the year of contentment update #3 // april low buy year update

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  • Опубликовано: 20 окт 2024

Комментарии • 22

  • @maru45382
    @maru45382 2 года назад +3

    That’s a pretty headbands. In my case this month did use retail therapy as a coping mechanism but talking with my therapist help me to discover the cause and learned from it. Love your reflections and interesting thoughts. 😊

  • @marie-pierreperez6824
    @marie-pierreperez6824 2 года назад +3

    nobody is perfect, the most important is to do the best we can

  • @angeladesilva7913
    @angeladesilva7913 2 года назад +3

    Guilt and spending is interesting to me. I hope you make a video on that subject. I’d like to hear more about how to make yourself feel content.

    • @shawnaripari
      @shawnaripari  2 года назад

      I do think I'll make a video about guilt in the next little bit! Glad to know you're up for it

  • @baileydunton6142
    @baileydunton6142 2 года назад +2

    This video was so helpful for me! My only two non-budgeted for items this past month were a video game and a new collar for my dog. Did my dog need a new collar? No, his old one probably would’ve made it another four or five months but I always worry what would happen if he were to get out and it somehow broke off so I guess I can kind of justify that one (that and he looks very handsome in it lol)
    The video game I can also I guess justify because it’s one my spouse and I have been waiting to play together and because of it we’ve spent more quality time together this month.
    Your words at the end about not beating ourselves with a stick over purchases that are technically within our means really helped me, thank you so much ❤️

  • @EmmaLemmon
    @EmmaLemmon 2 года назад +6

    I broke my low buy this month, so it's actually reassuring to hear that you feel like you made some mistakes too. I think i know why I did it (reaction to previous perfectionism, stressful day feeling a lack of control over my life etc). On the plus side I haven't given up the low buy and still managed to pay off my debt this month (my goal is to get it cleared this year). I did feel guilty and embarrassed but I'm over it now and your video helped!Hopefully I can continue with more of a light hearted attitude for the rest of the year. I also changed my seasonal budget to monthly because I think I'll be able to manage that better. Resisted the urge to punish myself and decided to make it a bit easier which is so unlike me 😅 Must be learning something!

    • @exomake_mehorololo
      @exomake_mehorololo 2 года назад +3

      Congratulations on paying off debt and continuing your low buy!! Sounds like your making the effort and making progress. I think we always will make mistakes here and there. No ones perfect. I have also thought to do monthly budgets for everything. I think its easy to loose sight of things when you're busy especially if it's longer term things. Definitely feels easier to focus on things month by month

    • @EmmaLemmon
      @EmmaLemmon 2 года назад +1

      @@exomake_mehorololo thank you for the support! 😊

    • @shawnaripari
      @shawnaripari  2 года назад +2

      I'm glad the video was helpful but more importantly I'm glad you're noticing some trends and are making decisions that feel helpful for you!

  • @exomake_mehorololo
    @exomake_mehorololo 2 года назад +2

    I love your headbands 😍 I also have quite a collection! I love how they really add to an outfit and complement it.... The shoes are super pretty too 😊
    Im thinking to cut my hair to like shoulder length... Its crazy long now. I don't like going to hair salons though and spending all that money.. MWish I could cut my hair myself

    • @EmmaLemmon
      @EmmaLemmon 2 года назад

      I cut my own hair because it's very curly and salons scare me 😆 Some good hair cutting tutorials on RUclips. Sharp shears are a must though!

    • @shawnaripari
      @shawnaripari  2 года назад

      Yes! Love a good headband. Ouu do let us know if you do decide to get that hair cut

  • @houdy5675
    @houdy5675 2 года назад

    i love these videos!

  • @ladybunny9328
    @ladybunny9328 2 года назад +1

    Great video! Making me want to count my items in. I would definitely count those 10 socks as 5 pair. I’d never wear one sock so it’s only logical in my opinion.

    • @shawnaripari
      @shawnaripari  2 года назад

      Glad you enjoyed the video! This was my thought as well

  • @m.wooley4547
    @m.wooley4547 2 года назад

    I stopped fighting emotional spending. I put actual cash in an envelope just for that. I could shop to my heart's content for that amount. I also broke the cycle a few times by just standing up and stepping outside for five minutes and looking at something in the distance. Good luck.

  • @CallHerCassie
    @CallHerCassie 2 года назад +1

    TJMaxx for basic workout tees

    • @shawnaripari
      @shawnaripari  2 года назад +1

      I visited the Canadian equivalent this weekend and no luck 👎 maybe next time!

  • @pasitheathanatosasmr488
    @pasitheathanatosasmr488 3 месяца назад

    Are updates one and two private?