What's Wrong With Me? Why I haven't been uploading and what's going on...
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- Опубликовано: 12 июл 2024
- In this vlog, I talk about what’s wrong with me this past month and what’s been going on with me. I’ve been struggling with my mental health lately, and that’s why I haven’t been uploading regularly as I usually do. Particularly, I’ve been dealing with an acute episode of depression that has made it difficult to do anything at all.
I’ve struggled to do things as simple as go outside. The thought of doing anything positive or anything that would make me happy has seemed extremely arduous. Depression is strange. I know I’m sad, I know I’m depressed, but I still find it difficult to do the things that I know would make me happy.
I just want to express my gratitude and thanks to all of you viewers and subscribers who continue to support me and my channel. Your words of encouragement and your inquiries as to my well being are very sweet and much appreciated as well. I hope you all know that I truly care about you and the community I’m building with this channel.
I am doing my best to get back to the things that do make me happy: making videos, exercising, learning and speaking Vietnamese, seeing friends, speaking to my family, etc.
I hope that anyone else who is struggling with health or mental health issues can get the help they need and recover.
I hope this video reaches you all well. I hope that if nothing else it is a friendly update as to what’s been going on, what’s wrong with me, and hopefully it is a catalyst of some sorts into getting back into being creative and doing the things I enjoy. Thank you all again very much.
I filmed this personal update vlog in District 1, Saigon, Vietnam, in Co Giang Ward.
Thanks for watching! I hope you enjoyed this vlog.
If you did, please leave a like and subscribe to my channel.
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Thank you! 😊
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I am very proud of you. That could not have been easy. You have absolutely nothing to be ashamed of. We are all flawed and all imperfect. Perfection is an illusion. Social media tends to perpetuate that illusion. Be kind to yourself. Nothing can be done about yesterday. Today is a fresh new day that anything can happen. I love you. I want to say to your fans, thank you for the love and support you have shown to my son. It makes me feel good knowing so many people care for him. Can't wait to see your new vlogs. ❤
Thanks Mom I love you very much. Thank you for always being there for me
@@BigTimeBentley Always Ronski!
He is a good soul & and that shines through good mamma🙏
Mom always the best’ thankful 🥰🌺’
Tyler had a good mother !
I am very happy for you .
❤❤❤❤❤🎉
Depression is part of life, and it takes strength to share that. Ive been going thru this too 💕 we love you and even though I’ve only watched a few of your videos and already invested in your well-being!
Been there, done that 4 times in my life. But each time I still had to get up for my childrens' sake. Took about 1 1/2 months to get myself up each time...just keep going...it will be OK in time....becoming a Christian stop me from falling into depression in my later years. Every time I feel I might be "going down", I recite the Lord 's prayer over and over again to distract my mind. It works for me so far....Thanks for sharing and God bless... By the way I am an Aussie living in Hanoi with my Vietnamese wife in the last 5 years...
Hang in man. I know all to well. Struggling on and off for years. I'm 59 years old and I can honestly tell you that it gets easier to put a handle on it, if you work for it. Fight for it ! If you want to chat, I will be in HMC about the 7th of November. We can have lunch. Let me know. PEACE !
Cheers I really appreciate the encouraging comment
Hi Bentley, I understand what you are going through. What I can say is please look back at things that you have now and then find happiness in small things that you do like having a good night sleep, enjoying coffee, eating a good meal. Sometimes happiness is not a big thing like having cash, having cars, being famous, it is about enjoying what you have. Even though your channel has not been big yet, you are still on the right track. Please note that you may be not as successful as others but you are still better than many (such as me who was not successful in getting even 10 subscribers, lol). But happiness is something that is very easy to grab if you just value little things you have. For me, for example, having a show that i like watching and enjoying the meal that I like sometimes is happiness to me. I also set goals to myself such as earning money and taking better care of myself and my family. So I hope you can find peace and happiness soon.
Cheers I really appreciate that. Happiness in the simple things is important
I love your videos, Bentley.
Hope you can overcome this episode and keep doing an amazing job as always.
