David Brooks knows how you can feel more seen and heard
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- Опубликовано: 19 июн 2024
- Smart people know things; wise people know people. For Next Question guest today, David Brooks, knowing people has been a lifelong endeavor. Katie Couric and her + 1 today, Kelly Corrigan, dig deep into David’s new book, How to Know a Person: The Art of Seeing Others Deeply and Being Deeply Seen, which is all about how we connect-empathy, curiosity, vulnerability-and how we can build these skills in ourselves. There’s even an empathy test you can take along with us in the episode! Incisive and wide-ranging, this conversation is one of the funniest episodes Next Question has ever presented. Join Katie, Kelly, and David in asking yourself about the role empathy and connection plays in your life, and discover with them new ways to build and use those skills to have a more “lit up” existence.
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Katie has got to be one of the most likable people. Just so genuine and completely present with her guests.
Katie is Joyous and Incandescent which is a truly brilliant way to traverse through life.
David Brooks God was showing off when you were made.
I reside in Australia and Sweden and Katie and David are always part of my day.
I remain grateful to both of you for your strength of Character and Steady Minds and Hearts.
Australia
The most important reason we are here is to help each other.
Yes, service to others is the path to happiness,, actually changed my life.
Wonder how ?
Hello, in my case I have been focused on helping at least one person each and every day and on a monthly basis supplying food for children in need, now about 450.@@barbaradobson9298
Good morning from the beautiful SF Bay Area. I'm new to this podcast but not new to the people on it. Thanks for a really wonderful conversation, David Brooks is one of our sages and continues to grow and expand his humanity. Love to you all.
Kelly - “Let them surface.” “Accompaniment.” Love this. So true. We don’t always have to have the solution, just sit with the person.
When I lost my husband to an untimely death, and just overcome with deep, deep grief, my closest friends just sat with me. The just showed up. That’s it. So so important.
Kelly I was in advertising in NYC in the 90’s and I knew your Dad and just adored him! I love your “Tell Me More” interviews and somewhere saw a picture of you and your Dad together and said “Wait! I know that man.” I love the way you talked about him and the love especially throughout your cancer diagnosis. He would be so so proud of you.
What David describes reminds me of what I see now in Howard Stern also. Good for them both.
I love David Brooks and Katie Couric. Great talk.
Wonderful conversation amongst 3 smart kind minds and much appreciated. Thanks. Shared.
Thank you. Kindness really does expand with use
This conversation can be real if you let it be. I choose to be empathic. I choose living life real and present and in relationship with those in my community. I pay attention to people near me and try to stay in connection with those far away. “Presence with” is everything. If I can make a difference today, I do. Focusing in on now is what I do best. Polarization can continue to fester if people keep on talking about it. But what about waking up tomorrow and doing everything in your power to create bridges? What you talk about, you give power to. Let’s shift this!
Hi, Let Kelly finish a thought!
I know it is Katie’s show, but as an empathetic listener, felt like Katie did not let Kelly be seen and heard in several talk points. Other than that, it was an excellent podcast.
Many times I felt Katie interrupted Kelly when she was just getting to her main point. It is troubling for me. Listening is everything, Katie.
I love, love David Brooks.
Social skills yes, but we need a balance of understanding ourselves and helping others. The approach here is a wild oversimplification of a complex process, especially for anyone who has suffered abuse. It isn’t about baths and “self care,” it is about knowing ourselves emotionally. Thanks, Katie! You are the best. David Brooks, I have listened to many interviews with you, and I strongly disagree with your ideas around religion and bettering ourselves through the Christian view. If one is raised in an abusive environment, one will feel lonely and misunderstood, period. I think certain people who have had a level of success and privilege, and have been extraordinarily ambitious, suddenly see “service to others” as the answer when many of us have spent much of our life in service to others and yet struggle with depression for other reasons.
Reading "Factfulness" to try to find some way to feel hopeful again. When I mentioned it to my family.. WWIII almost broke out. Thank you for this.. so needed.
Thank you Katie for this interview with David Brooks. Your collective words and insights were music to my ears and healing to many, Im sure, who listened.
Thank you for this heartfelt and useful conversation in these difficult times.
Katie is crushing it with the content
Thank you all for elevating my thinking. God bless you, your families and our country
Loneliness and meanness and politics - brilliant point!
Democracy comes from hope, with the loss of hope creates the loss of democracy and the growth of fascism.
