Her Father Created An Unsafe Environment For Her
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- Опубликовано: 27 сен 2024
- In today's deeply personal episode of Unfiltered Stories, we have the privilege of hearing from Michelle Andersen as she courageously shares her life journey with us. Growing up, Michelle faced a complex and challenging family dynamic, particularly in her relationship with her father. She recounts unsettling experiences where her father's behavior towards her felt inappropriate and blurred the boundaries of a healthy parent-child relationship.
Navigating through a troubled and emotionally unsafe environment had a profound impact on Michelle's life, making her path significantly more difficult. However, through her strength and determination, she has taken proactive steps to prioritize her well-being and healing. By actively engaging in therapy, Michelle is working to process her past experiences and build a foundation for a healthier future. Her story serves as a powerful reminder that seeking support and prioritizing one's mental health are crucial components of the healing journey. Join us as we listen to Michelle's brave account and bear witness to the transformative power of resilience and self-care. #UnfilteredStories #SurvivorStories
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I have a good one.
@@LilXancheX¹
Children don't just need 2 parents they need good ones
Amen because this is so sad
Two is really still to few.
Children don't need fathers,men should never be allowed near children,period
facts
The most terrible part is she didn’t even remember what happened and he made it a point to tell her. He wanted to make sure she knew he hurt her.
Exactly! Like he didn't even want her to block it out or anything
Absolutely. Sick!
I think he thought it would get her “hot”. Such a contemptible POS. 😡
@@Rose_buddyeah, he could’ve let her go on not remembering it, the sick jerk.
And the way he told her as if it’s supposed to be a fond memory … just sweet moments between old lovers. Like ‘remember that time’? Dangerously gross and unhinged put him under the jail 🤮
Her father is absolutely disgusting for what he did to his daughter. He should be under the jail for life.
Unrelated but the translation or transcript is for something else completely. If you read lips you know.
Nope she didn’t think so
Despite language culture I don't see any discrepancies in verbal communication or non verbal cues..these comments are from illiterate crazies???
Did he kill her?
DEAD
She looks soo traumatised & hesitant because trying to disregard it through a nervous casualness…it’s like when something hugely traumatic happens to you and u want to not be judged by people so you play it off. She deserves all the support and love to get her through her trauma.
My dad also is a child predator. He even went as far as to rape my sister. My trauma wasn’t as bad. He died this last August I didn’t shed a tear. This affects for life. Thank you for being so brave and sharing❤
Thank YOU for sharing your story. It emboldens others to share theirs. I hope you are doing well stranger.
Share your story in here like they did. It might help someone.
Thank you for sharing your story. This was very brave of you beautiful lady.
Having children, when you were abused, heightens your awareness and also your fears. Everyone around you becomes a potential abuser, no matter how much you trust them. It’s a hard way to live sometimes but there’s nothing for that.
My mothers side was loaded with predators, alot of my cousins were victimized.. I was aware as a 3 year old, my mother warned me from baby not to let people touch me and to be careful and told me about how she grew up.. I always had to watch what I wore to grandpa's house growing up and make sure to never be alone with him ..when I had my own kids, from the first baby I was terrified of day cares, babysitters, decided to stay home with them and stand guard till they were old enough, and I have.. they're both teenagers now and I've been there every step, they're againsed drugs, drinking smoking and I was a single mum and it was hard financially and I sacrificed my own independence to work to stay home with them.. but I went back to work a few years ago, and I have many years to build now.. I'll never regret staying home with my kids, it was very important to me they weren't victimized as children, after how I was raised and watching what happened to my aunts and cousins .. I didnt have kids to throw them to the wolves, no matter what it took or how many people passed judgment on me as a single mum, I'll never regret being there with my kids! No one knows how others were raised that led to decisions we make in life
@@izzydeadyet7336😊
I'm like that about my children overly protected I don't trust no one with my children. I question them every time they leave my presence just going to school there father's house. They can't spend the night out. I've taken counseling but hey I'm still overly protective and I will always be. My kids ask why are you so protective and I explain to them why I tell them the truth
I agree.
