Real Families: Supporting Troubled Kids and Stressed Teachers
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- Опубликовано: 26 окт 2017
- This film follows life inside 5 UK primary schools to uncover the enormous challenges faced by teachers dealing with violent and disruptive behaviour. 97 percent of teachers say they have to deal with disruptive pupils in their classroom - pupils like Levi in Luton, who regularly has to storm out of class for fear that he might lose control; or Jordyn in Glasgow whose swearing and aggression frightens teachers and classmates alike.
With remarkable results, we follow Levi, Jordyn and others as their schools reach out to both children and parents to address the roots of their behaviour.
In Jordyn's school she benefits from a Real Families Group, a special room set up as a bridge between home and school, where the whole spectrum of behaviours that form a barrier to learning, from complete withdrawal to outright aggression, can be addressed.
And in Levi's school headteacher, Hilary Goddard puts into practice her "whole brain behaviour management in the classroom" to help both children, teachers and parents.
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I was a good quiet kid in primary school and never got rewarded, where as the crazy kids got rewarded daily if they didn't be bad for 5 minutes
This is a very sad but accurate observation.
Yeah me too
I feel the pain this happened in high school/secondary school as well
Poor teachers cannot do a thing anymore.. Parents also do not parent anymore...then they become teenagers...
Same. God I hated the problem kids, hogging attention and interrupting classes I wanted to learn in.
When I was growing up, my parents made me behave. I was taught the importance of: rules, boundaries, the word "no", and to knock it off when I am acting up
iammontecristo i know right it's like their parents teach them NOTHING
iammontecristo Which is how it should be.
I was too. My mother taught me well; however, it didn't work for my younger brother. He's still a young child but he gets very angry really quickly. It's like he stops thinking when he's mad. I truly believe he needs professional help. maybe that's the case for some of these kids too.
iammontecristo lol I just get hit 😂
It I not that easy some can not help it.
_"If you don't stop, you're going to go home!"_ That's the point of his outburst! We *wants* to go home!
They actually might suspend him
Tanner Riche actually some don’t want to go home. Their home life is why they are so unsettled.
@@kiwidreams3 Yes I totally agree with your comment. Because I am a kindergarten teacher in NZ and often kindergarten is there safe and caring environment. But it is not so easy for the primary teachers with awful teacher to child ratios in NZ.
Melanie Shepherd agree. I work in preschools, akld. Sometimes daycares/kindergartens are the only supportive, protective places for children sadly
adamaky 629 for Levi suspensions are not the answer. He needs the structure at home and in school. You can’t blame the teacher if the parents make no attempt to improve a child’s behavior.
My son was a handful for a while during late primary, so I attended part of each school day with him. I wasn't made to, and I was very lucky I could manage it, but I figured the other kids were losing time when he acted up, so it was only fair. I went under the guise of volunteering, and I actually made myself useful and led reading groups and provided individual help with math. I didn't even go a full year and he really seemed to settle down, he didn't especially like having me there and I think it made the teachers resent his presence less. So it was a sort of win, win. I understand not all parents can manage that, but those who can, and have children that deplete resources ought to step up.
Excellent parenting - taking personal responsibility for what is yours.
Massive respect to you, can you write a book of how people should parent?
My mum also did this as I was bad sometimes, later I was a diagnosed with autsim
@@Lulu-ut9pv Growing up, a friend's slightly older brother didn't "get it" sometimes. Still he was in our friend group and we just understood he missed some things and sometimes had an unusual way of responding.
Later he married and had children and his son was diagnosed with autism, and it was suggested that he might have aspergers. I think they were probably correct.
I understand that aspergers and autism aren't the same, but still I hope you are among a supportive group, and I bet you were never intentionally bad! Perhaps sometimes you misunderstood and perhaps you were sometimes misunderstood by others, but that's part of learning and definately not bad!
My friend loves to play guitar and plays often at local events for fun, and has made many friends. I hope you have a passion or interest you can share with others. It's a great way to connect and build a friend group. I wish you the very best life has to offer!
"Nowhere to climb on"
Kid in the background climbing on the door
also pipes in the room
😂😂🙌
Harve
Ikr xD
Dent the walls
It all starts at home. The parents or caregiver should be held accountable.
I agree , they deserve a smack! I also think the school is partly to blame, kids like that hate school! And when they mess about all the teachers say is do you want to go home surely they should just put them in isolation.
U get a grip it s to starts from d home u mustn't hav children or if you have ur d most wonderful mother in d world u fcking thick.
