Also something I forgot to mention in the video; you cannot look at pictures of couples and videos and say couples goals because you truly don't know their relationship. You are on the outside looking in.. Set your own goals and love the one your with, with your entire heart don't base your relationship or compare your relationship to others you may see on the internet, not everything is what it seems.. and this story is a prime example .
Yes very true... I went through something similar, everyone thought the person I was with at the time and I were the cutest couple. But only if they knew.... I was treated horribly, verbally abused and even physically, but I still put a smile on my face and loved that person like nothing ever happened , I guess I just didn't want people to know what our relationship truly was because everyone thought we were so "perfect". I cryed so many times watching this video... I can relate so much to it.
HeyParis I am so glad you did this video I am positive this will help someone...I went through something similar with my best friend our junior year of high school...the scariest time of my life i never wish that on anyone..I wish your friend so much happiness
Renate Seldon Then, you ignore that jerk no matter how hard it is. You don't let them get to you because you are amazing and you don't deal with that crap.
Kimberly Benitez The law doesn’t always consider the victims feelings completely when this kinda thing is reported or even taken to court. It’s almost been a year and my case ain’t even been considered for a court order from what I know. It makes it seem like they don’t care as much for the victims.
My mother and I were victims of domestic violence. I always wondered why it had to happen to us but now that I'm older I'm in school to be a social worker to help victims of domestic violence. My dark situation helped me find my calling in life and that's to help others feel empowered and loved
my ex from when i was 14-15 physically abused me and raped me, made me do things to him multiple times, he cheated on me and left me for her. i did multiple suicide attempts and cut myself for years. i thought that i couldn't live without him and that he was the love of my life. now im engaged to the most perfect man, he has never abused me in any way. he keeps me from relapsing on my cutting. and he wants to rip my ex's head off lol. being so young i had no idea that being in that type of relationship was wrong, but i know now that it wasn't love at all, and anyone who is in a relationship like that NEEDS to get out. there is someone special just for you, who will treat you just how you deserve to be. 💝
My BFF who meant the world to me one day told me she was being sexually abused by her dad for over 4 years. She told me this after school than ran... I didn't know what to do, I never had a friend who was in this kind of situation. She told me everything, how she would miss soccer games because of him, how he would hit her if she didn't let him, and how it started since she was 8. I told her I tried to convince her that we have to tell he principle and she said no, she said she didn't want to tell me because I would over react, she told my friends and my friends and I told the principle... She was in foster homes and is now in Mexico with her mom. But I got interrogated by the police about everything and I said everything. She gave me permission to say this because she said she couldn't imagine what would be happening if we didn't tell anyone... So if you're being harassed or abused PLEASE tell your friends it's better even if you think it isn't.
It's better to do something and have a friend that breathes and hates u for saying it than knowing you had a friend you knew was having problems but you didn't help.
Yes, this is a touchy subject, but it's a REAL subject. And it's relatable, and people need to hear the "gruesomeness" or "bad stuff" about it, because abuse is NO joke and the victims aren't trying to get attention. This post was in no shape or form offensive. If anything it's deep and hits straight to the core. And I respect your friend and thank her for allowing you to put this video up.
im 19, recently graduated, and i was bullied from 4th grade up until i graduated. i ended up going into the hospital when i was sixteen for depression. seeing and hearing stories like this are the reason im alive today. also having great support from friends. this is inspiration for anyone feeling alone in their situation. thank you for posting this. (and fyi, this is all true. I'm not trying to get likes at all. I did not know how people would react to me posting my story)
The world needs more people like Paris. Many people would've just abandoned her but Paris didn't. She never left her. Many people wouldn't have defended her because they would fear that the man would've harmed them. Paris is such a loving, caring friend.
dang some of y'all are so insensitive commenting to put you guys on her snap on such an intense and serious video? Like y'all couldn't wait until the next vid?
Jennifer is a soldier! when you cried Paris i cried hard too. I personally have never experienced violence but my mom has experienced it when she was younger and it was awful seeing her get beat up by the man you call your father. She never did anything back then for the sake of her children but if i were in her shoes i would have called the police right away. Please please do not tolerate violence *any kind of violence* because you don't deserve any of it! We should be able to learn from each-others mistakes and not repeat them. Please report if anything like that happens and don't let it go that easily. Remember you are amazing human beings and i really hope this helped someone out there!
I'm so glad you're sending a positive message Paris, love you ❤️ I saved a best friend too. She was suicidal before i met her but I've helped her through so much and she was bullied everyday but I gave her tips and advice. She didn't even speak to her family. Now, she's the happiest she's ever been and I'm so glad 😊
Alexis Nicole thank you ❤️❤️❤️ she goes to school happily everyday without any bullying and she was inspired to help others too! Now she made her school against bullying and there's no more that anymore and I'm so glad and proud of her
I feel bad for the kids 😔, hopefully he doesn't abuse them or teach them its ok. it sounds like he learned that behavior in foster care still no excuse for whay he did.
Thank you for raising awareness of domestic violence, I've had mental and physical abuse from various ex boyfriends. I am now in a stable, happy relationship and I'm getting married soon.
