16 Personalities When They're Single

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  • @FrankJames
    @FrankJames  3 года назад +307

    Share with your single pals
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    • @Amal91
      @Amal91 3 года назад +4

      All of them are married, I’ll share it with me haha🚶‍♀️

    • @VaniaAjah
      @VaniaAjah 3 года назад +2

      Suggestion : 16 personalities on Valentine's day 🤗😍

    • @ygalel
      @ygalel 3 года назад +1

      not a single pal have I

    • @zerodeconduite804
      @zerodeconduite804 3 года назад +1

      INFJ. I can’t do cool stuff so ... 100.

    • @LaceCoveredSkies
      @LaceCoveredSkies 3 года назад +2

      I miss your talking videos

  • @nutcaseina.nutshell8294
    @nutcaseina.nutshell8294 3 года назад +2774

    Single INFP: I want to find my fairytale significant other who'll swipe me off my feet, but no one meets my idealistic expectations and I have lost faith in humanity.

    • @marianahernandez6198
      @marianahernandez6198 3 года назад +261

      As an INFP there's a tip I've been trying to follow; stop spendig way too much time searching for the perfect person and start becoming the perfect person.
      But you probably already are so fuck it and listen some sad music😂🖤

    • @aihaamani182
      @aihaamani182 3 года назад +69

      I have never seen anything so accurate...

    • @shadowstalker8508
      @shadowstalker8508 3 года назад +34

      Lol best paradox ever right?

    • @ktyy777
      @ktyy777 3 года назад +92

      as another single INFP, I felt happy watching some of the other types being single cuz it looks like their priority was working on themselves and achieving stuff. I feel like becoming a healthy INFP involves focusing on ourselves too instead of constantly seeking out for our soulmates lol
      also I might not meet Prince Charming anytime soon, but if I idealize someone enough to be one maybe that might work ???? (half-kidding)

    • @meless1174
      @meless1174 3 года назад +75

      @@ktyy777 No. Don't idealize people. Seriously that's one of my biggest problems and it hurts me so much. I idealize people who don't even care about me. I don't want you to suffer the way I do. I'm working on it btw so don't worry about me.

  • @aestheticpotato2349
    @aestheticpotato2349 3 года назад +3028

    INFJ: “I don't need anyone to be happy”
    Also INFJ: Spend time at night thinking about where in the world is “the person” that will love and respect him/her.
    Edit: LOL, Im famous now...

    • @aestheticpotato2349
      @aestheticpotato2349 3 года назад +5

      Did I?

    • @aestheticpotato2349
      @aestheticpotato2349 3 года назад +5

      Im sorry

    • @aestheticpotato2349
      @aestheticpotato2349 3 года назад +6

      do you want me to delete this comment?

    • @Gracenglory5
      @Gracenglory5 3 года назад +101

      Nailed it!! Completely. The struggle is real. Then once I catch myself in wonderland then it’s, “what are you doing! You’re not going there again!” in order to get a high dose of reality to plunge me out of fantasy land...I’m good, I don’t want anyone 🥴 😝
      The endless indecision....

    • @dinorawr2667
      @dinorawr2667 3 года назад +15

      Seriously though-

  • @amyness3452
    @amyness3452 3 года назад +2624

    The INTJ one is a level of accuracy I did not want to think about

    • @roysibello1717
      @roysibello1717 3 года назад +35

      Oh god, yes.

    • @ygalel
      @ygalel 3 года назад +63

      We hate having to conform

    • @roysibello1717
      @roysibello1717 3 года назад +131

      @@ygalel We hate that we failed at something, actually. That even when we can be gifted in many areas, emotions are our kryptonite.

    • @suzanna3838
      @suzanna3838 3 года назад +6

      I wasn't even in front of the monitor and still new it was about me... *sob* But I would take this version of an ISTP. (Not the one I met in RL)

    • @bored_deductionist
      @bored_deductionist 3 года назад +1

      Yes

  • @rel4998
    @rel4998 3 года назад +823

    "Love is in the air!"
    INTx: *holds breath*

    • @okplay9446
      @okplay9446 3 года назад +135

      "The floor is love"
      INTx: *spiderman*

    • @Artnotforthesakeofart
      @Artnotforthesakeofart 3 года назад +4

      hahahahah

    • @wiedzmakBober
      @wiedzmakBober 3 года назад +12

      Damn, truth hurts

    • @lwi_sandwich
      @lwi_sandwich 3 года назад +6

      @@kitsune1946 a four letter word describing feelings overall positive.

    • @turtlefeesh
      @turtlefeesh 3 года назад +14

      @@kitsune1946 The biggest weakness of a human being.

  • @ohhhskyler
    @ohhhskyler 3 года назад +547

    me, an INTP, immediately after hearing the very first line: "this is INTP"

    • @Atomicwaffle50
      @Atomicwaffle50 3 года назад +35

      And the glasses

    • @snarkymcsnarkface1863
      @snarkymcsnarkface1863 3 года назад +27

      Yep... not quite how I would have phrased it... But the idea is spot on...
      For me it is more like...
      Friend: dude are you still single?
      Me: Yah I am single. (Puzzled look)
      Friend: when is the last time you were dating?
      Me: dating? Or sleeping around?
      Friend: umm dating?
      Me: what year is It?
      Friend: umm 2021, February...
      Me: hmmm about 30 years give or take a few months.
      Friend: okay (concerned face) sleeping around?
      Me; a week before the covid lock down, fairly confident that is when I got covid... But it was fun...

    • @sputnik_bred4978
      @sputnik_bred4978 3 года назад +17

      I was just "that sounds like me" and it was lol

    • @divita5116
      @divita5116 3 года назад +3

      bruhh how do you do that, i hear every one of these and think 'oh maybe thats me'

    • @ohhhskyler
      @ohhhskyler 3 года назад +2

      @@divita5116 😂 i admit i am that way with some of them as well, but this one fit me to a (in)T(p) 😉

  • @bipin3639
    @bipin3639 3 года назад +777

    0:00 intp (me lol)
    0:13 estp
    0:19 intj
    0:31 enfj
    0:41 isfj
    0:52 esfp
    1:10 istp
    1:19 isfp
    1:36 enfp
    1:47 esfj
    2:11 entp
    2:21 entj
    2:36 istj
    2:47 estj
    2:59 infp
    3:16 infj

  • @meh-maid6221
    @meh-maid6221 3 года назад +1544

    The mention of fictional characters hit me so hard my stomach hurts from the sucker punch i received.

    • @lampyrisnoctiluca9904
      @lampyrisnoctiluca9904 3 года назад +51

      My first love had superpowers too. And was smart. He literally had a darkness within himself. That was cool to me even before I became a teen.

    • @NuiYabuko
      @NuiYabuko 3 года назад +14

      @@lampyrisnoctiluca9904 Now I'm curious who that is.

    • @kellydeak7781
      @kellydeak7781 3 года назад +38

      I used to picture myself as the magical character in the book who then fell in love with another character smh

    • @ouihwi
      @ouihwi 3 года назад +11

      Same it really hit me hard :') nice shinoa profile pic btw lmao

    • @sarahgrace451
      @sarahgrace451 3 года назад +13

      I feel so called out like you didn't have to yell that for everyone to hear.

