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My feminine energy is more amplified when I smile , if I'm just walking down the street i smile at everybody as I walk by I notice that I catch people's attention more quickly and people smile back at me. My feminine energy is smiling I think it's the most beautiful thing that one can do. thank you. 😊
I find just being soft and warm and accepting is something men crave. My guy and i, he was concerned about wether we should date, because we work at the same office. We’d been friends for a while. We had started to flirt some but nothing over the top. One day, he came in close and put his arms around me. I accepted him in my arms. And i didn’t worry about when a hug is too long. I just held him to me like we had all the time in the world. And there was a moment where i felt him droop into me just a little , i felt him surrender and just be there with me . Just then, he let out a quiet sigh, as if he finally just put down whatever worries he had. It wasn’t long after that we kissed for the first time. We have a wonderful relationship. Don’t rush. Not into sex. Not into getting a guy. Relax and be present and trust that with the right man, things will evolve. Make peace that the wrong men are meant to leave to clear a path for the right one. No need to stress. Embody warmth, centeredness, and peace.
@@_cocci_ men are in their heads a lot. When you can bring a man into his heart and into his body, that’s feminine, yes. And i would stress that doesn’t mean sex. It means putting your arms around him, touching his face, taking his arm as you walk etc. affection to a man who is also providing a relationship that is secure to a woman, is strength. Providing romantic affection to a man who is not sure about you or has shown signs that he’s not focusing on you, is weak energy. Strong feminine energy receives his positive energy and reflects that warmth back onto him, makes him feel like he’s standing in the sun.
1:10 breathing exercise 2:12 learn to receive 3:28 be receptive to his touch, show gratitude 4:40 take a compliment well and return it 6:10 slow down, stay present 7:56 take care of yourself 10:08 move your body
Yep! I'm a weight loss coach and life coach for women and I teach them what I do... I feed MYSELF breakfast first in the morning and then feed everyone else. It's unconventional but it puts me in such a good mood and I can serve my son well. I'm a single mama so this is very important. I fill my own bucket and sharpen my own saw and then spend much of rest of the day giving back to others and it's beautiful!! 😍😍😍😍
Spending time cleaning, organizing, and decluttering my home after work has helped me so much! After being in my masculine energy all morning and afternoon, there is something so grounding and relaxing about moving and being fully aware of my space and how I can improve it!
I love to laugh at things that aren't really serious, & have a knack for little one line zingers that get my fiance laughing & he loves that. He loves my giggle & laugh & brightens up when I do giggle at the little things others take too seriously. It helps me tap into my feminine energy
I am a huge fan of using the second one with my man. “Melting” into his arms and “molding” myself to him makes me feel so feminine and beautiful in that moment. It really helps put me there with him.
I agree with leaning into a hug. When my guy puts his arms around me to hug me, I step into it, wrap my arms around him, and put my head on his shoulder and chest area. He squeezes me and holds me for the longest time. I love it!
I feel in my feminine energy when I lead the way in a nurturing and emotional context. When I give my partner the shopping list and I cook the meals and feed my him with my own hands (not everyday but as regular gesture). I feel in my feminine when I’m flexible and make things easy for myself then for partner. I feel in my feminine when I show him the respect and validate his emotions even in circumstances of disagreement.
I recently discovered that I don’t appreciate myself enough too, and actually make myself feel bad because I put so many demands on myself to be perfect. When you think about it, it’s crazy! I can’t live up to my own expectations, no wonder I’m miserable sometimes. It’s a bad habit! Thank you again for another lesson learned. 🙏🏻
I think everyone craves feminine energy. I get compliments all the time from female coworkers how they love my calmness and receptivity. My husband loves it and my children. My son doesnt disappear in his room when i am in my feminine energy. He enjoys hanging out with me and talking. I am in perimenopause so balancing my hormones helps me. No amount of meditating would fix it. I take time for myself first thing in the morning. Haha belly dancing is a great way for me to get in touch with my feminine side. I refuse to cut my hair because its still long and thick. I love having long hair. Those are just a few things.
