STORY TIME: CHEATING IN THE STAIRCASE

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  • Опубликовано: 18 окт 2024

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  • @edwinedesir9631
    @edwinedesir9631 7 лет назад +1252

    i never understood the mentality of a women who accepts that behavior and allows themselves to get hurt continuously. It's very very conflicting.

    • @lilsunnybeans3342
      @lilsunnybeans3342 7 лет назад +101

      Edwine Desir bc emotional connection BUT what I don’t understand is the cheating OVER and OVER and OVER...that’s what’s really conflicting

    • @edwinedesir9631
      @edwinedesir9631 7 лет назад +52

      +Shana Bea bc they dont care. Or if you want to get deeper into the thought, maybe they DO have an addiction. Maybe they DONT want to seek help bc they dont really see it. Im in high school and boys like these are EVERYWHERE. AND I can't stand watching these gorgeous girls get hurt like this. Me personally, i can't deal with that kind of hurt. i often question if i can ever have the strength to forgive someone who cheated on me. I dont think i can, Im way to guarded of my heart. Maybe i could but i would most likely make tge relationship worse bec my trust issues would be very wishy washy and complicated.

    • @edwinedesir9631
      @edwinedesir9631 7 лет назад +11

      +Stephhhh809 awe Im so sorry, you did the right thing sis.

    • @Cabesmum
      @Cabesmum 7 лет назад +38

      I've never understood the mentality of the people who repeatedly cheat.

    • @keyahnuh7783
      @keyahnuh7783 6 лет назад +14

      It's Insanity. Doing The Same Exact Thing Over An Over Again But Expecting A Different Outcome/Reaction.

  • @exclusivelyeda8343
    @exclusivelyeda8343 7 лет назад +2254

    It doesn't make sense to me when you tell the girl her man is cheating and then she gets mad at you for telling her.

    • @IMVUDressUp
      @IMVUDressUp 7 лет назад +242

      Exclusively Eda or when girls get mad at the girl her man cheated on her with instead of the guy. I've never understood that...

    • @anastasiaflorence5366
      @anastasiaflorence5366 7 лет назад +105

      Exclusively Eda Most girls already know they’re being cheated on, it’s easy to know. they just decide to stay. it’s also embarrassing if someone who isn’t close to you tells you that your boyfriend/husband is cheating.

    • @BruhWhy5
      @BruhWhy5 7 лет назад +53

      Exclusively Eda Fr, I would be grateful.

    • @fatimakassim3091
      @fatimakassim3091 7 лет назад +38

      Exclusively Eda She doesn't want to believe it smh

    • @adjautoimportservices8364
      @adjautoimportservices8364 7 лет назад +51

      they're embarrassed

  • @onaokafor9093
    @onaokafor9093 7 лет назад +763

    He cheated on her so many times, even with her bestfriend and she still took him back? WHAT IS WRONG WITH HER!!??

  • @BubblegumGirl366
    @BubblegumGirl366 7 лет назад +1301

    Naw you should have showed her the picture I walked in on my ex cheating on me and I can never unsee it. It was the kick I needed to walk away from him forever. I don't think I could ever look at him the same again

    • @Checkersss
      @Checkersss 7 лет назад +123

      BubblegumGirl366 Yea, sometimes it takes proof to actually walk away. Like real proof right in front of your face.

    • @jeahavvalentin980
      @jeahavvalentin980 7 лет назад +21

      BubblegumGirl366 Paris is really really beautiful

  • @EditorEmily30
    @EditorEmily30 7 лет назад +577

    "Ya lil NASTY"
    Killed me.

    • @thefangirl_7907
      @thefangirl_7907 7 лет назад +17

      Emily Jones #thats so raven

    • @echo2064
      @echo2064 4 года назад

      @@thefangirl_7907 yeah but she's also always quoted it....