Audrey Gaffney I didn't understand a single word you said.
she said. Yep i blame the cairers or parents for the behavir
she said actually no it's not all the parents fault. My cousin has autism and can't help it when he has a meltdown. He is now home schooled because of his violent meltdowns. Sometimes there is a reason kids behave violently
This is a tough situation because there are kids that have disorders like ADHD,and so you can't always blame the parents.However,I feel really bad for the teachers because they are forced to deal with these kids who can behave like little lunatics,and nothing they try will calm the child.Plus it takes so much time away from well behaved students,because these poor teachers are spending 80% of their time dealing with the ones who are constantly acting up.
46 seconds in and my first question is: what does the government have to do with this? A child's behavior isn't anyone else's problem, but a parent's.
Precisely.
No, wrong. Liberals are controlling the parents!! Can’t do this, can’t do that!
The people need to take back CONTROL. these women trying to control this young lad are a disgrace. Give the BOY A FATHER FIGURE and see the difference. How do I know?? Because this was me 50 years ago. Regards, cj
If I see a kid like Levi on my child's class, I'm changing schools.
Lol
maryann Biss Good luck with that, because they’re in every classroom in every school. I teach them every year, and have not have a class in which there aren’t at least several severe behavior problems.
True... in Asia the good school will expel this kind of child ... we save 99 % kids than still this one kid but danger all the other kids that have attitude
What’s wrong with this school? Climbing in room? Testing for learning disability? Parents? Expel him.
That early intervention program is really, really impressive. Education should be more than just learning facts and teaching should be about educating the whole child without a focus on grades. This is going to do so much good for the emotional health of these kids.
The problem is the fact that other children see that the ‘naughty/disruptive’ children get praised after being not violent for a day even though they where for the rest of the week. We are praising children for not being violent which should happen no matter what.
And the disruptive children get the publicity of this television program too.
KikiBarrett Xox if a kid is violent all the time when there not being violent you should praze them then they learn that not being violent is good
Obviously you are not a child and I fully agree about boundaries and consequences being crucial but as an adult if you make a mistake due to not learning the correct way to act would you rather be given a punishment and disciplined or be calmly spoken to and mentored/advised on the correct way to do it in future. Boundaries and consequences are much easier to carry out among children that already have some form of understanding of rules/boundaries, many others often with behavioural difficulties do not have this understanding and it is vital to teach them that before you are able to carry out consequences with effect.
@@TehLionify bro this was 5 years ago get a life mate and chip
@@kikibarrettxox5562 bro it was hardly an insulting comment was it? I wasn’t replying just to you, thought maybe others would read it so would chip in myself as you did but I mean hey, you replied back so maybe ought to get a life yourself
Start with the parents. Get them to work with the schools. Supernanny is really needed
Theres your problem the parents
Who knows what the parents did to the children they refuse to talk about it so im near certian that its not pleasant being a teacher myself I can understand this concept
Supernanny garbage
@@saraaskeloph283 I agree
Chaos never finished school
Levi has them all in his control!! All the attention!! His behavior is working quite nicely I would say....3-4 teachers trying to control one child
any attention (even bad attention) is good attention to these kids.
The more time they can waste the better
Levi as in Attack On Titan?????
Yeah, and why are they all women? Perhaps he needs a man, a father figure type and maybe then he'd confide in someone WHAT IS REALLY GOING ON. NO CHILD ACTS LIKE THAT FOR NO REASON. YOU PEOPLE HAVE NO DISCERNMENT.
Levi needs to be in a youth residential center and removed from his home. This is a waste of taxpayer dollars. And not fair to all the other children whose parents send their child to school for an education.
I think the teachers are wonderful. That being said the problem with these children begins at home with poor parenting skills. It is not the child's fault they have such poor parenting. I've been a teacher for 25 years and it is extremely frustrating to have these disruptive children in class. Budgetary concerns in most school districts will not allow these "nurture" classes. Therefore teachers are stuck depriving their other students of a proper education. Programs must be set up to teach the PARENTS what they are doing wrong.
It should be mandatory to have parenting classes before people have multiple children and ruin them all.
So while they’re in these “nurture classes”, which is really just a babysitting service, they’re not getting the education that they need. We need to get back to military style schools for these kids so that their schoolmates can get an education free from intimidation and violence and the disruptive kids can get an education and a skill set as well. Sometimes positive reinforcement just isn’t enough. They need a structured, no nonsense approach.
