Lovvvve that you can be so vulnerable on this platform, good on you Rasa. I couldn't quite hear what your significant other was saying so I will be watching this again, got a sleeping 3 month old on my chest and didn't want to pump up the volume further in case he wakes up and screams the place down 😱 Good on you guys for having this conversation on here and normalising these types of conversations between partners
No , I am definitely the same , and I think its important to say it out loud 😉. It's ok to feel yealous, now how you deal with it that really matters 😇
Thank you for this! I was recently dating a dancer and unfortunately it didn’t work out due to my jealousy issues. He also seemed to have many friends that were girls and he was playful with them. I talked to him about it and he didn’t want to change. So needless to say, it didn’t work out.
I'm sorry to hear that , but there is a lot of dancers who are just not ready to be in a serious relationship. It's better to move a long and look for someone who is more suited 💓💓💓
New dancer here and these videos are very incite full!!! Love that you guys are getting more personal instead of only instructing videos! I can be a jealous person so this was helpful to know im not alone 😂😂😂
You did it again, Rasa, what a great topic that is so real in the world of dancing. Thank you for sharing your wisdom and life experience. Also, you're so funny, keep the videos coming, your personality makes your channel so unique. Thanks again, Rasa🤩
I can’t stand my SO dancing with other guys . It seems to be a value I just don’t want in a romantic relationship. Not wanting other guys touching her the way I only want to be touching her , it’s pretty simple . Do you class this as jealousy 😔?
@@DanceWithRasa . I trust her, & definitely don’t stop her from dancing. Trusting every other guy partner is something that’s “VERY” hard to do, “especially” single guys. I can’t do that. I don’t know how one can do that? If that’s even possible! Would love to see some more videos on this subject , as I know so many who need this help also. Thanks Rasa 🫶
Could you explain why it's important to dance with multiple partners and not just each other? I feel like this is a major source of my own jealousy around things like this. While I can imagine myself dancing with others it's hard to imagine my significant other doing this. But maybe if I understood why people in general like having different dance partners then I could better accept the situation and shed some jealousy.
I dont think it's important it's just how this social dance is. Culturely you are supposed to dance with your mother, friends and loved ones. Of course , your lover would be a different connection, but overall, it is supposed to be just a dance 😉.
Proper answer to this as a regular dancer. I find if you use the right technique, the closeness of bachata sensual is extremely illusory, so much so that I guarantee you men actually notice when women "dance flirt" 😂. Otherwise, I don't think it happens much at all. For example, I would be far more jealous with kizomba (particularly douceur) and tango than bachata. And this isn't just because of the closeness, but also the length of the song. Bear in mind that most non-flirt dances usually don't last for more than one song. If men are inappropriate on the dance floor, then that's not really dancing, that is making out, and one should be jealous!
Jealousy to me is a irrelevant emotion imo. Either your partner respects you or they don't. Whether you're jealous or not their actions will still be the same.
Acho o assunto interessante pois pelo caminho perde-se alguns bailarinos que asoram a dança e a música , o que é preciso é confiança mútua para poderem desfrutar os dois.😊
I broke up with my BF bc he was sooo jealous of my dance instructor & me being in competitions with him! After I sent him videos of the competition, he said it looked like we enjoyed it too much He was nuts!!!
