This is exactly how I feel now. Addicted to porn, waking up late mentally exhausted, no job rn, and going to the gym being the only productive thing in my day. I’m trying to get out of this cycle but it’s so hard. I’m glad you posted this video because it’s so relatable and inspiring
Hey I was there last year just getting a purpose or reason to get up made me more enthusiastic about life! I was the guy who hated jobs woke up late before and what not but whats got a long term reason why it fired me up and just having a few daily habits that where good that I could stick to like reading a 30 minutes a day and listening to something inspirational. So man I don't know what you want to achieve so not going to give you any crazy advice just might be a small thing you overlooking that could lead to your breakthrough.
I’m just now starting to exit this stage, and boy I hated it. The gym is important but you need to identify your desires and thoughts. What your body wants versus what you want for yourself. Generate ideas and get to work. No fear.
This is literally thr first time ever watching this young man. I'm 45 and have an 18 year old son that struggles with anxiety and depression. It's hard for young men to find direction in these modern times. And social media is a fuckn scourge.
Help your son find his true purpose, Help him focus on what he truly wants in life and Help him turn off Social Media. You'll see him come back to his true nature and you will see his anxiety and depression quickly fade away as long as he's going about the day with purpose
@@magma5267 People have to usually find purpose in themselves. No one can really make that happen except yourself. It's best to give the person space and let them go through the motions. I use to be like this too until early 20's but it's only when you start digging deep down yourself and truly understand what you want out of life. Sometimes going camping solo for a few weeks is enough to find your inner true self. Some people achieve it with a single night of eating shrooms since it opens their mind to different ways of thinking. Depends on who you are and what works for you
Find Jesus, he gives true life. God is all knowing, we aren’t. Follow him today while u still can u won’t regret it. John 10:10”The thief cometh not, but for to steal, and to kill, and to destroy: I am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly.”
@@gabrielgabriel5177 hey old guy, the best advice I can give you is try to talk to your own age group. Have you even tried? The reason you can’t start your life is cuz you still have the mentality of a 20 year old. But once you start acting 38, watch your life quickly catch up. 👍
Don't you find it crazy that every man that has ever lived on earth suffered in a part of his life? Like you can't find any man who has not failed and succumbed. But then you realise, its what we're actually created for. We as men have to face adversity no matter the timeline or the place. Its our destiny, and its also our fate to overcome it and use that adversity as a powerful source of development. Men improve the most when faced by adversity. Hope shines most when all around us is but darkness.
I'm like it too. I do some things that I need to do, but not enough to suceed. Too much time spent on pleasureable distractions is making me feel depressed and worthless. I figured out what I need to do some time before this video and I think, I'm slowly getting out of it, but this video is a real booster. Finding people strugling in the same way and trying to get out of it, is motivational. Be strong bro!
Same for me but I found a way out and I am on the right path. Wish you all the best guys, we will become the best and highest performing version of ourselves again.
Find Jesus, he gives true life. God is all knowing, we aren’t. Follow him today while u still can u won’t regret it. John 10:10”The thief cometh not, but for to steal, and to kill, and to destroy: I am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly.”
I’ve noticed in my 16 hears on this planet that social interaction is the most important thing to me at least. Whether it’s talking to my parents siblings, talking to friends, playing sports with someone, be close with someone, going on trips, its the person ur hanging out with that matters. They make you feel alive and you have someone that listens to u and u can provide the same. Its something i’ll try to never lose in my life
@BrandonDiCarlo sure living by yourself you should learn but i dont think its what he needs right now. I think trying to meet new people and make new friends would help him a lot
@@ronmexico79 i suggest u to get out of this rut.. it only gets worse..day by day.. not talking to people and isolation has always been a downward spiral in any age of human existence. i suggest u to get out
This channel is always where I come for motivation. Not the motivation you get from after dark edits and similar shit, but the motivation you get from a friend. I love how open you always are about important shit that is otherwise not spoken about. Thank you, Dylan, for being a role model to all of us.
That instagram motivation video is fucking delusional and nothing but a waste of time, including dating online has wasted so much of my date I’m 28 now and want to go out and start approaching women
@@bekabeka71 it does. He just means you sound like a clown with your "approaching women" and "dating" Is that all your life is about? Lust? Pleasure? Come on brother...You know exactly why he said that. Don't do that to yourself.
the amount of humility it takes to make a video like this is insane. one of the most relatable and real videos i have seen on youtube in a very long time. thank you so much for this.
You mean the amount of cringe attention seeking? Dude filmed himself fake crying and brushing his teeth while looking depressed lmfao are you people serious? Get a grip
The problem this guy has is not porn or phone, its too much free time...LOL. Of course you are going to watch porn all the time, and spend 12h a day on your phone if you dont do anything productive, or dont have any hobbies.
I mean people with deep depression would never in a million years make this or even be ABLE to make this video. Im sure he really is going through a rough time, but he doesn't have a deep clinical depression. He leaves his house every single day AND is making videos for god sakes lol.. He flat out wouldn't be doing that if he was actually so depressed hes was about to kill himself.. I wouldn't call this clickbait, just exaggeration for content. Kinda fucked up.
@@airhead7141That’s him visually showing what he is saying. It’s a great way for people that take information in more visually than they do by listening. In my opinion this was a great video to share his weaknesses and help others self evaluate and work on their own weaknesses.
The fact that you have the guts and strength to come out about how you feel is already enough to make you a role model, I highly respect you for this and hope you start to go in the right track soon
Yea, he shows his guts and strength in all the 282 gratuitous shirtless shots through this short video. He’s pretentious and than makes a mockery of people who are actually depressed.
@@mariocosta1451 I don’t know man… Like it’s hard to explain, but it feels like Men’s mental health has been declining over the past few years. Something like this was probably a lot rarer 20 years ago, but today it feels like every 2nd or 3rd guy feels like this.
@@mariocosta1451 fr man, when its summer time i go to my granpdarents house in the country side and i play football go biking, boxing climbing trees and i use my phone less than 1hour a day and only to play music or check the time and it makes me feel so happy but then i go back to uni and i sit in a concrete box all day then go to uni and do homework and chores and then just fill the time by sitting on my phone and its so depressing... this video makes me feel good that theres people living the same life as me and realizing and becoming happier
Hey everyone!! I just wanted to share some good news with you all. Let's just put it this way, the Ten Commandments are called the Moral Law. Ask yourself this. How many lies have you told? Have you ever stolen anything? Have you ever used God's name in vein? Have you ever hated someone or ever looked with lust? This is for you to judge yourself, but chances are that you are a lying, thieving, blasphemous, fornicating, adulterer at heart and you HAVE to face God on judgement day. Now ask yourself this. If God judges you on judgement day by these Commandments, will you be innocent or guilty? Of course you'll be guilty because we've all done these things. The truth is that none of us are good people and we NESD God's grace to make it to heaven. We judt simply cannot do it on our own. These Commandments arecalled the Moral Law. You and I broke the law, Jesus payed the fine. So now what we must do to be saved is to repent of our sins and trust alone in Jesus Christ! To repent doesn't mean to just say I'm sorry, but to turn from our sins and let Him truly be our Lord continually. He said that many will say to Him, Lord, Lord I have done all of these things for you. And He will say I never knew you. Depart from Me, ye who work iniquity! And those will be cast into outer darkness and raging hellfire and loneliness for all of eternity!!! Because we broke His law, He is very, very just to send us to hell. If someone had murdered 4 people and said to the judge, I've done nice things too and have tried to treat people nice but it was just one time, the judge would then say, okay but you're going to jail. And the judge is very just to do that. One last thing, if you were 10,000 feet in the air and you had to jump, you wouldn't jump out and flap your arms and try to save yourself. That's ridiculous! You would put on the parachute. It is the same with Jesus. You must trust Him as you trust the parachute. We are not good and we cannot save ourselves with our own goodness. We must trust alone in Him to save us. In just a moment of time you can pass from death to life. Jesus said, "Verily, verily I say unto you, you must be born again." That is how we enter heaven. Through the blood and grace of Jesus Christ!!!!✝️If you ask someone how to enter Heaven, they will most likely say, "Be a good person." Well the Bible says that none is good, no not one. We like to compare ourselves to guys like Hitler and say, "Hey, I'm a pretty good guy compared to him." But when we compare ourselves to God's standard, we realize that the Bible speaks truth when it says that we all sinned and fallen short of the Glory of God!!! When we see this ( our sin in its TRUE light), we see how much trouble we are in and we say, "Well then there's nothing I can do. I'm going to hell for sure then." It's true that there is nothing that WE can do, but there is something that has already been done for you! God sent His One and Only Son to die on a cross as a sacrifice for our sins! So to recieve that eternal sweet sweet forgiveness, all we must do is repent of our sins (meaning to continually turn from them and confess them) and trust alone in Christ as you trust a parachute. If I was to push you out of an airplane, you'd want the parachute for sure! Don't try to flap your arms and save yourself, trust in the parachute! His finished work on the Cross IS ENOUGH!! He is the only way to Heaven, He said it Himself!! These other religions teach that we must he good and do good things and then maybe if we've been good enough, we will enter Heaven. But if that is true then we are all doomed to eternal hell because none of us are good. That's why this makes sense. Look at the Ten Commandments, they are written on your heart right now!! I promise that you have violated them. And you might still be doing that today. Therefore God is just to poor out His wrath on us because we deserve it!! But Christ died for us so that we can spend eternity in Heaven with Him! Turn to Him today, and He and only He will save your soul "Verily, verily I say unto you, you must be born again ( to go to Heaven)."✝️The true joy of Christ dwells in me!!! Does it in you? I know where I'm going when I die! Do you? I have an ETERNAL victory! Do you? I have more joy than ever because of what Christ has done. I have been down both roads. The road of the wicked and the road of Christ. Christ is way better and my cup runneth over with true joy and salvation. If you do not know the One true God and are not sure of your salvation, I promise He will never fail you. Turn to Him in repentance and faith. Repent means to confess and forsake your sins, never turning back to them. I tried changing on my own but I couldn't. It took the power of Christ on the inside of me to do it for me. He will give you a new and clean heart with new and clean desires and you shall be born again. A new creation in Christ Jesus! Hallelujah! Jesus said in order to enter the Kingdom of God, you must be born again! Thank you Lord Jesus!!✝️
