Just found your channel ('cos you've covered the Letby case) and catching up on some older videos like this one. You've a great channel, and your stories are really fascinating. Thanks for sharing your experiences. I have an older sibling who's like a turd that won't flush, even though the boundaries are in place and have been for years. The anger/ irritation when they pop up again is real. I try to respond rather than react, which takes a fair amount of patience and compassion not only towards myself but towards this sibling - not that he'll ever know (we don't speak), and it's not for his benefit if that makes sense. Anyway, glad you handled this situation without making anything worse which is a win.
Thanks, I'm really glad you like them. I didn't think my story was very interesting until I met with Matt Price. He told me it should be a book. So I decided to tell it all in RUclips
@@WilliamBonneyPodcast just found your interview with Matt and listening to it now. Glad he encouraged you to share your story. Enjoy what's left of the weekend!
Will, thank you for your amazing stories, opinion and insights. Is there any way you could perhaps consider doing a video on being arrested and how to conduct yourself in a police interview under caution/how to deal with the police?
You have really turned your world around, made you a better person that you are today 🤗 never think that you are weak for not confronting a particular person, your life on the outside with you and your wife is more important, don't get dragged back down, don't loose all you input that you have achieved, I wish you and your wife a peaceful life 🙏
Thank you. I always say I'm a different person now, but I can really see the difference now. I'm miles away from the hooligan I used to be. Thanks for your kind words
@@WilliamBonneyPodcast I would like to firstly thankyou, for yor amazing content that you bring with such a calming voice 👌, but most of all I wish you and your wife only the best, with peace and lots of laughter along the way 🙏, take care 🤗
U are mentally strong and we proud of you... Stay away from problems and live your life in peace that your brother will find himself in prison again sooner or later Sorry about my English I am Latvian guy. I can literally listen your stories all day brother
@@WilliamBonneyPodcast sorry for late response brother... In Latvia is shit mate absolutely nothing to do.. Tough place Do some research about Eastern European prisons and maybe make video. Plus you live in Cornwall maybe make some road trip video to prisons or make road trips to Cornwall beauty's spots just for some change you know... Btw what ever you make I will listen and watch... Like I said I can listen in your voice all day long.. I seen all your videos every single video... Keep doing great work brother 👍
I'm a recent listener. Your videos are real not overshadowed by BS. I get you have triggers also know your now trying to mould yourself to a better person . William it's hard when you have a screed up history to hold back your anger. I too cut ties my mother many years now. I lived in Exeter most part my life now I live Plymouth with my wife kids No more controlled by my old life found decent women settled down ect. Seems you are doing same don't let the one person who loves you been there slip threw cracks mate. Keep finding away controlling that rage embrace new people friend's ones you may normally not hang with. Anyways eaither way keep the videos going you keep us wanting hear learn more. Cheers William keep safe keep being the new you big man.
That is EXACTLY how I was when my mother died when I was 13. First time back in the house and I started crying. Then I watched an episode of the Simpsons and felt grand. Never cried after that. Don't get me wrong, my mother was a good woman who cared greatly for me and obviously her passing affected me greatly growing up. But in terms of that kind of outward mourning? I just blocked it out. I didn't even try to block it out. I just did.
Well done for not getting into something. No point getting angry with someone who is not rational. Sounds like he prob has done his brain some damage with all the drugs and alcohol so he's more to be pitied or have compassion for... but better is to prioritise your wife and refuse to get dragged into it. Sounds like your anger response was what life had trained you to do... not your fault... but you're using your brain now, not just automatic response. You did good. Try not to get dragged into old drama. You don't need it anymore. 👍👍👍
I think part of him wants you to fail whether he's aware of it or not. He can see that you don't need him or look up to him anymore and that must really piss him off and he may be lashing out when he's shitfaced. You have a wife and a life and he can't even make it as a criminal. Also you're protecting your wife by not getting arrested for confronting a relatively harmless drunk relative at 3am and causing a scene. If something genuinely dangerous happens you're still there to deal with it within the law when it comes to self defence. If you'd got nicked she'd be on her own for tiiiime. You done the right thing. Don't waste your ability to protect her on something that's not a real threat.
Sounds to me like he's resentful and jealous of your life now, and also looking for a fight with someone after getting pissed. You did the right thing because if you challenged or got physical with him then you'd likely get arrested. You maintained the higher ground. And next time he will hopefully not bother you because he knows you won't bite. Its not being weak, it's being mature and civil and not rising to stupid behaviour.
I've started doing Tae Kwondo and have a dummy at home to practice kickboxing on... have you checked out Crav Maga? (?spelling) sounds like you would become a black belt in no time and learn to keep total self control... probably end up teaching it. Its how to deal with real attacks... knives, guns, multiple attackers etc I'm thinking it could be a great way to let off all your steam without getting arrested 😎
Some seriously eye opening content, I can't believe this channel hasn't got more subscribers, there's a lot of people missing out!
Thanks man, the channel has been growing organically for a little while. I don't advertise or anything so I just rely on people finding me.
I love your podcasts I think I’m addicted LOL😂
Just found your channel ('cos you've covered the Letby case) and catching up on some older videos like this one.
You've a great channel, and your stories are really fascinating. Thanks for sharing your experiences.
I have an older sibling who's like a turd that won't flush, even though the boundaries are in place and have been for years. The anger/ irritation when they pop up again is real. I try to respond rather than react, which takes a fair amount of patience and compassion not only towards myself but towards this sibling - not that he'll ever know (we don't speak), and it's not for his benefit if that makes sense.
Anyway, glad you handled this situation without making anything worse which is a win.
