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ASD Assessment Questionnaire ASMR Roleplay
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- Опубликовано: 1 ноя 2022
- Needless to say, this ASD assessment ASMR roleplay is not real and should absolutely not be used as a diagnostic tool. That said, if you feel that you may be on the spectrum, you definitely owe it to yourself to book an assessment to find out.
I was diagnosed with ASD later in my life - in my mid-thirties - and had previously been convinced that I categorically was not on the spectrum. However, after going through the process and learning more about it, it was incredibly helpful for me to receive the diagnosis so that I could better try to understand myself.
I try to convey a little of that comfort in this video but end up quite badly jumbling up words and not making sense, so hopefully there is enough personal attention and support in it to help you relax, but I do apologise for how chaotic it is. Regardless, I hope you enjoy!
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🎙 What is ASMR? 🎧
ASMR (autonomous sensory meridian response) is synaesthesia of the soul. It’s a relaxing feeling, it’s a tingling down the spine, or it’s simply a sleep aid. Whether it’s being ‘held’ by someone you have confidence in, or ‘looked after’ by someone with authority, or just feeling ‘safe’ with someone you trust, it uses audio-visual triggers to enable you to let go of your worries and stresses - even just for a bit.
📽 What is FPC? 🎞
FPC (first person cinema) takes all the relaxing elements of ASMR but has much more of a focus on immersion and the suspension of disbelief. It’s kinda like being the main character in your own short movie, with popular figures you know and love, or entirely created worlds - just for you. There won’t be any visible mics or traditional triggers in these videos, and they will seem more unintentional than the usual ASMR videos - but they are unique and relaxing experiences designed to transport you to different places, worlds, and times.
Disclaimer: This video is intended for relaxation. Any views, opinions, or advice expressed is purely for the purpose of entertainment, and to induce tingles through ASMR. These videos are not a substitute for traditional medicine, therapy, or any other professional medium, and should not be treated as such! Take all the advice with a pinch of salt, and certainly don’t take it to heart. That being said, please enjoy them, benefit from them, and hopefully get those warm, tingly feelings. Oh, and it’s not for kids.
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I will admit that I was afraid when I saw the title as most videos about ASD are grossly full of misinformation but I was pleasantly surprised. Finding out that Jim is also on the spectrum and very much up to date and informed made me quite happy 😁
Do you happen to know which channels are more reputable/not full of misinformation?
I suspected he was on the spectrum from the first few times i watched his videos. I don't know why, i'm neurodivergent too and.. it's very intuitive
@@kristinLastName it's really really really difficult to find accurate information on autism because we aren't well understood on a scientific level. Society is plagued with this notion that autistic people are disordered and that we have to fix ourselves/be fixed by others to fit in with neurotypicals, and even many popular autistic people have internalized and hence reflect this idea. So i don't have recommendations now but i understand the struggle to find good channels and i encourage you to avoid the anti-autistic narratives floating around, even when they're presented by autistic people
It mystifies me that an oversocialized philanderer who makes ASMR youtube videos twice a week got diagnosed with ASD and I didn't.
I went in thinking I had autism and went out with a severe ADD diagnosis.
@@wikipediaintellectual7088 Wait why is he a philanderer, I'm curious now
The world would be so much less scary if all appointments were with people this gentle.
I was diagnosed at 18 and my life has improved immeasurably since then.
Same here! It has helped me so much to now understand and help me navigate the world, without feeling like an absolute moron and alien like I did before.
@@fayed9540 Before I was diagnosed, at school and sixth-form I was bullied and absued, so much so that I nearly didn't live to see 13 (and that's not an exaggeration, the abuse caused me epilepsy and the last seizure I had I stopped breathing and turned blue.) And during my teens I suffered with depression (and anxiety) but I soldiered on and survived all of that sh*t and now I am great! (Well, I could do with a bit more money rn but who couldn't?!) But at least I am safe and happy! Forgive my unloading, I also have ADHD which makes me overshare a lot and I mean A LOT!