Don’t want MEN working with LEVI?!
Why just female?? Clearly this tactic has not worked & will never work!! I know, because this was me 50 years ago.
No effective boundaries, no wonder these children are 'distressed'.
Man.... And as a child I was called aggressive and selfish just for not wanting to play with my little sister. These kids are phychos.
Random Lotus wow how was that aggressive
Personally there not phycos you are to say that
Psychos*
In my village there is a child at the school that has hit the teachers, the childs mother has also attacked teachers both physically and verbally. The mother was banned from the school grounds until the headmaster left and pasted away, she is now getting away with verbally abusing other parents because she claims she has mental health issues. Yes she knows how to play the system. Her child is if you ask me coping the mother which is a shame.
Precisely.
When I was in middle school in southeastern New York State in the early 1980s, we had a student in our art class (one of my favorite classes) who was constantly disruptive and very rude to the teacher. Our teacher was very nice. However, she had to send this student to the principal's office I don't know how many times. I can't help but wonder what happened to him in later years or if he's even still alive. There were also times that I was disruptive in class and had to be taught a lesson. If I could meet some of those teachers now (if they're still alive), I would say thank you. Thank you for putting me on the straight and narrow. Now, not only do I have a high school diploma but I also have a college degree.
Well done.
Teachers can’t correct much less discipline students in a lot of schools. It’s all about parent satisfaction and the principals don’t back the teachers.
I had adhd and still have adhd aged 43.I wish i had been sent to a special school as i didn't learn much in mainstream and i was disruptive which wasn't fair on other children.
My Cuz had that and got expelled like more than 7 times and he never went to a special school
@@roden2404 i never abused teachers though. You wouldn't of done that 40 odd years ago.
Ok i was just saying that he was a naughty kid and he didnt get sent to a special school
I appreciate your honesty. You may have learned better in a “special” school. However, the prevailing wisdom (?) said “least restrictive environment” more than likely.
In a Canadian school, I was physically threated by a group of +/- 13 year old boys. I reminded them that if they touched me it would become a police matter. They were quite taken aback, asked quite politely if I was sure, and left.
Betty Dunn English?
Lol
chibi hungary I dont think so
I live in Canada and had a few friends go over to teach in the Uk and all returned within a year saying how the kids were so rude and out of control, they just don’t respect teachers.
It is disgusting...the trouble is these kids are on the streets now..on the roads...awful!!!
You're being violent, aggressive and disruptive in class?? Okay then, let's take you to a room where there's tons of toys where you can play until you feel like going back... How ridiculous.
Well pointed out, Beth.
Precisely, Beth.
Yes! Since when is going to class optional?? Why is he being given a choice? Agreed, Ridiculous.
Is that prison?
Kids now have no boundaries. I mean, they shouldn't be beaten, but those teacher and parents should be stern, and help them if they have problems.
Levi is a master manipulator. There is a kid in my school like that who loves it where teachers are following him and giving him all the attention. Tough boundaries need to be put in place, not pandering
Yes!
100% chances are he doesn't get any attention at home
He's a nasty kid
I'm not without sympathy for the teachers who get fed up with kids like these and don't know what to do anymore. The kid may have an impulse control problem, but then what happens when the kid is 19 and smashes things in a store? Special needs are NOT a defense in court.
Constantly rewarded for violence.
I was thinking the same thing. Levi having 2-3 staff members fussing over him for what sounded like hours sometimes, negotiating, cajoling, pleading - that's so much attention, probably exactly what he craves and not exactly a great incentive to stop acting up. And the nurture rooms seem like pretty nice places and I can't help but think they reward some kids for behaving badly (and I'm sure certain kids will use that to their advantage). But if the research says these rooms work, I guess I can't argue with that. It certainly makes sense to intervene early and to remove these kids from their regular classrooms to give their teachers and classmates a break.
EXACTLY!
Negative attention is still attention!!!!
Sally Siegel this is redickulous about the rewarding
Sally Siegel that's exactly what I thought
TheSapphireDragon1 - Its illegal to cause harm to a child under 18
This physical activity by 'children is nothing new, a close friend of mine was a Science teacher at a school n New Zealand, in fact in a small town in North Island. The period was 1970. Knifed, threatened with being 'cut up' and told by a 'child', 12 years old the she would'get her after school, this happened on so many occasions that the entire school, a Secondary, was actually closed. This is all attributable to the 'Drunken Parent syndrome', the same town would see kids sitting outside Pubs, on the steps, a bottle of Soft Drink and bag of Chips for a meal, meantime the 'parents' were in the pub, drinking their 'Dole Money' and gambling. I wouldn't hesitate to say that such lack of responsible parenting is the major factor behind unruly kids, Children need examples where good manners, actions and reactions are understood. Sadly not only NZ but many other countries suffer such problems with the exception of the South East Asian nations where parenting is taken seriously.
