Alpha vs. Beta Men Debate

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  • Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024
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Комментарии • 7 тыс.

  • @showtime1235
    @showtime1235 Год назад +14380

    calling yourself an alpha is normal cringe…. but openly calling yourself a beta is wild

    • @turkwendell6904
      @turkwendell6904 Год назад +253

      Saying normal cringe is beta. What's next, totes cray? It's basically if John Wayne said it you're good.

    • @aso3892
      @aso3892 Год назад +657

      @@turkwendell6904 u are so brave and stunning, I'm sure no one understands you

    • @turkwendell6904
      @turkwendell6904 Год назад +86

      @@aso3892 Thanks bro, good stuff and I appreciate that. And to think I was expecting some whiny passive-aggressive beta response.

    • @StoneAgeWarfare
      @StoneAgeWarfare Год назад +6

      Not even joking but i actually do this.

    • @turkwendell6904
      @turkwendell6904 Год назад +30

      @Ass Clapper I totally agree and it's no problem at all. Feel free to erase that reply and write a new one. I'll obviously pretend you didn't just respond with "cringe reply". So yeah, free do-over no worries and good luck, you got this!

  • @barteh2
    @barteh2 Год назад +1144

    We have this saying in Poland: "Smart and strong men should be the head of the family. Smart and strong women is the neck which is moving the head in the right direction."

    • @Karolina-in9rp
      @Karolina-in9rp Год назад +93

      From Poland and I second that. You can't have a strong household without either

    • @SiriusSphynx
      @SiriusSphynx Год назад +12

      "Which", unless you intentionally meant a magical nature worshiping neck, 🤔

    • @barteh2
      @barteh2 Год назад +24

      @@SiriusSphynx 2'nd language XD

    • @barteh2
      @barteh2 Год назад +9

      ​@@SiriusSphynx corrected dear sir.

    • @alfredocornelio4329
      @alfredocornelio4329 Год назад

      So basically what the Bible says. Not surprising since Poland is a Catholic nation

  • @boredomoverload8236
    @boredomoverload8236 Год назад +2688

    A quick rant:
    How can you possibly be an alpha male if you don’t even have enough discipline not to cheat on your wife lol

    • @ellahirmas3615
      @ellahirmas3615 11 месяцев назад +84

      Very true

    • @Ziiphyr
      @Ziiphyr 11 месяцев назад +64

      That is a very great observation

    • @HollowWhite
      @HollowWhite 11 месяцев назад +71

      Most succesful men in history all had more than one woman. Specifically the men looked up to sometimes had dozens of women to be precise. I get your view point if you look at it in a western, potentially religious viewpoint, but other than that historically great men had lota of women. I personally wouldn't wanna live like that, but if someone does why not?

    • @boredomoverload8236
      @boredomoverload8236 11 месяцев назад +124

      @@HollowWhite so what?
      It’s not even a western view point,
      All countries that have a society,
      Either western,eastern,middle eastern believe in monogamy,
      The historically great men weren’t perfect,
      Genghis khan,an invader,a murderer and an owner of millions of slaves.
      If you’re gonna use historically Great men to point to how they live their lives,
      Why only take the part where they had a lot of women?
      Kim jung un,has a harem of women,would you call him a man to take inspiration from?
      Also we live in a different time,where stds are rampant,
      You being a man doesn’t protect you from STDs.
      It definitely didn’t protect genghis khan from getting syphillis.
      Obviously if you’re a successful man you will get a lot of women I’m not denying that,but that doesn’t make it right,
      Infact I’d say hook up culture is ruining our society.
      If a man chooses to live like this,it’s his choice,but at the end of the day,having meaningless sex won’t make u happy.

    • @HollowWhite
      @HollowWhite 11 месяцев назад +23

      @@boredomoverload8236 That's simply not true. Most tribes don't have monogamy, middle east doesn't believe in monogamy, the SECOND LARGEST religion on earth doesn't even believe in monogamy. In Islam you can have multiple women. Obviously were the historically great men not perfect and no one said so, what I did say is that the most successful men in human history did never ever settle for just one woman. Whether that is ethically or morally correct, whether it makes sense or not, whatever. Point is, and you can't deny it, women want only the best, and many women would rather share the best than settle for less, that's the reason why successful men can have multiple women, even openly. Look at the Tate brothers, Tristan has a wife and 16 girlfriends, and they all eat on one table. Does hookup culture ruin society? Yes. Do I disagree with this concept? Yes. Can you stop women from floking to rich, good looking men? No. Can you stop men from being animals that love sex? No. I simply wanted to point out that for the majority of human history successful men had many women and that this is a reality that will never change, whether we like it or not.

  • @alicat2083
    @alicat2083 11 месяцев назад +740

    “For a woman to want to be submissive, the man needs to be worthy of that submissive” GIRL YOU SAID IT HERE FIRST, WE NEED TO BE SHOUTING THIS FROM THE ROOFTOPS! I’m 100% for submissive woman toward men who are WORTHY

    • @spiritconsumer
      @spiritconsumer 10 месяцев назад

      Women over 80% of the time start divorces. So, women choose men to get married to, and then change their mind later on. There is no "FINDING A MAN WORTHY" because your mind will change anyway, statistically, over 80% of the time.

    • @sobeliever1638
      @sobeliever1638 10 месяцев назад +33

      What the Bible says as well except people only read the first part.....

    • @nekk-ra7080
      @nekk-ra7080 10 месяцев назад +28

      They think submissive means subservient, not surrender. If you're a man who has his shit together and makes good decisions for yourself, I'll be more confident in your ability to make good decisions to benefit us both.

    • @johnhazlett3711
      @johnhazlett3711 10 месяцев назад +14

      The problem with that is,,,,,,,,, most men are not 6' tall, 6 figure income, 6 packs, or mega handsome. 80% of women are chasing after less than 20% of men. So these men don't have to commit to take care of their urges. I grew up in the 60s and 70s, these men were called Don Juan's, today's Chads and Tyrones. Hypergamy is a real problem. I'm 5'8", and had been friendzoned numerous times. I married a 4'9" country girl who wasn't a spoiled brats like too many modern women.

    • @RadRat1978
      @RadRat1978 9 месяцев назад +8

      It means submission of the heart. When a woman is always a LADY a man feels ashamed not to honor her. There is no prerequisite to being a real man or being a lady; you either are one or you're not

  • @lagermat
    @lagermat Год назад +1354

    Calling yourself an Alpha doesn't make you one, but being a masculine gentleman does.

    • @Biruk006
      @Biruk006 Год назад

      All the ones that called themselves “Alpha” are masculine tho, and being a “gentleman” in todays society just doesn’t work tbh

    • @goldstein10493
      @goldstein10493 Год назад

      It takes genetics to be masculine. Masculine people didn't work for it. That's why many of us just give up trying to be masculine because it's basically physical and genetics and there's nothing we can do about it.

    • @donjuandinero
      @donjuandinero Год назад +6

      Hell yeah. Well said🎉

    • @universalsubliminals1174
      @universalsubliminals1174 Год назад +7

      agreed!

    • @nataliahdavidov2166
      @nataliahdavidov2166 Год назад +5

      Amen brother

  • @materink2700
    @materink2700 Год назад +818

    In my experience as a man, being promiscuous has done nothing for me. It’s definitely hard to fight those urges. So, I always ask myself, how does sex with multiple women benefit anything besides ego? Not a frinkin at all.

    • @charlesfinnegan7930
      @charlesfinnegan7930 Год назад

      propagation of society. Less than half the males have bred but nearly 90 percent of females have.

    • @Lightitupp1
      @Lightitupp1 Год назад +30

      Its more of pleasure reason.

    • @thebluefus
      @thebluefus Год назад

      You can’t control your animal urges despite risk of impregnating girl, sexual diseases, violent drama it can cause etc. It might be lack of intelligence also. Not personally you but as much as we talk about having lots of sex in college people that don’t go to college have a higher number of partners. Dumb people have more sex and sadly are the ones multiplying

    • @Hero-yu4om
      @Hero-yu4om Год назад +16

      Sex with multiple benefits the same as sex with one....just multiple times :/
      Men with multiple women have also been proven to have increased productivity compared to being single or being with only one

    • @desireoxurus4208
      @desireoxurus4208 Год назад +29

      Now you sound like a alpha male someone who has self control. Thank you for validating my point of view, a alpha male is someone in my POV that can provide safety, security physically, emotionally and financially sometimes as things happen in life that can cause the man not to be able to provide financially it doesn't detract from his manhood.

  • @TheCornDavis
    @TheCornDavis Год назад +765

    You can't ask for a classic/traditional marriage or a classic/traditional wife if you aren't a classic/traditional man and you aren't ready to step up 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @purplebastard7922
      @purplebastard7922 Год назад

      But even if you are a traditional man, there are no traditional women, so you, as a woman, unless you are a unicorn, have no right or deserve traditional men so the point you thought you had is shit

    • @TheCornDavis
      @TheCornDavis Год назад +15

      @@john24110 so true! I think we all just need to step up man

    • @TheCornDavis
      @TheCornDavis Год назад +7

      @@john24110 "Life is as hard as people make it" I love that!

    • @AsAWhiteManMarriedToALatina
      @AsAWhiteManMarriedToALatina Год назад

      ​@@john24110yes, exactly. Men are more promiscuous than women on *average* but counting only married people, men are more faithful I believe. When a man commits, he commits.

    • @simoneprek5156
      @simoneprek5156 Год назад +24

      I agree and in the same way a woman can not ask to be treated in the traditional lady like manner when they are not willing to act ladylike or show the man respect.

  • @skyraider1656
    @skyraider1656 9 месяцев назад +79

    My late wife was very feminine yet at the same time underneath she was a strong woman. She loved me dearly and was always there for me. She stayed home raising our children and also explored her interests when possible. After 16 years she was able to return to work part time until such time as she could work full time. Unfortunately she passed away 14 years ago, I miss her dearly. A woman like her doesn’t come into your life everyday.

    • @atrixplayz2825
      @atrixplayz2825 5 месяцев назад +4

      I pray that one day I meet a woman like your wife🙏🏼 God Bless you

    • @christianrowbotham7386
      @christianrowbotham7386 4 месяца назад +1

      My condolences bro. I do like what you're saying but there is a misconception that submissive women cant be strong

    • @MaryKateWatchorn
      @MaryKateWatchorn 2 месяца назад +1

      so sorry for your loss 🙏

    • @freeindeed8416
      @freeindeed8416 2 месяца назад

      🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @freeindeed8416
      @freeindeed8416 2 месяца назад

      @@atrixplayz2825I hope you do as well. I also hope you are the right man for her

  • @lankymcallister7402
    @lankymcallister7402 Год назад +826

    An open civil discussion with mutual respect. A freakin breath of fresh air.

    • @nunyabidness1761
      @nunyabidness1761 Год назад +55

      Agreed! When they put a panel of women together debating these types of issues they are be in complete meltdowns.

    • @lankymcallister7402
      @lankymcallister7402 Год назад +33

      @@nunyabidness1761 I was thinking that but didn’t want to say it. Figured I’d be called a sexist. 😂

    • @Trb9524-mn3qe
      @Trb9524-mn3qe Год назад +9

      Holy shit fax thank god there aren’t any Karen’s on here

    • @redpilljesus
      @redpilljesus Год назад +8

      Even half and half guys and women means catty behavior. Dudes have an inherent understanding that danger lies behind offending someone.

    • @Jayanason
      @Jayanason Год назад +4

      @@lankymcallister7402 hey I’m a woman and I agree with this. I’m not sexist. I know men can blow up at each other too. It’s about mutual respect. Women seem to be more catty and want their opinions above others even if they agree. This was a good group of people

  • @dylanlyon
    @dylanlyon Год назад +736

    I’ve been reading Marcus Aurelius Meditations & it’s clear that classic masculinity (alpha) is about a man’s ability to overcome his animalistic nature, his passions, and adhere to a higher moral order. Just because it’s “natural” doesn’t mean it’s good.

