Why I Quit Van Life (Life Update)

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  • Опубликовано: 4 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 572

  • @doxdiggla8726
    @doxdiggla8726 3 года назад +435

    I still can’t believe the same woman I watched from a distance in these types of videos and admired, learned from, was inspired by is now my wife.
    S/o to everyone who has supported her journey thus far and get ready cuz she ain’t even warmed up yet
    I love u cherubim, and I missed this “you” more than I even realized. Welcome back baby

  • @AJadeBBtravel
    @AJadeBBtravel 3 года назад +54

    It was never about your VAN for me, it was about seeing YOU!!! Your calmness, realness, braveness, authenticity, I COULD GO ON… the pure essence of you!! Love you, sis!! Congrats on life!

  • @charissagray5795
    @charissagray5795 3 года назад +82

    The fact that you were a van lifer that talked about spirituality and healing and personal growth is what ultimately attracted me to you and made me live you. It was never about the van the van was a bonus. You’re spirit resonated with me so you talking about the things you love worked out !

    • @zet7670
      @zet7670 3 года назад +1

      I was only watching for the van. I hope the van starts a RUclips channel.

  • @DebraJohnson
    @DebraJohnson 3 года назад +158

    When I saw you had a boo and a thriving new business, I didn’t think you would continue with van life. It seems like it served its purpose in compelling you to the next stage in your life. I didn’t know about the counseling service! Congrats on everything! 🎉

    • @simplymonica6888
      @simplymonica6888 3 года назад +1

      @jolie 😂 😂

    • @1Beaudii
      @1Beaudii 2 года назад

      Me either her video clearly state why I QUIT ! vanlife

  • @cynthiaallen9713
    @cynthiaallen9713 3 года назад +112

    Congratulations. I really didn't focus too much on the van but more so on how you wanted to find peace. I'm in the place right now where I just need simplicity and peace in my life.

    • @CandyssLove
      @CandyssLove  3 года назад +4

      Thank you for being here ☺️🙏🏽

  • @CherieMonique5
    @CherieMonique5 3 года назад +101

    When you are getting your ish together, ain’t no missing out. Truer word have not been spoken!! Glad to see you back and having transitioned so beautifully into new roles and ways of life. It was never about the van, your spirit is magnetic and like butter to me. I’m very happy to see that you are happy and that your spirit has gotten a major boost. Also congratulations on finding your love and marrying!

    • @CandyssLove
      @CandyssLove  3 года назад +6

      Deep gratitude sister! Thank you seeing & holding space for me. Sending you love 🙏🏽😌

  • @AprilLeon
    @AprilLeon 3 года назад +72

    I am so glad I found you being honest cause I was fine with hearing some of those things like how some people may survive but honestly for me I want to do this because I need to find myself. Be able to be a better me and learn to heal from the loss of my son learn how to love again this was amazing video because you were real and transparent thank you for that

    • @Nicole215
      @Nicole215 3 года назад +5

      *I'm so sorry about the loss of your son. You have my sincerest condolences. I pray that God comforts you and continues to heal your pain. In my honest opinion, van life will put you in a position to fall in love with not only yourself again but also life itself. Traveling will allow you to see the world in all its beauty! My advice is just please be safe, and invest in a cellphone signal booster for times when you may travel away from cellphone towers (like in rural areas). Purchase a satellite phone if you can afford it. Keep plenty of perishable food onhand for emergencies. Flares come in handy as well! Don't forget water and just have yourself a great time! My two boys are still young but I definitely look forward to van life once they're older. I wish you all the best! Be sure to document your travels, keep a journal, too!* 🤗

    • @gloriabass9945
      @gloriabass9945 2 года назад +3

      @@Nicole215 traveled on the road for one weekend and I felt so much better it's healing for people who lost a child, I lost my daughter 2 years ago and my whole life is flipped