You did the RIGHT thing. Reminded me of a drama documentary that came out here in the U.K. Called "Murdered By My Boyfriend" and that really could of happened to you friend! So this is an important message. THANK YOU xxx❤️
I once had to deal with suicide and I literally attempted it once or twice but I tried talking to my school counselor which led to my mom finding out and once i noticed how much it would've hurt my mom to see me go and a lot of people were really sad to hear I had felt that way . I finally noticed I have a purpose on this earth and praying helped me a lot I felt very safe in gods hands and I got through it and since then I haven't felt that way because I always remember that as long as I love my self and have faith in my OWN SELF i can get through any battle and so can you if you ever feel depressed or suicidal ( @ anyone feeling that way ) .❤️
Shannon yass 5-8 years at the most, saying he wanted to chop her up and send to her family add 6 more years to that😵😤 I LEGIT was about to cry 4 times, then when I heard that last part it just happened😢 like that really hit meh. I'll send prayers her way. 💗💕💖
when i was 16 i was a victim of demostic violence by my boyfriend, he seemed so perfect in the beginning and 6,7 months in is when the abuse started. It wasn't as bad as your friend but it was pretty bad and emotionally scarring, my heart goes out to girls that stay in abusive relationships because they're scared. I stayed for another year and even told my therapist he was the best thing in the world and i kept it a secret for so long, i'm so happy now and free , this video was so inspiring
I was in an abusive relationship for 9 months, it was probably the worst thing I've ever experienced. It forever changed my ability to love again and to trust anyone. Thank you so much for sharing this so more people can realize that abuse is very real and happens everyday. Love you so much Paris ❤️❤️❤️
ladies, you are all beautiful an you all deserve the world. please do not let the words of a man fool you. just because a man apologizes after abuse does not make it okay by any means. please, please, please know your worth. get yourself out of a toxic relationship by any means necessary! no one should have to go through an abusive relationship. you have many who care and have love for you, please ask for help. much love!
"Love yourself enough to let go. Love yourself enough to know when enough is enough." Very very important. Please don't stay in a situation like this you never know when the person could snap and what they can do next.
This really spoke to me Paris, I was crying the entire time. I just came home from my boyfriends house, my anxiety has been really bad all week and he just let me cry in bed with him for the past few hours. I've been keeping in my emotions and my pain for the past few years over an emotionally and mentally abusive ex. He listens to me, he encourages me to speak my mind. Don't give up, there are amazing people out there who care about you and want to help. Sending all my love xxx
I lost my friend to domestic violence so I can totally relate to your situation Paris. Thank you for using your platform to save the lives of others. 💙
This was a great video. The only thing I would like to add is that NO ONE ever deserves abuse. Paris talked a lot about how great of a person her friend is that she doesn't deserve that, which I don't doubt. But even if you are not the nicest person, the most well liked, no one ever deserves abuse. The abuser is always the one at fault. Never the victim.
we all need a Paris type of friend in our life 😌 love Paris 😘😘😘😘 my mom was abuse by my father when me and my brother were little every time we went to school, he unplug de phone, close the windows store and beat her in the smart places....we never knew until my mom made a plan to kick him out the house and call the police. One day later, she explain us the truth
this has never happened to me or anyone I know but I cried so much....I'm so sorry to anyone who has bin threw this and I hope you are doing better and things are okay.
My mom married a man named Jeff he's emotionally abusive he's a cheater he had me locked up in my room even forced my mom to get me "homeschooled" and I wasn't allowed to leave the house and she wasn't allowed unless she went to work he even choked me before but my own father didn't care
royal ocean beauty How could she not listen to that?? I beg you for the sake of your safety tell a trustworthy teacher, principle, friend or a different adult or call the police. You can't just stay in that mess.
when she said her friend was cutting herself it really hit me... I used to cut because it was a way to take out all my anger when nobody was there to understand and listen to me. it's so hard to get through it but seriously asking people that are closest to you for help is important. I couldn't bring myself to tell my mum because I didn't want to break her heart so I told my two closest friends and they helped me recover I guess and get through it.
I was crying this whole video but we need these toxic people out of our life stay strong this it for all the women out there well even men I just want this toxic world to Change
I had to pause the video when she said "she had cut herself". I froze whilst looking at my wrist and needed to breathe because I already had a feeling that I knew where this story was going, because I used to be a cutter. Pars I'm glad shes okay now. I had to help myself and find my own way through because I had no one. I found this community, the best thing I have ever found full of people from all over the world and so many fandoms that you could see and believe we're a family. Yo kpop fans, where ya at, ARMYs EXO-L CARAT VIP IGOT7 ONCE, wheres my family at? even if we have never met you are a part of something that helped me returned to who I truly am and I have never been so happy to be a part of something and learn and new culture and well try to speak the language for all of you who are kpop fans, thank you for helping me and 2 of my other friends. Saranghae ♥
This is the kind of content people need to watch. A video that is real and will teach people a lesson. Not the whole " fucked with a toothbrush" what is that going to do for the world? love you Paris I wish I had a friend like you when I was in a similar situation.