    • @elfixa
      @elfixa Год назад +25

      This x 1000

    • @katrinaisalwayscorrect
      @katrinaisalwayscorrect Год назад +25

      This is a very Jordan peterson comment 😊

    • @JackieOwl94
      @JackieOwl94 Год назад

      Yes. A good example is that cyanide is natural, but it doesn’t mean it is good for us.
      Though, I’ve heard of people eating peach pits because they falsely believed it had a special vitamin in it….If you believe that, you’re just poisoning yourself with cyanide.

    • @charzard1000
      @charzard1000 Год назад

      Yes exactly. The Bible got this right over 2,000 years ago and it’s still true today. If you going around sleeping with multiple men or women, you’re a slave to lust.

    • @glen3133
      @glen3133 Год назад +7

      I get your stance. Been with stoicism, but since moved on to another philosophical standpoint personally.
      Regardless, as men, it is up to us to dominate our own nature, because that is true masculinity. Doesn't matter what philosophy one believes in.
      The perfect example i can think of is the manga series Baki the grappler. You get both sides of the coin with Baki and Yujiro, and where both paths lead a man.

  • @davisza
    @davisza Год назад +222

    what all of these guys are missing is that in a traditional male+female relationship they are both submitting to each other in different ways. They both give sacrifices for their commitment and that's what makes an honorable man and woman. If there is an imbalance (hence they guy who sleeps around while married to his wife) then the relationship falls apart in almost all cases. Thats why I cringe while watching polygamists say its natural when their family is literally on fire.

    • @thelegend3965
      @thelegend3965 Год назад +2

      I mean, if the women is ok with it, then there is no problem. If a women is going to seek a High Value Man, then she has to be prepared for the High Value attachments that come with that, which is the man sleeping with multiple women.

    • @Person-1812
      @Person-1812 Год назад +34

      @@thelegend3965 yeah but even if the both are ok with it, its not good for either party, or the children

    • @VelkanAngels
      @VelkanAngels Год назад +18

      @@thelegend3965 - There was that cannibal who put up an advert on Craigslist, wanting to eat another person and another person answered it, wanting to be eaten. It was consensual but does that mean "there is no problem"? Is a society where humans kill and eat each other better or worse, than a society where no one does? It doesn't sound like you even believe in the concept of morality at all but judge purely on consent vs. non-consent as opposed to positive results and improvement vs. negative results and degradation.

    • @thelegend3965
      @thelegend3965 Год назад

      @@Person-1812 please elaborate. The man’s happy, the women is provided for, and it’s not as if you’re gonna tell you kids about your sex life, so I really don’t see a problem.

    • @thelegend3965
      @thelegend3965 Год назад

      @@VelkanAngels ok, you can’t compare a man having sex with multiple women to cannibalism, you’re comparing apples and oranges. Second, please tell me the issues and problems it would cause. The man is happy, and the women is provided for. No matter how many girls he fucks, she’ll always know that she is the main women, so please tell me what problems it would cause.

  • @LairdErnst
    @LairdErnst 10 месяцев назад +361

    “A woman can still be a badass and be submissive.”
    Agreed. I married her.

    • @UkeShrum
      @UkeShrum 8 месяцев назад +15

      “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.”2

    • @tony4534
      @tony4534 8 месяцев назад +1

      You married a weak one. Do better.

    • @SS-Bismarck
      @SS-Bismarck 8 месяцев назад +18

      ​@@UkeShrum Jesus is lord my man, but not the perfect place to preach

    • @TheBoredOtter
      @TheBoredOtter 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@UkeShrumjust… 2?

    • @j.m.f.g.450
      @j.m.f.g.450 7 месяцев назад +1

      Yeah , thats having a grown up woman as a wife. As for us is enough to be just a Man.

  • @valdezd625
    @valdezd625 Год назад +366

    Oh. My. God. That moment when she said "it's the balance of nature" and that look on her face when she looked at the camera KILLED me 🤣🤣🤣

    • @itslukechen
      @itslukechen Год назад +24

      she's so smooth with the transition!

    • @PH-mf9cg
      @PH-mf9cg Год назад +8

      Right LOL I knew the ad was coming 😅

    • @jsbaltimore3405
      @jsbaltimore3405 Год назад +5

      Same 😂 That was perfect 😂

    • @justaguy6613
      @justaguy6613 Год назад

      She's as smooth with her ad transitions as these alpha bros dream to be with women.

    • @joyjoystar9033
      @joyjoystar9033 Год назад

      @@itslukechen and it was very smooth coming back from the ad

  • @techienate
    @techienate Год назад +434

    If a guy is calling himself "alpha..." he's probably a cringe narcissist. If he's calling himself a "beta..." that's just insane.

    • @J0nnygoeswild
      @J0nnygoeswild Год назад +7

      For reals if u gotta call yourself that then probably your now but I wonder All these alphas foos can descale and gut a fish

    • @spacedorito9592
      @spacedorito9592 Год назад +1

      @@J0nnygoeswildI bet they can’t crack an egg with one hand WITHOUT having a piece of egg shell in the pan

    • @michaelortiz1561
      @michaelortiz1561 Год назад

      The entire red pill community has fallen into a trap of narcissistic hedonism just because men can have SLIGHTLY higher body counts then women and be relatively ok psychologically doesn't mean it's cool to have a wife at home and a different hole waiting for you in every city especially if the only reason yoy feel you are entitled to that is cause u make alot of money that's just foolishness and a potential risk to your resources cause eventually one or more of those holes will produce your children and then take you to court for child support

    • @Shadow.in.History
      @Shadow.in.History Год назад +1

      @@spacedorito9592 why would a man be in the kitchen preparing his own meals though

    • @bigboicreme
      @bigboicreme Год назад +1

      ​@@J0nnygoeswildjustin waller is a pretty boy country boy

  • @hunteraitor2107
    @hunteraitor2107 Год назад +905

    Ladies, get you a man who admits when he's wrong and holds you accountable when you're wrong.
    Edit: Fellas, I'm talking to women💪, not women☕
    There's a difference

    • @lydia2366
      @lydia2366 Год назад +19

      Amen 👏

    • @Steve-up4jq
      @Steve-up4jq Год назад +45

      "bUt wE aRE waMeN, wE alwaYs rIgHt"

    • @herrwahnsinn4229
      @herrwahnsinn4229 Год назад +23

      Yeah right as if women will be accountable what planet are you on?

    • @hunteraitor2107
      @hunteraitor2107 Год назад +1

      @@herrwahnsinn4229 Foolish child. Not all women are women☕
      You seem to have forgotten about women💪

    • @fallenfalcon6652
      @fallenfalcon6652 Год назад

      Women are allergic to accountability

  • @lovelylipbonesouwwwwwwwolv2198
    @lovelylipbonesouwwwwwwwolv2198 10 месяцев назад +183

    One thing I will NEVER understand in these "alpha males" is the body count. How am I supposed to find a man going inside dozen of women before me attractive?🙄🤢

    • @srijanshiwangii4913
      @srijanshiwangii4913 8 месяцев назад +6

      True

    • @aarnavghosh2260
      @aarnavghosh2260 8 месяцев назад +7

      Guys earn their body count by being that much more valuable.
      High body count in men and women denote completely different meanings.
      Since more than 13 women were willing to sleep with me that means that many women liked me enough to want to do that with me.
      That means I'm that much more valuable because so many women are willing to give me something that is so precious to them.
      That is why the higher the body count of a man the more his value is.
      I know this might still go over your head but hey I tried to explain it to you. Hopefully it helps.

    • @lovelylipbonesouwwwwwwwolv2198
      @lovelylipbonesouwwwwwwwolv2198 8 месяцев назад +24

      @@aarnavghosh2260 So what you are saying is a man takes a women's value? Because if a male has a body count of 101 and the names of all the women were shown people would be grossed out...

    • @aarnavghosh2260
      @aarnavghosh2260 8 месяцев назад

      @@lovelylipbonesouwwwwwwwolv2198 I mean you can see it like that but I'm just telling you why guys who banged a lot of girls throughout the history of the human race were always high value men and leaders and kings so on and so forth.
      Thats all.
      You have the right to believe it's gross.
      I just wanted to inform you of a different perspective.

    • @athinam.4593
      @athinam.4593 8 месяцев назад

      It's a man's given right to be able to date multiple young and hot women. Eventually you have to accept it.

  • @JimmyCapricorn77
    @JimmyCapricorn77 Год назад +110

    So sleeping around with tons of women makes you an alpha male? I think being an alpha male is a man who is strong and takes care of his family. One who can suppress your urges, stand up for what you believe in with confidence and overcome hard things in life makes you an alpha.

    • @mrtrollnator123
      @mrtrollnator123 Год назад +4

      True

    • @Gabriel-mr5gf
      @Gabriel-mr5gf Год назад +1

      The alpha male mates with all the females the beta males don't

    • @JimmyCapricorn77
      @JimmyCapricorn77 Год назад +15

      @@Gabriel-mr5gf I’ve heard the saying alpha’s breed betas feed. That’s a reference to the animal kingdom but as humans we’re more sophisticated than that. Sleeping around doesn’t make someone an alpha. I know plenty of weak betas who sleep around with tons of women make babies then leave them. My cousin is like that but when confronted by other guys he’s a chicken shit and won’t fight or speak up when he needs to because he’s a coward. My grandpa is a good example of an alpha, he was physically and mentally strong. His voice commanded respect and he was always a leader at everything he did. He was a strong family leader, he didn’t mess around on my grandma and instilled structure into the family. He wasn’t a man whore either. He always strived to make sure his family was taken care of and if anyone would try anything with us he’d put someone in their place. He was never afraid to speak up about something that everyone else was worried to speak up about and everyone wanted to be his friend. He’d call out deadbeat dads and liars to their faces. People respected him because of his overall presence and how he was. I grew up seeing my grandpa as someone to look up to and a role model for what a man should be.

    • @mrtrollnator123
      @mrtrollnator123 Год назад +1

      @@JimmyCapricorn77 facts

    • @JimmyCapricorn77
      @JimmyCapricorn77 Год назад +1

      @@malaika777 thanks and yes, it’s what all men should strive to be like. Social media has distorted what a true alpha male is and portrays them as confident jerks who just sleep around and never commit to a woman. An alpha male is a leader and strives to be the best at all aspects in life to include being a leader of his family. An alpha is the better man because he’s strong enough to not cheat on his wife and also not let anyone disrespect his wife or mess with his kids. Not everyone guy is an alpha male though. No matter how hard they try they can’t be one because it’s just who they are not. Beta males aren’t all terrible either. They are the gentler caring ones and can still be good husbands and fathers. There’s more betas than alphas out there but it’s always good to try to be closer to being an alpha as a way to model yourself as.

  • @razielvingrimm
    @razielvingrimm Год назад +631

    I had a friend claim to be an alpha because he slept with loads of woman. Called me a beta for being married. I called him an alpha Dog. Humping everything that gave him a treat and a scratch on the belly. I said Im more the Alpha Wolf. I chose my Wife and will be with her till her I am no more.
    Beyond that id never call myself an alpha. Its a bit cringe. We laughed. Called each other names. Still best friends.

    • @AISHA-si5by
      @AISHA-si5by Год назад +26

      Hahaha I love this 😂❤

    • @Hairynibba777
      @Hairynibba777 Год назад +19

      Nothing wrong with both of you guys as long as yall are satisfied and happy then congrats yall made it.