  • @fishnewt1331
    @fishnewt1331 3 года назад +1486

    Another alternative for INFJ: “I am not ready to date. I wouldn’t know the first thing about how to start one.”
    *Friend walks up asks for advice.*
    INFJ: “I KNOW EXACTLY WHAT YOU NEED TO DO!!!”

    • @elizychler9096
      @elizychler9096 3 года назад +31

      True! 😆

    • @armyofone5219
      @armyofone5219 3 года назад +58

      I gave advice for over 15 years before dating....we just need a partner that will listen to what we need from the relationship but men never listen to what we need, sucks to be an infj

    • @SS-xm2hf
      @SS-xm2hf 3 года назад +14

      No! Stop calling me out!

    • @anitanielsen1061
      @anitanielsen1061 3 года назад +10

      Lol. That’s exactly what I do fer my f**ked-up bestie!

    • @Jiyuchan3332
      @Jiyuchan3332 3 года назад +13

      @@armyofone5219 try reading " act like a lady, think like a man"
      It's really useful to know why men never listen

  • @sweeterlemons3062
    @sweeterlemons3062 3 года назад +314

    TIMES :D
    0:00- INTP
    0:12- ESTP
    0:19- INTJ
    0:30- ENFJ
    0:40- ISFJ
    0:53- ESFP
    1:11- ISTP
    1:20- ISFP
    1:36- ENFP
    1:45- ESFJ
    2:10- ENTP
    2:20- ENTJ
    2:35- ISTJ
    2:47- ESTJ
    3:00- INFP
    3:15- INFJ

  • @__Hannah__
    @__Hannah__ 3 года назад +301

    INFP- The worst part is genuinely liking someone at first and then falling further in love with a fictional version of that same person to the point that even they fall short of the version of them in your head, but you still hold them as your ultimate standard so you ignore all other options ;-;

    • @kapokikkodragneel1505
      @kapokikkodragneel1505 3 года назад +11

      Mhm, and it sucks cause I've been on the other end of that. And being idolised like that where the other person has made this whole other version of you in their head and expects you to be like that... It's not a nice feeling lol. Way too much pressure.
      Idk whether I'm an INFP, but I do know that I always do that lmao. And now I know how horrible that is not only for myself, but for the person I'm perfecting in my head as well lmao

    • @saraluisa3261
      @saraluisa3261 2 года назад +3

      @@kapokikkodragneel1505 Yes, I was going to say the same! I feel in my last relationship I got extremely idolized by my ex and then dumped out of the blue, because of course, I am not as perfect as they thought I was. Absolutely crushing.

    • @samzehra_1
      @samzehra_1 2 года назад +1

      DUDE SO RELATABLEEEE

    • @jessicaluk74
      @jessicaluk74 2 года назад +1

      Yes exactly

    • @kassandra0
      @kassandra0 Год назад +1

      You didn’t have to call me out like that 😭

  • @elizychler9096
    @elizychler9096 3 года назад +1390

    INFJ: why would I want to open up myself to someone who's probably just gonna hurt me? I don't need someone, I can live alone.
    Also INFJ: I want to have that special someone that I can have a deep connection with. I feel so lonely.

    • @armyofone5219
      @armyofone5219 3 года назад +74

      You stated that 100% correct how I have felt my whole life. I hate dating and just want someone who loves me to always be there for me if not I will not open up.

    • @ifonlyhappinesscouldlast4882
      @ifonlyhappinesscouldlast4882 3 года назад +26

      Infj : i'm a man with sad stories
      😎😐😦😧😨😰😭

    • @Chocaholixa
      @Chocaholixa 3 года назад +17

      Maybe this special someone ist just me, myself and I? So far the answer isn't entirely clear to me.
      What hurts more: being like that or being vulnerable way too fast to like... anyone who's able to have a deep conversation?

    • @ACrazyCrazyGirl
      @ACrazyCrazyGirl 3 года назад +51

      As an INFJ, I generally feel like that I just want to skip the dating part when you're still vulnerable and immediately have that trust and deep connection. Is that too much to ask for?😅😅

    • @angiestupp2968
      @angiestupp2968 3 года назад +9

      There's this movie "Same time, next year" about a man and woman who meet up the same weekend every year for 30 years. They're very close emotionally, spiritually, sexually, ect. It makes me wish I had something like that (guy friend who would be my best friend/lover for one weekend) while enjoying being single for the rest of the year.

  • @reallifepsych3309
    @reallifepsych3309 3 года назад +937

    16 Personality Fridays are my favorite Fridays

  • @hibabekkal9128
    @hibabekkal9128 3 года назад +929

    My friend is ENFP and he literally can’t stay single for a week , he says he « needs LuUv »

    • @hunk321100
      @hunk321100 3 года назад +68

      I'm the ENFP friend

    • @SNinjaQK
      @SNinjaQK 3 года назад +24

      i have two enfp brothers

    • @hibabekkal9128
      @hibabekkal9128 3 года назад +41

      @@hunk321100 you guys are great , from an INFJ btw

    • @hibabekkal9128
      @hibabekkal9128 3 года назад +11

      @@SNinjaQK you lucky to have them ^^

    • @JokerCrowe
      @JokerCrowe 3 года назад +36

      Is it possible to learn this power?
      (asking for an INFJ friend... which is me)

  • @cheyennesky5928
    @cheyennesky5928 3 года назад +864

    A 26 year old INFP, still single fantasizing about all my fictional crushes 🙃

    • @menekse1759
      @menekse1759 3 года назад +22

      I see Keanu, then I like your comment no matter what it says...

    • @cheyennesky5928
      @cheyennesky5928 3 года назад +15

      @@menekse1759 Haha you definitely have good taste in guys then 😂😋🌹

    • @massayundarii3624
      @massayundarii3624 3 года назад +21

      oh my god. i am an INFP too. now im 20 y.o.. and figuring out how i suppose to do if 6 years from now i haven't meet the perfect man i've been dating in my mind for years😳😨😰

    • @massayundarii3624
      @massayundarii3624 3 года назад +5

      @@cheyennesky5928 no. I got you sis. dont die alone🥲🤭

    • @Alyssa7513
      @Alyssa7513 3 года назад +2

      I'm the same age and this is exactly like me haha

  • @MelonieMac
    @MelonieMac 3 года назад +594

    EVERY TIME you get to INFP in your videos I feel attacked because true 😭

    • @NicoleMiami
      @NicoleMiami 3 года назад +12

      Right 🤣🥲😭

    • @kreepykutiexd
      @kreepykutiexd 3 года назад +12

      Hello fellow INFP

    • @amarylily
      @amarylily 3 года назад +7

      Same X'D

    • @iamthenothing6458
      @iamthenothing6458 3 года назад +15

      Im INFP and i knew as soon as he started that one that it was me

    • @annaluizasousa3095
      @annaluizasousa3095 3 года назад +6

      @@iamthenothing6458 dude, me too like, i've been having fictional crush since I was like seven ?????