One thing that I find increases my feminine energy is listening to music, slowing down and listening to the ripples of sound, and when I am soaking the music there is a great union between the movements of the dance and the music. I am also present when I eat and really savor the good feeling of the food I prepare, I also thank the food and all those who have allowed the food to come to me, before I eat. Thank you so much for another amazing video .❤
Falling in love with me! This takes some practice, but I step back, look at myself in the mirror (eyes, yes, but also my whole self) and say my name (or "Hello Beautiful...") and then, "I'm so in love with you!"-- with a big smile. Feminine energy emerges and I'm feeling joyful.
Hi Mat! I find for myself that sitting in the morning, quietly, waking up my 5 senses for a few minutes really helps center me with lemon water and peace. At the end of the day journaling or making a list of things I am grateful for helps me to stay centered. Regardless of my circumstances, there is always something to be grateful for. It helps me to stay positive and reflect on the joy in my life as well as for others helping me to stay present keeps me here and in the now enjoying my partner and our precious time together.
Love this whole topic! Thankyou. I would add the word soft... wearing soft colours, speaking in a kind soft tone, keeping soft skin ... the list can continue. 😊
An unexpected, gentle touch while your spouse is putting together a nice dinner for a special occasion. Or a big bear hug from behind while he's putting on the coffee.LIttle ways to show gratitude for their efforts.
One great way to fill yourself with feminine energy is to tap into your inner creativity. This can mean adding a bit of spice in your life like taking a detour after work to enjoy the view of the sky, adding some decorations at home, plating your meals and even engaging on activities that brings out your inner artist. You don't have to be a good artist or designer, you can just put a bit of character or even study arts when you can. Personally, I enjoy drawing. I'm also a gamer so I play games like Minecraft and build houses and gardens just to channel my creativity. The main point is, art is a form of self expression. It doesn't matter if you're good at it or not, it is something we can build through practice. Men and people in general likes women who has a clear self-image and are confident about it.
This video offers some great advice on how women can tap into their feminine energy and use it to attract men. Mat Boggs emphasizes the importance of being authentic and vulnerable, and he provides practical tips for how to do that in a way that feels comfortable and natural. I appreciate how he emphasizes that it's not about changing who you are, but rather about embracing the parts of yourself that are already attractive to men. His tips are empowering and uplifting, and I can see how they would be helpful for women who want to cultivate a more magnetic and attractive energy in their dating lives. Overall, this video is well worth a watch for any woman who wants to understand how to use her feminine energy to her advantage.
Thank you for these points ! 😊 I find that DANCE is the best way to ACTIVATE the mind-body connection and harness our internal feminine energy (Diva energy) for me and most of my students!
The breathing/grounding exercise is from a program called Heart Math. To bring out my feminine energy, I dress in a dress and wear makeup. I keep my nails done too. But I'm equally comfortable in jeans t-shirt to help him work on his 'toys'. I am very present in our moments together, and I act 'coy' with him. And apparently I'm cute with a little grease on my face. Who knew?
When I walk slowly and talk in low toned voice I feel most feminine When I wear nice clothes that fits perfectly, when I take a me shower and put on perfume When I laugh or smile When I sit down quietly while everyone is shouting and talkative and I’m choosing to just be present I feel the most feminine
1. Be present via breath work and clearing the mind. 2. Relax/be at ease and receive. 3. Receive, recognize and sink into his touches. 4. Receive compliments/actions (and return them). 5. Slow it down deliberately...engage with your partner in an unhurried manner. 6. Take care of yourself because when you feel good you look good and exhude your femenine nature. 7. Move your body and be aware of its movement.
Love you Mat ❤ thank you, I’ve been watching your videos for a couple of months and I’m getting better with connecting with myself and knowing what kind of relationships I want to be in ✨
Hi Mat, Thank you for all your videos! LOVE them, and the empathy and respect you show towards women without trash-talking men! This video leads me to a question I have: I notice, going down the "feminine/masculine" list, that I have almost all the traits associated with the feminine--and almost none if the masculine!--and it is still SO hard for me to radiate that feminine energy that pulls men in. Then I notice I have all the feminine characteristics EXCEPT the most visible ones that attract guys the most: the confidence, the outward sensuality, the "sexy warmth" or charm, the graceful movements. I'm pretty shy and I successfully work past my shyness to show warmth toward others. It attracts many female friendships (which I cherish), but no men. I tried tweaking the superficial and dressing more feminine, doing my make-up, working on posture, dancing more, to make myself "feel" more sexy. And again, ALL the females around me noticed, but it didn't work on men. What do you do if you already have "access" to your feminine side, but can't transfer that into the charm or sexual energy that makes your feminine noticeable?