    • @Nicole215
      @Nicole215 2 года назад +1

      @@gloriabass9945 - *I'm so glad you got a chance to travel, don't stop! When you take advantage of the opportunity, it really is healing powers in traveling. I'm so sorry for your loss. I pray that God continues to give you comfort and help you find peace. I know it's hard at times but keep the faith. I, too lost a daughter just two hours after giving birth to her. I try not to think about it and to be honest I don't think I ever started the healing process. She passed away in 2010. I had to keep going for my two sons and I also broke up with the father of my children so I had so much going on at a time I should have be mourning. God willing, [someday] I'll begin that journey of true healing but for now I'll continue to encourage people like you!* 🙏🏾

    • @gloriabass9945
      @gloriabass9945 2 года назад

      @@Nicole215 thanks for a great word, so sorry for your loss also, it's very painful

  • @MrsBreauxbody
    @MrsBreauxbody 3 года назад +28

    “When you are getting your shit together, there is no such thing as missing out!”
    Thank you Candyss for being trie to yourself. You have helped me more than you know as I continue to heal. I love you.

  • @iamshe3275
    @iamshe3275 2 года назад +1

    When you getting your shit together, ain't no such thing as missing out! WISDOM!!!!

  • @vlhughes1985
    @vlhughes1985 3 года назад +34

    I love love love your spirit. I actually started following you because I could see that you were going through a healing process and was sharing that part of it most of all. This message was so for me. I had about 3 different light bulls go off watching this and I will definitely be continuing on the journey that is YOU. I’m learning a lot about myself. Thank you for sharing your life with us. You are inspiring people!

  • @libbylessonsfym2427
    @libbylessonsfym2427 3 года назад +6

    Every YT content creator needs to watch this video. I have been thinking about all of this! I am not part of the "Van Life" community, btw. But, I do not want to be put into any sort of box, in regard to my channel or in my life, PERIOD. Thank you for articulating exactly what I needed to hear. Bless you and may your marriage be blessed forever.

  • @sucalew
    @sucalew 3 года назад +1

    Authenticity is the best medicine. Thanks for sharing. Glad you’re back.

  • @shellyperez6707
    @shellyperez6707 3 года назад +61

    Congratulations on the 50 lb you lost I actually lost 35 lb too and I'm a full-time van dweller. I really believe obesity is not a good thing it's not healthy. That's why I decided to lose the weight and I'm still going for another 16 lb.

  • @YogaBlissDance
    @YogaBlissDance 3 года назад +1

    You may not remember but we spoke on the phone about a collab and I said to you, I'm not sure you're a "van lifer" you seem more about the spirituality....anad here you are! Yes lovely to see you so HAPPY and your evolution Goddess. Blessings. Viv

  • @iamalady461
    @iamalady461 3 года назад +36

    You had me cracking up girl! I really feel you on this. Congratulations 🎊 regarding the beautiful changes in your life this past year. Always stay authentic🦋. I was into your videos because of the spiritual journey you were on and the peaceful energy you put out. Once you've seen one "vanlife" video you have seen them all although yours is particularly beautiful.

    • @CandyssLove
      @CandyssLove  3 года назад +2

      Thank you so much sis!! I appreciate you 🙏🏽😌

    • @iamalady461
      @iamalady461 3 года назад

      @@CandyssLove Most welcome my love 💖🦋. Excited for your new content and let it be wherever your mind and creative juices take you.

  • @mrsaveabuck5969
    @mrsaveabuck5969 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for this Candyss, I am glad that i was guided here today. I so needed to hear and receive this message today. Thank you for your transparency! Congratulations on ALL your amazing accomplishments & growth!

  • @gabrielamurillo8387
    @gabrielamurillo8387 3 года назад +7

    That’s the problem with most of us today, always trying to do things to please others instead of being authentic. You do you and I appreciate you and your positive energy

  • @lisafreeman8691
    @lisafreeman8691 3 года назад +10

    I needed this right now. I am doing exactly that "recalibrating my life" I appreciate you and your journey and I love you speaking on the evolution of spirit...get it.