    • @RegionalRadioShackManager
      @RegionalRadioShackManager Год назад +5

      Both of y’all are friends so both of you are beta. Cope

    • @Radical_Larry
      @Radical_Larry Год назад +21

      ​@@RegionalRadioShackManagerbeing lonely is true alpha 💪💪💪💪💪💪💪💪😔

    • @Nrt2Pnt0
      @Nrt2Pnt0 Год назад +17

      Sleeping with lots of women takes considerable effort. While a woman can sleep with lots of men at the snap of a finger. These two feats are not the same.
      While YOU may look down on your friend, the myriad of women who slept with him looked UP to him to some degree in order to sleep with him in the first place.
      You're judging him, a man, with the same barometer that a woman is judged by. "Sleeping around is trashy", and that's where you're wrong. For a woman, it's trashy. Because it's easy. For a man to accomplish that, he HAD to have been doing SOMETHING right to get those results. Or am I being unreasonable in my assertion?

  • @MP-nz2ub
    @MP-nz2ub Год назад +997

    If you call yourself alpha your cringe if you call yourself beta you're cringe

    • @memymomalex
      @memymomalex Год назад +60

      Where are the normal guys that are neither lol

    • @whiskeymikie
      @whiskeymikie Год назад +84

      Alpha is cringe beta is kind of sad

    • @dutchdykefinger
      @dutchdykefinger Год назад

      if you don't give a fuck, chances are you're pretty alpha lol

    • @Madrid199
      @Madrid199 Год назад +11

      What about chads and soyboys,all this is a switch in terminology

    • @ericvulgate
      @ericvulgate Год назад +6

      Not my cringe. I don't even have a cringe.

  • @Krydolph
    @Krydolph 9 месяцев назад +9

    The "beta" that talked the most is clearly the biggest Alpha of them all.
    He is so secure in his masculinity he doesn't care for a second he is presented as a beta.
    He takes charge, he rests in his self, natural leader.
    You could very much argue he is peacocking too, because he is certainly not "average" in his looks. But someone like blue suit guy, he dresses for the part. he wants to be seen as an Alpha, he tries to be an alpha, it is his goal to be an alpha.
    The true Alpha, just is without building everything in their personality up around trying to be it.

  • @OTO2380
    @OTO2380 Год назад +1045

    I love how Brett brings reality right in the middle. Where everybody is seen fairly and realistically

    • @sorryfull1x344
      @sorryfull1x344 Год назад +2

      NAHHH THAT CREATURE IS JUST A BETA DAWGGG😂😂😂

    • @TheGoatLocker
      @TheGoatLocker Год назад +4

      yeah this group conversation was embarrassing fr.

    • @stormjett2608
      @stormjett2608 Год назад +1

      Thats called Sigma, my friend. Welcome to having morale, brains, not giving a shit about Alpha values, and cringing at Betas.

    • @alanmoreno2482
      @alanmoreno2482 4 месяца назад

      She isn’t Saying anything Profound, Everything she Is Saying is Based on her Feelings.

  • @Challenger0428
    @Challenger0428 Год назад +283

    If this segment showed anything, I think that “submissive” needs to be more carefully defined. Brett nailed it when she said that it’s not meant to be a demeaning term. That should be understood before people debate it’s place in relationships.

    • @____________________519
      @____________________519 Год назад +13

      it's a nice sentiment, but the common definition that submission == weakness isn't going anywhere.
      The red pill/alpha men intuit this in both directions, by saying that they want their woman to submit to them, as well as by saying that a woman can't respect a submissive man. The woman is weaker, and thus less capable of taking care of herself, and the man is able to take care of her best when she does what he wants.
      Women don't like to admit that the first kind of submission is a form of weakness, because most of them very much want to experience this treatment from someone who dominates them well. Women almost universally generally agree with the Alpha assessment of submissive men being weak, which Brett basically did this as well.
      From this, it's clear that only women are allowed to be submissive without being demeaned, and probably only in the context of being trad wives. For everyone else, the word means what it means, and that meaning isn't positive.

    • @TaylorAmelia
      @TaylorAmelia Год назад +6

      Thank you! Some people have it twisted that submissive means you’re abused.

    • @1MicrosoftCPU
      @1MicrosoftCPU Год назад

      Stop fucking around and watch FRESH & FIT

    • @roserevancroix2308
      @roserevancroix2308 Год назад

      Submissive is a female term, and it should not be used in any male setting - for men in means you're a b***h.
      So if that is what you are as a man you are a simp - beta, and that is what the western women prefer to partner up with.

    • @NKylevitt
      @NKylevitt Год назад

      What does being submissive mean to you?

  • @johnstewart2473
    @johnstewart2473 Год назад +337

    These people don't understand that you can be an alpha male without sleeping around. It takes more discipline to stay with one woman. That is more of an alpha male.

    • @half.breed83
      @half.breed83 Год назад +27

      Exactly my husband an alpha male been together 13 yrs he never stepped out on me we are best friends also and are completely comfortable with one another mentally physically and sexually

    • @solacenmute4840
      @solacenmute4840 Год назад

      So many of you thinks discipline only means to not do something which is pure ignorance being with 1 woman is way easier than building to a point to have as many women as you want it's not even in the same stratosphere. Apart of being alpha is to choose to live whatever life you want to live even if you decide you want lots of women or just 1 woman

    • @junkiedropouts3186
      @junkiedropouts3186 Год назад

      It's always OF/porn addicts and narcistic metrosexuals, who also need to tell everyone how successful with women they are. More like alpha females.

    • @Baselbarf8787
      @Baselbarf8787 Год назад +4

      Its not about discipline, its about having the fruits of your labour, i hope that saying was right, english is my 3rd language lol but basically its not about discipline, its something You have earned.
      Women find 80% of men unattractive, this leaves like 90+% of women wanting 10-20% of men.
      Imagine now if all those men had ”discipline” we would have even MORE single women who have no man, not even casually, thats horrible.
      I believe biologically this is how we are created, put 10 men and 100 women on an island and all 100 women Will be mothers, put 10 women and 100 men, we will only have 10 mothers.
      Men are created to work hard and spread their seed to multiple women.
      Thats why its funny how some men (which we call simps) Pride themselves by saying i stay with my one woman, because they are betraying their biology or they cannot get multiple and have the women actually stay and accept it because their value is too low/

    • @ryugujiken6936
      @ryugujiken6936 Год назад +1

      It really does, especially now.

  • @golandriveby
    @golandriveby 10 месяцев назад +43

    the beginning saved me. thanks brett for pointing it out. Some man simply dont know how a suit should fit and how to wear it.
    At least he didn‘t close both buttons

    • @golandriveby
      @golandriveby 10 месяцев назад +3

      nevermind the suit only has one button. He otherwise probably would‘ve failed that button thing too.

    • @elijahkiefer2330
      @elijahkiefer2330 8 месяцев назад +1

      Alpha's never know how to dress themselves properly

    • @nb6792
      @nb6792 8 месяцев назад

      FR. I thought I was the only one who thought all those suits looked too tight and was turned off by those so-called "alphas". First off, alpha male exudes masculinity without being overtly masculine. They don't belittle women either.

    • @NathanXYX.
      @NathanXYX. 7 месяцев назад

      @@golandriveby but I like the button open ngl

    • @paige8453
      @paige8453 7 месяцев назад

      I saw a video before about getting a proper suit and the manners that come with having one and it said that when you sit down you need to unbutton the suit. So, it's not that it doesn't fir or anything. He is just wearing it the proper way.

  • @konradwright7725
    @konradwright7725 Год назад +307

    Gotta throw their language back at them:
    “Be capable of harm, temper yourself to be gentle”
    “Be capable of attracting, temper yourself to be faithful”
    A boy who gives into his sexual urges, is no different than a boy who plays video games in excess. If you give into your urges. What separates you from an animal acting on instinct.

    • @SiriusSphynx
      @SiriusSphynx Год назад

      I work full time, single father who is raising 3 kids that prefer my home over their mothers, I'm a tradesman, a foreman, and run work raising bridges, hospitals, and schools. Every day I suffer through cold, heat, sun, hot slag, cuts, bruses, burns, and cramps. I promise you, I wake up with a dick harder than your job. And I LOVE to play video games on my free time because I earned it. Gaming is no worse a waste of time than watching sports, playing on your phone, or watching youtube, etc. I highly doubt that anyone, even you, is not guilty of one of those pleasures. So don't say ignorant crap if you want to be taken seriously little one.

    • @samuelc.9686
      @samuelc.9686 Год назад +32

      Except, men have to actually work hard to attract women. Did you forget that? Unlike playing video games, you have to work extremely hard to get the attention of one women, much less multiple. Usually (note I said usually) the men sleeping with multiple women had to work for it, they're usually rich millionaires who invested time into their appearance and business, so they earned it. And here's the shocker, I don't even believe sleeping with multiple women is good, I believe you should have one partner, get married, and be faithful. But just because I disagree with them doesn't mean I don't understand them. I believe their mentality is, "I worked so hard to get rich, stay in shape, and look good, let me have my reward." And their reward would be multiple women.

    • @kflo2059
      @kflo2059 Год назад +9

      @@samuelc.9686 unless you get wealthy AFTER committing to one woman, then you go cheat on her bc you still feel entitled. This scenario also happens often. Some men do reach that status bc they have the help of a faithful, dedicated woman, but then find out their man is lying about his commitment.

    • @samuelc.9686
      @samuelc.9686 Год назад +14

      @@kflo2059 That's totally irrelevant to what I was saying. I'm not talking about being with one woman telling her you'll be faithful but you wont. I'm talking about being with multiple women and all of them knowing...

    • @ccalfee03
      @ccalfee03 Год назад +16

      We are animals. We do act on instinct. Most people have dulled their instincts to the point they could never survive without every modern convenience available to them. But humans are still part of the animal kingdom.

  • @Williamthe4th
    @Williamthe4th Год назад +138

    As a man... who is married to one woman...
    My wife and I are a team. I get her opinion on different matters. We take care of each other. I can be vulnerable with her. She has been there for me at my lowest points, and she gives me the strength to get up and work my @$$ off to provide for her. She is my peace after dealing with all the sh*t I gotta deal with on a daily basis.
    And I most certainly will never sleep around with other women who are not her. Be it behind her back or openly... that is disrespectful, irresponsible, childish, and downright dishonorable.

  • @Menoball
    @Menoball 10 месяцев назад +60

    I love how Brett disagrees yet respects and hears out the good points just as equally as the bad points no focusing and the bad ponts

  • @silvalinan4077
    @silvalinan4077 Год назад +456

    I honestly appreciate the way you always work your sponsorship into your discussion. Never fails to make me chuckle.

    • @rzawistowski33
      @rzawistowski33 Год назад +1

      Good writers

    • @25meip
      @25meip Год назад

      It probably helps also that her show is meant for RUclips, as opposed to the others which are meant for DW+ and get edited to be on RUclips- where their ad reads are just shoehorned in.

    • @jessicaqu
      @jessicaqu Год назад +3

      That transition was GOLD.

    • @caseyhaferung6117
      @caseyhaferung6117 Год назад +2

      I was just thinking about it
      We don't need comedians
      The dailywire has the best jokes

    • @shortbutnotwhereitmatters5278
      @shortbutnotwhereitmatters5278 Год назад

      They're so annoying, I pay for RUclips to not get ads but theses momos now have them in the videos like why am I paying for then?