Great topic, love your honesty ❤ My husband and I both dance cross-body salsa and we decided long ago that we just don't dance bachata with anyone but each other, not because of jealousy but more because everyone now wants to dance sensual bachata and neither of us enjoy that so we both just end up feeling uncomfortable. We trust each other implicitly but we just don't enjoy dancing intimately with anyone but each other and for that reason bachata and kizomba are just a big no for us. Salsa on the other hand we will dance with anyone. We love dancing with each other and with others because we learn so much that way and then we chat about all our respective dances on the drive home. I think problems come because some people are doing salsa/bachata to meet a partner, not that that is inherently wrong in itself (that's how my husband and I met after all), but if they don't actually love the dance for itself - the music, the beat, the breaks, the instruments, the moves, the turn patterns etc then this comes through in the dancing and can make the person they are dancing with uncomfortable if that is not what they are looking for too. But when you dance with someone who gets the love of dance too then it becomes all about the dance and having fun together. So if I see my husband dancing and having fun with another lady who I can see is just enjoying the dance, I'm happy he is having a great dance. If I see him dancing with someone who is maybe looking to hook up then I giggle at how uncomfortable he is and how desperately he'll be wishing the song to be over 😂 Rxxx
Lovvvve that you can be so vulnerable on this platform, good on you Rasa. I couldn't quite hear what your significant other was saying so I will be watching this again, got a sleeping 3 month old on my chest and didn't want to pump up the volume further in case he wakes up and screams the place down 😱
Good on you guys for having this conversation on here and normalising these types of conversations between partners
Yes, we need to put a microphone on him 😂
Yes, please talk more about diff couples on the dance scene and your observations and insights 🙂
Will do 😇😇😇
Thank you for your honesty!! I thought I was the only one who felt like this!! 😅 xx
No , I am definitely the same , and I think its important to say it out loud 😉. It's ok to feel yealous, now how you deal with it that really matters 😇
Haha! I love your honesty Rasa! …” I want to destroy the country…”
🤣🤣🤣🤣 yeah that's me 🤣🤣🤣
I was NOT expecting you as a professional dancer to say you are jealous lmao.
Yes, I wanted to be honest, I am yealous but I also know it comes from my own place, its not rational so I am able to deal with it quite easy 😊
@@DanceWithRasa it take a abig person to admit it on a world wide platform.
Thank you for this! I was recently dating a dancer and unfortunately it didn’t work out due to my jealousy issues. He also seemed to have many friends that were girls and he was playful with them. I talked to him about it and he didn’t want to change. So needless to say, it didn’t work out.
I'm sorry to hear that , but there is a lot of dancers who are just not ready to be in a serious relationship. It's better to move a long and look for someone who is more suited 💓💓💓
you did well Vicky, never look back, i did the same with a girl who is not happy to compromise
Would you, pls, make a video on how to avoid follower's anticipation?
Sure, great idea 💡
@@DanceWithRasa Many thanks ❤
@@eb2689 🤩🤩🤩
I'm sorry but you're both too sweet of a couple for me to engage in serious convo about jealousy here :D Glad to see you both happy like that!
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@Damian Wilk
Funny, just had similar thoughts :)
@@angelika6521 🤩🤩
Your teaching videos and these real-life situations and advice are really unique on RUclips, Thank you Rasa :)
Well just trying to play my part 😊
New dancer here and these videos are very incite full!!! Love that you guys are getting more personal instead of only instructing videos! I can be a jealous person so this was helpful to know im not alone 😂😂😂
Oh definitely not on your own, it's all how we deal with it 😊😉
Thank you Rasa. My partner is a dance teacher and I struggle with jealousy a lot.
If he treats you with respect that should be enough, we trust them or we don't....we can not live in doubt 😉
You did it again, Rasa, what a great topic that is so real in the world of dancing. Thank you for sharing your wisdom and life experience. Also, you're so funny, keep the videos coming, your personality makes your channel so unique. Thanks again, Rasa🤩
I'm glad you think so 😁😁😁
I can’t stand my SO dancing with other guys . It seems to be a value I just don’t want in a romantic relationship. Not wanting other guys touching her the way I only want to be touching her , it’s pretty simple . Do you class this as jealousy 😔?
Not wanting her to be touch is normal. Not letting her dance, knowing they are not actually touching her that way, is jealousy 😉.
@@DanceWithRasa . I trust her, & definitely don’t stop her from dancing. Trusting every other guy partner is something that’s “VERY” hard to do, “especially” single guys. I can’t do that. I don’t know how one can do that? If that’s even possible! Would love to see some more videos on this subject , as I know so many who need this help also. Thanks Rasa 🫶
Yes more videos please!
More coming I promisse 🥰
I love this topic; thank you for bringing it up. Trust, respect and self-worth are the most important
Absolutely 💯
What if, you as a prof dancer have several half naked photos of yourself at home ? 😂
And ? It all depends on context
Could you explain why it's important to dance with multiple partners and not just each other? I feel like this is a major source of my own jealousy around things like this. While I can imagine myself dancing with others it's hard to imagine my significant other doing this. But maybe if I understood why people in general like having different dance partners then I could better accept the situation and shed some jealousy.