  • @michele5257
    @michele5257 3 года назад +4

    Thank you for having the courage to share this video. Your honest and heart filled journey has hit a lot of key feelings with me. Thank you for the encouragement

  • @LifeBetweenTheDash
    @LifeBetweenTheDash 2 года назад +1

    Beautiful talk. I love that you are back with the essential you. Can't wait to hear more.

  • @annamyers9894
    @annamyers9894 2 года назад

    I’ve only watched two of your videos and you have taught me so much. About van life & about life. Your spirituality & healing nature resonates onto me. You’re amazing, Thankyou.

  • @ibenayazee
    @ibenayazee 2 года назад

    It’s always been about your energy for me. It’s always been about what your spirit had to say and what mine wanted to receive. THAT is what is authentic and THAT is what keeps me looking forward to any your videos. The van to me was just a literal video set. I’m so happy that your journey of healing has so many beautiful twists and turns 💜✨

  • @nonilovechild5524
    @nonilovechild5524 3 года назад +1

    Girl, nobody watched you because of the van. They watched you because you're beautiful. Your skin, your aura. You can make a inspirational channel and talk about healing if this resonates with you. Devote one hour a week to not get burned out. I see people post once a month and because it's interesting still got lots of followers but understand change is part of life, nothing last forever so if your soul says enough, we say be blessed. Also thank you for keeping it real about the tiredness of being on the road. I agree, I could do a month of two but like feeling grounded and after a trip whether van, plane or train there's no place like a home that don't move.

  • @livityvillage5659
    @livityvillage5659 3 года назад +6

    It was always your peace, spiritual essences, and words of wisdom and truth that brought me to your channel. All love Sis.

  • @MovementwithDarcy
    @MovementwithDarcy 3 года назад +3

    Literally same exact thing for me. I built my camper van and I’m posting videos about it but WHY did I build my van? To set myself free. Free myself from past trauma, free myself of feeling like I’m living to work instead of working to LIVE, free myself from society, and get some space to think clearly for myself. I needed that time alone and ya know what. I need it again. Im just getting started.

  • @Safphron
    @Safphron 3 года назад +7

    I'm so happy for you, Sis! Congratulations on the lessons learned, the peace found and the love found.

  • @kim.aka.kimomu
    @kim.aka.kimomu 3 года назад +16

    yes queen yeeeeeeeees!! i love hearing you talk so openly. you have inspired me so much.. looking back just a few months ago i was filling up my time distracting myself with van life and tiny home videos. i was led to your videos and guess what. after that the types of videos that took up my time changed. i started finding spiritual videos and turning inward to evolve my consciousness. so i have to really thank you a lot for bringing me into the awareness of my spiritual awakening and now i'm looking forward to use the guidance of my spirit to take me to a real happiness, and i look forward to more videos from you on what you really want to talk about!!

    • @CandyssLove
      @CandyssLove  3 года назад +4

      Wow this is such a beautiful comment! Isn’t the healing journey so beautiful?!?! Sending you much live sister! Thank you for being here

  • @Talaya_Shante
    @Talaya_Shante 3 года назад +7

    I didn’t know I needed this message. I actually started watching you for your beautiful mind. It was just something about you lol I didn’t really care about the van life but you always had something to say that resonated with me. Thank you for showing up authentically. Congrats on your journey and the marriage. You are absolutely Beautiful!!!

  • @GoReallaBeatz
    @GoReallaBeatz 3 года назад

    I like the fact that you are being real about this. That shines brighter than anything. All love for your pure soul.

  • @meaganturner1444
    @meaganturner1444 2 года назад

    This the REALEST shit I’ve heard in awhile!! Thank YOU!!!!!!! Everything about this I love!! I’m on a spiritual journey right now! And THIS. THIS.THIS. I love it. May God bless you and your hubby!!!!

  • @OkaayYall
    @OkaayYall 3 года назад +4

    Alot of what you said has resonated with me. I’m so thankful that I watched this video especially right now. I have to show up for myself, I want to hear my inner voice. Thank you 🙏🏼 Many blessings to you.