I just want everyone to know that if u r reading this u r beautiful and u don't need to commit suicide coz there r people that care about u in this world ❤❤
I don't get how 50 odd people have disliked this video? Some people really don't get what some people go through and don't take the consideration to really step in someone else's shoes😪 stay strong Paris this has probably helped out so many people and you are the living superman honestly 😅 love you and your vids😘❤️
I'm so glad to see you making a video like this in your own style with the platform you have..... I've never gone through something like this but YALL NEED TO LEAVE THESE INSECURE ASS NIGGAS BECAUSE YOU DESERVE SOOOOO MUCH MORE...I love you more for writing this comment and hoping you will see it then that dude/female you are with😘😘😘
After the first incident I was actually ready to SLAP THE FOOLISHNESS AND STUPIDNESS OUT OF THAT IDIOT. I am not judging no one but in that incident I wouldn't have been crying with her friend. I would have been in church asking for forgiveness for murder, NOBODY messes with the people I love in life.
Im so happy for your friend. I was in an mental and physical abusing relationship for a long time, It was no where near as severe as your friends and Shes really lucky she got out of it with your help because not a lot of people have people around when they are getting abused.. i pushed away everyone for that relationship, I tried to commit suicide at my moms house one night, crying and dry heaving at the end of my moms bed she called 911 and from that moment I knew I had to get away from that toxic relationship, it doesn't just hurt you it hurts the ones that love you even if you don't love yourself.. I left my home town and started completely over all by myself, i am in a new relationship now and they're An amazing person, there's never a day That goes by that I don't think about why I went through what I did, but it's getting easier. Thank you for sharing your friends story.
I'm glad you told this story paris...growing up I was abused and I got really bad depression and anxiety from it not just that but it was a major cause. and early this year my depression got so bad from so many things in my life that I was soooo soo close to taking my own life. but I'm glad I didn't because your videos really did save me and I'm not just saying that to say it, your energy that you give off made me feel so different it made me feel very happy, and what also stopped me was my younger siblings them growing up not really knowing me broke me and my mom hurting her hurts me the most. so to you paris thank you for saving my life❤❤
I can't lie.......I never cry at the moment something breaks my heart..but within 10 minutes of this video I broke down crying😭😭😭you are a wonderful person Paris💗💗💗wish you the best💝💝You make me feel better when I'm down you speak truthful things💗💗your videos don't just show and person......they show a woman with a heart and body of diamond 💝💝💝💎💎ILYSM💗
This was honestly an eye opener I didn't know much about domestic violence except for the victim being abused it really shows that the people around the victim are affected too
I'm the type of friend that's like if ANYTHING happens all you gotta do is send one random letter. You don't even have to type out a full sentence just one little letter or call and breathe, ill be on my way with a boatload of people.
Thank you for sharing this story Paris 💕💕😭😭 my old best friend was going through domestic violence. I tried to help her. We would get into arguments all the time about him. We're not friends anymore. We got into a big fight. I still love her to this day. I wish her the best. She's still with him. Still till this day I think about and wish that I never said anything because I lost my best friend....but I know what I did was the best for her and I tried...I just hope I never have to hear that she's been murdered.still till this day I feel like it's my fault. I could have told her mom or did something else to help her...but I felt like I couldn't because she said a lot of hurtful things to me and we got into a fist fight...I just hope she's okay 💕🖤
I was thinking the same thin. I live in the states and he would've gotten longer than that for breaking the restraining order alone. Probably different in Canada.
Thats so sad at least shes in a better place now and sees shes better than tht. I loved this vid. Domestic violence is a serious subject and people dont talk abt it enough.dont be afraid to speak up to tell some one bc tht person might b the one that helps u or like paris saves your life . i know Its really hard to go through tht i think its even harder to actually tell someone its happening bc ur afraid of the judgement or embarrassment of y ur still with the person even when u know theyre not right but u cant do everything alone sometimes u need a friend to help u see whats not right
This actually broke my heart bc i feel the same way i would do anything for the friends i call family and the crazy thing is recently my friend told me she gets annoyed when i defend her (sorry of topic) anyway so everyone in an abusive relationship plz know you are in my prayers and that it's not gonna last
For all the girls out there in abusive relationships, get out before it gets worse. I was in an abusive relationship in college and I broke up with the guy over the phone because I was scared of him...afterwards I was so glad I didn't break up with him in person. He contacted my father and was threatening him saying that my parents have no right to me and that he basically owned me....you don't owe your abuser an explanation or respectful break up. Get out immediately and be safe.
Paris, this video basically sums up the kind of person you are. Such has happened to me once my dad hit me once and it still hurts me till date. And the emotions you showed just had to make me cry. I wish I have a friend like you Paris I love you 😔😭💔
Thank you so much for posting this important video. The topic of abuse is such a sensitive topic and it speaks volumes to you and your friends character for putting it out there because it's a story that needs to be told. Needs to be heard.
so powerful. thank you for sharing and for your friend allowing you to share. i am glad she is doing better, you are a great friend for helping her and staying by her side in that tough situation. stay strong both of you.
This really hit home as I was a victim of abuse. Verbal and physical. My older brother hit me from when I was 12-16. And verbally abused me from age 12-20. It's hard. I suffer from depression and anxiety now and feel like nobody understands me. I cried throughout this whole video. Your friend is so brave. Thank her for me for letting you post this.