Thank you, I'm clawing my way back 💪
Hang in there my friend. I enjoy your videos because you're so chills and real, don't change who you are.
Thanks I really appreciate that. I'll keep being authentic as always. And I really appreciate the tip that's a very kind gesture and very helpful as I continue the youtube journey. In the future though, if possible, it is much preferred to tip via paypal (I put my paypal in the video description) because then I receive the tip immediately and avoid losing about 50% of the tip to fees charged by the y0utube platform. Nonetheless, I truly appreciate the tip and it definitely helps a lot.
Good information Tyler, will do Paypal next time.
Good to see you Tyler,
I’m a fairly new subscriber, I c a man that is confident, funny, and living a great lifestyle in Vietnam. Life just doesn’t get better than that, I lost my uncle few years ago. He gave me best advice in life. Live day to day be happy with where you are in life, and wait to c the next day. People in Vietnam love you and your personality. Keep up the great work. Don’t worry about nothing, take it easy Tyler ✌️🤚🤚
Cheers that's really kind of you to say. I'll try to keep these things in mind and press forward
Missed you man
Missed you guys too
Glad to see you again and you’re doing better. Mental health is a real struggle. Hope you’ll seek help. And hope you consider treatment to stabilize depression. Stay strong and healthy, friend!
Thank you I'm working through it trying to get my routine back
Cheer up my friend…. You have the best job that anyone can have… I’m Vietnamese living in California and I would trade my life to be in yours… just look around and some people have it worst in Vietnam. Not the end of the world…..
Doing my best to get back to the things that make me happy
@@BigTimeBentley How about doing a motobike adventure, maybe Saigon to Danang….. get out of the big city and just ride and free your mind, the most thing i miss about Vietnam is be able to ride the motobikes.
One way to fight depression is to keep yourself busy with something, so you don’t have too much time thinking about negative stuffs, like going to the gym regularly, pumping irons, build some muscle. Eat well. Stop smoking. Make yourself look good, and when you look good, you feel good.
Also don’t let any negative comments on RUclips videos bother you. If you notice, many really successful RUclipsrs don’t bother to comment at all, like Mark Weins. Of course you are still a small time RUclipsr, so you need to engage with viewers to keep them interested. Ignore the shit talkers.
A change of place should help too, either a different city in Vietnam, or a different country.
All good advice! Definitely gotta focus on the positive and ignore the negative
Keep your head up high. Just take it day by day. Love seeing your content in my mother's land....much love
Cheers thank you
Glad to see you are back. Hang in there and thanks for sharing your challenges with mental health It’s nothing to be ashamed of. Good luck and stay strong!
Thank you so much
Sorry to hear that. Maybe you need a change of scenery. Hope you get better.
That's not a bad idea, maybe a trip is in order
Thank you for this video. It can't have been easy and shows what all of us who follow you already knew... you're a special and thoughtful guy. You mention imperfection several times... I see no imperfection in this video. In fact, it gets a Dank Rating of 9.3! We consider yours our favorite channel, and if we wanted a perfectly scripted/edited show, we'd probably subscribe to cable! Just walk and talk, take us with you exploring whenever you feel like it. We don't need highly edited... or edited at all. I too suffered from depression for several years off and on. It would descend without warning and leave the same. No discernible explanation for either. I sincerely hope your happiness flies back to you soon!! We've missed you (and your lovely girlfriend). Thank you for the great content you provide. Wishing you all the best from Joshua Tree!
Thank you so much for the sweet comment and for sharing that with me, and the 9.3 dank rank 😀 This video wasn't easy to make but I think it was an important step and that I'm moving in the right direction
Time will heal all. Something tells me you are heartbroken. Hang in there man. Its a tough.
thank you...it's tough but I'm working through it
Nice content thank you for sharing.Fully enjoyed your video.Have nice Sunday morning my friend ❤❤❤
Just sending support. I knows it’s a tough thing to get through. Take care of yourself.
Thank you, I will!
