loved this video! It’s so refreshing to see Rory get called about on the many times she lied to dean. Everyone always loves to attack him when she’s to blame too. No one is perfect and they were also young
All in all Dean was a good kid but I think he expected to much of an adult relationship from Rory and I think he was out if line when he yeld at her if Loria or Chris was there when he did that they would have thrown him out.
The thing I disliked about Dean the most was how he reacted when Rory couldn’t say that she love him too. I know that it can be disappointing to hear nothing from your partner but he acted like a child who didn’t get what he wanted.
rory liking jess and lying to dean about wasn't deans fault, but he is not a good guy at all, despite of the several red flags through his relationship with rory, the worst part is the way he trated Lindsay. Unfforgivable, hate him
@@nunoca2504 Rory never dated good guys, never (well except on the revival, but not even sure if Paul counts since she doesn't even like him and only cheats on him). That part always frustrated me, Dean started nice and then they turned him into a jerk, Jess was always douchey and rude before and while he was dating Rory until he grew up out of it while being away from her, but while he was dating her and before that he was just toxic af (some give him a pass because they have a thing for troubled boys who treat their gfs like crap), and then there was Logan who was kind of egotistical rich boy who thinks he can get away with everything just because he has money and a womanizer, then he gets a bit better but by the revival he's cheating on the woman he's enganged to.
@@RilianSharp but so it was for Logan, when he slept with all those bridesmaids. Technically they weren’t together, at least from his perspective, ‘cause that’s what he thought they were. No matter what she thought at that time. Because they both had that conversation about him truly believing they weren’t together anymore, so in his mind he wasn’t cheating on her, but drowning his loneliness and grief over this failed relationship. So, technically it wouldn’t be necessary to tell her about whom he’d slept with either. (Though I’d strongly reconsider letting my again-partner walk into a room of people I’ve recently had sex with.. not the wisest decisions being made in Gilmore Girls 😅) I could be mistaken, though.
You know, I think Rory did think she wanted a casual relationship. People in college are all doing it, her mom teased her for never dating, I think she thought its something everyone did and would be fun. But of course that's just not her and she developed feelings
I think you’re right, she wanted to try it out and it wasn’t for her. So, that one technically isn’t a lie. Although in the end she kinda got that nonetheless. ‘Cause she never truly let go Logan, but they’re in a friends-with-benefits kinda relationship, screwed up as it can be, ‘cause Logan is engaged.
They were both awful she should have sat him down before they went into labor and told him how she felt instead of trying to have him marched into surgery.
I'm just convinced that Amy Sherman Palladino couldn't think of a way to make Jess' character compelling without just giving him all of Dean's good traits like whyyy did they make Dean a "dumb hick" he's from Chicago and he reads so they made Jess from New York and he reads
I made that observation too! When dean is first introduced he looks edgy with his leather jacket and is talking about books and movies with Rory. Season two rolls around and he just wants to play softball
@@Silverscreenfreak I believe that Dean started reading books to please Rory, it was the beginning of the relationship. He was reading the books she wanted him to read.
I really feel for Dean every time I see Rory treating him like dirt for so long during the whole Dean vs. Jess drama. And while breaking up with Rory at the dance marathon was embarassing for sure, who knows how long she would have dragged his heart before admitting that she likes Jess
YES!! and i think one of the problems is that lorelai thinks rory ‘wouldn’t lie’ its just problematic to see someone perfect and she saw rory perfect all the time
I wouldn’t say Rory lied to Logan about what kind of relationship she wanted I just think at the beginning she wanted that kind of a relationship but after a while, she understood it doesn’t fit her
I agree with this- I did a similar thing in college- dated someone while we were both getting over exes and we both wanted something casual at first. But then it got complicated and I realized that, just like Rory, I just wasn’t someone who could do that.
To be fair quite a few I think they were lying to themselves. Rory was lying to herself about her feelings for Jess. She was lying to herself that she wanted something casual with Logan.
i'd be interested in a comparison of when Rory didn't tell Dean that she kissed Tristan and when Logan didn't tell Rory that he had sex / messed around with Honor's friends.