I was diagnosed at age 12 (almost 13 bc it was shortly before my 13th bday), and it was really helpful to me to navigate in this world and even to get a bit protected from bullying at schools and get proper accommodations
i was diagnosed at like 8 and my life didnt change whatsoever to my knowledge
@@ausomeaspiedon't care, didn't ask
Hey Jim, a close loved one of mine is going to be blown away by this vid as he is feeling very alone in the world after a recent ASD diagnosis. He loves asmr. Your special brand of kindness and sincerity is exactly what he needs. Thank you
Tell him he is not alone! There is an army of us asd folks out there, and he's always welcome in the community, when he feels ready! Tell him he is not "weird" or "strange" for being different, and that this diagnosis does not change who he is, it merely helps provide the tools needed to navigate life!!
@@wiiboiwill what a lovely thing to say, thank you so much. Your comment is really going to make his day :)
hi, I’m autistic and just wanted to say it’s gonna be okay. I love our community and I’ve grown to love being autistic. There are people out there that are going to love him to his core and he deserves every ounce of that love
A little late but I just wanted to add onto what people have said, there’s a lot of autistic people in communities with each other out there and there’s so much pride to be had in many parts of being autistic that have made me so much happier since I started seeing them
I am a woman in my 30’s and I was diagnosed at 13 in 2005 with ASD though it was labelled as a different diagnosis with the name that is no longer relevant. Anyway this ASMR is great and the fact that in the description Jim has had personal experience shows the care and effort put into this video.
I got diagnosed at 15, almost two years ago now, and it changed my life. Thank you for making this video, Jim; I can assure you that channels such as yours mean a lot to people like me.
Im self diagnosed bc i dont wanna get proffesionally tested bc they already said i dont have adhd so im afraid they'll think im weird for going in AGAIN to test for something else
Edit: + i live with my silly legal guardians and not my parents and ik theyll immediately turn down the mere thought of me being autistic bc im such a "perfect child".
@@user-ji4cv9lc7fi understand that. i hope we can all get the diagnosis and help we need when we move out
Slowly working up the nerve to get assessed 7 years after my psychologist told me she would've had me diagnosed if I was younger (I was 15). Thank you for making it feel a bit less daunting.
hi jim !! I'm 16 and in the process of getting diagnosed with ASD, knowing that my favourite ASMRist and content creator is like me makes my heart happy. ty por sharing it with us and keep with this amazing videos you always do, all the love from Argentina
I've been recently exploring ASD stuff because I was diagnosed with ADHD in college and I feel like there's something... more? I don't know how to explain, but yeah. I feel a lot safer here now honestly. Not that I didn't feel safe on your channel before - you're very comforting - but it's different now, if that makes sense. I dunno what I'm even saying now. Anyway, thank you for your openness and kindness 💕
As someone who was diagnosed with Autism at age 3, I am beyond thrilled that you have a video that is inclusive. I love watching your vids and appreciate your overall care to detail. Thank you for being such a cool person.
I have ADHD and have been wanting to take an ASD assessment since I feel that I also show symptoms of ASD, so this hits pretty close to home to me. Thanks so much for this, Jim! Very relaxing ☺️💕
me too! 😊
Me too!
Same here
Jim, I know you said it's not real but I just want to say thank you. I've been trying to find a doctor to assess me and only one person takes my health insurance; I've been turned away because of my age and my insurance, to say the least this has been a hard battle. This video reminds me of what I'm fighting for and I won't give up. Also the video kicked ass, great job.
Have you ever thought about uploading your audio to Spotify? I'd love to listen to your vids while I sleep without worrying about a glaring video or dealing with ads.
I second this!
Strong agree!
I'd really recommend youtube premium, it's been life changing. You can get most perks of spotify and a lot more. I don't particularly like google but it might be a better investment than spotify
@@claude2571 Totally agree with this. In addition to the ability to listen with your phone locked, you can download videos for offline use.