You are like the greatest best friend anyone would be grateful to have you are a blessing and I love you you are one of the most amazing people I've ever seen you are legit the realist ride or die ever
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Also something I forgot to mention in the video; you cannot look at pictures of couples and videos and say couples goals because you truly don't know their relationship. You are on the outside looking in.. Set your own goals and love the one your with, with your entire heart don't base your relationship or compare your relationship to others you may see on the internet, not everything is what it seems.. and this story is a prime example .
Yes very true... I went through something similar, everyone thought the person I was with at the time and I were the cutest couple. But only if they knew.... I was treated horribly, verbally abused and even physically, but I still put a smile on my face and loved that person like nothing ever happened , I guess I just didn't want people to know what our relationship truly was because everyone thought we were so "perfect". I cryed so many times watching this video... I can relate so much to it.
HeyParis
I am so glad you did this video I am positive this will help someone...I went through something similar with my best friend our junior year of high school...the scariest time of my life i never wish that on anyone..I wish your friend so much happiness
Love you parisss !
HeyParis love you paris💯🎉💙
HeyParis I just love youu ligit crying right now.
Edited out all my ugly crying for your benefit... lol.. love you guys see you on TUESDAY !
HeyParis I love your videos
HeyParis ily paris we dont care if you cry cause we family🤞🏾🤞🏾
We understand
We all here for you. Much love to you and your friend, I know how that feels first hand! ❤❤❤
Love you Paris!!!! 😘😘😘
i feel like everyone needs a Paris in their life
alisonhxoxo Your comment is golden
Yuppp💕💕 true
alisonhxoxo Yes, can tell she's a true friend.
So true
damn by bestfriends name is paris
Ladies, the very first hit, bad touch, WALK. Walk. Violence is NOT Love. Walk. I would have hurt the guy REAL Bad.
Renate Seldon Then, you ignore that jerk no matter how hard it is. You don't let them get to you because you are amazing and you don't deal with that crap.
Renate Seldon no u don't ignore that mess u need to make action to let them know that mess not ok
spongebobs wife change your seat and you confront him or switch your classes for what it's worth
spongebobs wife make a scene let everyone know
spongebobs wife then beat that lil boy's ass
5 months is a little bit wtf ?! They should have gave him YEARS !!!!
NO. A LIFE SENTENCE!
No. THE DEATH PENALTY!
Kimberly Benitez The law doesn’t always consider the victims feelings completely when this kinda thing is reported or even taken to court. It’s almost been a year and my case ain’t even been considered for a court order from what I know. It makes it seem like they don’t care as much for the victims.
ELECTRIC CHAIR
20 years at least
That Facebook message could get him arrested for attempted murder.
Mi SoMani OMG...I think your right
2 attempted murders
Paris why don't you show the cops those msgs
Not only that but he did act on it as well.
My mother and I were victims of domestic violence. I always wondered why it had to happen to us but now that I'm older I'm in school to be a social worker to help victims of domestic violence.
My dark situation helped me find my calling in life and that's to help others feel empowered and loved
I'm happy you and your mom don't go through that anymore
🙏🏽🙏🏽
N A ❤❤so glad that you don't go though that
N A May you be blessed with a life filled with happiness,love and laughter and surrounded with peace💜🙏🏽
N A so proud of you
Abusers are already pathetic, but he wanted to abuse her and ALSO cheat on her? That's a whole new low!!!!
TatsCatsandBats I know, abusers get defensive when they think their partner is cheating on them, yet don't hesitate to cheat on their partner.
TatsCatsandBats Abusers are huge hypocrites tbh
my ex from when i was 14-15 physically abused me and raped me, made me do things to him multiple times, he cheated on me and left me for her. i did multiple suicide attempts and cut myself for years. i thought that i couldn't live without him and that he was the love of my life. now im engaged to the most perfect man, he has never abused me in any way. he keeps me from relapsing on my cutting. and he wants to rip my ex's head off lol. being so young i had no idea that being in that type of relationship was wrong, but i know now that it wasn't love at all, and anyone who is in a relationship like that NEEDS to get out. there is someone special just for you, who will treat you just how you deserve to be. 💝
Im glad you survived that and got your happily ever after, you're strong
Minhee ❤❤❤
Mina Yang you are so strong
I’m glad you survived and made it out stronger! Love you ❤️❤️
I'm glad you found your true love this time😊💜
My BFF who meant the world to me one day told me she was being sexually abused by her dad for over 4 years. She told me this after school than ran... I didn't know what to do, I never had a friend who was in this kind of situation. She told me everything, how she would miss soccer games because of him, how he would hit her if she didn't let him, and how it started since she was 8. I told her I tried to convince her that we have to tell he principle and she said no, she said she didn't want to tell me because I would over react, she told my friends and my friends and I told the principle... She was in foster homes and is now in Mexico with her mom. But I got interrogated by the police about everything and I said everything. She gave me permission to say this because she said she couldn't imagine what would be happening if we didn't tell anyone... So if you're being harassed or abused PLEASE tell your friends it's better even if you think it isn't.
Im glad you helped her praying shes doing better
I am so thankful my BFF stopped cutting herself
It's better to do something and have a friend that breathes and hates u for saying it than knowing you had a friend you knew was having problems but you didn't help.
ur amazing
Than you for telling somebody prayers for her
wait five months...HE WAS ONLY ARRESTED FOR FIVE MONTHS. should've been arrested for life.
dr. stealurmemes right
dr. stealurmemes that's the exact same thing I thought!
