I was in Hua hin with some friends about four weeks ago and I met this guy who was visiting for like a month and he was maybe 58 met a girl at a bar and fell in love, only new her for 4 or 5 days and she could barely speak English, Which for myself is a deal breaker, she was in her 30's and he set her up in an apartment to keep her out of the bar and he wasn't planning on coming back for a year. This will turn out bad for sure. If your not here 24/7 forget it. These gals have many clients, they are not going to sit at home reading books when you are out of the country.
I was in Thailand first the time in 1988, Phuket, as a member of the US Navy. I met a bargirl that was absolutely stunningly beautiful! I spent all 4 days with her and I was convinced she liked me as much as I liked her. Well, long story-short, she didn`t like me as much as I liked her and I found out the "hard way." But, in the end, all these years later, I have great memories and it didn`t cost much at all really (beach bungalow was $3/night, beer was 3 for a dollar, girls were about $15 for the night and I had hundreds of dollars from being deployed and nowhere to spend it). Be careful out there!
Nothing really surprises me anymore when it comes to Thailand. Thailand has so many beautiful things to offer. An important question to ask ourselves is: Would I look for a wife in a house where dishonorable acts in exchange for money happen? Few decent Thai women are willing to be with Farangs. She often refuses to see an equally "low-class" Thai guy. She will hunt the foreign market to find someone "better" instead. Those who are not decent will work in bars and finance their Thai families and Thai bfs/husbands through farang sponsors.
I have been coming to Thailand for several years and stay for a few months. I met a girl at one of the well known GC and we have been friends for the last two years. She no longer works in a bar but supports herself. No sick water buffalo or parents to support, just a small child that lives with her. We all do a lot of fun things together when I’m there. She cooks dinner for me. I do help her with money from time to time to improve her living conditions but not enough to hurt my bank account. If she finds another boyfriend, I’m OK with it because we are just very good friends.
@@bigtuna9904 yes it's certainly easier to find friends with benefits if your not on holiday sounds like a great arrangement even better if you have a couple like that gigs
This is a great video to watch 6 weeks before I land in Jomtien. Now, I am going to save this and watch it again as soon as I make it to my hotel room 😄
I had a buddy of mine come to visit me in when I was in Thailand years ago. I had a few trips under my belt already and warned him of the dangers before we headed out the first night. He literally fell in love with the first girl he met (A cashier in a bar who was maybe a 4 out of 10 on a good day), spent the rest of his 3 week holiday with her. Then he went back to the country on his own 3 separate times after to see her and she finally got so creeped out by him she ghosted him. The guy was so heartbroken he was considering self deleting over a 4.
@@markadler8968 most guys who go to pattaya couldn't get a girl in a ladys toilet in there home country's.. so they fall in love at the drop of a hat crazy but it will always happen
I like the idea of a 1 day rule for newbies. Also might want to add only do Short Term, no Long Term. Less chance of getting wrapped up because they will leave quickly.
as I was listening to this I recieved a message on my Line, it was one of the bargirls from Soi 6 I had spent time with before. she said "I have no drink tonight and have no money to eat" with crying emojis, she then said "can you help me" what BS. 😂
I was last month in Pattaya. One evening I was walking down the street and a bike taxi stopped near me that I ordered one day before and he recognised me saying "hey friend how are you doing" Then he asked me if I needed a drive because he has almost no money for food (he grabbed a few baht from his pocket and showed me). But I pointed to his fat belly and I said that he would not die from hunger the coming days with these extra kilo's even without any food. So Byeeeeee HAHAHAHA what a bunch of pathetic morons
Another fab story Daz, as always. Butterflies at every turn in that story, hilarious. 🦋🦋🦋 Surely you have enough hair dresser stories now for a book, a best seller guaranteed! 👍
I'm someone with a soft heart. It's just the way it is. If I hadn't stumbled across your channel Daz 18 months ago. I know my time so far in Pattaya would be a disaster. So, thanks for these videos. It's helped me understand the game here.
@@Cramernutz22in the states the hard part is meeting women who aren't feminazis. In Thailand, it seems the hard part is getting non-feminazis to leave.
@cjackfly if I happen to find a woman here, I'm not taking her back to the States. I'll find a way to stay here. But I'm not looking for that while here anyway. Maybe next time I come out this way.
I love your stories !!! Many guys that come to Pattaya only for a 2 or 3 week holiday (let alone "first timers") probably won't believe that those kind of stories are true. But (since I live in Pattaya) I have heard similiar stories all the time. Some farangs leave their brain back at BKK airport. 😂🤣😅 Cheers from Wongamat !
It’s always mind-boggling how so many guys, who are skilled at generating real income and are highly competent in certain areas, can be completely lost when it comes to interacting with women or navigating social settings. They get taken advantage of so easily. To these women, these men are like babies holding candy, and it’s effortless to just snatch it away.
Most farang han$um men are very inexperienced with having lots of woemyn (being married for decades doesn’t count for experience), so are like lambs to the slaughter when they get some fake attention from Thai working girl$ … 😂
I always break the 3 day rule, because I find we have more fun when we get to know each other better. Be honest with the lady, let her know that you know the score, take the pi55 when she gets messages from other 'boyfriends', take the pi55 if she calls you Tirak or tries to lovebomb you. Remember every morning its business when you give her 'taxi fare' in the morning, Don't see her every day. Make sure her only point of contact with you is Line, disable Line at airport if you think you might be a sucker.