😢 it truly does
I have a small daughter now and I worry every time she has to leave
The dirty bastard needs to be put down. My father is also a sexual deviant and my mother wouldn’t believe me. May they all rot in hell. Sending you so much love and peace beautiful girl ❤️
AMEN AMEN, Sister 🎉
Exactly they need to put people to sleep. They are more dangerous than animal.
@@mahtazdin Soooooooooo #TRUE💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
I'm so sorry love...my dad sexually abused me at 13 & my mom wouldn't believe me either 😔. He actually died last yr & I don't get sad or scared when I think about where he is!!! I hope u have found some peace & healing!! Sending u lots of love ~From TN ❤❤❤
Mine as well 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
My god - he's a monster 😡
Lets not judge her, okay.
Recalling such a horrific experience is not like reading a book. One's mind is in protection mode at almost every turn, she's sharing her story with millions of people while still tring to heal.
Thank you for sharing your story and leaving us with hope and faith.
No one is judging her. What makes you say that? Are you?
Who's judging her?
Her mum made her stay with her father despite knowing the things he’s done. That’s evil.
Michelle's father is truly a horrible person this man was never a parent in my opinion anyone who could do that is sick 🤢🤮😡
Its evil!!
😖 unfathomable
Worthless comment. He knew he was an addict so he left to protect her from his uncontrollable behavior. You can’t charge all your troubles in life on your parents.
@@tshaolin971 so what if he left he had already abused her and then years later he told her about what he did to her it is beyond evil
@@tshaolin971boy what the hell are you talking about
The sickest story that I have ever heard! Her dad was a SICK DISGUSTING DEMON! Pisses me off! So sorry you endured that .
I'm so sorry you went through this, Michelle. Your father is a terrible person. You have incredible strength and composure. Sending you all good wishes as you continue your healing journey.
i cried with her for what she had gone thru. how terrifying just listen to. what a na rci ssist. really sick. it freaks me totally out how he even watched and touched her s ex u ell when she was a baby, BABY and TODDLeR. with the list he wanted to show that he did what he want, demonstrate power. and get revenge. this is how na rc issists are.
I hope he gets karma!
This man is beyond disgusting. I can't even mentally process a father being so sick. The mind only buries things but it doesn't ever forget. This poor woman 💔
I cant imagine how confusing that must be to be coming from your dad
Coming from anyone
@@OrganicUnitedProductions no but coming from your parent is different.
Parent, sibling, grandparent, uncle, aunty,
It's bad in general but imagine such evil coming from your literal parent
It’s a very weird situation and the fact that we have to grow up with our dads the entire time
It’s the usual male behaviour
We pass by ppl everyday and we never know what they went thru
And ppl that we don't know what they did. 😢 I'm a waitress and it pains me to think I may be serving some monster I wouldn't know..
Yeah you are so right
Or what they are capable of
And what they do/ are doing to others.
Yess so true 👍 🙌 👏
I dont really understand why people think she's lying. I've heard stories like this pretty often and lived some parts of it myself. Nothing she said is unbelievable to me because I've either seen it, heard it, or lived it. I wish her continued healing and a lifetime of happiness.
She leaves parts out due to shame I'm sure she's just missing info but not making it up why would she.
she said he left them when she was 3 and came back to her life when she was 10, but later on in her story she said he gave her a foot massage when she was 6 somethings don't add up!
you never know maybe he made the who thing up! if he was a predator he would of try to do something when he came back and she was 10 and the sister 7. Why wait till she turned 18 to attempted something?
