How to talk to Kids - Part 1 | A book about Parenting | The Book Show ft. Ananthi RJ

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  • It's always the Parents are the one who tells their kids to do this and that. They keep insisting their kids to learn so many things and they think, this helps their kids. Unfortunately, it doesn't. Here's a book - that completely discuss how parents should listen, talk, reply and emote with their kids. Do check this video and share your comments.
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Комментарии • 535

  • @Raj-rv1fq
    @Raj-rv1fq 2 года назад +225

    1. Respect feelings.
    2. Acknowledge their feelings.
    3. Speak in kids language (Fantasy language that kid understands )
    4. Negative emotions - Distract or vent out their energy in some way. Tell the names of each emotion so that the kid knows and feels it. Share your negative emotions with kid so they understand.
    5. Kid wants to buy things - Acknowledge their wants, donot turn off.
    6. How to make them co operate- Just describe the issue, without blaming. Give some information. Donot lecture. Use one word , without blaming or ordering.
    7. Kids have more empathy naturally - Tell I am hurt, mom is hurt etc.
    8. Shaping up a kid - Donot accuse kid, Give choices without ordering. Choices make them co-operate them well.
    9. Self satisfaction , self respect, understanding about self is important.
    10. Donot label kids. Point out good things they do and repeat it to them at times.
    11. Compliment them when they do good.

  • @mecanand1
    @mecanand1 2 года назад +6

    Vera level la tamizh pesuringa..ketutae irukanum pola iruku.. what a flow.. and I am getting this book today

  • @entertainment4651
    @entertainment4651 10 месяцев назад +64

    Neenga easy ya solringa but evlo bp akum teriyuma. Evlovo porumaya irupen. But sothipanga teriyuma

    • @AnsardeenMohamedAkram
      @AnsardeenMohamedAkram 7 месяцев назад +9

      Correcta sonninga same prblm enakkum

    • @surekhas167
      @surekhas167 4 месяца назад +1

      ​@@AnsardeenMohamedAkramsame

    • @vigneshraja4809
      @vigneshraja4809 4 месяца назад +1

      Bp aagum pothu, neengalum oru drawing pannunga or oru 5 second calm ah irunga. All soluntion in our hand. Think that we are kids.

    • @suryasaravanakumar9475
      @suryasaravanakumar9475 4 месяца назад +1

      😂

  • @sandrakattar9685
    @sandrakattar9685 2 года назад +11

    This is what I wanted today...i was brimming with guilt for scolding and hurting my kids .i ve been doing everything wro . thank you so much for the information..I'm definitely going to read it ..And d way u delivered the talk was simply superb..great .. keep rocking...

  • @ranjantechnocrat
    @ranjantechnocrat 2 года назад +1

    Correct Nanum chinna vayasula ethavathu nenachu kashta pattu azhutha “amma ivan Periya ivan ivaru feel panni azhuguraram periya aalu maathiri pannatha’ apadi nu solluvaanga. Chinna pasangalukku romba maturity irukkathu nu avangala nenachukkuraanga ithukku lama chinna pasanga Feel pannuvaanga nu avangala nenachukkuraanga. Athu kandippa hurt aagum namma feelings purunjukka maatenguranga nu. I am 32 now I still remember those moments.

  • @sadiqahmadsadiqahmad992
    @sadiqahmadsadiqahmad992 2 года назад +1

    I'm new parent from srilanka .....Neega idhe madriyana nalla wishayangala innam innam share pannina enaku romba help a irukum... Akka ....

  • @jujukids9726
    @jujukids9726 2 года назад +13

    As a mother I feel happy to hear that.. Suggest more like this mam
    I need in tamil language mam.

  • @ramyamohan7479
    @ramyamohan7479 2 года назад +3

    Great info..i have made lots of mistake all these years . how much I have hurt the feelings of my children .I feel I have wasted all these years by wrong parenting .thank you so much for this book explanation.

  • @annasharma5805
    @annasharma5805 2 года назад

    Have a nice speech I I appreciate you sister very speed and sweet speech excellent thanking you

  • @sweety02101988
    @sweety02101988 2 года назад

    Each and every word and that towel matter daily I am saying to my son and daughter. This is superb video sure I will buy that book

  • @praveenlovepraveen6723
    @praveenlovepraveen6723 13 дней назад

    Dear mam, u touched my heart in the demonstration of losing rubber ( eraser). I have hurted my daughter 😢 in many situations like this.

