When you choose to be miserable for the sake of your parents, then you will live the life that this woman lived. Her parents may have forced her into the marriage, but she chose to stay in it for 30 plus years. It's a shame she wasted so many years with a controlling, selfish jerk.
Nej cov niam tsev uas tau tus txiv hlub hlub nej ma lub neej zoo zoo nyob ua ke tsis sib dhuav. Cov niam tsev es tau tus txiv tsis hlub ma lub neej tu siab tshaj. Ib feem ntau lub neej zoo hos 2 feem tau lub neej phem.
Cas es yuav kam mus uv nyob nrog tus txiv evil ko tau 30 xyoo os. Kuv mas ntse twb g yug me nyuam kom coob baum ko cuam pov tseg ntev g nkim yus lub caij nyob nrog ntev tag baum no os.😢😢😂
My ex was the same, very controlling. I can’t have friends or visit my family in the same town. He records mileages on the car and yells at me when the odometer changes bc I drove it. BUT he’s allowed to do and go wherever he wants to go. I finally had the courage to get out after 6 years of marriage. Not worth wasting my life on that loser! Although u took a long time to leave, glad u did at the end.
Koj siab ntev tshaj plaws os, niam tais aw. Nrog koj zoo siab tia koj dim niag dab ntxwjnyoog ntawd. Kuv yeej xav hnov tias nws tus niam tshiab/niam mos ab muab nws tsim mas thiaj zoo kuv siab.
Txawm li cas los yeej yog koj ua tsis taus niam, tawv tsis txaus xwb. Peb ua neeg nyob yus yeej paub qhov yus ua ntawd tsis yog ua rau qhov phem thiab tsis yog ua rau qhov txhaum ces yus yeej tsis ntshai nws li. Muaj nom muaj tswv muaj kev muaj cai yus tsis tau ua dhau txoj cai mas yus yeej tsis ntshai leej twg li cas yuav ruam tais caus ua luaj. Txiv neej yeej siab phem tab sis yus ua thiab ua ces nws pom yus zoo nkauj lawm nws yeej tsis cem zuj zus lawm xwb. Yeej yog koj peev xwm tsis koob koj xwb os tus niam tsev aw.
Lady u waited too long to leave. U let him control u n let u be a RUAM woman for the longest time of ur life. If I were u I leave his low life way early
Tus niam tsev txoj kev ua zoo nkauj tsis tim yog txiav plaub hau luv luv es koj thiaj zoo nkauj nyob ntawm saib koj phim li cas kuv twb pom tej tug es muab cov niag plaub txiav txiav luv luv zoo nkaus poj ruam xwb 😂😂😂😂 xu siab kawg li
Wow.. what a horrible man/husband. I'm sorry you had to experience that kind of marriage. Not all men are evil like yours. You're a beautiful and smart person. I'm glad you found a way out. Best wishes to you. I'm glad my husband treats me like a queen.
Ab cas zaj no yog kiag kuv ne. Cov txiv ruam tsab ntse no mas lawv siv kev zoo los ntxias cov laus xwb ov. Tabsi thaum yus yuav tau tsi yog li thaud lawm nawb.
I don't understand why some women will cover for their husbands. If one day you get murdered by your husband, no one will think it's him. Women need to speak up and let people know the truth. Your ex-husband is a controlling freak! Glad you got out of that toxic relationship.
Koj tus txiv hais yeej yog thiab ov. Tiamsim nws tsis muaj respect rau koj. Kev hlub yog respect thiab. Peb yuav ib tus neeg ua peb tsis muaj respect rau... God, doesn't make sense about love at all.
It’s Hard With Some Men Who Don’t Know How It Is When Your Pregnant! This Brings Me So Many Memories & I Feel Sad When I Know Some Women Go Thru This Too Like Me … I Fainted In The Kitchen With My 1st One & My Ex Husband Sister Thought I Was Mad At Her & Tried To Throw Bowls & Pans All Over The Kitchen But The Truth Was I Black Out & Was Trying To Grab Anything But When I Got Back Up A Bit; All I Saw Black & Nothing & Was Trying To Find The Way Upstairs To My Bedroom! I Didn’t Know I Had Anemia So I Fainted A Lot & Have Shortness Of Breathe! Being Pregnant With Each One Gave Me Sad Memories … Nothing Good, Period!! 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 It’s Hard With A Man Like This; I Hear You!! Very Very Much! I Know … 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Kuv tsis nkag siab qhov koj nrhiav tau hauj lwm yuav mus ua los koj yeej tsis hais ib lo rau koj tus txiv paub li. Qhov no qhia tau tias koj tsis ntse los yog tsis puv pua. Phem zoo los yuav tau qhia yus tus txij nkawm paub tej yam loj li no, thaum ntxov.
Correct. You have Hmong guys and women telling their stories that they regret marrying their evil spouses bc they fell for their “innocent” and “sweet”persona.