  • @morgzlavy5589
    @morgzlavy5589 7 лет назад +1476

    " I don't know anybody of this skin tone" 😂😂😂😂😣😭

    • @thefangirl_7907
      @thefangirl_7907 7 лет назад +14

      morgz lavy it’s the skin tone “gorgeous glow”

    • @rochelle1199
      @rochelle1199 7 лет назад +16

      I laughed so hard😂😂

    • @babyfly4652
      @babyfly4652 6 лет назад +7

      Rochelle same 😂😂😂

  • @samiyastevenson7368
    @samiyastevenson7368 7 лет назад +1797

    You can pull off any lip color 😻

  • @ninabelle6451
    @ninabelle6451 7 лет назад +499

    Girl you ain’t a snitch. You did the right thing. Every step you took too was genuine! Women empowering other women is so important

  • @thatsjewels9717
    @thatsjewels9717 7 лет назад +237

    And that's how people catch STDs... man love yourself ladies dang that's messed up.

  • @Ck-wd4ir
    @Ck-wd4ir 7 лет назад +375

    People like Ethan makes me scared of being in a relationship lol. Love your message in this video so true! That's why i never look up to others relationships, people only show you what they want to show.

    • @Boss_etc853
      @Boss_etc853 6 лет назад +15

      Coumba K same no one want a serial cheater

  • @MissJaida428
    @MissJaida428 7 лет назад +459

    Beyond the emotional repercussions of him cheating, did she ever stop to think of the physical risks?! That alone is enough for me to say buhbye✌🏾

    • @ciaras3170
      @ciaras3170 5 лет назад +50

      Right cus I ain’t getting HIV or any STD over no boy sorry but I’m so not sorry

  • @m.a9742
    @m.a9742 7 лет назад +440

    Tasha clearly has 0 standards

    • @femalecretins
      @femalecretins 7 лет назад +20

      Or she just spent a long time with him so clearly really loved him...

    • @nickinicole7707
      @nickinicole7707 6 лет назад +86

      she still has no standards lol

    • @miajanay9161
      @miajanay9161 4 года назад +36

      @@nickinicole7707 Nah. It's low self-esteem.

    • @EmilyHernandez-jt4cs
      @EmilyHernandez-jt4cs 3 года назад

      @@femalecretins I’m saying

  • @HeyParis
    @HeyParis  7 лет назад +667

    FOLLOW ME ON INSTAGRAM AND DM ME FOR A FOLLOW BACK ;)

    • @kay-caycewilliams4516
      @kay-caycewilliams4516 7 лет назад

      HeyParis done💕

    • @luz5636
      @luz5636 7 лет назад

      HeyParis PLS DO A VIDEO ON HOW YOU GOT THICK GIRL!!!!

    • @yuu227
      @yuu227 7 лет назад

      HeyParis aye done

    • @queenkarmah3488
      @queenkarmah3488 7 лет назад +1

      glad u back girl!! your shadow is so pretty

    • @gunplaybusiness
      @gunplaybusiness 7 лет назад

      HeyParis Are you excited for Halloween?

  • @tochiagbo
    @tochiagbo 7 лет назад +348

    This is the last time... Are you Trey Songz? 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @STANKBREATH
    @STANKBREATH 7 лет назад +1168

    THAT INTRO THO...😍 + love galore instrumental!

  • @breananicole5315
    @breananicole5315 7 лет назад +900

    Who else loves Paris😘😍❤️💕

  • @FeliciaDaniel
    @FeliciaDaniel 7 лет назад +131

    Paris threw a palm tree 😂😂😂 I caught that shade about those RUclips couples 😩😩🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @andrealovesbooks8670
    @andrealovesbooks8670 7 лет назад +170

    You did the right thing making him confess , I really admire you, that girl needs to love herself, I facepalmed 🤦🏻‍♀️ when you said that she took him back twice , that guy deserves to be alone forever
    Ladies please don’t let someone betray you like that and still be with u, you deserve much better, you deserve someone who will love you and protect you and be loyal to you
    And please look out for each other and help each other
    GirlLove ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @randomperson-uy7kc
      @randomperson-uy7kc 4 года назад +2

      Periodtt

    • @bougiepeaches5497
      @bougiepeaches5497 4 года назад +1

      Or stopping you from moving on and get with another man MEANWHILE they'll be out here with another person when something gone wrong.