  • @kumaranms4232
    @kumaranms4232 2 года назад +7

    4:45 - 4:53 Rubber expression extraordinary sis..😊

  • @nirmaljessie7294
    @nirmaljessie7294 2 года назад +10

    4:07 rubber kaanum pencil la kaanum nu 😂
    Exact imitation of Indian parents 🤧 Much needed video ka! Thank you💛

  • @srividyabalachandar4457
    @srividyabalachandar4457 2 года назад

    Indha book epdi irukum nu idea illa.. but ur way of expressing those tips are awesome...

  • @dineshd4953
    @dineshd4953 2 года назад

    Super good msg convey to all

  • @thenmozhiayyanar4698
    @thenmozhiayyanar4698 2 года назад +78

    This is something i needed today.. growing up i always loved children and recently i joined as a helper for LKG.. most of the time, i just admire how kids speak and act.. but when we have to control them, i knew only shouting (as a silent person this behaviour was so weird to me). I think, now i learnt how to talk to children :)

  • @sivanisivani8473
    @sivanisivani8473 Год назад +1

    Yaru ma ne un video ippo tha pakura super ma ♥️ ❤️ 💖 💕 💙 🎉upload for more video's ma super ma your speech

  • @childreneducationthansyika4522
    @childreneducationthansyika4522 2 года назад

    Super. I change my character listen this information.

  • @tvany3837
    @tvany3837 2 года назад

    Great sharing dear.

  • @nikoniko5355
    @nikoniko5355 2 года назад +15

    LOL !!! What a timely book !!! And I love the selection of books you make, and I tell you what ? You can take a commission from all the authors you have so far been doing, cos I am one of them who has purchased many just after listening to your review...LOL....Even if I dont get some books, your reviews just lift me up and I am all smiles - Just be yourself the free spirited way you are now !!! Sending you lots of love and light ..just keep going...

  • @merlinharshitha2366
    @merlinharshitha2366 2 года назад +2

    I like the way you said the 'rubber'😊

  • @GowrishankariB
    @GowrishankariB 2 года назад

    Thank u..

  • @priyanka_aari_work
    @priyanka_aari_work 3 месяца назад

    Lovely

  • @hasnanizar4007
    @hasnanizar4007 2 года назад +13

    I read this book 2 years back. It’s an amazing book. I just loved it. Was definitely an eye opener for me as an adult and it’s a very important book for moms and mom to be to read it.

    • @AaaaAaaa-t7h
      @AaaaAaaa-t7h 7 месяцев назад

      Pls book da name sollungale.. english book or tamil??

  • @nanduthiyagu5797
    @nanduthiyagu5797 2 года назад

    Thankyou

  • @gowrisathya2550
    @gowrisathya2550 2 года назад

    Amazingly explained dear. Antha book ah padichiruntha kooda ivlo intresting ah irukadhu nu nenaikiren. Thanks a Lot

  • @jameenajabir6141
    @jameenajabir6141 Год назад

    Thanks a lot

  • @sptvisvasarala6639
    @sptvisvasarala6639 Год назад

    Thanks Aanandhi for this topic, I need like this many videos from your speech... to be a better parenting

  • @1999Talkingtom
    @1999Talkingtom 11 месяцев назад

    Great ❤❤❤enga mummy ipdi tha 25 years engala guide pannanga superrrr🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉vedio very motivation

  • @umayadav2825
    @umayadav2825 2 года назад

    Thank you, yenaku romba useful video, intha video paakum pothu, yennoda thappa sari pannika yenaku oru vaaipa iruku, thank you sister

  • @waseemaraheem1790
    @waseemaraheem1790 2 года назад

    The topic is indeed for me currently actually

  • @poornalakshmi9462
    @poornalakshmi9462 Год назад

    Thank you so much for your way of explanation. It's very nice to see..

  • @kalaivani-vn7zg
    @kalaivani-vn7zg 2 года назад

    Good one sister...I follow this method my child...she is so addament..I will follow this methodical

  • @DHINESHGAMMING
    @DHINESHGAMMING Год назад +1

    Super information thanks mam

  • @p.lavanyabharathyb.ed1icoe60
    @p.lavanyabharathyb.ed1icoe60 2 года назад

    super speech mam..and cute haa solliringa,🥰😍

  • @muthuvelpandiyan103
    @muthuvelpandiyan103 2 года назад

    Thanks ananthi 👍🙏

  • @SAI-ek9er
    @SAI-ek9er 2 года назад

    Now a days am very feel about this tanq so much

  • @megalabalaji958
    @megalabalaji958 2 года назад

    Thank you very much siss... Thanks a lot

  • @hajanajimudheen135
    @hajanajimudheen135 2 года назад

    So much of useful things video.thank u sister because i am a first time parent.so i say lot of thank you.