Yes... it's taken very seriously indeed cause we believe that our kids and their behaviour are a reflection of the parents' character. And our character and reputation is everything for us... even the poorest...
Thank God! Except for some of the westernized super rich kids
I feel quite strongly that school isn't for all children. Some children will simply never fit into that box. A boy like Levi would be better off on a farm, learning practical, physically challenging tasks which will serve him in later life. He doesn't want to sit in a classroom and read and write. He REALLY doesn't. There should be an alternative.
SlyDoll7 and yet he has a reading ability 2 years above the standard for his age, I agree to an extent a normal school model doesn’t work on all children but it was good to see how nurturing got him through this important age
Suck it up, buttercup. In the real world you have to do lots of things you don't like to do. Life sucks that way sometimes.
They should all make a destruction room so that they can vet their fustration oit
So, Levi pretty much runs the show. Does what he wants. No consequences for negative behavior, and gets lots of attention.
He needs to be in behavioral therapy, not coddled. He needs to know what consequences are, otherwise the consequences of his negative behavior in the future will be prison.
People say that bad kids shouldn't be rewarded but remember that they probably won't get "30 minutes of computer time" when they're on the streets homeless.
I always find it weird when documentaries like this announce the school the child attends, like isn't that just setting that child (and others in the school) up for danger? Idk it just doesn't sit right with me...
Where fathers in these situations poor mumz gotta deal with it must b stressful
Ikr if they blur out school logos for that reason why do they openly announce the school name?
Your not wrong
I'm afraid they better start building more prisons because that is where these kids are headed in most cases. Very sad,
So now schools have become parents? What's next?
Elisa Risconti Teachers forget that kids have patents at home that's the problem
grandparents....soon to ne our gaurdiens >.>
Lol u are right the kid was grabbed
cripz Jovicic LOL. 😂
Parents becoming schools? Schooarents?
There was a kid named Devin in my 6th grade class. He would disrupt class, tell lies to get us in trouble, and never do his homework. One time, we did math homework. We had to show our work to prove that we worked it out, and write the correct answer to get the points. Devin would write the answers without the work, and he wrote, “You do the math.” He would always plug my headphones into my school laptop, and touch my personal belongings without my permission. I’m so glad he moved back to his old school.
I've worked with a lot of kids. Some are absolute angels. Some are terrors. A lot of it has to do with how involved their parents are in their well being. That includes making sure if they are autistic that they're getting the extra help they need.
I just want to say, as a teacher, that a school does have a responsibility in the nuturing of children. parents and teachers have to work together to turn kids into well functioning members of society. the parents have the biggest part, but teachers (and the school) also have a part in the upbringing, which can vastly impact the life of a child.
A special room should be reserved for well behaved children only! This is positive behaviour management. What we see in the film is reward for bad behaviour. It clearly has a negative impact on the general school management of behaviour and is focusing on the negative. It clearly doesn’t work. Well behaved children are losing out on rewards.
Sunny Days I agree with you 😊
I don’t know where you got that conclusion from as we didn’t see the “ normal” children or how they were rewarded as the documentary was about these disruptive children.
what are you talking about? Those nurture programs clearly had an impact
Well said.
@@saamir3607 At what cost to everyone?
Here in the statws parents are in denial. They exoect teachers to be able to deal with kids like this everyday. School has become a daycare due to parents not wanting to deal with their own kids. For safety reasons sometimed cops are called to protect other children, teachers even the child themselves. Then parents have nerve to be upset if it comes to that. Yet, they've never looked for help for their children. Then you have those that don't want kids on meds but want them to be around others to lash out. Some of the parents are dangerous themselves. Either abusing kid at home or come to school and come after staff. If you had a quiet room they would swear you're singling out their child
See it all the time. Parents let their children do anything..
Combination of lack of discipline, limited expulsions and liberal teachers. What else would you expect?
Very well said.
The teachers didn't create this child. This child has not been parented effectively. Therefore child didn't learn boundaries.
Children with these behaviors need to be excluded from school. Exclusion sends a firm message to all children and all families about expected behaviour! If violent students don't get an education no worries as jails are ready.