  • @bettybear2313
    @bettybear2313 3 года назад +430

    INFJ was too accurate. I literally made a pact with my friend who's an INTP that of we're unmarried by our 30s we're living in a flat together with a dozen cats

    • @ibelieveinyou1696
      @ibelieveinyou1696 3 года назад +9

      Being vulnerable is important. That's how it works, by being unconditional. Your love might not be reciprocated, but still you would do it, because the person is way more worth than the pain.

    • @carolinefragoso8832
      @carolinefragoso8832 3 года назад +13

      I am an INTJ and I made a similar pact with my INFJ friend

    • @alexgranata.2016
      @alexgranata.2016 3 года назад +9

      ive already said this two times this week. I NEED AN INTJ FRIEND.
      btw its monday. just in case the joke wasnt clear enough.

    • @ibelieveinyou1696
      @ibelieveinyou1696 3 года назад +2

      @@alexgranata.2016 😂😂

    • @michaelhighlights1614
      @michaelhighlights1614 3 года назад +2

      @@alexgranata.2016 yes pls. entj would be fine too :D

  • @kathrinklein353
    @kathrinklein353 3 года назад +527

    "Kinda-like-each-other-island"
    I would totally watch that 😂

  • @julianzabala9010
    @julianzabala9010 3 года назад +596

    INFP: Lmao I'm an independant person, I don't mind being single.
    Also INFP: * aggressively saves ship fanarts and prompts on Pinterest and Instagram for a whole night *

    • @sugaryplum2737
      @sugaryplum2737 3 года назад +20

      Accurate..

    • @emmagreen6120
      @emmagreen6120 3 года назад +20

      Oh wow so true

    • @linneav1064
      @linneav1064 3 года назад +28

      I have a wedding folder and I am not getting married anytime soon...

    • @moonlight_pixie8395
      @moonlight_pixie8395 3 года назад +8

      Vivan INFP 😂 that’s my INFP friend too

    • @eval4495
      @eval4495 3 года назад +6

      @@linneav1064 😂 Me too, mine is on Pinterest.

  • @rheakim2344
    @rheakim2344 3 года назад +282

    Infj: humans are born to be alone, I've been molded by independence and loneliness I don't need anyone to prolong my life of suffering when they suddenly fall out of love and leave someday
    *Proceed to think at night while lying on bed when will I ever meet the soulmate I've created in my head

    • @shaymary5247
      @shaymary5247 3 года назад +1

      The 1st part: me to a T only I have so many more reasons of why I won't settle!
      The 2nd part: still a hell to the no for me!!!!!!!!! 🙃💀😛
      And I'm either INFP/J but feel like an INTJ on this topic! 😝

    • @raregoddess444
      @raregoddess444 3 года назад +8

      Currently still waiting to meet the soulmate I created in my head, which is really just me in male form 😂🙄. Infj we just meant to be alone I guess 🤷🏽‍♀️ no one gets us.

    • @bealvi281
      @bealvi281 3 года назад +5

      Hey buddy, are you an INFJ plus an ARMY....??🥺

    • @rheakim2344
      @rheakim2344 3 года назад +2

      @@raregoddess444 hhahah oh noo.. I relate to that deeply maybe we're just meant to be alone.. But who knows? Maybe one day we'll meet our soulmate too, only if we're still alive by then☺️

    • @rheakim2344
      @rheakim2344 3 года назад +3

      @@bealvi281 heyy yes I'm an army too💜

  • @nothingnew6360
    @nothingnew6360 3 года назад +331

    INFJ is the rarest personality type, and yet the comment section is full of us.

    • @Artnotforthesakeofart
      @Artnotforthesakeofart 3 года назад +47

      We've finally found a place we can be ourselves OPENLY!

    • @moaengeneletthemusic6201
      @moaengeneletthemusic6201 3 года назад +3

      😂😂😂 I know

    • @elise_elise13
      @elise_elise13 3 года назад +44

      Yeah I was curious about this so I looked it up. INFJs are most likely to be writers/bloggers/etc. than anything else so they feel very comfortable posting online, which is why we see them everywhere on the internet! It was pretty cool to find out

    • @tuliobraz1590
      @tuliobraz1590 3 года назад +10

      The rarest is the ENTJ. I almost never find a single comment of my personality haha.

    • @fl3640
      @fl3640 3 года назад +25

      @@tuliobraz1590 because ENTJs take a lot of time to even get to know mbti. they won't invest in something they think it won't benefit them. on the other hand INFJs, INTJs, INFPs, INTPs are the most interested in mbti. Plus frank's channel was and is a safe place for INFJs since he is one.

  • @squeegeeandcrew8619
    @squeegeeandcrew8619 3 года назад +152

    I’m an ENFP, & the amount of times I fell in love with a stranger for holding the door open for me is unbelievable.

  • @littlemars4482
    @littlemars4482 3 года назад +279

    When you are an INFJ and you get hurt just by liking someone without even knowing if they like you back and are scared to death to get into a relationship

    • @NSNFreedom
      @NSNFreedom 3 года назад +8

      That's really me though 😌

    • @meifennellysieu7510
      @meifennellysieu7510 3 года назад +8

      Okay, who's stalking me and narrating my emotions right now😂

    • @shaymary5247
      @shaymary5247 3 года назад +3

      Exactly... But IDK if I'm INFJ or INFP, esp since I have SOOOO many character crushes! 🙃

    • @littlemars4482
      @littlemars4482 3 года назад +7

      @@shaymary5247 There's a possibility of you being a mixture of both since a lot of people don't fit into a specific type or change depending on the time or the situation they are in

    • @shaymary5247
      @shaymary5247 3 года назад +2

      @@littlemars4482 exactly!!!

  • @Little_Miss_Limerence
    @Little_Miss_Limerence 3 года назад +449

    Me as a single INFP: likes to imagine a relationship where it's almost fairytale-like and end up getting lost in them that when we meet someone we get disappointed they don't meet our fantasized expectations ;-;

    • @yenneferL98
      @yenneferL98 3 года назад +35

      Sometimes I think all of us INFPs are the same person

    • @dreamerofdreams1167
      @dreamerofdreams1167 3 года назад +7

      @@yenneferL98 me too

    • @Maid_of_Spiders
      @Maid_of_Spiders 3 года назад +19

      @@yenneferL98 We are INFP. We are inevitable. We are legion.

    • @piskie1099
      @piskie1099 3 года назад +7

      @@Maid_of_Spiders *salutes* hello comrade

    • @seaweedbeach
      @seaweedbeach 3 года назад

      Yup

  • @sepmaz5080
    @sepmaz5080 3 года назад +149

    That ISTP one hits so close to home. It feels restricting to be in a relationship I don’t wanna care for someone’s feelings when I want to do something.

    • @benjaminharmon6541
      @benjaminharmon6541 2 года назад +12

      I'm recently single and it's actually...fucking amazing.

    • @apostle602gmail
      @apostle602gmail 2 года назад +10

      On one hand yes, but on the other - sex outside of relationships is damn expensive and includes actually having to talk to people

    • @noorzuhair6858
      @noorzuhair6858 2 года назад +2

      An infp here….and i can relate to what the istp said….like fr no need to bother my self being a partner to someone and having to stick to them all the time,sometimes i wanna do things on my own with no one telling me what or how to do it

    • @kleyrackerman
      @kleyrackerman 2 года назад +1

      I totally broke up with my ex 3 yrs ago and he was the first i've ever had a relationship w/ just because he's being dramatic whenever i don't feel like opening my phone and sleep, texting me when i'm busy when i was in high school, literally even texting my friends in class to take a photo of me for evidence and i hate it so much.