Great info as always. When I was in Pattaya back in 2018, I met 2 French speaking middle-aged Swiss ladies on a baht bus. I had a few years of high school french and was pleased how much of it came back when speaking with them. We had a nice conversation and, I must say, the vibes were very good. I was somewhat intrigued and they weren´t bad looking. However being in Pattaya, there was obviously better fishing with the younger local ladies and only so much time, so I didn´t pursue it. Later on I saw them in a night market with a young Thai lad with whom they were having dinner. Hmmm, interesting. To your knowledge do western ladies also come to Thailand looking to sample the local fare the same as the men? Are there host bars that specialize in this trade? Just curious.
Take them out to eat at regular Thai places, don't ever go to their 'friends' bars, buy them a couple of clothing items from the markets, be respectful, but not a sucker. You don't need to get involved with their family situation (it'll never be good news) and, unless you're a multi-millionaire expat retiree: You can't afford them as a girlfriend.
Great advice again. I saw many disappointed men over the years at a major airport where I worked. They had only met the women on line, but financed and eventually sent a ticket. The women, mostly eastern Europeans at that time, never showed. Your stories are like modern day Charles Dickens, they are so intertwined. Cheers from Canada
I really enjoy your hair dresser friend’s stories😊 I’ve been vacationing in Pattaya two months each year for over 30 years. I often spend my afternoons in bars and gent clubs hearing the delusional stories from what seems to be the endless stream of clueless men who travel here and believe the lies they are told by bar girls. At this stage in my life it I almost look forward to their crazy stories as much as the boom boom! How can men be so gullible!
You are the savior of the kind-hearted farangs of Thailand. ..I wish I had watched your videos in 2016. It had saved me money and troubles. The easy manipulated farangs end up with a broken heart and an empty bank account.
You are absolutely right Daz, you should never get carried away in Pattaya! I myself have paid a lot of money over the years to learn this (I can't count the number of times the girl contacts me back in my country to ask me to help her pay her rent for that month or so and me, a good sucker, I always gave in....) They tell a lot of stories with one goal: to get as much money out of us as possible! Also, they don't give their real identity since in bars they use pseudonyms so why tell the truth on your side since everything is false on theirs? My good heart cost me a fortune in a few years there, be careful friends, they fleeced me like a sheep!!!!
hahahahahaha... another sucker... As soon as I get on the plane back to my country I delete Line, girls whatsapp numbers, Thaifriendly...and not cos I have a wife or girlfriend back in my country is because when I get on that plane the illusion is over and I dont want anybody asking me for money for her sick mama or papa or buffalo
Perfectly explained, Daz. Anyone who can accept that it is an illusion that is rewarded with a reasonable amount of money can have the time of their life with Thai women. However, you have to experience it yourself to really understand it. Great story that would make an entertaining movie.
I recently met a friend I hadn't spoke to in a while. He's 'met' thai girl online, paid for her nose /boob job. Booked flights to go see her. A week before he was due to fly out she tells him shes got a 'new job' in a different city and 'cant' see him because the training is all day for 7 days................she still asked him for more $$$$ until he finally woke up! - ahaha
Thank you Sir for your high quality content. Always awesome. ❤️❤️ (Currently, I fly between Thailand and Medellin. Medellin is a lot more dangerous than Thailand. In the past, I brought a Shanghai girl to the US and got married, then divorced. Lost $1.2 million dollars)
@@edmccarthy6228 too much to write, but whomen in general will always have their agendas, just like men do. But never get married in the USA. Never take a girl back to the USA. Never Ever
I had to gasp when you started your story. The owner of Coco 51 in Hua Hin is called Lek and her husband is called Mike. He is also a factory owner in the UK!!!
Some of us just like to learn things the Hard way some of us need to go down the Pattaya rabbit hole as the saying goes you live you LEARN this is how we gain experience in life....Live love Thailand 🎉🎉🎉
It doesn't matter how many of these kinds of videos are made, it's still going to happen again and again and again. This is because of the beauty of Thai women and men's vain hope that what happened to other men won't happen to them.
Beauty of Thai women??? Are you serious?? I have been going to Pattaya for 5 years now and every year I see less quality in women..Yes of course you see the super good looking one with fake tits but average I would say the quality is going down
What I got from that story was, Gentlemen, she’s not YOURS! Just your turn! She/ they all belongs to the streets! 😅 always pay them to leave! Hahah. I’m sticking to the 3 a day rule. Breakfast, lunch and dinner.
Really well explained particularly about having the trustworthy mindset from experience and growing up in your own culture about romance and emotional connections contrasted with the romance for money objective which is devoid of emotion on the part of the woman that you meet. I know several guys who have made big mistakes in Pattaya. The bloke has to be as clinical as the woman, say goodbye and move on.
@@googleuser2609 He had just moved to Pattaya permanently about a year,found "the one" and bought an apartment in his name but it was willed to her and she knew it...they had a regular taxi driver who,unknown to my friend,was her husband... They decided to poison him to get ownership of the apartment and over several weeks she put the poison in his food until it was fatal... A lot more events after his death which can't be posted on here
You are such a Fun Storyteller D (thanks always for your work).....Ken: 'No! ive left all those small Rooms behind, I only go to nice Condos now......Better you come to me!...."
