[RE- UPLOAD] BKCHAT LDN: S4 EPISODE 11 - "Did you Wake Up And Say... I Wanna Be A Boy"

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  • Опубликовано: 15 апр 2021
  • RE-UPLOAD! The cast have a very heated discussing regarding "Transgender" as one of the cast members being trans themselves gets fired up at some of the comments being made.
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  • @blckgrlnxtdr
    @blckgrlnxtdr 3 года назад +1336

    The ignorance of some of these cast members is actually out of control lmao

  • @leahnesling3036
    @leahnesling3036 3 года назад +516

    Is no one gonna talk about how much of a GOOD person Omar is??? That boy is respectful, understanding & intelligent. Raised right !

  • @entertainmentculture2909
    @entertainmentculture2909 3 года назад +427

    Castillo gives me joke, he knows too keep out of it 🤣🤣

  • @oluwapelumiolagunju2930
    @oluwapelumiolagunju2930 3 года назад +771

    “Because their uncle Leroy used to touch their bum bum when they was a yute” PLEASE CASTILLO IS HILARIOUS

  • @chinoahmed6428
    @chinoahmed6428 3 года назад +644

    No one:
    No even lani:
    Castillo: Big man ting yeah
    💀💀💀💀💀💀💀

    • @ThatGuyGemz
      @ThatGuyGemz 3 года назад +60

      Castillo is the funniest guy der idgaf what anyone says🤣🤣🤣

    • @kumbafjawara3936
      @kumbafjawara3936 3 года назад +2

      LOOOOOOOOL

  • @menawu7617
    @menawu7617 3 года назад +698

    The irony of speaking ignorantly about gender fluidity and norms whilst wearing a Prince T-shirt 😂

    • @maxpowers111
      @maxpowers111 3 года назад +4

      What do you mean?

    • @siennaglasford4503
      @siennaglasford4503 3 года назад +28

      @@maxpowers111 Prince was androgynous

    • @maxpowers111
      @maxpowers111 3 года назад +6

      @@siennaglasford4503How does that affect the point of the person wearing the clothing?

    • @siennaglasford4503
      @siennaglasford4503 3 года назад +66

      @@maxpowers111 cause he’s dissing people who are gender fluid yet he’s clearly a supporter of someone who was openly gender fluid.

    • @maxpowers111
      @maxpowers111 3 года назад +35

      @@siennaglasford4503 Hugo Boss was the designer who made clothes for Hitler;are those who wear Hugo Boss clothes supporters of Hitler?

  • @saranbarry5917
    @saranbarry5917 3 года назад +246

    They put this trans person in FIRE, so sorry they had to be put in such an uncomfortable situation

    • @GreatWolfBalistic
      @GreatWolfBalistic Год назад

      🔥🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @williamhenry7906
      @williamhenry7906 Год назад +9

      I don't feel sorry for them. If they want to be a man, expect no pity. And those fake tears don't work. She is a woman, looks like woman, behaves like a woman and has woman DNA.. Therefore SHE IS A WOMAN. Who cares about how people feel? Just because they feel like certain way, we just have to accept their illness? Hell to the naw.. They are out their mind and need help.

    • @krekiyosharts
      @krekiyosharts Год назад +10

      @@williamhenry7906why can’t people just mind their business and let trans people be happy? what do trans people do that affects anyone other than themselves or their family and friends?

    • @williamhenry7906
      @williamhenry7906 Год назад

      @babeyyuwu8475 Have you not heard what them sickos are saying? They are coming for our kids.. Come for my kids if you want to, it will your end.. You a tranny since you're protecting them? If they did try to force it upon us, maybe people would hate on them soo much. Even the LGB community is tired of them weirdos.. That says all you should need to know..

    • @Choudry9000
      @Choudry9000 11 месяцев назад

      @@krekiyosharts Religion plays a big role on people’s views on genders so it not what trans people do it’s what they are which is argued about. Me personally am religious and follow allah but even so I do not bother with lgbtq and do not interfere with what they choose as I’m not the one who will need to judge them when we all die. Just to clarify I don’t agree with there views on genders but if I had to confront them as is seen in this video I will tell them what I believe and also understand what they believe. I would not agree but they don’t have to agree with me.

  • @PhoenieFroe313
    @PhoenieFroe313 3 года назад +468

    Some of them moving hypocritical... laughing at what the guy is saying yet acting as in they're in defense of the topic. These times they're harbouring these same questions/thoughts and quiet prejudices because they are afraid of the backlash if they actually spoke their true minds.

    • @craigmalcom6294
      @craigmalcom6294 3 года назад +27

      Mark just asks them in a stupid and blunt way

    • @KathleenEd
      @KathleenEd 3 года назад +21

      Exactlyyy it‘s serious for one certain person and people are laughing and making all these noises.. all I hear is ooo aaa like pshht😭

    • @saphscorner9869
      @saphscorner9869 3 года назад +4

      They’re laughing because of the immaturity of the guys

    • @KathleenEd
      @KathleenEd 3 года назад +9

      @@saphscorner9869 nah that’s a different type of laughter..

    • @maishao8710
      @maishao8710 3 года назад +1

      True !