  • @angiewylie1141
    @angiewylie1141 3 года назад +10

    Don't apologize for knowing your "true self" and wanting to present it to others. We all have to realize when our spirit is off kilter and take the time to realign ourselves. I have loved your spirit and energy since I watched your first video; and I will continue to watch regardless of what you talk about. Be blessed!--and congratulations on your marriage!

  • @freshtoodef1980
    @freshtoodef1980 3 года назад +18

    Hours later and I'm still laughing at "I parked the sh#t out of this van"😂😂😂😂😂

    • @CandyssLove
      @CandyssLove  3 года назад +8

      Lmaooooo i said that with my whole chest too 😂😂

    • @CJILP
      @CJILP 2 года назад

      Lol, me too!

  • @TheBestRoseinTexas
    @TheBestRoseinTexas 3 года назад +7

    As a Houstonian that heavily followed you before, this definitely showed up in my RUclips feed for a reason. I needed this life confirmation to take my break from certain things. I'm so proud of you and happy for you. 💜 I hope we cross paths someday. ❤️✊🏿💚

  • @TheLatonya37
    @TheLatonya37 3 года назад

    Thank you Candice for sharing your new journey with us. I don't have a RUclips channel but I feel the same way about van life. I live in my van and had all these great ideas about what I wanted for van life b4 I moved in. Van life showed me something different. I needed healing..when I'm in it I feel like I'm in a womb and I love it and feel very safe. It's been very healing for me as well. Wish you and your hubby all the best in you future🤗

  • @MissMaryLu
    @MissMaryLu 3 года назад +6

    This is so beautiful. Thank you for living your truth and sharing only when you’re ready. This really resonates with me. I will support you and your healing journey, wherever you are along the road ❤️

  • @lovewins699
    @lovewins699 2 года назад

    I sure needed this. This message spoke to my spirit and heart. Keep doing what you do. So many of us need this. Life is about healing and growth. I'm all for it. I just ran across your channel and I immediately subscribed....May God continue to bless you and your family.

  • @wingsoflifeholisticbodypro7846
    @wingsoflifeholisticbodypro7846 3 года назад +2

    This beautiful you talking about your van was for your healing and CONGRATULATIONS to you and your Husband!!!

  • @Not_A_Hopeless_Romantic
    @Not_A_Hopeless_Romantic 3 года назад +2

    Thank you for coming back to RUclips and sharing what has been going on in your life! Congratulations on getting married, your weight loss and your spiritual growth! It’s amazing how honoring yourself can cultivate a beautiful life! I admire your ability to focus on your healing because it is something a lot of people, including myself, need to prioritize. I can’t wait to see your upcoming videos with your husband and Cleo! I would love to see more vlogs of your everyday life if you are open to doing so 😊

  • @DarlingRenaissance
    @DarlingRenaissance 3 года назад +7

    NOW THAT WE GOT ALL THAT OUT THE WAY!!!!! Listen, I have watched all of your videos multiple times. You being a Black female vanlifer definitely peeked my interest. However, I do follow you guys on IG and I;m much more interested in healing content/discussions. Welcome back and Hey Cleo girl!

  • @darlenecooper5894
    @darlenecooper5894 3 года назад +5

    I appreciate this video. I have been focusing on healing as well. I have been meeting with Therapists to talk about a piece of my past that I have never deep dived in and now I am ready. I also received a management role, a role I have been looking for in a very long time and now I received the opportunity to grow beyond where I have been stagnate. Now I am looking to move to a location to live that is field with nature because it is an environment I feel connected most in healing. Thank you Candyss.

  • @ilovelushxo
    @ilovelushxo 3 года назад +6

    You are such a beautiful soul. Keep following what your heart is telling you, you will attract all the right like minded people to your channel. I’m so happy you’ve been doing well ❤️ Congrats on everything

  • @lightraveler333
    @lightraveler333 5 месяцев назад

    Hi Candyss👋 as a Full time traveler transitioning from Van life back into my career field, I'll definitely be adding this video to favorites and jotting down notes from it in my notebook because you definitely dropped some very profound gems that really resonated with me. Thank you!
    Peace and blessings
    🙏✨😊💖

  • @dorothyroush6273
    @dorothyroush6273 2 года назад

    LOL! Love it. Never thought about how others expectations of what you post can be so constricting. I would hate that too.
    I would tend to post "want to know about my van, see my first video.....continue watching if you want to know what my message is today."
    You use your van and post what is important to you. If they want to hear your voice and what your message is then they will continue to follow you...if not, then they can move on.
    Congratulations on your marriage and all the new positive changes in your life. Enjoy your time together and use your van for your pleasure as a couple!