"In a relationship, which appears to be real, and involve what appears to be real emotion -- but in reality, it's all an illusion". --- *everything Pattaya* .
Play them at their own game...I always tell the girls it's my first time,even though I been travelling there since 1998,..I love listening to the latest ways they try and scam you😀
I almost fell for this game with a massage girl. And girls are so laid back and accommodating it’s unreal. After 2 or 3 days I woke up and thought what am I doing. Needless to say I got outta that he is absolutely right she will stay with u because it’s easy work
I got a friend who is bar owner on Soi 6...I was 2 weeks ago there with him and in less than I would say 3 hours I saw the same girl going up stairs with 4 different customers...4 guys in less than 3 hours... And my friend told me he saw her once going with 5 guys same day...
The lessons from the story are: 1. Be honest, 2. Never trust anyone in Pattaya, 3. Never believe anything automatically, 4. Respect Thailand and the culture, 4. Do not argue, 5. Do not marry a Thai bar girl, and 6. Never willingly give money to a Thai girl when you are tens of thousands of miles on the other side of the earth. 😅
@@bst338 OK, let's try to complete the 10 commandments. Where were we? Oh that's right: 7. Trust your instincts *always* , 8. Use protection, 9. Stick to the three-day rule or 1 day rule if you are a total newbie, and 10. Thai girls in Thailand are like a box of chocolates . . . . You never know which one has nuts. (OK I shamelessly stole #10 from a comment on a RUclips shorts video).
I just returned home from 2-month vacation in Pattaya. The greatest time of my life!!! My 1st pint was in Maggie May where the foam didn't even settle before I was behind the curtain with 2 gorgeous babes. Upon finishing, she copied the Mona Lisa painting on the wall. Some of you know what I'm talking about. That was my 1st day and it got better and better and better every day for 2 straight months. UNBELIEVABLE!!!!
@@davothefirst9371 Flight = $2,200, Hotel = $600 month, and I gave myself $120 a day spending = $3,600 month. Most of my money went toward women and weed.
Hi Daz. What a great story and totally believable! I love the walkabout's in the malls also! Is there any chance you can do one in Central Marina on 2nd Road, thats a favourite for me as I tend to eat there before or after visiting Soi 6! All the best mate, Bill. 👍🇬🇧
The lesson is simply: "Don't trust many Thai girls. If possible have a good friend check on her. GOOD FRIEND= A farang you trust to do the right thing. Or, friends from home country to check on her in country.
Think I sat next to you in Heavens Above in Jan this year? I recognized the accent and when I asked if you were from Yorkshire you sounded surprised/concerned and asked me how I knew. It was you right?
Great advice as always. 👍 In a few weeks I will be in Pattaya for the first time. Let's see, If I'm able to follow the one day rule and if I managed to leave my heart at the airport...
I guess you are in Pattaya now... just think about if you would fall in love with a prostitute in your country, would you?? I dont think you would, then why doing in in Thailand?? Just enjoy yourself
That Keng fellow is cold as ice...we should all take a page or two out of his play book. Speaking of books...Am almost finished with a book of true stories about adventures and misadventures in Pattaya...may be of interest to some of you guys. The podcast and youtube video genre is awesome...and Daz is a King in that world. Real books can also be fun as well ( v^-゜)♪
I think I'll stick with the 3 Girl Rule and treat them all like I would if they were my girlfriends yet have the money ready in the morning. Awesome video & story as usual. Cheers
I mean your stories are getting more and more delirious. You should put all of them in a book and selling it. A bestseller for sure..! Thai girls are something else 😂. I know few GEMS 💎 myself from the most popular A GO GO bars in Walking Street and their behavior is totally like you describe it in your Video. Earning crazy amount of money from everywhere and spending like confetti 🎉. Cheers DAZ 👍 Wicked Video 👏👏👏
The problem is that the Western p4p system is basically honest..the Pattaya way is built on lies and bs... Once this is realised it's the bs that makes it unpalatable. I rarely buy lady drinks and never pay for company. Of course this means I'm nearly always alone.. but I can't enjoy spending time with someone who is basically trying to treat me like an idiot.. The food and the weather are still nice though. 😎
If you keep it p4p they do the same (I've never had a problem). It's the guys trying to turn them into girlfriends/wives who end up burnt for the big sums of money.
I play their game...the only thing is say for real is my name..I think I have said I am from every single country in the world also that I hold every single job in the world I have been an airline pilot, police officer, IT , fire fighter , ship captain, and so on hahahahah.. If they lie to me I lie to them simple
There's a fail safe test. Look in a mirror at yourself and ask 'would a hot younger girl choose this?'. Also try the same test whilst naked. The answer should be accurate.
Your hairdresser should seriously consider creating a soapie. It would certainly beat Neighbours and Eastenders. 😁 Plot twist, Mike and Kang were sleeping together behind Lek's back.
Very important video. Every guy who has never been to Southeast Asia should see this video. Hear it. So many guys fall victim to the “yellow fever”. They feel spoiled when they go to Asia. It’s like a fantasy coming true. Have to use your brain! Have to. Always THINK. Don’t think with your heart and what is between your legs! No. Dangerous to do so. Otherwise you will be taken for a long ride. It’s ALL about the money with them. They need the money. Catching that big fish is their big dream. Goal.