You said it best. I’ve alwayssssss been so frustrated, especially with Luke and lorelai how they never communicate how they really feel. The fact that Luke wanted to buy the twickem house so him and lorelai could have babies, and then he throws that idea out the window based off of a passing comment from lorelai?? And that in “a year in the life” we see that neither of them ever brought up the having kids convo up again for 16 years?? So dumb, just express yourselves, you’re adults
Telling the truth at all times, no matter what, is often about releasing the burden from the guilty. With maturity, people often realize that intentionally destroying another person by intentionally sharing information that hurts the target is often a transferrence of emotions. Not telling Dean about kissing Jess was not her crime- by kissing Jess, she cheated on Dean. When Paris saw Lorelai kissing Max, she told everyone out of spite. It was a hateful act. Honesty is not always an altruistic act. It can often be a hateful act.
It all depends on intention for sure. I also do believe some truths are better left unsaid, people don't need to know every single thought and opinion you have, sometimes the unfiltered truth does more damage than good. Also YES, I said the same thing, it isn't that she witholds the truth to him, she straight up cheated on him and that's bad on itself.
I always hated how Lorelai felt about April and Lukes relationship. She was literally in Anna shoes at one point when Sherry wanted to have her own relationship with Rory. Like she refused to learn from that experience and couldn't really sympathize why she couldn't get to know April just yet.
Gilmore Girl and Desperate Housewives ..the similarities between the GG and Susan and Julie has always stuck with me. Two very immature mothers, raising a single daughter who had to carry the emotional burden and raise themselves. Becoming independent at a very young age while excelling at school and being socially popular. Later turning into chaotic adults who (quit school, become careless, failed careers and single mothers). Catching up on their youth basically. I’ve never found the space to discuss my observation..
You're so right, I never connected the dots before reading this comment, but it makes so much sense. Julie straight up was the parent on that dynamic. Now everytime I see this kind of co-dependent parent-child relationship I think of "emotional incest", where the parent relies on their child for emotional support or advise and essentially they treat their child not as a child but as a romantic partner, not sure if it's the right term for them since it feels iffy calling it romantic, but acting like your child is your best friend instead of someone you have to take care of as a parent is not healthy for them, since they need their parents to act like parents not as besties, and they need to be children not act as the caretaker. Many times through the show we see Lorelai struggle with playing the "mom card", she's uncomfortable putting limits for Rory and everytime she does the right thing and acts more like a mother towards her Rory lashes out because she's not used to having a mother. All of this would have been avoided if Lorelai had acted her role as a mother more, but she wanted to avoid becoming a strict and overbearing mother like Emily so much she avoided putting any kind of rules and restrictions and wanted to be more of a friend to her daughter than a mom, and it ended up bitting her in the ass hard because Rory ended up screwed up anyways because of it.
I also thought that. I would push it furder that what happened most of the time with every relationship is miscommunication/ lies. I had this revelation (when I was seeing it for the 10th time) with Luke and Lorelai / Jess and Rory who are the worst in term of miscommunication. So I though, what if the whole show was about this issue ? And yes, like you said, it make sens. We see it in a lot of situations. Also in the relationship between mother and daughter (Lane and Mrs Kim, Rory and Lorelai in season 6 (and other times), Lorelai and Emily (even though it's more complicated with them because even when they are telling there truth, they are not listening to one another)). So it's seems to be a pattern for all of this caracters. The whole show could be a representation of differents types of miscommunication (even when it's for a good cause, even when it's not you who started the lie (Rory - Marty)) and the consequences... Great video as always !
I used to love the show so much. The first several times I watched the whole thing I was just Charmed and just thought it was a lovely show and actually it is. But after while you start realizing how incredibly selfish each and every one of them is. At least the Gilmore Girls are. Everything's always about Lorelei. Everything's has to revolve around her. Roy early on doesn't seem too selfish but boy she becomes very selfish. And Emily is also selfish she just wants what she wants all the time. Christopher's also fairly selfish.