    • @bluesteel8376
      @bluesteel8376 Год назад +3

      @@kleyrackerman Your ex definitely sounds like he has some issues.

  • @im_just_vidu
    @im_just_vidu 3 года назад +227

    Me an INTP who's 23 years old and never had an affair my whole life:
    I can stay single for another century.

    • @ohhhskyler
      @ohhhskyler 3 года назад +25

      me at 26 and counting (also an INTP)

    • @midoriemi3859
      @midoriemi3859 3 года назад +8

      @@ohhhskyler Woooo i feel so noob with my 19, SENSEI 🙏

    • @daryljill5904
      @daryljill5904 3 года назад +1

      @@ohhhskyler i feel so attacked HAHAHA

    • @connorgrynol9021
      @connorgrynol9021 3 года назад +23

      Oh boy. So being single for my entire life and my personality being INTP isn't a coincidence.

    • @BurucuGaming06
      @BurucuGaming06 3 года назад +6

      Well a few years back, i did have a gf. For a month 😅 then she broke up with me and never had anyone after that. Im also an intp.

  • @lynef
    @lynef 3 года назад +536

    FJ's not really single. He's just waiting for the MSP airport girl.
    However long it takes.

  • @maikol1433
    @maikol1433 3 года назад +605

    Im single
    The INFP is 100% correct
    *I say as my main crushes are Anime Chacters*

    • @brauliozt8754
      @brauliozt8754 3 года назад +14

      Same here

    • @lerox3584
      @lerox3584 3 года назад +8

      Please suggest me anime to watch.

    • @GameplayzOfficial
      @GameplayzOfficial 3 года назад +24

      My girlfriend (INFP) have more waifus than I do.

    • @KillahkNiGhTs
      @KillahkNiGhTs 3 года назад +12

      I’m an INTJ, and I can relate to the anime characters. 😂

    • @loisrabies8713
      @loisrabies8713 3 года назад +4

      Same. But I’m also married so....and I crush on anime characters anyways. Yeah

  • @eveliniaou
    @eveliniaou 3 года назад +129

    The INFJ overthinking about the meaning of everything is so relatable

  • @kristyondruskova2966
    @kristyondruskova2966 3 года назад +552

    Me as an INFP: "I'm not single, in my head I'm already married to 20 anime characters😏"

    • @shaymary5247
      @shaymary5247 3 года назад +9

      Bruh! U discovered me!!!! I'm like this 1 lover that has 12 husbands, several dates (over 20+), & god knows what else, in my own world!!! 😋😋😋

    • @tobihoes5320
      @tobihoes5320 3 года назад +2

      me

    • @shaymary5247
      @shaymary5247 3 года назад +2

      @@Selinaschaaf BRUH! Too relateable! 😜😋

    • @pastelcats5248
      @pastelcats5248 3 года назад +9

      WAIT- only 20? I have like 106 husbandos!

    • @shaymary5247
      @shaymary5247 3 года назад +2

      @@pastelcats5248 I hear u on that 1! 😝😋

  • @hollylanghorst
    @hollylanghorst 3 года назад +509

    ISTJ: The math doesn't lie.

  • @laurelsamuelson3764
    @laurelsamuelson3764 3 года назад +241

    INTJ: Soul-searching? Ha!
    INTJ Subconscious: But intuitively they knew that voluntary suffering through abstract simulations now could minimize pointless conflict later and would also improve productivity and endurance.
    INTJ: Well crap.

  • @Gracenglory5
    @Gracenglory5 3 года назад +335

    The INFJ dilemma, yet when it comes down to it, hope and optimism has its way of weaseling in if a plausible opportunity presents itself....over and over and over again lol. Hopeless romantics just can’t stop the dream.

  • @pie1623
    @pie1623 3 года назад +354

    The INTP is always so accurate-

    • @stasmichalczak1705
      @stasmichalczak1705 3 года назад +9

      And sometimes little boring...

    • @sansnitizer
      @sansnitizer 3 года назад

      meh

    • @zacnyczeku1432
      @zacnyczeku1432 3 года назад +9

      Totally, I feel attacked

    • @GameplayzOfficial
      @GameplayzOfficial 3 года назад +6

      Yep, luckily I'm a 30 yo INTP with a girlfriend 🙌, or else I would completely relate to it.

    • @tigerheaddude
      @tigerheaddude 3 года назад +8

      Not relatable at all, but still funny how people see us

  • @inxbyinxby7837
    @inxbyinxby7837 3 года назад +83

    INFP thought of the day: "Having a real person in my life would be such a bother."

  • @cryzeljanebobiles8278
    @cryzeljanebobiles8278 3 года назад +70

    Me as an INFJ: *lists down all the traits that I want for a partner
    Also me as an INFJ: "There's no such guy in this world. Maybe I'm gonna be single for life."

    • @marvipendragon
      @marvipendragon 3 года назад +4

      Accurate. I'm in love with Howl (fictional character) and in love with the type of guy that I'd like to marry but doesn't have a face yet.

    • @keegster7167
      @keegster7167 6 месяцев назад

      yeah I've made lists like that countless times...

  • @ellybean7354
    @ellybean7354 3 года назад +143

    As an INFP i have fallen in love with many fictional characters. It got even worse when I discovered anime. Those bois are hot.

  • @robertholloway6612
    @robertholloway6612 3 года назад +86

    INFJ: "What's the point in falling in love? You're just going to alter yourself anyways. And it took me years just to develop this personality."

  • @levim24
    @levim24 3 года назад +43

    Yes, I can confirm ENFP is accurate. We like to tell ourselves we don’t want to be in a relationship when we’re single, but our romantic side awakens as soon as someone else shows interest.

    • @evolili4245
      @evolili4245 3 года назад +5

      Yes, unfortunately also the other way around, when in a relationship we quickly start to miss our freedom and options😭 or is it just me?

    • @okplay9446
      @okplay9446 3 года назад +4

      I'm an INFJ and I can relate, it's almost like I can't allow myself to develop feelings for someone because I know it'll make me unstable, unless the other person reciprocates these feelings.

    • @eunji837
      @eunji837 3 года назад +2

      @@evolili4245 no is not just you I'm ENFP and i Totally agree with u 😩👉👈✨

  • @alittlemrzn9891
    @alittlemrzn9891 3 года назад +81

    Does anyone else get very happy when their personality type fits them?
    Because I do.

  • @MichaelGrundler
    @MichaelGrundler 3 года назад +27

    ISTP is totally accurate even though it's only part of the truth, at least for me. On the one hand I would love to have a partner and am actually drawn to certain feeling types but on the other hand whenever I spend a little more thought on it I remember that I already don't really have enough time to do all the things I want to do.

  • @chaoticbreeze6262
    @chaoticbreeze6262 3 года назад +416

    Still the INFJ would risk being vulnerable somehow 😂.