You mean locked away for life
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thats what i thought!
Yes, this is a touchy subject, but it's a REAL subject. And it's relatable, and people need to hear the "gruesomeness" or "bad stuff" about it, because abuse is NO joke and the victims aren't trying to get attention.
This post was in no shape or form offensive. If anything it's deep and hits straight to the core. And I respect your friend and thank her for allowing you to put this video up.
Mel couldn't have said it better myself.
+TYLER ARTIST you must abuse someone you know then 👿
Prayers to all of those who sadly couldn't escape...🙏🏽
Ya 😢
My mom died due to alcohol poisoning because she was dealing with domestic violence all throughout my childhood.
thank you to your friend for sharing her story.
Chanice Rich omg youre so hot😎
@@annipsy2185 😑
@@koocoo572 idk why i worded it like that but im just gonna let it be😂😂
The saddest part of this story is a child is involved now, that poor kid has an abusive father. Thank you for telling this story Paris!
im 19, recently graduated, and i was bullied from 4th grade up until i graduated. i ended up going into the hospital when i was sixteen for depression. seeing and hearing stories like this are the reason im alive today. also having great support from friends. this is inspiration for anyone feeling alone in their situation. thank you for posting this. (and fyi, this is all true. I'm not trying to get likes at all. I did not know how people would react to me posting my story)
Lauren Parajecki I'm so sorry that you had to go through this. It's so nice to hear that this doesn't happen anymore
Lauren Parajecki stay strong
im 19 and just graduated too #2016
stop trying to get likes
first of all, im sharing my story. second, depression is no joke
True meaning of ride or die💯❤️🔐
I wish I had a friend like u. So real. U have such a big heart.
"you're like 4'4 you aint stabbing nobody "omfg ily
this video had me crying, this such an important message
The world needs more people like Paris. Many people would've just abandoned her but Paris didn't. She never left her. Many people wouldn't have defended her because they would fear that the man would've harmed them. Paris is such a loving, caring friend.
I cried through most of this 😭
I lied.. I cried through all of this. 😭😭😭 love u paris ❤
yes me to
because will do any thing for my friends
what the hell is wrong w you i'm trying to be serious lmfao
TYLER ARTIST oooooo edgy
itsbabyfefe Same. This was so touching 😭😭😭
F.E.F.E ikr
This video had me so sad and pissed at the same time
Mani Jones got me mad more than sad
dang some of y'all are so insensitive commenting to put you guys on her snap on such an intense and serious video? Like y'all couldn't wait until the next vid?
ikr
seriously
DANIELLE hey
Ikr this is such a serious issue that Happens
Jennifer is a soldier! when you cried Paris i cried hard too. I personally have never experienced violence but my mom has experienced it when she was younger and it was awful seeing her get beat up by the man you call your father. She never did anything back then for the sake of her children but if i were in her shoes i would have called the police right away. Please please do not tolerate violence *any kind of violence* because you don't deserve any of it! We should be able to learn from each-others mistakes and not repeat them. Please report if anything like that happens and don't let it go that easily. Remember you are amazing human beings and i really hope this helped someone out there!
You're beyond an amazing friend
Emily Ramirez I totally agree
Emily Ramirez 👍
I'm so glad you're sending a positive message Paris, love you ❤️ I saved a best friend too. She was suicidal before i met her but I've helped her through so much and she was bullied everyday but I gave her tips and advice. She didn't even speak to her family. Now, she's the happiest she's ever been and I'm so glad 😊
Sean Hartley h
Sean Hartley 😊
Sean Hartley That's amazing. This comment really stuck out to me. Not many people are like this today, and it made my day to see this.
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Alexis Nicole thank you ❤️❤️❤️ she goes to school happily everyday without any bullying and she was inspired to help others too! Now she made her school against bullying and there's no more that anymore and I'm so glad and proud of her
Everyone is asking for snaps,(not trying to insult anyone)
I'm over here proud of Paris and her friend.
Vicki exactly my thoughts
same omg. I'm soposed to be sleeping because school tmr. but imma stay up a finish this video like this made me love Paris even more
StayHigh彡 Right, thank you.
StayHigh彡 You might wanna pay more attention in school since you cannot spell.
Vicki I think u should be proud of both Paris and her friend because after all its her friends story #Zuma MustFall
I feel bad for the kids 😔, hopefully he doesn't abuse them or teach them its ok. it sounds like he learned that behavior in foster care still no excuse for whay he did.
_rosariaaa i hope that the kids get taken away, and put somewhere better because i have a feeling that they are going to be treated very poorly
_rosariaaa he probably did the behavior because he was in foster care
indeed
Everyone saying " ouu long video, lemme get my popcorn" when paris legit just said this video isn't for entertainment... Shame on yall
TjTakesNotes ii was thinking the same
Still need my food tho...
TjTakesNotes ii yeah i kinda felt like that but to be fair a lot of people might have commented that before watching the vid
TjTakesNotes ii
People most likely commented that before watching the video
Just because they eat popcorn doesn't mean they don't think of this any less serious than we do.
Thank you for raising awareness of domestic violence, I've had mental and physical abuse from various ex boyfriends. I am now in a stable, happy relationship and I'm getting married soon.