Lorelei is such a frustrating character. Especially when it comes to dating. All these men moved heaven and earth to be with her, moved to her shitty house, gave up their lives and fully accommodating to what she wants and needs. She couldn’t even offer them honestly. The way she never truly grew up and still acted like a little girl and thought it was charming … What I mean to say is that I know the disillusionment of watching it years later
They all just learn something crucial then decide to tell them in an already high strung situation then that leads to a fight and eventually a break up
Wow!! You’re right! That is a problem in almost everyone’s relationship. I think Lane and Zack were the only ones who didn’t lie to each other actually except that one time where Zack didn’t tell Lane about that Bluegrass band that he’s in. Rory lied to Logan about kissing Jess also. That always bugged me that she never even told Logan! I get that he was in the hospital immediately after that but she could have eventually told him.
Try think of them realistically. We all have times in our life we r not proud of, we won’t want to repeat if we had the chance or won’t encourage anyone to take those steps. We can watch it either put these characters on a higher chair and judging them or take them as they come, like you know, more humanely.
the lack of actually sitting down and having a conversation is astronomical. the amount of problems that couldve been avoided if they just sat down is insane
in a way i applaud gilmore girls for being VERY realistic with how people bottle up their feelings with partners and it causes MANY problems but the way it’s justified and shit can become very… toxic
This was actually the biggest takeaway for me from the show. Don't lie! It showed a range of possibilities about how many things there are in relationships, that we may lie about, and what the result is. So I did my best to not lie. Weird, how a show got it through more, than Bible lessons... for me at least.
i feel like everyone in the show was so toxic with each other. the only people who were genuine either didnt get a character line, or didnt stay on the show. i absolutely love this show though, and this video xx
Everytime someone lies, it's dishonest and selfish. They say they are trying not to hurt the other person,but they are just covering their own butts. Like trying save the person from pain. But really It's manipulation for their own benefits. I have also watched the entire series many times. I do it for knowledge in finding what NOT to do. It's interesting that I see stuff I missed somehow every time I watch it. Sometimes I would like to rewrite some of the dialogue or add something. But they wrote most of it well. This is a show that IS honest in telling the truth about fictional characters with true human behavior. I know a Logan/ Chris. I know their friends. I know a Marty. I've been around an Emily. I don't know a Rory, but I know a Jess. These people do exist with the similar traits. And similar circumstances that led to disastrous results. I resemble Luke himself.He's kind hearted , but tries to hide it. Likes uncomplicated situations ,but gets involved anyway. I remember he asked Lorelei if he was a mysterious person, She replied" well the wardrobe is a head scratcher". He really is a simple guy, but not stupid. I don't have an April, though. Good video. Thanks
Me tooooo i have watched gilmore girls jizilion times🤭🤭 and i also totally agree about the charecters not being truethful if only they told the truth the would have saved a lot of nerves. And rory absolutely could say that she knew marty he was just so aptight about them meeting like this.😒 it was dum of him to lie like that. It cost him hes relashionship. And Lorlai is also dum that she didnt say anything about her feelings.. seriously
A lie is a lie in a relationship a lie can and will always have a bad result even if it was for a good reason. Case In point all the lies told by the characters in Gilmore girls.
I haven't watched this show in years and completely forgot that Richard lied for 39 years. Homie was willlllddddiiinnn. It would have been a wrap. If its no big deal than you shouldn't have to lie.
Yeah, but reality is boring. Just been watching a King of Queens episode where Doug and Deacon LIE to their wives to go to a casino. Without what is considered "immoral" or "not correct" behaviour or "intelligent behaviour", what show could work? The characters are written as opponents and they are not supposed to act much differently than they always do. That would be boring. I'm honestly not a fan of that, one reason I stopped watching tv shows mostly. Without miscommunication, not telling the truth, even lying a lot, a lot of drama could be avoided but that is not in the intention of the writers and the audience. Who would watch Gilmore Girls, when it the characters were written as 3dimensional characters instead of cartoon versions almost always acting as intended? Lorelai simply cannot stop making remarks towards her mother. She also cannot find a long-lasting partner or a husband, otherwise the dynamics between her and Luke and Rory and her parents would change dramatically. Still I think there are better ways to write drama instead of Rory lying, sleeping with Dean, seeing the same patterns of behaviour repeated over and over again or some people getting pregnant misteriously. It's probably best to watch dramatic shows without thinking to much about realism. If you do, you will realize that all 3 Gilimore Girls are not the great human beings many viewers used to think they are. With Sitcoms, it's a bit different, since you know they show misbehaviour for comedic purpose and therefor, I feel I don't have to take them so seriously, while on a dramatic show, to me at least, what a character says and does matters a lot more.