Liberal teachers? Are you really implying that this is all because of "the woke agenda"?
Nanny jo needs to deal with Levi. They break all her rules when he misbehaves
Epic PoliticsGirl they need the super nanny
Just thought. Supernanny should do a new programme where she goes into schools and teaches her techniques.
Epic PoliticsGirl you mean supernanny
Epic PoliticsGirl yep
Epic PoliticsGirl I act like levi
This Levi is extremely getting on my nerves as when he was playing up they said about going home all children like to go home at that age so for him that is a reward
I was a minor levi with getting mad and needing time out as I would punch tables and walls
I'm thanking God for giving me three well behaved sweet children. I have two girls and one boy .My youngest the boy is 15 and he's been the easiest of them all . Girls can be a challenge sometimes but I guess I got lucky with my three cause they never gave me much trouble..
roysgirl11 Give yourself some credit. Every child poses a challenge. I'll bet you didn't worry more about how they felt than what they did.
You didnt get lucky... you just put a lot of effort into raising great kids.
@@Angel-hm9so Precisely.
What do you expect, the kids are being aggressive, misbehaving because the 1st thing out of the teachers mouths are “ if you carry on misbehaving you will be SENT HOME “ REALLY!!!
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"I wouldn't make him feel bad about himself." How should he feel about himself when he misbehaves so badly that he has to be removed from the classroom, proud of himself? Whatever happened to the concept of shame? I was taught by my elders that I should be ashamed of myself for really bad behavior. And I was. Self esteem comes from knowing right from wrong, not from being coddled by authority figures who are afraid to show their authority. I was made to blush more than once, but I learned that bad behavior toward others earned embarrassment. Looking "beyond the child's behavior to the root causes" just teaches kids to excuse themselves and blame others for what they do. If that sounds heartless, think how shocked these kids will be when they have to go out into the big, heartless world someday, a world in which excuses don't get you anything but disapproval, unemployment, and even jail.
Not that easy some can not help it you do not know there background.
Do you know that clidren's brains aren't as developed as adults ones yet? Do you know that the brain keep on developing till you're 30? Do you think putting ideas and trauma of 'common' violence in such brains is the smart thing to do? That's how you create molesters.
THANK YOU.
no? molesters are from boys who weren’t taught any boundaries
Teaching kids that doing something can lead to consequences is never a bad idea. The fact that they are developing there brains mean that they can absorb more information than most adults and that is where the teaching comes in. Kids who are violent by impulse need to be treated specially
When I was in pre school I was 4 years old, I managed to run out of the site and I used to climb too, that’s when I got diagnosed with moderate autism spectrum
should be taught by nuns like I was lol you did not get away with anything and they had the control, but I am 48 so school was along time ago lol
Some kids NEED a nun education these days
Now they know what it feels like to go to school as kids
Thank goodness
I wasn't bad in school
I was in honor roll ,was in spelling bee
Nurture group are absolutely brilliant. In my country (Switzerland) we hardly have a school counsellor. I wish kids here could profit from that as well...
3 members of staff to 1 child. Is there funding for this? Too disruptive for this school. Are these staff Mappa trained?
They're women he's a boy so why doesn't he man up and get them off him?!
Mappa isn't appropriate for children.
I've been in a sever behaviour difficulty school, aggression is high. They use team - teach and CAN use ground restraints.
Priory Coxlease - Lyndhurst - Hampshire.
BoxedSpeech I've been to three SEN schools in the UK and they used Team - Teach restraint or SKiP. I only discovered MAPPA when I entered Adult Supported Accommodation.
These staff are meant to be helping the Special needs children, that's where the funding comes from. Badly behaved children take away the support by being a danger to others.
Maybe but might need some phycology training too?
The child knows there will be no punishment
I was a child that was in trouble all the time. From kindergarten all the way to high school. It wasn't the school or my home life. It was me, I had problems with changes , any kind of changes , I also had social problems and did much better alone. I had no friends, was never invited to party's or picked for any partner activities . I did work it out on my own but an intervention as a child would have really helped me understand what really was wrong and given guidance to be able to function and be successful. I was fortunate enough that my mother schooled me where I could not learn properly in school and supported me emoationally and never once condemned me but only lifted me up with her words and nurtured me unlike the schools and she excepted me and understood I couldn't be touched and I couldn't sit in a chair and I had serious food issues mostly textures and colors of things I couldn't touch.the school only wants the child to confirm to their environment and not considering the child's needs or understanding to their issues.i fill for some of the children on this show. I relate to the frustrations they have . Some children can't explain what's wrong or understand what they need , adults need to recognize they need something different. Im sorry some say on the comments that the bad children are rewarded and the good children are not and they cannot see really what is wrong and what is needed for these children.