Faye Cook first of all congratulations:) second of all your so strong for getting through it lots of love ❤️
Jillian Weitz Thank you so much! 😊
I feel so bad for your friend 😭💙 I send all love and support
This breaks my heart 😭😭, so happy you both made it out alive to speak on it and help others who may be in a similar situation❤
You did the RIGHT thing. Reminded me of a drama documentary that came out here in the U.K. Called "Murdered By My Boyfriend" and that really could of happened to you friend! So this is an important message.
THANK YOU xxx❤️
Melody McLean omg I've watched that, im glad they made that documentary to educate people on such a sensitive topic.
I’ve seen that too, it’s really eye opening and shows us how a seemingly perfect relationship could turn so toxic
it's sad both men and woman go through this.. they say you choose a partner you feel you deserve.. but you deserve so much more ♡
I once had to deal with suicide and I literally attempted it once or twice but I tried talking to my school counselor which led to my mom finding out and once i noticed how much it would've hurt my mom to see me go and a lot of people were really sad to hear I had felt that way . I finally noticed I have a purpose on this earth and praying helped me a lot I felt very safe in gods hands and I got through it and since then I haven't felt that way because I always remember that as long as I love my self and have faith in my OWN SELF i can get through any battle and so can you if you ever feel depressed or suicidal ( @ anyone feeling that way ) .❤️
he should of got more jail time for that
Shannon yass 5-8 years at the most, saying he wanted to chop her up and send to her family add 6 more years to that😵😤 I LEGIT was about to cry 4 times, then when I heard that last part it just happened😢 like that really hit meh. I'll send prayers her way. 💗💕💖
Shannon he deserves life time sentence
Shannon in my country they would have gave him a life sentence
when i was 16 i was a victim of demostic violence by my boyfriend, he seemed so perfect in the beginning and 6,7 months in is when the abuse started. It wasn't as bad as your friend but it was pretty bad and emotionally scarring, my heart goes out to girls that stay in abusive relationships because they're scared. I stayed for another year and even told my therapist he was the best thing in the world and i kept it a secret for so long, i'm so happy now and free , this video was so inspiring
I was in an abusive relationship for 9 months, it was probably the worst thing I've ever experienced. It forever changed my ability to love again and to trust anyone. Thank you so much for sharing this so more people can realize that abuse is very real and happens everyday. Love you so much Paris ❤️❤️❤️
Esmeralda Orozco I'm glad you got out of it👏
Kinda scared for Paris now.. I mean a psycho is a psycho
Priya Biswas yeah
Ikr
Just five months for all he did?He shouldn't gotten hit with attempted murder that's bs.
He should've got at least 3 years
@@Zai-w4o atleast 10
@@desilol4476 yes
you're so strong and beautiful. i haven't watched this yet. but i felt the need to say that. stay strong, everyone 💕
Ok to be honest WTF IS Wrong WITH THE PEOPLE WHO DISLIKED THIS VIDEO YALL HAVE NO FREAKING HEART
March Baby right!!!! people are so rude
Everyone who disliked this video are either abusers themselves or jokers who can't take life seriously
OK they probably disliked because of these reasons
1. They don't like Paris
2. They probably don't like seeing Paris cry
3. They don't like abuse
It's probably all of Jeffs kids lmao
I got a rocket launcher 4. It was an accident
when Paris started to cry I cried I stared balling out my eyes my family inculcated my dog came to my room and had to hug me.
I hate when Paris cries
theophaneia tossou girl....same!! 😭
aww
ladies, you are all beautiful an you all deserve the world. please do not let the words of a man fool you. just because a man apologizes after abuse does not make it okay by any means. please, please, please know your worth. get yourself out of a toxic relationship by any means necessary! no one should have to go through an abusive relationship. you have many who care and have love for you, please ask for help. much love!
yesss
"Love yourself enough to let go. Love yourself enough to know when enough is enough." Very very important. Please don't stay in a situation like this you never know when the person could snap and what they can do next.
This really spoke to me Paris, I was crying the entire time. I just came home from my boyfriends house, my anxiety has been really bad all week and he just let me cry in bed with him for the past few hours. I've been keeping in my emotions and my pain for the past few years over an emotionally and mentally abusive ex. He listens to me, he encourages me to speak my mind. Don't give up, there are amazing people out there who care about you and want to help. Sending all my love xxx
Been waiting for this vid all day
I ain't about that life I
I actually need to fight Jeff, I hate men who disrespect and put their hands on women
Friends like Paris are the only type of friends you need in your life.
I lost my friend to domestic violence so I can totally relate to your situation Paris. Thank you for using your platform to save the lives of others. 💙
This Story hit me like a trickshot😭
Why am I crying in the club right now
It is 3am and I have school tomorrow.... SLEEP WHO? Imma watch my heyparis💁
Shantayy sleep is for the weak
Shantayy its only 9:46 here in new York wya🤣🤣😭😁😭😭lol
Charley's Life same omggg
Shantayy same lol
Shantayy where do u live cause it's 10pm where I am ,in the east coast of the US lol
This was a great video. The only thing I would like to add is that NO ONE ever deserves abuse. Paris talked a lot about how great of a person her friend is that she doesn't deserve that, which I don't doubt. But even if you are not the nicest person, the most well liked, no one ever deserves abuse. The abuser is always the one at fault. Never the victim.
we all need a Paris type of friend in our life 😌 love Paris 😘😘😘😘 my mom was abuse by my father when me and my brother were little every time we went to school, he unplug de phone, close the windows store and beat her in the smart places....we never knew until my mom made a plan to kick him out the house and call the police. One day later, she explain us the truth
sorry for my bad English
I'm sensitive to stuff like this. this made my ball out in tears 💜 Glad she's okay
this has never happened to me or anyone I know but I cried so much....I'm so sorry to anyone who has bin threw this and I hope you are doing better and things are okay.