When I tap into my feminine self I feel more sexual, more amorous and more intent on starting something. For me I literally think about flipping a switch. My papers are set aside on my desk for the day , I’ve had a shower and while showering, I visualize rinsing of the cares of the day in preparation to be wholly present with my husband. When I take this time? I rarely need to “Get out of my head” because I’ve taken the time to do that beforehand. In my mind? I’m ready to fully give and to fully receive. This is a way of showing commitment to my partner that only I can prep for. Obviously as much as he’d like to wash away the cares and pressures of the day for me and prepare me? This is something only *I* can do for both of us! Besides I want him while to focus on his prepping me without me having to rely on him to try to tackle my head and please me.
Flirting or not? I'm very attracted to a contractor ["D"] who's worked in my home for several weeks. I think he's attracted to me too. We have a good rapport, both of us with a good sense of humor. He likes to tease me and even texts me in the eve when we humorously banter back & forth. He sends pics of his dog & recently, his son flew cross country to visit and D insisted on introducing him to me. Very nice young man. We're both older adults -- 50s & 60s -- and been out of the dating scene a while. Is D flirting or just being friendly? Should I wait on D to make the first move from professional to personal?
Sounds like flirting! I think you could offer to cook him a meal in your home, and if he accepts, see how that goes. Then the ball would be in his court to reciprocate by asking you out to a restaurant, etc. and see if he steps up. If he does, he might be interested in a relationship. I think if he weren't interested, he wouldn't be texting you and introducing you to his son!
Advice please. 🙏 I've hired a number of 🔨 contractors, but recently hired one that I have a serious crush on. I can't tell if he feels the same. Is he flirting with me or just being friendly?!? 🤔 We're both older adults [60s] & its been a while since I was part of the dating scene. At night 🌙 he sends me pics 📷 of his dog 🐕, chats & jokes 🤣 with me & just recently he wanted to introduce me to his son 👦, who was in town from his home 🏡& work [2,000 miles away]. Is he flirting or just being friendly?!? 🤔
I have no idea how to put myself first.. it is Devine timing between us. Probably do our own timing of into ourselves first at the same m e time and situation
Someone told me once she thought I was beautiful my natural instinct was to tell her she is to…. Yeah she got so angry at me because she said I don’t take compliments well😮
I don’t think it was stripped. I think we misunderstand the power of the feminine , and we gave it away. We were taught to be considered strong, we had to be like men. So by default we’ve lost the strength of what it is to be feminine and the knowledge that it will be strong enough to lead a man.
@@footyfan101ful Exactly! I have always loved beautiful lingerie, clothing, perfume, and just being a very feminine (yet strong) woman. It’s one of the perks of our gender. Nice that you enjoy it, too. ❤️
I look up to people like you. Thank you for your thoughtful advice. I also do relationship advice videos if you want to check them out, I'd love to get feedback. Remember you got to love yourself before you can love anyone else.
My husband wants his food first no matter what 😢. He would tarnish me down with bad mouthing to friends and his family saying I don’t care for him , even though on the flip side he doesn’t care for me ! 😳
Hi Matt I met a guy on first date after that he was like he is open to date it's not yes or no .So I said I would like to date but he was uncertain so it's No .we had good time yet he isn't confused .Then he is like may be .... now I have blocked him and unfollowed but he hasn't...Can you tell what is it about??
