It’s Not Wrong Just Because It’s Different… It’s Only Wrong Because It’s Wrong
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- Опубликовано: 16 июн 2024
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I'm not into horses but when this man speaks I listen!
I wouldn't say "neigh".
struggling 20 year old from Europe here- your videos help me so much. I love your takes on things and a lot of times it’s exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you 🙏
also depends where you live in europe places like netherlands and england are trash what i heard man
i would live in spain or maybe place where not that jampacked with people
Heavy hand on any animal is wrong!
Figure out what you love to do! Go to work for someone in that business! Learn all you can ! Then start your own Business! Food ,Sales ,Water, Real Estate! All a great start to a young career! Just pick one! Train your brain every day! Chess! Read books! And learn one new thing every day! Your brain is made up of Cholesterol 23% ! Your body needs meat dairy and rest
Don’t feel alone my friend, because I never met a kid your age that didn’t struggle somewhat, including myself, but if you accept challenges thrown at you at your age, you will be stronger and successful in the future. Guaranteed. Never let a challenge stop a dream
@@HamiltonRb I think the challenge's we are put through in life make us all better! I wouldn't change a single life experience! My Grandfather said to me ! Be careful of the Doors you open! Sometimes you can't close them! Meaning Drugs alcohol Women Gambling ECT. So live your life and have fun every day
Don’t ever stop telling stories,Dewayne. The world needs men to sit by a fire and tell stories.🙏🏻
Without a phone.
And women too! I wouldn't be upset if Ma came on and talked about raising kids and lessons she learned growing up.
@@KhontisYou know Dewayne’s wife has a channel,right?
@@vigilantofstendarr6276 Wait, what?? What's her channel's name?
@@lifeontheledgerlines8394Dry Creek Momma youtube.com/@drycreekmomma?si=7prl6w9oK0Jrt4Kc
My Dad is a retired fire fighter. Every weekend when I was a kid, we'd go for a drive and he'd talk about something or other. Usually, the story had a moral.
I'm a father now and I told him yesterday that all those times I pretended that I wasn't listening, I was listening most.
I'm terrified trying to fit his shoes but, you remind me alot like my old man Dwayne. Maybe I'll stick around here for abit :)
This man is a National treasure 🤙🏾 🖤
International - female from Uk here and I live for his uploads - especially as now I’m a new Christian - but just for the guidance anyways 😊 and to appreciate the old ways as we wave goodbye to them here and or never having known them at all ❤
I get so happy to see his uploads . He’s fantastic and calms my spirit - which is pretty flappy 😂
@albaasensi2350 yes, same here. I like to watch his videos in the morning while eating breakfast.
@@JesusisTheWay70x7that was such a smart British thing to say! Love it 🎉
You made me chuckle, so well stated. I thought of several things that drive me crazy- then realized they all have a common denominator: EGO.
1) Paying for advice without paying attention. You can learn something from everyone, even if it's what not to do. Be respectful. If you don't agree with an opinion, take it home quietly and chew on it. It may reveal things about yourself that need changed.
2) Allowing horses to run all over you. So dangerous for everyone, including those who work on them for a living, as well as the horse itself.
3) Abuse stemming from anger- when egos are bruised because things go wrong. This seems to be a universal problem with kids, animals, spouses, etc.
I could go on and on....
Thank you, Dewayne, for helping me take a hard look at myself and work at becoming a better human.
Yes spot on Thank you Dewayne for helping us all become better humans. Loved all.
That's a insightful comment.
Psalm 96 comes to mind and an old saying from Bozo ' there's no right way to do a wrong thing and no wrong way to do a right thing... Thanks for the useful parallels...
Just joined a few weeks ago.. loving your messages. Horse people, dog people, cat people.. all humans are too fractured into separate camps. One is about love and understanding, one is about hate and judgment and misery if you ask me. I count my blessings every day to be on my farm where all the creatures are at ease, living in the moment.
Happy Sunday Dwayne and Subs to you and your family.
I hate to see someone whip or yank their horse around, or even verbally berate them when they do something wrong. 99% of the time it isn't even that the horse did the wrong thing, the rider was sending mixed signals, the horse just listened to the "wrong" signal.