  • @niksniks713
    @niksniks713 3 года назад +474

    Re-upload season 1,2 and 3 those were the best 😂

    • @lilyo7328
      @lilyo7328 3 года назад +27

      And the reunionssss

    • @justsitwatchpimp4353
      @justsitwatchpimp4353 3 года назад +38

      @@lilyo7328 especially seasona 2 reunion. Adreyn was active 😭😂

    • @dmensah6631
      @dmensah6631 3 года назад +1

      The realness

    • @breem3608
      @breem3608 3 года назад +3

      Plzzzzzz Andy 😭

    • @fwa1xb.
      @fwa1xb. 3 года назад +6

      Yh I want that soo badly, I’ve never watched it before

  • @thg_2728
    @thg_2728 2 года назад +51

    I think the idea that people don’t want their kids to learn about the LGBT community stems from the ignorant narrative that everything to do with the LGBT community is sexual, you can teach kids about the community and not sex they can be separated

    • @x0x0.kristyana
      @x0x0.kristyana Год назад +3

      The problem with that is once some lgbtq+ members start seeing that children are appreciating them, they try and push it even further by bringing the children in the community with them. And some parents doesn’t want that for their children, so all they’re asking is for the pride community to respect their boundaries just like the community would want the parents to respect them.

    • @MsGj_Edits
      @MsGj_Edits 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@x0x0.kristyanathat literally never happens.

    • @x0x0.kristyana
      @x0x0.kristyana 11 месяцев назад

      @@MsGj_Edits 🤨 HA ok bud

    • @youngboozay3318
      @youngboozay3318 11 месяцев назад

      I disagree considering there a men walking with there penis out in front of children at pride parades

    • @lucyscott422
      @lucyscott422 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@MsGj_Edits, It definitely happens, my daughter had a friend who was older by 4 years, she was a neighbor of ours’ her mother was like a younger sister to me. My adult son who is gay, but still pure’ he wants to remain that way until he marries. We knew this child was a Lesbian when she was 6, my daughter is gorgeous and she liked to hang around my daughter all the time, we didn’t worry about it when they were little, but as they began to get older, and I noticed how possessive she became with my daughter. My daughter has always loved men, and guys have always loved her, ‘ I think it’s not only her beauty but personality, and she’s a girly girl who loves’ and knows sports. We’ve always said she had the Handsome Prince Syndrome, because of Disney movies’ she had them all and knew all the songs, at three. Which is when she kissed her first boy 🙄, I know she did it because she thought he looked like a handsome prince. I’m sitting on the patio in my rocker, reading a book’ my baby girl comes out and joins the neighbors daughter, and other children playing a board game on the porch. I’ve always been very intune with my children, I felt something’ I looked up at my daughter, and she’s looking at this little boy sitting beside her, ‘ as if she’s entranced. To my disbelief she leans forward, and kisses him on the cheek. He gasps and grabs his jaw, and says she kissed me. My jaw hit the ground 😮, but looking 👀 at him I understand why, that was the most golden child I’ve seen in my entire life, truly kissed by the sun perfectly, with the brightest big sky blue eyes, and hair so blonde it looked like spun gold. I was like woah! I’ve never seen another male child that beautiful since. I had to get my child and take her inside, and have a talk about why you don’t do that. Three days later the little boy came to my door, and my adult son Steven answered the door, ‘ Steven asked him my I help you. And he said, can my girlfriend come out and play 🤣😂😅 my son was not amused, he said in his Barry White voice disapprovingly, no she can’t come out and play’ and she’s too young to have a boyfriend.🤨 I was like son he’s only 5 , my son said and, she is too young . I found out the little gorgeous fella was 5 and Scandinavian. Continuing on, I hear the neighbors daughter, their in my daughter’s bedroom playing. She tells my daughter that she’s gay and that she believes that my child is gay. I immediately called them to the kitchen, and told the other child it was time to go home, we were going to eat dinner. I sat my daughter down and told her she’s a leader, not a follower. And to never let someone tell her she’s something that she’s not, that she’s always loved men , and that she came out of the womb loving men. Reminding her of several incidents, she could only smile. Even after they got older and we moved to another area in the same community , she would come and see my daughter’ and started doing slick stuff having my daughter change clothes in front of her, when they would be in my daughters room, I put a stop to that, the young lady started hanging with a small group of white Lesbian girls, my daughter is Bi- Racial, I told my daughter she was not allowed in my friends house with her child, unless her mother was home ‘ I also told the young lady , my daughter is 11 at this point’ but built like a young Hallie Berry. One day I get back from grocery shopping, and my daughter’s not waiting sitting on the porch , I call her phone because I know there’s only a couple of places she’s allowed to be, to tell her to come help put away the groceries, and do her homework. She answers her phone, and I ask where she is, she says my friends apartment’ I hear all these female voices in the background, I tell her to give me friend the phone, so that I can tell her I have what she wanted to borrow, my daughter tells me she’s still at work. I tell her to come home, I put her on punishment for not following the rules, I find out they were over there trying on new clothes, and trying to urge her to. I call the daughter and tell her to have her mom give me a call back, I have what she asked for. When my friend got home, I told her I had what she needed but I needed to have a serious discussion with her, and I hope it didn’t effect our sisterhood, because of the subject’ she says ok. I began to start with the past, and how my son and I realized that her daughter was Gay, she knows my son is Gay, I told her all the things that had happened in the past and instead of speaking out about her child’s sexuality , we took precaution instead. We’d had a incident where her daughter hit my child unjustly, and she made excuses for. This child could do no wrong in her eyes, I really realized that after the girl killed their pet, by squeezing it to hard, ‘ and she said it was a accident. So I tell her how my daughter was in the apartment without her being there, and I’d told both of them that was not allowed, also how the other girls were there, she did become furious at that because’ her daughter wasn’t supposed to have anyone in the house period, she was on punishment because of her grades, she was supposed to do homework then clean the house, which wasn’t completed. She didn’t want to believe at that time that her daughter was a Lesbian, and didn’t until her child came straight out and told her. When she later spoke with me about her daughter was dating a girl outright, she wasn’t happy, I told her I knew how she felt, I’d dealt with the same thing with my son. But that was her child,love her because of that ‘not because of her sexual orientation. She went cold on me after I told her that, and didn’t talk to me for about three years. I realized our relationship had never been on equal footing, I gave 70% and she gave 30% if that. My son told me he liked the fact that I was not being used as a constant ATM, and Grocery Store, that really put things into perspective for me. Something that I experienced myself when I was 16, my best friends older sister from her father, were all Lesbians except one, there were five older sisters, they lived with her fathers dad, her grandfather. She was very close to her grandfather, he was a wonderful man. I didn’t know about them until later, their mother is deceased’ he remarried to my girlfriends mother, and they had three sons two daughters together. Anyway we went to visit her grandfather and sisters, we were there for a while’ grandpa was cooking and told us to stay to eat. One of her sisters had some really intricate braids, and I was admiring them, the sister that did them asked if I wanted her to do mine, and I said please do. She slayed my long hair, she had me looking like Thelma from Good Times, showing my age 😂. When we were getting ready to leave after dinner, I went to the bathroom first, when I came out one of the sisters was waiting for me, she had a really tomboyish style , when I first saw her from afar’ I thought she was a good looking guy. She approaches me and says how pretty and fine I am, and who do I get my Hazel eyes from, I tell her my mom’s side of the family. She tells me that I seem like I’m good people, and she likes that ‘ she asked if I have a boyfriend, I told her not right now. She says she wants me to go out with her sometimes, my best friend her little sister walks up on the conversation and says absolutely not, she tries to speak my friend says no, all loud with this mean look on her face. She grabs my wrist and says come on, we’re going, I’m shocked I’m like what just happened, ‘ I was so green and didn’t know anything about that life, I’m thinking this chick is trying to become friends with me, not knowing she wanted my goodies 😳. When my best friend got me about a block away from the house, she stopped and schooled me as to what was going on. When I say my mouth was catching flies, that’s the least of it, when I tell you she gave me a ear full’ sis laid it all out SMH. I’ve had other family members from both sex’s to deal with the same thing, sometimes only worse. Everyone is not like this of course, but there’s enough’ that’s it’s giving the decent people unsavory names. Sorry this was very long, just wanted to help you understand the circumstances. Be Blessed