My mom married a man named Jeff he's emotionally abusive he's a cheater he had me locked up in my room even forced my mom to get me "homeschooled" and I wasn't allowed to leave the house and she wasn't allowed unless she went to work he even choked me before but my own father didn't care
I'm so sorry! I hope you're out of that situation now!
Jesus Christ you are out of this situation now, are you?
82 01 no my mom doesn't listen at all
royal ocean beauty
How could she not listen to that?? I beg you for the sake of your safety tell a trustworthy teacher, principle, friend or a different adult or call the police. You can't just stay in that mess.
Please get help. Please please please. He's obsessed. It's not safe
when she said her friend was cutting herself it really hit me... I used to cut because it was a way to take out all my anger when nobody was there to understand and listen to me. it's so hard to get through it but seriously asking people that are closest to you for help is important. I couldn't bring myself to tell my mum because I didn't want to break her heart so I told my two closest friends and they helped me recover I guess and get through it.
I was crying this whole video but we need these toxic people out of our life stay strong this it for all the women out there well even men I just want this toxic world to Change
Your amazing Paris I have been watching you for over a year now are you're amazing keep on doing you girl 💕
I had to pause the video when she said "she had cut herself". I froze whilst looking at my wrist and needed to breathe because I already had a feeling that I knew where this story was going, because I used to be a cutter. Pars I'm glad shes okay now. I had to help myself and find my own way through because I had no one. I found this community, the best thing I have ever found full of people from all over the world and so many fandoms that you could see and believe we're a family. Yo kpop fans, where ya at, ARMYs EXO-L CARAT VIP IGOT7 ONCE, wheres my family at? even if we have never met you are a part of something that helped me returned to who I truly am and I have never been so happy to be a part of something and learn and new culture and well try to speak the language for all of you who are kpop fans, thank you for helping me and 2 of my other friends. Saranghae ♥
shut up emo kid
I know this comment was ages ago but you're a carat too? hi :) ♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡♡
Proud of u! 💜
Aaliyah Musawi no u
@@suusheijden327 Learn to get some respect. Being suicidal isn't fun 😕
This is the kind of content people need to watch. A video that is real and will teach people a lesson. Not the whole " fucked with a toothbrush" what is that going to do for the world? love you Paris I wish I had a friend like you when I was in a similar situation.
Beavers Daisy Omg not fucked with a toothbrush 🤦🏿♀️ I know exactly what you’re referencing.
I just want everyone to know that if u r reading this u r beautiful and u don't need to commit suicide coz there r people that care about u in this world ❤❤
I don't get how 50 odd people have disliked this video? Some people really don't get what some people go through and don't take the consideration to really step in someone else's shoes😪 stay strong Paris this has probably helped out so many people and you are the living superman honestly 😅 love you and your vids😘❤️
when she described "Jeff " in the beginning of the video he sounded exactly like Ricky from the secret life of the American teenager.
for someone who had no experience with abuse or self harm you did EVERYTHING right. Thank you for helping your friend. you're the best
I'm so glad to see you making a video like this in your own style with the platform you have.....
I've never gone through something like this but YALL NEED TO LEAVE THESE INSECURE ASS NIGGAS BECAUSE YOU DESERVE SOOOOO MUCH MORE...I love you more for writing this comment and hoping you will see it then that dude/female you are with😘😘😘
Marr HB lol
After the first incident I was actually ready to SLAP THE FOOLISHNESS AND STUPIDNESS OUT OF THAT IDIOT. I am not judging no one but in that incident I wouldn't have been crying with her friend. I would have been in church asking for forgiveness for murder, NOBODY messes with the people I love in life.
Im so happy for your friend. I was in an mental and physical abusing relationship for a long time, It was no where near as severe as your friends and Shes really lucky she got out of it with your help because not a lot of people have people around when they are getting abused.. i pushed away everyone for that relationship, I tried to commit suicide at my moms house one night, crying and dry heaving at the end of my moms bed she called 911 and from that moment I knew I had to get away from that toxic relationship, it doesn't just hurt you it hurts the ones that love you even if you don't love yourself.. I left my home town and started completely over all by myself, i am in a new relationship now and they're An amazing person, there's never a day That goes by that I don't think about why I went through what I did, but it's getting easier. Thank you for sharing your friends story.
Girl I cried my eyes out but I'm glad she's better
I'm glad you told this story paris...growing up I was abused and I got really bad depression and anxiety from it not just that but it was a major cause. and early this year my depression got so bad from so many things in my life that I was soooo soo close to taking my own life. but I'm glad I didn't because your videos really did save me and I'm not just saying that to say it, your energy that you give off made me feel so different it made me feel very happy, and what also stopped me was my younger siblings them growing up not really knowing me broke me and my mom hurting her hurts me the most. so to you paris thank you for saving my life❤❤
Ellonah Monet jesus loves you.