Dated a guy like that. Guys can enjoy that attention of a woman but not want to be with her. He likes that she is interested in him, even though he is not interested in her. Men are very goal oriented. A man who feels that something he wants is slipping away will do something about it, and he will be clear about it. He won’t be vague about it and noncommittal. My guy and i are very in love, but there was a time when he acted unsure and said that dating wasn’t something he was looking for. I put distance between us, because I’m not going to put energy into something that isn’t willing to give the same effort to me. He came back a few weeks later. But he was clear that he wanted a relationship. He was clear that he was about my happiness. And then he acted like it. We are always together. He’s happy. He checks in that im happy. Dont think too much about the guys that confuse you. If they confuse you, they’re not the guy that would slay dragons for you. The dragon slayer is the one to keep around.
But he was the guy for you .... eventually. So I wouldn't block a guy for being vague but do the same as you did ie be distant focus on my own life and he'll either come back with a strong offer or not. Either way is good because you're not giving him your energy unless he comes back stronger and you choose to
Ok not Ace-ing the feminine energy. Except with animals, working with horses. Them I'm present, breathe into my heart, playful. Just 3 minutes into a debate about flat earth vs globe earth, I question his flat earth ideas... and he gets his feelings hurt. I don't know how to be feminine when he is being so easily upset. Then he doesn't talk to me, then later says "it seemed like you got upset. " I didn't feel upset... I was just responding to the conversation. I think lack of B1 (testosterone building) maybe plays a part, many of the descriptions of lack of thiamine/B1 match. I will use these techniques. And I appreciate the comments with many examples. Anyone have insights?
For me it's playfullness. I went to Spain as young. I want to play with my partner. I am hsp and I have done allllllllll the thing you talk about. I got screwed anyways by a man I felt highly attracted to. I recieve compliments like a sponge. Ive been living with men all of my youth. Slowing things down. I love to dance. Having a high self esteem. Wearing dresses all the time. Enjoying things. Im hyper feminine. Im feeling happy. Also alone and being single. I get the admiration from a lot of men but the dont dare to approach me. Of course I enjoy the attention. Ive really met some jerks and players though, sorry to say. They DID NOT deserve me and my femininity. My problem is they think I'm naive because Im super feminine. Really in Denmark youre advices are a load of crap. Some men like hard women here. In Spain I score and the men go crazy over me. Here they want bitches. Really, men want controlling bitches here. Not ultra feminine godessses like me. Im not being modest I know. But Ive come to love myself so I put the problem right here.😊
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My feminine energy is more amplified when I smile , if I'm just walking down the street i smile at everybody as I walk by I notice that I catch people's attention more quickly and people smile back at me. My feminine energy is smiling I think it's the most beautiful thing that one can do. thank you. 😊
Same girl!😊😊
👍🏻
So true
this is true
I find just being soft and warm and accepting is something men crave. My guy and i, he was concerned about wether we should date, because we work at the same office. We’d been friends for a while. We had started to flirt some but nothing over the top. One day, he came in close and put his arms around me. I accepted him in my arms. And i didn’t worry about when a hug is too long. I just held him to me like we had all the time in the world. And there was a moment where i felt him droop into me just a little , i felt him surrender and just be there with me . Just then, he let out a quiet sigh, as if he finally just put down whatever worries he had. It wasn’t long after that we kissed for the first time. We have a wonderful relationship. Don’t rush. Not into sex. Not into getting a guy. Relax and be present and trust that with the right man, things will evolve. Make peace that the wrong men are meant to leave to clear a path for the right one. No need to stress. Embody warmth, centeredness, and peace.
Wow! I love those words! Thank you for sharing ❤. Not to be in a rush and letting things evolve is such a pure energy of warmth 🙏🧿🌟
Do you think that showing your man how you feel about him (giving love and affection) is feminine energy? ☺
@@_cocci_ men are in their heads a lot. When you can bring a man into his heart and into his body, that’s feminine, yes. And i would stress that doesn’t mean sex. It means putting your arms around him, touching his face, taking his arm as you walk etc. affection to a man who is also providing a relationship that is secure to a woman, is strength. Providing romantic affection to a man who is not sure about you or has shown signs that he’s not focusing on you, is weak energy. Strong feminine energy receives his positive energy and reflects that warmth back onto him, makes him feel like he’s standing in the sun.
Beautiful words ❤️
Well said.