  • @spinecollector9931
    @spinecollector9931 Год назад +149

    “A woman who is naturally more submissive, or quieter or a little more traditional is not any less “empowered” - this resonated deep in me. I used to think there was something wrong with me because I wasn’t as loud or outgoing as other people my age. I never liked going to clubs or bars and I always felt so out place because all I wanted to do was stay home. I had a kid at a young age and that helped me see what was really important. Now I’m about to graduate college, live in a beautiful home along the beach, started setting up for my retirement & the “friends” I tried to keep up with are still living with their parents (we’re in our 30s now)

    • @misaww
      @misaww Год назад +10

      You were raised by a respectable person.. amen! 😅

    • @roserevancroix2308
      @roserevancroix2308 Год назад

      People have no idea what empowered means - but it doesn't mean: sleeping around with different f boys and badboys wasting your life getting pregnant with losers, behaving like a hoe, so everyone loses the respect for you including yourself and turning to sex work on OF is not what it means, that does not make you empowered that makes you a stupid b.
      Having respect for yourself, dignity, boundries, and having some other standards than "2 meters tall and fast car" will make you feel so much better.
      You don't have to be f trash to be empowered, once you are trash no real man with real value is going to want you anymore and you are left with trash like you because birds of the same feather flock together.

    • @medivh1035
      @medivh1035 Год назад +9

      I don't like to go to bars Or clubs either, but l don't feel out of place. I like it. I like to do my own thing

    • @avapilsen
      @avapilsen Год назад +10

      That has nothing to do with being submissive. Being quiet and not outgoing is different than what the prompt said. Look up the definition of submissive.

    • @audreyandremington5265
      @audreyandremington5265 Год назад +2

      you're graduating college bro, you're not submissive. I'm in college, love to stay at home, pretty introverted, etc etc etc but I'm not "submissive". In animals, submission/dominance refers to resource allocating relationships. Humans are much more socially complex, and so rather than referring to who gets material resources, it often refers to who gets *social* resources. Who gets to make decisions. Who is seen as higher status. Etc. If you were generally submissive, then you would *follow* what other people want you to do even if it made you uncomfortable. If you're independent and are making decisions for yourself, you are not submissive.

  • @SavannahR.
    @SavannahR. Год назад +214

    That “alpha” guy showed his true colors with the whole Lila Rose interaction…not a man I’d highly respect

    • @Threelegs94
      @Threelegs94 Год назад +19

      Lol but you don't qualify nor he cares about what u think

    • @deeethier1544
      @deeethier1544 Год назад

      ​@@Threelegs94 he will care what good women think about men when he's 60 with no kids and no woman that cares about him enough to take care of him because of how he treated women like replaceable objects.

    • @lbwnova6654
      @lbwnova6654 Год назад +44

      @@Threelegs94 nah he’d have a pissy fit then say he’s not triggered. Exactly like he said to Lila Rose

    • @tshaolin971
      @tshaolin971 Год назад +12

      Lol you get offended by the mildest things. She was indeed annoying. Brett Cooper is way too emotional to stay objective on the subject therefore she misses the logical truth behind.

    • @cincydooley
      @cincydooley Год назад +18

      Agree completely, and anyone on here that disagrees is likely a “wannabe alpha”. Insufferable.

  • @bryantjames6038
    @bryantjames6038 10 месяцев назад +76

    Being an alpha is nothing to do with money. It has everything to do with respect, self control, and how you treat people

    • @littleone1656
      @littleone1656 9 месяцев назад

      Self control in everything except in regards to relationships, marriages and sex

    • @ZIbroweed
      @ZIbroweed 9 месяцев назад +1

      It also has a lot to do with being an animal. Human relationships, as it turns out, are more sophisticated.

    • @shannonbarber6161
      @shannonbarber6161 6 месяцев назад

      No. Being the alpha is about leading. You gave one example method of leading that works for some groups.

  • @mslissacrenshaw
    @mslissacrenshaw Год назад +156

    Married with girls on the side.. You have to seek out, talk to, flirt with another woman to even get to the point of physically connecting. That's all evil when you are in a relationship. It's not a happy accident when someone finds relations outside of their actual partner. It took time and effort. Sneaking around and giving your attention to, someone who isn't your chosen partner takes time from kids too... seeking relationships from someone that you aren't committing yourself to is not manly or alpha. It's CREEPY and EVIL

    • @ageofechochambers9469
      @ageofechochambers9469 Год назад +11

      Not really if you have any status what so ever as a man ( money , high profile, public office) females will seek you out .
      FYI the term creepy is played out you need more creative male shaming language dear .

    • @Tyler_W
      @Tyler_W Год назад +25

      ​@@ageofechochambers9469 You didn't really address the point, though. It isn't admirable to sleep around. At best it suggests High sexual market value, but what is that worth if you have no virtues cultivated within yourself?

    • @ageofechochambers9469
      @ageofechochambers9469 Год назад +2

      @@Tyler_W well if we are talking about sleeping around then this criticism should be directed towards females as you see above with the "beta" males they are not able to sleep around and the vast majority of males aren't either willingly or due to lack of resources, funds, etc .
      Plus your typing that it's not "admirable " to sleep around, this means there is a push back against men sleeping around.
      However not only do women sleep around more than men but it's viewed as female "empowerment " and they cheered on by society as being liberated .
      So I'd keep that energy for females instead of a small percentage of "alpha" males who boast about sleeping around .
      FYI I have some resources/status (I am not in america ) I don't sleep around with women won't let them in my house and don't condone any man of any value to socialize with women at all especially in private it's risky .
      Extremely strange that a female turns 18 goes on onlyfans selling herself for $3.99 have 100 bodies or more before 21 years old you guys ignore that and focus on a few men ?
      I thought it was "my body my choice " ? Do men have the right to their bodies ?
      Hypocrisy at its worse

    • @TJ-Judge
      @TJ-Judge Год назад +14

      ​@@ageofechochambers9469lol no dude, it is creepy. Thats why she used that word. Cuz its accurate 😂 sorry to break it to u

    • @ageofechochambers9469
      @ageofechochambers9469 Год назад

      @@TJ-Judge a infantalised generation with a vocabulary to match .

  • @meleebrawler6462
    @meleebrawler6462 Год назад +287

    Wow, if more conversations in life went the way that they did in this video, our society would be so much better.

    • @SiriusSphynx
      @SiriusSphynx Год назад +3

      No amount of conversion will ever change anything

    • @KlaustheViking
      @KlaustheViking Год назад

      You must kill the roots from which this cancerous stuff grows.

    • @MiaogisTeas
      @MiaogisTeas Год назад +19

      It's because there are no women present

    • @samuelc.9686
      @samuelc.9686 Год назад +14

      @@MiaogisTeas Based 🗿

    • @elyay7203
      @elyay7203 Год назад +2

      ​@@SiriusSphynx true tho. don't matter which side you're on

  • @natemarx4999
    @natemarx4999 Год назад +1804

    Imagine actually calling yourself a Beta.

  • @briangaugh140
    @briangaugh140 11 месяцев назад +16

    There are times in life when we need to be Alpha (e.g. Running a Business/ Conducting a Meeting) and more Beta (e.g. Showing compassion for someone's loss/Celebrating another person's success). What is lacking in both Men and Woman is the "Wisdom" to know when to be one or the other.

    • @ZIbroweed
      @ZIbroweed 9 месяцев назад

      I agree that there are times when men need to take leadership and that good leaders are one's who also know how to follow better leaders or even to follow worse leaders because the organizational structure is more important than their ego. I don't think "alpha" and "beta" are particularly useful terms for humans to adopt since they come from the animal kingdom and therefor carry a lot of baggage that's not useful for describing human relationships.

  • @user-rd4zs9sl2m
    @user-rd4zs9sl2m Год назад +138

    To me, an alpha would never say they are an alpha...it's an energy you can only understand when you share the same space with a man like that.

    • @mikeymyke
      @mikeymyke Год назад +14

      Its kind of like in sports. GOATs never call themselves the GOAT, they're the GOAT because other players see them as such.

    • @mo-em1ke
      @mo-em1ke Год назад +4

      That makes no sense..
      Plenty of people are capable of accurate self assessment.
      Using personal feelings to describe what you think it should mean doesnt change anything.

    • @hhj186
      @hhj186 Год назад +18

      @@mo-em1keIt’s not like a self assessment. Alpha is a term that is only given to you by other people. Self declaring yourself an alpha mean nothing. Declaring yourself an alpha is nothing more than someone with insecurities about their masculinity putting up a facade

    • @Crs664
      @Crs664 Год назад +2

      I don’t recall any of these guys calling themselves alphas. In fact most content creators that get criticized for being “alpha males” don’t actually call themselves that and it’s just everyone else calling them that. Super weird. The people who hate that term and mock it use it more than literally anyone else.

    • @Ziiphyr
      @Ziiphyr 11 месяцев назад +2

      For me it’s never a self-proclaimed title, it’s an earned position.

  • @whiiffed9002
    @whiiffed9002 Год назад +261

    9:31 Telling yourself you love someone while sleeping with other people is crazy to me. How can you love someone without committing to them? That is just outright disrespectful.

    • @majidqayyum9613
      @majidqayyum9613 9 месяцев назад +9

      Understand this nature about men and any man who says otherwise is lying of trying to impress you to make you like them. With that being said "Men don't have to feel attacked to a gal to sleep with a gal. They'll sleep with a gal who they even hate. Just coz they sleep with other women doesn't mean they love them or will die for them."

    • @user-ed8gy7jq1c
      @user-ed8gy7jq1c 9 месяцев назад +11

      ⁠@gabbysivad6457yess if u wanna live ur life with multiple women dont go after women who want a monogamous relationship

    • @magnet8185
      @magnet8185 9 месяцев назад +2

      Men have sexual urges different from women. The first question answers that immediately

    • @user-ed8gy7jq1c
      @user-ed8gy7jq1c 9 месяцев назад +7

      @@magnet8185 everyone has different sexual urges tf

    • @magnet8185
      @magnet8185 9 месяцев назад

      @user-ed8gy7jq1c The first question answers that problem. Men are biologically hardwired to spread their genes. Therefore, men are capable of loving a single woman and also having sex with other women. It's the same thing as masterbation. it's just sexual relief with other women. The only difference is that a man commits to 1 woman, properly under God and / or legally under the state. In simpler times, when land water and air weren't commercial, men could marry all the wives he could maintain and provide for. Now it's because of religious indoctrination that men must stay with only 1 wife for morality purposes. But like I said, men are and have been capable of having multiple women. And to add on to that, that absence of the Church and the increase in Male loneliness has paved way for hypergamy where basically women share the same man because their traditional and religious values are absent and women independently place themselves into these positions of sharing the same men. Men like having multiple women, and women like sharing the same men, and it comes to be with the absence of religion and the popularity of Vices and pleasure. So, while weak men who do not command respect exist, women will naturally and magnetically gravitate toward leaders who demand respect regardless of whether it's right or wrong.

  • @echofoxgaming7334
    @echofoxgaming7334 Год назад +103

    I like what Brett is saying about this ‘alpha bros’
    True alpha men deserve respect based on their life. Many of these people do not deserve that respect and submission. I would love to see this with true alpha men.

    • @sparkynate91
      @sparkynate91 Год назад +3

      Look at it this way, women are trust fund babies where alpha men we have earn our wealth. Case in point, Brett was given her wealth at 18 because she's beautiful and could probably get any guy she wants including celebrities or pro sports players... but I had to work from the moment I turned 18, start my own electrical business at 24, and grind to now having 120 employees on my payroll in order to have the same base level of options like her. I didn't start getting DM's from women until I was making $150K a year. Women who are average could be on a yacht in a few days if they want. Brett could easily be on a yacht if she wanted. But I had to work my ass off, build my body up, build my mind and game up, build my wealth and status up AND THEN BUY THE YACHT JUST TO GET THE LADIES ON IT! This is why so many western women today are 304's. They are handed their wealth at 18 and they go and blow all of it within a few years and then demand a man like myself who makes over $100K, is 6'2" and has more than 6"... why would I get with someone who has destroyed her reputation, sold her body, and is blown out just because she demands it? Naw I'll get with a 20yr old who doesn't have an OF or slept with 50 guys and is willing to be coached.