I've always have said, " If I do it a different way and the result is the same, am I wrong?
Sometimes yes. Sometimes no.
Sometimes the end result is only a small part of the lesson. Sometimes the journey is the lesson. If you take a different route or shortcut, you might be missing a crucial part of the foundation of the end result.
But I get what you're saying.
When I teach someone, I always ask them to learn it MY way 1st. Then they can change it, if they see a better way, afterward.
😊😊😊
The ends don’t justify the means. Therefore the means matter more than than the ends. Think about it
@whatsgoodearth YES sir!!!
It drives you crazy because you can't control "it", and you never will as long as you hang on to your need to control.
“Apropos” normal enough word so took me a bit to appreciate it. So thanks Dwain for using a normal vocabulary and not limiting yourself to typical social media language. Really appreciate you keeping it real.
Wait that gets used in English too?
There is a lot of attitude in the horse world. And it needs to be addressed. Be in it for the love of the horse. Thanks Dry Creek
I've always wanted to make a "bridle horse" like Pat. But my skills, timing and feel will never get to a level where I will accomplish that. I just don't have the opportunities to ride and train. But there are things about that style of riding that I CAN use.
Where I came from was "the old days". We'd get a horse broke enough to get a job done and then go get that job done. We didn't have good horses but we had good stories.
At 58 years old, I've learned that there are pieces of almost every famous trainer that might work for me...or it might not.
Wisdom can be found in many places.
Keep riding and don't lose your bells!
If everybody in this world was the same, it would be a boring place to live.
Nobody said you have to be the same as everyone.😊
My mom used to say this all the time. ❤ she has passed but you made me think of her. Thank you.
The same in the the most fundamental ways that truly matter.
@pondarosalife7790 👍✌️ My dad always said this also .
Thank you for all you do. A greatful listener.
Thanks so much for the Wisdom!!! Love from Texas to you & Momma!!! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🕊️🕊️🕊️❤️❤️❤️
Thanks Dwayne. You help more people than you think you do. God bless you brotha
Thank you as always Dewayne.
Very true Dwayne .
We ( a lot of us ) forget that there is more’n one way to skin a cat . We close our minds our eyes and even our heart to new ways and ideas.
It is never one way fit’s all OR
My way or the highway.
Great talk today as usual hope you and mommy have a blessed week ahead.
Well Said and said it clearly to be understood!!! Nothing better truth!!! Thak you sir!!!🙏🙏🙏👍
Yes sir Dewayne. You’re exactly right my friend. God Bless you
Thank you so much for this message. Honestly.
As we go through life we encounter a lot of ways of doing things. I want to accept only what I need to make the rest of my journey meaningful to me. And allow others to do the same for their journey.
That's why I love your channel! Just telling it like it should be! Keep up the great work
I truly enjoy your parables ❤
Inconsistency! Drives me crazy… looking forward to hearing this 😊
This teaching can really be applied to anything in life. The message being have your own knowledge and life experiences but also have an open mind to other ideas and like Dwayne says be logical, be responsible, have fun! But be teachable. I love this sit down cigar/pipe chat videos!❤ i look forward to them every time a new one is made. ☺️👍
Dewayne thank you for your wisdom God bless you and your family I wish your school wasn’t booked at the moment but I still learn from your videos and take in as much as I can
Great message!
Woo!! Love this! Good points all the way around!
Love your message.
This man is pure gold..
May God bless you and your family, thank you for your time and wisdom.
I watch a lot of horse trainers because I don't know what I'm doing so I find ways I really like it helps me so much watching so many of you💞
Well put . There is left and right , right and wrong . Lots of gray between the last two , but inherently we know the difference . If we would just temper our minute differences between what we believe , and how others may do things ; we could ALL learn things we may have never been exposed to previously . We don't have to believe something different , Just accept the difference , explore the possibilities ( as long as it is legal and moral ) to see IF it might work for us too . And if not , move on with what brought us this far . Glad you are back to adjusting the space between the ears of us human "mules" .
amen to this! I think if we all partake in this humane sharing of ideas and stories across sides, borders, armies, groups, we all become more empathetic to the needs of our fellow human. What a wonderful thing
Love you uncle Dwayne. Haven't listened to you in a while but every time you make me smile
Thank you for another great video, it is always nice to listen and have some food for thought.
