Once my girlfriend's grand mother told me... Bal badhalo koi ladka sadi Ni karega...I replied I will get Marry to your granddaughter...🤣🤣🤣...fun fact we will get Marry 🤗🤗
It's about being healthy n not weight. Elephant is heavy but strongest. Deer is delicate but is so light n fastest to catch. Stop ur parents to worry about u n u take ur responsibility to b fit. Care n love URSELF. Near one hurt u more. Don't take any shit frm anybody including parents n siblings. U have work n hectic job still u need to work on ur health❤️👍
My height is just 4'11, I am tiny and I love being it now, but growing up, was difficult, always being bullied for it and being called tingi, choti bachi, by actual adults!, But this is soo empowering I've also learnt, was a slow process but have finally learnt to love myself for who I am and the way I am, and it goes way beyond just physical aspects.
The funny thing I have noticed abt my male friends who are on dating apps is how harsh they are in criticizing women on their looks, age and pictures. Frankly, these guys are no treat to look at and are superficial to judge people on looks. Really don't know what they were taught. But I am glad that not everyone is like them and I m not dating them. 🙏
*Ugly people don't want to be judged by looks, illiterate don't want to be judged on education , short people don't want to be judged on height , its just hypocrisy*
@@BooO0oOoOoOooOoOoyah body shaming women is so much more common tho also personally seen men being offensive to fat women and I read some articles(not able to share them here for some reason) Men who want sex with fat women but won’t date them- that’s the title
It´s a very educative and inspiring interview! Yes finally people are realizing the only effective way to happiness is be your authentic self and no one else should decide whether you are beautiful, sexy or not. Your outer world is the reflection of your inner world. How you feel about yourself inside is what you gonna attract people in your life.
i loved this video so much the whole thing about internalized hate is so true. the lgbtq+ community goes through so much that it's really easy for them to project their own insecurities and hate that they get onto others in the community. i'm so proud of everyone walking the path of self actualization and spreading love instead.
3:27 what he is saying is on point i have a friend she is like this .When ever I show her a celebrity .She almost always calls them ugly .For me these people are absolutely gorgeous and I always at the back of my mind feel like she probably feels see's me as ugly too and looks down on me .
I don’t think she thinks ur ugly, she probably calls the celebrities ugly because she is jealous, they have everything she doesn’t so she feels good when she looks down upon them or insults them.
Such shows are far more important and value adding in today’s scenario of faking life in social media… such conversations are only needed to change the mind set of people.. Thanks and lots of ❤️
If you want to change your appearance to please your partner, without the partner putting any pressure on your, it is simply known as LOVE. There is no oppression no discomfort in it.
@@agnessmith9548 Saying it in the open and putting it on your dating profile as a prerequisite are two different things. Chances of a mans dating profile getting permanently banned for typing this in, are much higher, than that of women having height as a prerequisite. Women can talk about height openly on a TV show but men can't possibly talk about their preference for womens' breasts as openly. Our Facebook and LinkedIn profiles would be flooded with derogatory messages. The double standards in society suck, big time. Also, this constant complaining about "female objectification" needs to stop. As above, we men have to deal with it too.
This boy is actually very talented, he's been to big boss, he sings and not to be wrong he represented india some international show as well (not sure about the name of the show)
@THE ZOLDICS some women have other aspirations in life than just grabbing a guy. Men are visual and look for good looks in a women. Fine. But when women look for affluent men, then they are termed as gold diggers. It is only fair trade. Why the hypocrisy?
