies to me many things. Like how there are very few people who will ever become mature.
It also lets me see that I am not so much the problem and that this last year I have been moving exponentially fast in the right directions.
It also though makes me realize that I can not continue to live around a lot of people that I do because they simply refuse to become mature. I have spent so many years trying to help them grow and it only has harmed me. Because they do not want to grow and they have tried to destroy me through manipulation and backstabing.
They do not want friends they want slaves. And because I am not the type of person who allows such things to happen to me it only made them more aggressive in their attempts. Once I started freeing myself they did everything they could to drive me back down into that hole and because I refused they went too far. They were never my friends and I wasted a lot of love on people who never deserved it in the first place.
I am not sure if I can escape them yet. Most of them have moved on and abandoned me to die. There is one chance I may be able to move out of my chains. If that falls thru I am going to be forced to become homeless to escape them. But at least I will not be around them anymore and they will not be able to keep destroying my life.
I hope they stop hurting you.
@@Rosiewarriorscats thank you for your thoughts. God bless. Shalom
Thank you. The message, the art and the narration was beautiful. I felt so comforted. Thank you
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I love y’all videos so much. It helped me through a lot in my life and help me figure out a lot about myself. I thank y’all a lot for your help.
We all as a kid always want to be grown up cuz there is alot of restriction for young people I guess :/
Currently working on number 9&10. Its incredibly hard, and i wish the best to those going through the same. Never give up!
Oh man, this is just what I needed!!
Thank you, psych2go team.
Never disappointed yet.
0:22 You discuss ideas.
1:06 As much as you love everyone else, you also love yourself.
1:50 you take responsibility for your stuff.
2:33 You understand that not everything requires your opinion.
3:15 You know how to give and also how to receive.
4:06 You quiet the voice in your head that insists that something is wrong.
5:13 You manage your emotions instead of being controlled by them.
So the signs that you are maturing :
1. You discuss ideas, not people .
2. As much as you love everyone else, you also love yourself.
3. You take responsibility for your stuff.
4. You understand that not everything requires your opinion.
5. You know how to give and also how to receive.
6. You quiet the voice in your head that insists that something is always wrong
7. You manage your emotions instead of being controlled by them
Thank you. I really needed to hear this today. It gives me hope and motivation to do the right thing even though I feel like I'm being tested 🙏
They are among us!!
Sus
Amogus
@@Jubbinn_lmao- your comment translated to "theirs" XD
@@Lilith_StardustYT "sus" is also Romanian for "up" (obviously not with the exact same pronunciation as in English)
@@C4Oc.That comments are 1 year ago but this video is 5 days ago??
I discuss ideas. I feel like I know a lot about the human mind, so I never tend to jump to conclusions. Instead, I try to figure out what the person was thinking and why. The mind is a very interesting topic for me.
I still struggle with loving myself, but I'm subtly getting better at that, but it'll take time, and I'm okay with that. It'll be worth it in the future. I do know who I am now. I know my personality.
I used to think I was never wrong. It was always everyone else. But now, I acknowledge my mistakes, and strive to not make them again. I've struggled with thinking extremely highly of myself, being entitled and having a god complex, but I know that I'm not the main character in everyone else's stories. Only my own, and that's fine with me.
I have an opinion on everything, but I only show it on things I'm more passionate about, or that relate to me on a personal level. Otherwise, I just scroll and leave it be. But sometimes, I'll admit, I can go off on a rant to either myself or others on a topic I don't know about. And I regret it afterwards. I still have a lot to learn and work on. Nothing time and patience won't hell with.
I give and give, no matter how it affects me. It's something I struggle with greatly, often resulting in myself losing resources I need. But receiving? That's hard. My entire life, I've been told I was worthless, would amount to nothing, and didn't deserve anything good. So I struggle with accepting compliments and gifts. This is one of my weakest qualities listed in this video, and I just want to learn how to receive something without feeling like I don't deserve it.