  • @sindhusindhu4456
    @sindhusindhu4456 Год назад

    Thanks madam

  • @gowrithangavel476
    @gowrithangavel476 Год назад

    Thank you friend😁🙂

  • @gratefulalways
    @gratefulalways 2 года назад

    Nice modulation.. Good message

  • @UmaMaheswari-gh1pp
    @UmaMaheswari-gh1pp 2 года назад

    Sweet speech

  • @smanzoorelahi24
    @smanzoorelahi24 2 года назад

    Nice nice talk good information

  • @natrajanbangaru7289
    @natrajanbangaru7289 7 месяцев назад

    Super speech mam tq

  • @ravikanth1897
    @ravikanth1897 2 года назад

    Totally emotional.. very well speech..

  • @lakshmisundar7611
    @lakshmisundar7611 2 года назад +2

    Useful points to follow.. Expecting more like this

  • @nizoamir2377
    @nizoamir2377 2 года назад +6

    Kubbeeer laugh moment. Namakku rubber - rubber. Kolandhangalku rubber - rubbbbbbbberrrr.... 🤣🤣

  • @dds360
    @dds360 2 года назад +10

    Thats such an amzing video anandhi.. 💕 I am gonna repeat this video again and again.. Being away from family in a different country, we r struggling to deal with kids tantrums..

  • @MsRasina
    @MsRasina 2 года назад

    very good information for young parents.

  • @parentingwithsharan
    @parentingwithsharan 2 года назад +1

    Timely video.. for my child psychology exam am reading tis book.. well explained.. thanku

  • @RaisiyaNasfeer-z3p
    @RaisiyaNasfeer-z3p 11 месяцев назад

    Thank u 👍🏻

  • @rubychris_k
    @rubychris_k 2 года назад

    4yrs munadiye indha video vandhruntha i would have been a better mom.. i did all the mistakes and my 4.5yr old son is not at all listening to my words.! I hope here after i will try to be a better parent.. thanks for the video 💯

  • @praveenkumarelangovan447
    @praveenkumarelangovan447 2 года назад +1

    Useful for itk volunteer

  • @kalaivaniselvaraj.k1506
    @kalaivaniselvaraj.k1506 2 года назад

    Enjoying parenting!!!!

  • @rathiyalifestyle6288
    @rathiyalifestyle6288 2 года назад +1

    Unga face expression semmaiya iruku..... I like it akka...

  • @danushachandran8560
    @danushachandran8560 7 месяцев назад

    Very nice..i learn too

  • @vanialagarsamy4712
    @vanialagarsamy4712 2 года назад +11

    Just completed this book last week...
    Its useful... We need to practice it consciously on daily basis.. Same author has written How to talk to Teens so Teens will listen book too.... Struggling Parents of teens too can read that...

  • @lakshithahs7199
    @lakshithahs7199 2 года назад

    Super. Nan expect Panna video. Thanks ananthi

  • @raji2926
    @raji2926 Год назад

    Thankyou ❤

  • @rajeswaris5571
    @rajeswaris5571 2 года назад

    சூப்பர் மேடம்,நல்ல அர்த்தமுள்ள informations. நன்றி வாழ்க வளமுடன் 🙏🙏.

  • @sabiqaswar616
    @sabiqaswar616 Год назад

    Amazing tips...you looking so pretty

  • @solokingrt
    @solokingrt Год назад

    tq

  • @deepikaramesh7448
    @deepikaramesh7448 2 года назад +3

    Thanks for a such a sweet book review!! ❤️👨‍👩‍👦

  • @sara-tamilmotivations
    @sara-tamilmotivations 2 года назад +1

    👌 👍Very Good Presentation with Explanation, most needed information . Thank you.

  • @Sunrisesiva-rz3ij
    @Sunrisesiva-rz3ij 2 года назад

    Super.

  • @hemalatha3598
    @hemalatha3598 Год назад

    Great Anandii such a wonderful exp 🎉❤ goooooood keep going on

  • @srsrisabaribuilders7952
    @srsrisabaribuilders7952 2 года назад

    👌👌👌👌super sister 😊இந்த மாதிரி நிறைய video போடுங்க 👍🙏

  • @srividhyaramprasath286
    @srividhyaramprasath286 2 года назад

    Thank you somuch sis I am very confused to handle my second child ,will try these ideas to my son.thanl you once again

  • @sutharsansubramaniam2733
    @sutharsansubramaniam2733 2 года назад +1

    அருமை அருமை வாழ்த்துக்கள் தாயே வாழ்க வளமுடன்🙏

  • @tamilarasimachakendiran1568
    @tamilarasimachakendiran1568 Год назад

    Thank you so much mam...