A lie is just a product of what is cooking. In all cases there where issues that where felt to hard to handle. People lying to themselves about what they want and who they are :P
Well said with just few words. 👏 It basically sums up most if not all dramatic shows and movies. Characters are super smart when it helps the story but super ignorant for the writers to bring a person from a certain scenario to another scenario. TV characters are often selfish, miscomunicate and lie and never seem to learn enough to change for the better.
i feel like it all would’ve been prevented if they just COMMUNICATED. communication is key. something the characters in gilmore girls struggle with
Which is ironic with the amount they can talk!
Lol, all very true and kind of annoying how they never learned from this problem
@@Silverscreenfreak Exactly! You can talk a lot but not be able to communicate clearly.
true. for people that talk a lot, they suck at communicating
The same problem in many Jane Austen novels too
loved this video! It’s so refreshing to see Rory get called about on the many times she lied to dean. Everyone always loves to attack him when she’s to blame too. No one is perfect and they were also young
True that 🫶 and thank you🥰
All in all Dean was a good kid but I think he expected to much of an adult relationship from Rory and I think he was out if line when he yeld at her if Loria or Chris was there when he did that they would have thrown him out.
The thing I disliked about Dean the most was how he reacted when Rory couldn’t say that she love him too. I know that it can be disappointing to hear nothing from your partner but he acted like a child who didn’t get what he wanted.
rory liking jess and lying to dean about wasn't deans fault, but he is not a good guy at all, despite of the several red flags through his relationship with rory, the worst part is the way he trated Lindsay. Unfforgivable, hate him
@@nunoca2504 Rory never dated good guys, never (well except on the revival, but not even sure if Paul counts since she doesn't even like him and only cheats on him).
That part always frustrated me, Dean started nice and then they turned him into a jerk, Jess was always douchey and rude before and while he was dating Rory until he grew up out of it while being away from her, but while he was dating her and before that he was just toxic af (some give him a pass because they have a thing for troubled boys who treat their gfs like crap), and then there was Logan who was kind of egotistical rich boy who thinks he can get away with everything just because he has money and a womanizer, then he gets a bit better but by the revival he's cheating on the woman he's enganged to.
rory also lied to dean about kissing tristan! and richard lied about retirement
Oh yes!! Can’t believe I forgot to mention Tristan I made a whole video about that😂
Righttttttt
dean had no reason to know about tristan, as they weren't even dating when that happened.
@@RilianSharp but so it was for Logan, when he slept with all those bridesmaids.
Technically they weren’t together, at least from his perspective, ‘cause that’s what he thought they were. No matter what she thought at that time.
Because they both had that conversation about him truly believing they weren’t together anymore, so in his mind he wasn’t cheating on her, but drowning his loneliness and grief over this failed relationship.
So, technically it wouldn’t be necessary to tell her about whom he’d slept with either. (Though I’d strongly reconsider letting my again-partner walk into a room of people I’ve recently had sex with.. not the wisest decisions being made in Gilmore Girls 😅)
I could be mistaken, though.
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yeah i'd like to think more about those two situations.
You know, I think Rory did think she wanted a casual relationship. People in college are all doing it, her mom teased her for never dating, I think she thought its something everyone did and would be fun. But of course that's just not her and she developed feelings
I think you’re right, she wanted to try it out and it wasn’t for her.
So, that one technically isn’t a lie.
Although in the end she kinda got that nonetheless. ‘Cause she never truly let go Logan, but they’re in a friends-with-benefits kinda relationship, screwed up as it can be, ‘cause Logan is engaged.
Agreed
Didn't she date Dean and Jess?
even jackson didn’t tell sookie about his vasectomy, or lack thereof
yesss and that was SO f-cked up….he impregnated her without her consent
You are right!
They were both awful she should have sat him down before they went into labor and told him how she felt instead of trying to have him marched into surgery.