People still never leave a chance to comment, body Shame, whatever they can do to highlight your flaws, which aren't even flaws at frst place, let us figure out, what we are, no advice needed thank you
Its not about looking fat, its about being fat which should not be embraced, not healthy. Also that after marriage point was which I agree to. You need to be healthy, not 0 figure but definitely healthy
I was wondering if I could get some advice. I met my crush in winter 2018. She'd come to me twice, apparently to chat. 1.) She once saw me on a bench, asked if I was studying for a quiz in our upcoming class, and still sat by me when I confirmed it. 2.) Weeks later, she went to my table when I was on my computer and asked if I was doing homework, which I denied before telling her to sit down. Since then, we'd only occasionally encounter each other and chat, having no classes together. A year ago, I said hey as she walked by, eyes on phone. While talking to me, she slowly walked her way to her class, and very casually, I walked beside her, being respectful and as if moving also to continue the conversation. She stopped walking as we chatted about her music class, and when she said she had to get going to it, I accepted and she said it was nice to see me. Similarly during finals that year, she asked how I was during a run-in and I paused as she passed me and slowly ✌"followed"✌ her, very casually, just trying to converse. I asked if she was stressed about finals like me, she said not really, and that she had to get to her music performance. I wished her luck and she said it back. Also, a couple of times that year I sat in a study lounge she was at, pretending I didn't see her, hoping she'd come to me. Both times when she left, probably for class, we made eye contract, smiled, and waved. I was too shy and respectful to call her over and bother her. I hope she didn't think I was being a creep. I saw her last Aug. at Starbucks. I asked her how she'd been despite the quarantine (which had kept us apart for months), told her I'd been hanging in there when she asked how I was, and said I was nervous about careers after graduating. She asked if I knew what I wanted to be, and I said writer and maybe play director. Asked questions about her courses and desired career too. When her drink was ready, she said she had to go. I didn't want to miss my chance again, so I turned back and said "Oh and one more thing. I was thinking maybe you and I could catch up over a Starbuck sometime, since it's been a while." She said yeah maybe but she'd been pretty busy. I said I understood and that I just thought it'd be nice since it's been a while. I think she said "Well maybe I'll see you around on campus." I said it was good to see her and ditto. I saw her last finals, when she passed my table as I was working on an art project. After eye contact, she asked how I was doing, I took off an earbud, and said "Hey, it's been a while." She was walking to the exit, probably had stuff to do, and she said have a good night. I wished her luck with finals and she said, "Thanks, you too." Sadly, she might have a boyfriend. She was with some man at a checkout counter. I came and she asked how I was. I asked what she was doing on break and if she was looking forward to Xmas. I said it was too bad quarantine came and ended my plan to relax on campus at the schools lodge with a book and personal art (I told her I like to have me time on campus even during summer and winter break). She said whatever happens happens, and that the quarantine is for the bets. I said that was debatable and she laughed (I really think big quarantine is unnecessary if you wash/mask up). I told her I was glad finals was over, how long I'd be staying up for projects, and how I napped in the school's library when I was finally done. I think she said I deserved it or something. She often seemed distracted as she bagged groceries, and I'd say I was doing most of the talking and she was a bit quiet. When I felt I should let her be, I said it was good to see her and walked away as she said the same to me. Well, I guess I shouldn't ask about catching up again right? That she's probably taken and the next time I see her, I should just smile, wave, say hi, and go on with my day?
Ask her out man. Or atleast get close to her, talk to her. Dont let this be a regret in your heart forever. I once liked a guy lot in college. I dropped hints and casually flirted with him, but would take it back if he noticed them. He shifted colleges now and quarantine happened, and we got closer talking over the phone and I confessed that I liked him, to which he said "Oh I liked you too". We both are in different relationships, different cities now and here and there I'd think how it might have been if i were just a little more confident and a little less anxious. Atleast I wont have this a s a regret, right? Ask her out man. What's the worst that could happen?
@@johnrainsman6650 yes, it surely can cure with the time but from now on you have to love yourself more. Maybe you both were meant to meet but not to be. I know it's very hard to accept the reality ( let it hurt then let it go) I believe in you "one day your heart will bloom again". I wish you to meet your special one in this upcoming years. 🎈🎉Happy New year 🎈🎉 [In advance] Edit: *"and what is meant to be will always find its way, ALWAYS."*
So basically the summary is, either your opinion is superior or mine😂😂😂. People say what's inside is important and also they are the ones who worry and care about how do they dress or look.