I dont think it's important it's just how this social dance is. Culturely you are supposed to dance with your mother, friends and loved ones. Of course , your lover would be a different connection, but overall, it is supposed to be just a dance 😉.
Thank you ,very good video
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You guys are so adorable😊
Oh thank you so much 💓
Rasa's jealousy will be the cause of WWIII
I an aware then my yealousy is on me lol controlling it 😂
I am made jealous but by seeing other leaders who are better than me and more sought out by the followers in socials...
That makes sense, but remember, there is always somebody better, all you can do is be best you can and just have fun 😊
I thought that was Jen Carlos Canela 🤯🤯🤯🤩🤩🤩🤩!!
🤣 my man is very handsome 😍
Proper answer to this as a regular dancer. I find if you use the right technique, the closeness of bachata sensual is extremely illusory, so much so that I guarantee you men actually notice when women "dance flirt" 😂. Otherwise, I don't think it happens much at all. For example, I would be far more jealous with kizomba (particularly douceur) and tango than bachata. And this isn't just because of the closeness, but also the length of the song. Bear in mind that most non-flirt dances usually don't last for more than one song. If men are inappropriate on the dance floor, then that's not really dancing, that is making out, and one should be jealous!
If a man is inappropriate, I think a girl should leave the dance and not let it last the whole song 😉
Jealousy to me is a irrelevant emotion imo. Either your partner respects you or they don't. Whether you're jealous or not their actions will still be the same.
That is true, respect is key 😉
Acho o assunto interessante pois pelo caminho perde-se alguns bailarinos que asoram a dança e a música , o que é preciso é confiança mútua para poderem desfrutar os dois.😊
I broke up with my BF bc he was sooo jealous of my dance instructor & me being in competitions with him! After I sent him videos of the competition, he said it looked like we enjoyed it too much He was nuts!!!
Yeah definitely feeling yealous is normal, but how you express it is a different story, being toxic about it definitely not good 😐.
The topic is great, however the sound was bad. Rasa was too loud while Spyros too hard to hear. I could hear the bird outsider, easier than Spyros.
Yes I agree , we definitely needed a mic for this one , but didn't have one handy 🫢 but definitely agree with your feedback 👍
What if you are jealous of how good his/her dance partner is? 😂😅🕺Aka dancer's jealousy!
Stop looking at them dance or practice to get better yourself 🤣
@@DanceWithRasa that... Or steal the girl / guy's move! 😈
@@dadada486 let's not steal anyone, play fair 🤣🤣🤣
@@DanceWithRasa OK, get tips and inspiration... Hehe
@@dadada486 😉🤗🤗
I don't get jealous at the dancing part. Should your dance partner take someone else (from the dance floor) out to their car for a drink?
Are you crazy 🤣🤣🤣🤣 the car would be set on fire 🔥 🤣🤣🤣 in a serious note, definitely not 😉
@@DanceWithRasa we will see how it goes tonight 😂
@@kiddo3134 good luck lol remember not looking at him is the key 🤣
@@DanceWithRasa thanks, it works
Great topic, love your honesty ❤ My husband and I both dance cross-body salsa and we decided long ago that we just don't dance bachata with anyone but each other, not because of jealousy but more because everyone now wants to dance sensual bachata and neither of us enjoy that so we both just end up feeling uncomfortable. We trust each other implicitly but we just don't enjoy dancing intimately with anyone but each other and for that reason bachata and kizomba are just a big no for us. Salsa on the other hand we will dance with anyone. We love dancing with each other and with others because we learn so much that way and then we chat about all our respective dances on the drive home. I think problems come because some people are doing salsa/bachata to meet a partner, not that that is inherently wrong in itself (that's how my husband and I met after all), but if they don't actually love the dance for itself - the music, the beat, the breaks, the instruments, the moves, the turn patterns etc then this comes through in the dancing and can make the person they are dancing with uncomfortable if that is not what they are looking for too. But when you dance with someone who gets the love of dance too then it becomes all about the dance and having fun together. So if I see my husband dancing and having fun with another lady who I can see is just enjoying the dance, I'm happy he is having a great dance. If I see him dancing with someone who is maybe looking to hook up then I giggle at how uncomfortable he is and how desperately he'll be wishing the song to be over 😂 Rxxx
That is so true and beautiful, most importantly you both have conversations and know where each other stand, I love that ❤️