  • @blkcatrebel2968
    @blkcatrebel2968 3 года назад +3

    “ When you are cultivating, upgrading and elevating yourself, there is no such thing as missing out. “ 🙏🏿🙏🏿 This is everything. Thank you for truth!

  • @rachsalomon5819
    @rachsalomon5819 2 года назад

    I knew when I saw you on the “Tiny Home Tours channel” your van was just a conduit for your healing and spiritual journey. Living your life as an intuitive takes courage especially coming from a military and law enforcement background. However having that background was part of your destiny and growth process. Be well. Enjoy your next conduit for spiritual growth through your business and marriage. Have fun! Thank you for thoughtfully and intentionally showing up. Shalom!

  • @txLALA
    @txLALA 3 года назад +6

    Congrats! Y’all are beautiful, and your skin is absolutely beautiful. Definitely always be true to yourself.

  • @sandyj9562
    @sandyj9562 3 года назад +2

    I am so happy for you! Love you and May God continue to bless you. God has his purpose for each and everyone of. I am thrill for you. God is Good. Much love from Canada.

  • @zuria07
    @zuria07 2 года назад

    I really appreciated this topic. I stopped blogging a few years ago because I was feeling really disconnected from what I was writing about and what I was being asked to participate in. And like you, I also felt like I needed to be present in other parts of my life that were lacking. Now that I want to write again, I see that I need to know what I want to write before I put myself back out there. Thank you for sharing this.

  • @Vanessa-mv7xm
    @Vanessa-mv7xm 3 года назад +3

    I am glad you have searched and find your true self and the peace that's in your inner mind; always be true to yourself and feeling, try to be factual to yourself and never try to impress others by deceiving yourself. You're absolutely beautiful! Live your best pleasing yourself and blessing others, because peoples will always find fault regardless.
    May your latter days be your best days.😃❤

  • @hippiebaelala
    @hippiebaelala 2 года назад

    I appreciate the authenticity of this video!! 💜 just be you and people will love it. Van lifer or not!

  • @gretelh3144
    @gretelh3144 3 года назад +2

    Holy crap lady! You are glowing with beauty! It seems like it is pouring out of you. It is obvious that you are happy and living a fulfilling life. Thank you for sharing with us your insightful honesty.

  • @BPoetiqueVlogs
    @BPoetiqueVlogs 3 года назад +4

    Love love love this! I motovlog & people expected me to do things the way they’ve been done but I started the journey out of self care. I found myself being unfulfilled because what I grew to love about motovlogging turned into a chore. So, I had to take the steps needed to be true to myself and the people that want to watch and can relate will be there.

  • @audra7593
    @audra7593 3 года назад +1

    I needed to hear this! Thank you for the talk. I am inspired to give myself permission to embark upon a journey in alignment with the life I am cultivating and my purpose. I love how, you use your gifts to bless humanity.

  • @carold.1337
    @carold.1337 2 года назад

    Welcome back Candyss, sending you higher vibrations.

  • @virgoscorner
    @virgoscorner 3 года назад

    You just simply being you & being free & at peace is what's attracted me to you. Congratulations on your union!!

  • @ajusbflyyyadventurervlifeb696
    @ajusbflyyyadventurervlifeb696 3 года назад +2

    Omg! I was wondering where you went. I’m so freaking happy for you sunshine. I’m glad your life continues to blossom. Congrats on your beautiful union and thanks do much for sharing. Bless up!

  • @paulabrown3918
    @paulabrown3918 3 года назад +2

    YES! CONGRATULATIONS! I missed you, but I knew you’d be back when you were ready. Please show up as you because I could see the real you as I listened before….your greatness was ready to explode!