@@kristinLastName And it's ad free! That was actually my primary motivation, ads perpetually make me want to die, I hate them so much and disagree with their existence politically
you should do ghost from call of duty ❤
OMG YES
PLEASE 🙏🙏🙏
praying 😭
YES PLEASE
Aw yeah. B^)
Thank you, Jim, this was very well done. I'm sure people get tired of my mentioning my son (who is 17) is on the spectrum but I think he is awesome. I drive people a bit batty when the say to "Act normal" and I reply, "Normal by whose definition?" To me normal is a matter of interpretation and so what if I don't fit your definition. For those of you who are neurodivergent or just different, keep on being your wonderful selves and don't let anyone make you feel less because you don't fit their definition! You are AWESOME as you are!
Light, Love, Happiness, and with permission, LOTS of hugs 🤗🤗🤗
This is so fascinating to me. I am sure I am on the spectrum and could relate to a good 95% of the symptoms mentioned. Especially the praise related question. Thank you Jim, I’m still not convinced you’re not a healthcare professional, as your bedside manner is better than most doctors these days. 😊
That’s your clue that Jim is not a healthcare professional. He has the time to slow down and be entirely present and understanding - unlike most in the USA
You are one of the most hard-working ASMRtists out there, dear Jim! Thank you so much for your great videos
I have a problem with writing long RUclips comments and/or spending too long of time writing said comments... I almost did it again on a ramble about my own diagnosis and some thoughts, but I kept overthinking, because when I was 18 I was not only diagnosed with ASD, but also ADD, and anxiety. Pfff...
Anyway though... one of my favorite ways of explaining autistic people, is that we're like cats. Example: We have a wide range of personalities and comfort zones.
If my sister (also autistic, but early diagnosed) was a cat, you could sick her on bugs, but she'd hiss/growl at people who try to sing or make weird noises. If I was a cat, I'd be a good snuggle buddy, but there would be times when I'd puke somewhere in the middle of the night.
“Like cats”: that makes a lot of sense. I don’t know anyone in face-to-face life who is “out” about their diagnosis, but this really resonates.
(I struggle with rambles and overthinking online too, so you’re in good company. 🙂 “Should I follow along with what others seem to be doing here, or fully perform my joy?”)
Good to see you uploading today Jim. I'm sure I sound like a broken record at this point but thanks for all the relaxation. You've done more for me than a lot of the Anxiety meds I've been on LOL
when I was prompted to get my diagnosis by a shrink I dragged my mother and daughters in and was like "them too then" and yes, we all have autism.
Love the term shrink 🤣
As someone currently going through the ASD diagnosis process, to see my fave ASMRtist making a video like this has made me very happy :) thank you so much Jim
idk if u will ever respond to this, but is it scary? im worried ab being invalidated or my family members being brought bc theyre against diagnosis bc they think its a "crutch"
This is the channel where you can enjoy the owner of the most pleasant British accent.
Very helpful and thoughtful video - knowing oneself better is so crucial on this journey- some of the most gifted people are on the spectrum and having a diagnosis can make a real difference in quality of life❣️ I’m borderline but under stress have trouble in all kinds of ways ( including CPTSD) so thanks Jim for your kindness to us all today🥰✌🏼
Hey Jim, I found your channel this morning when your recent Dracula vid was recommended to me and I subscribed immediately. Then I saw this video and I must thank you! As an autistic woman myself, this is a video I wish I saw before I was diagnosed as it's very comforting. I was diagnosed with ASD when I was 28 and it was like a weight had lifted off my shoulders because everything finally made sense.
Anyone who thinks they may be on the spectrum and is struggling to get a diagnosis or struggling to be heard....you're not alone, I promise you! Keep going and you will be heard!!
I was diagnosed at a early age I think around 4 or 5 I find this comforting
I rarely check my subscriptions and usually just refresh recommended until I find them. I did it on a whim and saw this - I have a really stressful day ahead of me and this might be just what I need to calm down. Especially after it being like 2 and a half years since I've suspected I have ASD - thank you Jim, your content is alwaus a pleasure ♡
I got diagnosed with autism today and am unsure how to feel about it. Watching this is definitely a much more relaxing experience than the actual process was, lol.
