Niam.tais aw! Ua rog quav dev tau 30 tawm xyoo twb tsis khiav es hnub no twb yuav tuag hosij nrauj es yog hlwb tsis zoo lawm pob. Ib tug kuj khiav mus nrog ib tug tub nyab nyob xwb los pob.yog yuav nrauj mas nrauj thaum tseem hluas ov. Twb laus tag lawm ces uv mus kom txog hnub tuag.koj mus saib yaig los peb civ hmoob yog yug tim ub ces lub hnub nyoog twb tsis thwj li hauv ntaub ntawv ne.
Oh my god tu txiv dev xom phib li koj cas koj yuav tau thiab nrog pw tau. Hmo ntuj ce sib hlub nruab hnub ce sib ceg. Uacas koj yuav ntau ntev laus tag rau nws. Tshe nib tshuav 1lu khuj lo nyob them xwb.
Koj lub neej thiab kuv lub cas zoo ib yam os yom kuv ces twb uv22 lo laus li no txog qhov twb laus yuav tuag lawm os me viv ncaus uv tag sim neej xwb os
Ntuj aw Tus niam tsev aw, kuv niag thaub tsab ntse wb lub neej ces yeej ua miv thiab Aub tas lub neej tau 30 tawm xyoo tib yam thiab os. Sim neej no mas yog kuv ua tau li koj ua ntej kuv tuag los yog nws tuag mas ntshe yuav yog 1 qho koob hmoov me2 ntxiv rau kuv os. Txoj kev lwj siab Tu siab ces vim nws ces tsab ntse thiab khav theeb thiab noj los tsis haum yus hos nws mas yeej wrong los yeej never wrong , only his way or no way xwb tabsis A loj a me twb tsis paub , nuj nqi ib puas tsav yam yus tag nrho coj minyuam Mus ntsib thaj maum los yus. Coj minyuam xyaum luv los yus nws ces tau lub tsab ntse xwb los nws yeej tseem tias nws mas ntse tshaj plaws tej nom tswv . Kom yus pom leej twg ntse tshaj nws kom Mus coj tuaj nrog nws sib hais thiab mas dhuav kuv tshaj plaws li. Hais nrog niag neeg ruam tsab ntse mas mob hlwb tshaj plaws li os.
I'm a very short temper person too. My husband and I used to argue 4 days and only good 3 days, but I changed myself after I realized I can't change someone other than myself so I change myself to stop caring for what doesn't kill me and ignore things that doesn't matter. I see improvement after I changed. If both are hard headed and short temper, one has to take the initiative to be the patient one. The husband in this story is not the best but the wife is not good either. I think what she did is wrong by taking money and put under her name.
Tsuas yog peb hmoob thiaj ua cav lwj sib ib xwb os. You make a right choice so proud of you..there is nothing wrong with being single, don’t marry again just love you self and live freedom happy, love your children n grandkids till your last breath..thiaj tau lub zoo ntees thaum ib pas tsi tuaj lawm..
35 years both of you guys are at fault. Compromising and Communicating are two key ingredients. You still don't see your wrongs too. You still blame your ex.
haha same here...we got divorce cause we couldnt get along...we been divorce for 6yrs and now we both happily living separate life. sometimes living by yourself is better than having a partner that nag all the time.
li cas los neb twb nyob ua ke los tau 30-40 xyoo no lawm me tub me ntxhais twb muaj cuab muaj yig tag lawm ces ib leeg nrog ib tug tub nyob xwb tseem yuav hais tias sib nrauj li cas thiab, koj los tsis mus yuav poj niam kuv los tsis mus yuav txiv ces nyias nyob nyias xwb neb tsis yog yog sib nrauj os nawb. neb yog seperate xwb os. tsis tas li thaum nyias laus nyias zuj zus lawm ces ib tug tsis xav uv ib tug lawm os nawb zoo ces nyias nyob nyias xwb os
Same story as me. My husband is very hard to talk too. Talking to him is like tiptoeing on broken glass and he gets triggered easily. A lot of times it’s better to not talk at all to avoid arguments.
Wow, that's sounds like my parent's.? They fight like cats and dogs every day since little, and I can remember. I believe in zodiac and compatible in a relationship.