    • @victoriaklenke5848
      @victoriaklenke5848 3 года назад +5

      Amen lol

    • @justanerdyhobbitgirl
      @justanerdyhobbitgirl 3 года назад +4

      Yup

    • @chaoticbreeze6262
      @chaoticbreeze6262 3 года назад +14

      @luuk groot yeah, I mean too much accidental spontaneity...?

    • @quirogatnonerrat3214
      @quirogatnonerrat3214 3 года назад +21

      I always present myself not as who I am but with bits and pieces of who I really am and who I am not. Cannot let anyone know me 100%, that is insane, no one should be that vulnerable intentionally, no one.
      I also pretend to be a bit dumb, like Columbo does, it gives me an advantage because everyone lets their guard down and I can clearly see who they are, as well as their vulnerabilities.
      Like, they are putting themselves on a plate: "hey, this is me and these are my insecurities and how to destroy me, but for some absurd reason I trust the other person won't use any of this against me" 🤦🏻‍♀️
      Like, why would you do that? Most people blackmail or ruin that person's life knowing his/her vulnerabilities. It is a fact! I see it everyday, cant deny its existence, cant!

    • @armyofone5219
      @armyofone5219 3 года назад +6

      @@quirogatnonerrat3214 I act the same way with acting dumb to people to see people for who they are and I haven't found any good friends or lovers, I dump people as soon as they lie to me. I can't stand lies.

  • @winterdragon560
    @winterdragon560 3 года назад +304

    Title :16 personalities when they are single
    My INTJ a** who was single ma entire life: 👁👄👁

    • @messilm7738
      @messilm7738 3 года назад

      intj ass lol
      mistyped vibes over here

  • @sunnysal3889
    @sunnysal3889 3 года назад +127

    Just say no to risking rejection. We all die alone anyway. 🤷🏼‍♀️ - INFJ

    • @ifonlyhappinesscouldlast4882
      @ifonlyhappinesscouldlast4882 3 года назад +4

      Hey one day the flowers will bloom again in barren land .😔

    • @senalilvanya
      @senalilvanya 3 года назад +3

      Ouch😂💔

    • @fairywww
      @fairywww 3 года назад +1

      yes

    • @martinusv7433
      @martinusv7433 3 года назад +3

      Yep, this life starts alone and it ends alone. In the end, everyone is going to be on their own (and only religions could truly mitigate that solitude, not other human beings).
      So in other words, we'll just have to learn to live with ourselves and by ourselves, to learn to appreciate our own company 😇 because we're always going to be stuck with ourselves anyway.
      Ultimately, it's futile to try to run away from yourself and get so desperately attached to others, because those attachments can't possibly last forever, and in the end, you'd be back where you started from (i.e. fearing your own company in solitude) 🙆

    • @fairywww
      @fairywww 3 года назад +2

      @@martinusv7433 agreed

  • @NoobyNuisance
    @NoobyNuisance 3 года назад +25

    As a taken INFP, a couple months before I was in this relationship, I gave up on finding someone because I knew that no one would meet my expectations...
    Then I met my current partner (who is also an INFP), and somehow we meet each other's expectations. We've been together for 2 years, and one of those years has been long distance because of quarantine. It helps that we both want a fairy tale and will communicate to ensure we get that.

  • @wenkenobi8314
    @wenkenobi8314 3 года назад +56

    I'm ENFP & you couldn't have nailed this one better. Dating an INFJ, ex is an ENTP...kids are INFP & INTP. ❤ I'm binging on your videos. So 👏 many 👏 honest 👏 laughs.

  • @virginiaferreyra1027
    @virginiaferreyra1027 3 года назад +200

    Last time I was this early, Timmy wasn't annoying yet.

    • @memealicious787
      @memealicious787 3 года назад

      :00000
      WHEN WAS THAT!?

    • @virginiaferreyra1027
      @virginiaferreyra1027 3 года назад +14

      @@memealicious787 *old man voice* many moons ago, when the Earth wasn't fully formed yet...

    • @memealicious787
      @memealicious787 3 года назад +6

      @@virginiaferreyra1027 , pfffffttttttt yeah no wonder I wasn’t aware 🤣

  • @Kayla-mk9lp
    @Kayla-mk9lp 3 года назад +141

    ENFP- at this point its just a roller coaster of emotions being single LOL

    • @tatianavutsan5292
      @tatianavutsan5292 3 года назад

      Right??!

    • @memealicious787
      @memealicious787 3 года назад +7

      PERIODT
      When I see kdramas, I’m like “OH MAH GAWD 🥰
      Why am I single🥺”
      When I see my parents:
      “-_-
      That’s why...”

    • @meg136
      @meg136 3 года назад +15

      I'm dreaming of a soulmate but not only because I want to be loved, but I want to give love so badly.

    • @danika9411
      @danika9411 3 года назад +6

      @@meg136 Yes! There is too much love in my body! Who can I smother with it? Show yourself!

    • @MariCanta
      @MariCanta 3 года назад +1

      @@meg136 same ;_;

  • @gvantsasakaruli9900
    @gvantsasakaruli9900 3 года назад +232

    As an INTJ... I do know my faults but people with no brain are out.

  • @SharklordZerato
    @SharklordZerato 3 года назад +22

    Honestly as an ISTP I love these videos. They feel so accurate

  • @MothmanInHisChibiEra
    @MothmanInHisChibiEra 3 года назад +47

    ISTP is insanely accurate. Even when I did find someone I’d risk that freedom for, he’s also an ISTP so we both act like this but together 😂

    • @vegan__girl
      @vegan__girl 3 года назад +2

      Wow I'm so happy for you, I'm an ISTP too and i want someone who is ISTP too, I'm into open relationships actually, I can't handle the fact that I have to stay very loyal to one person, also I can't imagine myself getting married lol.

    • @ericm.3791
      @ericm.3791 3 года назад

      10 years post divorce, ISTP quite accurate. Might take some interaction.

  • @333invitado
    @333invitado 3 года назад +33

    Man, INFJ is so accurate :') I'm so afraid of putting myself out there and facing rejection I'm pretty settled with dying alone by now :')

  • @ellybean7354
    @ellybean7354 3 года назад +106

    It's valentines season, of course we needed this to remind us how single we are.

    • @user-qs3qf5lw9k
      @user-qs3qf5lw9k 3 года назад +4

      It's a whole season, now?! I mean, I'm all for celebrating chocolate, but when did Valentine's Day get to be a whole season?

    • @ellybean7354
      @ellybean7354 3 года назад +1

      @@user-qs3qf5lw9k I just mean, when people start thinking about what to get their lover and when Walmart is all pink and Red.

  • @marcellotrove489
    @marcellotrove489 3 года назад +61

    This guy is literally casting 16 types of peaples, give this man an oscar right now

  • @liviahacker
    @liviahacker 3 года назад +25

    the ISFJ one hit a level of accuracy I didn’t think it was possible. I’m scared

  • @mickmash-5192
    @mickmash-5192 3 года назад +24

    20 years happily single. INTP could not be more accurate.

  • @sarah52292
    @sarah52292 3 года назад +142

    Yet here I am, an INFJ who has been single for 10 years being vulnerable to guys I just met.