I always thank you Jim when you make videos like this because although it is entertainment, you are able to talk about these topics with total care and professionalism ❤
Needed to take a moment to comment, because I just found this today, but it was absolutely on the day that I most needed it. I wish that my own diagnosis had been this smooth and respectful. Thank you so much for creating this kind of content and putting this representation out in the world. It means and touches more people than you’ll ever know. This healed a part of me today of a hurt I didn’t even realize I was still carrying. Thank you. May this find you surrounded by good health, happiness, laughter and love.
I decided to finally go for the diagnosis and i keep watching this video to feel less nervous about the process. Thank you for sharing this video!
I suppose occasionally zoning out makes it more authentic?
Hope it goes well for u!
the little reassurances in this made me a little emotional :') I'm autistic and just hearing that some of the stuff I do is okay is so heart warming
Since I just spent $4,000 on a full neuropsychologist private clinic testing this summer and autumn, now that I have the assessment I find this quite relaxing. I haven’t watched the whole thing yet to check for accuracy but if anyone is reading this that wants to know about assessment you can dm me. I am American but it’s a pretty universal up to date testing, and I have the list of every test I took.
Not sure how to DM you, but I have an assessment coming up during the next couple of months and I’m curious what to expect. Hopefully mine doesn’t cost as much. 😬
@@kristinLastName yours won’t because I didn’t want to wait on a 2 yr waiting list I paid out of pocket
@@romepix Ahhh, that makes sense. Well hopefully you found it money well spent?
Remember people this isn't a real ASD assessment, Jim is just that good of an actor (as always love your creative asmr videos my dude)
“People with neurodiversity have a harder time sleeping” bro it’s three am rn stop it are you in my walls or something???
While I don't have ASD I do hope this video helps someone with the diagnosis. ☺
Man some of this relates. Was diagnosed with Autism at 18, and man one of the biggest things was being a picky eater. Taste and texture sensitivity is still super strong
love this video i was diagnosed at a early age and my parents were told i would never ready or be able to go to school i was part of a special program that helped pass school they would do these ASD tests through out Elementary school, high school to see if anything changed so i could i beat all odds and passed elementary high school and finished college due to a special program prepare people with ASD and other disabilities they prepared us to live among people with out ASD and get jobs i wish my doctors were this kind
imagine all assessments were so relaxing
This is very relaxing and quite sleep inducing. Thank you for this Jim. 😌
I have ASD and this was so relatable for me, and just thinking about my brother (who also have ASD) super nice, very relaxing, good job!
OMG!!!! How did my ASD RADAR miss this! I am so stoked!
I'm nearly 21 and currently in the process of recieving my official diagnosis. Feeling very seen tonight :')
ONE OF US ONE OF US
I love this video concept, and as he said in the description: This is not a real ASD assessment, if you feel you relate the these questions, you are more than free to speak to an actual doctor. And if you're not sure if you should/how you would use this video as evidence- then you can simply write or type down the questions/answers you related to and then present such to the person giving the assessment. And if you have difficulty getting an assessment scheduled, then you can talk to a general practitioner doctor and show them the evidence and say "hey based on this I'd like to see a specialist/get an assessment."
Often, just getting an assessment is the hardest part in one's journey with Neurodivergence. But there are lots of nice and friendly subreddits for community. Whether you're Neurodivergent, questioning, or just an ally :)
I am asd and Im loving it!❤❤❤
Ty 4 this professional video and you ROCK!!!!❤❤
I am getting assessed next month why can you read my mind sir
Watching this actually helped with my anxiety about the appointment, so thank you as always!
Also your other ASD video is one of my favorites that I watch all the time so I would love to see more ASD themed videos!
How did it go
Wow the earliest I have arrived. 2 hours since your post and I'm here. Niiiice!!! Also, great video man. Always a good one. I'm gonna sleep now gn :)
Also, I don't have any disorder apart from DLD but I just wanted to watch because your videos make me so sleepy wow. How. Lol
This is actually very accurate your pretty good
I recently found out i was on the spectrum and i love your videos so much!! finding this is a much welcome surprise, top quality as always, thak you!