Mab, you must be a beauty in your younger years! You’re still beautiful in your pictures, definitely not photoshopped because it is challenging to beautify ugly out of photos 😂
Wow my husband is just like yours too he’s still live like its 1975….I’m just waiting for my youngest to be in kindergarten then I’m gonna leave him I’ve been married to him almost 20 yrs
Ua neeg nyob ntiaj teb no mas tsis sawm zoo li tiag. Tus khw2 es ntshaw2 kom tau nyob tsev los tsis tau, hos tus tau nyob tsev tau zoo los hais tias niam tim tus txiv tsis pub mus work es thiaj ruam tag.
Oh my goodness...How can anyone tolerate this kind of abuse for so long? Life is so short...Please love yourself & be free of this crazy controlling freak!
maiv txiab koj tus txiv twb tua qaib txhoov nqaij cia rau koj huv tib si mam mus hauj lwm all you have to do just boil it then eat koj yeej los tub nkeeg zog lawm thiab
Koj los yeej raum dhau lawm thiab. Koj twb paub nws zoo li ntawd es koj tseem yuav mloog nws hais ces nws ha yam ya phem rau koj xqb mas. At the beginning thaum koj tseem hluas nkauj nyob tim koj niam ua ntev thiab koj.
Jesus Christ woman,,,he works 6 days a week and he already prepared and chopped all the meat ready for you same as my husband doing for me cuz he works hard and just cuz he's a man, he knows how to get tired too. Crazy Npaab poj niam siab nqaim aw
This lady is gossiping too much about her husband. Rumour hurting a man Life more than anything. You need to have a limit about private life and public gossiping.
Aib Thaub no ruam tsab ntse dhau lawm. Lub hlwb tseem blocked rau 75 lawm. Siv thiab yuav tsis tau os. Nws muab koj rau lub hoob ruam es Kom koj ruam es thiaj lis UA rau lis Kom nws ntse. Nws tsis pub koj mus work es hais tias ruam. Tsua muaj los lus ruam tas lis xwb ces hais rau nws hais tias " Leeb twg hais ces tus ntawv yog tus ruam xwb os".
Hmm, depends on how you look at this story. A lot of exaggeration. I hear you’re very lazy and expected too much. He probably wants a supportive wife, but sounds like you were a burden to him.
Koj tus qub txiv ces yog neeg siab phem lim liam lam ua zoo rau koj qhia qhuas xwb. Nws cem thiab cob kom koj lub paj hlwb ruam xwb os. Zoo kawg koj ua tau siab taw qaw tawm hauv lub neej mus lawm.
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koj ua yog kawg li lawm os ❤❤❤
Kuv yeej ntseeg koj kawg li os ,pab koj zoo siab tias koj dim lawm no os mog me viv ncaus aw.
When you choose to be miserable for the sake of your parents, then you will live the life that this woman lived. Her parents may have forced her into the marriage, but she chose to stay in it for 30 plus years. It's a shame she wasted so many years with a controlling, selfish jerk.
Tus niam tsev zoo siab uas koj nrauj nws. Nws yog ib tug neeg tsis hlub koj lub siab phem. Koj tsis muaj nqis rau nws zoo qhov koj tsis yuav nws lawm. Ib tug txiv neej zoo li nws tsis tsim nyog yuav.
Muaj zog kawg, thev taus 30 xyoo
Sister
How could you let men control you for 30 years.
WOW! What a controlling freak…! Leave this guy…!
Nej cov niam tsev uas tau tus txiv hlub hlub nej ma lub neej zoo zoo nyob ua ke tsis sib dhuav. Cov niam tsev es tau tus txiv tsis hlub ma lub neej tu siab tshaj. Ib feem ntau lub neej zoo hos 2 feem tau lub neej phem.
Nrog koj zoo siab os mog
Cas mloog mus mloog los es tsis xav yuav peb cov niag txivneej hmoob li lawm os.
Cas es yuav kam mus uv nyob nrog tus txiv evil ko tau 30 xyoo os. Kuv mas ntse twb g yug me nyuam kom coob baum ko cuam pov tseg ntev g nkim yus lub caij nyob nrog ntev tag baum no os.😢😢😂
My ex was the same, very controlling. I can’t have friends or visit my family in the same town. He records mileages on the car and yells at me when the odometer changes bc I drove it. BUT he’s allowed to do and go wherever he wants to go. I finally had the courage to get out after 6 years of marriage. Not worth wasting my life on that loser! Although u took a long time to leave, glad u did at the end.