    • @bitchd7839
      @bitchd7839 Год назад

      @@sparkynate91 If you couldn't get women until you had money, then the problem is you. You probably spend all your time around those gold-digging Instagram "models" and then complain that all women are shallow. If you truly want a wife who loves you for who you are, you wouldn't need a yacht. You aren't looking for a serious relationship. You are looking for hot but materialistic gold-diggers.
      Also the fact that you think that all women want to live the easy trophy-wife life to celebrities says a lot about why you're single. Yes Brett could be with a rich celebrity and leech off their money if she wants to, but she won't. She has principles.
      Go ahead and enjoy "coaching" your 20 year olds on your yacht. But let's not pretend that those 20 year olds want you for your personality.
      Edit: you made a comment in one of Brett's videos saying "I now make great money and 304s throw themselves at me". Lmao no pity for you. If you choose to be around hoes, then you shouldn't complain when most of the women around you are shallow.

    • @stevec3526
      @stevec3526 Год назад +1

      Justin is a true Alpha. If you knew anything about him you would agree.

    • @justaguy6613
      @justaguy6613 Год назад +3

      An example of an ACTUAL alpha masculine male is: Aragorn. If you haven't read/watched LoTR, you're given an incentive for it: to see a healthy masculine man shown at his best.

    • @echofoxgaming7334
      @echofoxgaming7334 Год назад

      @@justaguy6613 I appreciate it! I’ll have to check it out!

  • @ronnieogoy49
    @ronnieogoy49 10 месяцев назад +26

    “Is that a man in a dress?…. That’s unfortunate.” 😂😂😂

  • @micheleonel1047
    @micheleonel1047 Год назад +311

    As a submissive woman idk whether to cry or celebrate over so many of these guys not finding me as attractive. Guess it doesn’t matter as long as my husband is happy

    • @TheCouto11
      @TheCouto11 Год назад +32

      thats kinda sad, submissive is kinda of a strong word no?
      if you feel happy with your husband thats good enough

    • @williamtaittinger4529
      @williamtaittinger4529 Год назад +11

      Female Shapiro wants Waller

    • @thebigree6155
      @thebigree6155 Год назад +25

      As long as he's a good husband and you're a good wife, why would the opinions of others matter? Clear your mind and be grateful

    • @jsbaltimore3405
      @jsbaltimore3405 Год назад +7

      I hope it helps to know that men have two different attractions. One is sexual and the other is marriage. There’s a high chance that the attraction you’re not getting is the sexual attraction since you’re married so you probably carry yourself in a respectful way, so it’s not necessarily a bad thing to not receive that attraction.

    • @alishaaaax
      @alishaaaax Год назад +5

      @@jsbaltimore3405 why can’t you feel sexually attracted to the woman your marring?? This makes no sense men are so confusing 😂

  • @mattsandford
    @mattsandford Год назад +177

    I did the whole sleeping around thing. I don't know how they can enjoy it so much with strangers. It usually just left me feeling pretty empty. The bigger challenge is finding the right person and that you can stand eachother for the long haul

    • @mattsandford
      @mattsandford Год назад +30

      Also I dont know about this whole dominance nonsense... I think it's healthy for the balance of power to shift depending on the circumstances. Like there's certain things she's gonna be better at doing. When it comes to camping or the nuclear apocalypse I'll take the lead :P. I also find it pretty unattractive if a woman is too submissive. I think these dudes are meatballs.

    • @atxbee
      @atxbee Год назад +25

      @@mattsandford valid take. i also think hookup culture is more harmful than people think, for both men and women

    • @mattsandford
      @mattsandford Год назад +7

      @@atxbee Absolutely, profoundly. Even when people do realise that it's harmful it's hard to find a partner who has arrived at the same place and isn't jaded by the whole experience (and to avoid becoming jaded yourself)

    • @charlesfinnegan7930
      @charlesfinnegan7930 Год назад +1

      @@mattsandford Keep living the Disney matrix program then.

    • @RegionalRadioShackManager
      @RegionalRadioShackManager Год назад +2

      🧢

  • @loserplanet
    @loserplanet Год назад +503

    Great take, Brett. I felt the same about that guy after watching him debate Lila by calling her "annoying". Lila was completely correct. You have self control and discipline. And LUST is a deadly sin. A man should love his wife as himself. And care for her. Sleeping around hurts that woman. Emotionally, and could lead to STDs spread to her.

    • @migzy4704
      @migzy4704 Год назад

      Same here. Men who sleep around and can't commit to one woman are weak. They talk about discipline yet they pick and choose when to be disciplined.

    • @CyberpunkMaster
      @CyberpunkMaster Год назад +14

      Yep 👍🏻, the very form of relationship between man and woman comes with self-control, compromise, and sacrifice. The very fact of miscommunication that men don't understand women and women don't understand men encourages both parties to form that bridge of compromise to understand each other and process the difference in thought. There is no such thing as fate that decide to be with each other, but there is growth that helps you to be together!

    • @tarek-mo02
      @tarek-mo02 Год назад +15

      i think the reason why these alphas dont want to settle down with only one woman, i think is because it feels unfair to them...The alpha works so hard for a decade to build himself and be noticed by women.. then after all that work he can only sleep with one? it feels unfair tbh to me too

    • @FeterPrahm
      @FeterPrahm Год назад

      ​@@tarek-mo02lol what about it is unfair? Women have inherent value, if you can't deal with that you're weak

    • @elrichpereira7147
      @elrichpereira7147 Год назад +6

      Lila is annoying, that's a fact.. she attacks the person instead of the argument and always wants to be right without understanding the viewpoint of the other person, the other day she debated destiny on abortion and although I'm against abortion she made the debate insufferable.. even her partner found her annoying 😅

  • @yahtze
    @yahtze 10 месяцев назад +12

    I have never seen anyone who can integrate the sponsors as well as brett.

    • @ZIbroweed
      @ZIbroweed 9 месяцев назад

      It ends up making me paranoid. She'll be discussing something she thinks about the men, and I'm seeing sponsor segway motivations behind all her regular thoughts, lol.

  • @christophe_atx
    @christophe_atx Год назад +161

    This is really beta vs. beta. I'm glad you brought up Lila making him cry.
    As far as the occasional RP points: every snake oil salesman starts the pitch from a point of truth and tries to tie their product to it.

    • @G360LIVE
      @G360LIVE Год назад +17

      Correct. Alphas don't call themselves alphas, because they don't have to. It's something other people recognize in them.

    • @TheFallibleWarrior
      @TheFallibleWarrior Год назад +9

      @@G360LIVE this is a stupid argument I see all the time. You can be self aware enough to essentially understand your position. That’s like saying Tim Brady can’t say yes good at football and if he does it means he’s not as good as he thinks he is. Waller gets a point or two wrong. But the majority of what he says about life is largely correct.

    • @hush7359
      @hush7359 Год назад +2

      ​​@@TheFallibleWarrior exactly.
      Not to mention that there's literal scientific evidence that proves that an ego (yes, ego not just self confidence) can make someone more successful and actually sit at the top echelon of whatever their field is.
      It's why so many successful people are narcissists.
      In a Sense they manifest their egos into reality.

    • @basedbane787
      @basedbane787 Год назад

      Yea these dudes arnt alpha they took a meme seriously. They're the new insecure metro sexual jersey shore gwedo dudes that act like they're the shit but are completely insecure at all times

    • @jorge-7121
      @jorge-7121 Год назад +3

      1) Lila Rose has calm delivery but extremely annoying, condescending, arrogant, disrespectful while telling people how wrong they are and how to live their lives. 2) RP has solid scientific base, please educate yourself before commenting

  • @billsmafia4346
    @billsmafia4346 Год назад +290

    Imagine calling yourself a beta like wtf are these boys doing😂

    • @StoneAgeWarfare
      @StoneAgeWarfare Год назад +5

      I do it all the time.

    • @javiehr
      @javiehr Год назад +10

      @@StoneAgeWarfareyoure weird

    • @cae2525
      @cae2525 Год назад +16

      They probably dont actually call themselves like that irl, they just wanted to go to a debate

    • @StoneAgeWarfare
      @StoneAgeWarfare Год назад +1

      @@javiehr everyone tells me that

    • @phillipfry6094
      @phillipfry6094 Год назад

      Falling in there place?!?

  • @_diet_coke
    @_diet_coke Год назад +53

    Submissive doesnt mean weak..you are both taking each other into consideration. Its not the guy just leading the relationship blindly..you are a team...but you each have different responsibilities.

    • @charlesfinnegan7930
      @charlesfinnegan7930 Год назад +2

      nope.

    • @thelegend3965
      @thelegend3965 Год назад +3

      Incorrect. Male submission is a sign of weakness. The man leads, and the women follows. The women can have her opinion, but she has no say in the direction and choices that are made for the future of the relationship and house hold.

    • @Pr2two
      @Pr2two Год назад +13

      ​@@thelegend3965 😂😂😂 you've never been in a long term relationship

    • @thelegend3965
      @thelegend3965 Год назад +3

      @@Pr2two you haven’t refuted my point at all with an argument of your own, you’ve just tried to diminish me, but I’ll still humour you. What about what I said don’t you agree with? Certain parts, or the whole statement, I’m just curious to know.

    • @daisiesandpandas1218
      @daisiesandpandas1218 Год назад +7

      ​@@thelegend3965 until you change your mind, may a good woman never fall into your hands, to be destroyed and wasted by such thinking. amen.

  • @0monroy
    @0monroy 11 месяцев назад +15

    Absolutely agree! It's crucial for us to recognize that this isn't about pitting men against women. It's about fostering genuine connections and understanding between the genders, irrespective of labels like "alpha" or "beta." The real challenge lies in bridging the gap caused by the demands of our lives. Let's strive for unity and stronger relationships! 💪🌟

  • @patricklewis9787
    @patricklewis9787 Год назад +135

    Feel like Brett has gotten better at articulating her thoughts and saying what’s on her mind. Not saying she never had it in her I just think she’s getting more comfortable with her RUclips Channel

    • @noellesanchez4978
      @noellesanchez4978 Год назад +5

      i agree

    • @drewdown826
      @drewdown826 Год назад +2

      That's called experience

    • @redpilljesus
      @redpilljesus Год назад +4

      She's incredibly articulate. I've been watching people speak on here for thousands of hours (since 2006 on my first account), and she easily makes top 5.

    • @michaelmcgee335
      @michaelmcgee335 Год назад +1

      She's growing into it nicely.

  • @BlitzTheFoxi
    @BlitzTheFoxi Год назад +168

    4:00 did this man really just say that sleeping with more than one woman is glorifying God? lmfao im dying man you got it backwards as hell

    • @Mike-In-O-Town
      @Mike-In-O-Town Год назад

      Yeah, that guy is waaaaaaaaaaay short of IQ to be delving into complex issues. His goal was to come off as really bright, but the more he spoke the dimmer his light got.

    • @roxillatastic
      @roxillatastic Год назад +9

      Right like oh weird because the word of God says otherwise, guess this guy knows better 😂

    • @AndrewTheFrank
      @AndrewTheFrank Год назад +12

      He didn't. He said "to position yourself, as a man, to have the capacity to be with as many women as possible. To position yourself so that you understand female nature. And you maximize your potential as a man. Its the most optimal thing for you and your ability to thrive at the highest level and connect with God here on Earth."
      He did not advocate sleeping around with multiple women in this statement. He said to position yourself so that you are man so desired that many women want you. To maximize your potential. Basically to be the best and most masculine man you can be. And he didn't say it glorifies Got, but that he thinks it helps with having a better connection with God. Makes sense because God does tell man to toil in the field aka work hard.