1:10 breathing exercise
2:12 learn to receive
3:28 be receptive to his touch, show gratitude
4:40 take a compliment well and return it
6:10 slow down, stay present
7:56 take care of yourself
10:08 move your body
you are loved
Thank you!
Before inhaling it’s always important to exhale as much air as possible. Also caring about our hair and looks can make us feel and look more feminine.
Yep! I'm a weight loss coach and life coach for women and I teach them what I do... I feed MYSELF breakfast first in the morning and then feed everyone else. It's unconventional but it puts me in such a good mood and I can serve my son well. I'm a single mama so this is very important. I fill my own bucket and sharpen my own saw and then spend much of rest of the day giving back to others and it's beautiful!! 😍😍😍😍
My mum is like you. I am always telling her to put herself first and forget about me... your son will understand 🙂
@@iaf4454 awww that's sweet. However it's not remember myself and forget him. It's feed me first so I can serve him with my whole heart and mind 😁♥️
Dressing well smelling good and smiling as you enter the room. Just being an overall positive and happy person! People love it!
Spending time cleaning, organizing, and decluttering my home after work has helped me so much! After being in my masculine energy all morning and afternoon, there is something so grounding and relaxing about moving and being fully aware of my space and how I can improve it!
I love to laugh at things that aren't really serious, & have a knack for little one line zingers that get my fiance laughing & he loves that. He loves my giggle & laugh & brightens up when I do giggle at the little things others take too seriously. It helps me tap into my feminine energy
I am a huge fan of using the second one with my man. “Melting” into his arms and “molding” myself to him makes me feel so feminine and beautiful in that moment. It really helps put me there with him.
I agree with leaning into a hug. When my guy puts his arms around me to hug me, I step into it, wrap my arms around him, and put my head on his shoulder and chest area. He squeezes me and holds me for the longest time. I love it!
Sounds good
I feel in my feminine energy when I lead the way in a nurturing and emotional context. When I give my partner the shopping list and I cook the meals and feed my him with my own hands (not everyday but as regular gesture).
I feel in my feminine when I’m flexible and make things easy for myself then for partner. I feel in my feminine when I show him the respect and validate his emotions even in circumstances of disagreement.
I recently discovered that I don’t appreciate myself enough too, and actually make myself feel bad because I put so many demands on myself to be perfect. When you think about it, it’s crazy! I can’t live up to my own expectations, no wonder I’m miserable sometimes. It’s a bad habit! Thank you again for another lesson learned. 🙏🏻
You are not alone in this. Hope you will find good little steps to appreciate yourself more and find joy in it :)
I gat your back
I think everyone craves feminine energy. I get compliments all the time from female coworkers how they love my calmness and receptivity. My husband loves it and my children. My son doesnt disappear in his room when i am in my feminine energy. He enjoys hanging out with me and talking.
I am in perimenopause so balancing my hormones helps me. No amount of meditating would fix it. I take time for myself first thing in the morning. Haha belly dancing is a great way for me to get in touch with my feminine side. I refuse to cut my hair because its still long and thick. I love having long hair. Those are just a few things.
One thing that I find increases my feminine energy is listening to music, slowing down and listening to the ripples of sound, and when I am soaking the music there is a great union between the movements of the dance and the music. I am also present when I eat and really savor the good feeling of the food I prepare, I also thank the food and all those who have allowed the food to come to me, before I eat. Thank you so much for another amazing video .❤
Wow! I come here just to read the comments! LOL.... Seriously, you can learn so much from others.... ❤
Falling in love with me! This takes some practice, but I step back, look at myself in the mirror (eyes, yes, but also my whole self) and say my name (or "Hello Beautiful...") and then, "I'm so in love with you!"-- with a big smile. Feminine energy emerges and I'm feeling joyful.
Hi Mat! I find for myself that sitting in the morning, quietly, waking up my 5 senses for a few minutes really helps center me with lemon water and peace. At the end of the day journaling or making a list of things I am grateful for helps me to stay centered. Regardless of my circumstances, there is always something to be grateful for. It helps me to stay positive and reflect on the joy in my life as well as for others helping me to stay present keeps me here and in the now enjoying my partner and our precious time together.