Hey everyone!! I just wanted to share some good news with you all. Let's just put it this way, the Ten Commandments are called the Moral Law. Ask yourself this. How many lies have you told? Have you ever stolen anything? Have you ever used God's name in vein? Have you ever hated someone or ever looked with lust? This is for you to judge yourself, but chances are that you are a lying, thieving, blasphemous, fornicating, adulterer at heart and you HAVE to face God on judgement day. Now ask yourself this. If God judges you on judgement day by these Commandments, will you be innocent or guilty? Of course you'll be guilty because we've all done these things. The truth is that none of us are good people and we NESD God's grace to make it to heaven. We judt simply cannot do it on our own. These Commandments arecalled the Moral Law. You and I broke the law, Jesus payed the fine. So now what we must do to be saved is to repent of our sins and trust alone in Jesus Christ! To repent doesn't mean to just say I'm sorry, but to turn from our sins and let Him truly be our Lord continually. He said that many will say to Him, Lord, Lord I have done all of these things for you. And He will say I never knew you. Depart from Me, ye who work iniquity! And those will be cast into outer darkness and raging hellfire and loneliness for all of eternity!!! Because we broke His law, He is very, very just to send us to hell. If someone had murdered 4 people and said to the judge, I've done nice things too and have tried to treat people nice but it was just one time, the judge would then say, okay but you're going to jail. And the judge is very just to do that. One last thing, if you were 10,000 feet in the air and you had to jump, you wouldn't jump out and flap your arms and try to save yourself. That's ridiculous! You would put on the parachute. It is the same with Jesus. You must trust Him as you trust the parachute. We are not good and we cannot save ourselves with our own goodness. We must trust alone in Him to save us. In just a moment of time you can pass from death to life. Jesus said, "Verily, verily I say unto you, you must be born again." That is how we enter heaven. Through the blood and grace of Jesus Christ!!!!✝️If you ask someone how to enter Heaven, they will most likely say, "Be a good person." Well the Bible says that none is good, no not one. We like to compare ourselves to guys like Hitler and say, "Hey, I'm a pretty good guy compared to him." But when we compare ourselves to God's standard, we realize that the Bible speaks truth when it says that we all sinned and fallen short of the Glory of God!!! When we see this ( our sin in its TRUE light), we see how much trouble we are in and we say, "Well then there's nothing I can do. I'm going to hell for sure then." It's true that there is nothing that WE can do, but there is something that has already been done for you! God sent His One and Only Son to die on a cross as a sacrifice for our sins! So to recieve that eternal sweet sweet forgiveness, all we must do is repent of our sins (meaning to continually turn from them and confess them) and trust alone in Christ as you trust a parachute. If I was to push you out of an airplane, you'd want the parachute for sure! Don't try to flap your arms and save yourself, trust in the parachute! His finished work on the Cross IS ENOUGH!! He is the only way to Heaven, He said it Himself!! These other religions teach that we must he good and do good things and then maybe if we've been good enough, we will enter Heaven. But if that is true then we are all doomed to eternal hell because none of us are good. That's why this makes sense. Look at the Ten Commandments, they are written on your heart right now!! I promise that you have violated them. And you might still be doing that today. Therefore God is just to poor out His wrath on us because we deserve it!! But Christ died for us so that we can spend eternity in Heaven with Him! Turn to Him today, and He and only He will save your soul "Verily, verily I say unto you, you must be born again ( to go to Heaven)."✝️The true joy of Christ dwells in me!!! Does it in you? I know where I'm going when I die! Do you? I have an ETERNAL victory! Do you? I have more joy than ever because of what Christ has done. I have been down both roads. The road of the wicked and the road of Christ. Christ is way better and my cup runneth over with true joy and salvation. If you do not know the One true God and are not sure of your salvation, I promise He will never fail you. Turn to Him in repentance and faith. Repent means to confess and forsake your sins, never turning back to them. I tried changing on my own but I couldn't. It took the power of Christ on the inside of me to do it for me. He will give you a new and clean heart with new and clean desires and you shall be born again. A new creation in Christ Jesus! Hallelujah! Jesus said in order to enter the Kingdom of God, you must be born again! Thank you Lord Jesus!!✝️
Dude I felt it when u said “depression comes from not doing the things we know we need to do to further the trajectory of our lives.” that’s inspirational to me honestly I’m 3 years out of high school at this point just working the same low paying job and have started to feel just as u described but thanks for making this I rly wanna start trying to cut out my habits that are holding me back and just start doing what I know I need to do!
This is crazy cause we’re watching a man with 400k subscribers who’s doing things many wish they could be doing, making money people wish they were making.
He says not to look up to him. Yet someone that can take these feelings and immediately want to make changes for the better is an extremely admirable character. Most of us including myself immediately retreat to nothing
Just remember that you have no real idea what life is going to be like. I remember feeling this way countless times in my life, starting when I was a teenager. I'm turning 40 in 2 weeks. I don't have great advice on how to deal with depression. I'm still figuring it out and probably always will be, which is part of the lesson I have to share as well: you will never stop growing and learning, improving. Your perspective of yourself, your relationships, the things you value the most, will all change and they will change constantly for the rest of your life. What's important to you today won't matter in 10 years. You'll have to stick around for another 10 years to find out - believe me, you'll laugh about the things you thought were important. For any young person who needs to hear it: If you purposefully take care of your physical health, work hard in your professional life, nurture your personal relationships with positivity, and keep yourself out of trouble, you will have a good enough life. If you give up on yourself, the world will eat you alive. Be good, be truthful, be just, be bold, be strong, be the boss. You are in charge.
Listen man, We've all probably been in that state, Stuck on your phone/in bed/on your pc, failing to achieve your true potential. For what you are doing, Everyone is proud. You are doing what more than 90% of people are too lazy to begin. I Hope you will get better soon, Stay Strong King!
I saw the title of this video and immediately clicked on it simply because I’m going through the exact same thing right now. I’m approaching my mid-20’s and still have no direction. I honestly don’t know what the f**k I’m doing with my life. I saved up a bunch of money at a job I absolutely hated for two years and a few weeks ago had a mental breakdown at work and quit. I’ve been trying to get into better physical shape which is working but I’m still unhappy. Most of my friends are gone, I’ve been struggling to find a good relationship with a woman, I visit my family sometimes, but I still feel so damn alone. I hate it. I wake up every day now with no drive, no direction, no plans, nobody checks on me or calls me or asks to hang out or anything. I just feel like a man is nothing if he doesn’t even know his goals in life and has no purpose, and that’s where I am at the moment. I’m addicted to porn, sometimes I watch it just to distract myself and to feel at least something. I’m not even going to lie, I’ve had thoughts of just putting an end to my life lately because I feel like I’m drowning. I refuse to be open about it with friends or family because honestly I don’t want them to intervene if I feel like it’s my time to go. I used to be in a really bad state of depression a few years ago and I fought so hard to get out of it, and now I’m sinking right back down into it. I’m just so tired and unhappy, probably more than ever.
hey bro I know exactly how you feel, instead of pushing the idea that you're a victim to these circumstances instead take responsibility for these situations instead. I'm not saying blame yourself but instead have the mindset that it's up to you to fix these problems. Don't act like it's on others to check in with you, instead you check in with them. How many people do you actually check in on yourself? Reality is is that most of the things you said can be fixed purely by the effort you put into them. Obviously it isn't all that easy but what in life ever is? "No happiness without suffering" is a pretty bang-on quote, another I'd like to add is "you can suffer the pain of discipline or the pain of regret." Which one is truly more difficult to endure? Short term pain, long term gain my friend. Use the money you have saved to book a solo travelling experience for a week to any other country/state/city and treat it like a challenge. Just break the cycle. It can be helpful to talk to a therapist too but you have to be the one to start the journey. Good like brother. It gets better
Man hang on, I promise you when you get through this, you wil look back at se that you have grown as a Human being. Life is hard at some point in your life, been there.. But hang on, you are not alone! Take a walk every day, and start doing burpees at home, Max 20 mins. Follow the Busy Dad Training program, he does if for Max 20 mins per session. This will get your body going, and give you something very positive energi! It has done a lot for me, that is why i write this to you! Trust me it can do so for you my friend! I wish you the best! 🙏🏻💪🏻
I felt like that once, you might need a time to think, or relax for a week or two. Try to find something you're good at that can get you money or ask for help
"Without suffering, there can be no happiness." wow. This is one of the most raw and impactful videos I've ever seen. It's not that you want to die, you just didn't want to live how you were, and you changed that. Thankyou.
You might be depressed, you might be going through a rough patch. You might feel low right now. But atleast you are walking through hell with the chizzled body of a Norse god. You’ve helped so many people. You’ll get through this just like you helped them get through it
Same, brother. Diagnosed with ADHD at 44, depressed , drinking problem, broke and on top of that , my wife for 22 years kicked me out of the house last Sunday ( mother's day). Had no where to go. Staying with family for now. Can't do anything but stay in bed , numb my self with wine and watch youtube and porn all day. We're going to get out of this . Just keep your chin up and keep trying. Let's face the demons and move on.
Wow dude I’m 22 my dad went through the same exact thing. Got diagnosed with ADHD around the same age. Caused major problems with my mom they were separated for most of my childhood 12 to 19 and were getting divorced but a miracle happened and I mean literally it was God. My parents spent a weekend together out of the blue and my dad apologized for everything and my mom apologized and they made compromises for each other moving forward. My dad takes ADHD supplements (NOT medication) now on a regular schedule. And my mom holds up her end of the compromises. Their relationship is better then it was before but it all started with Jesus! Surrender to him, he can break that addiction, oppression, depression and heart ache whether it’s with your wife or without. Take that step and call out to him. Ask him to show you who he really is. I see your comment and I’m praying for you. Things will get better.