Literally cried during half the video😭
This is such an important video, thank you
I’m so glad she got away from him,this makes me so sad because my cousin went through this and her husband killed her😔😢😭
15 minutes in..bawling my eyes out.
4mins and crying
I can't lie.......I never cry at the moment something breaks my heart..but within 10 minutes of this video I broke down crying😭😭😭you are a wonderful person Paris💗💗💗wish you the best💝💝You make me feel better when I'm down you speak truthful things💗💗your videos don't just show and person......they show a woman with a heart and body of diamond 💝💝💝💎💎ILYSM💗
This video really hit home for me. Im glad i left when I did. Friends like you are a blessing. Continue to do what you do Paris... You're amazing! 😘
to anyone going through this, you are loved, and please never settle for less than you deserve.
This was honestly an eye opener
I didn't know much about domestic violence except for the victim being abused it really shows that the people around the victim are affected too
I'm the type of friend that's like if ANYTHING happens all you gotta do is send one random letter. You don't even have to type out a full sentence just one little letter or call and breathe, ill be on my way with a boatload of people.
#nomoreabuse !! 💞
Thank you for sharing this story Paris 💕💕😭😭 my old best friend was going through domestic violence. I tried to help her. We would get into arguments all the time about him. We're not friends anymore. We got into a big fight. I still love her to this day. I wish her the best. She's still with him. Still till this day I think about and wish that I never said anything because I lost my best friend....but I know what I did was the best for her and I tried...I just hope I never have to hear that she's been murdered.still till this day I feel like it's my fault. I could have told her mom or did something else to help her...but I felt like I couldn't because she said a lot of hurtful things to me and we got into a fist fight...I just hope she's okay 💕🖤
Who else here as suffered abused and it was not only verbal but physical
I have and am glad am not going through it I have a better man now am glad that I am not in abused relationship I hope u have a great day or night
As soon as you started tearing up I balled my eyes out your cry is so contagious and this message your spreading is amazing
we all need to take notice to the people around us, especially our friends and family members. This is a lesson to all of us. 😔
5 months?!? That's it? Wtf is wrong with them?
Ty Valentine that's the justice system
I was thinking the same thin. I live in the states and he would've gotten longer than that for breaking the restraining order alone. Probably different in Canada.
JoLeia C i agree. that bastard would've gotten a few years. 5 months is not enough.
A person caught with weed gets more time then that. Smh
ImNotARobot But isn't that crazy how that works. Some murders have gotten a shorter sentence than people in for weed
Thats so sad at least shes in a better place now and sees shes better than tht. I loved this vid. Domestic violence is a serious subject and people dont talk abt it enough.dont be afraid to speak up to tell some one bc tht person might b the one that helps u or like paris saves your life . i know Its really hard to go through tht i think its even harder to actually tell someone its happening bc ur afraid of the judgement or embarrassment of y ur still with the person even when u know theyre not right but u cant do everything alone sometimes u need a friend to help u see whats not right
This actually broke my heart bc i feel the same way i would do anything for the friends i call family and the crazy thing is recently my friend told me she gets annoyed when i defend her (sorry of topic) anyway so everyone in an abusive relationship plz know you are in my prayers and that it's not gonna last
For all the girls out there in abusive relationships, get out before it gets worse. I was in an abusive relationship in college and I broke up with the guy over the phone because I was scared of him...afterwards I was so glad I didn't break up with him in person. He contacted my father and was threatening him saying that my parents have no right to me and that he basically owned me....you don't owe your abuser an explanation or respectful break up. Get out immediately and be safe.
Paris, this video basically sums up the kind of person you are. Such has happened to me once my dad hit me once and it still hurts me till date. And the emotions you showed just had to make me cry. I wish I have a friend like you Paris I love you 😔😭💔
Thank you so much for posting this important video. The topic of abuse is such a sensitive topic and it speaks volumes to you and your friends character for putting it out there because it's a story that needs to be told. Needs to be heard.
so powerful. thank you for sharing and for your friend allowing you to share. i am glad she is doing better, you are a great friend for helping her and staying by her side in that tough situation. stay strong both of you.
This really hit home as I was a victim of abuse. Verbal and physical. My older brother hit me from when I was 12-16. And verbally abused me from age 12-20. It's hard. I suffer from depression and anxiety now and feel like nobody understands me. I cried throughout this whole video. Your friend is so brave. Thank her for me for letting you post this.
You are like the greatest best friend anyone would be grateful to have you are a blessing and I love you you are one of the most amazing people I've ever seen you are legit the realist ride or die ever
I cried ! So sad but glad you used your platform for AMAZING things like this 💛
can y'all really stop asking to be on her sc story and watch the damn video
HaileyJade I will sub back to everyone who will sub to me, because I really wanna reach my goal of 60 Subcribers so please subscribe
gtfo now
Itz Esther please leave
Emily Leighton lol
been waiting up all night for this, currently 2.30am LOVE YOU PARIS 💜💜💜💜
Damnn... I love Paris even more now. Definition of a ride or die🙏🏽🙏🏽
I want to hug you right now