@@j.s3591 I will say this from experience. If you're still stuck near or around the person who is or has abused you or even in the same area it happened it makes it difficult to see through it all. It can take years to be able to comprehend the abuse let alone speak about it. I was able to move away from where my abuse happened. I still live in fear as my abuser had a thing for shoving me under water to get me not to talk. It took me 15+ years to start realizing it was abuse and longer still to start talking about it. If you get to where you can realize oh wait that was abuse it's hard to keep a time line of when abuse happened. Maybe he was gone for a long time and showed up randomly when she was 6 or 7. I have heard other peoples stories where they would get abused only when they went on vacation at the abusers house or they came by for holidays. People are messed up. It would be really messed up if she was lying about what she said. With the Internet who knows anymore. I try to have compassion for others. Her story is tragic.
I believe her father MAY have been lying as part of her grooming. 😢
All abusers should be given life without the possibility of release or given the death penalty! I’m so sorry for what you went through. So much respect you managed to breast feed while having those flashbacks, your so strong! ❤
I'm a mom of two kids and as a mom , i can't imagine the pain. Kids are precious 💞 ... We need to protect them ... Not to harm them😢
Same thing happened to me. So I can fully understand what it feels like, what you go through. Emotional, physical damage plus what we are left with years after. I'm sorry you went through all this. I pray you find some sort of healing and thanks for saying your story... God bless you ! Hugs sweetie
Same:((. I used to drive myself crazy trying to figure out what makes someone end up like that.
Michelle I hope that you are doing okay today what happened to you wasn't your fault you deserve love and kindness I'm so sorry for your losses
OMG this poor girl 😢 I hope that she gets help and this man gets what is coming to him! He’s evil and should pay for what he did to her!
Yeah he should pay for what he's done Michelle is forever scarred because of him
Trust me... he has done it to other kids. Do not believe abusers who try to make you feel specially chosen. You should have pressed charges.... even though it's uncomfortable. Predators are allowed to continue hurting kids because of victims being silent
Stop blaming the victims now that other children are also victims. You are again throwing mud at the children who have experienced abuse. I bet you they have never experienced anything like this and have no idea what it means to press charges. Even a court case against the father can break many a child. NO SINGLE CHILD is to blame. Only the perpetrators are to blame for sexual abuse 😡
I agree!!!
@@k.o.1561this right here ❤💔 I was hoping no one would say this, this is her journey to healing, no one should judge
@kingshango7421 ...how do you know?
@kingshango7421how could you say such a thing when this can happen to anyone ?
Michelle you made a smart choice to never speak to your father again I understand why you didn't go to the police
My dad threatened me when I was 12 1/2. It was horrible! Dad made me read Playboy. He said he was watching me through the keyhole, while I took a shower. He would make comments, jokes, he is disgusting! He is pathetic! He blamed me! He is disgusting! He didn't care that I didn't like his behavior. Too bad for him. I warn others. I won't protect him with my silence. He deserves hell. Or at least jail! Sicko!
I'm so sorry this happened to you. Thank goodness you survived this horrific childhood.
This happened to my oldest niece. My sister does not believe her daughter. I hate my sister and my brother-in-law.
Please get her away from them
Have u reported them
You just as bad cause you no, my niece was Abused by her father and my sister new I called the cops and Testified. His ass in jail and me and my sister do not talk and I can care less my niece is safe
I cannot even begin to imagine the amount of post-partum depression that overwhelmed her after becoming a parent, like how she said the breastfeeding part and changing their diapers, and actually realizing the amount of damage he actually did to her. Praying for you Michelle💔 something that helped me thru post-partum depression is whenever I felt like I was having and episode I would just keep repeating to myself “I’m okay, I’m in a safe place now. My babies are okay, they are in a safe place. I am their safe place” and I would just keep repeating it until I calmed down. It gets better michelle, I promise🙏
It's so sad that every time she fed her baby or changed its dioer she was probably re living the trauma she suffered and had the mental images flooding back to her . :(
God bless her 🙏
Children are so precious! Some people don’t deserve children ! They’re a gift from God and innocent ! So sorry you went through this xx
Michelle, you are incredible strong and inspiring for speaking out so openly about something so personal and traumatizing.. I'm certain you and your channel are helping many people heal.