Ua cas koj ho yuav uv tau 30 nas nws control dhau lawm tus txiv neej no siab phem heev nawb
This is what 30 years of abuse look like. Glad you got out
Koj yug loj hlob los tiav cev laus li lwm tus neeg thiab, tab sis koj siab ntsws tseem ruam qhwv quav yam li ib tug mi nyuam yau xwb vim koj twb tiav nkauj ntsug los koj tseem mag koj niam xuas khauj tsiav. Qhov no twb qhia tau ua ntej lawm tias koj yug los tsawg siab ntsws heev. Yog li ntawv koj thiaj tsis txawj hwm koj tus txiv kom tsim nyog rau nws hlub koj. Koj mus taug xaiv rau lwm tus poj niam tias nws tus txiv txawj hlub nws dua li koj tus hlub koj yog ib qho rhuav plhu loj vim ib nkawm niam txiv twg sib piv tsis tau rau lwm nkawm niam txiv.
Koj npwb los tseem hais lis Kos os. Koj ces ntshe twb zoo lis nyiag Thaub ntawv thiab kab ! 75 dhau lawm os.
Koj siab ntev tshaj plaws os, niam tais aw. Nrog koj zoo siab tia koj dim niag dab ntxwjnyoog ntawd. Kuv yeej xav hnov tias nws tus niam tshiab/niam mos ab muab nws tsim mas thiaj zoo kuv siab.
Me too ! Niam mos AB yim huab ruam. Tsis paub tus ntawv. Tiam si lub hlwb mas Xav ntsoo tus zoo zoo nraug phim nws xwb os
Txawm li cas los yeej yog koj ua tsis taus niam, tawv tsis txaus xwb. Peb ua neeg nyob yus yeej paub qhov yus ua ntawd tsis yog ua rau qhov phem thiab tsis yog ua rau qhov txhaum ces yus yeej tsis ntshai nws li. Muaj nom muaj tswv muaj kev muaj cai yus tsis tau ua dhau txoj cai mas yus yeej tsis ntshai leej twg li cas yuav ruam tais caus ua luaj. Txiv neej yeej siab phem tab sis yus ua thiab ua ces nws pom yus zoo nkauj lawm nws yeej tsis cem zuj zus lawm xwb. Yeej yog koj peev xwm tsis koob koj xwb os tus niam tsev aw.
Glad you finly got out of that abuse
koj tus me txiv no ces txawm nws mus yuav tau tus ntse los yeej yuav ruam thiab los mas.
Lady u waited too long to leave. U let him control u n let u be a RUAM woman for the longest time of ur life. If I were u I leave his low life way early
Tus niam tsev txoj kev ua zoo nkauj tsis tim yog txiav plaub hau luv luv es koj thiaj zoo nkauj nyob ntawm saib koj phim li cas kuv twb pom tej tug es muab cov niag plaub txiav txiav luv luv zoo nkaus poj ruam xwb 😂😂😂😂 xu siab kawg li
Wow.. what a horrible man/husband. I'm sorry you had to experience that kind of marriage. Not all men are evil like yours. You're a beautiful and smart person. I'm glad you found a way out. Best wishes to you. I'm glad my husband treats me like a queen.
Ab cas zaj no yog kiag kuv ne. Cov txiv ruam tsab ntse no mas lawv siv kev zoo los ntxias cov laus xwb ov. Tabsi thaum yus yuav tau tsi yog li thaud lawm nawb.
I don't understand why some women will cover for their husbands. If one day you get murdered by your husband, no one will think it's him. Women need to speak up and let people know the truth.
Your ex-husband is a controlling freak! Glad you got out of that toxic relationship.
Koj tus txiv hais yeej yog thiab ov. Tiamsim nws tsis muaj respect rau koj. Kev hlub yog respect thiab. Peb yuav ib tus neeg ua peb tsis muaj respect rau... God, doesn't make sense about love at all.
It’s Hard With Some Men Who Don’t Know How It Is When Your Pregnant! This Brings Me So Many Memories & I Feel Sad When I Know Some Women Go Thru This Too Like Me …
I Fainted In The Kitchen With My 1st One & My Ex Husband Sister Thought I Was Mad At Her & Tried To Throw Bowls & Pans All Over The Kitchen But The Truth Was I Black Out & Was Trying To Grab Anything But When I Got Back Up A Bit; All I Saw Black & Nothing & Was Trying To Find The Way Upstairs To My Bedroom!
I Didn’t Know I Had Anemia So I Fainted A Lot & Have Shortness Of Breathe! Being Pregnant With Each One Gave Me Sad Memories … Nothing Good, Period!! 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
It’s Hard With A Man Like This; I Hear You!! Very Very Much! I Know … 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Stay beautiful for yourself ❤️. He does not deserve you pretty!
Glad you left him.
Kuv tsis nkag siab qhov koj nrhiav tau hauj lwm yuav mus ua los koj yeej tsis hais ib lo rau koj tus txiv paub li. Qhov no qhia tau tias koj tsis ntse los yog tsis puv pua. Phem zoo los yuav tau qhia yus tus txij nkawm paub tej yam loj li no, thaum ntxov.