I was one and I know this nurturing program is a wonderful program and will save alot of kids from a life time of misery.
26:40
I never used to be a good parent. But I am now.
(Her kid is causing so many problems at school and she believes she is a good mother)
Ikr
i can just imagine what Levis parents are like....letting him behave like this. he is destroying his own life and his own future, without a good education he has no chance of anything good in life.
Precisely the issue.
If it takes 3 adults to control this child, why is he still in mainstream education
The problem is lack of discipline. Fifty years ago you didn't see kids acting like that because they would get their butts paddled.
I agree with you
Bloody pathetic ! When I was at school the boys bent over the desk and walloped with a slipper ! Not much bad behaviour in Miss Brocklehurst’s class ! Girls had to stand in the corner ! Both systems worked !! Aah ! Those were the days, when kids were kids and adults were in control !!
I agree there
I remember the quiet room aka time out or sometimes. Called in school suspensions or lunch time suspensions I spent a lot of time there I was in special education
I would have enjoyed a quiet room as even at 21 I need time out in college
Kid: Take deep breaths and count to 10
Oh try saying that to me when im mad
Stranger Danger Jake yea that’s dumb don’t tell someone who’s angry to close there eyes and count to 10 leave them alone or punch them in the head gust kidding
Could some of the children have FAS, fetal alcohol syndrome?
I honestly think Jason may be having an absence seizure at 14:03, this can cause missed teaching and lack of understanding making his behavior deteriorate! Does any other medical professional agree?
I'm sorry but as a person with cognitive problems I would get very defensive if three teachers cornered me in the play ground... Just saying I'm going to go study as soon as possible to try help kids like Levi
I wouldnt have dared act like that. My dad would have tanned my hide.
I agree there
All little kids should learn in a homely environment, it’s quieter and more comfortable. This goes to show if schools had enough cash they could offset bad home lives and give people equality of opportunity.
I believe theres a reason that child doesn't want to go into class , teachers arnt always trained enough to get to the root of the problems.
THEN THEY SHOULD CALL CHILDREN'S SERVICES.
*IT ALL STARTS AT HOME!*
Why are ur kids or of control, it's either your discipline or maybe the child can have a condition like autism, ADHD, etc. And if that's the case they need proffesional help
No father is a big issue with most kids. Nothing to have a healthy respect for.
Wow, this channel finally decided to make a documentary available in my country. Wonder how long that will last.
DoctorWho2002 you can just use a vpn to get around that.
DoctorWho2002 Wait, what? Which country?
England.
if you use Google Chrome as a browser - Id advice downloading a free addon called ZenMate - you can change your location using it and trick RUclips into thinking you're in a country that CAN view it
Do they not believe in ADHD diagnosis over there? Nearly all these kids would have been checked by a physician for Attention Deficit over here. As a parent, a teacher, and an ADHD person, I think that while a diagnosis absolutely does NOT absolve a kid of bad behavior, but understanding it can make it easier to redirect and teach better coping strategies. I've dealt with a few kids like this, and my own son was extremely disruptive around 4th grade (not violent, but impulsive, noisy, and defiant).
Kids need to be taught ways to redirect constructively, and to self-calm. Once they are adults, the consequences of their behavior become much more serious. The nurture room where they try to teach kids to count to 10 and think through is a good move.
Diet has been increasingly linked to impulse-control issues and ADHD. Getting these kids off processed food (and recent research indicates gluten is likely a factor) would help by giving their bodies the nutrients needed for good neurological balance.
Finally, while even well-meaning parents may struggle with children who have poor impulse control, I suspect in the more extreme children that there should be some sort of intervention at home. Some may experience abuse and/or neglect and need to be removed for their safety, but others may just have parents who are at a loss for how to better help, discipline, direct and diffuse their child and need constructive guidance on their kids behavior issues.
It asd I have traits of this and showed some of these behaviour issues
Or asd
it's not just that side of Levi's life at school. what climate does he have at home. this is not the complete picture
Britain introduces the child protection act, now parents and teacher are highly limited on what they are legally allowed to do to manage behaviour. The problem is, the punishments allowed are not effective enough.