  • @LADDIESYMONE
    @LADDIESYMONE 7 лет назад +1365

    i really love your new intro Paris its so cute

    • @brandib1757
      @brandib1757 7 лет назад +20

      LADDIE SYMONE right! And it actually looks like her I've seen a few where the person looks a bit off but hers is gorge

    • @je_suistyles
      @je_suistyles 7 лет назад

      Hey paris love you ♡♡♡

    • @Socallmelex
      @Socallmelex 7 лет назад

      LADDIE SYMONE saaaaame

    • @nicolebisangwa1576
      @nicolebisangwa1576 7 лет назад

      Yeah oh my gosh yassssssss
      It's super cute

    • @ItsAlexiaKAY
      @ItsAlexiaKAY 7 лет назад

      Same love it

  • @lilianap.4331
    @lilianap.4331 7 лет назад +80

    “If you aint like that smoke some weed or somthin”💀💀💀

  • @jb-nk5pg
    @jb-nk5pg 7 лет назад +157

    Paris I am one of your biggest fans and supporters. I live for your videos. Literally, I found you when I was going through a rough time, but you made me laugh and I was able to smile again. I want you to see this. And I want you to know your a very important factor in my life.

    • @thefangirl_7907
      @thefangirl_7907 7 лет назад +10

      J b she is an amazing person I too wish the best for Paris

  • @kimberlita1851
    @kimberlita1851 7 лет назад +241

    WE AINT HERE TO CELEBRATE YOU WE HERE TO TURN UP ayeeee

    • @echo2064
      @echo2064 4 года назад

      The fact that your name is Kimberly took me tf out.

  • @JamieTay
    @JamieTay 7 лет назад +497

    peep she lowkey talking bout chris and queen lmao drag em edit: woah thanks for the likes

    • @jessicawilliams8687
      @jessicawilliams8687 7 лет назад +47

      Jamie Tay on everything i peeped the shade 😂

    • @angeljoyneice
      @angeljoyneice 7 лет назад +9

      Fr😭😭😭

    • @pluto5610
      @pluto5610 7 лет назад +49

      She dragged Damien and Bianca as well!

    • @hola-zy3fy
      @hola-zy3fy 7 лет назад +1

      haha love it

    • @xaviaaaa
      @xaviaaaa 7 лет назад +1

      Jessica Williams right 😂

  • @fatimacole8060
    @fatimacole8060 7 лет назад +552

    "But how it look doe." 😏🤔

    • @thefangirl_7907
      @thefangirl_7907 7 лет назад +7

      Fatima Cole 🤣😂🤣😂

    • @shamadi7687
      @shamadi7687 7 лет назад +18

      Fatima Cole small 😂😂🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @luhtrin
      @luhtrin 7 лет назад +15

      😂😂 Was He White? B/c She Said She Saw A Bare White Booty

    • @jeahavvalentin980
      @jeahavvalentin980 7 лет назад +2

      Fatima Cole Paris is soooooooooooo beautiful

    • @jaz5721
      @jaz5721 7 лет назад +2

      Trinity Osby nahh the white booty was the best friend's booty 😂

  • @babybless2771
    @babybless2771 7 лет назад +40

    "Its Easy To Take a Picture Looking I'm in Love, but It's another to actually be in Love"👀

  • @princezzd19
    @princezzd19 7 лет назад +57

    paris always got me dying of laughter from her stories 😭😭😭😭

  • @arielsparling9170
    @arielsparling9170 7 лет назад +52

    This guy sounds like someone who would be on the Maury show

  • @zoomingby8786
    @zoomingby8786 7 лет назад +51

    Poor girl has to throw the whole best friend away smh

  • @beyoncastreeter4008
    @beyoncastreeter4008 7 лет назад +15

    23:18 when Paris said I gotta go bye I literally paused the video got up and left my room😂😭

  • @millennialmuze
    @millennialmuze 7 лет назад +266

    3:19 - 3:20 someome please make this a gif!!😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @BrookeMonroe
    @BrookeMonroe 7 лет назад +35

    How could anyone give her a thumbs down? She's literally incredible lol

  • @MVFMoura
    @MVFMoura 7 лет назад +10

    "I can seat here an say..I'm standing up..." HAHAHA. Paris you crack me up girl!