I listen and filter ideas through my own situation and needs. Not everyone will agree as you stated. I use the old saying “Eat what you think is fish and throw away the bone”! Thanks again Dewayne.
From across the Pacific. Papua New Guinea, I tip my hat to you sir, I'm 26, your wisdom keeps me going.
I appreciate all of your content! Find myself watching all over your videos. I'm not a horse person but my father was. He had at least 8 my entire life and I was always around them. Your views remind me of his and its a breath of fresh air! Keep putting out your point of view its definitely shared!
You are a chosen one by god your advice helps so many including myself🎉❤
I don't know nothing about horses, i haven't even ridden one, but bc i am going to make them part of my life, I apperciate your advice sir. Have a good one!
Thank you, Dewayne.
I don't own any horses yet, but I watch these videos for the wisdom. I feel his lessons in wrangling can be applied to life, and as someone who grew up without a father and without my papa [passed when I was 8/9] I appreciate just sitting and listening to the wisdom of the older generation. Please, dont ever stop these videos partner ❤ Much love from WA
Yes I am intrigued
Hello from Canada I'm a car guy don't know much about horses and barely even seen them but hearing you talk about them and what you think about what is going on in your calm peaceful voice brings me a calm sense from all the stress in my life ty for what you do
Thanks for the video!
A nice one to end this day, thanks Dwayne
AQHA 🤣🤣🤣!!! Well stated. I had a foundation bred gelding for 25 years, died last year at 33. He was the best horse and sound til the day he left me. Old lines, quality animal.
Loved this whole topic. You are dead on with all this. Just excellent.
Wow! Your video was awesome! I support you 100%! We should all be ourselves and no matter who we are or what people think of us we all should just get along just fine. Just because something is different. Does not mean that we don’t have to like each other. Stop trying to live your lives in a way that pleases everybody else. Live your life the way that you see fit as long as it doesn’t hurt others and don’t let other people tell you who you have to be. 😊👍
Grabbed a CAMACHO Ecuador Toro & caught this video. As usual, a great topic & great cigar, you shared. Thanks.
Thank you for everything Dwayne, your knowledge and wisdom has helped me through some tough times as of late. I wish I was allowed in the usa, coming to your school would be a great thing to partake in.
the wisdom of this channel, open the eyes and hearts of many people to a much better way of thinking.
thank you Dewayne.
Thanks for this video it helped me see the value in pat’s video’s you always amaze me
Good morning Dwayne. ☕️✌️
I enjoy your channel. Thank you 🙏
Once again right on ❤
Love ya D, keep posting
Dewayne is the guy everyone wishes we had as a father. Thank you for you content!
Thank you☮️💟✝️
Hello great video information yes learn what you need from everyone and be open to new ways of doing things Dwayne
Favorite line was when you said “Shiny belt buckles”😂
You channels are a good information exchange !
Thanks again Mr.Dwayne
Once again; fantastic wisdom. You have to think though; my thought is Wayne’s wisdom is meant to apply across all of us. A lot to digest.
You're absolutely right.
There seems to be a lot of gatekeeping in every aspect of life today. It's very refreshing to hear, especially from someone who is older and has been working in a field for decades, keep a flexible mindset. I'm always open to learning new ways of doing things I have mastered, because only a fool thinks they know enough. And even if I choose not to utilize these new ways, who am I to tell another successful person they're doing it wrong?
Amen something is not wrong because it's different it is wrong because it's wrong! Well stated amen 🙏 brother
Great advice to live by, horses or otherwise. As always just good common sense, thanks Al
Still watching so you might say this later but man this conversation really reminds me of a saying my Momma raised us with . “Chew the meat - spit out the bone.”
Sooooo true ... ❤
Pretty much a metaphor for attitudes in the USA Today. Brilliant presentation, Sir. I can only applaud your wise overview of the situation we are in. Tolerance balanced with the knowledge of basic principles of ethics. Good job sir!