You must act don't let your life spiral out of control like that it's time to take control things are obviously gotten like that over time.pray to the lord and put in the work everyday .
You already know what you need to do. None of us need to tell you. Can you blame your wife for kicking you out? No one wants to live like that. Good news is that there is plenty of time to turn it all around and get your life back on track. For sure you can do this.
Me to bro, I’m found a way out and this might sound cringy to some people but believe it or not Jesus is helping me tremendously. He’s completely changing my life everyday. He Loves us all. If any doesn’t believe in him just say this out loud ,” if you’re real show me? “ Doesn’t hurt . Anyways all Love Godbless 🤙🏽
I struggled with depression most of my life, I totally feel you and understand how you feel it’s hard and difficult and people wouldn’t understand what you’re going through unless they experience it, but like I thought being a guy that strong fit with huge muscles would make you somehow happy at least which surprises me a bit, I wish I looked like you, you have so much to be grateful for! sending much love i hope you’re able to figure it out
Dylan I’m a 15 year old and started going to the gym and you inspire me so much your one of my favourite creators because your so real you talk about things everyone struggles with but are to scared or ashamed to admit and which is why I look up to you your so brave and strong for all this love u man
Dylan, we love you. You’re an amazing influencer and have truly helped me so much. What you speak about addiction is true. We do try to fill the void with something else. We just need to fill it with something healthy. Whenever you seem down, just remember you HAVE the strength to get better. There will be days where you feel like shit. Days where you might relapse. It’s important to keep moving forward and remember that you have a huge fan base that loves you very much. Please keep making content like this. I truly think talking about it will help you and others with their journey. We are here for you Dylan ❤
I almost started crying when you said "I'd rather say I failed than never tried". As someone who has avoided so many things in his life, this hit me hard as fuck; and I know the feeling when you finally push past feeling like a loser and TRY. Appreciate the hell out of your authenticity, as cliche as it is, it's not about falling down, or how long you stayed down, but did you get back up.
Nothing matters but Jesus Christ and what he did on the tree. Matthew 16:25-26 25 For whosoever will save his life shall lose it: and whosoever will lose his life for my sake shall find it. 26 For what is a man profited, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul? or what shall a man give in exchange for his soul?
I’m 41 about to be homeless, no friends or family for support and am recovering from porn addiction. I can relate to most of what has been said. I do not feel like continuing my life as it currently is hit hard and is exactly how I feel
Damn bro at least your stopping the porn addiction that's a step in the right direction. And you will make friends if you put yourself out there honestly wish you all the best man
You’re not a loser mate. To endure what you’re going through while choosing to stick around takes incredible strength. I think right now is actually when you’re most inspiring. Be gentle with yourself friend.
As unfortunate as it is, I’m glad I’m not the only one who feels all of this. Sucks saying that because no one deserves feeling that way but it gives me a sort of consolation when most of the time I feel so alone and traveling no where with what I really want in life. Especially coming from someone have sought motivation from for years. I value your honesty Dylan.
Shut tfk up bro we are MEN, we have shit to do nobody cares about any one's depression, are parents suffered to keep us alive and your dumb @ss is talking about depression
Bro breaks my heart to read this and praying for you, when i used to feel empty and purposeless, Jesus is the one who showed me that my purpose is in Him, it's all about God! God is real and Jesus died for you so that if you trust in Him and choose to follow Him, He will forgive you fully, give you life and you will live the purpose you were created for! Much love bro! Peace
There is no hope in this world that’s passing away. Seek God through Jesus Christ. 2 Corinthians 4:18 18 While we look not at the things which are seen, but at the things which are not seen: for the things which are seen are temporal; but the things which are not seen are eternal. Philippians 3:8 8 Yea doubtless, and I count all things but loss for the excellency of the knowledge of Christ Jesus my Lord: for whom I have suffered the loss of all things, and do count them but dung, that I may win Christ,
I want to tell you something and i want you to live by this. We are all important because our lives affect everything we surround ourselves with. If you ever stopped existing allot changes, everything you could’ve been disappears. all of your potential is never reached, you are capable of huge things if you simply tap into yourself. it’s understandable to hate this world and the horrible people that exist, but that’s even more reason for you to make change. believe in yourself for once and do everything to overcome your suffering
I've never felt right since ever, always hated my life, always felt miserable, i am now 35 and i'm scared I will always feel this way till the day I die
One of the most depressing things about being a bodybuilder/lifter is that feeling You get when You get to what You think is the ultimate goal and then nothing changes. It’s a sinking feeling to realize it’s all about the anticipation and not about the moment..and so how’s Life. Let me assure you of something. I’m in my mid 40s now so I can say this. I’ve been there with you and I’m not talking a long time ago. I’m talking only a couple of years ago. My ex left me and was with somebody else and it absolutely fucking crushed me. I could think of nothing else. Multiple therapists, a psychiatrist put me on some dumb medication, and all I did was lose a lot of weight from anxiety, gain a ton of weight from depression, got demoted at work, because I couldn’t focus or pay attention, or even show up on time, the simplest tasks, like paying bills to regular hygiene, habits seemed like overwhelming tasks, etc. etc. etc. I thought the only thing that would ever make me feel better was to be with her again and the reality that it wasn’t going to happen ate me alive. I probably will go to the rest of my life without a single day going by that I don’t think about her and that’s terrible, but if I’ve learned nothing else, I’ve learned one thing. The older you get the less it’s about all the fluff.. when I was young, it was about benching 405 pounds and it was about throwing 90 mph and it was about getting this girl in that girl and this girl in that girl and then when I got a little bit older it was some of the same things except it was softball instead of baseball etc. but the older I get the more I realize it’s really just about life man. Surviving. Living and breathing fresh air. Life itself is fucking awesome. Some people don’t have the opportunity to stick around too long. Some people obviously are not here anymore with us. I’m telling you one day this will resonate with you. Just being alive in and of itself is the best. Be well, brother. Of course if you feel like you shouldn’t be here or if they thought even crosses your mind, you definitely need to be speaking with somebody on a professional level, but from one man to another, that’s my two cents.
Jesus Christ is the purpose of life, to know him. Seek God through Jesus Christ. Romans 6:23 23 For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.
First video I watched and something you said struck me so hard. “But when today is all said and done and I’m laying in my cozy bed, I rather say I failed than I never tried” I’m living by this from now on 💯 Glad your on a better mental path!
With Dylans increasingly honest videos, he's freeing himself in more ways than we can imagine. I wish nothing but the best for this man and I hope one day I can conquer my flaws just like Dylan did today.
We live in a society where the people that are supposed to support inspiring men and men with potential have abandoned us. We all have to stick together when feeling this way. Stay strong big bro.
Hey everyone!! I just wanted to share some good news with you all. Let's just put it this way, the Ten Commandments are called the Moral Law. Ask yourself this. How many lies have you told? Have you ever stolen anything? Have you ever used God's name in vein? Have you ever hated someone or ever looked with lust? This is for you to judge yourself, but chances are that you are a lying, thieving, blasphemous, fornicating, adulterer at heart and you HAVE to face God on judgement day. Now ask yourself this. If God judges you on judgement day by these Commandments, will you be innocent or guilty? Of course you'll be guilty because we've all done these things. The truth is that none of us are good people and we NESD God's grace to make it to heaven. We judt simply cannot do it on our own. These Commandments arecalled the Moral Law. You and I broke the law, Jesus payed the fine. So now what we must do to be saved is to repent of our sins and trust alone in Jesus Christ! To repent doesn't mean to just say I'm sorry, but to turn from our sins and let Him truly be our Lord continually. He said that many will say to Him, Lord, Lord I have done all of these things for you. And He will say I never knew you. Depart from Me, ye who work iniquity! And those will be cast into outer darkness and raging hellfire and loneliness for all of eternity!!! Because we broke His law, He is very, very just to send us to hell. If someone had murdered 4 people and said to the judge, I've done nice things too and have tried to treat people nice but it was just one time, the judge would then say, okay but you're going to jail. And the judge is very just to do that. One last thing, if you were 10,000 feet in the air and you had to jump, you wouldn't jump out and flap your arms and try to save yourself. That's ridiculous! You would put on the parachute. It is the same with Jesus. You must trust Him as you trust the parachute. We are not good and we cannot save ourselves with our own goodness. We must trust alone in Him to save us. In just a moment of time you can pass from death to life. Jesus said, "Verily, verily I say unto you, you must be born again." That is how we enter heaven. Through the blood and grace of Jesus Christ!!!!✝️If you ask someone how to enter Heaven, they will most likely say, "Be a good person." Well the Bible says that none is good, no not one. We like to compare ourselves to guys like Hitler and say, "Hey, I'm a pretty good guy compared to him." But when we compare ourselves to God's standard, we realize that the Bible speaks truth when it says that we all sinned and fallen short of the Glory of God!!! When we see this ( our sin in its TRUE light), we see how much trouble we are in and we say, "Well then there's nothing I can do. I'm going to hell for sure then." It's true that there is nothing that WE can do, but there is something that has already been done for you! God sent His One and Only Son to die on a cross as a sacrifice for our sins! So to recieve that eternal sweet sweet forgiveness, all we must do is repent of our sins (meaning to continually turn from them and confess them) and trust alone in Christ as you trust a parachute. If I was to push you out of an airplane, you'd want the parachute for sure! Don't try to flap your arms and save yourself, trust in the parachute! His finished work on the Cross IS ENOUGH!! He is the only way to Heaven, He said it Himself!! These other religions teach that we must he good and do good things and then maybe if we've been good enough, we will enter Heaven. But if that is true then we are all doomed to eternal hell because none of us are good. That's why this makes sense. Look at the Ten Commandments, they are written on your heart right now!! I promise that you have violated them. And you might still be doing that today. Therefore God is just to poor out His wrath on us because we deserve it!! But Christ died for us so that we can spend eternity in Heaven with Him! Turn to Him today, and He and only He will save your soul "Verily, verily I say unto you, you must be born again ( to go to Heaven)."✝️The true joy of Christ dwells in me!!! Does it in you? I know where I'm going when I die! Do you? I have an ETERNAL victory! Do you? I have more joy than ever because of what Christ has done. I have been down both roads. The road of the wicked and the road of Christ. Christ is way better and my cup runneth over with true joy and salvation. If you do not know the One true God and are not sure of your salvation, I promise He will never fail you. Turn to Him in repentance and faith. Repent means to confess and forsake your sins, never turning back to them. I tried changing on my own but I couldn't. It took the power of Christ on the inside of me to do it for me. He will give you a new and clean heart with new and clean desires and you shall be born again. A new creation in Christ Jesus! Hallelujah! Jesus said in order to enter the Kingdom of God, you must be born again! Thank you Lord Jesus!!✝️
This video truly helped me. For weeks I have been at my lowest. It started when I got my new phone, it was all I did. It was basically my life and It took over everything. I wouldn't want to go to the gym. I wouldn't want to go see my friends. I was depressed. I was just a spiritless lump in my room watching my phone. But after seeing this video, it motivated me. More than ever before. I started making lists of things that I need to accomplish, and I've accomplished most everything that I put on the list. I don't use my phone hardly as much as I used to. I get all my workouts done every day and this is all because of this one video. It helped me so much, and I just want to thank you Dylan. You truly saved my life. Much love❤❤
Brothers, social media is destroying our society and the next generations. I'm in the exact same spot as Dylan. I went from a jacked up, strong, confident and disciplined young men, to an essentially old men, waiting to die. We need to break free and do it in a way that we can keep this addiction out of our lives forever. These are the best years of our lives spent and wasted looking at a rectangle like mindless NPC's....the world is full of wonders and opportunities, just imagine all that we missed already and all that we could still have. We need to be stronger and take radical actions to assure this won't be our future. Good luck friends, hope to see you all on the other side of this hell.