    • @davidduran445
      @davidduran445 3 года назад +6

      Can relate

    • @rainbowrocks1020
      @rainbowrocks1020 3 года назад +3

      Lol 10? Try 17

    • @sofianuya5460
      @sofianuya5460 3 года назад +4

      Try 27 :')

    • @rebecam5349
      @rebecam5349 3 года назад +14

      You're either vulnerable right away or you never are... The answer is not yet clear to me

    • @memealicious787
      @memealicious787 3 года назад +1

      Gf guard yourself 🥺
      You’re precious and important and there a lot of nasty envious ppl in the world 🥲

  • @emmanelson5363
    @emmanelson5363 3 года назад +70

    As an INFP/J: I’m mentally married to a figment of my imagination and still am trying to decide if dying alone or risking vulnerability is the better choice.

    • @Traumatised311
      @Traumatised311 3 года назад +2

      Yeah as a fellow infp i can confirm it sure is a better choice

    • @jesthebob
      @jesthebob 3 года назад +2

      Sounds familiar

    • @rymanshroomzorz
      @rymanshroomzorz 3 года назад +4

      Take a chance lol, you can always take it at your own pace and open up bit by bit, as a fellow infj I feel your struggle lol.

    • @Artnotforthesakeofart
      @Artnotforthesakeofart 3 года назад +3

      Dying alone sounds good to me as an INFJ!

    • @TentenchiAMVs
      @TentenchiAMVs 3 года назад +2

      Took the words right out of my mouth. T_T - INFP

  • @aviralsinghal1274
    @aviralsinghal1274 3 года назад +122

    Why did you have to open our wounds frank.
    now i am depressed again.

  • @jehmarxx
    @jehmarxx 3 года назад +48

    I have the INFJ and INFP perspectives together: To be in a relationship knowing that the other could scar you for life anytime; or, to be in a relationship with an imaginary and ideal (possibly magical) soulmate ... (but one day you will dream that she will hate you and you end up killing yourself and then breaking her heart into heart powder of regret).

    • @pal8542
      @pal8542 3 года назад +7

      Sometimes, I think even if my fictional crush was real, they wouldn't spare me a single glance. But then I use that as motivation to become good enough. There's something very unhealthy about that though🤷‍♀️

    • @cordlesscomic6302
      @cordlesscomic6302 3 года назад +1

      Same

    • @rymanshroomzorz
      @rymanshroomzorz 3 года назад +1

      Honestly torn between being single so I can focus on my ambitions and filling the void of loneliness by finding a nice loyal lady to spoon with lmao.

    • @liveanimelfy1516
      @liveanimelfy1516 2 года назад +1

      Same feeling as it's a mixture of both INFJ & INFP😂

    • @jessicaluk74
      @jessicaluk74 2 года назад

      Same I'm an INFP and relate to both

  • @The_Chamel3on
    @The_Chamel3on 2 года назад +8

    As an ISTP who constantly worries about everyone else's feelings, that sounds like heaven.

  • @JasonMoir
    @JasonMoir 3 года назад +149

    I don't want to deal with all the soul-searching crap either.

    • @UlimiteinemL
      @UlimiteinemL 3 года назад +3

      bold of you to watch this video :D

    • @ErezElene
      @ErezElene 3 года назад +8

      See I feel like the intj was a little inaccurate, because as an INTJ I'm constantly evaluating myself

    • @sanjaminic1978
      @sanjaminic1978 3 года назад +4

      @@ErezElene but probably not the painful bits that prevent you from forming a real human relationship. (Whatever that means)

    • @boxydoo22
      @boxydoo22 3 года назад +1

      @@ErezElene was she wrong....

    • @finalarbitrator4551
      @finalarbitrator4551 3 года назад +1

      @@ErezElene Yeah me too (INTJ here). I've never had a girlfriend, never went on a date, never pursued anything romantic or sexual with anyone. But that's because I never found anyone interesting enough or someone with a similar ethical/moral value system as mine. I could already predict that most girls who were interested in me wanted to pursue something shallow and I do not like such meaningless drama and investing my emotions into something which has no future. But that doesn't mean I don't do 'soul searching'. I constantly evaluate myself and everyone around me and when I do find something wrong with myself (which happens very rarely), I work on correcting it. I am perfectly fine being single till I find someone compatible with my values. I'm only 21 so there is a lot of time left :)

  • @MBTIMemes
    @MBTIMemes 3 года назад +50

    "And until next time, stay cool and attractive"
    Okay and what if I never was either to begin with?

  • @lynnes1864
    @lynnes1864 3 года назад +16

    I don't stay unattached for all that long even though I'm INTP but I find it stupid when men are like "stop being picky or you'll end up alone." And? It's not like the sky falls when I'm alone.

    • @kitsune1946
      @kitsune1946 3 года назад

      Im a infj guy and I can't relate to any other dude regarding relationships

  • @makenapearce8318
    @makenapearce8318 3 года назад +6

    enfp was so accurate it was insane. i ALWAYS SAY THAT IM JUST WORKING ON MYSELF

  • @durr2740
    @durr2740 3 года назад +5

    0:00 - INTP
    0:12 - ESFP
    0:19 - INTJ
    0:30 - ENFJ
    0:40 - ISFJ
    0:53 - ESFP
    1:10 - ISTP
    1:21 - ISFP
    1:37 - ENFP
    1:46 - ESFJ
    2:10 - ENTP
    2:20 - ENTJ
    2:36 - ISTJ
    2:46 - ESTJ
    3:00 - INFP (

  • @yugyeomiexx7383
    @yugyeomiexx7383 3 года назад +47

    I get it that we’re single but I’d love to see the 16 personalities getting scared/stuck in an elevator pls

  • @saslyaxkamen9235
    @saslyaxkamen9235 3 года назад +44

    I wanted to write something else, but that would have left me too vulnerable on the internet. I'm still trying to be a little open though - INFJ

    • @lillyputin4147
      @lillyputin4147 3 года назад +4

      At least we always have "delete".

    • @katie6723
      @katie6723 3 года назад +1

      Never felt a comment more. lol

  • @JigokuShoujoYuki
    @JigokuShoujoYuki 3 года назад +49

    ISTP spillin' facts as always

    • @addie9708
      @addie9708 3 года назад +1

      yes a fellow istp

    • @vegan__girl
      @vegan__girl 3 года назад

      It's meee

    • @tuluppampam
      @tuluppampam 3 года назад

      I think that ISTP couldn't be more controversial
      Just the thought of another ISTP

  • @Arniqua
    @Arniqua 3 года назад +41

    ENTJ's is exactly my reason of staying single.

  • @justlivinglife2532
    @justlivinglife2532 3 года назад +51

    INTJ here!
    I'm well aware that part of the problem I'm single is from my side. But I have super high expectations for a partner, and I'll rather die alone than settle. Plus, being super independent makes relationship things hard. 🤷‍♀️

    • @Jooney91
      @Jooney91 3 года назад +7

      Exactly my thoughts! The hardest part is that if you solve your issues, your expectations become even higher because your value rises even higher. It is so hard to be this perfect 🥲

    • @stefane2153
      @stefane2153 2 года назад +1

      Yeah, we have lots of expectations to someone, especially when it comes to appearance

    • @beatjunkybg
      @beatjunkybg 2 года назад

      Exactly where I'm at right now. After a 2+ year relationship I'm done settling, next partner should be either perfect for my type of character or no one! lol

    • @stefane2153
      @stefane2153 2 года назад

      @@beatjunkybg lol how this is gonna work?

