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  • Опубликовано: 27 окт 2024

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  • @toyabonilla6797
    @toyabonilla6797 10 месяцев назад +26

    I think what is going on is you need iron, I'm a nurse and eating ice is a sign of being anemic. You feel like this because when your on your cycle you loose blood during this time which makes your energy low and you don't feel a sense of your normalcy. Just eat more iron enriched foods and get some iron supplements. You got this beautiful.

    • @queenofvlogs8461
      @queenofvlogs8461 10 месяцев назад +4

      Megafood blood builder is a great supplement for boosting iron also getting your vitamin d3 during this time of year.

    • @toyabonilla6797
      @toyabonilla6797 10 месяцев назад

      I agree 🥰@@queenofvlogs8461

    • @graceejewelztv9955
      @graceejewelztv9955 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@queenofvlogs8461......where can we get it.

  • @QueenRoni28
    @QueenRoni28 8 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you Candyss and Brick Citi for sharing your knowledge and advice with us. ☺️🙏🏽

  • @ashcash9462
    @ashcash9462 10 месяцев назад +9

    Alot of us are trained to change out of hurt instead of happiness. I'm learning now and training myself to change out of happiness instead of pain/hurt. ❤❤❤

  • @shesoundoff
    @shesoundoff 10 месяцев назад +3

    I swear I be feeling exactly like you Candyss.......I go into a downward spiral where I can not locate my medium....it will last a few days then it would follow with a burst of energy. So I started to sit in it and really allow those emotions without trying to understand rather than just be or exist in that moment. What I learned is it actually my portal opening for Spirit to allow things in that I would have not normally let in. But much Peace and balance to both of you for this episode because I really needed it.

  • @RandomthoughtswithKay
    @RandomthoughtswithKay 5 месяцев назад

    You two are amazing together! Peace and blessings to you and our Source and ancestors!❤

  • @aprilross5042
    @aprilross5042 10 месяцев назад +3

    Yet another beautiful, meaningful, insightful conversation you’ve shared with us. The transparency, the reflection, and introspection we even get to witness in real time (during filming) is a gift. Much love and respect to you both 🙏🏾🫶🏾

  • @scorpioenergy6121
    @scorpioenergy6121 10 месяцев назад +6

    ❤ Amen to wellness. Glad to hear you are healing, surrendering is a process. ❤ So glad both of you are good, I don't use Instagram. October London has been smooth listening ❤.

  • @joyb2840
    @joyb2840 10 месяцев назад +2

    The two of you are so oooooooo BEAUTIFUL. I love seeing such strong , supportive, conscious young people. ❤❤❤

  • @yvonnenick5374
    @yvonnenick5374 10 месяцев назад +1

    It’s a beautiful thing to see a young Couple go though such a great exchange of information. I look forward to the next. Take care. And yes I am sure you know ice is a sign of anemia

  • @daphnenicholson3355
    @daphnenicholson3355 9 месяцев назад

    🔥🔥🔥 This conversation is GOLD. I need to reexamine my relationship with food.

  • @theevolvingmindset333
    @theevolvingmindset333 10 месяцев назад +4

    Much respect for you two. This was such a calm and loving conversation. I feel the love and maturity from both of you through the screen and ear buds. 🤎🖤

  • @ShanasOasis
    @ShanasOasis 10 месяцев назад +3

    I just finished the podcast, and it was an extremely emotional experience for me because I can feel the pain you both are going through.
    I've craved deep conversations all my life, but I didn't realize it. What I knew is that I hated small talk. I'm a deep thinker, and I love well-thought-out, expressive conversations like these. People have told me for years that I'm too deep, so it's good to have people like y'all who get me, and vice versa.
    This was a beautiful conversation. Thanks for sharing. Know that all families are not the same, just like people are not the same. You are together forever, and you genuinely love and care for each other. Now it's time for y'all to create your own culture and traditions with your son. I suggest, since Christmas is important to Candys and she desires her family to be together, start in January 2024, booking flights and planning everything a year in advance to ease the burden on how and where y’all will spend Christmas with y’all son. In my opinion he is just and much as Candys son now as he is yours, Dox.
    Dox, you are an HSP like me, and I believe Candys is too. HSPs are always the black sheep of the family because typically, our deep level of thought processes and sensitivities is different from those who are not.
    To see Candys go from steadfastly not wanting to be married at all. She definitely did not want to even date a kids, to being married to a man with a child, to desiring to be a big part of your son’s life because of her love for you and your son, to wanting to be included and taking on the responsibilities of motherhood, is powerful. It truly shows the power of love.
    I believe that with time, Candys and Dox's son's bond will be stronger than Dox's relationship with his son because I know she likes to do more fun things than Dox.🤭 Plus she’s more creative. And lil boys love us gals. Who knows, Candys might even want a baby one day. We will see!
    Dox and Candys, create your own family traditions with your son and with like-minded people. That's what I did instead of focusing on the family traditions I was raised with. I created my own family traditions, doing things I wanted to do with my daughters, sister, and like-minded people.
    I had to realize that my family will never see things my way. They will never love me in a way that I can feel it. So, I stopped expecting things from them that I know they were not capable of giving me.
    Being an HSP (look it up) is tough when you don't know about that you possess this trait. Look into it. Get the book ‘The Highly Sensitive Person’ by Elaine N. Aron
    This is the link to take the free test to see if you are indeed and an HSP
    hsperson.com/test/highly-sensitive-test/

  • @TrevonGibson-zl5bs
    @TrevonGibson-zl5bs 8 месяцев назад

    Great video ,very informing & inspirational & thought it was gonna help me & someone else together but seems like it will help us apart first

  • @lynnteasley8806
    @lynnteasley8806 10 месяцев назад

    It's alright Empress!! Just go with the flow❤

  • @TreavorUnion
    @TreavorUnion 10 месяцев назад +1

    Burnout is real. There's a lot going on in the world plus we're trying to balance all the things going on in our personal world. It's a lot.
    Trying to balance and juggle got to me and I was overwhelmed. Two months ago I paused and took time for myself. It was rough at first to simply stop, but I'm at a point where internal systems are starting to function correctly.