The way you are true to yourself and is willing to sharing your vulnerabilities shows that you absolutely are a man to look up to even though you feel the opposite. I find it extremely brave that you are willing to go public about this sort of stuff and i hope that you know that life is worth living
Beautiful video. While I am still pretty optimistic about things, I can’t lie I’m in a very similar spot right now. Every day I’m always thinking about things I want to try but I never do it. Instead I just sit inside learning everything about it on RUclips or other social media but never actually doing it. It’s always nice to know there are other people who feel the exact same, and have found ways to get out of it and grow.
Not gonna lie. I had mixed thoughts going into the start of this video. But honestly it’s now one of the best videos I’ve ever watched on RUclips. You’ve done a lot for the boys man. Really appreciate your content. You’ve got in on lock 💪🏾
Hey Dylan, it’s been a while since I’ve checked in on your channel. Was a frequent visitor pre covid (basically another world). When I watched your channel I made immense progress as a skinny dude following the dirty bulk. Hit a very comfortable weight, covid came. Tyrannical Canada came. And I lost it all. Went right back to where I was and still currently am now 3 1/2 years later. While other aspects in life took off my personal health decreased. I have now finally found the courage.. and well. Here I am…back at ground zero. I want to thank you for being such a huge inspiration to me. Life gets hard and everyone has stuff they are dealing with. One thing that came to me over covid was finally getting right with Jesus, or at least trying my best everyday. One things for certain is spend that hour with him as much as possible. Because without him we are lost. Much love brother I wish I could say more and even hangout with ya. We are in some weird times but it sounds like you are aware of that.
You are definitely deserving of your career. Your making deep and meaningful content that us men can relate to. You’re physique and determination to self improvement is impressive. Keep at it. We all gonna make it brodie 🤙🏼
Very inspirational, the fact that you have the humility to show your weaknesses is super inspiring, so i wanna thank you for keeping it real for us. Ive been struggling with some similar issues and its very helpful to see the systematic approach you take to dealing with them. We appreciate you bro
Dylan you're honestly doing God's work here. I'm so tired of everyone posting their fake realities on social media. Thank you for using your platform to help relate to people.
@@CleverGirlAAH You cannot be serious lmao. He's a content creator, so he still has to make his videos somewhat entertaining for his audience to watch. He could have got a lot more views creating a video with a girl in a bikini shaking her ass but he decided NOT to. Because for Dylan, it's not all about the money. It's about creating content that will help others. It's selfless.
@@KomotsukiDZoro No. No, he does not have to make videos. You've correctly pinpointed the hypocrisy, yet you will make an excuse for it. His realities are fake too as long as he makes videos. That's the paradox of all social media.
I don't know if you'll ever see this, but I want you to know that you are a huge inspiration. I haven't seen anyone before feeling almost the same if not the same way as I've been feeling for the past 1-2 years. It's been bad because I've been addicted to watching RUclips and losing sleep over it for 3ish years now. I've felt terrible, lost, depressed, and hopeless for a while, and have felt like giving up. I truly found the gym about 2 months ago (I've been in the gym for a year now, but wasn't really doing proper training, so it doesn't exactly count), and that's already helped me a little bit. But I still have a lot of work to do, and I still feel empty inside. Seeing someone else go through very similar struggles not only helps me to feel inspiration to make living worth it, but it also reminds me that we are all human, all going through the same/similar struggles, and that someone will always be there to lift you up. I appreciate you for going through all that you've gone through, man. I'm fucking proud of you. Let's continue to improve our lives from here on out. Love you for being real with us, takes a lot of courage.
Hey everyone!! I just wanted to share some good news with you all. Let's just put it this way, the Ten Commandments are called the Moral Law. Ask yourself this. How many lies have you told? Have you ever stolen anything? Have you ever used God's name in vein? Have you ever hated someone or ever looked with lust? This is for you to judge yourself, but chances are that you are a lying, thieving, blasphemous, fornicating, adulterer at heart and you HAVE to face God on judgement day. Now ask yourself this. If God judges you on judgement day by these Commandments, will you be innocent or guilty? Of course you'll be guilty because we've all done these things. The truth is that none of us are good people and we NESD God's grace to make it to heaven. We judt simply cannot do it on our own. These Commandments arecalled the Moral Law. You and I broke the law, Jesus payed the fine. So now what we must do to be saved is to repent of our sins and trust alone in Jesus Christ! To repent doesn't mean to just say I'm sorry, but to turn from our sins and let Him truly be our Lord continually. He said that many will say to Him, Lord, Lord I have done all of these things for you. And He will say I never knew you. Depart from Me, ye who work iniquity! And those will be cast into outer darkness and raging hellfire and loneliness for all of eternity!!! Because we broke His law, He is very, very just to send us to hell. If someone had murdered 4 people and said to the judge, I've done nice things too and have tried to treat people nice but it was just one time, the judge would then say, okay but you're going to jail. And the judge is very just to do that. One last thing, if you were 10,000 feet in the air and you had to jump, you wouldn't jump out and flap your arms and try to save yourself. That's ridiculous! You would put on the parachute. It is the same with Jesus. You must trust Him as you trust the parachute. We are not good and we cannot save ourselves with our own goodness. We must trust alone in Him to save us. In just a moment of time you can pass from death to life. Jesus said, "Verily, verily I say unto you, you must be born again." That is how we enter heaven. Through the blood and grace of Jesus Christ!!!!✝️If you ask someone how to enter Heaven, they will most likely say, "Be a good person." Well the Bible says that none is good, no not one. We like to compare ourselves to guys like Hitler and say, "Hey, I'm a pretty good guy compared to him." But when we compare ourselves to God's standard, we realize that the Bible speaks truth when it says that we all sinned and fallen short of the Glory of God!!! When we see this ( our sin in its TRUE light), we see how much trouble we are in and we say, "Well then there's nothing I can do. I'm going to hell for sure then." It's true that there is nothing that WE can do, but there is something that has already been done for you! God sent His One and Only Son to die on a cross as a sacrifice for our sins! So to recieve that eternal sweet sweet forgiveness, all we must do is repent of our sins (meaning to continually turn from them and confess them) and trust alone in Christ as you trust a parachute. If I was to push you out of an airplane, you'd want the parachute for sure! Don't try to flap your arms and save yourself, trust in the parachute! His finished work on the Cross IS ENOUGH!! He is the only way to Heaven, He said it Himself!! These other religions teach that we must he good and do good things and then maybe if we've been good enough, we will enter Heaven. But if that is true then we are all doomed to eternal hell because none of us are good. That's why this makes sense. Look at the Ten Commandments, they are written on your heart right now!! I promise that you have violated them. And you might still be doing that today. Therefore God is just to poor out His wrath on us because we deserve it!! But Christ died for us so that we can spend eternity in Heaven with Him! Turn to Him today, and He and only He will save your soul "Verily, verily I say unto you, you must be born again ( to go to Heaven)."✝️The true joy of Christ dwells in me!!! Does it in you? I know where I'm going when I die! Do you? I have an ETERNAL victory! Do you? I have more joy than ever because of what Christ has done. I have been down both roads. The road of the wicked and the road of Christ. Christ is way better and my cup runneth over with true joy and salvation. If you do not know the One true God and are not sure of your salvation, I promise He will never fail you. Turn to Him in repentance and faith. Repent means to confess and forsake your sins, never turning back to them. I tried changing on my own but I couldn't. It took the power of Christ on the inside of me to do it for me. He will give you a new and clean heart with new and clean desires and you shall be born again. A new creation in Christ Jesus! Hallelujah! Jesus said in order to enter the Kingdom of God, you must be born again! Thank you Lord Jesus!!✝️
You got a new subscriber today, I think I haven't met someone in youtube that I can relate as someone as you, not cause of your phisique, shit you're jacked up as hell, but because of your way of thinking and living life
The brutal honesty in this video is very respectable. Most content on the internet only shows the best part/versions of everyones life. But this kind of video is something that can actually help
Bro I feel this. Sucks man. Go through it not around it. Know resources are there for a reason. Talking to others, support systems and fellowship is what helped me through depression and rock bottom. You are not alone. Prayers my brother. You are a son of God. We are here for a purpose. You inspire my son to be better, so know you do make a difference
In watching this video, I learned a lot about motivation from you. You truly inspired me man and I hope you make the best of yourself. You’ll get back into your routine we believe in you!