    • @atxbee
      @atxbee Год назад

      Extremely odd fr

    • @Dedede63
      @Dedede63 Год назад +1

      lol "backwards as hell"

  • @caseyhauck7113
    @caseyhauck7113 Год назад +149

    I would love to see a Jubilee episode with Brett and Amala. Idk what the topic would be, but I think they’d be such a power duo.

    • @yashenumulla4068
      @yashenumulla4068 10 месяцев назад +7

      Oh same. I always wanted to see them together.

  • @alexandraunderwood2961
    @alexandraunderwood2961 8 месяцев назад +3

    The very concept of Alpha/Beta males is so contrived. My husband never dated before me. He chose me, committed to me, and has zero interest in any other woman. He is the leader in our marriage, but his leadership helps me grow and become an ever better version of myself; he sees my potential better than I do. And yes, I am “submissive,” but that doesn’t mean I’m lesser; if anything, it frustrates him when I hold back my opinions. We are partners. He’s thrilled when I take decisions off his plate (as he is very driven and is the breadwinner in our marriage). And my need for more emotional openness has helped him to grow. The alpha males in this video make some good points, but they disqualify themselves from being the type of man that any woman should follow; sexual unfaithfulness is an absolute no-go for any strong, self-respecting traditional woman.

  • @bobizzle1605
    @bobizzle1605 Год назад +193

    You want to know what an alpha is?
    An alpha is a guy who knows and understands his responsibilities in life, such as doing his job and working as hard as he can to advance and better himself in his job to earn promotions and raises; an alpha is a guy who humbles himself, he is confident and comfortable with the person he is while also acknowledging that he is far from perfect and can always work on improving himself and setting a good example for his fellow brethren; an alpha isn’t always necessarily a natural born leader, but he is brave and confident and assertive enough to take that next step and BECOME a leader when needed; an alpha doesn’t try to humiliate or outdo his fellow man to assert dominance and brag, he LIFTS UP his fellow man and encourages him and holds him accountable to better himself and set an example for others; an alpha understands that he doesn’t have to belittle or lower himself to any underserving woman or anyone else who ridicules him while not stooping to that level; an alpha understands that when he commits to one woman he loves her and provides for her and doesn’t stray even when he has chances, because he is creating a family and a home worthy of a wife submitting to him the way God intends; an alpha sets out to be his kids’ first superhero, he loves them and nurtures them but also disciplines them and teaches them right from wrong and makes sure they know how to be humble and hold themselves accountable; an alpha is a true God fearing man who doesn’t just say he’s religious but actually strives to live life for God and lead his family to God every day(and for men who aren’t religious, it’s still their duty to lead their wives and family to righteousness and to be the pillar and hero their family needs them to be). That’s what an alpha male is.
    Know what ISN’T an alpha male? A guy who constantly labels other guys as alpha or beta, or the self proclaimed “gigachads” that are just focused on bedding as many women as possible for bragging rights and trying to dominate and be on top of his fellow man.
    No man has to be labeled a beta male unless he’s a guy who is a lazy, mistreats and abuses his family out of narcissism, pretends to be nice and caring to women just to have sex and isn’t genuine, or a man who refuses to humble himself and grow and change into trying to be a better man everyday and doesn’t hold himself accountable. THAT is a beta male.

    • @connorbaz5980
      @connorbaz5980 Год назад +17

      Well said brother. Very well said. 👏

    • @ericordaz3082
      @ericordaz3082 Год назад +9

      Absolutely! Nailed it! Couldn’t agree more

    • @SiriusSphynx
      @SiriusSphynx Год назад +4

      I'm gonna not read all that, and just say "K 👍"

    • @commentator1984
      @commentator1984 Год назад +23

      Exactly, an Alpha leads and protects his family.
      Dudes that run around trying to "spread their seed" and run aren't even Betas.

    • @summersalix
      @summersalix Год назад +3

      Perfectly said 👏

  • @connorbaz5980
    @connorbaz5980 Год назад +166

    I knew a guy (26 years old) who had a body count of 30+ girls. Myself? I'm 26 years old, and still a virgin. Haven't created any Fatherless Children, and I'm thankful for that.

    • @summersoldier1003
      @summersoldier1003 Год назад

      You have heard of condoms right?

    • @schmakyle649
      @schmakyle649 Год назад

      You really should lose your v card so you can see what sex is like.

    • @bruiseleeroy7010
      @bruiseleeroy7010 Год назад +38

      Good for you brother, dont give in til you find a woman thats worth it because she loves and respects you

    • @bruiseleeroy7010
      @bruiseleeroy7010 Год назад +30

      @elena5816 why you gotta be snippy like that? Thats a good thing that he is proud of and he wanted to express that freely on here because that is his right. Yet you discourage men like this?

    • @spasticfurchild
      @spasticfurchild Год назад +3

      Hopefully you’re the kind of man who wouldn’t have left them fatherless, had the situation occurred 🙂

  • @anthonygarces6999
    @anthonygarces6999 Год назад +230

    i love how truly impartial you are. you call out the nonsense on both sides - its truly a breath of fresh air. keep at it brett !!

    • @ShindlersFiist
      @ShindlersFiist 9 месяцев назад +1

      Exactly! She's logical!👍😊

    • @ZIbroweed
      @ZIbroweed 9 месяцев назад +1

      She clearly wanted to like the "alpha bros" for some reason despite not being able to like most of them because of the stances they've taken.

    • @lia701
      @lia701 9 месяцев назад +3

      She was trying too hard to agree with the alpha men

    • @glistening7178
      @glistening7178 8 месяцев назад

      @@lia701Yeah, she tap dances a bit.

    • @m.elizabeth03
      @m.elizabeth03 6 месяцев назад

      ⁠@@ZIbroweedim a libertarian that watches brett because i like hearing different opinions and perspectives and i 100% think this came across because, who tf wants to like ppl that call themselves beta? lmao

  • @CodyFreemanOutdoors
    @CodyFreemanOutdoors Год назад +2

    I mean an alpha isn't a womanizer he's a protector of his wife and his family, the strong and hardworking, and dare I say God fearing. I swear I was born 100 years to late. Watching how people conduct themselves today is completely backwards from the morals and ethics and heart it took to start this country to begin with.

  • @hmills9118
    @hmills9118 Год назад +14

    Ick. My husband is a... Christian male. He "leads" me but serves me every day. I never have to wonder if our family of 8 will be cared for. He handles a million things for us and is constantly thinking of us. He is home every night and weekend with us. He takes us to church. He takes us on vacation. He spends his freetime with me and the kids. Love him.

  • @CQBWarfighter
    @CQBWarfighter Год назад +50

    No such thing as alphas and betas. Just good strong men and weak bad men.

    • @prochoiceforblacks
      @prochoiceforblacks Год назад +4

      same thing dude--alpha is a designation and a word but it appropriately identifies men correctly

    • @FatalS420
      @FatalS420 Год назад +4

      Incorrect but okay lol. Alpha = leader. Beta= follower

    • @screamtoasigh9984
      @screamtoasigh9984 Год назад

      Trey Coleman of the Phoenix pack walks into the chat. 😋

    • @thelegend3965
      @thelegend3965 Год назад

      I mean, you literally just described what an Alpha and Beta are so???

  • @vigarobugsbunni
    @vigarobugsbunni Год назад +121

    Thank you Brett! A cheater could never be a " high value" man!!

    • @supremelordoftheuniverse5449
      @supremelordoftheuniverse5449 Год назад +3

      Maybe he shouldn't, but of course he could, just look at how many women are willing to share highly successful men.

    • @knightheaven8992
      @knightheaven8992 Год назад +5

      Here is the rub, technically he isnt a high value man, from moral standpoint. But but high value and low value, isnt about morality necessarily. Its about demand, of lack of it. what moves the interest of women when picking a mate, from an attraction point of view. Tons of women keep choosing cheaters for a reason. The ability to garner attention from women seems to be something that women perceive to be high value in a man. For some reason is attractive to women. I would say its more of an instinctual thing then actually a logic reason for it. Which only reinforces that people would be happier, and better off, when they can control their animal desires and instincts, instead of being slaves to it.

    • @vigarobugsbunni
      @vigarobugsbunni Год назад +8

      @@knightheaven8992 a healthy worth while woman who won't leave a man for the next thing that's more " high value" than him, will never be with a cheater. That's the rub, the state of women today is atrocious to the point that she is isnt looking for a mate she's looking for her money. So being a "high value " will get you left for the next guy that can offer more. A woman who has her head straight would never be around one of these men because those men are willing to play into a transactional relationship like that. That's going to tank any good relationship.

    • @redmatrixx
      @redmatrixx Год назад

      ​@@knightheaven8992 facts. I was about to respond but you captured my point on how people conflate the morality to demand.

    • @Afriendlywoodelf13
      @Afriendlywoodelf13 Год назад +9

      @@vigarobugsbunni exactly these types of women and men r all in the same boat they see relationships as transactional a women who was loyal regardless of financial status or hardship would be traumatized from a relationship w a man like that or not fulfilled the men think they can buy morality from these women instead of putting in the work to earn it thats the problem w it

  • @__therealmelibee
    @__therealmelibee 9 месяцев назад +2

    “His pants are too tight it’s probably cutting oxygen to his brain” 😂😂😂

  • @owliria_sage
    @owliria_sage Год назад +121

    I love the relationship my parents have and most of these "alpha" guys would call my dad a "beta" because for a few years he was basically a stay at home dad, he was doing his master's degree, homeschooling me and my mum was working. When my mum had my sister he was the only one working. Their relationship was built on mutual respect and that's the kind of family I strive to have.

    • @capslock956
      @capslock956 Год назад +7

      That is not the same as what they talked about.

    • @Threelegs94
      @Threelegs94 Год назад +8

      Lady, rewatch the video, it seems u didn't get it.

    • @AndrewTheFrank
      @AndrewTheFrank Год назад +8

      @@Threelegs94 women tend to have trouble understanding the plain speech of men. Heck, Bret similarly misunderstood the plain speech of the guys.

    • @Superbatmanbro
      @Superbatmanbro Год назад

      We’re complicated sometimes and do our things

    • @thegrievingsister
      @thegrievingsister Год назад +10

      Ppl trying to label everyone these days and want to dictate SUBJECTIVE matters to people!
      Your parents have a beautiful relationship and I wish it for you and me both! ❤😊

  • @menzokruizinga
    @menzokruizinga Год назад +152

    If you call yourself a beta or alpha male i cant take take seriously😂

    • @jamesteegardner2273
      @jamesteegardner2273 Год назад +12

      Yeah, everyone knows that the sigmas are the only cool ones, lol.

    • @dansuduhast1051
      @dansuduhast1051 Год назад

      They dont actually call themselves betas, they just dont care about this stoopid redpill ideology to give the lables alpha beta sigma any meaning or weight. The title is just to clickbait more people into watching the video

    • @menzokruizinga
      @menzokruizinga Год назад +2

      @@jamesteegardner2273 i egree it was really respectvol

    • @samuelc.9686
      @samuelc.9686 Год назад

      I can't take you seriously if you don't have good grammar.

    • @caralho5237
      @caralho5237 Год назад

      because you're a beta bro
      alpha males can sense each other from 3 miles away

  • @Bread996
    @Bread996 Год назад +188

    Great convo. It worked because they attacked the arguments, not each other.

    • @bigboicreme
      @bigboicreme Год назад +6

      Brett attack the people though which was funny and nice

  • @minihooperprod.8332
    @minihooperprod.8332 Год назад +58

    Jesus Christ is savior

    • @ADashnawMKIBC
      @ADashnawMKIBC 4 месяца назад +1

      What was the point of that?