Very glad to see you back again . We really worried about you , about your health , your safety and everything . Once we thought that you already left VN because of your visa situation . Don't get depressed be strong , Don't forget we are always supporting you . Just think positively , take it easy . When you look around you would see more people in much worse situation than you but they are still smiling and happy . Actually you look thinner and more handsome . Bon courage mon ami .
Thank you so much. Definitely not in as good shape as I was but I'll get back there. Just taking the steps to get back into a happy and healthy routine
I am glad you are back and doing good. Looking forward to your next videos. Wish you all the best and stay healthy.
Thank you so much
You have good channel man, seem like a good dude!
I'M GLAD TO SEE YOU'RE OK MAN ! 💕
Thank you so much man
Guy, let's plan a motobike trip to go somewhere outside the city for fishing, camping , so on, you will be better.
good idea!
Stay strong and safe Bently I followed you from your adventures in Mexico you seeing the happiest glad to see you back.
Cheers thanks for the long time support...I appreciate you!
Great to see you are back. stayed strong🙏
Thank you will do
We are all our own worst enemy. No one can be happy all the time and I think I haven't been really happy in years. We all ride this roller coaster of life and there will always be ups and downs. Don't be ashamed and stay strong, brother. Love your all videos, but always take time for yourself to heal and be happy. come back when you are truly ready, we will all be here.
Cheers thank you for your support...I think this was a big step to getting back at it
I’m glad you are back in the saddle again. I was curious as to what happened to you, I’m always looking around when I’m out and about. I hope you get better soon and enjoy Vietnam again. Take care bro. God bless you and your companion.
Thank you so much. Still here! God bless you and yours as well
You’re a good man for speaking up on depression I go through it it’s a mental illness that you can’t control. One day at a time is a great saying for somebody with depression and that’s all you can do you’re a good man and you’ll get through it. You’re stronger than you think!!!
Thank you so much I appreciate that
Sending love and respect from Ireland. Stay strong, delighted to see you back.
Cheers thank you very much
Watching you from Redondo Beach bro... You enjoy making the videos, we enjoy watching them, I'll say keep up the good work! When I was younger I hit a lot of rough spots and things looked bleak in the moment, but I started to strive for tranquility rather than happiness and it worked, easier said than done but it is possible. Looking forward to more vids. Cheers!
Cheers. That's really cool you're in Redondo. I grew up there, near Parras Middle School
This video just makes you more real and relatable. Too many on social media only show bright, shiny, happy things even though their world is falling apart. Know that you are not alone and you are brave to even talk about it. Max McFarlin has dealt with depression and made a few videos about it. It does seem like you've got severe depression and oft times, I think it began with the negative voices in our heads that took up residence when we were very young. The longer we let these negative voices rule us, the deeper it etches it's presence into our brains. Very difficult to shake. It's akin to that "dark passenger" that Dexter spoke of (depression, not serial killer bent here) that just rides around with you or sits on your chest. It can be managed on some level, sometimes, but all those saying just go to the gym don't fully understand true depression. Kinda hard to go to the gym when you've no energy to do anything but lie in bed. But keeping busy will keep the negative thoughts at bay. I think sitting still in your own thoughts is the worst thing you can do if you have depression, even if you may "enjoy" it on some level or feel as if you need it. But isolation has a way of wreaking havoc on those with depression as it's just more time for them to get back into to a circular/endless negative state of mind and they cannot break out of the loop. I do think nature can sooth you on some level...maybe go look at her majesty. Gaze at the ocean and listen to the waves without people around. Go north to those majestic mountains of the northern Vietnam and let nature surround, embrace, and awe you...even if it's just for a little bit. Best of luck, Tyler.
Getting out into nature is a great idea. Always makes me feel better. I didn't know Max had videos about this too. Wish the best for him he's someone I look up to a lot.
I missed your videos and am glad you are back. I hope to catch up in person soon. Chin up mate.
Cheers man thank you
Thank you for sharing! It must have been difficult.,I hope you feel better soon and start making more videos.