You're not the only one mate. I have this problem, and I'm trying to get out of this addiction and work on self improvement. Stay strong mentally and physically ❤
Dude, you are jacked and you're a fucking good looking guy. Stop heaping shit on yourself. You seem intelligent and self -aware. You have so much going for you!
I’ve only ever casually watched your channel, but i have to say that along with myself struggling with depression on and off since i can remember it’s never worth it to give up on life. You clearly have plenty of potential, surround yourself with new things to excite you. You got this, king. 🙏
Man this IS EXACTLY HOW I AM! Man wtf I feel the same and I really appreciate you putting this up because I’ve felt the same for a fair few years and this year and last had made me feel the worst I love you bro
Have you gotten out of it? Or atleast made some changes? I'm trying to change everyday but I keep getting stuck on the phone for hours a day even when my exams are literally happening right now. I'm at a point where my eye floaters are getting worse because of the phone usage. You got any advice? It seems that everything I do fails
Hey man, look im in the same boat, what helped me was setting time to be by myself off my phone like lock it away and get back to nature go for a walk or run get your body moving in some way, even go for a hike, to the beach watch a sunset anywhere really without your phone and try and relax, and gather your mind on what is stopping you and your short falls so you can fix them, it’s not a fail if you grow from it it’s a win, Also just idk man my state is my self being stuck in this state, im trying most things to change, I’m used to comfortably over uncomfortably and it’s been the things that fucked me, being in a comfort zone and not pushing myself really fucked everything so my advise get out change the physical and the mental will follow, get out of your head and in the real world go love do something get ya mind off things and try and do a hobby
I’m 31 years old, after watching this you got me watching to get back into fighting. You made me feel like it’s never too late to get back going, like idk what’s going on in either of our lives but man to man you made me want to try again
You are one of the people who CAN live. So many could and were never born or had to leave too soon. Just this thought of being in this world and having a FREE will to do ANYTHING you want is reason enough. Stay strong champ!!
'For I know the plans I have for you,' declares the Lord, 'plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you a hope and a future. ' - Jeremiah 29:11
I hear you man, I am in that dark place right now too. Main thing is we keep moving forward. We need more people as brave you. Mental health is declining worldwide and we have to be supportive. It’s hard to show your vulnerability, especially as a male. We get labeled so fast. We need to stick together. I wish you the best l and send you good vibes my bruddah! We fall, but always rise.
All I can say Dylan is at least you are aware of the patterns in your behavior, and thinking that you would like to change now at a young age and you’re willing to do the work that is necessary to make the changes that need to be made so that you can be the person you know you deserve to be I support you brother and I hope that along your journey, you fully realize how amazing you are and the potential you possess
Thank you for this Brother, I too have been feeling like this lately and I will use this video as inspiration to find my why. We are going to get through this, Much love ❤️
I’ve experienced that same emptiness and understood exactly what you are going through. Just like eating a meal it’s one bite at a time. You have the power to decide how your life goes. I too enjoyed mowing the lawn when I was growing up in Ohio. I really loved it and always look back at it with fond memories. Thanks for the reminder about these phones.
Turn to Jesus Christ. Matthew 11:28-30 28 Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. 29 Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls. 30 For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.
@@warlockofwordschannel7901 it’s not about organized religion get alone in your room, get on your knees, and ask God to reveal himself to you. Religion didn’t change my life, Jesus Christ changed my life. He Set me free from pornography and many other addictions.
These are all CBT/DBT skills that you've used here. Overall you've committed to a life worth living when life didn't seem worth living at all, and leading by example is a wonderful use of your RUclips channel. To you Dylan, and to anyone reading this: I know I'm nothing but a stranger to you but I'm incredibly proud of you, even when you're in a state of depression, and I love you even if no one else will. You are valuable just because you exist; you don't have to do or be anything special to be loved. Please promise me, and the rest of us, that no matter how hard it might be to stay alive, you won't hurt yourself or take your own life.
I’m watching you be real! The genuine emotion here is going to help so many! You are definitely bringing a unique value! I appreciate you so much and your honest-raw content! We don’t need another influencer with sunshine and warm vacation backgrounds. We need content to grow us and make us inwardly powerful! Thank you for making this possible! I can help you if you need to chat. Don’t you give up-keep growing and reaching new audiences! Much love ❤️
Dylan you are not a loser. You might think that this version of you is not 'worth following' but people don't just follow you for your self improvement content. They follow you because they like YOU and who you are as a person. This video took a lot of honesty and vulnerability, that is something most people can't do. You have made a lot of people feel so much better and less alone, just by being open and honest about your struggles. Props to you. You will make it through this.
He is honest ,vulnerable and wants to help people very good traits which many people don't have props to him. He is an inspiration to others he is not a loser.
I can definitely relate, I lost all of my friends, I was humiliated in front of my entire school, pretty much your average quiet kid backstory. Looking back on the times where I was popular and I knew my friend group cared about me and loved me is easily the most painful things I've ever done. But it's not over, I am filled with potential and so are you, it's never over. I like to imagine a devil watching me, every night when I go to sleep he's in the corner with glowing red eyes waiting for me to break, waiting for me to give into evil and hurt myself or others, and every night I think, "fuck you, you bastard, you can't take this from me, I won't let you have it, I refuse to break." You can do anything you want if you have the drive and determination.
As a 30 year old guy who is really lost in life and currently struggling with depression this video actually motivated me a lot. Thanks a lot Dylan as this was truly a really damn inspiring video and I really hope to god that you are doing better these days.
Bro... You are absolutely deserving of everything you have. You are struggling right now but there's always light at the end of the tunnel. Don't give up. Don't give up you know this. The fact that you were once a skinny kid and now you are absolutely jacked is because you did not give up. So even though you are currently struggling don't let go and don't give up. You'll make it ❤
The fact I relate to this video so much rn says alot, thank you for this video man and know you aren’t alone there are many of us out here struggling the same way you are.
hey Dylan I just came across this video randomly and now you have a new sub. listen to me brother things will get better, keep pushing yourself and don't accept failure. I'm 38 yrs. old, I've been done 3 combat tours combined between Iraq and Afghanistan, I suffer from ptsd/TBI. I've been married 4 times and still single to this day. I think about ending it daily but here I am I refuse to quit. when shit gets hard you get focused. hang in there brother.
A man's legacy is to dominate. To conquer. To discover. Your work here is not finished mate, not even close. Your legacy is just beginning. In the relatively short time that you've been on RUclips you have single-handedly inspired a generation of youth to improve their mental stability and physique. I look forward to seeing how your legacy continues.
Dylan: You were the first video I ever saw about bulking. It's been 3 years, I've gained 55 pounds, and look the best I've ever seen. You're incredible, and a great man. I attribute a lot to you. Being seld aware enough to make this video, and actively improve your life shows you're ahead of many. You're a beast, and I know you'll get better.
Hey everyone!! I just wanted to share some good news with you all. Let's just put it this way, the Ten Commandments are called the Moral Law. Ask yourself this. How many lies have you told? Have you ever stolen anything? Have you ever used God's name in vein? Have you ever hated someone or ever looked with lust? This is for you to judge yourself, but chances are that you are a lying, thieving, blasphemous, fornicating, adulterer at heart and you HAVE to face God on judgement day. Now ask yourself this. If God judges you on judgement day by these Commandments, will you be innocent or guilty? Of course you'll be guilty because we've all done these things. The truth is that none of us are good people and we NESD God's grace to make it to heaven. We judt simply cannot do it on our own. These Commandments arecalled the Moral Law. You and I broke the law, Jesus payed the fine. So now what we must do to be saved is to repent of our sins and trust alone in Jesus Christ! To repent doesn't mean to just say I'm sorry, but to turn from our sins and let Him truly be our Lord continually. He said that many will say to Him, Lord, Lord I have done all of these things for you. And He will say I never knew you. Depart from Me, ye who work iniquity! And those will be cast into outer darkness and raging hellfire and loneliness for all of eternity!!! Because we broke His law, He is very, very just to send us to hell. If someone had murdered 4 people and said to the judge, I've done nice things too and have tried to treat people nice but it was just one time, the judge would then say, okay but you're going to jail. And the judge is very just to do that. One last thing, if you were 10,000 feet in the air and you had to jump, you wouldn't jump out and flap your arms and try to save yourself. That's ridiculous! You would put on the parachute. It is the same with Jesus. You must trust Him as you trust the parachute. We are not good and we cannot save ourselves with our own goodness. We must trust alone in Him to save us. In just a moment of time you can pass from death to life. Jesus said, "Verily, verily I say unto you, you must be born again." That is how we enter heaven. Through the blood and grace of Jesus Christ!!!!✝️If you ask someone how to enter Heaven, they will most likely say, "Be a good person." Well the Bible says that none is good, no not one. We like to compare ourselves to guys like Hitler and say, "Hey, I'm a pretty good guy compared to him." But when we compare ourselves to God's standard, we realize that the Bible speaks truth when it says that we all sinned and fallen short of the Glory of God!!! When we see this ( our sin in its TRUE light), we see how much trouble we are in and we say, "Well then there's nothing I can do. I'm going to hell for sure then." It's true that there is nothing that WE can do, but there is something that has already been done for you! God sent His One and Only Son to die on a cross as a sacrifice for our sins! So to recieve that eternal sweet sweet forgiveness, all we must do is repent of our sins (meaning to continually turn from them and confess them) and trust alone in Christ as you trust a parachute. If I was to push you out of an airplane, you'd want the parachute for sure! Don't try to flap your arms and save yourself, trust in the parachute! His finished work on the Cross IS ENOUGH!! He is the only way to Heaven, He said it Himself!! These other religions teach that we must he good and do good things and then maybe if we've been good enough, we will enter Heaven. But if that is true then we are all doomed to eternal hell because none of us are good. That's why this makes sense. Look at the Ten Commandments, they are written on your heart right now!! I promise that you have violated them. And you might still be doing that today. Therefore God is just to poor out His wrath on us because we deserve it!! But Christ died for us so that we can spend eternity in Heaven with Him! Turn to Him today, and He and only He will save your soul "Verily, verily I say unto you, you must be born again ( to go to Heaven)."✝️The true joy of Christ dwells in me!!! Does it in you? I know where I'm going when I die! Do you? I have an ETERNAL victory! Do you? I have more joy than ever because of what Christ has done. I have been down both roads. The road of the wicked and the road of Christ. Christ is way better and my cup runneth over with true joy and salvation. If you do not know the One true God and are not sure of your salvation, I promise He will never fail you. Turn to Him in repentance and faith. Repent means to confess and forsake your sins, never turning back to them. I tried changing on my own but I couldn't. It took the power of Christ on the inside of me to do it for me. He will give you a new and clean heart with new and clean desires and you shall be born again. A new creation in Christ Jesus! Hallelujah! Jesus said in order to enter the Kingdom of God, you must be born again! Thank you Lord Jesus!!✝️
"I'd rather say I failed, than I never tried" Inside, you're this beast. You know it, you just have to give it your best so it could give you its best. Don't Give up bro, find new ways to thrive in your life. A lot of bullshit can fuck you over at times but just know that those things are trying to bring you down simply because because you're above them. Keep pushing dawg, you'll get that W one day.