  • @stacydu8221
    @stacydu8221 7 лет назад +39

    LOVE THE RED IN THE BACKGROUND!🌹

  • @wheretfiscoryxkenshin
    @wheretfiscoryxkenshin 6 лет назад +14

    "we ain't here to celebrate you, we here to drink"😭😭😭

  • @LeslieAlas16
    @LeslieAlas16 7 лет назад +417

    Loving the new intro 💕

  • @lishtvoldacc2287
    @lishtvoldacc2287 7 лет назад +20

    Paris is the only person I will legitimately DROP everything I'm doing to watch holy crap I JUST LOVE YOUR VIDEOS SM

  • @HarrysGrapejuice
    @HarrysGrapejuice 7 лет назад +69

    That new intro gets me shook every time I'm not used to it yet😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @cupidsgoldenbow
    @cupidsgoldenbow 7 лет назад +150

    I felt weird watching this since its the same name..

  • @leahjordenfowler
    @leahjordenfowler 7 лет назад +82

    Okay Paris I see you with the intro sis it’s Sha poppin

  • @amberlikely420
    @amberlikely420 7 лет назад +35

    I remember when I was in middle school and I found out that this girl was sleeping with her best friend's boyfriend and I decided to tell the girl because her and I had a class together. I told her everything I saw and heard them say to each other and she confronted them. They got mad at me of course, but I thought it was wrong so I said something about it

  • @cybergf9937
    @cybergf9937 7 лет назад +448

    I luvvvv the new intro

  • @cybergf9937
    @cybergf9937 7 лет назад +323

    Paris throwin shade at Chris and queen. 👀

    • @mandyyimvugameplay9870
      @mandyyimvugameplay9870 7 лет назад +8

      childish sadbino no she isnt

    • @mayacravens
      @mayacravens 7 лет назад +21

      Yoooo aha I immediately thought of them as relationship goals

    • @mayacravens
      @mayacravens 7 лет назад +22

      *when she said people need to stop looking at other couples I thought of Chris 😂

    • @luisanatejedamejia9623
      @luisanatejedamejia9623 7 лет назад

      Maya Cravens sameeee yooo

    • @cybergf9937
      @cybergf9937 7 лет назад +1

      Mandyy IMVU gameplay yea, she is.

  • @audreycopeland7205
    @audreycopeland7205 7 лет назад +23

    that lip color looks stunning on you!!!

  • @SamanthaSmith-iv2ud
    @SamanthaSmith-iv2ud 7 лет назад +15

    Why are you slaying my life?? Like looks personality everything is poppin 😍😍🔥🔥🔥

  • @millennialmuze
    @millennialmuze 7 лет назад +47

    i always sing *LOOOO-UHHHH-UUUUVVEEEEE* when the intro comes on😂😂😂

  • @tricia1267
    @tricia1267 7 лет назад +34

    even tho ethan pissed me off during this whole story you had me cracking up. your videos always entertain me and are so interesting. i can't wait for the one about the girl who tried to steal your identity/life lol.

  • @heyitsdianai
    @heyitsdianai 7 лет назад +133

    *Lovin’ your intro* 🖤🖤🖤

  • @cpmkiwii
    @cpmkiwii 7 лет назад +146

    😂😂😂😂😂 Serial cheater

    • @nyariak923
      @nyariak923 7 лет назад +2

      Kiwii Kiwii lol

    • @Sara-of9zh
      @Sara-of9zh 4 года назад +2

      Lol love ur profile pic

  • @marcusbrown8317
    @marcusbrown8317 7 лет назад +17

    Omg that intro was so dope hope it stays like that ❤️🔥

  • @meanasslicia6145
    @meanasslicia6145 7 лет назад +62

    These wings came right on time 🤗 {and my 11 year old son changed my pic 🙄😂}

  • @ml6181
    @ml6181 7 лет назад +3

    you know what we say "LOVE MYSELF, LOVE YOURSELF" !!!!

  • @issaislandgyal1562
    @issaislandgyal1562 4 года назад +7

    You the best story teller PERIOD

  • @LettaUnlocked
    @LettaUnlocked 7 лет назад +13

    I like how she was talking bout we need to stop saying relationship goals and make our own💕💕😍PREACH PARIS☺️and you right we don’t know what them couples going through in real life just like chris and queen 😳😂

  • @therealchristinedaee
    @therealchristinedaee 7 лет назад +3

    Truth Paris! I realized that the instacouples and the ones who post so much lovey dovey stuff on social media are not always what they seem.