  • @ellorareeves5336
    @ellorareeves5336 3 года назад

    Your spirit is pure! I'll watch your videos with van or without. Im glad you are living an authentic life and I am happy for you that you have found happiness! Joy and love are always worth putting everything else on hold. Congrats to you girl. I hope you keep posting, I'll be here. Also I saw your videos before but something wasn't right then, which is why I didn't subscribe. Im here for you now though your energy filled me up. I subbed today.

  • @kaytee4088
    @kaytee4088 3 года назад +5

    CONGRATS on EVERYTHING sis ! This was a BEAUTIFUL video ! May God continue to bless you 🙏🏽🦋🥂

  • @sophiarobinson6329
    @sophiarobinson6329 3 года назад +3

    I admire your honesty. At the end of the day most people want transparency. I am not sure why you started a youtube video about van life if you really did not want to. I watched your youtube video's because I loved your spirit. You could have been in a van, a hole or on the top of a mountain. I saw a lot of the comments and it seemed like people loved your spirit as well. Congratulations on your marriage and I am so glad you are finding yourself. Thank you for coming back and I think you are an amazing spirit and your husband is a very lucky man!

  • @nikkipooh9
    @nikkipooh9 2 года назад

    Come on collar bone! I'm very happy for you and that you made it through full time van life safe and sound.

  • @lilithswonderlust4travel920
    @lilithswonderlust4travel920 3 года назад +1

    Thank you for your honesty… 🙏🏽❤️ You are living your truth and that is the only way to live. I started watching you earlier this year, I’m glad you are thriving, and have made all these changes for yourself. Stay happy, healthy, be blessed alway and I’m here for you and your new journey. Live free and authentically 😊❤️❤️❤️
    ,

  • @JustUsJJJenkins
    @JustUsJJJenkins 3 года назад +2

    Congratulations!! Thank you for all you are saying!! I have been revamping my content too!! And People want to stay 3D. I have more to offer now!! I am going to keep standing on my square and sharing my new truth🙏🏾💕🌿✨🥰

  • @luvlee6142
    @luvlee6142 3 года назад +15

    I'm so happy for you, congratulations on your union! I look forward to continuing following you on your journey 😊 KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK!

    • @CandyssLove
      @CandyssLove  3 года назад +1

      Thank you sister i really appreciate you 🙏🏽😌

  • @qwintisntial1792
    @qwintisntial1792 3 года назад +1

    I'M VERY PROUD OF YOU MY SISTER !!! FOR EVOLVING TO THE NEW YOU !!AT THIS PRESENT NOW !!! WHICH WILL THEN EVOLVE INTO A NEW FUTURE YOU !!! THIS IS THE PROCESS OF LIFE !!! WHICH YOU DISCOVERED ALOT QUICKER THAN MOST PEOPLE WHO NEVER QUESTION THE NATURE OF THEIR REALITY !!!PEACE AND PROSPERITY TO YOU YOUNG PRINCESS !!!

  • @1JoyPeace
    @1JoyPeace 3 года назад +4

    Congratulations to Y'all, stay Blessed!! 🥳💛💜🤗🤩 Life is about growth, always GROW! 😎🥰🥳

  • @Jazlynn.
    @Jazlynn. 3 года назад

    this is timeless jubilee!!! the one formerly known as Juliane Star. Thank you so much! Beautiful. and your skin! I can tell you are listening cuz u glistening.

  • @Sageandgold
    @Sageandgold 3 года назад +1

    So proud of you Beyonce cousin 🥰 you spoke words of truth. Vanlife is different for everyone. For.me, it's about inspiring those like myself to become self sufficient and create a space of peace and freedom for themselves.

  • @dinoalien6213
    @dinoalien6213 3 года назад +2

    thank you SO much for sharing your journey. loved to hear how you took time for yourself and prioritized your self care and healing. excited to keep watching your videos and follow your path!