Not sure I understand. Have you sent one or some ladies $500 before even meeting them in person? If so, just think of it as tuition toward a course in Thai lady social interaction. How much you ultimately want to pay for the lesson is up to you. Don't feel bad or that you are the only one who has taken this course. Rest assured, many have done far worse and seem to never learn.
I think the moral of the story is and I think Daz cant emphasis anymore then he has. Just like he says "this is Thailand". The place is what it is. You cant be surprised at any of it. Be on point at all times.......
@@CAHSR2020 It's not just about young and handsome, they would have to be able to smile and strike a good conversation (with lots of different kinds of ladies), and most importantly talk really well so she has a lot of attention, she feels attractive, happy, turned-on with his total and utter focus. Would have to be more than just good looking to make money, because needs to be able to make the connection, but having a hot body and a good smile, definitely gonna help a lot. 😅
I had a gal telling me all about how horrible her upbringing was and how she never experienced love from the family members who raised her after her mother passed away when she was 5, etc. I'm a nice guy and I'm sure she thought I was going to go, "Awwwww", give her a big hug, and promise to give her all the love and affection she needs. Instead, I just took another drink of my Chang and said, "I'm sorry to hear you hard such a hard time growing up." You could tell it was not at all what she was expecting.😂
I was in Hua hin with some friends about four weeks ago and I met this guy who was visiting for like a month and he was maybe 58 met a girl at a bar and fell in love, only new her for 4 or 5 days and she could barely speak English, Which for myself is a deal breaker, she was in her 30's and he set her up in an apartment to keep her out of the bar and he wasn't planning on coming back for a year. This will turn out bad for sure. If your not here 24/7 forget it. These gals have many clients, they are not going to sit at home reading books when you are out of the country.
So true - even if you are there 24/7!!
She'll be getting regular visits from her Thai 'brother' to keep her company.
Even when you were 24/7 in Pattaya you need to buy an iron Maiden for your Thai wife
You can almost hear all the sponsors saying ''yes, but my girl/wife is different.'' 🤣
As the saying goes, you can take the girl out of the bar, but you can't take the bar out of the girl.
$imps deserve to be mocked … 😂
I was in Thailand first the time in 1988, Phuket, as a member of the US Navy. I met a bargirl that was absolutely stunningly beautiful! I spent all 4 days with her and I was convinced she liked me as much as I liked her. Well, long story-short, she didn`t like me as much as I liked her and I found out the "hard way." But, in the end, all these years later, I have great memories and it didn`t cost much at all really (beach bungalow was $3/night, beer was 3 for a dollar, girls were about $15 for the night and I had hundreds of dollars from being deployed and nowhere to spend it). Be careful out there!
What a time to be alive!
Nothing really surprises me anymore when it comes to Thailand. Thailand has so many beautiful things to offer. An important question to ask ourselves is: Would I look for a wife in a house where dishonorable acts in exchange for money happen?
Few decent Thai women are willing to be with Farangs. She often refuses to see an equally "low-class" Thai guy. She will hunt the foreign market to find someone "better" instead. Those who are not decent will work in bars and finance their Thai families and Thai bfs/husbands through farang sponsors.
I have been coming to Thailand for several years and stay for a few months. I met a girl at one of the well known GC and we have been friends for the last two years. She no longer works in a bar but supports herself. No sick water buffalo or parents to support, just a small child that lives with her. We all do a lot of fun things together when I’m there. She cooks dinner for me. I do help her with money from time to time to improve her living conditions but not enough to hurt my bank account. If she finds another boyfriend, I’m OK with it because we are just very good friends.
"I do help her with money from time to time to improve her living conditions"
@@bigtuna9904 yes it's certainly easier to find friends with benefits if your not on holiday sounds like a great arrangement even better if you have a couple like that gigs
Self protection as its best ….. you got the rules of the game! 👍👍👍👍
I've been going to Pattaya for 15 years and every year I all in love...
so you have been a sucker for 15 years...hahahahah long time being a sucker, when you get to 20 years let us know so I can still get laughing
You can never stop telling this message mate. As newbies ( and multi trip punters ) never learn.
This is a great video to watch 6 weeks before I land in Jomtien. Now, I am going to save this and watch it again as soon as I make it to my hotel room 😄
Relationships are a business for all women on Earth. Men are in Love and Women are in Business, to quote something I heard before.
Smart men are never in love … 😎
I had a buddy of mine come to visit me in when I was in Thailand years ago. I had a few trips under my belt already and warned him of the dangers before we headed out the first night. He literally fell in love with the first girl he met (A cashier in a bar who was maybe a 4 out of 10 on a good day), spent the rest of his 3 week holiday with her. Then he went back to the country on his own 3 separate times after to see her and she finally got so creeped out by him she ghosted him. The guy was so heartbroken he was considering self deleting over a 4.
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crazy. those simps everywhere. some guys are really miserable
@@markadler8968 most guys who go to pattaya couldn't get a girl in a ladys toilet in there home country's.. so they fall in love at the drop of a hat crazy but it will always happen
For you she was a 4 for him probably a 10
So many guys are just pathetic … 😂
I like the idea of a 1 day rule for newbies. Also might want to add only do Short Term, no Long Term. Less chance of getting wrapped up because they will leave quickly.