Yes, empathy can be a HELL of a lot. You can only do so much to help make the people around you feel whole. You realize that at a point. All you can do is try to keep your kindness alive and active, share it when and where you can. I met Tilda Swinton once, introduced myself, she looked me in the eye, repeated my name and said it was her pleasure to meet me, she made me feel like I was the only person in the room... I was floating the rest of the night, and remember her to this day for that small thing. Kindness matters hugely.
This conversation made me happy. Thank you!
Such a fire-hose stream of profound ideas. Guess I need to get the book.
Ordered the book instantly!
When faced with two kids arguing over how to divide a pie, the best solution was to have one cut the pie while the other got first pick of the resulting two pieces. In a democracy, it's not majority rules but the majority must take responsibility for protecting the freedoms of the minority. Is that possible?
I really enjoy the thoughts of all three people. I would of like to hear Kelly Corrigan get to finish some of her thoughts. I felt she was cut off a few times. I do understand that a conversation with three can be difficult to moderate and each person has a direction they'd like to see the conversation go.
What ❤❤a great interview 😊😊. Katie has a very positive attitude towards subjects that make you want to listen to her and her guests 😊😊
Katie. Thank you! I just ordered davids book. BTW im 7 months into a iskemic stroke. Its conversations like this that keeps me going😶
Katie, you need to go to the midwest and visit the smaller towns to view the true loss of community.
Is a great conversationalist a person that has a true love of learning?
Katie, it warms me that you’re wonderful person reminds me of me! I feel acknowledged! Thanks. Marvelous interview with David Brooks. I love this man!
Got Davids book on character from the library
May need to run to the bookstore for this new book.
Amazing David Brooks is another of my favorites. Thank you for all these great people ❤️
Wonderful
If someone is having a poor day I’ve said It looks like life’s kind of hard today. Or How can I make your day better? I don’t go away having my day ruined. Again, I love everything about this interview. BRAVI!!
Great conversation, thank you.
Thanks Katie & David Brooks,,,,,,,,,your Book can't come at a better Time....a moral formation...when respect other people...LEARN TO...FORGIVE>>>>>>just go out next time at the store..look at a person..talk w/them....just start talking....have a stranger..give a little..Be kind.
Thank you for sharing your wise words and getting this important and needed clarity of how we can help do our part as a people. Glad I came across this discussion and thank you to Katie, David, and Kelly for taking your time to shed some light.
Loved this talk with these 3...and loved David's book. I need to read it for a second time.
❤ thank you
David has words for all these things. Words. Words. Words.
What a deep pleasure!!
Also, being heard begins at home. I need to read this book.
"Aren't we terrific?!?"
Suffering where spiritual filling can go to towards
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Some people have no conscious inner life. Gently trying to be close to some people can make them feel very uncomfortable.
Thank You All! ❤❤❤
Beook broke a cord and within!
Sitting w another without feeling nervous or uncomfortablity
I'd like to hear more from Corrigan, just like I wanted to hear more from Mary Trump in another if your interviews. It's uncomfortable when one guest gets WAY MORE TIME than another (which is even more ironic in a talk about being "SEEN AND HEARD").
Bread alright "where to find it"
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Empathy to identify w other
There’s some conflicting views here. Do you think you approached Sarah with compassion, Katie?
Are the people (civilians) in Gaza seen and heard?
Put a stamp on intimacy of a generation and a byproduct of detached w the inability to converse.
How do your ancestors show up in your daily life?
Wow, great question, what drives people like Trump, to deal with no mirroring with others.
Great interview. Brooks and Kelligan great couric not so much. By the ways animals do not rape and kill.
It wasn’t touched on that when we share something we are struggling with for example, people take that and gossip about it to other friends and family, therefore, it doesn’t feel safe to open up anymore.
And what I’ve learned is that gossip is a cheap form of bonding with others. It does not actually bring you closer.
I learned someone,that I considered a good friend, had been blatantly lying to me for two years. She also had been lying about me to others. I ended the "friendship". Some of our mutual friends can't seem to understand why I no longer want her in my life. I find myself wondering if it had been done to them, would they have a different take on it?
@@kileensmith5134 likely your “friend” isn’t a good friend to them either. People will make a lot excuses to not have to confront and let go of someone because it’s uncomfortable or they are just not very in tune with themselves. Good for you! Think of it as a weight off your shoulders and that you are taking care of yourself in the process. Who needs that kind of stress anyways. Friendships shouldn’t feel bad.
People don't trust their neighbors as much anymore because they don't even speak to their neighbors anymore - where I live. Sad.
A bat?
Katie Couric is a petty bourgeois stereotype.
I really like David Brooks. I respect him. But he has to get some new comedy material. He tells the same jokes, over and over. Other than that, keep up great work.