All good. But that fat lady needs to work on her health. Carrying 80 kgs on those bones not at all healthy. In long run, will create hell alot of issues. Rest all good. More power to you guys. 👍🏻
"But gay people also brush their teeth"
I LOVE responses like these to homophobia!!! lmfaooo
Casting director must have forget that brushing teeth does not determines the gender of a person. 😅😅
Sushant's hands are the most beautiful hands I have ever seen. 😍
Exactly
i love ur name
Very true
@@ivynandy2055 thankssss lol
I was just thinking abt this while watching the video 😍
Sushant definitely has a very charming personality, I wish I could be as comfortable with my thoughts and being myself as he is...damn attractive
Loved doing this ♥️♥️♥️♥️.
Loved watching you!
Big fan sir your amazing
So happy to see you ❤️
It's amazing . Thank you for doin this . 😊😊😊
You are amazing ♥️ Can't pull my eyes off you❤️🔥
He has such beautiful hands,,,,, I'm jealous dude
I absolutely love how Sushant carries himself. He loves himself so much ! Love it. Very endearing !
Thank you Sushant for being the positivity we ever needed
I gained a few pounds and all my mom says- Shaadi nai hogi. Shaadi k baad chaahe moti hojana.
I'm 26 and a doctor
Once my girlfriend's grand mother told me... Bal badhalo koi ladka sadi Ni karega...I replied I will get Marry to your granddaughter...🤣🤣🤣...fun fact we will get Marry 🤗🤗
@@nandinisharma1130 by
@@mdyhedut7487 bye
It's about being healthy n not weight. Elephant is heavy but strongest. Deer is delicate but is so light n fastest to catch. Stop ur parents to worry about u n u take ur responsibility to b fit. Care n love URSELF. Near one hurt u more. Don't take any shit frm anybody including parents n siblings. U have work n hectic job still u need to work on ur health❤️👍
@@nandinisharma1130 congratulations!!!
I need these three to give me a pep talk before every date 🥺👉👈
My height is just 4'11, I am tiny and I love being it now, but growing up, was difficult, always being bullied for it and being called tingi, choti bachi, by actual adults!, But this is soo empowering I've also learnt, was a slow process but have finally learnt to love myself for who I am and the way I am, and it goes way beyond just physical aspects.
4'11 is not tiny. My height is same
Complan piyo
@@sirantisocial9681 lol yeah, I don't get affected by such petty comments anymore, just feel sorry for you, nothing else 😄
@@vaishnaviguru8682 ok
Watch professional single....you will love it
The funny thing I have noticed abt my male friends who are on dating apps is how harsh they are in criticizing women on their looks, age and pictures. Frankly, these guys are no treat to look at and are superficial to judge people on looks. Really don't know what they were taught. But I am glad that not everyone is like them and I m not dating them. 🙏
*Ugly people don't want to be judged by looks, illiterate don't want to be judged on education , short people don't want to be judged on height , its just hypocrisy*
@@marketcrorepati5729 True. Also people that are shallow don't want to be reminded of their superficial nature.
@griffith looks like you don't know to read properly and interpreted everything your way. That's even sad. 😂😂😂😂
Females are no different at judging people, they body shame men like it's the norm to body shame men, hypocrisy at its best.
@@BooO0oOoOoOooOoOoyah body shaming women is so much more common tho also personally seen men being offensive to fat women and I read some articles(not able to share them here for some reason)
Men who want sex with fat women but won’t date them- that’s the title
This is GENUINELY informative, interesting, heartfelt, and sensibly done! KUDOS Bumble!!!!
It´s a very educative and inspiring interview! Yes finally people are realizing the only effective way to happiness is be your authentic self and no one else should decide whether you are beautiful, sexy or not. Your outer world is the reflection of your inner world. How you feel about yourself inside is what you gonna attract people in your life.
i loved this video so much
the whole thing about internalized hate is so true. the lgbtq+ community goes through so much that it's really easy for them to project their own insecurities and hate that they get onto others in the community. i'm so proud of everyone walking the path of self actualization and spreading love instead.