Thank you, I will
Yeah I wondered what happened to you. And I'm sorry to hear that about deppression.😢I can understand how struggling it is. Cause I have it as well. I just wanna say I like your videos and you are not alone.
I appreciate you. Glad you like the videos and I hope you're doing well friend
It will pass! Be strong, sending support!!
thank you so much
Think of it as your brain needing time to reset. Glad you listed the positives like a supportive girlfriend and family. Take whatever time you need to clear your head and ponder the now and the what's next💕
Cheers I think posting this was an important first step to getting back to a happier place
So glad to see you taking care of yourself. Wishing you the best....lots of love bud!!!
Thanks so much
Good to see you back. Your videos are fun and informative and have plenty of character and I've missed them. Sending positive wishes and good vibes from Toronto Canada!
Cheers thank you so much for that feedback. I'm looking forward to making more fun videos
Like is short, every days there’s people out there also feel the same way. I pray to God you will get better and God will bless you in every aspects of your life that you needed.
Cheers God bless you as well
It’s like a knot. I can’t believe you just quoted Lit. That’s epic. I’m glad to see you back BIG TIME
Great song
@@BigTimeBentley dude me and a couple buddies in high school would just sing this one. Remember just belting out the chorus at a football game lmao. Cannot say that for any other song
@@alc6269 STILL BURNINNN
You are human. You are enough. I have been depressed for years. Starting jobs and quitting because I feel empty. But it isn't the job so much as it is my depression. There is a time and season. This too shall pass.
I hope you feel better soon bro. I was thinking about teaching English abroad; your channel was the first I ran into. It was as inspirational for me as it is for others. Thank you for what you're doing. Stay strong and much luv to you.
Thanks so much. It makes me glad to hear you were inspired by my channel. I wish you the best of luck and courage on your adventure
Thanks for sharing. I am glad you are coming out of your depression. Take care!
Thank you you take care as well
I'm glad you're doing better. Hang in there. Looking forward to your videos.
thanks I appreciate it. I'm looking forward to publishing more videos
I’m glad to see you and watch your videos ,some thing I look forward to very day,keep trying everything will pass 👍😘🙏 .
Thanks so much
Wow hope you’re feeling better dear ‘ you’re a very nice person’ 🤗❤️’ happy you’re back and doing better’
Cheers thank you very much
stay strong, Bentley. We are here with you always.
thank you so much
Thanks for sharing. I love your videos. As long as you still post your videos, I will continue to watch and like them. This video is perfect. No cuts, the emotion is raw and honest.
Hope to see more from you doing things in Vietnam, like eating local foods, traveling to different places, chatting with the locals, all those would be lovely.
--Your new subscriber from Portland Oregon❤.
Thank you I really appreciate that
I just found you, and as a shaman, i am sending you warm blessings. When you are at your worst moment, just remember you are not along and just breathe and tell yourself you are worthy. Let go of all negative thoughts and control your breathing. One step at a time.
Great to see you back brother! Your good woman is a keeper. There is no shame, we all go through this & some people are in denial, great thing is you see it & believe me there are better days ahead my friend! You are loved. 🙏
Thank you so much for the kind comment. Looking forward to better days
It's good to see you back Tyler. Depression is nothing to be ashamed of, i believe everyone gets it to some degree. You have made the most important step to beating the black dog, and that is acknowledging and talking about it
Cheers no doubt. I feel like opening up about it was a weight off my shoulders in a lot of ways (weighs?)
i make it a point to go outside the house and get some fresh air daily, getting up and enjoying life. Time is something you can not get back. Best of luck.
It's definitely healing to get outside. I got some morning sunlight today and that felt really nice
Hey Bentley, I really enjoy your videos and always look forward to seeing them. Nothing in life is perfect, that’s what makes it interesting and fun. I’m 76 years old and I look forward to visiting Vietnam in the future, you make my desire to travel there so much more. Keep up with your doing, hope to bump into you
Cheers I really appreciate that. I hope you come visit Vietnam it's a great place
Hi Tyler. Thanks for the update and posting this video. It must all be incredibly difficult, but it looks and sounds like you're on a good path and coming out of it. I know what it's like to suffer from depression as well, and the feeling of not wanting to do anything at all. But the fact that you're motivated, and feeling positive & creative is an excellent sign. You'll be through this soon, no doubt. I shot you a message on your instagram page the other day and would love to chat some more, if you're up for it. Keep up all the excellent work. Cheers!
