Queer Love, Ultimatums, Toxic Relationships & Surviving Reality TV with Tiff Der
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- Опубликовано: 29 авг 2024
- You won't want to miss this interview with Tiff, a cast member of a Reality TV show on Netflix called The Ultimatum: Queer Love. Tiff shares their experience on the show and how it affected their mental health and led them to start a support group for survivors of narcissistic abuse. We'll also spill some tea that wasn't aired on the show, and you'll see that not all producers have your back when it comes to making good TV. This chat with Tiff is inspiring, raw, and will give you insight into what really goes on behind the scenes. So grab your favorite snack, sit back, and hit play. Don't forget to like and subscribe for more engaging interviews like this one. Let us know how you think blasting your life on reality tv can affect an individual's mental health and alter relationships.
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↓ K E Y M O M E N T S ↓
00:15 Meet Tiff A cast member From the Netflix Show The Ultimatum: Queer Love
01:03 How Did Tiff Get Cast For The Netflix Show The Ultimatum?
02:33 The Hesitation to Put Their Relationship in the Public Eye
03:28 "I Understood the Assignment"
04:46 Knowing Something Was Off From the Beginning
06:07 Self-Awareness and Discovering the Origins of Their Feelings
07:26 The Truth is, In the Show, You Only See A Fraction of What Goes On
08:04 Tiff's Relationship with Their Father
10:09 "I'm Going to Reject You Before You Reject Me" A Theory For Mildred's Behavior
12:16 "My Level of Self-Esteem in That Relationship...Didn't Match Up to Who I Really Was"
15:04 Trauma Bonds and Finding A Safe Space To Express Feelings in My Relationship through Couple's Therapy
16:28 The Added Strain Reality TV Puts on Your Relationship and Mental Health
19:51The Use of Speculation and Ignorance To Manipulate & Shift the Blame
24:16 "If Mildred Was A Masculine Man and I Was A Feminine Woman, Would This Have Even Happened?"
33:02 Going Through This Process Helped Tiff Create A Level of Self Awareness
36:38 The Ultimatum Was A Life Changing Experience
37:32 "I Didn't Know What Boundaries Were"
39:24 "How Did I Let Myself Stay In Such A Toxic Relationship For So Long?"
40:21 What Does Healing Look Like For Tiff?
43:15 Life After The Show
46:07 There's Way More That Unites Us Than Divides Us
50:46 Part of the Contract, It's Our Job on the Show to Have Tuff Conversations
52:21 Where Can You Find Tiff & Shiloh?
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Great interview!
Tiff's pronouns are they/them/theirs, you should modify this in the description of the video
Thanks for that catch! We’ve updated the description, have a wonderful day and thanks for watching. 🙏😍