She is such a fantastic host. So good!
3:27 what he is saying is on point
i have a friend she is like this .When ever I show her a celebrity .She almost always calls them ugly .For me these people are absolutely gorgeous and I always at the back of my mind feel like she probably feels see's me as ugly too and looks down on me .
I don’t think she thinks ur ugly, she probably calls the celebrities ugly because she is jealous, they have everything she doesn’t so she feels good when she looks down upon them or insults them.
Sushant is a Diva the posture, the way he carries himself n spks wow 🥰
The background music is very irritating. Pls remove, the content is great does not require music at all.
Yes. Good point.
Correct💯
I was watching sushant throughout the conversation 😊most positive..natural and attractive
Internal hate n damage is more in society, family. Everywhere. True🙏. SUSHANT v love u❤️
Such shows are far more important and value adding in today’s scenario of faking life in social media… such conversations are only needed to change the mind set of people..
Thanks and lots of ❤️
Absolutely love this because this is subaltern or alternate conversation that the world needs.
i have never seen any man or woman more clear in their thought than a gay! lovely kohinoor!
If you want to change your appearance to please your partner, without the partner putting any pressure on your, it is simply known as LOVE. There is no oppression no discomfort in it.
Love sushant's hair ..its gorgeous....
I didn't know I needed this 😭😭💗
Hi
"Which closet can fit in all this FABULOSITY" !!!!! OH MYYYYYY
I mean the internalised homophobia is so real. Kudos for touching this topic👍🏽🙌🏽
"I don't date men under 6 ft" .. imagine if a man said, " I don't date women under size 34C". All hell would've broken lose.
Actually men say this every single day obviously not all bit many
@@agnessmith9548 Saying it in the open and putting it on your dating profile as a prerequisite are two different things. Chances of a mans dating profile getting permanently banned for typing this in, are much higher, than that of women having height as a prerequisite. Women can talk about height openly on a TV show but men can't possibly talk about their preference for womens' breasts as openly. Our Facebook and LinkedIn profiles would be flooded with derogatory messages.
The double standards in society suck, big time. Also, this constant complaining about "female objectification" needs to stop. As above, we men have to deal with it too.
@@JA-fp2im 🤫 फ़ेमिनिज़म है ब्रु
Amazing how acceptance can solve so many issues people struggle with. Great initiative ..good content
I love Sushant's persona. So impressive.
Saw this for Sushant ❤️
Some much needed truth bombs. Loved it ❤
I love how refreshingly honest this is 💞
Really super talk enjoyed every bit of it kudos to you all three
GAWD.... Rytasha is killing it !!!! you go girl .. awesomely fab show
Sushant ...aura is so beautiful...so confident...so charming ✡️
This my 6th time listening this toothpaste story from his mouth....now it felt like it my story.....
This boy is actually very talented, he's been to big boss, he sings and not to be wrong he represented india some international show as well (not sure about the name of the show)
Sa re GA ma
@@Kat_Jose oh no that's an Indian singing show, he mentioned that international show when he was in biggboss, some mr. universe kind of a show.
He won Mr. Gay India 2014, and represented India at Mr. Gay World 2014.
He was on Queen of the Universe amongst International Drag Royalty. And I'm too proud.
Sumukhi is love! ❤️
This is the group of people I like to hang out with…
I love the way u people r speaking ...❤️❤️❤️❤️
Sushant is so handsome as well as beautiful, I am his fan now.
He is so good looking.
Superb talk 👌
This was like a therapy to me😅❤
Great conversation
Absolutely loved the episode...lots of love to u guys...😘😘😍😍
Sushaaaaantttttttt you are amazinggggggggggggggggg
Wow. A brainy conversation. Liked it a lot.
Loved what you all said about be yourself.