Insecurity goes hand in hand with loving myself, for me. It's something I've struggled with since I was little, and I've found it difficult for me to accept everything. But of course, time and patience are my friends right now.
I've been getting very good at managing my emotions. I feel it, let it happen, but don't let it control me. Now, I'm human, so of course I slip up at times. But that's why I have such forgiving friends, because they know it was a heat of the moment thing, and that I'm trying. All you can do is try. When you're trying as hard as you can to do something, and people tell you to "try harder", that irks and invalidates me because I can't try harder if I'm already trying my hardest. And my friend get that.
I love your videos. Thank you so much for giving everyone access to important aspects in psychology. You guys have helped me through more than I'd want to admit. Keep it up, Psych2Go! You're a true G!
Omg the animation looks so cuteeeee❤❤ kudos to the new editor🎉❤
This made me feel better, i'm 19 but because of quarantine and other stuff i feel like i'm still kinda childlish
But watching this video it kinda slaped me in my face that, yeah, i have grow as a person, more than i thought i did
So thank you❤
Can you please make "thing you can do when feeling anxious"
Great, I'm not maturing at all.
...no duh... you have a profile picture of sans with swag shades
@@DualityStrikes do you just casually assume everyone having a sans profile is the cause or a sign of their immaturity and toxic behavior, and not something deeper? nothing wrong with being a huge undertale fan, but maybe if you actually see them being cancerous individuals towards other individuals and i’m still the same person as i was 4 years ago, maybe you’d be right.
also, it’s not like having a star as your profile and the way you observe people’s leading cause of immaturity makes you seem any more matured.
Needed this so much thank you 💕
thanks for this! now I know what to work on, where I'm already improving and how I can grow :3
It took me years, but I finally learned somewhat about number 7, number 6 I’m still trying to work on. Don’t worry everyone, if you think you’re not mature, just know no one starts there and it’s a part of your life journey- you can do it eventually if you believe in yourself enough, and even if you make mistakes, everyone does it’s no problem! Continuing to believe and maybe slight steps that may seem meaningless, is actually incredibly meaningful. It might not seem that way at the moment but you’ll look back at it that way in the long term.
Thanks for the video keep doing the amazing work psych2go
Thank you. Your videos are so helpful.
Please, please do an audio book. your voice is so calm and soothing.😊
Your channel is the best channel on these topics ❤
what I really got it that mature people who are accepted for themselves and dared to say no when they mean it and help others when they can. and the most important thing when they discuss something with people they seek to learn from them and know well earn Friend is better than earn situations. additional for that no one is perfect so no need to blame yourself or others about mistakes just forget and focus to learn from your mistakes and other's mistakes too ❤❤🎉 keep going towards a better life with mindfully focusing living the moment 😊😊❤
Even though there r a lot of elder ones to guide me(my parents,grandparents,teachees)or when I need advice,yet the person I always reach out is my sister who is just 2 yrs older than me,for some reason,I find her to be the maturest person ever and hence I always reach out to her when ever I am feeling down!
Yes, I'm mature and ahead of time with this video
I lost sight of myself and stopped caring, but in a bad way. Thanks for helping me get back up.😮💨❤️
Loved it❤!We love this kinda stuffs and also ourselves😊❤
It makes me feel good that I recognise many of these signs in myself. 😊😍 Being able to quiet the voice in my head is still a working point though
I'm getting there, and I am happy with that.