Sounds good
All of your videos are good, but this one is out of the park. Kudos to all.❤
There is a lot of truth in the old adage: Beauty Sleep! Getting enough rest and sleep is essential for women!
Love this whole topic! Thankyou.
I would add the word soft... wearing soft colours, speaking in a kind soft tone, keeping soft skin ... the list can continue. 😊
Energy is everything and everything is energy. I love how u explain feminine as well as masculine energy. Thank you💕
Oh, thank you! These ideas are really helpful and great reminders do me to come back to regularly. Wonderful!
An unexpected, gentle touch while your spouse is putting together a nice dinner for a special occasion. Or a big bear hug from behind while he's putting on the coffee.LIttle ways to show gratitude for their efforts.
One great way to fill yourself with feminine energy is to tap into your inner creativity. This can mean adding a bit of spice in your life like taking a detour after work to enjoy the view of the sky, adding some decorations at home, plating your meals and even engaging on activities that brings out your inner artist. You don't have to be a good artist or designer, you can just put a bit of character or even study arts when you can. Personally, I enjoy drawing. I'm also a gamer so I play games like Minecraft and build houses and gardens just to channel my creativity.
The main point is, art is a form of self expression. It doesn't matter if you're good at it or not, it is something we can build through practice. Men and people in general likes women who has a clear self-image and are confident about it.
Simply following my own natural interests like arts and crafts and romantic movies, flowers, dresses
This video offers some great advice on how women can tap into their feminine energy and use it to attract men. Mat Boggs emphasizes the importance of being authentic and vulnerable, and he provides practical tips for how to do that in a way that feels comfortable and natural. I appreciate how he emphasizes that it's not about changing who you are, but rather about embracing the parts of yourself that are already attractive to men. His tips are empowering and uplifting, and I can see how they would be helpful for women who want to cultivate a more magnetic and attractive energy in their dating lives. Overall, this video is well worth a watch for any woman who wants to understand how to use her feminine energy to her advantage.
Hurry is the enemy of intimacy. And the tyranny of the urgent takes time and life away and b4 you know it, you have lost something precious.
Great shares my friend! Divine feminine energy sent to all connected who needs it. Receive 💚 and received 🙏 thank you thank you thank you ☺️
Thank you for these points ! 😊
I find that DANCE is the best way to ACTIVATE the mind-body connection and harness our internal feminine energy (Diva energy) for me and most of my students!
The breathing/grounding exercise is from a program called Heart Math.
To bring out my feminine energy, I dress in a dress and wear makeup. I keep my nails done too. But I'm equally comfortable in jeans t-shirt to help him work on his 'toys'. I am very present in our moments together, and I act 'coy' with him. And apparently I'm cute with a little grease on my face. Who knew?
All that information, it’s GREAT ! Is there a video about how to carry or have feminine energy while dating ?
When I walk slowly and talk in low toned voice I feel most feminine
When I wear nice clothes that fits perfectly, when I take a me shower and put on perfume
When I laugh or smile
When I sit down quietly while everyone is shouting and talkative and I’m choosing to just be present
I feel the most feminine
I have learnt to slow down and stay present. Everything is falling beautifully into place. 😍👌
1. Be present via breath work and clearing the mind.
2. Relax/be at ease and receive.
3. Receive, recognize and sink into his touches.
4. Receive compliments/actions (and return them).
5. Slow it down deliberately...engage with your partner in an unhurried manner.
6. Take care of yourself because when you feel good you look good and exhude your femenine nature.
7. Move your body and be aware of its movement.
Love you Mat ❤ thank you, I’ve been watching your videos for a couple of months and I’m getting better with connecting with myself and knowing what kind of relationships I want to be in ✨
Hi Mat, Thank you for all your videos! LOVE them, and the empathy and respect you show towards women without trash-talking men! This video leads me to a question I have: I notice, going down the "feminine/masculine" list, that I have almost all the traits associated with the feminine--and almost none if the masculine!--and it is still SO hard for me to radiate that feminine energy that pulls men in. Then I notice I have all the feminine characteristics EXCEPT the most visible ones that attract guys the most: the confidence, the outward sensuality, the "sexy warmth" or charm, the graceful movements. I'm pretty shy and I successfully work past my shyness to show warmth toward others. It attracts many female friendships (which I cherish), but no men. I tried tweaking the superficial and dressing more feminine, doing my make-up, working on posture, dancing more, to make myself "feel" more sexy. And again, ALL the females around me noticed, but it didn't work on men. What do you do if you already have "access" to your feminine side, but can't transfer that into the charm or sexual energy that makes your feminine noticeable?