  • @kenthecurlyboo
    @kenthecurlyboo 10 месяцев назад

    Aww ♎️ squad 🤞🏾 this video hit home i havent been feeling like myself either . desperately want to be balance trying to understand this energy because i know my energy which is usally bubbly,fun,ambitious,energetic. For me (personally)) totally off topic Right now im thinking spiritual warfare i just want to be on top again and energetic.trying to regain my power back..watching you guys podcast has motivated me to switch over to healthy eating

  • @Bambi_Rose
    @Bambi_Rose 10 месяцев назад

    Thank y’all for shining so brightly 🙏🏾✨

  • @zoeyandlisa
    @zoeyandlisa 10 месяцев назад +3

    The joy of the Lord is your strength.Nehemiah 8:10 You are 2 beautiful people.I love you both but God loves you more.

    • @emily3333
      @emily3333 10 месяцев назад

      Amen sis❤

  • @jamekaterri5446
    @jamekaterri5446 10 месяцев назад +1

    I absolutely loved this.
    I learned so much.
    && I had so many confirmations.
    But I’m going to wait on spirit for execution ❤✨

  • @Mampleasewhat
    @Mampleasewhat 10 месяцев назад

    Thank you I been wanting to fruit fast for so long…. This vid is confirmation. It’s random because I not been looking for healthy eating videos.

  • @DisneyHalll
    @DisneyHalll 10 месяцев назад +3

    I'm 15 minutes in and I just want to say Candyss, I've been feeling just like this. I think it's an air sign thing. stand strong sis. now let me continue the video lol

  • @aday4718
    @aday4718 10 месяцев назад +4

    First let me start by saying I thorough enjoy how transparent both of you are. When I was eating ice lab results showed that I was anemic and lacking in miniscule essential minerals. Have you had blood work done lately?

  • @WorldWideDarkskingur2031
    @WorldWideDarkskingur2031 10 месяцев назад +1

    what is the relationship you have with the son? Thats always important for a blended family. how the biological mother feels and does she share that with your son. I like how y'all vlogged your growth with each other. Sometimes feelings still exist that was never resolved or never. all of you seem spiritual in tuned. I wish y'all well with further growth as a family..✌️

  • @theevolvingmindset333
    @theevolvingmindset333 10 месяцев назад

    1:14:23 - I feel that Team energy from you two. In many ways, you remind me of my husband and I and also, in many ways, you're opposite.

  • @dwalker6868
    @dwalker6868 10 месяцев назад

    Heartfelt thank you

  • @jadachanelle3295
    @jadachanelle3295 3 месяца назад

    1:10:18 where is this video? i’m searching but can’t find!!! must watch!!

  • @impressiveresultsbyjess8331
    @impressiveresultsbyjess8331 10 месяцев назад

    Good topic 💙

  • @vashtidances
    @vashtidances 10 месяцев назад +3

    Hey my sister, please, if you haven’t already, get some lab work done. Ice crunchers tend to be anemic.
    Or your Vit B Vit D… etc

  • @lildebWorld
    @lildebWorld 10 месяцев назад

    The fast could have depleted you as well.. just from experience. I did a fast and it depleted me and I didnt have nutrients that where being absorbed.

    • @OVOxoLoveAngel
      @OVOxoLoveAngel 10 месяцев назад

      This means that you have an absorption issue. Probably look into parasite cleansing, then do a fast

  • @WorldWideDarkskingur2031
    @WorldWideDarkskingur2031 10 месяцев назад

    did you ever consider being a mother or even stepmother ? 😌 now that you married ?

  • @lildebWorld
    @lildebWorld 10 месяцев назад

    Sounds like SAD .. its the season for that .. lack of Vitamin D and low iron can cause that.

  • @justinaragland3025
    @justinaragland3025 10 месяцев назад +1

    I KNOW WHY YOU ARE SUPER LOW!😮‍💨😪😔🤔

  • @ABc-nu6jb
    @ABc-nu6jb 10 месяцев назад +2

    What’s the purpose of being topless 🤨

    • @fannie96562194
      @fannie96562194 10 месяцев назад +5

      Being free to do what you want is the only purpose you need ❤❤

    • @scorpioenergy6121
      @scorpioenergy6121 10 месяцев назад

      First human body is beautiful, why harness something God given, let your lust devil go, try buying a bra for her cup. Lust puppies ##. 🤣🤣

    • @doxdiggla8726
      @doxdiggla8726 10 месяцев назад

      @@fannie96562194Preciate you saying it for me 😂

    • @ABc-nu6jb
      @ABc-nu6jb 10 месяцев назад

      @@fannie96562194 for you? Interesting

    • @awesomeniecy9242
      @awesomeniecy9242 10 месяцев назад +3

      Try and focus on the message, it's so on point 🥰

  • @sheilabell9123
    @sheilabell9123 10 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you guys good topic I like watching and listening to all your channels. I wish the best for you always OWN your space your privacy 🫶🏾