This one made my day💫
am i the only one paying attention to Sushant Divgikar's nails? i love them
I'm crushing over sushantttttt
Just starting the video, love to Rytash and sumukhi already ❤️
Is it only me or the crux of their discussion and the whole visual aesthetics seem quite contradictory 😅
True..
Truee..
Trueee...
@THE ZOLDICS some women have other aspirations in life than just grabbing a guy. Men are visual and look for good looks in a women. Fine. But when women look for affluent men, then they are termed as gold diggers. It is only fair trade. Why the hypocrisy?
Helped so much to understand about myself ❤
They speak so beautifully
Sushant ❤️
All look so beautiful ❤️
When you can't adjust with anythinggggg.
You will left single like these three 😊
Much love to you guys❤️❤️
If u date Sushant/Rani, you will get 2in1 deal. Sumukhi is fab as usual
10:16 🔥🔥🔥🔥
Amazing 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
People still never leave a chance to comment, body Shame, whatever they can do to highlight your flaws, which aren't even flaws at frst place, let us figure out, what we are, no advice needed thank you
Honestly, I felt, all of the ones sitting on that couch judge and then talk of this and that ,which seems so paradoxical.
Breaking all the stereotypes!! You three rock 👍🏼
Its not about looking fat, its about being fat which should not be embraced, not healthy. Also that after marriage point was which I agree to. You need to be healthy, not 0 figure but definitely healthy
For sure!!
Health is wealth. ❤
I was wondering if I could get some advice. I met my crush in winter 2018. She'd come to me twice, apparently to chat. 1.) She once saw me on a bench, asked if I was studying for a quiz in our upcoming class, and still sat by me when I confirmed it. 2.) Weeks later, she went to my table when I was on my computer and asked if I was doing homework, which I denied before telling her to sit down. Since then, we'd only occasionally encounter each other and chat, having no classes together. A year ago, I said hey as she walked by, eyes on phone. While talking to me, she slowly walked her way to her class, and very casually, I walked beside her, being respectful and as if moving also to continue the conversation. She stopped walking as we chatted about her music class, and when she said she had to get going to it, I accepted and she said it was nice to see me. Similarly during finals that year, she asked how I was during a run-in and I paused as she passed me and slowly ✌"followed"✌ her, very casually, just trying to converse. I asked if she was stressed about finals like me, she said not really, and that she had to get to her music performance. I wished her luck and she said it back. Also, a couple of times that year I sat in a study lounge she was at, pretending I didn't see her, hoping she'd come to me. Both times when she left, probably for class, we made eye contract, smiled, and waved. I was too shy and respectful to call her over and bother her. I hope she didn't think I was being a creep.
I saw her last Aug. at Starbucks. I asked her how she'd been despite the quarantine (which had kept us apart for months), told her I'd been hanging in there when she asked how I was, and said I was nervous about careers after graduating. She asked if I knew what I wanted to be, and I said writer and maybe play director. Asked questions about her courses and desired career too. When her drink was ready, she said she had to go. I didn't want to miss my chance again, so I turned back and said "Oh and one more thing. I was thinking maybe you and I could catch up over a Starbuck sometime, since it's been a while." She said yeah maybe but she'd been pretty busy. I said I understood and that I just thought it'd be nice since it's been a while. I think she said "Well maybe I'll see you around on campus." I said it was good to see her and ditto. I saw her last finals, when she passed my table as I was working on an art project. After eye contact, she asked how I was doing, I took off an earbud, and said "Hey, it's been a while." She was walking to the exit, probably had stuff to do, and she said have a good night. I wished her luck with finals and she said, "Thanks, you too."