Sis😢that was the wisest decision you've ever made to take that $30K and open a separate account and to finally divorce him. A loveless marriage where there isn't any love, much less happiness, and your decision to stay is because of your children is a miserable life. Remember, you can do bad all by yourself without him. You do not need him to be happy. As you've come to know what having peace and quiet and freedom is. You do not need someone who's like that to make your life a living hell. Enjoy being single and if and should you later find someone who makes you happy and loves you then so be it if nit it is okay too. Best of luck
Good for you both! Should have divorced a long time ago. It’s better to be alone than be in a toxic relationship. Sounds you both never loved each other.
This story....Sister you and your husband are a very toxic relationship/ marriage. Y'all can not live together. You're both very hot temper and shouldn't have been married in the first place. You both have anger management. He's a very physical anger. Luckily for you, he hasn't become physically abused towards you. It's time time to live separately for both your sanity and peace in life.
After 35 years, you guys are still dealing with a power struggle, power struggles suppose to end within a few years, both of you are very low level thinking
When two people can no longer exist together in happiness and harmony, it's best to part ways before harm comes to one or both. Some people are just not meant to be together forever, and that's okay.
Zoo kawg os🎉
Txoj neej neeg no mas thiaj zoo li tej laus txhiaj txhis piv lus, "niam rho rooj, txiv nthos tog; niam ua nyuj tuaj, txiv ua nees tos." Neb kev niam txiv ces "nruab hnub ntuj dav, hmo ntuj, ntuj nqaim."
Niam.tais aw! Ua rog quav dev tau 30 tawm xyoo twb tsis khiav es hnub no twb yuav tuag hosij nrauj es yog hlwb tsis zoo lawm pob. Ib tug kuj khiav mus nrog ib tug tub nyab nyob xwb los pob.yog yuav nrauj mas nrauj thaum tseem hluas ov. Twb laus tag lawm ces uv mus kom txog hnub tuag.koj mus saib yaig los peb civ hmoob yog yug tim ub ces lub hnub nyoog twb tsis thwj li hauv ntaub ntawv ne.
Hmong woman just don't know when to let go and move on..
Oh my god tu txiv dev xom phib li koj cas koj yuav tau thiab nrog pw tau. Hmo ntuj ce sib hlub nruab hnub ce sib ceg.
Uacas koj yuav ntau ntev laus tag rau nws. Tshe nib tshuav 1lu khuj lo nyob them xwb.
Koj lub neej thiab kuv lub cas zoo ib yam os yom kuv ces twb uv22 lo laus li no txog qhov twb laus yuav tuag lawm os me viv ncaus uv tag sim neej xwb os
Nej ua rog quav dev tau 40 xyoo ces ntev tshaj plaws tabsis peb li peb sib sib hlub mas 40 xyoo zoo li ib pliag xwb tiag
Muaj tej lub neej txawv txawv li no thiab lo....txawm tsis sib haum lo nyias nyob nyias kom tej me nyuam nrog luag muaj niam muaj txiv xwb os
Ntuj aw Tus niam tsev aw, kuv niag thaub tsab ntse wb lub neej ces yeej ua miv thiab Aub tas lub neej tau 30 tawm xyoo tib yam thiab os. Sim neej no mas yog kuv ua tau li koj ua ntej kuv tuag los yog nws tuag mas ntshe yuav yog 1 qho koob hmoov me2 ntxiv rau kuv os. Txoj kev lwj siab Tu siab ces vim nws ces tsab ntse thiab khav theeb thiab noj los tsis haum yus hos nws mas yeej wrong los yeej never wrong , only his way or no way xwb tabsis A loj a me twb tsis paub , nuj nqi ib puas tsav yam yus tag nrho coj minyuam Mus ntsib thaj maum los yus. Coj minyuam xyaum luv los yus nws ces tau lub tsab ntse xwb los nws yeej tseem tias nws mas ntse tshaj plaws tej nom tswv . Kom yus pom leej twg ntse tshaj nws kom Mus coj tuaj nrog nws sib hais thiab mas dhuav kuv tshaj plaws li. Hais nrog niag neeg ruam tsab ntse mas mob hlwb tshaj plaws li os.
Some couple are better off divorced. When the parents fight constantly, the kids are so miserable
WOW…! Argue for 30 years…it’s crazy…! Before you want other to change, you must change yourself as well…!!!