Great story Daz! Everyone should listen to you and learn!!!
as I was listening to this I recieved a message on my Line, it was one of the bargirls from Soi 6 I had spent time with before. she said "I have no drink tonight and have no money to eat" with crying emojis, she then said "can you help me" what BS. 😂
So you immediately ran down to Western Union and sent her 10,000 baht YES ??? LOL
You should have played her the video.
Their stories on Line are so funny, they seem to be sick in hospital a lot/need money to pay & some have more than 1 birthday per year😂
I was last month in Pattaya. One evening I was walking down the street and a bike taxi stopped near me that I ordered one day before and he recognised me saying "hey friend how are you doing" Then he asked me if I needed a drive because he has almost no money for food (he grabbed a few baht from his pocket and showed me). But I pointed to his fat belly and I said that he would not die from hunger the coming days with these extra kilo's even without any food. So Byeeeeee HAHAHAHA what a bunch of pathetic morons
Or my phone is dying. It’s not working right… 🙄
Another fab story Daz, as always. Butterflies at every turn in that story, hilarious. 🦋🦋🦋
Surely you have enough hair dresser stories now for a book, a best seller guaranteed! 👍
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@@soidog154 Yes, don’t let the truth get in the way of a good story as they say! 😂😂😂
I'm someone with a soft heart. It's just the way it is. If I hadn't stumbled across your channel Daz 18 months ago. I know my time so far in Pattaya would be a disaster. So, thanks for these videos. It's helped me understand the game here.
Yeah, I am the same way. Empathy can be a very expensive thing in Pattaya.
@ccrider8483 That's why I'm keeping my contact to a minimum. A few hours here, a few hours there.
@@Cramernutz22in the states the hard part is meeting women who aren't feminazis. In Thailand, it seems the hard part is getting non-feminazis to leave.
@cjackfly if I happen to find a woman here, I'm not taking her back to the States. I'll find a way to stay here. But I'm not looking for that while here anyway. Maybe next time I come out this way.
Careful boys 😲 she's NOT yours 😲 it's just your turn
So Lek fleeces Mike. Kang fleeces Lek. Lek cheats on Kang. Kang double crosses Lek. Mike financed the whole thing. This is Thailand.
Good assessment LOL
@@shep68 land of deception and delusion
I love your stories !!! Many guys that come to Pattaya only for a 2 or 3 week holiday (let alone "first timers") probably won't believe that those kind of stories are true. But (since I live in Pattaya) I have heard similiar stories all the time. Some farangs leave their brain back at BKK airport. 😂🤣😅 Cheers from Wongamat !
It’s always mind-boggling how so many guys, who are skilled at generating real income and are highly competent in certain areas, can be completely lost when it comes to interacting with women or navigating social settings. They get taken advantage of so easily. To these women, these men are like babies holding candy, and it’s effortless to just snatch it away.
Most farang han$um men are very inexperienced with having lots of woemyn (being married for decades doesn’t count for experience), so are like lambs to the slaughter when they get some fake attention from Thai working girl$ … 😂
“Met her on his first visit, and first night out….and he was immediately besotted.” 😂🤣
I always break the 3 day rule, because I find we have more fun when we get to know each other better. Be honest with the lady, let her know that you know the score, take the pi55 when she gets messages from other 'boyfriends', take the pi55 if she calls you Tirak or tries to lovebomb you. Remember every morning its business when you give her 'taxi fare' in the morning, Don't see her every day. Make sure her only point of contact with you is Line, disable Line at airport if you think you might be a sucker.
What's pi55?
No need to disable Line. Just block pesky girl$ …
Great info as always. When I was in Pattaya back in 2018, I met 2 French speaking middle-aged Swiss ladies on a baht bus. I had a few years of high school french and was pleased how much of it came back when speaking with them. We had a nice conversation and, I must say, the vibes were very good. I was somewhat intrigued and they weren´t bad looking. However being in Pattaya, there was obviously better fishing with the younger local ladies and only so much time, so I didn´t pursue it. Later on I saw them in a night market with a young Thai lad with whom they were having dinner. Hmmm, interesting. To your knowledge do western ladies also come to Thailand looking to sample the local fare the same as the men? Are there host bars that specialize in this trade? Just curious.
Take them out to eat at regular Thai places, don't ever go to their 'friends' bars, buy them a couple of clothing items from the markets, be respectful, but not a sucker. You don't need to get involved with their family situation (it'll never be good news) and, unless you're a multi-millionaire expat retiree: You can't afford them as a girlfriend.
If you want to nip the stories of family woe in the bud and gain major respect as a bonus, just tell her
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Great advice again. I saw many disappointed men over the years at a major airport where I worked. They had only met the women on line, but financed and eventually sent a ticket. The women, mostly eastern Europeans at that time, never showed. Your stories are like modern day Charles Dickens, they are so intertwined. Cheers from Canada
at least Lek kept it real across all nationalities. thats quite a positive takeaway I think. kind of a beautiful story. these girls are perfect.