@@tiffanygrever8092 o0p so true lol
@@tiffanygrever8092 lol that’s very true too!! one godawful mistake the writers did all the time sure is make the characters lie to each other…
I'm just convinced that Amy Sherman Palladino couldn't think of a way to make Jess' character compelling without just giving him all of Dean's good traits like whyyy did they make Dean a "dumb hick" he's from Chicago and he reads so they made Jess from New York and he reads
I made that observation too! When dean is first introduced he looks edgy with his leather jacket and is talking about books and movies with Rory. Season two rolls around and he just wants to play softball
@@Silverscreenfreak I believe that Dean started reading books to please Rory, it was the beginning of the relationship. He was reading the books she wanted him to read.
@@amandavssb no he read before as well but rory used to give him book recs for him to read and vice versa.
I really feel for Dean every time I see Rory treating him like dirt for so long during the whole Dean vs. Jess drama. And while breaking up with Rory at the dance marathon was embarassing for sure, who knows how long she would have dragged his heart before admitting that she likes Jess
YES!! and i think one of the problems is that lorelai thinks rory ‘wouldn’t lie’ its just problematic to see someone perfect and she saw rory perfect all the time
I wouldn’t say Rory lied to Logan about what kind of relationship she wanted I just think at the beginning she wanted that kind of a relationship but after a while, she understood it doesn’t fit her
I think she was probably in denial about having a crush on him
I agree with this- I did a similar thing in college- dated someone while we were both getting over exes and we both wanted something casual at first. But then it got complicated and I realized that, just like Rory, I just wasn’t someone who could do that.
To be fair quite a few I think they were lying to themselves. Rory was lying to herself about her feelings for Jess. She was lying to herself that she wanted something casual with Logan.
i'd be interested in a comparison of when Rory didn't tell Dean that she kissed Tristan and when Logan didn't tell Rory that he had sex / messed around with Honor's friends.
After watching Gilmore girls 50000 times I started to feel like the writers ran out of ideas and just kept repeating the same thing for drama lol
You said it best. I’ve alwayssssss been so frustrated, especially with Luke and lorelai how they never communicate how they really feel. The fact that Luke wanted to buy the twickem house so him and lorelai could have babies, and then he throws that idea out the window based off of a passing comment from lorelai?? And that in “a year in the life” we see that neither of them ever brought up the having kids convo up again for 16 years?? So dumb, just express yourselves, you’re adults
Telling the truth at all times, no matter what, is often about releasing the burden from the guilty. With maturity, people often realize that intentionally destroying another person by intentionally sharing information that hurts the target is often a transferrence of emotions.
Not telling Dean about kissing Jess was not her crime- by kissing Jess, she cheated on Dean.
When Paris saw Lorelai kissing Max, she told everyone out of spite. It was a hateful act. Honesty is not always an altruistic act. It can often be a hateful act.
It all depends on intention for sure. I also do believe some truths are better left unsaid, people don't need to know every single thought and opinion you have, sometimes the unfiltered truth does more damage than good.
Also YES, I said the same thing, it isn't that she witholds the truth to him, she straight up cheated on him and that's bad on itself.
Completely true. I also noticed that there was just SO MUCH LYING and withholding the truth in this show, it literally causes me anxiety lol.
I always hated how Lorelai felt about April and Lukes relationship. She was literally in Anna shoes at one point when Sherry wanted to have her own relationship with Rory. Like she refused to learn from that experience and couldn't really sympathize why she couldn't get to know April just yet.
Gilmore Girl and Desperate Housewives ..the similarities between the GG and Susan and Julie has always stuck with me. Two very immature mothers, raising a single daughter who had to carry the emotional burden and raise themselves. Becoming independent at a very young age while excelling at school and being socially popular. Later turning into chaotic adults who (quit school, become careless, failed careers and single mothers). Catching up on their youth basically.
I’ve never found the space to discuss my observation..
You're so right, I never connected the dots before reading this comment, but it makes so much sense. Julie straight up was the parent on that dynamic.
Now everytime I see this kind of co-dependent parent-child relationship I think of "emotional incest", where the parent relies on their child for emotional support or advise and essentially they treat their child not as a child but as a romantic partner, not sure if it's the right term for them since it feels iffy calling it romantic, but acting like your child is your best friend instead of someone you have to take care of as a parent is not healthy for them, since they need their parents to act like parents not as besties, and they need to be children not act as the caretaker.