  • @iyanasymone5597
    @iyanasymone5597 2 года назад +98

    Castillo always looks confused and out of it😭💀

    • @kareemdabo4716
      @kareemdabo4716 2 года назад +9

      Through out the whole vid I was just wondering what bro was thinking

    • @c.p.newton8912
      @c.p.newton8912 Год назад

      Of cause he’s confused he likes “big man tings” hahahah

  • @sagesseroland1275
    @sagesseroland1275 3 года назад +341

    The irony that mark is wearing a Prince shirt 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @just_teeeaxo
      @just_teeeaxo 3 года назад +22

      Prince wasn't gay though so I'm confused 😕

    • @yhlol6692
      @yhlol6692 3 года назад +31

      @@just_teeeaxo Prince is a gay icon not gay. So he would be against what marc is saying.

    • @lisaz1499
      @lisaz1499 3 года назад +13

      @@just_teeeaxo Prince would hate Marc tho and he wasn’t a „typical man“ he wore make up and stuff.Marc is the true sedition of toxic masculinity

    • @JakeRuzi
      @JakeRuzi 3 года назад +11

      @@yhlol6692 he wouldn’t. He was religious and openly anti-LGBT+.

    • @alonzoball6266
      @alonzoball6266 3 года назад +1

      @@lisaz1499 define toxic masculinity?

  • @DaniellaV9
    @DaniellaV9 3 года назад +186

    marc is actually insufferable

    • @zaynsprmcy6421
      @zaynsprmcy6421 2 года назад +5

      literally

    • @elifolarin7545
      @elifolarin7545 Год назад

      Fr I hate him

    • @elisabethochoa1125
      @elisabethochoa1125 Год назад

      He’s dumb but even outside of that it’s disgusting the way he was talking as if he was about to fuck that girl up. He needed to sit bitch ass down that shit is not classy nor does it demand respect.

  • @princesspetal15
    @princesspetal15 3 года назад +191

    I don't know why Tara has assumed the position of mother to Terrell... Every question that's asked to Terrell, Tara seems to constantly but in the save him... Let Terrell answer the questions posed to him without someone stepping in to "defend".

    • @SnowofLight
      @SnowofLight 3 года назад +38

      Because they still see Terrell as a woman, that they need to defend.

    • @micalove3590
      @micalove3590 3 года назад +18

      You’re big dumb if you don’t see the point. Max was literally throwing jabs the whole time referring him as she on purpose telling him to sit down. Cmon now

    • @Moimen._
      @Moimen._ 2 года назад +2

      Literally..

  • @alphalijahsworld9010
    @alphalijahsworld9010 3 года назад +178

    The writers fucked up on this episode cause your not supposed to bring in one trans to stay on one side. Its either EVEN or NON

    • @ilpalot1917
      @ilpalot1917 3 года назад +11

      He identifies as a man now so he decided which side to go on

    • @mariancounsellor
      @mariancounsellor 3 года назад +3

      He identified as a man so he probably chose for himself

    • @passionbaridinbo
      @passionbaridinbo 3 года назад +11

      Ttttruuuueee, if its truly an intellectual debate , they should have brought several transgender perspectives. This set up makes me want to get him a lawyer. This is pure judgement.