Such a beautiful, sweet Soul you are for coming here and so thoroughly busting this demonic system the world has needed help with. You're doing GREAT. It's in layers. I was orally raped by two uncles when I was 3 months. Then at 3 my dad started his romance phase with me after brutally scary grooming behavior. You're not only whole, you're an entire Archangel from God Himself. That self love is the work. It gets easier and then the next layer comes until its done. !!! Take great care of yourself and model it to all Creation and especially your children!!! 🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉
Im so sorry you went through this 😢 may Jesus Christ heal and comfort you
The back of the head is from the unfelt feelings of the early oral abuse. We are all oral as babies!!! This is the deepest abuse that unfortunately many suffer because it's so easy to get away with. But I bet doctors know much more than is shared and it's time. My story needs told. It's about how I healed what is normally a sudden death at about 52 by head tumor. I feel compelled to share to save lives. I have beat death 3x over by ways that are absolutely teachable and possible for anyone. I need help getting an easy laptop to write my book on.
I've had a huge lump in my neck and a crooked spine there. I also have hair twirling itis. It's hair pulling when the build up of actual plaque is felt and wherever I'm feeling it. Or almost feeling it. Cuz it's unthawing and thank God!!! If it weren't for the facial bumper system, we'd be too hurt to ever heal from such inhumane abuse, but because of ancient secrets, we can heal. And get a perfect spine and clear emotional body so even ocd calms down forever. I had bulimia which got me in healing at age 17.
@@vigayilak5970Same curious
@@vigayilak5970Sorry, but that's their problem. No victim of sexual violence needs to satisfy her curiosity about the most intimate details.
Her scratching may of been a reaction from what he had done to her too. Evil bastard.
What a sick Man! Thank you for speaking your truth! Your words can inspire ppl and I’m glad you are healing and rebuilding your relationship with your sister
I’m so sorry you had to endure this Michelle. Thank you for telling your story.
An aside: this is not an excuse because he’s a monster, but sometimes head injuries can cause insane violent and sexual behavior. A lot of serial killers who didn’t have a history of abuse usually had histories of serious head injuries. He’s still totally responsible for what he did and its reprehensible, and if it wasn’t a serious injury he’s likely just hiding behind that to avoid responsibility.
Why 5😮
I am so sorry that this happened to you. You have every right to be scared, angry and sad. Please continue to walk the path of healing. Your journey will help you and your family. Thank you for sharing your story. Know that you are worthy of love and not to blame for any of this. You are strong and beautiful! Peace!
As a baby you knew you didn't like him for a reason!!! Thank GOD he is gone!!!
I'm so sorry you had a father like that. He'll have to meet his maker some day
Thank you Michelle for sharing your story, very proud of you!
Dear sweet fellow human being, what a hard journey, healing is a journey and you are doing a good job. I only had one incident with my father, when I was 13. Thank God he stopped before he went to far. I remember so well praying "Dear God, please let Daddy let me go back to my own bed" That one incident has never left me. My Dad and I have a good relationship but I am never totally comfortable with him. I'm 73 and he is a healthy mentally astute 95 year old. But I notice I always have a pillow on my lap, when I'm visiting. You went through so much more, I hope one day all of those invisible chains of pain fall away and I can see they are. Sometimes it is through these trials, we grow and transcend.
Im so sorry this happened
I am so sorry for what happened to you.
