Do men have higher sex drive than women? | Men, Explain (Ft. Relationship and intimacy coach)
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- Опубликовано: 1 фев 2023
- “Netflix and chill?” - It’s a common stereotype that men “just want sex” while women prefer to “take it slow. When it comes to building a relationship, sexual compatibility plays a big part in the equation but is always left out in conversations due to its taboo nature. Which begs the question: Do men and women view physical intimacy in a relationship differently? What does physical intimacy mean for men and women in a relationship? Is there a gender that always wants more? Let’s find out in this episode with one of Bumble's sex and relationship coach, Andrea.
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Sonia and the 2 guest hosts did a great job covering the topic, it was entertaining and educational at the same time~!! 😊✌🏻
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6:35 he wanted to laugh so bad 🤣
4:55 it's because you're objectively a good-looking male specimen. For a regular guy in sg, a female initiating is rarity. Learn to think from the outside.
That’s why we need Andrew Tate
@@johnnytate69 nothing wrong with male initiating as that is the norm. Andrew tate? You mean that guy who was humiliated by a 19 year old on twitter? I heard his RUclips analytics consist of young simpy boys without and 30+ old virgin men. Sounds like a shrewd businessman preying on male insecurities.
When Andrea mentioned about arousal to desire and how some people process to getting there is completely different, I find that to be quite enlightening. Instead of simply labelling one as low sex drive, slow arousal is the main culprit, and it could be fixed organically instead of taking unsafe "medicine".
On the topic of 3some, if it's ffm, it's only a 3some to the m, while both of the f are taking turns to have sex. Similarly in mmf, the f is the only one experiencing the 3some while both of the m is taking turns. However, the likelihood of mmf in real life is not very common as the concept of 3some is largely a male fantasy.
Real life 3some happens only in ffm context because it's a fantasy that p.orn feed us men, and women are exposed to the idea of it enough to no longer considered it as an absurd idea anymore.
The other fantasy that have plural men vs single woman is that of gang-rape, and not 3some.
That is why some of the couples involved in an active switching lifestyle say the very idea of switching allow all the participants to experience their own 3some. Yes, the math is correct, 4 person can all have 3some. If it's 3 person, only 1 gets that experience.
Probably why that community takes a lot of pride in that lifestyle, suggesting how there isn't even a need to cheat for either party. They all get to play around.
not even ffm can be for the females too... the only thing that is hard for if u bring in a female in on it... is when n whom the guy finishes with.. if the one girl that u brought in makes u finish n when ur with the girl in a relationship... might make them feel inferior n lower self esteem
This is extremely wild but I went to kinder with Avery and had a phat crush on him then and it’s crazy to see him now and he seriously looks exactly how I remembered him!
I agree with the stats, sexless marriage is quite common in Singapore.. I do think it is normal for women that have kids, women kinda shut down on sex. it is not about stress but it is like they don't need it anymore. Unfortunately, most guys kinda "suffer" in silence.
i dont think its as simple as "dont need it anymore". she now has to work AND take care of the home AND take care of the kids. by night time, she is extremely exhausted. secondly she is prob going through alot of insecurities in her mind as she has pushed a human being out of her body where the whole pregnancy process has changed her body that may have unflattering long lasting consequences like scars, weight gain, stretch marks, the fact that she had to be sewn up down there etc. in her mind, she is also wondering if the partner is going to find a hotter lady outside of the marriage to fulfull his needs. if u are suffering in silence, then do communicate with your partner. she is prob suffering in silence too but in a different way.
@@joyoftessa agree, I thought so too, so many years back, got her a helper, she need not work, nor housework, II help with 50% of the fetching and got kids tuition. She now watch shows, have coffee, shopping and runs in the morning… Spoke to her on it and still a no need.. by the way, I am still quite fit .. can do 2.4km in under 10mins, i got no belly, don’t drink nor smoke… this situation isn’t uncommon, quite a few friends have it the same.
Ask if can go counseling or seek help, they are not keen. So how ? Resign to fate …
@@nilnil8072 there is also contraception. Taking the pills will reduce the sex drive alot. There could also be past trauma with other men she faced like assualt. She could also have this perception of no need due to her upbringing or religion where she was taught sex was abt reproduction and not pleasure as sex is sinful. Talking abt sex for most women is still taboo and many misconceptions still ingrained in pples minds Etc etc. Its really great that u are taking on the workload or getting help to reduce it for all. Perhaps hire a professional like the sex therapist in the video to help facilitate your discussion with ur wife abt ur needs and wants in the marriage. We as a society have not been equipped to even talk abt mental health much less sexual health
@@joyoftessa actually, no pills nor contraception as there is already abstinence..
if it was like that all the way, I would understand, but everything was ok in the first few years and this happens only after kids, even without work nor stress.
I can honestly tell you a significant % of men in Singapore suffer in silence on this but like you say, society is not ready to face nor talk about this.
I sometimes also wonder if the multiple cases of like properly educated adult male like the Lt Col , married with kids, who went into female dome in uni, just went crazy.. (not that I agree nor condone his outrageous behaviour which is down right wrong) but no one speaks about this ..
At most times, males find it embarrassing to talk about this or seek help. Most just suck it up and no one really cares, and men honestly got no power these days.
Porn destroys quality sex. End of story.
i watch this show for Sonia.. i think when there are 2 guests, she doesn’t get a chance to talk much. I think 1-1 format works better..as sonia can get more involved in the conversation and it doesn’t feel like an interview. Just my 2 cents.
I love the addition of Avery! Guy’s perspective and Sonia is also a lot more comfy cos they are friends. Loved this ep!
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This show is about me and I am not 18 I am around like 17 100 percent I also just joke but I won’t do it Again 100 percent because all the treatment is all for adults and and also massage place also for adults so i will only do the service in the future
My only relationship is with my hand.
The Princess Leia and Luke ?
Or slave Leia ?
Hopefully it’s not true.
the coach paper tiger laa...
Smell? Dog ah? 🤣🤣
The idea that women with low body should not be frown upon.. the idea that men are expected to know more how to go about sex with higher body count and sexual experiences... these are modern western culture. Seeing how these conversation penetrating into many of our younger generations and moving away from healthy familial marriage, pursuit of purity, saving your best for one that you're going to marry. The idea that worrying you'll marry into a bad sexual life partner as a reasoning to go into pre-marital sex i believe is an self-convincing cliché excuse to experience as many sexual partners as we can before getting into marriage. While it is pleasurable adventure understandably, it's also degrading to society sadly.
so does it mean that if women had an orgasm, will the baby come out smiling? and if not they will come out frowning?
Nowonder SG child depression rates are skyrocketing ! We found the answer: Bad sex !!!
my god doesnt mean you have a mic means you can start a podcast