    • @justanotheracc6148
      @justanotheracc6148 2 года назад +1

      Literally everyone in the room except jay was on the gay girls side, I don’t understand how she’s some kind of victim

  • @hadin2993
    @hadin2993 3 года назад +200

    Castillo is my favourite ong

  • @nxo1xx658
    @nxo1xx658 3 года назад +302

    the way Terrell told jay no will always kill me there was actually no need

    • @Dz-nn9gt
      @Dz-nn9gt 3 года назад +2

      Timestamp pleaseeeeee 😭😭

    • @nxo1xx658
      @nxo1xx658 3 года назад +11

      @@Dz-nn9gt 32:42

    • @heyylollx5513
      @heyylollx5513 3 года назад

      fr😭😭

    • @naa3672
      @naa3672 3 года назад +36

      Well at that height of emotion, mid rant and the fact that people were finally giving him a chance to speak, Jay’s interjection at that point was what wasn’t needed. I said “no” with Terrell simultaneously cos he should just let him speak

    • @mrstrangeworld5977
      @mrstrangeworld5977 2 года назад

      @@naa3672 nah

  • @telmagomes6928
    @telmagomes6928 2 года назад +84

    You don’t have to accept it , you should just respect it period

    • @Neruqi
      @Neruqi 2 года назад +9

      Why must you respect something you don’t accept? I don’t accept people raping little kids, should I respect them though? I agree with Marc, true he was being a bit aggressive but he was asking questions.

    • @naa3672
      @naa3672 2 года назад +6

      @@Neruqi Marc was being unnecessarily rude. He wasn’t asking to educate himself. He was just being condescending. And your analogy about rape does not hold. Tf?! Why would you compare someone’s sexually and a fucking rapist?

    • @Neruqi
      @Neruqi 2 года назад +2

      @@naa3672 it’s an analogy, genius. And him being “condescending” is your opinion. He genuinely was speaking to “him” and wasn’t being rude.

    • @naa3672
      @naa3672 2 года назад +1

      @@Neruqi yes I am a genius compared to you

    • @Neruqi
      @Neruqi 2 года назад +3

      @@naa3672 based of no reasoning or understanding, yes, you’re way smarter than me. 🙈

  • @killlamas57
    @killlamas57 3 года назад +222

    Stop asking ignorant people questions they aren’t qualified to speak on.

    • @Dz-nn9gt
      @Dz-nn9gt 3 года назад +28

      This show in a nutshell 🤦🏾‍♂️

    • @bonez2019
      @bonez2019 3 года назад +8

      Shut up freedom of speech not everybody has to accept what’s said to them

    • @yaggayaggaya9918
      @yaggayaggaya9918 3 года назад +3

      This entire show, brother 😭

    • @killlamas57
      @killlamas57 3 года назад +4

      @@yaggayaggaya9918 I’ve outgrown it. They’re so immature and they are all older than me

    • @yaggayaggaya9918
      @yaggayaggaya9918 3 года назад +3

      @@killlamas57 🥲🥲🥲 yeah, I'm trans and its just weird watching a room full of mostly cis people trying to navigate this topic with zero research and zero care

  • @mya.x._
    @mya.x._ 3 года назад +58

    speaking from personal experience, when i was younger (ages 5/6-10) i HATED being a girl and i HATED girls in general, i had this mindset of “boys are better than girls” and such, i always wanted to do boy dominating activities i.e. gaming, skateboarding, football. sometimes people would ask me if i was a boy or a girl and i would say that im a girl but i would prefer to be called a boy or that i didnt mind. the only catch me in girl clothes if my mum forced me to wear them, other than that it was baggy jeans and boy t-shirts. i genuinely do not know why i had this hatred of being a girl. growing up my two closet friends from nursery were boys and we would always play fight and play football, and our mums would always say “be careful with mya cuz shes a girl” obviously now i realise that they were a lot stronger than me, but back then i didn’t understand what me being a girl had to do with them being careful. it wasnt a thing where i woke up one day and was like “i wanna be a boy” it was over a time period where i just preferred boys over girls and would always prefer to hang out with them. heck, even in primary school i would play football with the boys and i was even the only girl on the boys football team in year 5.
    im 17 now and im glad i didnt go through with any sort of surgery or hormone blockers and i think that hormones and puberty are CRUCIAL for young children to develop, and blocking that isnt the smartest thing. I am still a tomboy but i like being a girl, i “grew out” of wanting to be a boy as i grew up. i will admit tho, u wont catch me acting like one pick me and acting up infront of man for their validation or whatnot, but i still have a tendency to side with a mans opinion simply cuz i was so used to not wanting to agree with girls, but this is DEPENDING on the topic tho i am trying to work on this tho

  • @TheKianajewell
    @TheKianajewell 3 года назад +115

    The irony of Marc in that Prince shirt

  • @mariancounsellor
    @mariancounsellor 3 года назад +198

    Marc showed his true sneaky character with what he said in the 1-1 interviews. On camera, he was acting like he respected the transgender person. You don’t have to understand someone to respect them.

    • @unrivaled.zzz11
      @unrivaled.zzz11 2 года назад +15

      Because he had to be very mindful when he's literally sitting next to them

    • @NigerianSpecimen
      @NigerianSpecimen 2 года назад +5

      He did respect her

    • @domiduch4344
      @domiduch4344 Год назад +2

      It is respect that he didn’t actually said, what he wanted to really say, not to hurt her or make her cry again.

  • @zowi9581
    @zowi9581 3 года назад +67

    Castillo was so jokes🤣🤣he didn’t say a thing but I know he was holding back his views

  • @rio.nz2168
    @rio.nz2168 3 года назад +34

    I think the issue is when they can't detach themselves emotionally from these discussions. no matter how you feel a debate is not somewhere for feelings and emotion

  • @crappydoo7536
    @crappydoo7536 Год назад +11

    I love chris’s explanations. He explained it better because for sensitive issues like this you have to take out your emotions to explain it and also to receive it and understand.