    • @beatjunkybg
      @beatjunkybg 2 года назад

      @@stefane2153 I guess we'll find out hahha. Better being alone rather than wasting your time with the wrong one

  • @LauraLibiete
    @LauraLibiete 3 года назад +46

    Single ENFP: just yesterday I was telling my friend that I’m done with dating random people and I’ll just focus on myself for a while. 😂 And then he offered to set me up for a date with someone he knows. And I was like - sure, why not 😂

    • @jameswilkerson4412
      @jameswilkerson4412 3 года назад

      What’s your friend’s MBTI?

    • @anilaathomas
      @anilaathomas 3 года назад

      I wonder what it feels to be like enfp or extrovert......

    • @Raindancer221
      @Raindancer221 3 года назад +1

      I told my friends the same thing, and then two days later i met someone and now i can't even tell them about it because of what i said :D

    • @_ianjms
      @_ianjms 3 года назад +1

      @@anilaathomas pretty much like an introvert. We ENFPs are the most introverted of extroverts, we hate small talk and we're like very much open INFPs who like to share ideas to people. We're very spontaneous and would like to do all of the stuff that we plan in our head but frankly it's a lot so we can only do so much irl. XDD

  • @ry8880
    @ry8880 3 года назад +58

    INFP: "If I could, I'd go back in time and stop myself from falling in love with fictional characters as a kid."
    Yeah, I fell in love with Dean Winchester. He's so cool 🤣 Damn it! that's so accurate Frank

    • @valdemar83
      @valdemar83 3 года назад +4

      @RY My wayward son... Why you no carry on?

    • @ry8880
      @ry8880 3 года назад +3

      @@valdemar83 OMG! That song hit me so hard when I watched the last episode 😭

    • @valdemar83
      @valdemar83 3 года назад +2

      @@ry8880 I know 🖤. Every time 🎼 - never ending experience of the ache of saudade.

    • @niloo_in_blue
      @niloo_in_blue 3 года назад +2

      I was going to say the same thing about Sam😂

    • @alissameeker
      @alissameeker 3 года назад +1

      I think my first fictional crush was Luke Skywalker 😂

  • @shizzaabid1333
    @shizzaabid1333 3 года назад +73

    Infj : Thank God! lesser worries being single.
    Infj after a min: how on earth can I live alone!

    • @justanerdyhobbitgirl
      @justanerdyhobbitgirl 3 года назад +4

      Me

    • @sarah52292
      @sarah52292 3 года назад +10

      That’s literally my struggle!! Some days I’m happy single. Other days I’m miserable without someone. Uggh 😫

    • @pixiedust6630
      @pixiedust6630 3 года назад +4

      Ughhh the struggle

    • @elizychler9096
      @elizychler9096 3 года назад +3

      Yup that's me 😔

  • @meixichen2007
    @meixichen2007 3 года назад +13

    haha this video is too funny. Yes I admit as an ENTP sometimes rejection catches my attention more. But I do love reciprocity in terms of attention, dependence and care. Being outreaching takes a lot of energy and courage for us ENTPs too, but we do it for you! We’d love somebody to pamper our sprinting hearts too.

  • @eddiekitzhofer4245
    @eddiekitzhofer4245 3 года назад +11

    As an ISTP, I appreciate the accuracy of your ISTP interpretations.

    • @apostle602gmail
      @apostle602gmail 2 года назад

      But then again, outside of relationships sex is way too expensive

  • @animatorireenie8319
    @animatorireenie8319 3 года назад +40

    This is terrifyingly accurate. - INTJ
    Although... I like being alone right now. My brain - my love.

  • @jamesarkland2380
    @jamesarkland2380 3 года назад +51

    INFJ : "Single is my middle name"

    • @Chocaholixa
      @Chocaholixa 3 года назад +2

      Maybe the F stands for friendzone xD

  • @kirstinpandurovivar3106
    @kirstinpandurovivar3106 3 года назад +46

    Me, an INFP who's still in love with Mr. Darcy
    *watches this video*
    Me: Seems accurate

  • @lookouthill11
    @lookouthill11 3 года назад +27

    As an INFJ who is finally feeling ok again after a breakup, dying alone is winning atm 😂

    • @twistedspike69
      @twistedspike69 3 года назад

      Just broke up with INTJ and having some trouble here

  • @callisastapp7160
    @callisastapp7160 3 года назад +16

    "Doesn't sound like I'm the one with the problem here"

    • @bettyboop8529
      @bettyboop8529 3 года назад

      Omg 100% me I knew that was my type before the ISTP came up🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ terrible I know

  • @WinterDoll06
    @WinterDoll06 3 года назад +48

    my big crush on draco malfoy since I was a kid has been called out and I honestly don’t feel bad about it :) - INFP

    • @sugaryplum2737
      @sugaryplum2737 3 года назад +2

      Haha yes!! And Damon Salvatore

    • @yourfavbtxh7398
      @yourfavbtxh7398 3 года назад +2

      SAMEEE

    • @shaymary5247
      @shaymary5247 3 года назад +1

      Snape for me, only I consider him my soulmate, tho he doesn't even exist in RL!!! 😂😂😂

  • @djhallmighty
    @djhallmighty 3 года назад +68

    "That steak was so raw, it could've gotten up and walked away."
    I'm dead.

  • @randomnobody8937
    @randomnobody8937 3 года назад +45

    Im an INFP and I sometimes I spend so much time imagining relationships with people who don’t exists that when I’m with my friends I feel like telling them about my “date on Saturday”, as if it actually happened

    • @T.J...
      @T.J... 3 года назад +2

      Me too, omg🙈

  • @habidihabidiha9091
    @habidihabidiha9091 3 года назад +14

    As an INTP can confirm. Been single for 20 years and ongoing😩

  • @brendemarco9976
    @brendemarco9976 3 года назад +10

    It's scary how accuretly he gets all the personalities, to the point of actually quoting them.

  • @khonager
    @khonager 3 года назад +29

    Didn't expect the INFJ one to be so accurate. That felt weird.

    • @armyofone5219
      @armyofone5219 3 года назад +5

      I feel like an infj needs to be with an infj

    • @NG-om2up
      @NG-om2up 3 года назад +3

      @@armyofone5219 I feel called out and I don't like it

    • @armyofone5219
      @armyofone5219 3 года назад +2

      @@NG-om2up why so?...did I stroke your ego the wrong way, tell me, how does it truly make you feel? I just think infj brain is so complex in thinking and I've never been liked by others when I like to talk deeply on subjects! I believe if I was with an infj it would be magical, becuz so much quite time between questions that push an infj to think deeply on subjects!