    • @Fumo-Deus
      @Fumo-Deus 4 месяца назад

      Stfu video has nothing to do with religion

    • @anabjelanovic
      @anabjelanovic 4 месяца назад

      @@Fumo-Deusit kinda does lol

    • @anabjelanovic
      @anabjelanovic 4 месяца назад +2

      @@ADashnawMKIBCto try and spread the word of God

    • @ADashnawMKIBC
      @ADashnawMKIBC 4 месяца назад

      @@anabjelanovic do it elsewhere. Your comment had nothing to do with the video

  • @butterjupitar
    @butterjupitar Год назад +37

    "Men have the desire to repopulate and have many kids as possible
    Tell that to the 100+ men who run away when their girlfriend is pregnant💀

    • @mrtrollnator123
      @mrtrollnator123 Год назад

      😂

    • @michaelortiz1561
      @michaelortiz1561 Год назад +1

      You know he would rum at the first sight of an ultrasound fly off to Dubai for a few years

    • @ItsOnlyFate777
      @ItsOnlyFate777 Год назад

      There are around 300-400 million people in the US. If your estimate is in the hundreds that makes .00something of the population. The reason why studies and actual data is needed.....

    • @mo-em1ke
      @mo-em1ke Год назад +6

      You're literally proving the point..
      They run away because job done she's pregnant onto the next...
      See that's the problem with making generalized statements with zero data..

    • @ubaidbutt9709
      @ubaidbutt9709 Год назад +1

      ​@mo-em1ke how's the job done? That's like planting some seeds in an open space and then expecting to find a garden in the respective spot when you come back after few years. Those plants will need protection and water. You have to look after them.
      Impregnating multiple women and then running away from taking care of the children is a sign of one's inability or unwillingness to accept the consequences of their actions. That's not maturity. These type of men actually never wanted to spread their seed. They only wanted to sleep with as much women as possible without facing dire consequences

  • @houseofhas9355
    @houseofhas9355 Год назад +43

    Beta: daddy want to see my new video where I call myself beta.
    Father: we talked about this, stop calling me daddy. Your 25. Jesus your weird.

    • @-Nickname-
      @-Nickname- Год назад +1

      So much of modern society wrapped up in a neat little joke. Kudos to you. You have earned my favorite joke of the day. I award you 20 cool points.

    • @qskry3523
      @qskry3523 Год назад +1

      you missed how the beta is a schizophrenic and how the dad actually left him a long time ago 🤣

    • @SiriusSphynx
      @SiriusSphynx Год назад +1

      You sound like your daddy never hugged you😂

  • @wo_w6640
    @wo_w6640 Год назад +47

    I 100% agree with you Brett. Being a strong, masculine, "alpha" male means being respectful, loyal, fit, providing for and protecting the ones you love etc. not just sleeping with whoever you want.
    I think the entire point of men sleeping with as many women as possible is "just biology" is kind of bull. Sure, maybe it is true but there are a lot of things that biologically we feel we need to do as humans, yet we don't in order for society to function. Discipline is key to respecting yourself, others, and being respected.

    • @WakeUpNeo77
      @WakeUpNeo77 Год назад +1

      💯

    • @Culwhickbeocca
      @Culwhickbeocca Год назад

      The flesh tells us many things are right, and the Spirit tells us the opposite is right and good. Promiscuity, as well as being gender confused, are both fleshly desires. Solomon was the alpha of alphas, but destroyed his country with promiscuous behavior.

    • @ehamilful
      @ehamilful Год назад

      If these men want to argue that it's just biology and spreading their seed is good, then tell me why do most of these men wear condoms and hate it when all their side chicks get pregnant?

    • @charzard1000
      @charzard1000 Год назад

      Yes exactly. The Bible got this right over 2,000 years ago and it’s still true today. If you going around sleeping with multiple men or women, you’re a slave to lust.

    • @thelegend3965
      @thelegend3965 Год назад +1

      Here’s the thing though. If a women is going to chase after a High Value Man, then she needs to be prepared for the High Value factors that come with that, which is sharing her man. As long as she’s the main women though, then she has nothing to worry about, because she’s the one is cares for and provided for.

  • @daveh8139
    @daveh8139 Год назад +3

    😂 “those pants are too tight cutting off circulation!” 😂

  • @mihael1582
    @mihael1582 Год назад +53

    Brett sounds like she'll make a great mum "button ur shirt" 😂 great respect to your mum, she raised you well👏👏

  • @CombativeMedic
    @CombativeMedic Год назад +39

    When they actually came together at the end and had a genuine discussion, I felt growing respect for them -not necessarily for their beliefs, but for their ability to have the discussion and be mature, even crack jokes. Good job.

  • @herbie_the_hillbillie_goat
    @herbie_the_hillbillie_goat Год назад +35

    That ad segue was golden. Brett's sly look at the camera. 🤣🤣

  • @millenadecampos7192
    @millenadecampos7192 Год назад +29

    Two types of man I’ll never date 😂 if you label yourself like that you’re not normal

    • @sorryfull1x344
      @sorryfull1x344 Год назад

      THE BETA IS JUST AN EMO FA🗿🗿0️⃣T DAWG😂

  • @jameskeil7200
    @jameskeil7200 Год назад +35

    I just appreciate that they can debate without shouting or condemning..

  • @imperialofficer5172
    @imperialofficer5172 Год назад +240

    if you identify as alpha your annoyiing and cringe but if you identify as a beta you metally insane

    • @laurenceizegbu260
      @laurenceizegbu260 Год назад +6

      so what tf are ppl supposed to be 💀 u might think it’s cringe but all men fall into one category it doesn’t matter how cringe it is

    • @katrinaisalwayscorrect
      @katrinaisalwayscorrect Год назад +13

      There is a middle ground of men who aren't push overs and protect and love their family. A good woman who is worth the time of day does not want to be with this kind of alpha. Good men are few and far between

    • @imadeanaccounttocomment7800
      @imadeanaccounttocomment7800 Год назад +18

      @@laurenceizegbu260IDK man we can probably not base our personality around some random greek alphabets that the internet and some debunked biologists classified

    • @nekemli2622
      @nekemli2622 Год назад +2

      ​@@laurenceizegbu260 The skull emoji is cringe

    • @LordofChaos42
      @LordofChaos42 Год назад +1

      youre right, being BETA is metal af. Prefer betas to alphas any day. Sigmas are the real GOATs

  • @valentinogal781
    @valentinogal781 10 месяцев назад +3

    Omg!!! I am the one who picks out my dad's suits and ties, and I absolutely cannot stand seeing a man wearing formal shoes with no socks! 😂😂😂

  • @MewsView
    @MewsView Год назад +111

    "Mothers are the most badass people out there."
    Facts!
    Have a man who is worthy of being submissive to. Then be the mother who will fight for your kids. Nothing can beat that.

    • @Rio26202
      @Rio26202 Год назад

      @OiHiccup06 Those men usually only get women who want their money.

    • @colinsiegler8626
      @colinsiegler8626 Год назад +7

      Mothers are def not the most badass people out there lmao

    • @KornKakes
      @KornKakes Год назад +4

      Definitely not a fact. Its an opinion

    • @geraltofrivia3242
      @geraltofrivia3242 Год назад +1

      In terms of women? because its a bit dismissive of fathers or soldiers.

    • @postmodernmining
      @postmodernmining Год назад

      A newt can be a mother.

  • @TrunkyDunks
    @TrunkyDunks Год назад +59

    Alpha or beta debate aside....its important to note that virtually all men I've met are DREAMING of the nuclear family life, myself included. A reasonable wage, loyal wife, children, an affordable suburban house with a small yard and a car. Pretty much sums up what we are missing today.

    • @sue9378
      @sue9378 Год назад +8

      Those are good goals to work for and I hope you get what you want.

    • @carbon-structure
      @carbon-structure Год назад

      gotta have a yacht (or a plane) and a couple of pied-à-terre's as well ;) live a little.

  • @adaptivegamer9905
    @adaptivegamer9905 Год назад +51

    The whole red pill movement has turned into the new feminist movement.

    • @tshaolin971
      @tshaolin971 Год назад +2

      Not at all, this is not a movement.

    • @Rio26202
      @Rio26202 Год назад +12

      Absolutely. They have so much in common.

    • @StandStrong614
      @StandStrong614 Год назад +3

      ​@@Rio26202 Pleas explain what they have in common. Please educate us?

    • @prochoiceforblacks
      @prochoiceforblacks Год назад

      its a anti feminist movement very much needed in society but of course in every movement there are dumbos that ruin the movement

    • @cameronpateNC
      @cameronpateNC Год назад +7

      Yep two sides of the same bs

  • @TigerSportsBalm
    @TigerSportsBalm 5 месяцев назад +1

    Brett saying button your shirt up NEEDS to be turned into a meme

  • @princesschigbu9841
    @princesschigbu9841 Год назад +89

    From an African point of view, every single man on that panel is confused in either one or multiple ways. But more importantly I've never seen someone make annoying adds sound so good. With each video I watch and hear how nicely you transition, you blow by mind. Lovely work Brett ❤

    • @prochoiceforblacks
      @prochoiceforblacks Год назад

      african blacks were the first slaveowners in Africa including Queen Nzinga

    • @gigachad1021
      @gigachad1021 Год назад +1

      Is this woman telling men to be monogamous and traditional to women who aren't traditional and virgins? Like even the most conservative religious woman ain't a virgin today why should a man commit to one woman?

    • @MrMefetran
      @MrMefetran Год назад +7

      Who the hell cares about "african point of view"?

    • @aliamandax7650
      @aliamandax7650 Год назад +2

      I fully agree. Everyone seems confused in some way: everyone has a different view of marriage, relationships, or even women in general. I don’t think that any of those men have a clear definition of what marriage is. I think this has been a growing problem in America for probably the last 100 years, and now we have reached the point where most people don’t see the point of marriage. For context I’m a American, Christian, and female. As a woman, I would absolutely hate for my husband to be sleeping around. As a Christian, I believe sex is symbolic of 2 becoming 1, a unit, together forever.

    • @daisiesandpandas1218
      @daisiesandpandas1218 Год назад +3

      ​@@MrMefetran did she tell you to care? Imagine leaving this comment when you could have scrolled past like you didn't care.

  • @PearlsAndMorePearls
    @PearlsAndMorePearls Год назад +113

    As a married woman I couldn't get past the part talking about men instinctually want to cheat. BRB getting a divorce

    • @loisnotlouiss
      @loisnotlouiss Год назад +12

      Couldn’t get past that either😭

    • @annieh.5049
      @annieh.5049 Год назад +24

      there’s a difference between being biologically designed to do something & acting on those urges. it may be natural but it doesn’t necessarily mean it’s good. have faith that your partners understand this difference, i do 🤍

    • @PearlsAndMorePearls
      @PearlsAndMorePearls Год назад +5

      @annieh.5049 having the urge at all is is too much for me. I cant

    • @Ryan-li8qc
      @Ryan-li8qc Год назад +13

      ​@@PearlsAndMorePearlsthen you better find a man without a sex drive. Men will look at a good looking woman and neurons activate.

    • @backabeyond
      @backabeyond Год назад

      @@PearlsAndMorePearlsyou’re so out of touch with reality that it wouldn’t be a surprise if your husband was cheating. You obviously don’t understand men.

  • @bluephoenix53
    @bluephoenix53 Год назад +50

    Its strange how its one extreme to the other. There has to be a middle ground.

    • @Chyronn
      @Chyronn Год назад +13

      There is, but no one talks about it, it's called being self-aware enough and intelligent enough to speak when you have something useful to contribute instead of puffing out chest, flaring one's nostrils or deliberately playing second fiddle and not wanting to shoulder responsibility.

    • @jeonghoonchoi5046
      @jeonghoonchoi5046 Год назад +11

      There’s a middle ground in the real world. Jubilee is just the king of butting two extremes that don’t actually exist irl. It’s really a modern circus.