Many times through the show we see Lorelai struggle with playing the "mom card", she's uncomfortable putting limits for Rory and everytime she does the right thing and acts more like a mother towards her Rory lashes out because she's not used to having a mother. All of this would have been avoided if Lorelai had acted her role as a mother more, but she wanted to avoid becoming a strict and overbearing mother like Emily so much she avoided putting any kind of rules and restrictions and wanted to be more of a friend to her daughter than a mom, and it ended up bitting her in the ass hard because Rory ended up screwed up anyways because of it.
100% correct. People who love each other don't lie or omit the truth.
I also thought that. I would push it furder that what happened most of the time with every relationship is miscommunication/ lies. I had this revelation (when I was seeing it for the 10th time) with Luke and Lorelai / Jess and Rory who are the worst in term of miscommunication. So I though, what if the whole show was about this issue ? And yes, like you said, it make sens. We see it in a lot of situations. Also in the relationship between mother and daughter (Lane and Mrs Kim, Rory and Lorelai in season 6 (and other times), Lorelai and Emily (even though it's more complicated with them because even when they are telling there truth, they are not listening to one another)). So it's seems to be a pattern for all of this caracters. The whole show could be a representation of differents types of miscommunication (even when it's for a good cause, even when it's not you who started the lie (Rory - Marty)) and the consequences...
Great video as always !
I think so too completely!
i will eat up every gilmore girls video i can get my hands on thank you
I used to love the show so much. The first several times I watched the whole thing I was just Charmed and just thought it was a lovely show and actually it is. But after while you start realizing how incredibly selfish each and every one of them is. At least the Gilmore Girls are. Everything's always about Lorelei. Everything's has to revolve around her. Roy early on doesn't seem too selfish but boy she becomes very selfish. And Emily is also selfish she just wants what she wants all the time. Christopher's also fairly selfish.
Rory seems pretty psycho in my opinion
Same! I feel like the show focused on the worst 2 characters. I would be down for a show that equally focused on the town characters as well.
Lorelei is such a frustrating character. Especially when it comes to dating. All these men moved heaven and earth to be with her, moved to her shitty house, gave up their lives and fully accommodating to what she wants and needs. She couldn’t even offer them honestly. The way she never truly grew up and still acted like a little girl and thought it was charming …
What I mean to say is that I know the disillusionment of watching it years later
They all just learn something crucial then decide to tell them in an already high strung situation then that leads to a fight and eventually a break up
you are literally the most underrated channel!! we need to hear all of your gg takes
Omg that is sooooo kind of you 😭🥹🫶🥰🥰 will definitely be making a lot more
@@Silverscreenfreak ofc! i cant wait to binge them all 😁
Lol I love that office reference at the end
Wow!! You’re right! That is a problem in almost everyone’s relationship. I think Lane and Zack were the only ones who didn’t lie to each other actually except that one time where Zack didn’t tell Lane about that Bluegrass band that he’s in. Rory lied to Logan about kissing Jess also. That always bugged me that she never even told Logan! I get that he was in the hospital immediately after that but she could have eventually told him.
Try think of them realistically. We all have times in our life we r not proud of, we won’t want to repeat if we had the chance or won’t encourage anyone to take those steps. We can watch it either put these characters on a higher chair and judging them or take them as they come, like you know, more humanely.
the lack of actually sitting down and having a conversation is astronomical. the amount of problems that couldve been avoided if they just sat down is insane
in a way i applaud gilmore girls for being VERY realistic with how people bottle up their feelings with partners and it causes MANY problems but the way it’s justified and shit can become very… toxic
This was actually the biggest takeaway for me from the show. Don't lie! It showed a range of possibilities about how many things there are in relationships, that we may lie about, and what the result is. So I did my best to not lie. Weird, how a show got it through more, than Bible lessons... for me at least.
Excellent analysis!! More videos, please. 🤗
thanks for all the gilmore girls content!!