Wow. I REALLY have a tough time receiving compliments..gotta work on that😩..
These are perfect! Thank you so much for sharing. I practice many of these already but a few really spoke to me.
Really😊
This helps me out I’m nervous today going on a date and on Saturday I am less shy around guys now ❤😂
Thank you. You are so right . Now i know about it. And really, my man can feel that and brings back to me with love
Wow just found your RUclips what great content! Thank you🙏
When I tap into my feminine self I feel more sexual, more amorous and more intent on starting something.
For me I literally think about flipping a switch. My papers are set aside on my desk for the day , I’ve had a shower and while showering, I visualize rinsing of the cares of the day in preparation to be wholly present with my husband. When I take this time? I rarely need to “Get out of my head” because I’ve taken the time to do that beforehand. In my mind? I’m ready to fully give and to fully receive. This is a way of showing commitment to my partner that only I can prep for. Obviously as much as he’d like to wash away the cares and pressures of the day for me and prepare me? This is something only *I* can do for both of us! Besides I want him while to focus on his prepping me without me having to rely on him to try to tackle my head and please me.
Putting make up on,or pedicure done or a spa day ❤
This video brings so much value to me, thank you❤
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Flirting or not?
I'm very attracted to a contractor ["D"] who's worked in my home for several weeks. I think he's attracted to me too. We have a good rapport, both of us with a good sense of humor. He likes to tease me and even texts me in the eve when we humorously banter back & forth. He sends pics of his dog & recently, his son flew cross country to visit and D insisted on introducing him to me. Very nice young man.
We're both older adults -- 50s & 60s -- and been out of the dating scene a while. Is D flirting or just being friendly?
Should I wait on D to make the first move from professional to personal?
Sounds like flirting! I think you could offer to cook him a meal in your home, and if he accepts, see how that goes. Then the ball would be in his court to reciprocate by asking you out to a restaurant, etc. and see if he steps up. If he does, he might be interested in a relationship. I think if he weren't interested, he wouldn't be texting you and introducing you to his son!
I always found your videos about relationships useful. 😊
Advice please. 🙏
I've hired a number of 🔨 contractors, but recently hired one that I have a serious crush on. I can't tell if he feels the same. Is he flirting with me or just being friendly?!? 🤔 We're both older adults [60s] & its been a while since I was part of the dating scene.
At night 🌙 he sends me pics 📷 of his dog 🐕, chats & jokes 🤣 with me & just recently he wanted to introduce me to his son 👦, who was in town from his home 🏡& work [2,000 miles away].
Is he flirting or just being friendly?!? 🤔
UPDATE: he invited & took me to church ⛪️ this last week & wants to join me at our town's weekly, outdoor concert.
I have no idea how to put myself first.. it is Devine timing between us. Probably do our own timing of into ourselves first at the same m e time and situation
Someone told me once she thought I was beautiful my natural instinct was to tell her she is to…. Yeah she got so angry at me because she said I don’t take compliments well😮
She was right, you lied
@@asiyabalochistan3558 but I didnt
Wonderful content ❤
Love your vidéos
I learned so much❤
Crazy how women have been stripped away of their power
I don’t think it was stripped. I think we misunderstand the power of the feminine , and we gave it away. We were taught to be considered strong, we had to be like men. So by default we’ve lost the strength of what it is to be feminine and the knowledge that it will be strong enough to lead a man.
I'm single and rebuilding myself from scratch. Not sure what my "vibes" are to be honest.
Something I do is wearing sexy lingerie. No one needs to know except me. Also wearing perfume.