I really enjoy your hair dresser friend’s stories😊 I’ve been vacationing in Pattaya two months each year for over 30 years. I often spend my afternoons in bars and gent clubs hearing the delusional stories from what seems to be the endless stream of clueless men who travel here and believe the lies they are told by bar girls. At this stage in my life it I almost look forward to their crazy stories as much as the boom boom! How can men be so gullible!
This is the funniest of all so far.
Well done for the Thai man, i am glad he told the sponsor.
You are the savior of the kind-hearted farangs of Thailand.
..I wish I had watched your videos in 2016.
It had saved me money and troubles.
The easy manipulated farangs end up with a broken heart and an empty bank account.
You are absolutely right Daz, you should never get carried away in Pattaya! I myself have paid a lot of money over the years to learn this (I can't count the number of times the girl contacts me back in my country to ask me to help her pay her rent for that month or so and me, a good sucker, I always gave in....) They tell a lot of stories with one goal: to get as much money out of us as possible! Also, they don't give their real identity since in bars they use pseudonyms so why tell the truth on your side since everything is false on theirs? My good heart cost me a fortune in a few years there, be careful friends, they fleeced me like a sheep!!!!
hahahahahaha... another sucker... As soon as I get on the plane back to my country I delete Line, girls whatsapp numbers, Thaifriendly...and not cos I have a wife or girlfriend back in my country is because when I get on that plane the illusion is over and I dont want anybody asking me for money for her sick mama or papa or buffalo
I have got to the point that I just short time now, better to be heartless
Best advice!
Kang handled it correctly. A fool and his money should never have gotten together in the first place. Overpaying is a sign of weakness not generosity
Perfectly explained, Daz. Anyone who can accept that it is an illusion that is rewarded with a reasonable amount of money can have the time of their life with Thai women. However, you have to experience it yourself to really understand it.
Great story that would make an entertaining movie.
What’s an amazing story absolutely brilliant the lesson I get from this is the one night rule needs to be used and never broken. This is Thailand.😅
I love the stories. Keep up the good work.
I recently met a friend I hadn't spoke to in a while. He's 'met' thai girl online, paid for her nose /boob job. Booked flights to go see her. A week before he was due to fly out she tells him shes got a 'new job' in a different city and 'cant' see him because the training is all day for 7 days................she still asked him for more $$$$ until he finally woke up! - ahaha
Simps are unbelievable at times. They really are.
$imps are a curse to mankind … 😂
Thank you Sir for your high quality content. Always awesome. ❤️❤️
(Currently, I fly between Thailand and Medellin. Medellin is a lot more dangerous than Thailand. In the past, I brought a Shanghai girl to the US and got married, then divorced. Lost $1.2 million dollars)
Wow! Thanks for being so honest. What did you learn about these women going forward?
@@edmccarthy6228 too much to write, but whomen in general will always have their agendas, just like men do. But never get married in the USA. Never take a girl back to the USA. Never Ever
I had to gasp when you started your story. The owner of Coco 51 in Hua Hin is called Lek and her husband is called Mike. He is also a factory owner in the UK!!!
Some of us just like to learn things the Hard way some of us need to go down the Pattaya rabbit hole as the saying goes you live you LEARN this is how we gain experience in life....Live love Thailand 🎉🎉🎉
It doesn't matter how many of these kinds of videos are made, it's still going to happen again and again and again. This is because of the beauty of Thai women and men's vain hope that what happened to other men won't happen to them.
Beauty of Thai women??? Are you serious?? I have been going to Pattaya for 5 years now and every year I see less quality in women..Yes of course you see the super good looking one with fake tits but average I would say the quality is going down
What I got from that story was, Gentlemen, she’s not YOURS! Just your turn! She/ they all belongs to the streets! 😅 always pay them to leave! Hahah. I’m sticking to the 3 a day rule. Breakfast, lunch and dinner.
3 days rule is for newbies....a real professional of Pattaya never spend more than 1 hour with a girl...ok,ok 2 hours then FO..bye next
The difference between reality and illusion. Absolutely, in six words.
Really well explained particularly about having the trustworthy mindset from experience and growing up in your own culture about romance and emotional connections contrasted with the romance for money objective which is devoid of emotion on the part of the woman that you meet. I know several guys who have made big mistakes in Pattaya. The bloke has to be as clinical as the woman, say goodbye and move on.
The boyfriend being a taxi driver (including motorbike) is very common in Pattaya...had a friend caught that way but with a fatal ending
What? ... What happened!?
@@googleuser2609 He had just moved to Pattaya permanently about a year,found "the one" and bought an apartment in his name but it was willed to her and she knew it...they had a regular taxi driver who,unknown to my friend,was her husband... They decided to poison him to get ownership of the apartment and over several weeks she put the poison in his food until it was fatal...
A lot more events after his death which can't be posted on here
You are such a Fun Storyteller D (thanks always for your work).....Ken: 'No! ive left all those small Rooms behind, I only go to nice Condos now......Better you come to me!...."
"In a relationship, which appears to be real, and involve what appears to be real emotion -- but in reality, it's all an illusion". --- *everything Pattaya* .
Fantastic and informative video. Where would you find these Barhosts? Me and buddies are interested in checking them out.
They won't let foreign guys in. These are totally straight bars.