Just as you stated, it’s not all about horse people, it apply to all walks of life 👍🏻💪🏻🤠
Very true Im traning a dog that was never properly socialized if i had givin up on him , Others would have just had him put down But through patience and giidance from a well known trainer I have turned him around and he is becoming a trusting amimal
Everyone doesn't have the same moral compass..❤
This message is soooo needed in the art community. Everyone does art differently and people are so stubborn and they think it’s the wrong way just because not their way. People get all fired up about someone just doing their own thing and creating what they like
I really like your videos. I too watch Mr Pat Pucketts videos.
Peaves.
1. There are so many trainers that are scoundrels and worse even thieves. I really want to send my horse to a trainer for more education, but I've heard so many horror stories.
2. Not using a rear cinch at all. I know it's always needed, But once you put one on a new horse and they break in half, every horse will have one. Every horse I ride gets a rear cinch.
3. Allowing horses in your space. Thats the first thing I notice when someone is messing with a horse.
I agree with your conclusion on this video...
i am intrigued!
The same things are true for art and artists; there are numerous artists, and just as many ways of creating art; I’ve seen so many ways of doing things in creating art; that some fit me just fine, while other ways I don’t do; simply because I have not tried or don’t quite understand. Regardless; thank you Dewayne; it’s always a pleasure to hear your thoughts and perspective!👍🏻😁
I thought about that as well I'm in the art world . Been painting as long as I've been riding . Maybe opinions are like bum holes everyone has one. I like teaching kids and getting the supplies to them and watching them enjoy. I stay away from art classes with real humans. But you tube is great . Lots of room to learn without anyone telling me their opinion
Walking in the moccasins of another for a mile is the way to understand
Thank you
Great looking truck! :)
Love this.
The story at 7:23 I remember you talking about something like that in one of your videos, The Nature of Respect...
A very wise man.
Wow. More registration to make more revenue. That makes so much sense. I think that applies to a lot of things in this todays time.
Sweet feed, back in the day, I think I liked it better than my horse did. 😉🤣
I 100% agree with your opinion, but I do have one more pet peeve to add. I really hate a spoiled, coddled horse, the same as I dislike spoiled and coddled children. Ps… I absolutely love your channel and I share it anytime I can. 🥰
Honestly just because you don’t agree with how some people do things doesn’t make them wrong. But when it comes to beating and trying to control that’s not just wrong it’s very dangerous. We all have different strong points we should respect and learn from each other. You’re awesome Sir. Please be respectful to each and everyone no body can be replaceable.
YES YES YES! ALL OF THIS ❤!
Great point but how do you define what's wrong in this case? Because you see what's going on these days and it's definitely wrong but some could argue it's just different
Another cigar with Dwayne!
Alot of things that drive me crazy in others are flaws within myself I dislike
" We hate in others what we don't like about ourselves "
Great tool for improvement
I love your icon
@@janelleg597
Thanks, it's my vanlife lifestyle
Great video as always. Also such a glorious beard. I was wondering if you could make a video on hair loss in men? A lot of men go bald at a young age and need some guidance and wisdom. Would love to hear your thoughts.
Made the connection to Christianity immediately. Very timely video for me. Dare I say, you seem like a better theologian than most. Thank you, sir.
I'm not into horses, but I feel like this goes for a lot of things. my primary hobby is cars and again while I'm unfamiliar with horse culture, the cultural "fracturing" you described sounds pretty similar to how a lot of car enthusiasts behave, and it's a shame! there's a difference between behavior/modifications that are genuinely dangerous, and ones that are just choices that aren't to our preferences, style, or taste, and it's an important distinction to make. thank you for the wise words as always, man.
Dewayne, thank you again.
Anyone who thinks this had anything to do with horses needs to rewatch.
Has to do with anything and everything. Man’s a philosopher.
Fascinating person!
He said it! I just wish others were more in tune with themselves to realize some of these things on their own. You have to look into the mirror and self assess on a regular basis. Always question your motives
I like that you talk about this. I have been watching your video's for 2 years now and this video shows why. I don't like riding horses and I am not comfortable by the idea of riding an animal. Still, I respect your ways and perspectives on life. Most people can't see the difference between liking something and thinking something is good. You can like something that you think is bad and hate something that you think is good. I like listening to you and you have my respect.
It's not wrong because it's different.....It's only wrong when it's wrong. Thank you Sir for adding this one to my list of internal wisdom keepsakes...because it's right!