  • @rioprice9134
    @rioprice9134 3 года назад +84

    25:30 “shall we talk to u about green dreads or something”? This kills me 🤣🤣omar got sent for unprovoked

  • @estherlolaxo1566
    @estherlolaxo1566 3 года назад +82

    The way that some of the cast members were being disrespectful is actually disgusting

  • @Caramel0Touch
    @Caramel0Touch 3 года назад +35

    This debate! I do wish I was part of the panel I can’t even lie. This had me shouting at the tv in my living room, I know it was recorded long time ago but still, it’s a very interesting topic.

  • @renaee_qt
    @renaee_qt 3 года назад +51

    I’m uncomfortable for Tyrell. Marc Cuban represents why I don’t date certain man. Also Omar is a king 👑

  • @KINGREKO1
    @KINGREKO1 3 года назад +14

    No Terrell the question bothered you BECAUSE ITS THE TRUTH AND TRUTH WILL NOT CHANGE NO MATTER ABOUT ANYONES FEELINGS.

    • @faith3109
      @faith3109 2 года назад +7

      What exactly is wrong with not having children? What about straight people who willingly choose not to have children? Or people who can't have children? Better yet how does being gay concern you? It's not by force to attend pride or attend a wedding but leaving it alone and going on with your day is free ffs.

  • @ibbykhan2475
    @ibbykhan2475 3 года назад +173

    Terrel always sounds like he’s gonna cry

  • @ImRicoOD
    @ImRicoOD 3 года назад +35

    "You're a man innit, I swear You're a man "

  • @MoInTheCity03
    @MoInTheCity03 3 года назад +77

    All of the yelling over each other ; the indecency

  • @wandiletshabangu5456
    @wandiletshabangu5456 3 года назад +44

    Castillo is talking big FACTS!!

  • @justsitwatchpimp4353
    @justsitwatchpimp4353 3 года назад +98

    zeze spoke about how the first time she met Castillo on their podcast was through bkchat and we still never seen the episode. U teased it time ago

    • @SO-2671
      @SO-2671 3 года назад +2

      trust

    • @wintersummer1633
      @wintersummer1633 3 года назад +4

      i think it might not have been a good showing for zeze and cause her and andy are close, she might have asked him not to air it.

    • @azeezahmeed9871
      @azeezahmeed9871 3 года назад +10

      Truuuust they think we forgot about the episodes they haven't even uploaded yet but tryna start a new thing... E.g. where zeze was arguing with Lucas in the trailer

  • @nevayagrace6334
    @nevayagrace6334 3 года назад +10

    thank god for catherine in this vid bringing up all the valid points most people leave out of these conversations

  • @aishax01
    @aishax01 3 года назад +20

    32:16 Terrell said, "someone died the other day," Jay S askes, "what killed him?" 😭😭😭😭kakjavxubwjcb

  • @melamagic8344
    @melamagic8344 3 года назад +25

    Omar was the only one speaking sense

  • @MrCaptainsmartass
    @MrCaptainsmartass Год назад +14

    they did everything but talk about gender. i felt awful for tyrell. it's such a shame that even in today's time with alllllll the access to the resources,these grown able bodied adults can't have an actual conversation about other identities without throwing weird assumptions that they ca't back up with any sources.

  • @vanessatanko8741
    @vanessatanko8741 3 года назад +8

    Reupload the good ones were waiting for all of them keep them coming

  • @entertainmentculture2909
    @entertainmentculture2909 3 года назад +69

    Schools should be teaching racism instead, sexual orientation optional

    • @shekrahman84
      @shekrahman84 3 года назад +10

      Lol, so one struggle/ oppression is more important than another.

    • @zayy1824
      @zayy1824 3 года назад +4

      RIGHT

    • @SnapszDuhh
      @SnapszDuhh 3 года назад +16

      They should do both.

    • @lyn.ndlovu
      @lyn.ndlovu 3 года назад +3

      sexual orientation is biological yet racism is not, one of these comes naturally and the other is taught, not that one is more important than the other

    • @shekrahman84
      @shekrahman84 3 года назад +8

      @@lyn.ndlovu your statement makes no sense. being gay is biological, being of colour is biological. being racist is taught, being homophobic is taught, your point is not even a point.....but it seems you may have an unconscious bias. This is, in seeing one struggle is more noteworthy than another as when people are inflicted by hurt/pain cannot understand someone else's pain.

  • @uriblaketheriddimprotege
    @uriblaketheriddimprotege 3 года назад +12

    They getting offended for dude, when dude isnt even offended.

  • @ea1342
    @ea1342 3 года назад +34

    If someone could finish a sentence without being interjected would be nice

  • @latoyahw3970
    @latoyahw3970 3 года назад +95

    I love taras top. But anyway I can’t stand when everyone gets all theatrical when mark asks a question. Like pretending to fall over.

    • @user-yh4cx8qj5t
      @user-yh4cx8qj5t 2 года назад +3

      Because he’s asking dumb questions tf

  • @bluebear9228
    @bluebear9228 3 года назад +47

    Marc really getting angry cause he made someone upset. If u were a real man he could let his ego down and apologise

    • @seanemeka-ugwuadu5735
      @seanemeka-ugwuadu5735 3 года назад +22

      He did nothing wrong. You’re pressed

    • @zeyxab
      @zeyxab 3 года назад +19

      @@seanemeka-ugwuadu5735 he asked dumb questions the entire episode and equated bisexuality to beastiality

    • @zeyxab
      @zeyxab 3 года назад +9

      @@seanemeka-ugwuadu5735 and he got angry that the girl gave him tissues he’s fucking jarring

    • @seanemeka-ugwuadu5735
      @seanemeka-ugwuadu5735 3 года назад +13

      @@zeyxab you cant cry during a debate or theres no point you being there. People are gonna disagree with you, you just have to accept it. Tears are pointless