The one that act sweet and nice are actually the evil one. Hav yam phem os...
Correct. You have Hmong guys and women telling their stories that they regret marrying their evil spouses bc they fell for their “innocent” and “sweet”persona.
Ab peb muaj me nyuam ce peb nyb zoo li tus nom xb as u twb nkee2 tseem kom u ua thb ce g xum yuav nw li o
Mab, you must be a beauty in your younger years! You’re still beautiful in your pictures, definitely not photoshopped because it is challenging to beautify ugly out of photos 😂
Cas nhov tib co poj niam es tias muaj mi nyuam mas nkees li nkees xwb kuv li kuv muaj mas kuv twb tsis nkees hlo as
You waste 30 years. Right now Yus twg old lawn os. I hope you find happiness.
He was an emotional abuser.
Hmong woman just don't know when to let go and move on.
Thats why u dont stay in a marriage for the sake of the kids if your husband emotionally and mentally abuse you. You gave him power over you.
Your husband is narcissistic, they put you down to control you. It's sad that you didn't have the courage to leave him earlier. 😢
Wow my husband is just like yours too he’s still live like its 1975….I’m just waiting for my youngest to be in kindergarten then I’m gonna leave him I’ve been married to him almost 20 yrs
Ua neeg nyob ntiaj teb no mas tsis sawm zoo li tiag. Tus khw2 es ntshaw2 kom tau nyob tsev los tsis tau, hos tus tau nyob tsev tau zoo los hais tias niam tim tus txiv tsis pub mus work es thiaj ruam tag.
Why does this sound like me during my first 10 years of marriage 😢 Glad you got out.
Oh my goodness...How can anyone tolerate this kind of abuse for so long? Life is so short...Please love yourself & be free of this crazy controlling freak!
Mloog ua ke os
Cas kuv tsis tau tus kom kuv nyob xwb ne 😢. Kuv ho tau tus hais tias yog kuv xav siv nyiaj ces kom kaj tsij mus ua hauj lwm no.
maiv txiab koj tus txiv twb tua qaib txhoov nqaij cia rau koj huv tib si mam mus hauj lwm all you have to do just boil it then eat koj yeej los tub nkeeg zog lawm thiab
Koj yog neeg taj dau lawm o, yus txoj kev txij nkawm xwb mus tham rau teb rau chaw li kov, kuv tsi nyiam hom poj niam nkawg xaiv
My ex never cooked for me when I give birth either, 5 children. The saddest life ever. He’s a different man with his new wife.
Txiv siab dub
This guy did not love you. 😢
Koj los yeej raum dhau lawm thiab. Koj twb paub nws zoo li ntawd es koj tseem yuav mloog nws hais ces nws ha yam ya phem rau koj xqb mas. At the beginning thaum koj tseem hluas nkauj nyob tim koj niam ua ntev thiab koj.
Thus is what a narcissist looks like! Always wants control!
Jesus Christ woman,,,he works 6 days a week and he already prepared and chopped all the meat ready for you same as my husband doing for me cuz he works hard and just cuz he's a man, he knows how to get tired too. Crazy Npaab poj niam siab nqaim aw
This lady is gossiping too much about her husband. Rumour hurting a man Life more than anything. You need to have a limit about private life and public gossiping.
I think most hmong may be having narcissistic, including mine.
Txiv phim nyuj vaim
Aib Thaub no ruam tsab ntse dhau lawm. Lub hlwb tseem blocked rau 75 lawm. Siv thiab yuav tsis tau os. Nws muab koj rau lub hoob ruam es Kom koj ruam es thiaj lis UA rau lis Kom nws ntse. Nws tsis pub koj mus work es hais tias ruam. Tsua muaj los lus ruam tas lis xwb ces hais rau nws hais tias " Leeb twg hais ces tus ntawv yog tus ruam xwb os".
Hmm, depends on how you look at this story. A lot of exaggeration. I hear you’re very lazy and expected too much. He probably wants a supportive wife, but sounds like you were a burden to him.
you are in the usa not in laos, tos koj tus txiv cem koj ruam los ntshe koj yeej ruam tiag lau thiaj li raug koj tus txiv tsim tsim laus kus.
Why were you with him for 30 years?
Because he charmed her parents to trust him as the award winning trophy husband. 🏆 👨 in the 🏡 = 👍🏼 ❤
It’s not easy leaving an abusive relationship !! You don’t know till you’re in that position 😊
Tbh, koj yeej ruam thiab mas.
Koj tus qub txiv ces yog neeg siab phem lim liam lam ua zoo rau koj qhia qhuas xwb. Nws cem thiab cob kom koj lub paj hlwb ruam xwb os. Zoo kawg koj ua tau siab taw qaw tawm hauv lub neej mus lawm.