Thank you for being so brave sharing your story and raising awareness
Just astonishing and very brave of this amazing woman to speak about this heinous abuse - it is just that. I too am an abuse survivor but in the UK where there is a very definitive awkward culture of talking about it openly, even though I am Saami Finn; grew up here with my mom and stepdad who systemically abused me my entire childhood and my siblings. Just feel such an admiration and overwhelming love to survivors of abuse courage to raise awareness and the painful aftermath of the very real damage yet equal determination to survive 😢😊😊😊😊😊❤❤❤❤
This beautiful angel is so strong to be able live through this, talk about it, and continue healing...what a survivor. You are LOVE mama.❤
I'm so sorry you had to go through all that! I couldn't breastfed my 4 children due to SA as a child (thankfully not my father). It's unfortunate their disgusting behavior can affect our lives forever.
can you explain if you dont mind what the connection is? don't have to answer if that is too personal
@daniaa1602 honestly, I don't know what the connection is. I just know that I've always been very modest because of what happened to me as a kid, and it unfortunately felt violating to try to breastfeed. I pumped and fed instead and that seemed to work out good for all of us.
@@ShilasSpellboundCreationsWhat’s SA?
@@Jenvlogs404 sexual assault
@@Jenvlogs404Sexual Assault
You are an unbelievably strong person in the way you handled your Father. I’m happy that you have your own family now. As much as your Mom cared for you it seems like she sent you back to the lion’s den a couple of times which was sad to hear. I wish you, that you are only surrounded by emotionally healthy people and you are able to give that you your kids.
Some father, more like a monster
I'm sooo sorry this happened to you and your sister! Prayers! Blessings and Grace!
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She is brave❤️ I can’t even with this its disgusting i hope he rots for your sake and for little you. I was sexually assaulted as a baby and toddler up until i was raped at 8 years old you are brave and you are not alone and you are not responsible for this and you should not be ashamed or silent ever about this you are so strong❤️ I cried listening to your story but you are strong and brave and my heart is with you and your mom and your sister
Thank you so much for your kind words. I’m am so sorry that you went through worse things! My heart goes out to you. ❤❤❤
I think people often forget that when people are ready to come forward, they do it at their own pace. Some of us have already gotten therapy for our traumas and can talk about it other times we break down.
Owe sweetheart, I'm so sorry for what had happened to you. I wish you the best life ahead. Beautiful mother you are. Many blessings
I am so sorry about what you went through 💔
Michelle you are so brave and I personally want to thank you for talking about your healing journey. Please continue to love yourself. Your children will be so proud of you
You are so beautiful.
Depression is anger turned inwards.
I hope you keep releasing this anger in healthy ways.
You are so strong, inspirational and lovely and loveable.
Xo
May you continue to heal 💓 I am sorry for what you endured blessings 💗.
Hi, I'm a survivor of sexual abuse from when I was a little girl by the hands of a family member. I'm sorry to say I haven't gone for help and It is affecting my marriage so I suffer in silence... until now
You deserve to start healing ❤ you got this and Jesus loves you run to him
Didn't her mother notice something? A guy who wants you working outside the home, n he's there all day, I would be suspicious of a dead beat guy
Love and prayers to you!! You are so brave for sharing. Thank you. ❤️
I love your healing journey but the best part for me is when you smile. I can tell you have an amazing sense of humor!!!! ❤❤❤❤❤
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These stories have helped me heal. Ive had therapy, repaired relationships and left alot behind. I thought i had healed alot from my ptsd. These stories, knowing im not alone. That we are still surviving and alot of us of thriving. It is its own healing. Thank you brave women ❤
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Sounds a lot like my sick azz sperm donor. I can’t even call the mf a dad. He would say stuff like that to my me and my half sisters. When he grabbed me in my chest that was the day I told him to never come around me ever again! Rumors were that he got my step sister pregnant and has a baby with my cousin ewwwww. I definitely can relate to her. Stay strong sis many blessings are coming.❤🙏🏽🙏🏽
Always the “men” in the family doing this to their kids and this is why I’m done with them all
I am proud of the mom for believing her daughter. So many stories about how the mom sides with the abusive partner and the abused kids end up running away or on the street
This is why im frightened by ppl who are hypersexual. They seem to sexualize everybody and have no boundaries.