Child becomes disruptive, gets all the attention and even gets out of class. From the child’s point of view, it’s a win:win situation. There needs to be a punishment that really discourages bad behaviour.
This documentary hits home for me and my family. I admire this school for what they are doing and would crave to have the help on the family side of things as we have gotten amazing support on the school side. All those commenting about disciplining the children are shallow folks who have no understanding of what it is like to live with a child who suffers with this issue. It's heartbreaking. They are good kids, but developmentally they suffer and need support. I pray these kids (and my own) continue to thrive and become great and caring adults.
J.D. Ryan an u have understand teacher don’t get paid enough to get abuse, they have 20 other kids to try to teach as 2 or 4 kids act up an attack them an other kids
If u know ur kid is violent home school them not fair to others
An parents should have to pay extra to teacher for dealing with there abusive kids
This is a beautiful comment .. I was one of these kids and I tell u I had good parents a teacher for a mum and phycologist for a dad and they still found it a challenge. Day to day life is challenging let alone school
Really people? REALLY!!!! Poor parenting? No, folks, this is not POOR parenting, it's called "absentee parenting". We are living in a very kid-unfriendly world, if parents need to choose between either putting a meal on the table or raising their kids the right way!!
Sometimes a trip out to the shed for a little peach tree tea can clear things up a bit.
This is wonderful. It shows that blame is such a huge waste of energy and the wrong way to try and solve problems. Kids are inherently good, if only we can give them the time and the right support. Bless those teachers, i so hope that funding is approved for these groups to carry on.
No, it shows that not everyone should have children!
It’s frustrating to see these idiots who have to be shown how to properly parent.
Does Jason have absence seizures? That long pause of him staring into space unresponsively was just odd
Rocky123698745 I'm wondering about Fetal(foetal in the UK) Alcohol Syndrome in his case.
It is almost laughable that they expect the government to spend money to make their kids behave. It's called parenting and discipline.
This child has learned how to manipulate the staff to get attention. Imagine having three adults following you around while you yelled and had your own way. Why should he behave?
Exactly, most ADHD children are not ADHD. They come from homes were they are not seen and heard, hence they act out to get that attention. They can this attention by acting out at schools as both parents are too busy working, and don't have the energy to spend time with their children. On top of it they are medicated with heavy medication which makes them more unpredictable behaviour wise.
As a preschool teacher, half of my class is like this. We are not trained properly in how to deal with one child doing this, but when you’re alone with 13 4 year olds and half of them do this and many days it’s multiple children at the exact same time? I am constantly out numbered and lacking in support. These behaviors are why I’m looking into other careers. It’s no longer about teaching. It’s now consistently about keeping myself and other children from getting hurt by another child....
Why give that Levis all that time to behaving bad? Put him in that quietroom after 5 min. and not after 2 hours? It is SO stupid to let a kid like him rule over adult people and their classmates...
In the US , many of our schools have counselors and/ or Psychologists in the schools to help sort out the potential problem kids. We also are not shy about setting up groups or even whole schools to these children. Children can also be referred to medical professionals if the school deans it needed a no cost to the parents.
How about disciplining the kids involved in bad behavior?
These children have no respect for adults at all it’s disgusting
you feel sorry 4 the teachers???what about the boy?who is practically institutionalized at age 9 taken in a hurting grip by 3 women, pushing up his arm pressing down his head...through the whole school completly deprived of childrens rights...any rights really. Into the bidding room which is a silly word for solitary confinement...OF A 9 YEAR OLD!!!???but thats definitly changing everything...nono this wont make it worse 4 suuuure...-.-
I'm autistic and at my school they hate trying with special needs kids
I am on report because I am autistic and can act out
It's not my fault this is happening to me
My targets are:
1. Do not use bad language
2. Not walk out of lessons when I get stressed
3. Focus where possible
4. Do all homework to an acceptable standard
I usually get an outstanding but if I become stressed and walk out or use bad language I get a needs improvement
Rhona Miller More special needs children need to speak up for these children and show the world to stop thinking so black and white. You can relate to these children I'm sure and I hate when people automatically jump to the conclusion that it's the parent's fault. It's NOBODY'S fault!!! The parents are doing everything to get the child they love all the help they possibly can and the child hates how they can't control themself and they start hating themselves because they have all these expectations that physically and mentally can't reach!
I hope more special needs speak up and teach this older generation that this is real... This does exist... And it's from all the chemicals we eat... All the pollution we breathe in... All the junk we get put in out bodies and more!