I also think that there was a lot of jealousy. Dean with Jess, Jess with Dean, Logan and Marty, Luke with Chris, Chris with Luke
also jackson lied to sookie about his vasectomy! great video btw
I loved your ending 😂
great video:D!! Id love to see your thoughts on lorelai since I have some strong opinions on her haha
Will do one soon 🥰
i feel like everyone in the show was so toxic with each other. the only people who were genuine either didnt get a character line, or didnt stay on the show. i absolutely love this show though, and this video xx
Everytime someone lies, it's dishonest and selfish. They say they are trying not to hurt the other person,but they are just covering their own butts. Like trying save the person from pain. But really It's manipulation for their own benefits. I have also watched the entire series many times. I do it for knowledge in finding what NOT to do. It's interesting that I see stuff I missed somehow every time I watch it. Sometimes I would like to rewrite some of the dialogue or add something. But they wrote most of it well. This is a show that IS honest in telling the truth about fictional characters with true human behavior. I know a Logan/ Chris. I know their friends. I know a Marty. I've been around an Emily. I don't know a Rory, but I know a Jess. These people do exist with the similar traits. And similar circumstances that led to disastrous results. I resemble Luke himself.He's kind hearted , but tries to hide it. Likes uncomplicated situations ,but gets involved anyway. I remember he asked Lorelei if he was a mysterious person, She replied" well the wardrobe is a head scratcher". He really is a simple guy, but not stupid. I don't have an April, though. Good video. Thanks
Isn’t this an analysis you could make about most shows where romantic relationships play an important part?
Me tooooo i have watched gilmore girls jizilion times🤭🤭 and i also totally agree about the charecters not being truethful if only they told the truth the would have saved a lot of nerves. And rory absolutely could say that she knew marty he was just so aptight about them meeting like this.😒 it was dum of him to lie like that. It cost him hes relashionship.
And Lorlai is also dum that she didnt say anything about her feelings.. seriously
You nailed it ❤️
Thank you ❤️
Ugh I’m a new fan n still watching season 1- spoiler me💀
A lie is a lie in a relationship a lie can and will always have a bad result even if it was for a good reason. Case In point all the lies told by the characters in Gilmore girls.
I haven't watched this show in years and completely forgot that Richard lied for 39 years. Homie was willlllddddiiinnn. It would have been a wrap. If its no big deal than you shouldn't have to lie.
More!!
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Congratulations☺️😊
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4:26 That reference didn't age well, lol!
rory also didn’t tell logan she kissed jess while they were together
Yeah, but reality is boring. Just been watching a King of Queens episode where Doug and Deacon LIE to their wives to go to a casino. Without what is considered "immoral" or "not correct" behaviour or "intelligent behaviour", what show could work? The characters are written as opponents and they are not supposed to act much differently than they always do. That would be boring. I'm honestly not a fan of that, one reason I stopped watching tv shows mostly.
Without miscommunication, not telling the truth, even lying a lot, a lot of drama could be avoided but that is not in the intention of the writers and the audience. Who would watch Gilmore Girls, when it the characters were written as 3dimensional characters instead of cartoon versions almost always acting as intended? Lorelai simply cannot stop making remarks towards her mother. She also cannot find a long-lasting partner or a husband, otherwise the dynamics between her and Luke and Rory and her parents would change dramatically.
Still I think there are better ways to write drama instead of Rory lying, sleeping with Dean, seeing the same patterns of behaviour repeated over and over again or some people getting pregnant misteriously. It's probably best to watch dramatic shows without thinking to much about realism. If you do, you will realize that all 3 Gilimore Girls are not the great human beings many viewers used to think they are. With Sitcoms, it's a bit different, since you know they show misbehaviour for comedic purpose and therefor, I feel I don't have to take them so seriously, while on a dramatic show, to me at least, what a character says and does matters a lot more.
A lie is just a product of what is cooking. In all cases there where issues that where felt to hard to handle.
People lying to themselves about what they want and who they are :P
I know. All the couples in Gilmore Girls lie to their partners!!!
Please, please nitpick
Well yea, in life it’s called lying in tv it’s called “conflict” and “storylines”. There would be no show without it.
Well said with just few words. 👏 It basically sums up most if not all dramatic shows and movies. Characters are super smart when it helps the story but super ignorant for the writers to bring a person from a certain scenario to another scenario. TV characters are often selfish, miscomunicate and lie and never seem to learn enough to change for the better.
I'd rather play pubg than watch Gilmore girls
Hey man, don't hate
Lol
And yet, here you are, commenting on a video about Gilmore girls.