Cheers I appreciate the supportive comment...working through it
Thank you for sharing this information. My children has this problem from time to time. You’re not alone. It takes will power to make this video and I encourage you to continue to share and like you say we all are not perfect and that we should embrace the good and bad things about ourselves. Be grateful and know that there’re good people and reason to move forward however long it takes. The most important is to make that step forward and focus on the now not tomorrow. No one knows weather they’ll have tomorrow or not. Enjoy, love and appreciate much each day. All hardship is temporary it’ll past.🙏🏼
Thank you so much
Yêu bạn, xin hãy giữ gìn sức khỏe thật tốt, lâu rồi không thấy bạn đăng video nên tôi thấy khá lo lắng.
cam on nha
Bentley, you’re the epitome of CACK. Keep your head up, boss. Keep pushing forward. There’s always a place for you here in Cali.
Cheers brother I really appreciate the comment and will hyu next time I come back home
Good to see you back. I have struggled with depression here and there usually a few times a year. One time I had my vitamin levels checked via bloodwork and was told I had almost no vitamin D in my body so any time I’m feeling down I start taking vitamin d right away and that seems to work. Also, just avoid negative thoughts and try your best to focus on positive energy. Enjoy and appreciate the little things. ✌🏻
For sure something to keep in mind. I may go in for some blood work to see what's going on with my vitamin levels. I appreciate you and thanks for your comments while I was away
Bentley, I hope you can win the depression. You still have a lot of great things and people around you. Specially, you still have a great mother!
Cheers thank you
Being open to being vulnerable and talking about it takes exceptional courage. You've got my upmost respect. We could all be more open with how we feel. Keep strong brother
Cheers thank you
I'm 49 years old and I live alone. I got depression quite often in the past but now I'm better. Try new things, even things you think you don't like, it will keep your mind busy. That's how I deal with it, I hope you will be back to normal soon. Cheers!
Cheers thank you
Hi Tyler, sorry to hear what you’ve been going through 😢. I’m glad you’re starting to feel better. Hopefully you’ll be back to your old self soon. 🙂
Cheers thank you...I'm getting there
hang in there Ben. We are all love you and appreciate all your hard work and your struggling. God bless you and your family !!!!!!!
Thank you so much. God bless you and yours as well
It's nice to have you back my man
cheers brother I got back in the gym yesterday. Back in today as well.
Well done, man. Keep up the good work!
You’re only human❤❤I am gladly to see you again. Take care yourself❤
Thank you so much
Glad to see you again, was wondering about you.
Glad to be here
It's good that you know you have a problem and it's good the let it all out there in order to fix things.
Cheers I feel like posting this video was a big step
Hey Tyler, I’m so happy to see you in a new video.
I plan to visit Saigon but the ticket is very expensive to fly to Việt Nam!
I hope one day to see you in Saigon and invite you diner ‘Mì Vịt Tiềm ‘ 😊😊
Where are you flying from? Hopefully you get to come out here some day soon
@@BigTimeBentley From Dallas, Texas.
Yeah. Hopefully, I will be in Saigon soon.
I’m new to learning Vietnamese language and love seeing you travel around , it also gives me new places to eat
Cheers that makes me glad to hear
Keep in mind,
Tough time will never last,
Only tough people do…
Missed your videos mate. Good to see your ok 👍
Cheers thank you
Small steps, man. Getting anything done,is a start.
Be kind to yourself. Don't beat yourself up.
Letting depression define you isn't going to help.
It's not OK to BE depressed. It is, however, OK to FEEL depressed. That can be the difference, as a state can not be changed, whereas a feeling can.