I'm a very short temper person too. My husband and I used to argue 4 days and only good 3 days, but I changed myself after I realized I can't change someone other than myself so I change myself to stop caring for what doesn't kill me and ignore things that doesn't matter. I see improvement after I changed. If both are hard headed and short temper, one has to take the initiative to be the patient one. The husband in this story is not the best but the wife is not good either. I think what she did is wrong by taking money and put under her name.
Good luck to you both.
Yog aib muaj Tus tshiab xwb es los ua rog nrog koj xwb
Tsuas yog peb hmoob thiaj ua cav lwj sib ib xwb os. You make a right choice so proud of you..there is nothing wrong with being single, don’t marry again just love you self and live freedom happy, love your children n grandkids till your last breath..thiaj tau lub zoo ntees thaum ib pas tsi tuaj lawm..
Sister peb ces rhau ib sab khau xwb vim tau ib tus txiv short temper.
Ntuj esss tsis muaj 3 hnub zoo!!! Tiag los dag na? Siv ceg me me ib zaug ib hli xwb twb duav kawg li lawm. Nej mas tsis yog tibneeg li...
No harmony and happiness in a marriage like this, it’s better to part ways.
Vuag cas koj lub neej zoo li kuv thiab
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Oh wow I understand you, but 30 thousands, why not asked your husband first?
Y’all sound like my parents lol. Honestly, u two are a fit for each other.
I love the title😢
35 years both of you guys are at fault. Compromising and Communicating are two key ingredients. You still don't see your wrongs too. You still blame your ex.
Peb tsis roob kas nej tej ev sis las
Drama queen id divorce her too
haha same here...we got divorce cause we couldnt get along...we been divorce for 6yrs and now we both happily living separate life. sometimes living by yourself is better than having a partner that nag all the time.
Your kids are smart and well educated for taking both you. This is a good lesson.
li cas los neb twb nyob ua ke los tau 30-40 xyoo no lawm me tub me ntxhais twb muaj cuab muaj yig tag lawm ces ib leeg nrog ib tug tub nyob xwb tseem yuav hais tias sib nrauj li cas thiab, koj los tsis mus yuav poj niam kuv los tsis mus yuav txiv ces nyias nyob nyias xwb neb tsis yog yog sib nrauj os nawb. neb yog seperate xwb os. tsis tas li thaum nyias laus nyias zuj zus lawm ces ib tug tsis xav uv ib tug lawm os nawb zoo ces nyias nyob nyias xwb os
Same story as me. My husband is very hard to talk too. Talking to him is like tiptoeing on broken glass and he gets triggered easily. A lot of times it’s better to not talk at all to avoid arguments.
Wow, that's sounds like my parent's.?
They fight like cats and dogs every day since little, and I can remember.
I believe in zodiac and compatible in a relationship.
Sis😢that was the wisest decision you've ever made to take that $30K and open a separate account and to finally divorce him. A loveless marriage where there isn't any love, much less happiness, and your decision to stay is because of your children is a miserable life. Remember, you can do bad all by yourself without him. You do not need him to be happy. As you've come to know what having peace and quiet and freedom is. You do not need someone who's like that to make your life a living hell.
Enjoy being single and if and should you later find someone who makes you happy and loves you then so be it if nit it is okay too.
Best of luck
Good for you both! Should have divorced a long time ago. It’s better to be alone than be in a toxic relationship. Sounds you both never loved each other.
I feel you sister,me too have the same life as yours.
Sorry to say but this sister is not a good listener too.
Koj tus txiv mas tseem tseem txiv dev
This story....Sister you and your husband are a very toxic relationship/ marriage. Y'all can not live together. You're both very hot temper and shouldn't have been married in the first place. You both have anger management. He's a very physical anger. Luckily for you, he hasn't become physically abused towards you. It's time time to live separately for both your sanity and peace in life.
After 35 years, you guys are still dealing with a power struggle, power struggles suppose to end within a few years, both of you are very low level thinking
Muab mloog los mas neb tsis txawj sib yoog. You’re both toxic.
When two people can no longer exist together in happiness and harmony, it's best to part ways before harm comes to one or both. Some people are just not meant to be together forever, and that's okay.