Wow, this made me realize that I'm more mature than I thought, and thanks for the joke at the end, it made me smile a much needed genuine smile ❤
Love to hear this ❤ 🥰
We should all just appreciate how cute all of the animations are❤️
This video helped me some that matururing doesn't depend on age its ur ability to tell yourself no and yes and giving ideas which ik i love to do thanks for he vid i loved it and i seen some of ur past videos stuff on mental health helps spicially how people are these days and the way socia media is affecting most people in our lives
I love how the emotions have the same colours of the emotions in inside out
as much as i want to have friends that talk about ideas, interests, future plans and stay away from too much gossiping, society seems to love gossiping and drama too much that it's sadly hard to find friends like those
Thanks for this
That's what I've been trying to tell people, but not everybody wants to listen. Maturing doesn't depend on age it depends on how you are mentally!!! Thank you for making that clear.❤
Honestly, I have to say thanks for the video. I've been looking for this for some days now... Some kind of video or metric that can show me if I'm really doing this maturity thing well? I loved the description for point number 3 (taking responsibility) because I struggle with this so much, I can't tell who's wrong or who should be validated me or the person who offended my feelings? Also the last point about emotions... I don't know if I'm controlling or managing them but I do know that I process them so much sometimes even grieve them and people always make me feel weak for being too sensitive.. but thanks for the video
the only one Im good at currently is discussing ideas not people
Im trying to get better at loving myself, managing my emotions, understanding that not everything requires my opinion, giving and receiving gifts graciously, and knowing when I am responsible for something
and as someone who gets anxious pretty easily, Im also trying to stop catestrophizing (idk how to spell that) bcs really theres no point worrying over something that isnt worth it
I think all of those combined will not only help make me more mature, but also more confident and happy w myself
It’s the last 2 that I’m currently working on . But one step at a time . P.S. I love watching these videos ❤
Let me be completely honestly with you. I know how to manage my emotions, i cry because i know im strong enough not to hide it. But also manage it and explain why i'm upset in the first place. Even in my age regressed form, i still manage my emotions like a champ. Because whenever i'm pissed, i don't shout at the person i just ignore them as if they don't exist. Age doesn't define maturity, a 40 year old can still act like a toddler and a 8 year old can be extremely mature. It just solely depends on your behaviours, personallity and mindset. So remember this, being mature is a good thing. Emotionally and mentally. Never give up Psych2goers!
Unique points Psych2Go...with amazing animation and beautiful voice modulation😊😊. Thank you Psych2Go 😇😇.
Thank you for this video. I realized that I really AM mature. Thanks.
Thank you for your videos
I'm understanding that not everything requires my opinion and some people are not going to understand nor change neither, so I take some space from them and I understand when silence is better.
Still working on maturing, but I’m getting there. ❤
after seeing the "manage your emotions" part, i realized that happines sometimes has a hold on me, when i'm in pain -smile! just ignore the pain. When clasmates are saying stuoid stuff about me -Smile!! even if it's sometimes part true, just don't listen. Something bad has hapened -SMILE!!! Don't care about it (but this example only goes so far, there are limits for me)
Psych2Go, I'm really grateful for your videos. They made me learn and understand myself a lot better than I used to be.
Apparently I'm a nice psychopath who is also empathetic and not a good liar who also has ADHD in his little brain. It took a few hours of research but, yeah. My inner-workings are an enigma.
Then, I pity myself whenever I "measure" the level of my maturity and know that I fall short for it. Now, I can say that I have grown in wisdom but it costs me pains, sufferings, and trials. I have learned that being matured is a product of reflected experiences and not age.
I'm a slow learner but I've learned.
I think maturity comes with the experiences in your life is something you cant change like you want in my life i learn to live with what i have and not what i want we need to think we can't get everything we want in life just be happy with what you have and ALLWAYS be yourself.
It's always a journey and some days I just don't feel like adulting. But I feel like most of my mental maturing happened between about 13 and 23, now that I am almost 30 it feels like things have settled into a stable state. At this point it is hard to tell if I am well adjusted or stopped growing.
I struggle with number 7. Easier said than done but I will overcome it.
Thank you and lol 😆 I learned have some things to work on ❤
I've been working on verbalizing my feelings without dramatic outbursts. I just don't let it stew and build up. I figured I felt misunderstood because I was not making my thoughts and feelings clear.
Need to work on 6 and 7 😩
Just because I know how to acknowledge my emotions, regulate decisive behaviour and rationally moderate coherent responses to everyday situations, it doesn't mean I won't stop skipping around my flat, squeaking at my cat and making crazy noises when I get home.