Cheers. It's been a series of small steps leading up to posting this. I feel like this was an important step and I'm glad I did it
Hang in there. Hope you have support over there. When you need it.
Cheers thank you
Hope you feel better….,🥰😘😘
Great to see you again Bentley. Thanks for your honesty, it’s important to tackle mental health issues. Get the (professional) help you need and don’t blame yourself. Looking forward to your hem vlogs - they are really solid content. Say ‘hi’ to your girlfriend, she’s a keeper 👍
Cheers I appreciate that. I'll be back to the hems soon
Watching your video reminding me a friend of mine, a foreigner living in Vietnam. At first he's kind of loner, depressed, and did quite a lot crazy stuffs. I don't know your situation, but my advice is: finding a gf, don't rush, don't fall into crazy one, picky a little bit (you have a look for Vietnamese girls, seriously), find someone not too strong in personality, then find a job to communicate with locals around you. If possible, make friend with other to hangout, don't stay late, try to wakeup early in the morning. My friend got much better by following that.
I'm glad that worked for him seems like good advice
Hang in there, Bentley. Surround yourself with people that care about you as much as possible. Just take one day at a time and soon this shall pass.
Cheers that's a good mantra
Hi Bently. I'm glad to see your video again. I hope you're feeling better now. Thanks for sharing with us. I agreed with everything you said in your video. We are just human beings. We are not perfect. Of course you are not perfect. No one is. There will always be some up and down moments. No one can expect you to be happy all the time, at least not me. I am not happy all the time. And there's no shame about it. Sometimes I feel depressed, sometimes I don't want to do anything, sometimes I have bad thoughts, but that's just who I am. There will always be shadow within you. It's a part of you, so there's nothing wrong to accept it. If you don't feel like doing anything, don't do anything. If you need some time for yourself, spend some time to take care of yourself. But I just want to let you know that I and your community, are always here for you. Take your time, take it slow, 1 step at a time. Do what you like, be comfortable with yourself. I'm sure some days will be better than others.
I will be in Vietnam next month. If you're down to meet up and have a chat, let me know. I can't wait to enjoy my childhood food while I'm there. ❤
Cheers I really appreciate the words of encouragement
Have you try or consider meditation? Look into it, it really help with one's mental health, it helps mine.
Definitely something I've done in the past and something I will start working into my routine
Great to see you back. Don't worry about perfection, your videos are entertaining, warts and all, thou I don't see anything wrong with them.
Lot of us struggle with mental health, nothing to be ashamed of.
If you'd be interested in doing a help video, I was in Vietnam in March and plan to be back in November, really struggled with my phone.
I got the new simcard, but still couldn't contact my bank in the US when I had a problem. And hints about phones would be appriciated.
Another thing would be help in setting up a Grab account
Hang in there buddy.
Those are great ideas for videos. I appreciate the support
I deal with depression and PTSD even while traveling. It’s funny because i thought leaving the USA would help me and keep me distracted but it’s just the same no matter where i am. It’s all good bro ur not alone. I’ve been thinking about putting out a video like this for a long time but wasn’t sure how people would react to it… you gunna be alright brother 💪🏽
Happiness is not a location, It's a mindset. Location can help but in the end if you are not happy it will follow you wherever you go. The old saying that you can never truly run away from your problems.
@@damienyuen7718 noticed i said “i thought it would HELP me” i never said traveling would “cure” me. But yes you are right
Definitely wasn't the easiest video to film or publish but a step in the right direction I think. Cheers to you on your vlogging journey.
😟😛😝😜😳😵😱. and that was just my last year.
Chin up,pip pip, and all that. Always stick around to see what happens tomorrow. It can be hard, I know, but like George sang... " All Things Must Pass".