Thanks for taking the time to comment, I like hearing people like you speak up. 💞
Jails not gonna care about your impulse control problems
Rhona Miller if you can acknowledge it, you can change it...
Beth Anderson autistic people’s brains work differently to Neurotypical people’s brains so it’s not as simple as just stopping, it’s a process.
Rhona telling yourself that nothing is ever your fault gives you the idea that you are not responsible for your actions which isn’t true.
Whether you need a different school or even medication, you have to learn how to function.
This is because of no disspline at home, never learned respect
It seems these difficult children have emotional problems which are related with their home environment. They feel especially strong for their mothers mistreatment. They cannot express their anger and anxiety verbally, so that they get aggressive at school. Involving parent/s are definitely necessary.
Let's give students who want to learn an equal focused resource group.
This shouldn’t be a school
I was one of those kids (not usually violent, just acting out a lot) and I 100% blame it on the fact that I had undiagnosed autism spectrum disorder, despite regularly visiting doctors for a reason behind my behavioral issies & my mom being told "She's just a bad child." Sure enough, once I was diagnosed (at 14, much too late) schools could work around my disability and I stopped having real issues shortly thereafter.
I am absolutely certain this happens a lot with kids like these.
It is so unfair bad behaviour is left to teachers to resolve. Growing up in the 80s these problems were rare now they are made to seem rampant. The problem is the parents.
This type of behavior is so challenging for sure and I can relate to this fully. These parents need more support and more help because these children can't function in a regular school, they need special psychologists and teachers that have taken a significant amount of psychology, etc. They need much more than a regular school can offer these children as they have very uneducated teachers when it comes to these behaviors and how to help them and why this is happening for these children, what's going on in their heads, etc. Without the proper resources for these children, they will only get worse and as they reach adulthood it will be a drastic ending result.
It's sad that they don't have more supports there.
Yosh Wii that is a excellent idea they should definitely do that yet again a excellent idea
Yosh Wii Oh, baloney. Kids with autism and other problems can and do respond to firm expectations. They need this even more than "normal" kids do. Why expect the schools to provide posses of psychologists to get your child to meet a minimum standard of conformity and obedience? If I'd ever told my teacher that "I have to let my feelings out" I'd have spent the rest of that day cooling my heels in the principal's office.
Yosh Wii ~ What they need is discipline ... consistency and discipline.
None of this BS of “if you do that again I’m going to ... “
Susanne Bender - Constantino In some areas this is true... A highly special needs child needs consistency... But, in many ways this is the black and white thinking because these children's brains are wired differently which makes them a lot more challenging and a lot more in need of so many different resources. These children aren't this way due to parenting (in most cases), this is strictly to do with their condition and it is very challenging.
Before having a child diagnosed with special needs, I never thought this way and was very black and white... Oh it's the parents... Those children need a good discipline... Those children are just horribly behaved... Etc. but the second you end up having a child who has a special condition, you start to see the whole world differently and you start to judge less and less because you see that the judgment you had for all those years was nothing other than incorrect facts.
Yosh Wii ~ I too had a special needs child. Consistency is needed no matter what.
Try changing things in regard to SN children and you throw them off completely, no matter what the situation.
Blame the parents
I had a Jordan in my class. The girl was disruptive, wouldn’t do her work, get under her desk, and try to manipulate everyone to let her behavior slide.
Same here in the USA. Most kids want a father any many don’t have one. Children sense the traditional head of the family is missing, especially for boys. This is a great program. I’m a retired teacher. The things the other students put up with is exhausting when you have them in your room. I however, did very well with tough cases. They actually had friends and the parents liked me. One mom even sent me flowers at years end. Not bragging. I just used love, respect and discipline. Also sought out their talents.
I like all my teachers and I would never dare to disrespect them. If I do I apologize immediately.
This boy going to be criminal in the future. Return them to the people who Raised this children.
Nasrene Kim our school system is f'd up because instead of suspending a student they should make them stay in school longer! Easy and teachers get paid extra unless they just want to do it for the community or on the other hand we can slowly introduce the tide pods trend and then we can *cleanse the gene pool*
Violent people in mental hospitals are all criminals, then? And you'd put them under the 'control' of complete amateurs who have 0 notion of psychiatry? That's how you hear about parents who kept a kid locked in a cellar for years. That's how it ends.
Yeah
I do
In my school the teachers choose 2 children from each class to attend a special after school forest school club
All these children are really spoilt!