The issue is that these sick individuals have a common trait of being a stay at home dad. I experienced childhood abuse very young, I actually didn’t have recollection until I was older. I never liked my father growing up, didn’t trust him or leaving any child around him. He was too a stay at home dad, which is why they often take that role. So that they can stay home and abuse children. I am so sorry that happened to you and I hope you’re able to find healing. Be careful who you have a child with.
🧡 Thank you for being the splendid person you are. Thank you for sharing your story. And thank you for explaining so clearly how the body expresses the mind in illness. 🧡
I am so sorry you had to go through this, thanks for your courage to share such a personal story, most will keep this dark secret to themselves. I hope this video will help you heal and help others having gone through or still going through CSA. Im glad you told his family, and your family, and pray he never hurts another child or adult.
You are so brave. You are such a good mother too. Glad you're healing. Much love.
This man is sick😊😢😢
No s h I t
I was crying all the time! What a horrible story! The person who should have been protected you did that...
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Evil is a real thing it doesn’t stop always trying to harm people it’s sad 😢. I glad that she shared this so people can be on alert that this is actually happening
This story broke my heart in half for you to go through all of this being a child and him telling you everything makes him the biggest POF to ever live. I hope you Have the best life for now on you didnt deserve none of this and he deserves no mercy.I truly wish you happiness. You deserve it❤
You sweet girl.....I am so sorry this happened to you. You are loved. May god fill you with light.
This hurt me to watch because I understand all too well the feeling of unworthiness and not loving myself. Depression and suicidal thoughts are hard to fight. This is what abuse looks like. It stays with you forever unfortunately. 💔
I had a similar experience and also def having kids brought up a lot. You are very wise. Thanks so much for sharing, it helps me not feel alone.
I think the editing makes this story make no sense cause i’m TOTALLY lost
Made me sad that she cried as she breastfed her babies. She should have been able to embrace motherhood 😢
Her father should be locked up. I highly doubt she was the only child he had abused.
She didn’t want to get him locked up because she “didn’t want to see him again” 🤔
@@OrganicUnitedProductionsif he went to jail, she wouldn't have to see him again.
@@bodaciousbethany0 not true
@@OrganicUnitedProductions you're right, these type of people don't get much time.😠😡🤬
@@bodaciousbethany0 sad
Thank you for your honesty. I wish you all the healing you need. Let your story have a life purpose for other victims. Wishing you from now on a better life because you deserve it.
Thank you for sharing your life story with us. The more this is shared and talked about the more we can fight it from happening to others. I hope to one day be strong enough to be this brave myself, until then I work on staying safe and mentally as healthy as I can be. So very proud of you darling 🥰
I listened to your story while trying to read the subtitles. Such a sad story so sorry you went through this torture. Hell has a special place for him.
Another inconsistency…she said he came back into their life when she was 10. She then says when she was 6 what he did to her. The lies are prob why her sister was estranged from her for a while
I thought she was kinda lying.. the way shes telling the story is so weird also the fake tears🤔🤔🤔
Right!!!!
The fake tears…. Besides all the other red flags, why can’t you cry?? Why are you forcing yourself and the tears still won’t come…
Fake crying why???
She said sick, not six
Thank you for sharing. You are beautiful inside and out.
I know from personal experience as a mother myself that some fathers are unfortunately not fathers. I’m sorry 😞 you went through this. I’m a single mother too and I won’t date anyone either cuz I don’t want anyone abusing my kids or me either. I don’t understand how a parent can do that to their own children 👧
So brave! I’m so proud of you! None of it was ever your fault!!! 🙏🏾💙
Michelle, you are the bravest, strongest person I've ever seen. I'm happy for you that you're able to talk about what happened to you. Being able to talk about it is the most major step toward healing. Wait till God gets His hands on this guy! Being a father is the one job God Himself gave him and he not only failed miserably but, basically spit in God's face! If I was him, I'd be terrified of the cosmic pay back he's created for himself.
Thank you for sharing your truth. Sending you so much healing, light and love. Our voices our powerful.