I do it , too, as an act of self love and because I deserve to enjoy life to the maximum. If not now, then when?
@@hiannahgus574 later on when the man of our dreams come into our lives the lingerie can be shown to them. For now it's for us only.
@@footyfan101ful Exactly! I have always loved beautiful lingerie, clothing, perfume, and just being a very feminine (yet strong) woman. It’s one of the perks of our gender. Nice that you enjoy it, too. ❤️
I look up to people like you. Thank you for your thoughtful advice. I also do relationship advice videos if you want to check them out, I'd love to get feedback. Remember you got to love yourself before you can love anyone else.
My husband wants his food first no matter what 😢. He would tarnish me down with bad mouthing to friends and his family saying I don’t care for him , even though on the flip side he doesn’t care for me ! 😳
Hi Matt I met a guy on first date after that he was like he is open to date it's not yes or no .So I said I would like to date but he was uncertain so it's No .we had good time yet he isn't confused .Then he is like may be .... now I have blocked him and unfollowed but he hasn't...Can you tell what is it about??
Dated a guy like that. Guys can enjoy that attention of a woman but not want to be with her. He likes that she is interested in him, even though he is not interested in her. Men are very goal oriented. A man who feels that something he wants is slipping away will do something about it, and he will be clear about it. He won’t be vague about it and noncommittal. My guy and i are very in love, but there was a time when he acted unsure and said that dating wasn’t something he was looking for. I put distance between us, because I’m not going to put energy into something that isn’t willing to give the same effort to me. He came back a few weeks later. But he was clear that he wanted a relationship. He was clear that he was about my happiness. And then he acted like it. We are always together. He’s happy. He checks in that im happy. Dont think too much about the guys that confuse you. If they confuse you, they’re not the guy that would slay dragons for you. The dragon slayer is the one to keep around.
But he was the guy for you .... eventually.
So I wouldn't block a guy for being vague but do the same as you did ie be distant focus on my own life and he'll either come back with a strong offer or not. Either way is good because you're not giving him your energy unless he comes back stronger and you choose to
@@Mayfloweralways girl you nailed it. Thanks for the much needed advice
Mat do you believe in the red nail theory?
I find that when I am wearing lipstick I am the most feminine
Hi matt how can I can to inbox you
Ok not Ace-ing the feminine energy. Except with animals, working with horses. Them I'm present, breathe into my heart, playful.
Just 3 minutes into a debate about flat earth vs globe earth, I question his flat earth ideas... and he gets his feelings hurt. I don't know how to be feminine when he is being so easily upset. Then he doesn't talk to me, then later says "it seemed like you got upset. " I didn't feel upset... I was just responding to the conversation.
I think lack of B1 (testosterone building) maybe plays a part, many of the descriptions of lack of thiamine/B1 match.
I will use these techniques. And I appreciate the comments with many examples.
Anyone have insights?
Wearing some beautiful sexy underwears, silky skin, the summer really impacts me as I wear dresses and little tops and short shorts or skirts… 😉
100%
Since I'm chonky, I do only 15 scotch jumps when I feel like blehh and it instantly makes me feel more energized and relaxed at the same time.
A woman can do all these things and he will still cheat on you.😑
For me it's playfullness. I went to Spain as young. I want to play with my partner. I am hsp and I have done allllllllll the thing you talk about. I got screwed anyways by a man I felt highly attracted to. I recieve compliments like a sponge. Ive been living with men all of my youth. Slowing things down. I love to dance. Having a high self esteem. Wearing dresses all the time. Enjoying things. Im hyper feminine. Im feeling happy. Also alone and being single. I get the admiration from a lot of men but the dont dare to approach me. Of course I enjoy the attention. Ive really met some jerks and players though, sorry to say. They DID NOT deserve me and my femininity. My problem is they think I'm naive because Im super feminine. Really in Denmark youre advices are a load of crap. Some men like hard women here. In Spain I score and the men go crazy over me. Here they want bitches. Really, men want controlling bitches here. Not ultra feminine godessses like me. Im not being modest I know. But Ive come to love myself so I put the problem right here.😊
Great reminders, thank-you Mat, love your channel.