As someone who has been working on self improvement this year I’ve had many ups and downs and I’d be lying if I said that I’ve really given it my all this year but I understand that I can’t fix the past but only look forward to the future because that’s the best way to improve is to make mistakes and learn from them!!💯
Brooooo, this video is so relatable right now. This past months i also felt like a shadow of my former self. I am a long distance cyclist and cycled 400 kms in 19 hours in september. Needless to say i felt like i was at my peak but i allowed myself to be lazy and got softer month by month. At a certain point i started to feel weak and aimless, struggled to even wake up after full nights of sleep, just like you. I've been struggling with confidence and imposter syndrome, felt like my former self was superior to the present me. Thanks for this video, can't really express how this one helped me mentally. I hope you can deal with this too bro, i really do.
damn this is lowkey everyone right now and ur right the hardest part about this is starting it. respect tho for admitting to all this cuz i know most body builders wouldn't admit to being weak in any way shape or form.
This video resonates with me. I have a small family, but I am not the best at caring for them. I love them, I just suck at being the leader. I feel as though my purpose is lost for that reason. Thank you for being open in this way, Dylan
This is literally what I need and have been going through. Addictions to gaming and being lazy has kept me doing the things I have loved and leads me to get no sleep, have barely any friends or social interaction, be really skinny, unfit and just depressed. I really hope that soon I can have the strength to do what you have done so I can begin a more productive, happy and extroverted part of my life. Thanks.
You have the Strength right now champ dont throw IT later Do IT now you know just like me your gonna forget about IT! Not to Tell you what to Do but your way stronger than what you Tell yourself.
What helps me with my tre flips sometimes is hanging the toes of your back foot off a little more and keeping your toes facing straight. It feels a little awkward but it completes the rotation so much quicker allows for you to catch it higher instead of trying to land on the board right as the rotation ends.
This was actually a really well made video and i know the message isnt anything ground breaking i feel alot of ppl still need to hear it including me. Ty brotha
This is exactly how I feel now. Addicted to porn, waking up late mentally exhausted, no job rn, and going to the gym being the only productive thing in my day. I’m trying to get out of this cycle but it’s so hard. I’m glad you posted this video because it’s so relatable and inspiring
I'm in the exact same situation my brother. We'll get through it.
Hey I was there last year just getting a purpose or reason to get up made me more enthusiastic about life! I was the guy who hated jobs woke up late before and what not but whats got a long term reason why it fired me up and just having a few daily habits that where good that I could stick to like reading a 30 minutes a day and listening to something inspirational. So man I don't know what you want to achieve so not going to give you any crazy advice just might be a small thing you overlooking that could lead to your breakthrough.
I appreciate you both
I’m just now starting to exit this stage, and boy I hated it. The gym is important but you need to identify your desires and thoughts. What your body wants versus what you want for yourself. Generate ideas and get to work. No fear.
@@brianinstiinct brother your situation is litterally a mirror to mine. This journey is straight up hard man.
This is literally thr first time ever watching this young man. I'm 45 and have an 18 year old son that struggles with anxiety and depression. It's hard for young men to find direction in these modern times. And social media is a fuckn scourge.
Help your son find his true purpose, Help him focus on what he truly wants in life and Help him turn off Social Media. You'll see him come back to his true nature and you will see his anxiety and depression quickly fade away as long as he's going about the day with purpose
@@magma5267 People have to usually find purpose in themselves. No one can really make that happen except yourself. It's best to give the person space and let them go through the motions. I use to be like this too until early 20's but it's only when you start digging deep down yourself and truly understand what you want out of life. Sometimes going camping solo for a few weeks is enough to find your inner true self. Some people achieve it with a single night of eating shrooms since it opens their mind to different ways of thinking. Depends on who you are and what works for you
“Come to me, all who are weary and carry heavy burdens, and I will give you rest” - Jesus Christ
Find Jesus, he gives true life. God is all knowing, we aren’t. Follow him today while u still can u won’t regret it. John 10:10”The thief cometh not, but for to steal, and to kill, and to destroy: I am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly.”
@@gabrielgabriel5177 hey old guy, the best advice I can give you is try to talk to your own age group. Have you even tried? The reason you can’t start your life is cuz you still have the mentality of a 20 year old. But once you start acting 38, watch your life quickly catch up. 👍
Tbh this is one of the most relatable and real videos I’ve watched. I find myself struggling in the same way, every day.
So thank you for this, it shows that getting out of this is possible
Don't you find it crazy that every man that has ever lived on earth suffered in a part of his life? Like you can't find any man who has not failed and succumbed. But then you realise, its what we're actually created for. We as men have to face adversity no matter the timeline or the place. Its our destiny, and its also our fate to overcome it and use that adversity as a powerful source of development. Men improve the most when faced by adversity. Hope shines most when all around us is but darkness.
I'm like it too. I do some things that I need to do, but not enough to suceed. Too much time spent on pleasureable distractions is making me feel depressed and worthless. I figured out what I need to do some time before this video and I think, I'm slowly getting out of it, but this video is a real booster. Finding people strugling in the same way and trying to get out of it, is motivational. Be strong bro!
Same for me but I found a way out and I am on the right path. Wish you all the best guys, we will become the best and highest performing version of ourselves again.
Find Jesus, he gives true life. God is all knowing, we aren’t. Follow him today while u still can u won’t regret it. John 10:10”The thief cometh not, but for to steal, and to kill, and to destroy: I am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly.”
I’ve noticed in my 16 hears on this planet that social interaction is the most important thing to me at least. Whether it’s talking to my parents siblings, talking to friends, playing sports with someone, be close with someone, going on trips, its the person ur hanging out with that matters. They make you feel alive and you have someone that listens to u and u can provide the same. Its something i’ll try to never lose in my life
@BrandonDiCarlo sure living by yourself you should learn but i dont think its what he needs right now.
I think trying to meet new people and make new friends would help him a lot
Good for you young man. I'm 43 and go weeks sometimes without talking to anyone. It's no way to live..
yeah i am 16 too and i noticed this.. freinds are the most important thing in life. 100 times greater than money
@@ronmexico79 i suggest u to get out of this rut.. it only gets worse..day by day.. not talking to people and isolation has always been a downward spiral in any age of human existence. i suggest u to get out
@@ronmexico79 are you working on improving this situation?
This channel is always where I come for motivation. Not the motivation you get from after dark edits and similar shit, but the motivation you get from a friend. I love how open you always are about important shit that is otherwise not spoken about. Thank you, Dylan, for being a role model to all of us.
That instagram motivation video is fucking delusional and nothing but a waste of time, including dating online has wasted so much of my date I’m 28 now and want to go out and start approaching women
@@bekabeka71 im not sure what you’re talking about
@@liamkelly9684 did it not make sense what I said?
@@bekabeka71 not really, why are you on about Instagram and talking to women? It’s a video about mental health you plum.
@@bekabeka71 it does.
He just means you sound like a clown with your "approaching women" and "dating"
Is that all your life is about? Lust? Pleasure?
Come on brother...You know exactly why he said that.
Don't do that to yourself.
the amount of humility it takes to make a video like this is insane. one of the most relatable and real videos i have seen on youtube in a very long time. thank you so much for this.
You mean the amount of cringe attention seeking? Dude filmed himself fake crying and brushing his teeth while looking depressed lmfao are you people serious? Get a grip
I feel the same.
as the begining I thought I will said the he want to kill himself but fortunetly he chose the right way
The problem this guy has is not porn or phone, its too much free time...LOL.
Of course you are going to watch porn all the time, and spend 12h a day on your phone if you dont do anything productive, or dont have any hobbies.
I mean people with deep depression would never in a million years make this or even be ABLE to make this video. Im sure he really is going through a rough time, but he doesn't have a deep clinical depression. He leaves his house every single day AND is making videos for god sakes lol.. He flat out wouldn't be doing that if he was actually so depressed hes was about to kill himself.. I wouldn't call this clickbait, just exaggeration for content. Kinda fucked up.