    • @seanemeka-ugwuadu5735
      @seanemeka-ugwuadu5735 3 года назад +5

      @@zeyxab thats not even true. He asked others to specify what they meant by fluidity and freedom because that could mean absolutely anything which is unreasonable

  • @Kkayy020
    @Kkayy020 3 года назад +220

    Marc is too funny he’s a meme making faces with them shades 🤣

    • @octaviaactive8257
      @octaviaactive8257 3 года назад +5

      Trust me😭

    • @ezradlionel711
      @ezradlionel711 2 года назад +12

      Funny? Dude is corny as fuck

    • @dayjayplays2829
      @dayjayplays2829 2 года назад +4

      @@ezradlionel711 man said corny🤣

    • @ezradlionel711
      @ezradlionel711 2 года назад

      @@dayjayplays2829 It's probably gonna blow your mind when you realize that the internet is available in more than one country, where man's don't say mans

  • @1david39
    @1david39 2 года назад +40

    26:03 "Wait, what's all this crying about? What's all this crying about!" DWL! Marc and Joseph's reaction was funny to me.

  • @ek2lavish525
    @ek2lavish525 3 года назад +36

    Dis is my opinion, I believe nobody is born with a preference of if u like gyal or boys. I think da more you grow you begin to decide your sexuality, not trying to be harsh but I don’t think you can be born gay or straight.

    • @maxpowers111
      @maxpowers111 3 года назад +1

      What do you mean?

    • @ek2lavish525
      @ek2lavish525 3 года назад +6

      @@maxpowers111 what I mean is that when you are born you don’t know ur sexuality until you get older dats when you begin to know your sexuality to boys or girls

    • @maxpowers111
      @maxpowers111 3 года назад +1

      @@ek2lavish525 Are you saying that people decide to be straight,/gay/ etc etc?

    • @ek2lavish525
      @ek2lavish525 3 года назад +2

      @@maxpowers111 yh

    • @HY-oj3jx
      @HY-oj3jx 3 года назад +10

      Yeah I agree. I don’t think anything is ‘born’ a sexuality because as an infant, you don’t even know your own name. You seek comfort, food, warmth and that’s about all there is to it. As you grow, you figure out what your tastes are and what you’re attracted to. When people say they were ‘born this way’ in regards to their sexuality (and not being straight) - they mean that it shouldn’t be argued against because the same way you wouldn’t expect somebody to explain their ‘straight-ness’ to you, there’s no need for a double standard with any other sexuality. There is nothing to explain or back up because it’s purely a matter of what they’re attracted to, you feel me? Same goes for gender identity.

  • @tehakibriak1216
    @tehakibriak1216 2 года назад +9

    Tf… the guy with the black cap was so articulate… but ofc Marc wouldn’t understand him🙃

  • @shahir10
    @shahir10 3 года назад +41

    Bro, how did she say The "The Greek god Hermaphroditee" with that much confidence

    • @julianumeh9194
      @julianumeh9194 3 года назад +13

      That made me cringe. I literally felt second hand embarrassment for her.

    • @emahazionf
      @emahazionf 3 года назад +7

      Yooooooooooo I literally paused the video and had to take a mental break from this episode

    • @mizzy9870
      @mizzy9870 3 года назад +5

      Even had the audacity to say Aphrodite had 2 genitalia tf

  • @iqra5976
    @iqra5976 3 года назад +30

    I LOVE HOW LANI IS SO CARING I JUDT WANNA MARRY HER

  • @queenknyoki5447
    @queenknyoki5447 3 года назад +50

    38:26 the man on the end Jays, has explained it perfectly 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @oluwapelumiolagunju2930
    @oluwapelumiolagunju2930 3 года назад +13

    You could tell that Terrell was not having it when he was asked who the pengest is

  • @justacting234
    @justacting234 3 года назад +16

    She said "can you prove you can be born straight?" 😂🤣😂

  • @LowercaseKev
    @LowercaseKev 2 года назад +93

    Imma be real with you... The girls reactions every time a question was genuinely asked was ridiculous. Let that man get some understanding of what that person is going thru

    • @fehintoluwaojewuyi9595
      @fehintoluwaojewuyi9595 Год назад +1

      And Jay and Marc laughing and snickering Marc drawing a circle while his bredren is making a logical point is ridiculous

    • @FlyGuyGuru
      @FlyGuyGuru 11 месяцев назад

      The chick with the big ass sweater on had the stink face from the start..her attitude is nasty and defensive

  • @heritageosewa453
    @heritageosewa453 3 года назад +100

    If Mark had started crying would lara bring him tissues... Even tho they're both men
    I just think no matter what you wanna be keep the same energy

    • @yeontop
      @yeontop 3 года назад +17

      shes friends w terrell obviously shes gnnr help him. plus marcs a blardy prick

    • @user-zn2uc7it7f
      @user-zn2uc7it7f 3 года назад +7

      @@yeontop still if she didn't really know terrell she would've still did that. but if a man who she didn't really know would cry she wouldn't flinch. So if terrells a man now why can he be cuddled like a woman

    • @yeontop
      @yeontop 3 года назад +13

      @@user-zn2uc7it7f “cuddled like a woman” bro what ? All she did was hand Terrell a tissue. It’s not that deep. And all the other guys were insensitive towards Terrell except the guy next to him. None of them rlly tried to comfort him. But Ik fs if any other dude got upset all the guys would be there for him. The only reason they didn’t care abt Terrell was because he’s trans and they still see him as a woman.

    • @aaliyahangel3990
      @aaliyahangel3990 3 года назад +2

      wait lara is transgender?