Been following this channel for 5 minutes and I’m already like “Oh this is why I’m here.” 😂
I love this video! It's good to see a proper understanding. It's hard to find since a lot of research about autism in the past has been Not Great. It's great to see people who have ASD helping people understand it :) also as usual, great asmr, your voice is perfect for it.
I may not have ASD (to my knowledge), but I do have ADHD, so I have only a small semblance of an idea as to what it is like for those of you who do. Honestly, I think anyone who has ASD are some of the strongest people I know, how much one has to comprehend and deal with on a daily basis must be tiring, among other things. Massive respect.
I rl love your ideas Jim, they're original and i don't think i've seen any other ASMR channel do what you do:)) Would be interesting for you to do a Papers Please RP!! Goodluck!:DD
This is only like the third or fourth video I’ve seen of his (I'm new; the first one I watched, and what got me to subscribe, was his recent Wesker ASMR lol) and I'm only a few seconds in but JEEZ he's so handsome, and very soothing
I listened to Hannah Gadsby's audio book, "Ten Steps to Nanette" earlier this year, and it greatly clarified a lot of things for me (besides just being a terribly good listen). I don't believe there is a "normal" way of thinking anymore. There are ways we learn to fit in, to fake (or survive) our way through childhood (if we're able), to learn many things many hard ways when navigating adult relationships (and learning that it's not safe to believe everything one is told or that people always have your best interests in mind). Very soothing and helpful video. Watching again last night, I kept dozing off in micro-increments so would miss odd syllables. It was interesting. Thank you so much for what you do.
Flashback to when my identical twin brother got diagnosed with aspergers when we were seventeen but my parents decided I was "to high functioning" and didn't need a diagnosis thus dooming me to a life for forever appearing to be to ordinary to truly be considered disabled, but to dysfunctional and weird to ever fit in with neurotypical people or society in general.
P.S. I spent all my money buying liquor for a twink and now I am being evicted
@@dawntavishflynn8802 lmao
after seeing this video for maybe the fourth time, i only just noticed the shadow and reflection are artificial. they look great and make it all very immersive
I was diagnosed with a "learning disability" when I was 12, but was never given a formal diagnosis as to what that "learning disability" actually was. I feel I could be somewhere on the spectrum for either ADHD or Autism or both, since I do know now that having both at the same time is possible. I just haven't felt brave enough to get another assessment done to confirm my suspicions since gaining some of this knowledge from the YT channels I watch of people on either side of the spectrum.
This comes at an amazingly fitting time as after an 'informal' diagnosis by my therapist, I'm now finally seeking a professional diagnosis, partly for the paperwork to apply for accommodations in uni and work which I'll need! :)
hi :) i was also diagnosed with asd as an adult, so this video was very special for me.
also i love when you make videos involving a questionary, its so much fun !!
I definitely prefer just Autism Spectrum rather than Autism Spectrum Disorder, mainly because the term disorder to me makes it sound like there is something inherently wrong with me because of my condition, and while there are negatives to it, especially on the lower end, on my end of the spectrum, there are also great positives, I have an excellent aptitude for learning especially in math and science. Of course if people want to use the term ASD that’s fine by, it’s your choice on what you prefer, but that’s my two cents on the subject.
Still, I don’t think I would trade this condition away, I like being different in a different way. I’ve come to enjoy having it in most cases rather than hate it.
If it matters, I think you are AWESOME as you are! My son is on the spectrum, and it is amazing to see the world through his eyes. I find neurodiverse people to be more engaging and interesting to be around honestly. You keep on being your wonderful self and be damned to anyone who tries to make you feel less because you don't fit their version of "normal"!