Sadly, she might have a boyfriend. She was with some man at a checkout counter. I came and she asked how I was. I asked what she was doing on break and if she was looking forward to Xmas. I said it was too bad quarantine came and ended my plan to relax on campus at the schools lodge with a book and personal art (I told her I like to have me time on campus even during summer and winter break). She said whatever happens happens, and that the quarantine is for the bets. I said that was debatable and she laughed (I really think big quarantine is unnecessary if you wash/mask up). I told her I was glad finals was over, how long I'd be staying up for projects, and how I napped in the school's library when I was finally done. I think she said I deserved it or something. She often seemed distracted as she bagged groceries, and I'd say I was doing most of the talking and she was a bit quiet. When I felt I should let her be, I said it was good to see her and walked away as she said the same to me. Well, I guess I shouldn't ask about catching up again right? That she's probably taken and the next time I see her, I should just smile, wave, say hi, and go on with my day?
Ask her out man. Or atleast get close to her, talk to her. Dont let this be a regret in your heart forever.
I once liked a guy lot in college. I dropped hints and casually flirted with him, but would take it back if he noticed them. He shifted colleges now and quarantine happened, and we got closer talking over the phone and I confessed that I liked him, to which he said "Oh I liked you too". We both are in different relationships, different cities now and here and there I'd think how it might have been if i were just a little more confident and a little less anxious. Atleast I wont have this a s a regret, right?
Ask her out man. What's the worst that could happen?
The worst has already happened. I learned two nights ago she was engaged. I'm not so jolly this holiday. Can heartbreak really cure?
@@johnrainsman6650 yes, it surely can cure with the time but from now on you have to love yourself more.
Maybe you both were meant to meet but not to be. I know it's very hard to accept the reality ( let it hurt then let it go) I believe in you "one day your heart will bloom again".
I wish you to meet your special one in this upcoming years.
🎈🎉Happy New year 🎈🎉
[In advance]
Edit: *"and what is meant to be will always find its way, ALWAYS."*
How funny that they don't want to be judged on the basis of their looks but again they want a guy who is tall enough to change the tube light!!!
@Amandeep Wahi how did you judge him so early claiming that he is against dark skin.
It was clearly a joke...
*All are hypocrite plain and simple , they don't want to be judged on what they don't have*
@Amandeep Wahi *whats wrong in wanting woman that is fair , tall , unmarried thats so judgemental*
It was sarcasm dude
What’s the name of the host? She did a great job
Sushant is the real deal!!!!! He's superb
Nice video 😘😘
Hi
people have less patience and more options these days.
I feel jealous of his hair. Lovely hair he has. Wait what was the whole video about😂
I can relate to this.....😊👍
I think she reduced weight inspite of her body shaming views.. so I'm all in love with sumukhi
Love this
I love this video best one
Say what you will,but that woman in blue dress needs to loose weight..."Motapa ek bemari ka ghar hai"Period,Dont promote Obesity to satisfy your ego..
Shushant divgikar is lit
Summary of this video: I’m oppressed because I am not privileged enough!!
I'm sorry but Sumukhi's HAIR!!!!
Soooo gorgeous....
Ugh😘
Love youuuuu 💞
❤️ great
Sushant is so Poised ....
Loving sushant's nails!!! I need to grow mine again!
So basically the summary is, either your opinion is superior or mine😂😂😂. People say what's inside is important and also they are the ones who worry and care about how do they dress or look.
Yeh cars24 wali h na?
Yes, these are hypocrites.😏
@@anewlife5846 kehena kya cahate ho
❤️❤️❤️❤️
Sushant is intelligent, he is not a toxic gay who we usually see on social media and otherwise.
💛💛💛
Hi
All good. But that fat lady needs to work on her health. Carrying 80 kgs on those bones not at all healthy. In long run, will create hell alot of issues. Rest all good. More power to you guys. 👍🏻
Sushant is so right ....so much discrimination in LGBTQ community
He has a lovely hand that no women can afford
Does someone know the background music?
ok, the next person disliking this video can u pls just reply and let me know why u did that?! R U so insecure about urself?
Found it too woke for Indian society
Host is that girl from masaba masaba😍😍😍
I extend one of my new maw match in bumble for 24 hr , how can I find her ? Pls help !
I think one should change themselves eitger when they are not happy with theseove or when they have a medical issue