  • @marieboydskinner4749
    @marieboydskinner4749 Год назад

    Congratulations💐🎊 for finding your purpose. Your spirit was what drew me to your channel, too. Your authenticity and calmness mattered. Continue to grow Queen. You are shining 🌞💛 Peace

  • @BoWinkled
    @BoWinkled 3 года назад

    It has always been your beautiful spirit that you presented on camera! Congratulations 🤎

  • @marymarshall7500
    @marymarshall7500 3 года назад +3

    I hope that your content morphs into significantly more info on your spiritual journey. Much love and peace to you.

    • @CandyssLove
      @CandyssLove  3 года назад +3

      Trust me! That’s all it’s going to be about moving forward! 🥰 thank you for being here & for receiving me 🙏🏽🌻

    • @thumpa7771
      @thumpa7771 3 года назад

      @@CandyssLove Thank you💫💫

  • @monique9354
    @monique9354 3 года назад +3

    I am glad you are doing well! Skincare products, Yes Ma'am, because your skin is always glowing 🙌🏾Where do I place my order!
    P.S. Do you Boo! I just like hearing you speak because your voice is soothing. So I will listen whenever you care to speak, whatever you want to talk about 💙
    Congratulations on finding the love of your life & getting married!

  • @sarahgupton2552
    @sarahgupton2552 2 года назад

    I’m soooo happy for you, Candyss. You are so deserving. You are an inspiration. Best wishes on your future success and happiness. Thank you for sharing your experiences with us.

  • @DanielleLaShawn
    @DanielleLaShawn 3 года назад +2

    Purpose is so important. Without it, we are lost. It's everything. And as a creator I can confirm that you're 100% right. Doing things that don't fulfill you will always make you feel like you need to hop on to the next best thing because you're not drawn to what you're doing and everything else looks and seems like it will feel better.

  • @ash.nichelle
    @ash.nichelle 3 года назад

    I LOVE your honesty and transparency! Your energy is beautiful. I pray that I can reach your level of self-awareness and healing! Much love!

  • @MysticCardsofLifewithDrea
    @MysticCardsofLifewithDrea 3 года назад +6

    "THIS WAS A WORD! THANK U I NEEDED TO HEAR THIS...AND IM SURE ALONG WITH SO MANY OTHERS. THANKU FOR REMINDING ME AND THE COLLECTIVE TO STAY TRUE TO BEING OUR TRUE AUTHENTIC SELLVES...GOT ME A LIL EMOTIONAL SIS! LOL!"🥰🙏🏾🙌🏾

  • @MotherEarf0906
    @MotherEarf0906 2 года назад

    Well said 👏 👌! I'm here for more of your intentional healing!

  • @stellasgotitl5657
    @stellasgotitl5657 2 года назад

    Good for you and, so happy you gave that info. I concur!!!!! I bought my van not to live in, but to use to travel occasionally. And I’m so happy with that. Once you buy a van you’re almost pushed to be a van Lifer, And a RUclipsr. That’s not what I want. I just bought a more comfy vehicle for when and if I travel. You keep up the awesome work, and show up for YOU♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️. Thanks

  • @DeeDee-wo3cr
    @DeeDee-wo3cr 3 года назад +2

    I'm so happy for you! Such a awesome update! Blessings to you and your husband.

  • @SistaSOLS
    @SistaSOLS 2 года назад

    Speak on it! I love that you talked about intentions. I really love this I don't like those boxes. I appreciate you making this video.

  • @loryndabenson2118
    @loryndabenson2118 3 года назад +3

    I really liked what you said about needing stillness and just generally a break from the van and everything so you can elevate. That's why I needed to move off of my boat. Loved on it for 4 years. O had a good time but eventually I started to become stressed and trapped. I travel for work now which is nice but I'm ready to sit and just be left alone not bothered with so many things. I feel so run down especially in this winter season. But I'm glad we made the sacrifices and compromises we did so we can finally take that really long vacation and healing period to ourselves next month. And we gonna be gone for a while indeed.