Thanks, I'm really glad you like them. I didn't think my story was very interesting until I met with Matt Price. He told me it should be a book. So I decided to tell it all in RUclips
@@WilliamBonneyPodcast just found your interview with Matt and listening to it now. Glad he encouraged you to share your story. Enjoy what's left of the weekend!
Well done for not stooping down to his level and for being the bigger man, huge respect!
I can relate to ur story a lot, family can be such a tough one. Hope ur good bro.
Will, thank you for your amazing stories, opinion and insights. Is there any way you could perhaps consider doing a video on being arrested and how to conduct yourself in a police interview under caution/how to deal with the police?
Thank you. If you check out my playlists you will find a couple of videos about just that already
@@WilliamBonneyPodcast thanks Will! x
Proud of you mate, your self restraint is evidence of how much progress you have made.
You have really turned your world around, made you a better person that you are today 🤗 never think that you are weak for not confronting a particular person, your life on the outside with you and your wife is more important, don't get dragged back down, don't loose all you input that you have achieved, I wish you and your wife a peaceful life 🙏
Thank you. I always say I'm a different person now, but I can really see the difference now. I'm miles away from the hooligan I used to be. Thanks for your kind words
@@WilliamBonneyPodcast I would like to firstly thankyou, for yor amazing content that you bring with such a calming voice 👌, but most of all I wish you and your wife only the best, with peace and lots of laughter along the way 🙏, take care 🤗
U are mentally strong and we proud of you...
Stay away from problems and live your life in peace that your brother will find himself in prison again sooner or later
Sorry about my English I am Latvian guy.
I can literally listen your stories all day brother
I would never know English wasn't your first language. How's Latvia?
Paldies par klausīšanos. Man prieks, ka tev patīk.
@@WilliamBonneyPodcast sorry for late response brother...
In Latvia is shit mate absolutely nothing to do.. Tough place
Do some research about Eastern European prisons and maybe make video.
Plus you live in Cornwall maybe make some road trip video to prisons or make road trips to Cornwall beauty's spots just for some change you know...
Btw what ever you make I will listen and watch...
Like I said I can listen in your voice all day long..
I seen all your videos every single video...
Keep doing great work brother 👍
Moment of silence for man who havent found this page.
I'm a recent listener. Your videos are real not overshadowed by BS. I get you have triggers also know your now trying to mould yourself to a better person .
William it's hard when you have a screed up history to hold back your anger. I too cut ties my mother many years now. I lived in Exeter most part my life now I live Plymouth with my wife kids No more controlled by my old life found decent women settled down ect.
Seems you are doing same don't let the one person who loves you been there slip threw cracks mate. Keep finding away controlling that rage embrace new people friend's ones you may normally not hang with. Anyways eaither way keep the videos going you keep us wanting hear learn more.
Cheers William keep safe keep being the new you big man.
That is EXACTLY how I was when my mother died when I was 13. First time back in the house and I started crying. Then I watched an episode of the Simpsons and felt grand. Never cried after that. Don't get me wrong, my mother was a good woman who cared greatly for me and obviously her passing affected me greatly growing up. But in terms of that kind of outward mourning? I just blocked it out. I didn't even try to block it out. I just did.
another great listen and you certainly did the right thing love xx
Thanks Gill.
Good on you your wife will admire u
Thank you kindly
Unbelievable…I honestly cannot believe people still have net curtains 😂😂
This one hit hard. I have a twin brother who wanted to take me down his path to justify his shit life choices. Fucking Hell..
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Thanks Gemma 😊
Well done for not getting into something. No point getting angry with someone who is not rational. Sounds like he prob has done his brain some damage with all the drugs and alcohol so he's more to be pitied or have compassion for... but better is to prioritise your wife and refuse to get dragged into it.
Sounds like your anger response was what life had trained you to do... not your fault... but you're using your brain now, not just automatic response. You did good. Try not to get dragged into old drama. You don't need it anymore. 👍👍👍
well done good work informative dealing with this sub culture intelligent
Well done , you passed the test , what angers you controls you 💪✌️😎 the new William bonney is cool as F 😂👍
Cool as cucumbers 🙂
@@WilliamBonneyPodcast 😂👍 nice one bonney stay cool 😎✌️
''What angers you, controls you''... that's brilliant, so true ✔
William Bonney ain’t your real name?! That’s Billy the Kid’s name 😂👊
fart on his head William!
I think part of him wants you to fail whether he's aware of it or not. He can see that you don't need him or look up to him anymore and that must really piss him off and he may be lashing out when he's shitfaced. You have a wife and a life and he can't even make it as a criminal. Also you're protecting your wife by not getting arrested for confronting a relatively harmless drunk relative at 3am and causing a scene. If something genuinely dangerous happens you're still there to deal with it within the law when it comes to self defence. If you'd got nicked she'd be on her own for tiiiime. You done the right thing. Don't waste your ability to protect her on something that's not a real threat.
chin 'em all Bonney!
Sounds to me like he's resentful and jealous of your life now, and also looking for a fight with someone after getting pissed. You did the right thing because if you challenged or got physical with him then you'd likely get arrested. You maintained the higher ground. And next time he will hopefully not bother you because he knows you won't bite. Its not being weak, it's being mature and civil and not rising to stupid behaviour.
I've started doing Tae Kwondo and have a dummy at home to practice kickboxing on... have you checked out Crav Maga? (?spelling) sounds like you would become a black belt in no time and learn to keep total self control... probably end up teaching it. Its how to deal with real attacks... knives, guns, multiple attackers etc I'm thinking it could be a great way to let off all your steam without getting arrested 😎