    • @NG-om2up
      @NG-om2up 3 года назад +1

      @@armyofone5219 well for myself...let me just start: I'm quite unsure whether I'm infj or not. Because I relate to it mostly but definitely makes u wish to be something else... overthinking is daily basis. I only was in only one relatively short relationship so far. I'm pretty sure that person is ENTJ and...well it felt wrong. Because at the same time where you're convinced and already giving it your all you always doubt the true connection. Even after reassurance (obviously communication is key and hypocrisy as well since I'm aware of all that but also...ye I don't think I have to explain it). A person who needs to talk with you how the weather is or shit is annoying. Personally asking how the day is or how you feel is a thing that I greatly like to get deep into...however I realized that my partner did not and it was more of a routine thing. Because sorting out every single aspect that effects your feelings thus talking about people or stuff you enjoy or not is really interesting for me. (I don't like to speak on behalf of all Infjs cause I do not want to feel stereotypic besides that I maybe am). It gets magical when you have at least something in common I would say. An interest. Because another example: In highschool there is this one girl I used to be interested in and she wanted to sit on the same bench as I did. (100% sure it was because we understood well but nothing more). She put the pressure on me with things like: let's talk, I'm bored etc. While I like to just sit there and kind of...exist. I do not need to speak the whole time. Just enjoying one another existence is one of the most beautiful things to me. Obviously deep conversations are great but...when I tried it with my ex it was always one sided. I talked for hours and explained my theories and logics behind human behaviour and it's mind and she was like: okay thank you but I have nothing to contribute except: I guess I agree...ye okay cool that completely explains to me how you perceive the world and even if it does I want to hear it from you and not imagine it myself. Now to the Infj with Infj... I can only talk from the side of Infj with Infp as a best friend. The person I had the deepest conversations with and every disagreement ended on an agreement on the subject or "agree on disagree.". Since we both respect each others stupidity. The best thing for both of us: we don't need to talk. We can sit for hours in a Voice call or together and just enjoy our own stuff while being happy to know, that the other person is there and even if one speaks up to another U won't get annoyed. Never. (Except it's on purpose ofc haha).
      Sry if this was completely something else from what you wanted to hear but if you want I can be more direct if you're precise about something )

    • @NG-om2up
      @NG-om2up 3 года назад +1

      @@armyofone5219 also no I didn't. Just currently I'm thinking wether or not I'm going to get to know a girl that is Infj and has the same interests as me...or not lol. Because of your"Infj needs Infj" I was like: damn this is like my situation but I'm unsure and to scared to ask out haha

  • @shinjaeshin9466
    @shinjaeshin9466 3 года назад +74

    me, an INFP: hey why u calling me out here huh *proceeds to fantasize abt my ideal type who definitely never existed in reality

    • @shaymary5247
      @shaymary5247 3 года назад +1

      And even if some1 in reality exists that I crush on, like celebs, I know I can't have them, so I crush harder & actually luv it!!!! 😂 If it were so easy, as picky as I am, I'd be like: 😐😑🙃!!

    • @shaymary5247
      @shaymary5247 3 года назад +1

      @@gjones9186 I'm in my mid 30s & crush TH on anime characters, ok?! And IDC what any1 thinks of that!! 🤣🤣🤣

    • @shinjaeshin9466
      @shinjaeshin9466 3 года назад +1

      @@shaymary5247 but when someone suddenly expresses that they like us, it feels so weird, like, 'what do you see in me' or something lol

    • @shaymary5247
      @shaymary5247 3 года назад +1

      @@shinjaeshin9466 either THAT, if we like them back only, or if we don't, I be like: oh hell no! Back TF up!! Go away! No. Ew!!! 🙃 But that's in my mind.

    • @shinjaeshin9466
      @shinjaeshin9466 3 года назад +1

      @@shaymary5247 we never try to say it because we might hurt them but yeah i do have those thoughts sometimes

  • @danielabenitez1264
    @danielabenitez1264 3 года назад +50

    2:45 I really needed to pause to look at ISTJ's projections 🤣🤣

    • @joshpaulson9607
      @joshpaulson9607 3 года назад +1

      “Output per unit of input,” and “input,” I think

  • @Caitlin_Mitchell
    @Caitlin_Mitchell Год назад

    INFP here! My last relationship ended due to my internal world. Well... that wasn't how things went for him. I was really interested for the first couple weeks, and then I realized that he'd never be able to be a part of my internal world the way my first partner was (I was with her for 8 years) and I also realized that I wasn't all that emotionally invested and I didn't want to string him along. I was physically invested because I'm touch-starved and he provided frequent affection, but I didn't want to be in a relationship with him just for that. So when he asked for a break, I jumped at the chance and we've been just friends since.

  • @PatriciaAGomez
    @PatriciaAGomez 3 года назад +25

    Well, changing my mind maybe ENFP shouldn't stop flirting with everybody because everyone needs love and we have a lot to give ;)

  • @ceci_sph
    @ceci_sph 3 года назад +117

    THE INFP IS WAY TOO ACCURATE 😭

  • @sunnyvirtue4498
    @sunnyvirtue4498 3 года назад +17

    ISFJ is so spot on. Literally my answer to anyone who asks why I'm still single. Well, that and "I'm overqualified." XD

  • @cellyonthego
    @cellyonthego 3 года назад +45

    I died laughing when ISTJ took out a chart to explain 😂

    • @storiwilliams398
      @storiwilliams398 3 года назад +10

      Why is that me though, lol 😂

    • @sethfrisbie3957
      @sethfrisbie3957 3 года назад +10

      As an ISTJ that is quite accurate for me.

    • @BC-fx6ud
      @BC-fx6ud 3 года назад +1

      My wife is ISTJ , I about fell out of my chair. I am INTJ. The rest of the world does not understand us, AND WE DON’T Care. Lol

  • @memeier9894
    @memeier9894 3 года назад +25

    Cries in INTP loneliness... nevermind I'm virtually unable to cry, or care.

    • @turtlefeesh
      @turtlefeesh 3 года назад +2

      I'm also an INTP, but I do cry about being lonely sometimes. I just never do it in front of people.

    • @angrychicken1740
      @angrychicken1740 3 года назад +1

      INTP here I will gladly do some crying for you

    • @sirbughunter
      @sirbughunter 3 года назад

      I know an INTP who has an INFJ girlfriend! 😱
      And I'm an ENFP.
      Edit: And I have no gf :(

  • @sarahl5213
    @sarahl5213 3 года назад +4

    As a fellow INTP, ACCURATE.
    Outside : what’s the problem with being single
    Inside : what’s the problem with being single, but secretly wishing there’s a Prince Charming just pop outta nowhere but too afraid to commit cuz I’m just so flakey and inconsistent and still want love and attention but no I’ll be single instead no energy to deal with whatsoever and I’m gonna die alone

  • @valej9387
    @valej9387 3 года назад +27

    INTP starts and I'm laughing like, "YEP, THAT ONE'S ME."

  • @ArtistIntuiting
    @ArtistIntuiting 3 года назад +31

    I braced myself for how accurate INFJ was going to feel …yep got me 😆

  • @sodafraka
    @sodafraka 3 года назад +19

    INFP: I wanna be in a relationship but I am also too insecure and scared to be in a relationship

  • @emmasanchez9170
    @emmasanchez9170 3 года назад +5

    The “there’s only 24 hours in a day and I’m only awake for 20 of them” hit so hard 😂