I am still working on self love, but I cant stop thinking that I am the problem and then let my emotion just beat me down with my own thoughts.
This video reminds me of stoicism. It takes a while to practice and apply them but it benefits you.
I am not perfect yet, but this video made me realize that I have made some solid progress over the past few years.
A couple of weeks ago that I found I might have some self worth issues. It's kind of interesting. I've always been a confident person, I like my own appearance, I know I'm capable of great things, and I know I'm loved.
Recently however, when I was on vacation with my family I was chilling on the couch. When my sibling and their partner came to have lunch they offered to prepare some for me too. I was hesitant to accept work being done for me or to specify, how I wanted it done, when I wasn't doing anything myself. The partner felt a need to reassure me that I was worth it.
I've grown up with a lot of stressful situations where I've been rushed, which has made me develop the mindset that I shouldn't have someone serving me whilst I'm just slacking off. Being on the receiving end feels like an investment that I'm obligated to pay back. A mindset that I know might not be healthy in its current form, but I'm working on it.
COMMENTS FROM A YEAR AGO??? OMG
Never let go of the people you love
Thank god for maturing. Growing up is hard, but I much prefer this bliss of living life and making hard decisions than feeling lost and worthless at 16. I did learn to love myself as I grew up.
Thanks alot
Thanks for joining early!! We hope this video helps you!
Don't forget when ideas involve people though.
The inside voice telling me to do several things hit me hard.
When I was little, I was really hyperactive when I turned 14, I started to feel tired every day and become not very active.
Wow i noticed my inner child has left me , when in a waterpark my friend has a blast and i just felt nothing
i have a huge issue of making my problems other peoples fault and also a lot of "not loving myself" behavior 😢 but other than that i relate at least a little with all of this
The "you quiet the voice in your head that insists" bit almost made me cry in the middle of grocery shopping jeez i really need to work on this for myself
I can do everything else that's mentioned in the video rather fine, so I'm proud of myself!
I’m not quite there as I have long ways to go. However, I’m proud to say that I’ve come far. I had to realize my biggest flaw was a development delay which meant my maturity level never reached my age on time. Knowing that, though, helps me work on it. It’s very much still a me thing as a reason for an action doesn’t excuse an action. And you are not defined by your mental disabilities or set backs either. Life is a journey, and if you are progressing slower, know it’s not about the speed but the destination ❤
Indeed, you are correct. It is difficult to realize this early
5:01 How can i diminish that insecurity if i am autistic and shy and don't understand the underlines?
I was diagnosed with anxiety (it is more like social anxiety rn) as a child and i have that vouce teeling me my insecurities and, even though i learned a lot about how ppl think by some ppl who are and were in my close circle, i am not able to control that voice bc i barely understand the "underspeech" of ppl.
I can proudly say that i had always been mature.
Weird the comments say a year ago but this was barely posted 😅😂
What if I’m losing maturity? how do i regain it?
2:53 recently been finding myself deleting comments before I post them now
It is about damn time you matured.
It's not only sign but also a habit to be mature
A girl once proposed to me and I didnt know what to say and just ran away. I dont want that to happen again. How do I react when someone proposes or confesses their love to me?
But how do i become matured though ?
I struggle alot with self love...like I hate myself.
relatable
I am known as the most childish person around in my class, although I fit perfectly to all of these signs (except the last one). I just act more kiddish and have a smile on me because I know smiles are contagious. So I am still confused if I am actually mature
Youve gotta love it when you realize we're always maturing.
Hooray, I'm mature. :)
What I did see is that my thoughts was almost like delusions, and I began to doubt them, what I believe is false and is not in reality. It is a interpretation, to make sense of reality. My thoughts is my own delusions of reality, and it’s interpretation.
I know I am mature cause I had to be at a young age but I can't love myself and feel like no one cares about me cause that how I was raised. I didn't think I was really mature till I saw this.