    • @brianburgess3231
      @brianburgess3231 Год назад +1

      Sigma? .. tho not really beta .. I've been described as an introverted alpha. They said cyz I don't crave attention like an alpha, but stands up when there's a problem. .. this guy is pretty extreme tho, sorta like a live Johnny Bravo

    • @brianburgess3231
      @brianburgess3231 Год назад

      ​@@Chyronn AKA Sigma

    • @SiriusSphynx
      @SiriusSphynx Год назад

      ​@@brianburgess3231 though

  • @dallaspopp6052
    @dallaspopp6052 8 месяцев назад +14

    First time watching your channel.. You're an extremely well spoken and well rounded women. Thank you for making this, you've earned a new fan 🍻

  • @sheeniebeanie2597
    @sheeniebeanie2597 Год назад +62

    Exactly what you said, Brett. The thing about submission is that you need to be a man worthy of my submission and a man who refers to himself as an alpha male, which to him means to sleep around and not commit to me, or a beta male, which to him means to act like I don't need him (i.e., not be manly), you aren't worthy of my submission.

    • @HeyLady08
      @HeyLady08 Год назад +2

      Said perfectly 👌

    • @armellebiampamba4257
      @armellebiampamba4257 Год назад +2

      I ain't saving myself for marriage if you can't save your "seed" for my womb. Only. Thank you. Gosh I would never say this out loud 🤣

  • @raedorin979
    @raedorin979 Год назад +100

    I think there are a lot of differences between the sexes but there's also a lot of overlap. Women and men should respect others, speak the truth, work hard without complaining, think clearly about what they want and work toward that vision. They should marry without cheating or divorce OR PORN! They should discipline ALL their appetites and make reasonable decisions about what they consume. They should be generous to everyone but especially to their spouse not just with money but with time and patience.

    • @bruiseleeroy7010
      @bruiseleeroy7010 Год назад

      You lost me at no porn😂💀

    • @paarthurnax8519
      @paarthurnax8519 Год назад

      ​@@bruiseleeroy7010 Porn is discructive to the mind and damages the structure of the family.

    • @Threelegs94
      @Threelegs94 Год назад +1

      You are very idealistic, you assume cheating, divorce, sexless marriages don't exist

    • @mima_piedade
      @mima_piedade Год назад +16

      @@Threelegs94 They never said thy don't exist only that ideally they shouldn't be happening.

    • @Doc2323
      @Doc2323 Год назад +3

      Totally agree

  • @CadillacSundays
    @CadillacSundays Год назад +96

    How many people laughed out loud when she said "balance of nature" this time! 😂😂😂 A+ Brett understood the assignment 👏👏👏

  • @AliPwrites
    @AliPwrites Год назад +4

    Doing a Brett Binge while I work & it feels like I am spending time with a friend, and there are few women with Brett’s morals to befriend

  • @himurakenshin3879
    @himurakenshin3879 Год назад +31

    One thing I can say about this: That guy is not an alpha. Put him in the same room with someone like Matt Walsh. Someone with a moral backbone and integrity. That's a true alpha. Not these narcissistic tough men.

    • @1.5golf98
      @1.5golf98 Год назад +4

      The guy who constantly says he can't believe why his wife would marry an ogre like him. Very alpha

    • @vivek27789
      @vivek27789 Год назад

      Matt Walsh 🤦

  • @piperellis2658
    @piperellis2658 Год назад +112

    Brett I love the way you transition to your sponsorships it honestly is so entertaining and always keeps me watching

  • @falljohnson4319
    @falljohnson4319 Год назад +161

    Brett's so well spoken i dont even care about skipping the paid promotion- Keep it up girlie 😂😁

    • @staubflorian5379
      @staubflorian5379 Год назад +1

      Did you hear when he explain he can cheat on his wife ? 😂😂😂

    • @catalins7217
      @catalins7217 Год назад

      @@staubflorian5379 You came here for a fight? 😀

  • @gunjanog7491
    @gunjanog7491 Год назад +2

    The cycle: Strong men create good times. Good times create weak men. Weak men create hard times. Hard times create strong men. And so the cycle continues.

  • @Seb_Kowalke
    @Seb_Kowalke Год назад +69

    Why is Brett dressed like an inmate? 😂

    • @Trex10100
      @Trex10100 Год назад +23

      I was thinking something out of a Tim burton's film.

    • @FerociousSniper
      @FerociousSniper Год назад +5

      ​@@Trex10100 bro, same!!

    • @spasticfurchild
      @spasticfurchild Год назад +12

      It’s a very Candace Owens outfit! I think all of their time spent together had some effects 😊

    • @JosesRants
      @JosesRants Год назад

      😂😂😂😂 thought the same thing
      You just aged yourself btw it’s Gen x and above that remember the Stripes millennials and z only know orange.

    • @kumeoii
      @kumeoii Год назад

      i was gonna say beetlejuice or smth

  • @muthuhiranmayi_p
    @muthuhiranmayi_p Год назад +61

    "A woman can be a badass and, traditional" case in point- Candace Owens

    • @ehamilful
      @ehamilful Год назад

      Totally. By the way, I really hate how men conflate quiet, mute, and timid women as submissive. Candice is clearly not any of that, but she follows her husband's lead and discusses everything with him. A wife is not supposed to go along with every stupid idea her husband thinks of. A good woman will put her foot down when her husband is about to do something detrimental to his family.
      These so-called alphas only want a "yes woman", not a CFO to their own CEO.

    • @jameshuspek
      @jameshuspek Год назад

      I like candace politically but in my opinion i dont think she's wife material, she's incredibly masculine.

    • @charzard1000
      @charzard1000 Год назад +5

      @@jameshuspek how is she masculine?? Cause she has a talk show?

    • @G360LIVE
      @G360LIVE Год назад +4

      Candace Owens? She's very opinionated and stubborn, but I wouldn't call her a badass. If you want to see a true badass, look no further than Gina Carano.

  • @nagatotoro
    @nagatotoro Год назад +60

    There is a difference between being "alpha" and being of strong will and moral character

    • @screamtoasigh9984
      @screamtoasigh9984 Год назад +6

      Disagree,, alpha means to be strong mentally too. An "alpha" who is weak in character and or morals is no alpha, too weak.

    • @daisiesandpandas1218
      @daisiesandpandas1218 Год назад

      Agree

  • @DiggerNick100
    @DiggerNick100 9 месяцев назад +1

    "This is the most wettest ciggarettest man I've ever seen" has me ROLLING! Didn't know you were also a comedian Brett.

  • @blacknight85
    @blacknight85 Год назад +19

    As a man with rugged qualities and brought up in the generation of men are men, I'm raising my son to understand it's okay for a man to show emotion. It's healthy and normal.
    Just because you bottle up your emotions doesn't mean you're an alpha male.
    " the man who speaks does not know. The man who knows does not speak"
    Essentially, if you're an "alpha" you'd never have to tell anyone. They would know.

    • @ZIbroweed
      @ZIbroweed 9 месяцев назад

      Please don't raise your son up to act like a wolf or a silver backed gorilla. As human's we're actually better than that. Raise him to be a leader. Sophisticated human leadership is far superior to tribal domination. That's why we've been able to effectively take control of a planet as a species. Everything but your last sentence was spot on. Your last sentence is probably true too, but it shouldn't be the goal.

    • @SS-Bismarck
      @SS-Bismarck 8 месяцев назад

      ​@@ZIbroweedBut ooga booga speaks to me.

    • @ZIbroweed
      @ZIbroweed 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@SS-Bismarck Like primitive language? You seem to have modern language down pretty well. I think any man who understands manhood more emotionally should listen to Jocko Willink over people who talk about "alpha." His deep voice and over-the-top pronouncements tend to be emotionally appealing in a very masculine way.

    • @SS-Bismarck
      @SS-Bismarck 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@ZIbroweed Yeah I agree with you. Just wanted to crack a joke. But I will research Jocko. Thanks

    • @nb6792
      @nb6792 8 месяцев назад

      "if you're an "alpha" you'd never have to tell anyone. They would know." 100%

  • @Mindylovealfaro
    @Mindylovealfaro Год назад +18

    a lot of the men who can’t be faithful to one woman are actually insane. You demand your girl(s) are faithful and loyal to you but you can have entirely separate intimate relationships? So Controlling and insecure. So yuck for so many reasons.

    • @thelegend3965
      @thelegend3965 Год назад +5

      How is it controlling and insecure? There are plenty of women out there who are more then happy to share a High Value Man. To think that you can get a HVM and demand that he be monogamous to you is just delusional, because you aren’t in a position to demand what he does.

    • @EVA-ki5vw
      @EVA-ki5vw Год назад

      Question: Are men designed to sleep with MULTIPLE women?
      Alpha male: kids kids kids aka fatherless kids
      Jesus: Hello?

    • @daisiesandpandas1218
      @daisiesandpandas1218 Год назад +2

      ​@@thelegend3965 dude if you want to sleep around/or like your men to sleep around that's okay, don't try to okay it for everyone else though.

    • @thelegend3965
      @thelegend3965 Год назад +2

      @@daisiesandpandas1218 how am I oking it for everyone else? I’m simply making it clear. Female promiscuity and male promiscuity are two very different things.

    • @Mindylovealfaro
      @Mindylovealfaro Год назад

      @@thelegend3965 that’s so funny, my fiancé would beg to differ. That’s just gross though, if everyone’s sleeping with everyone STDs are bound to be passed and there ya go an entire family of a shared STD is born. You can keep each other!😂 idc.

  • @tegridyprime
    @tegridyprime Год назад +94

    Before I was diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder, I was extremely promiscuous and pretty selfish. I would sleep around a lot and almost always ended up abandoning these women before it got serious, because I have a fear of abandonment (a primary symptom of BPD). My brain would always make me feel like they will always abandon me, so I'll do it before they can. I always felt horrible about it and would never brag about my body count like it was an accomplishment. I wish I knew about my BPD back then, because I did hurt a lot of women who didn't deserve it. Exactly why I've stopped hooking up and dating until I truly feel like I have my shit together. Its been a rough road to not act on my sexual urges, but I know its better for me to learn how to control my own brain before getting into anything serious. Im only 27, but I dont want to be that dude in his late 30s/40s thats alone. I've always wanted to have a family of my own, so I'm doing whatever it takes to get better, so that I can be a great dad to somebody one day.

    • @noellesanchez4978
      @noellesanchez4978 Год назад +15

      Jesus can heal u from anything :)

    • @Tyler_W
      @Tyler_W Год назад +12

      God bless, man. Kudos for having the humility to assess that within yourself and for being willing to put in the work. I don't have BPD, but I'm trying to work out my issues as well. I'm perfectly fine being single, but that isn't something I want. I want to he a healthy individual best suited for being a family, and with a bit more age and experience, hopefully I'll be be able to deliver for a future family.

    • @reyasaint
      @reyasaint Год назад +8

      Good for you, acknowledgement is the first step and you sound like you're on a great path learning about yourself, keep going! 💛

    • @joshsigned2500
      @joshsigned2500 Год назад +4

      Amigo this is my story as well, thanks for sharing 👊🏼 we can grow and we can overcome.

    • @untam3dw0lf
      @untam3dw0lf Год назад +4

      Nothing but respect for you and having a self reflection man! Going through something similar so reading this made me relate to it a little! Thank you for sharing your story!

  • @woodworkingandepoxy643
    @woodworkingandepoxy643 2 месяца назад +3

    If you have to call yourself an alpha, you're not an alpha

  • @Thomas7Lawson
    @Thomas7Lawson Год назад +20

    Your team's cutups/post-edits are absolutely some of the best I've seen, for a podcast, and absolutely hilarious. Very seamless, additive, and easy to watch.

  • @houseofhas9355
    @houseofhas9355 Год назад +13

    I have a wife & and I have a girlfriend.
    Divorce attorneys: 😊Give me the money!!!