Thank you so much for sharing your story! You are beautiful and strong and brave ! I love that you are not just a victim…you are a survivor and (at least in this video) you carry yourself as such!! God bless you and I pray that you’re story will reach and help others know that , IT IS NOT OK…no matter who it is!! Thank you again❤️❤️
You are a good person. I'm so sad you were used that way. You didn't deserve that. You deserved a good father, not that despicable man. I'm glad you have a loving family now. You are very strong!
What you went through is horrible and nobody should go through such horrible things. However, you are strong and you look so beautiful and healthy and much younger than 39. You are awesome!
I agree. She looks like she’s 28.
Oh sweetie, I am so sorry that you had to deal with so much. This world can be a very cruel one but also a very beautiful one. I am glad you have your channel, your own immediate family and some great healed extended family as a support system for you and each other. You seem like a beautiful and smart person and a great mommy. Take time when you need it, get help when you are having a bad time.....we all have our issues, some worse than others. Peace, love, healing and laughter to you and your loved ones. 💖
Not trying to be rude or mean, but something is VERY off about her story. The tears, emotions and body language are off. Wishing her all the best, and I hope she is getting the mental health support she clearly needs
She has shared her story a lot on RUclips so I think there's probably a script that is just ran through and eventually you become numb to your story. I do believe her. She seems very sincere.
@@ronin8402 , Store true or not, clearly she is in need of mental health support and I hope she is receiving it. If the story is being told based on a script (even if she wrote her story down) that very much is a red flag.
Everyone’s thinking it.
I have PTSD myself-- she does not seem off to me. She seems like she chuckles and tries to make "jokes" when she is talking about things she finds embarassing. It is totally nomal to me that a person would smile and make weird facial expressions while talikg about their abuse and the abuser.
I am inclined to believe her.
Michelle you are wonderful and I'm so sorry that this man did this to you. He is damaged and very evil. I'm so glad that you are alive and here to be a mom for your kids. God is with you and your family. Love coming from Pennsylvania
She’s is so gorgeous I feel so bad for her
Thank you for telling your story to the world. Thousands of broken homes will begin healing because of your generosity! 😇
I'm so terribly sorry for everything you've gone through. Your father is a disgusting monster and nothing was ever your fault. I'm honestly glad that you were able to repress your memories but at the same time it's very obvious that the abuse was still very much affecting you even without the memory. Repressed memory of extremely common for childhood sex abuse survivors especially those who were abused chronically and from such a young age. Even when your mind didn't engender your body did. As fucked a it is to hear all those things I will say in a way it's positive that he told you bc now you know why you felt like you did and everything else now you're able to get some help about what was done and with your repressed memory
Thank you for being so brave and sharing your story. I’m so glad you are able to have your own kids and bravely face your past. Can’t believe how brave you are🤗💚🙌🏽
Bless you Sweety that was not your fault stay Strong 🙏🙏🙏
Her MONSTER should be in prison. He's certainly capable of hurting children. She's not his only prey I'm sure. Press charges.
I just love you hermana.
You are STRONG AF.
He enjoyed telling you all about his abuse! Awful for you sweetheart. I hope he spent the rest of his life in jail. It’s a illness when men are attracted to their children. You were scratching yourself because he had abused you. I’ve seen other children who have been molested do the same thing. I feel for you and your family. Pressing charges is to make sure he gets what he deserves. I hope you’re able to find trust and happiness. It wasn’t right what he did to you. Please don’t doubt your innocence in it. These people ruin children’s lives and then walk away. God bless. ❤
She didn’t want to get him locked up because she “didn’t want to see him again” 🤔
@@OrganicUnitedProductionsyes, that is what a lot of abuse survivors do. They dont press charges because they want to avoid facing the abuser..
So sorry that happened to you, right back at you. “You are not broken, you are worthy, you are loved “! It’s something that you were depressed, self mutilating, and you didn’t know why. ..Continued prayers for you in your journey to heal👍🏼🍀😎🙏❤️