@@Dr-dikhead couldn't agree more.
I respect you so highly for admitting your weaknesses and trying to improve on them.
Nah he's just fishing for more views / money
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@@yeahtbh.161 thats what i was thinking, bro turned the camera on made a bunch of shots of him just being sad..
@@airhead7141That’s him visually showing what he is saying. It’s a great way for people that take information in more visually than they do by listening.
In my opinion this was a great video to share his weaknesses and help others self evaluate and work on their own weaknesses.
are you all blind or what
The fact that you have the guts and strength to come out about how you feel is already enough to make you a role model, I highly respect you for this and hope you start to go in the right track soon
no
Yea, he shows his guts and strength in all the 282 gratuitous shirtless shots through this short video. He’s pretentious and than makes a mockery of people who are actually depressed.
I am on the edge
Dude I feel like so many guys are going through this right now. I've been feeling exactly the way you described it for past few months.
I’ve been feeling it too.. what’s happening??
Delete all social media (Snapchat, tik tok, twitter..etc) quit bad habits and most importantly find purpose.
@@ghostly8otzhd513 what purpose?
@@mariocosta1451 I don’t know man… Like it’s hard to explain, but it feels like Men’s mental health has been declining over the past few years. Something like this was probably a lot rarer 20 years ago, but today it feels like every 2nd or 3rd guy feels like this.
@@mariocosta1451 fr man, when its summer time i go to my granpdarents house in the country side and i play football go biking, boxing climbing trees and i use my phone less than 1hour a day and only to play music or check the time and it makes me feel so happy but then i go back to uni and i sit in a concrete box all day then go to uni and do homework and chores and then just fill the time by sitting on my phone and its so depressing... this video makes me feel good that theres people living the same life as me and realizing and becoming happier
Mans is a different breed. Most people just stay depressed. This dude noticed it and decided to fix it right there. Props to this man
Hey everyone!! I just wanted to share some good news with you all. Let's just put it this way, the Ten Commandments are called the Moral Law. Ask yourself this. How many lies have you told? Have you ever stolen anything? Have you ever used God's name in vein? Have you ever hated someone or ever looked with lust? This is for you to judge yourself, but chances are that you are a lying, thieving, blasphemous, fornicating, adulterer at heart and you HAVE to face God on judgement day. Now ask yourself this. If God judges you on judgement day by these Commandments, will you be innocent or guilty? Of course you'll be guilty because we've all done these things. The truth is that none of us are good people and we NESD God's grace to make it to heaven. We judt simply cannot do it on our own. These Commandments arecalled the Moral Law. You and I broke the law, Jesus payed the fine. So now what we must do to be saved is to repent of our sins and trust alone in Jesus Christ! To repent doesn't mean to just say I'm sorry, but to turn from our sins and let Him truly be our Lord continually. He said that many will say to Him, Lord, Lord I have done all of these things for you. And He will say I never knew you. Depart from Me, ye who work iniquity! And those will be cast into outer darkness and raging hellfire and loneliness for all of eternity!!! Because we broke His law, He is very, very just to send us to hell. If someone had murdered 4 people and said to the judge, I've done nice things too and have tried to treat people nice but it was just one time, the judge would then say, okay but you're going to jail. And the judge is very just to do that. One last thing, if you were 10,000 feet in the air and you had to jump, you wouldn't jump out and flap your arms and try to save yourself. That's ridiculous! You would put on the parachute. It is the same with Jesus. You must trust Him as you trust the parachute. We are not good and we cannot save ourselves with our own goodness. We must trust alone in Him to save us. In just a moment of time you can pass from death to life. Jesus said, "Verily, verily I say unto you, you must be born again." That is how we enter heaven. Through the blood and grace of Jesus Christ!!!!✝️If you ask someone how to enter Heaven, they will most likely say, "Be a good person." Well the Bible says that none is good, no not one. We like to compare ourselves to guys like Hitler and say, "Hey, I'm a pretty good guy compared to him." But when we compare ourselves to God's standard, we realize that the Bible speaks truth when it says that we all sinned and fallen short of the Glory of God!!! When we see this ( our sin in its TRUE light), we see how much trouble we are in and we say, "Well then there's nothing I can do. I'm going to hell for sure then." It's true that there is nothing that WE can do, but there is something that has already been done for you! God sent His One and Only Son to die on a cross as a sacrifice for our sins! So to recieve that eternal sweet sweet forgiveness, all we must do is repent of our sins (meaning to continually turn from them and confess them) and trust alone in Christ as you trust a parachute. If I was to push you out of an airplane, you'd want the parachute for sure! Don't try to flap your arms and save yourself, trust in the parachute! His finished work on the Cross IS ENOUGH!! He is the only way to Heaven, He said it Himself!! These other religions teach that we must he good and do good things and then maybe if we've been good enough, we will enter Heaven. But if that is true then we are all doomed to eternal hell because none of us are good. That's why this makes sense. Look at the Ten Commandments, they are written on your heart right now!! I promise that you have violated them. And you might still be doing that today. Therefore God is just to poor out His wrath on us because we deserve it!! But Christ died for us so that we can spend eternity in Heaven with Him! Turn to Him today, and He and only He will save your soul "Verily, verily I say unto you, you must be born again ( to go to Heaven)."✝️The true joy of Christ dwells in me!!! Does it in you? I know where I'm going when I die! Do you? I have an ETERNAL victory! Do you? I have more joy than ever because of what Christ has done. I have been down both roads. The road of the wicked and the road of Christ. Christ is way better and my cup runneth over with true joy and salvation. If you do not know the One true God and are not sure of your salvation, I promise He will never fail you. Turn to Him in repentance and faith. Repent means to confess and forsake your sins, never turning back to them. I tried changing on my own but I couldn't. It took the power of Christ on the inside of me to do it for me. He will give you a new and clean heart with new and clean desires and you shall be born again. A new creation in Christ Jesus! Hallelujah! Jesus said in order to enter the Kingdom of God, you must be born again! Thank you Lord Jesus!!✝️
dawg some people cant just say "nah, im not depressed"
Wish I was man enough to do it instead I wasted time trying to deal with it by myself
@@KevinsKontentKorner lmao thats why they are weak
@@levibird6935 smh. actually, ignorance is the only thing that's weak here. except your ignorance is strong strong strong my friend. stay ignorant
We all love you Dylan. Youll get back into it i promise you.
Yes, and remember that you are not alone in these trials. Believe to achieve ❤
Speak for yourself retard
Hey everyone!! I just wanted to share some good news with you all. Let's just put it this way, the Ten Commandments are called the Moral Law. Ask yourself this. How many lies have you told? Have you ever stolen anything? Have you ever used God's name in vein? Have you ever hated someone or ever looked with lust? This is for you to judge yourself, but chances are that you are a lying, thieving, blasphemous, fornicating, adulterer at heart and you HAVE to face God on judgement day. Now ask yourself this. If God judges you on judgement day by these Commandments, will you be innocent or guilty? Of course you'll be guilty because we've all done these things. The truth is that none of us are good people and we NESD God's grace to make it to heaven. We judt simply cannot do it on our own. These Commandments arecalled the Moral Law. You and I broke the law, Jesus payed the fine. So now what we must do to be saved is to repent of our sins and trust alone in Jesus Christ! To repent doesn't mean to just say I'm sorry, but to turn from our sins and let Him truly be our Lord continually. He said that many will say to Him, Lord, Lord I have done all of these things for you. And He will say I never knew you. Depart from Me, ye who work iniquity! And those will be cast into outer darkness and raging hellfire and loneliness for all of eternity!!! Because we broke His law, He is very, very just to send us to hell. If someone had murdered 4 people and said to the judge, I've done nice things too and have tried to treat people nice but it was just one time, the judge would then say, okay but you're going to jail. And the judge is very just to do that. One last thing, if you were 10,000 feet in the air and you had to jump, you wouldn't jump out and flap your arms and try to save yourself. That's ridiculous! You would put on the parachute. It is the same with Jesus. You must trust Him as you trust the parachute. We are not good and we cannot save ourselves with our own goodness. We must trust alone in Him to save us. In just a moment of time you can pass from death to life. Jesus said, "Verily, verily I say unto you, you must be born again." That is how we enter heaven. Through the blood and grace of Jesus Christ!!!!✝️If you ask someone how to enter Heaven, they will most likely say, "Be a good person." Well the Bible says that none is good, no not one. We like to compare ourselves to guys like Hitler and say, "Hey, I'm a pretty good guy compared to him." But when we compare ourselves to God's standard, we realize that the Bible speaks truth when it says that we all sinned and fallen short of the Glory of God!!! When we see this ( our sin in its TRUE light), we see how much trouble we are in and we say, "Well then there's nothing I can do. I'm going to hell for sure then." It's true that there is nothing that WE can do, but there is something that has already been done for you! God sent His One and Only Son to die on a cross as a sacrifice for our sins! So to recieve that eternal sweet sweet forgiveness, all we must do is repent of our sins (meaning to continually turn from them and confess them) and trust alone in Christ as you trust a parachute. If I was to push you out of an airplane, you'd want the parachute for sure! Don't try to flap your arms and save yourself, trust in the parachute! His finished work on the Cross IS ENOUGH!! He is the only way to Heaven, He said it Himself!! These other religions teach that we must he good and do good things and then maybe if we've been good enough, we will enter Heaven. But if that is true then we are all doomed to eternal hell because none of us are good. That's why this makes sense. Look at the Ten Commandments, they are written on your heart right now!! I promise that you have violated them. And you might still be doing that today. Therefore God is just to poor out His wrath on us because we deserve it!! But Christ died for us so that we can spend eternity in Heaven with Him! Turn to Him today, and He and only He will save your soul "Verily, verily I say unto you, you must be born again ( to go to Heaven)."✝️The true joy of Christ dwells in me!!! Does it in you? I know where I'm going when I die! Do you? I have an ETERNAL victory! Do you? I have more joy than ever because of what Christ has done. I have been down both roads. The road of the wicked and the road of Christ. Christ is way better and my cup runneth over with true joy and salvation. If you do not know the One true God and are not sure of your salvation, I promise He will never fail you. Turn to Him in repentance and faith. Repent means to confess and forsake your sins, never turning back to them. I tried changing on my own but I couldn't. It took the power of Christ on the inside of me to do it for me. He will give you a new and clean heart with new and clean desires and you shall be born again. A new creation in Christ Jesus! Hallelujah! Jesus said in order to enter the Kingdom of God, you must be born again! Thank you Lord Jesus!!✝️
Yeah, he’s like it’s going to take the word of a random Internet username
@@AnakinSkywalker_1858 bro its just supportive fans calm down 💀
You're not alone and you never will be I'm going through the same thing,there are a lot of people silently suffering there's a lot of us
silently lol
Dude I felt it when u said “depression comes from not doing the things we know we need to do to further the trajectory of our lives.” that’s inspirational to me honestly I’m 3 years out of high school at this point just working the same low paying job and have started to feel just as u described but thanks for making this I rly wanna start trying to cut out my habits that are holding me back and just start doing what I know I need to do!
yeah, same goes for me
This is crazy cause we’re watching a man with 400k subscribers who’s doing things many wish they could be doing, making money people wish they were making.