    • @heritageosewa453
      @heritageosewa453 3 года назад +3

      @@aaliyahangel3990 no the guy that was crying is

  • @BlankoOr24s
    @BlankoOr24s 3 года назад +24

    “It’s experimental freedom”🤣🤣🤣

  • @fionarose7550
    @fionarose7550 3 года назад +73

    I feel like Marc is a acting stupid , there is no way he didn’t see a problem with the questions he asked or the way he said it 😳there is just no way

    • @3rty6ix
      @3rty6ix 3 года назад +23

      i dont see a problem to what he asked lmnl

    • @csgwpp
      @csgwpp 3 года назад +17

      he is being real. he is born straight and curios like all of us big up him

    • @mrbe2938
      @mrbe2938 3 года назад +3

      @@csgwpp All the others are just parroting what’s not gonna get them back clash while he’s asking the real questions

  • @TheAlkebulanTrust
    @TheAlkebulanTrust 3 года назад +68

    The countdown to the new series begins so it is very wise that BKChat does these re-uploads to refresh people's memories...Big facts or definitely true?

    • @Boonies
      @Boonies 3 года назад +3

      No you can go on their channel and rewatch it

    • @SuperSouthchick
      @SuperSouthchick 3 года назад +6

      I dont like that I bump into your channel everywhere smh

    • @ldn876
      @ldn876 3 года назад +2

      U again

    • @dmensah6631
      @dmensah6631 3 года назад +3

      Why do I see you on all RUclips comments? Sport, Music, talk shows damn

    • @mariatt293
      @mariatt293 3 года назад +2

      @@dmensah6631 sameeee this guy is everywhere💀

  • @octaviaactive8257
    @octaviaactive8257 3 года назад +16

    They should take out the people who don't talk and sit like sliced bread.

  • @HellofromCloudEleven
    @HellofromCloudEleven 3 года назад +10

    The issue is in their discussion question too. Why ask, “people would like to be identified as opposite sex sometimes without surgeries... should their be a line drawn?”...
    but then preface the questions with, “in 2019, sexuality is as fluid as ever...”. As Terrell said sexuality and gender are two different concepts. Like, did anyone actually hear him?! What were the producers thinking when they wrote this question.
    And I don’t appreciate how EVERYONE, even the gay guy, tokenized Terrell. His story is important and he should be able to speak uninterrupted but at the same time more informed people should have been there to speak to this topic. Thank goodness, Nina and dude to the left of Terrell, came through in defense.
    That had to be low key traumatizing...

  • @danielleswaby953
    @danielleswaby953 3 года назад +12

    I just keep looking at how bad the wigs look on all of them

  • @yjhtbt3904
    @yjhtbt3904 2 года назад +17

    the way Terell says NO is hilarious

  • @lulumariexx
    @lulumariexx 2 года назад +7

    Omar is a legend that speaks FACTS.

  • @joshb843
    @joshb843 3 года назад +23

    Rahhhhhh these man are quick with it

  • @theotadiwa525
    @theotadiwa525 3 года назад +24

    Castillo is actually a joker 😂😂💀

  • @lilromeos619
    @lilromeos619 3 года назад +7

    Everyone's reaction to one of these eedjats implying violence, is literally the answer to the question about snitching. You create your own circle of perpetual fear.

  • @Gomes719
    @Gomes719 3 года назад +18

    I have to take my hat off to Marc brotha keep it 💯 real by the way I’m not homophobic if people choose that lifestyle is none of my business

  • @kemccauley8272
    @kemccauley8272 Год назад +2

    Omar is SO fucking amazing like truly, no one is required to dumb their self down because you're too ignorant to understand, if you "don't understand anything" Omar says then sweetheart I think you should realize it isn't Omar IT'S YOU 🤦🏽‍♀️😂

  • @malikasee8404
    @malikasee8404 3 года назад +19

    Ugh people should be aloud to have a different perspective on gender, as long as they not hurting anyone they can have there own opinions

  • @gamhy788x2
    @gamhy788x2 2 года назад +7

    Lmaooo this is the best episode broo I love how soon as Marc got serious and yellow shirt step out of line the girls next to her knew he was not the one to go there with you can see there faces scream "awwww shit" shit was about to get real

    • @mrstrangeworld5977
      @mrstrangeworld5977 2 года назад +1

      what would he have done

    • @gamhy788x2
      @gamhy788x2 2 года назад +1

      @@mrstrangeworld5977 you would of found out if she kept running her trap

  • @ruthreddick8369
    @ruthreddick8369 Год назад

    Great point Omar! You are who you are! No explanation needed

  • @yinlong6373
    @yinlong6373 3 года назад +9

    Being ignorant by asking can men and men reproduce when already knows then getting angry when people won't take him seriously 😐

  • @olivia_a1157
    @olivia_a1157 3 года назад +10

    Very crazy that everyone there didn't know that gender fluidity and sexual fluidity both have existed waaaaaay before colonization. Transwomen existed in other societies. The norm is constantly changing. Something being old doesnt mean its normal. Anyway the girls were being dramatic towards Mark though. Even if he was actually saying nonsense. If Terrel didnt have a problem its not your place to feel offended

  • @egbonlidded6478
    @egbonlidded6478 3 года назад +78

    mark is is that person whos big and there for nothing

    • @egbonlidded6478
      @egbonlidded6478 3 года назад +12

      typing about him pisses me off 😤

    • @Justedits9001
      @Justedits9001 3 года назад +6

      Lol clearly wasn’t watching the video then 😭

  • @suennonaingie2441
    @suennonaingie2441 3 года назад +74

    32:54 I'm still screaming at this part 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Anzthekid
    @Anzthekid 3 года назад +36

    I only have notifications on for The Zeze mills show tbh 😂😂

    • @xtrra.
      @xtrra. 3 года назад +3

      same

    • @AB-wh2yf
      @AB-wh2yf 3 года назад +11

      on a g ting, why u everywhere g?