  • @dianaporter5590
    @dianaporter5590 7 лет назад +6

    That Moment She Was Lowkey Talking About Chris And Queen I Love You Paris

  • @fifiso1368
    @fifiso1368 7 лет назад +16

    Say you gotta girl, how you want me, how you want me but you gotta girl?😂💖

    • @Nkosazana-yt1
      @Nkosazana-yt1 3 года назад +2

      Basically sums up the whole story 😂. You low key have a gift

  • @goofball561
    @goofball561 7 лет назад +92

    29 mins of Paris ❤

    • @thefangirl_7907
      @thefangirl_7907 7 лет назад +2

      Kris t I am in heaven and my mom just brought some food 😋😋😋

    • @Xtina4444
      @Xtina4444 7 лет назад +1

      It’s lovely 😊

  • @yousistripinnn3697
    @yousistripinnn3697 7 лет назад +39

    can we take a second to appreciate her intro😂❤️😍😍

    • @Victoria-py7hd
      @Victoria-py7hd 7 лет назад +1

      christie take a second to appreciate her intro AND maddie Ziegler 😍 and btw I met maddie and Mackenzie this year. 😂😍😍😂

  • @barbaraclavelo6539
    @barbaraclavelo6539 7 лет назад +5

    Paris is the type of friend I would have loved to have ❤️

  • @amybrown1786
    @amybrown1786 7 лет назад +5

    Yassss paris I've been supporting you since day one and you have come so far. ///I am truly proud 😍💛💛💛💛💚💚💚💚

  • @awkwardmitchhh3347
    @awkwardmitchhh3347 7 лет назад +18

    When she did that old ringtone thooo 😂😂😂😂😂😂💔

  • @HiRaeanna
    @HiRaeanna 7 лет назад +8

    I think this is one of the best stories you’ve told. I can’t believe you kept it from us all of this time! Lol

  • @vivalanani
    @vivalanani 7 лет назад +457

    WHY PARIS THREW LOWKEY SHADE AT CHRIS AND QUEEN LIKE THAT LMFAOOOO

    • @angeljoyneice
      @angeljoyneice 7 лет назад +3

      Right😭💀💀

    • @XiamePha_alpacas
      @XiamePha_alpacas 7 лет назад +13

      Who's Chris and Queen? Are they on her insta?? I'm just asking because another commenter said the same

    • @childofJ.C
      @childofJ.C 7 лет назад +3

      Omm😂i peeped

    • @mayfia
      @mayfia 7 лет назад

      Exactly wat I said

    • @pinklink2169
      @pinklink2169 7 лет назад +6

      Xiame Pha chris and queen are a youtube couple and chris cheated on her but yes they have instagram but i dont know their ig names.

  • @swishygirl
    @swishygirl 7 лет назад +14

    I kept reading this as cheating on the staircase and i was like damn paris has the best names for people in her stories

  • @jadearmanii2124
    @jadearmanii2124 7 лет назад +6

    *Im sorry but this title had me sitting like a mom who juST FOUND OUT YOU FAILED A TEST 😂😂😂*

  • @themadisonmadison
    @themadisonmadison 7 лет назад +309

    When you thought you were first but but there’s already 52 comments 😕😭

  • @jaliealovell6674
    @jaliealovell6674 7 лет назад +9

    Yesss here from snapchat....love the new introoooo n you just made my day with a storytime🔥💞
    Love From Barbados

  • @mericawillis2338
    @mericawillis2338 7 лет назад +2

    "We ain't here to celebrate you, we're here to drink!" QUOTE!!!!

  • @Kitty-go7od
    @Kitty-go7od 7 лет назад +121

    i hate cheaters omg

  • @KimmieTheGreat36
    @KimmieTheGreat36 7 лет назад +27

    Omg that's insane. They deserve each other I guess. That's being weak af. He already knows she's going to forgive him so he's never going to stop. Do you know if they are still together?