  • @ketoliciousness9296
    @ketoliciousness9296 2 года назад

    Loved this, and you just gave me something I needed. Be still so I can listen✨✨✨✨ TY💜💜💜

  • @KandyGTV
    @KandyGTV 3 года назад +4

    This is the first video I've watched on your channel and it was deep, entertaining, and funny. Definitely subscribing to get to know you beyond "van life" 👸🏾

  • @karenchatman1021
    @karenchatman1021 3 года назад

    Now THIS.. is the content that resonates with my soul.. Thank you for listening to Your Soul on guiding You in this beautiful way. DO YOU and Just Enjoy

  • @ten410
    @ten410 3 года назад

    You have this glow to you now of no worries or stress, just pure joy. Congrats on your many blessings and I'm happy for you having inner peace.

  • @GeoffreyMays
    @GeoffreyMays 3 года назад +1

    Dang Candyss , what an amazing elevation! Beautifully said. I saw some earlier videos a while back and found them fun and good spirited, but the depth and clarity you expressed here is truly inspiring 💖. Blessings

  • @travelbuffet
    @travelbuffet 3 года назад +2

    Thank you Candyss for bearing your soul. Don’t really want to say much, just know that this one video has help one sister tremendously. My foot almost slipped, they almost boxed me in. Thankful and proud of you.

  • @Shawn27ful
    @Shawn27ful 3 года назад +4

    I love how your skin just glows! It’s good to see you in such a beautiful space. Having peace within is such a beautiful blessing. I’m glad you’re doing well. Congratulations on your marriage❤️❤️

  • @melanied6777
    @melanied6777 3 года назад +16

    How does Cleo feel about all this?…..congrats on getting married, enjoy your life. I’m getting a Van one day also, but I’m keeping my house. Seven more months till I retire!!! I hope to learn from God, you and others how to live and be after working for over 30 years.

    • @CandyssLove
      @CandyssLove  3 года назад +6

      Cleo is living life lol we’re traveling in our van across the states now & she is fully of joy at the beach now lol but yea keeping your home is beautiful, I’m grateful for my home outside of my Van as well 🙏🏽☺️

  • @777LadyVenus
    @777LadyVenus 2 года назад

    So happy for you! Congratulations! You deserve all of your blessings! Much love and gratitude soul sister!

  • @neva.2764
    @neva.2764 3 года назад

    Beautiful soul! ☺️
    This is a very important video for people to see!
    Thank you for being real ♥️
    Just yesterday i watched a video from a vanlifer who was complaining about the crappy internet connection on the road and how it was necessary to stay put for 6 hours in order to upload a video to youtube.
    The contrast with you couldn't be bigger!

  • @staciestephenson1381
    @staciestephenson1381 3 года назад +1

    This is the reason I Subscribed!...The Authentic TRUTH I heard in this Video!!!

  • @nomorebsforme
    @nomorebsforme 3 года назад

    Congratulations girl! You look very happy and your hubby looks happy too! God bless you both....

  • @darian.explores
    @darian.explores 3 года назад +1

    A thought of food for thought here. You’re awesome. 🤍

  • @shawnjones9829
    @shawnjones9829 3 года назад +1

    Good to see you! The things that other Vanlifers post are relevant for others who are thinking about living the same way. I do understand your point. Your RUclips content should be about your interests. I fully understand about presenting your most authentic self, but people need to know that they can depend on you, that you are a woman of your word. Congratulations on all your accomplishments. Happy Belated Birthday!

  • @carolynmerritt7100
    @carolynmerritt7100 3 года назад

    Now this video feels more real to me. I had not tuned in for such a long, long, long time. You have to do YOU at all times. Your voice is now more full of all types of emotions and realness and not monitored and monotoned anymore. It raises and lowers just like me!!! There will always be ppl interested your type of realness because there a billions of people with all types of realness. Do you.

  • @kaylasrainbow
    @kaylasrainbow 2 года назад

    I’m very happy for you…Congratulations and continued blessings!

  • @Ricksdaughter
    @Ricksdaughter 3 года назад +1

    You did your shadow work. ❤️🦋🧿