Play them at their own game...I always tell the girls it's my first time,even though I been travelling there since 1998,..I love listening to the latest ways they try and scam you😀
I almost fell for this game with a massage girl. And girls are so laid back and accommodating it’s unreal. After 2 or 3 days I woke up and thought what am I doing. Needless to say I got outta that he is absolutely right she will stay with u because it’s easy work
I got a friend who is bar owner on Soi 6...I was 2 weeks ago there with him and in less than I would say 3 hours I saw the same girl going up stairs with 4 different customers...4 guys in less than 3 hours... And my friend told me he saw her once going with 5 guys same day...
The lessons from the story are: 1. Be honest, 2. Never trust anyone in Pattaya, 3. Never believe anything automatically, 4. Respect Thailand and the culture, 4. Do not argue, 5. Do not marry a Thai bar girl, and 6. Never willingly give money to a Thai girl when you are tens of thousands of miles on the other side of the earth. 😅
@@googleuser2609 These tips should be posted on the immigration window at Suvarnabhumi.
You almost completed the ‚10 commandments of Pattaya‘ 😅👋👍
@@bst338 😅😄
@@bst338 OK, let's try to complete the 10 commandments. Where were we? Oh that's right: 7. Trust your instincts *always* , 8. Use protection, 9. Stick to the three-day rule or 1 day rule if you are a total newbie, and 10. Thai girls in Thailand are like a box of chocolates . . . . You never know which one has nuts. (OK I shamelessly stole #10 from a comment on a RUclips shorts video).
Poor old Mike the knight - as the late Felix Dennis once said, "If it flies, floats or fornicates, always rent it. It's cheaper in the long run"!
I do the two hour rule and move to the next bar to meet another girl
I just returned home from 2-month vacation in Pattaya. The greatest time of my life!!! My 1st pint was in Maggie May where the foam didn't even settle before I was behind the curtain with 2 gorgeous babes. Upon finishing, she copied the Mona Lisa painting on the wall. Some of you know what I'm talking about. That was my 1st day and it got better and better and better every day for 2 straight months. UNBELIEVABLE!!!!
How much you spend dawg ?
@@davothefirst9371 Flight = $2,200, Hotel = $600 month, and I gave myself $120 a day spending = $3,600 month. Most of my money went toward women and weed.
Hi Daz. What a great story and totally believable! I love the walkabout's in the malls also! Is there any chance you can do one in Central Marina on 2nd Road, thats a favourite for me as I tend to eat there before or after visiting Soi 6! All the best mate, Bill. 👍🇬🇧
Go to the village for a week and tell us about the highlights of your trip! It's boring AF in Isaan... farm life is alot slower paced 😂
The best Thailand Story I ever heard! :)
Glad you think so!
The lesson is simply: "Don't trust many Thai girls. If possible have a good friend check on her. GOOD FRIEND= A farang you trust to do the right thing.
Or, friends from home country to check on her in country.
Keng was the real winner in this story 😂🤷🏻♂️
You are the David Attenborough of Pattaya. ❤
And here we see the mating dance of a thai bargirl in her natural habitat of soi 6 😂
Think I sat next to you in Heavens Above in Jan this year? I recognized the accent and when I asked if you were from Yorkshire you sounded surprised/concerned and asked me how I knew. It was you right?
So in the end, it's the Thai man who wins and gets all the money. It's not the bargirl.
Just the Toyota, that's all
Mercenary girls! Ha ha hee.... very eloquently and accurately put bro 😂
Great advice as always. 👍
In a few weeks I will be in Pattaya for the first time. Let's see, If I'm able to follow the one day rule and if I managed to leave my heart at the airport...
Most leave there brain 🧠 at airport 😂😂😂😂😂
Not only your at the airport ….. also all LINE contacts 😅
I guess you are in Pattaya now... just think about if you would fall in love with a prostitute in your country, would you?? I dont think you would, then why doing in in Thailand??
Just enjoy yourself
Newbie travel king without an experienced wingman? You’re toast, mate … 😂
The rule is, if she is not in your arms, she's in another's. So, you want to send her money to do that?
That Keng fellow is cold as ice...we should all take a page or two out of his play book. Speaking of books...Am almost finished with a book of true stories about adventures and misadventures in Pattaya...may be of interest to some of you guys. The podcast and youtube video genre is awesome...and Daz is a King in that world. Real books can also be fun as well ( v^-゜)♪
Appropriate comment that Keng is cold as ice, because Thai for ice is Nam Keng, meaning Hard Water LOL
@@CheekyMonkey007 ha ha! Good one bro! 😆
I think I'll stick with the 3 Girl Rule and treat them all like I would if they were my girlfriends yet have the money ready in the morning.
Awesome video & story as usual.
Cheers
Your advice is good. My question is simple: Is it possible to meet a nice Thai girl away from the bar scene in Pattaya?
I've met Hundreds of Nice girls in the bar scene in Pattaya, very nice indeed LOL
Possible, just
Stick to the one hour rule. Get in, and get out. 👍
Like soi dog ma boy !!!
finally someone who speaks sense....exactly like that...forget 3 day rule, 1 day rule... 1 hour rule or 2 hour tops and good bye
@@locospanish78 👏👏👏👏
I mean your stories are getting more and more delirious. You should put all of them in a book and selling it. A bestseller for sure..! Thai girls are something else 😂. I know few GEMS 💎 myself from the most popular A GO GO bars in Walking Street and their behavior is totally like you describe it in your Video. Earning crazy amount of money from everywhere and spending like confetti 🎉. Cheers DAZ 👍 Wicked Video 👏👏👏
He is speaking the truth
hh or hr rule. nevermind a one day rule.
hh? hr?