    • @kyrasl
      @kyrasl 3 года назад +2

      @@AB-wh2yf fr💀

  • @sherrionrobinson3110
    @sherrionrobinson3110 2 года назад +3

    Like it’s not about acceptance… it’s about understanding and respect. Like tyrell said… he’s gonna do him and live
    his life… they’re not asking or begging for your acceptance (it would be nice) but just listen!! understand and respect their decisions

  • @jkgolden6143
    @jkgolden6143 Год назад +1

    to be fair, there should have been more than one trans person in this conversation because it could come off like a firing squad

  • @lyrique8856
    @lyrique8856 3 года назад +2

    yesss keep the uploads comingggg

  • @Moimen._
    @Moimen._ 2 года назад +4

    I agree with Joseph stop expecting everybody to agree with it it’s not by force like at all. Leave ppl and continue living how you want

    • @absolutelyirene2545
      @absolutelyirene2545 2 года назад +1

      They don't care about acceptance!. It's about respect, you don't have to agree with someone to respect them.

  • @holokilemollo484
    @holokilemollo484 2 года назад +26

    can’t believe they let Mark behave so aggressively towards a female
    he’s really an insufferable guy

    • @saqet7546
      @saqet7546 2 года назад +10

      @Khalid brother just give up. They want to be equal but now you can‘t behave towards a woman the same way you behave towards a man. Choose one. The future scares me honestly. This generation needs help

    • @obsoletesystems4230
      @obsoletesystems4230 2 года назад +2

      @@saqet7546 thank you🤝

    • @obsoletesystems4230
      @obsoletesystems4230 2 года назад +3

      @Khalid exactly as the @Saqet said...it's equality till it supposed to be equal

    • @elijahproctor2564
      @elijahproctor2564 Год назад

      @@saqet7546 word she handed shawty a tissue if it was a man would it have been the same

  • @KW-rn8ks
    @KW-rn8ks 3 года назад +118

    Mike was not disrespectful he was jus being straight no cap

  • @deidramartin7784
    @deidramartin7784 2 года назад +1

    This would be alot better if everyone wasn’t so ready to be heard and listen so you can hear everyone questions and answers.!!!

  • @KW-rn8ks
    @KW-rn8ks 3 года назад +17

    I see why he tried to grab the tissue bc a man don’t want the attention

  • @chimzyy5708
    @chimzyy5708 3 года назад +80

    I actually love Castillo bruv

    • @suckout7019
      @suckout7019 3 года назад +6

      He’s just smart a lot of people don’t understand he was just clm bout the situation

    • @zayy1824
      @zayy1824 3 года назад +1

      onggggg me too i love him

  • @mariancounsellor
    @mariancounsellor 3 года назад +5

    When Marc said “I’m not gonna come with a Gogo Flex” 😮 the shade! This was a valuable and interesting discussion 👍🏽

  • @mariancounsellor
    @mariancounsellor 3 года назад +41

    Marc is incorrect. If a child talks about suicide, they’re not given pills and told don’t worry about it 🤔 children’s mental health is taken seriously. Marc should stick to speaking about personal training and fitness if he’s sharing misinformation and inaccuracy.

  • @edjohn5114
    @edjohn5114 2 года назад +1

    ngl this conversation was straight entertainment

  • @baabaq9126
    @baabaq9126 3 года назад +18

    if marc is that ignorant he should not have been on the panel. He should have been regular audience member, getting educated. Because a panelist should have at the very least, some basic knowledge

  • @JAYMONETTT
    @JAYMONETTT 11 месяцев назад +2

    Honestly the woman in this video pissed me off. At the end of the day this conversation could really never get anywhere cause people are so sensitive 😂 half the things he said would get him cancelled and truthfully he was really just saying what a lot of people think, question, or would like to know

  • @xdnehal7108
    @xdnehal7108 2 года назад +7

    Man with a woman, woman with a man. End of story.

  • @shaeolokun7341
    @shaeolokun7341 3 года назад +14

    Castillo makes the most sense

  • @ruthreddick8369
    @ruthreddick8369 Год назад

    Great point, just be respectful to all

  • @Daniela-xj4fj
    @Daniela-xj4fj 3 года назад +29

    Can you guys pleaseeee reupload seasons 1,2 and 3??? Including the reunions. They were tooo iconic

  • @scarlett4975
    @scarlett4975 3 года назад +14

    Marc is the one that made Terell cry why is everyone shouting at the girls???

  • @prettyxgirlsx6383
    @prettyxgirlsx6383 3 года назад +16

    What I want to say is that THE PURPOSE OF LIFE IS NOT TO HAVE A CHILD!

    • @yeontop
      @yeontop 3 года назад +3

      fr

    • @sincerelucas2915
      @sincerelucas2915 3 года назад +4

      Technically it is

    • @dayamiw5620
      @dayamiw5620 3 года назад +5

      Technically it is we genetically programmed to reproduce but I get what u mean

    • @leftblea7692
      @leftblea7692 3 года назад

      I can end the bloodline tho 😭

  • @TheIrieman15
    @TheIrieman15 3 года назад +41

    These guys are soooo immature. Come on BM, can you have a grown-up talk about sexual and gender identity without the jokes and offensive backchat?

  • @gamhy788x2
    @gamhy788x2 3 года назад +2

    It's sad that the truth have to be muted because of other people's feelings soon question was ask and he answered directly and truthfully they stop him and tell him to be mindful of the person on his left as if he not supposed to say the truth just because this is wrong to mute the truth

  • @ImRicoOD
    @ImRicoOD 3 года назад +9

    43:00
    She said no one wants her to speak
    Like she literally started opening her mouth at the ending