  • @kalaiarasis1649
    @kalaiarasis1649 2 года назад +9

    Wow.. superb explanation of the book. The book gets so real when you explain with your smile...Love you Ananthi... Thank you 💝

  • @vinushanirben
    @vinushanirben 2 года назад

    Very much happy to know many information .thank you

  • @manjulasaravanan6330
    @manjulasaravanan6330 2 года назад +6

    Excellent tips in a humour way ! Your detailed explanation will reach everyone ! Your casual talk will be liked by all!

  • @Sunshine_1620
    @Sunshine_1620 2 года назад

    Nice to hear your speach. Thanks for this video😇

  • @mepkathir
    @mepkathir 2 года назад

    Loved the way of narration. Let me try to apply.

  • @malinis5340
    @malinis5340 Год назад

    Tq for your speech

  • @swathilakshman256
    @swathilakshman256 2 года назад +118

    "Namaku rubber eubber,avangaluku rubber rubbbeerr"..samma cute ka neenga

  • @narayanamoorthip7165
    @narayanamoorthip7165 Год назад

    Very useful your video

  • @vadivels5020
    @vadivels5020 Год назад

    Very nice 👍

  • @Munchikanniyappan
    @Munchikanniyappan Год назад

    Than you so much akka

  • @RevathiSubbiah-c1q
    @RevathiSubbiah-c1q Год назад

    Useful

  • @geetamuniswaran2786
    @geetamuniswaran2786 2 года назад

    Oh my so fast talk, nice smile but your talks are really impressive

  • @priyadharshinimurugan8952
    @priyadharshinimurugan8952 2 года назад +9

    Hi ananthi...Also review the book unconditional parenting by Alfie kohn...It's also a good book for parenting

  • @ramanathan7823
    @ramanathan7823 2 года назад

    Amazing

  • @JameelaJames
    @JameelaJames 2 года назад

    That rubber - rubber modulation and example was humorous and super

  • @everglory2040
    @everglory2040 2 года назад

    Hi mam, unga parents kids video pathe, romba useful a irunthuchu, unga pecchum activities m kekumpothu nane kuzhanthai a mari santhosathula sirichute, first kuzhanthainga purinchukurathuku munna oru Normal parent ke joliya puriya vacchathuku thank you so much, na Santhosama follow panre

  • @manimegalai5743
    @manimegalai5743 4 месяца назад

    Unga speech very sweet.

  • @ivanhsiavchaya6604
    @ivanhsiavchaya6604 2 года назад +1

    Very important videos for parents who can't read parenting books.. Although some parents may not take this video very seriously I want to let you know it all works... It will certainly not spoil your kids but rather you will have a very well behaved and empathetic children

  • @sivasankarsalo
    @sivasankarsalo 2 года назад +6

    The way u explain make it feel like every book is interesting 🙂...

  • @richsinglecollections1878
    @richsinglecollections1878 2 года назад

    I follow the same as you told.it works well

  • @vijaykumart5858
    @vijaykumart5858 2 года назад

    Akka you are amazing..... 17 mins 54 secs la one sec kuda bore adikama... Oru 10 secs forward polam aptinu think pana vidama... Full conscious oda kekura mari content full ah unganalatha pesa mudiyu...

  • @aasimani5673
    @aasimani5673 2 года назад

    Akka, unga voice kku naa theevira fan.
    I addicted to ur catchy tone.

  • @vigneshwaran1585
    @vigneshwaran1585 2 года назад

    ரொம்ப ரொம்பவே இக்காலத்தின் சரியான புத்தகம் ஆனந்தி அவர்களே

  • @hadeemhamsha7064
    @hadeemhamsha7064 2 года назад

    Thanks for u

  • @VinothKumar-hc1of
    @VinothKumar-hc1of 2 года назад

    Lovely explanation

  • @jafreenbasha6421
    @jafreenbasha6421 2 года назад

    Tho most xpcted... we want more videos in this topic.. well done
    . Great job. Thank you

  • @ponmalariswarya3042
    @ponmalariswarya3042 Год назад

    Wow excellent way of saying superb❤❤❤

  • @sairabanu5753
    @sairabanu5753 7 месяцев назад

    Cute speech

  • @anbarasiapnagarajanmoe8299
    @anbarasiapnagarajanmoe8299 Год назад

    Beautifully explained ❤ love it.. thank u for ur sharing..😊