Grille 15 player appreciated.
finally- a non-stressful experience when getting an autism diagnosis. also I disagree with "you can't pass" bc I'm gonna win. I'm gonna get a good grade in autism, something both normal to want and possible to achieve
Wow I'm really earlier here. I also been on this journey to understand me better. Also undiagnosed my whole life before. And 30 female here. Really thank you for this video, you are amazing. I'm watching now to relax a little, the day was rough :(
I believe I got diagnosed when I was a little kid, and have been able to live with it for most of my life. Only downside was being in the "special room" all throughout Middle School which had teachers that often babied me and always smelled for some reason. The only time it was "good" for me in that room was when I was in it for my Freshman year of High School, where the room didn't smell and the teachers didn't baby me for once, plus we never had any assignments so it was like a break class. Only downside there was one particularly annoying, kinda bratty kid in that class, plus another class I shared with him, but I was luckily able to move and never have to deal with him again.
I was very uncomfortable during my assessment but this video is making me pretty relaxed
I'm supposed to be getting an evaluation soon, but even without it I feel certain that I am on the spectrum. At the very least operating as if I am has given me peace of mind and helped my depression and anxiety so... yeah. I love the video!
I'm autistic I really appreciate this type of content
i have been suspicious that i may be on the spectrum for many years now, but anytime i have attempted to bring it up i am not believed, and am compared to the boys in the family who are on it. autism in women is different, and i want to get evaluated, but i fear of not being believed again. so despite the fact i am an adult, i am still a bit afraid of going in because i might accidentally change my behavior.
either way, this video helps me feel less ostracized :)
I know how u feel, autism has been stereotyped and ppl don't really understand it, I hope u can get an evaluation
Thank you for sharing this. Keep being you💜 Hugs🧡 I know people on the spectrum. My son was thought to have Aspergers, but that was rescinded after more evaluation.
I really need this, thank you very much 🖤🖤🖤
Don't need the assessment, already have the Diagnosis 😅
Stayed for the relaxation though. 👍
I loooove how you make these awesome Neurodiverse/ASD ASMR Videos!
I really appreciate you, Jimchi, for making these great videos for people like us!
(I am also Autistic!)
As an asd person this video was really appreciated 😎😊
Hypermobility of joints is often caused by EDS (Ehlers Danlos Syndrome) btw Jim. May wanna ask your doc about that. It can cause other health implications besides joint issues. Not prescribing or speculating, but lots of us care about ya and want you to be safe. That's where I'm coming from with this :)
Woa im actually kind of happy and excited to find out jims in the spectrum since im also there. Ahhh so happy im like hyped from finding out
Loved this. So relaxing yet educational. My fave vids. ❤
Perfect timing as always
I have ASD “ autism spectrum disorder” I was first diagnosed when I was a baby, and I had my own language to speak and I had it in my life since 2012. The day I was born early. I’m really sensitive of loud noises and a lot of stuff like I have stigmatism in my eyes very blurry. I have to wear glasses, anxiety, nervous and very sad and shy I have certain of phobias a lot like arachnophobia, trypanophobia and the fear of the dark and the fear of death falling in a high place, a lot of stuff has been going through a lot.
As someone who is trying to get an ASD assessment this is quite nice
Great job with the video! Really enjoyed watching it!
assessment
1: definitely agree
2: definitely disagree
3: Definitely disagree
4: definitely disagree
5: definitely disagree
6: definitely disagree
7: definitely agree
8: slightly agree
9: definitely disagree
10: definitely agree
Faces
1: man
2: disappointment?
3: I haven't the foggiest clue what they're feeling.
4: woman?
5: surprised, like in a "I just got caught with my hand in the cookie jar" type of surprised.
6: woman
7: should I? I don't remember seeing them.
8: some kind of sad feeling?
9: annoyed?
10: anger
11: woman
12: no, and the fact you asked me this question twice, one time for two people, I feel like at least one of them I was supposed to have seen previous in the list of faces.
How was that one funny? It was just a bunch of faces.
This was very informative. Thank you Jim!
your voice is like a mix of tom hiddleston and henry cavill /pos
I know right. I've caught the same thing.
I love that one of my favourite ASMRtists also happens to be autistic like me! Awesome video, love the neurodiversity positivity :)
Thank you. Going to cry now. ❤
Anyone else have to pause the video to think about what they do when answering the questions cos you genuinely don’t know what you do and don’t do in your everyday life or was that just me?