  • @ravenferguson7373
    @ravenferguson7373 7 лет назад +14

    "We don see no baddyyyy"😂😂😂

  • @camschannel5212
    @camschannel5212 7 лет назад +7

    LOVIN THIS HAIRRRR😻😍❤️

  • @LiaHollenbeck
    @LiaHollenbeck 7 лет назад +30

    Sorry Paris have to be a responsible adult and go to bed before eleven I'll watch this tomorrow

  • @rochellethundercloud346
    @rochellethundercloud346 7 лет назад +31

    Why not just let Tasha see,for herself, what a dog she's saddled with. It's her birthday, but it done already was ruined by Ethan constantly cheating. Twice a week for years?sexting random people? Tasha would not have believed you.no,you shouldn't have been involved, but sometimes you have to show people the truth about a person or situation. Only way. You're saying Tasha deserved better. Well,how would she realize that she's gots to drop that zero.

  • @tamaraokah3844
    @tamaraokah3844 7 лет назад +83

    I love you Paris you are so pretty ♥️😃.

  • @roseysvlogs7547
    @roseysvlogs7547 7 лет назад +1

    Ethan's Ding Don't. 😂😂😂 I'm dying.

  • @ose9657
    @ose9657 7 лет назад +17

    This has nothing to do with the video.,But Paris looks like a whole thanksgiving meal

  • @NKA101
    @NKA101 7 лет назад +2

    "we ain't here to celebrate you, we here to drink" 😂😂

  • @tiarahnicole21
    @tiarahnicole21 7 лет назад +12

    Paris you look beautiful as always 😍😍💁🏽

  • @roseysvlogs7547
    @roseysvlogs7547 7 лет назад +3

    Paris is so BEAUTIFUL!!! 😭😭😍😍😍

  • @mariannn9135
    @mariannn9135 7 лет назад +9

    LOVINNNNN the new Intro edit

  • @hoteltrivago.8111
    @hoteltrivago.8111 7 лет назад +9

    0:03 could that phone case be a sign for some merch???? Cause y'all already know ya girl is gonna buy me everything lol sturt that shirt to school

  • @furaham2129
    @furaham2129 7 лет назад +7

    Yes Paris love your storytimes❤❤

  • @treetanya
    @treetanya 7 лет назад +1

    notification quad and First one all in one mix?!?!? love life
    gurl I LOVE lOVE LOVE you and your videos

  • @toriashley1108
    @toriashley1108 7 лет назад +21

    oh my Ethan be a player or 'gyalis' as we Jamaicans say lol

  • @amandasandoval2107
    @amandasandoval2107 7 лет назад +3

    I appreciate this video so much! I was cheated on by my previous boyfriend and I wish the people especially the girls that knew would have let me know. You did the right thing, GIRL POWER!!

  • @nevishamaharaj2331
    @nevishamaharaj2331 7 лет назад +8

    Yasssss paris that intro tho💜👏

  • @ruthhenrii3708
    @ruthhenrii3708 7 лет назад +2

    I love how London/Birmingham/Manchester and other urban places in England and Toronto have same slang words so I really relate to toronto youtubers

  • @RonyaaGrandberry
    @RonyaaGrandberry 7 лет назад +3

    Love when she says “bye” ! 😂

  • @juliajane3161
    @juliajane3161 7 лет назад +1

    ahh today's the one year anniversary that I've been watching u!! amazing, love you❤️

  • @robarazzistanaccount2138
    @robarazzistanaccount2138 7 лет назад +56

    I CAME HERE AS SOON AS I HEARD

  • @callint3480
    @callint3480 7 лет назад +2

    I am loving the background. Really makes you pop out

  • @jemimaa7593
    @jemimaa7593 7 лет назад +17

    The intro thooo 😍😍😭🎉

  • @jojoslife8704
    @jojoslife8704 6 лет назад +1

    Paris ur the real mvp, that’s not even yo gf and you still kept it real

  • @sushi3937
    @sushi3937 7 лет назад +33

    I luv that intro!

  • @berenicelopez5662
    @berenicelopez5662 7 лет назад +2

    When you said y'all nasty you reminded me of raven 😂😂 same face n everything

  • @chelsea3778
    @chelsea3778 7 лет назад +9

    When she said Ethan I instantly thought of Ethan Dolan lol

  • @michellesong7531
    @michellesong7531 7 лет назад +1

    I love the speech you made about relationship goals. You're awesome. ❤

  • @infinity678
    @infinity678 7 лет назад +36

    that intro thoo!!!

  • @k3upikachu
    @k3upikachu 5 лет назад

    13:45 had me CRYINGGGG lmao "*badapadadadaa* ok that is NOT the genre of music we listen to..."