@@HungryPanda3287 half hour. Hour.
thx for the advice and story as always. Keep it up!
As a forginer, you are only renting Pattaya. Best to keep that top of mind.
The problem is that the Western p4p system is basically honest..the Pattaya way is built on lies and bs... Once this is realised it's the bs that makes it unpalatable. I rarely buy lady drinks and never pay for company. Of course this means I'm nearly always alone.. but I can't enjoy spending time with someone who is basically trying to treat me like an idiot..
The food and the weather are still nice though. 😎
You're living in the wrong place to find a 'normal' woman who has a regular job! Duh!
@edmccarthy6228 the topic is pay for play DUH!!!
If you keep it p4p they do the same (I've never had a problem). It's the guys trying to turn them into girlfriends/wives who end up burnt for the big sums of money.
You tink too mutt ,,,,,,,, Just have fun and enjoy yourself....
I play their game...the only thing is say for real is my name..I think I have said I am from every single country in the world also that I hold every single job in the world I have been an airline pilot, police officer, IT , fire fighter , ship captain, and so on hahahahah.. If they lie to me I lie to them simple
Great story daz I really enjoyed that one.😆👍🏼
This is great, I laughed a lot towards the end.
There's a fail safe test. Look in a mirror at yourself and ask 'would a hot younger girl choose this?'. Also try the same test whilst naked. The answer should be accurate.
But the test does not work for guys whose mind has gone south
But I’m a “han$um man” because all the girl$ tell me that … 😂
What a beautiful love story!
Brilliant video Daz,got a kick out of the story.. A foolish bunch these Pattaya white nights"they just don’t get it"
Hi Daz, can you define “bar hosting” please? I have heard different meanings. Thanks.
Your hairdresser should seriously consider creating a soapie. It would certainly beat Neighbours and Eastenders. 😁
Plot twist, Mike and Kang were sleeping together behind Lek's back.
So at a host bar do the women bar fine the guys and are the host bars on premise so the women can do st a the host bar?
Bar Host only bar fine to go off site only, no ST rooms
another enjoyable vlog mate............
"relationships", mariage, "love", etc... is the exact same business in the West! same same
all true, its much more natural in pattaya, and its very cold in the west
Very important video. Every guy who has never been to Southeast Asia should see this video. Hear it. So many guys fall victim to the “yellow fever”. They feel spoiled when they go to Asia. It’s like a fantasy coming true. Have to use your brain! Have to. Always THINK. Don’t think with your heart and what is between your legs! No. Dangerous to do so. Otherwise you will be taken for a long ride. It’s ALL about the money with them. They need the money. Catching that big fish is their big dream. Goal.
Love that story , it's so true what goes on over there 😂😂
More stories please!!
I feel like this video is for me - I'm at $500 and I'm not even in Pattaya yet. Thanks for the advice
Not sure I understand. Have you sent one or some ladies $500 before even meeting them in person? If so, just think of it as tuition toward a course in Thai lady social interaction. How much you ultimately want to pay for the lesson is up to you. Don't feel bad or that you are the only one who has taken this course. Rest assured, many have done far worse and seem to never learn.
I think the moral of the story is and I think Daz cant emphasis anymore then he has. Just like he says "this is Thailand". The place is what it is. You cant be surprised at any of it. Be on point at all times.......
Great video put me in check thanks
I live for Daz's hairdresser stories 😂
Love the story at the ead
Daz, do you meet subscribers for a bit of lunch and a drink, if so its on me! I arrive in two weeks, I’ve been a subscriber for years!
Unfortunately I don't really have the time with 2 channels
Great story! The guys are more brutal than the girls! 😂
The bargirl said, "I'll do anything for 10,000 baht." I replied, "Can you cook, clean my condo and walk my dog?"
Did she agree?
@@arientshole114 No. She wanted extra to walk the dog.
@@Pattayaman999 😅😅🤣😂
Some will
Great! like your stories
Good story . I love a happy ending… but that’s another story 🤔😂
I want to hire one of the male bar hosts to give me dating advice.
“Be young and handsome.”
@@CAHSR2020 It's not just about young and handsome, they would have to be able to smile and strike a good conversation (with lots of different kinds of ladies), and most importantly talk really well so she has a lot of attention, she feels attractive, happy, turned-on with his total and utter focus. Would have to be more than just good looking to make money, because needs to be able to make the connection, but having a hot body and a good smile, definitely gonna help a lot. 😅
Whenever you hear sob stories act like you didn’t hear it.
I had a gal telling me all about how horrible her upbringing was and how she never experienced love from the family members who raised her after her mother passed away when she was 5, etc. I'm a nice guy and I'm sure she thought I was going to go, "Awwwww", give her a big hug, and promise to give her all the love and affection she needs. Instead, I just took another drink of my Chang and said, "I'm sorry to hear you hard such a hard time growing up." You could tell it was not at all what she was expecting.😂
The lesson is som nom na and loss of face will come back and haunt the one who was responsible
Top story that hahahaha loved it!😂😂😂