Also I am learning a lot about myself with this video. I didn’t realise I fluttered my fingers in front of my eyes until he mentioned it. Among many other things. I really need an actual diagnosis now
I was undiagnosed until a couple months ago, I’m 21 years old and i kind of am still surprised. Although looking back i see a lot of things that should have gotten me diagnosed earlier haha.
haha, same here! 22 years old and diagnosed in july... in hindsight it seems obvious, doesn't it? kinda crazy how something like this can slip by any professional!
this was alot more accurate then i expected.
I just found out I have ASD the other day so this timing is insane
Jim bring back MORE doctor videos please. MORE of them. Do more Doctor stuff yes Doctor Jim more doctor Jim
My autism culture isn’t your asmr role play… just kidding, this is great, and ironically I finally had the fully adult assessment this autumn. 😂🎉
Diagnosed at 7 by a therapist, and multiple psychatrists but have never had the actual assessment done yet and im 20. Their words were it was obvious. I didnt know i was autistic till i was 17 when my mom just casually told me
I'm going to get a good grade in autism, something that's both normal to want and possible to achieve
You passed this interview, I was very attentive when I remembered my brother-in-law's boy
Hey! I'm not neuro diverse and stop talking about my long winded, essay like response comments like that! Seriously Jim, my young adult son has been diagnosed as neurologically diverse, at a younger teen age, and this vid will be a definite reassurance to stabalise his anxieties.
I have since suspected that I too have a bit of the same problems, though I always thought it was because I was an only child, a girl, partially and to differing degrees deaf, depending on how much of my much loved milk ( caused earaches, pain vomiting, and swollen rashes in the ear cannals and eventually a double abcess... until the annually school visiting nurse discovered that I had only 30% hearing on that day at 7 years old) I had drunk. This had caused me and adults to believe I was slow and/or naughty and early school work and confidence and trust in adults around me was affected. Then dad's work in the RAAF had us posted all over Australia with many school and friendship changes. My school work suffered, except for English and Social Studies. Though some teachers marked my essays down points for exceeding the word limit...Grrrrrr. Unlike the good teachers who appreciated my " creative individuality " and made other such encouraging comments. SO, I thought I had the reasons for my few eccentric problems sussed, until recently. SO, I thought my eccentricities were quite reasonable considering my background and they did not really affect my confidence back in those good OLD days as I was used to making new friends and handling the single school bully, that was the norm back then, with a natural reflex, steady searching glare, as I was trying to comprehend the reason for such cruelty. One of my problems is that I unconsciously, search for meaning in the eyes when trying to comprehend what someone is saying. I find ambiguity everywhere, filling in questionaires is Hell. Apparently silent, direct staring with a frown is a glare and very unnerving. I now must remember to stretch a gentle lipped smile at the same time.
This silent glare unnerved the bullies. They would nervously shrug, chuck one last sad pants insult that failed to land, then walk. Now there is social media. Not much neighbourhood friendly face to face social networking allowing us to see and empathise ( as in the past ) about how every family has their rough edges and problems and back then just openly rocked them with support, good humour, respect and understanding. Now there is lot of isolating judgement and even mass bullying. I think it is harder to be accepted for having 'eccentricities' these days and the youth especially suffer lack of outside support and so, many times, lack resilience. Also with modern tech there are many ways to get along without having to put yourself ...............' out there.'
Thank you Jim for the great effort in putting yourself ' out there.' You have definitely found a Calling that is also beneficial to so many. Good on you Jim 😇
Not only do I display many symptoms of ASD, but I've been diagnosed with ADHD and Bipolar Disorder, my parents and I are trying to get me diagnosed properly.
But this also just re enforces most of my suspicions that I do, indeed, have it.
Very relaxing thank you 🥰
"Types of trains? That's a weird-"
"Heh."
Been diagnosed since I was 14 I think
20 now
i quite literally got almost full marks on my ASD assessment, and people have the nerve to call me high functioning😂