Most people don’t understand depression. It’s absolute apathy. It’s like being a rudderless ship. It’s an almost complete lack of personal initiative and motivation. It’s not laziness, and no, you can’t just “get outside”, or whatever else people say especially when you can barely muster the will to get out of bed. The last year seems to have been hard on a lot of people for many different reasons. Yours are valid to you. You recognize it for what it is. If you’re conscious of it, then you can slowly pull yourself out of it. Don’t expect a change overnight but just keep trucking. Be patient and compassionate with yourself. You’ll be okay. Macabre thoughts are just your way of trying wrap your brain around that which was concerning you. The fact that you’re here, now, making this video is a testament to your mental strength. See you in your next one.
Cheers I appreciate the comment
Be kind to yourself! Don't beat yourself up.
Don't worry! be happy.
Cheers...might listen to some Bob Marley now after reading this
Please don’t be too hard on yourself. We all are imperfect people. Take care of yourself & know that you’re a great person. Hang in there!
Thank you so much
Glad you are back.... One day at a time 😁you're girlfriend is correct you are talented and it's great to see you smile 😁
Thank you so much
Depression is common now, and there's nothing to be ashamed of. I have a good job, a loving spouse, and a nice house with everything I need and more. I have a big family, I'm still young and healthy, and I'm financially very comfortable. But guess what? I have chronic depression. I've lost all interest in doing anything besides the basic necessities to keep myself functional throughout the day. I guess my depression also creates anxiety. My point in telling you this is that you're okay. You're not alone. By the way, I heard drinking coffee helps with depression because the caffeine lifts you up. Also, try not to think about the past or future. Think of the present. Thinking of the past makes you sad, and thinking of the future makes you worry. Focus on now. Practice controlling your mind. Verbally yell out "Stop!" if your mind drifts to the past or future.
Go a short travel may help you? may you can visit a highland or beach for better. If you feel tired just slow worked, hope you will get well soon bro!
That's a great idea. A mini trip would be nice
Keep a positive attitude and try hard to keep your girlfriend. She seems to support you and looks like a keeper.
Tyler - I am not going to pretend I know what you're going through, but I know what you're doing makes you happy and it makes all of us happy to see our RUclipsr are still with us. I hope you find help dealing with this demon and stay with us my friend.
Cheers thank you...I'm still here
Take a deep breath and then observe your thoughts, without judgement. It will help to break the spiral.
Thank you that's good advice
"The meaning of life is to find your gift. The purpose of life is to give it away." Pablo Picasso.
Interesting quote
Keep fighting….
Definitely will
😎👍
cheers brother
Man, just came across your channel. You are not alone although it feels like it to you.
My professional advice is seek medical intervention as well as some intensive exercise to increase natural endorphins as well as counselling with a good psychologist.
Do not be embarrassed - it is pretty common in todays world !
Please do not think it will just go on its own - stay safe man !!!
🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺
Cheers that's good advice
Go to somewhere, such as the beach, sit at there and let your chaos think go away!
thank you
Mình cảm tháy vui vì bạn chia sẻ cảm xúc bạn với mọi người. Mình cũng là người Tây. Mình cũng học tiếng Việt. Chúc sức khỏe bạn.
Cheers where are you from?
Stay strong
thank you
This is going to sound a bit weird but bear with me. In the english language we say 'I am depressed/sad' but in the Irish language we say 'ta bron orm' which literally translates as 'I have sadness/depression ON ME', in english it suggests that sadness is a part of you but in Irish it suggests that it is a temporary state, something that you can shrug off at some stage. It allows for fluidity, the times in our lives when we have sadness on us but that sadness is always flowing in and out of our lives and never defines who we are as a person.
When I have sadness/depression ON ME I recognise that I won't always feel this way and I learn to embrace it and learn from it (just like I can't be permanently happy I also can't be permanently sad)....I hope this makes sense?
In the low times of your life you can learn so much about yourself, you choose to share your feelings which is wonderful and also gives encouragement to others to do the same (in particular men), you took your low point and turned it into some positive which is very brave and selfless.
Don't be hard on yourself, you're human having a human experience, learn to love who you are during your low times just as you love who you are during your happy times. Remember you are a perfectly flawed human.
This too shall pass......
xxxxx
Interesting linguistic perspective. Cheers thank you for the comment