He says not to look up to him. Yet someone that can take these feelings and immediately want to make changes for the better is an extremely admirable character. Most of us including myself immediately retreat to nothing
Bro hes a kid wih a goofy haircut stfu
You can do it, whatever it takes. We'll always be here mate
Just remember that you have no real idea what life is going to be like. I remember feeling this way countless times in my life, starting when I was a teenager. I'm turning 40 in 2 weeks. I don't have great advice on how to deal with depression. I'm still figuring it out and probably always will be, which is part of the lesson I have to share as well: you will never stop growing and learning, improving. Your perspective of yourself, your relationships, the things you value the most, will all change and they will change constantly for the rest of your life. What's important to you today won't matter in 10 years. You'll have to stick around for another 10 years to find out - believe me, you'll laugh about the things you thought were important. For any young person who needs to hear it: If you purposefully take care of your physical health, work hard in your professional life, nurture your personal relationships with positivity, and keep yourself out of trouble, you will have a good enough life. If you give up on yourself, the world will eat you alive. Be good, be truthful, be just, be bold, be strong, be the boss. You are in charge.
Nah I did all that and got an illness.
Life will always find a way to fuck you no matter how much you take care of yourself or try to be positive.
Listen man, We've all probably been in that state, Stuck on your phone/in bed/on your pc, failing to achieve your true potential. For what you are doing, Everyone is proud. You are doing what more than 90% of people are too lazy to begin. I Hope you will get better soon, Stay Strong King!
I saw the title of this video and immediately clicked on it simply because I’m going through the exact same thing right now. I’m approaching my mid-20’s and still have no direction. I honestly don’t know what the f**k I’m doing with my life. I saved up a bunch of money at a job I absolutely hated for two years and a few weeks ago had a mental breakdown at work and quit. I’ve been trying to get into better physical shape which is working but I’m still unhappy. Most of my friends are gone, I’ve been struggling to find a good relationship with a woman, I visit my family sometimes, but I still feel so damn alone. I hate it. I wake up every day now with no drive, no direction, no plans, nobody checks on me or calls me or asks to hang out or anything. I just feel like a man is nothing if he doesn’t even know his goals in life and has no purpose, and that’s where I am at the moment. I’m addicted to porn, sometimes I watch it just to distract myself and to feel at least something. I’m not even going to lie, I’ve had thoughts of just putting an end to my life lately because I feel like I’m drowning. I refuse to be open about it with friends or family because honestly I don’t want them to intervene if I feel like it’s my time to go. I used to be in a really bad state of depression a few years ago and I fought so hard to get out of it, and now I’m sinking right back down into it. I’m just so tired and unhappy, probably more than ever.
hey bro I know exactly how you feel, instead of pushing the idea that you're a victim to these circumstances instead take responsibility for these situations instead. I'm not saying blame yourself but instead have the mindset that it's up to you to fix these problems. Don't act like it's on others to check in with you, instead you check in with them. How many people do you actually check in on yourself? Reality is is that most of the things you said can be fixed purely by the effort you put into them. Obviously it isn't all that easy but what in life ever is? "No happiness without suffering" is a pretty bang-on quote, another I'd like to add is "you can suffer the pain of discipline or the pain of regret." Which one is truly more difficult to endure? Short term pain, long term gain my friend. Use the money you have saved to book a solo travelling experience for a week to any other country/state/city and treat it like a challenge. Just break the cycle. It can be helpful to talk to a therapist too but you have to be the one to start the journey. Good like brother. It gets better
I have clear direction
But need. Real people to go with it thats my challenge
Man hang on, I promise you when you get through this, you wil look back at se that you have grown as a Human being. Life is hard at some point in your life, been there.. But hang on, you are not alone! Take a walk every day, and start doing burpees at home, Max 20 mins. Follow the Busy Dad Training program, he does if for Max 20 mins per session. This will get your body going, and give you something very positive energi! It has done a lot for me, that is why i write this to you! Trust me it can do so for you my friend! I wish you the best! 🙏🏻💪🏻
Hang on man you will make it. What I found was my key to happiness was figuring out what I like to do naturally and just pursuing that for my career.
I felt like that once, you might need a time to think, or relax for a week or two. Try to find something you're good at that can get you money or ask for help
"Without suffering, there can be no happiness." wow. This is one of the most raw and impactful videos I've ever seen. It's not that you want to die, you just didn't want to live how you were, and you changed that. Thankyou.
You might be depressed, you might be going through a rough patch. You might feel low right now. But atleast you are walking through hell with the chizzled body of a Norse god. You’ve helped so many people. You’ll get through this just like you helped them get through it
Alot of us guys need this content man. It's real and raw. Respect bro
brother don't take tension and don't feel like you are alone, we are with you man.
Same, brother. Diagnosed with ADHD at 44, depressed , drinking problem, broke and on top of that , my wife for 22 years kicked me out of the house last Sunday ( mother's day). Had no where to go. Staying with family for now. Can't do anything but stay in bed , numb my self with wine and watch youtube and porn all day. We're going to get out of this . Just keep your chin up and keep trying. Let's face the demons and move on.
Wow dude I’m 22 my dad went through the same exact thing. Got diagnosed with ADHD around the same age. Caused major problems with my mom they were separated for most of my childhood 12 to 19 and were getting divorced but a miracle happened and I mean literally it was God. My parents spent a weekend together out of the blue and my dad apologized for everything and my mom apologized and they made compromises for each other moving forward. My dad takes ADHD supplements (NOT medication) now on a regular schedule. And my mom holds up her end of the compromises. Their relationship is better then it was before but it all started with Jesus! Surrender to him, he can break that addiction, oppression, depression and heart ache whether it’s with your wife or without. Take that step and call out to him. Ask him to show you who he really is. I see your comment and I’m praying for you. Things will get better.
You must act don't let your life spiral out of control like that it's time to take control things are obviously gotten like that over time.pray to the lord and put in the work everyday .
You already know what you need to do. None of us need to tell you. Can you blame your wife for kicking you out? No one wants to live like that. Good news is that there is plenty of time to turn it all around and get your life back on track. For sure you can do this.
Me to bro, I’m found a way out and this might sound cringy to some people but believe it or not Jesus is helping me tremendously. He’s completely changing my life everyday. He Loves us all. If any doesn’t believe in him just say this out loud ,” if you’re real show me? “ Doesn’t hurt . Anyways all Love Godbless 🤙🏽
Hey just checking you up. This is your sign to get your shit together you have been waiting for. Do something! Reclaim control
I struggled with depression most of my life, I totally feel you and understand how you feel it’s hard and difficult and people wouldn’t understand what you’re going through unless they experience it, but like I thought being a guy that strong fit with huge muscles would make you somehow happy at least which surprises me a bit, I wish I looked like you, you have so much to be grateful for! sending much love i hope you’re able to figure it out
Dylan I’m a 15 year old and started going to the gym and you inspire me so much your one of my favourite creators because your so real you talk about things everyone struggles with but are to scared or ashamed to admit and which is why I look up to you your so brave and strong for all this love u man
Dylan, we love you. You’re an amazing influencer and have truly helped me so much. What you speak about addiction is true. We do try to fill the void with something else. We just need to fill it with something healthy. Whenever you seem down, just remember you HAVE the strength to get better. There will be days where you feel like shit. Days where you might relapse. It’s important to keep moving forward and remember that you have a huge fan base that loves you very much. Please keep making content like this. I truly think talking about it will help you and others with their journey. We are here for you Dylan ❤
Could not have said it better. I echo this 10x.
I almost started crying when you said "I'd rather say I failed than never tried". As someone who has avoided so many things in his life, this hit me hard as fuck; and I know the feeling when you finally push past feeling like a loser and TRY. Appreciate the hell out of your authenticity, as cliche as it is, it's not about falling down, or how long you stayed down, but did you get back up.
Nothing matters but Jesus Christ and what he did on the tree.
Matthew 16:25-26
25 For whosoever will save his life shall lose it: and whosoever will lose his life for my sake shall find it.
26 For what is a man profited, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul? or what shall a man give in exchange for his soul?
dead ass got the same feeling man
Ah...this hits home
no
I’m 41 about to be homeless, no friends or family for support and am recovering from porn addiction. I can relate to most of what has been said. I do not feel like continuing my life as it currently is hit hard and is exactly how I feel
Damn bro at least your stopping the porn addiction that's a step in the right direction. And you will make friends if you put yourself out there honestly wish you all the best man
You’re not a loser mate. To endure what you’re going through while choosing to stick around takes incredible strength. I think right now is actually when you’re most inspiring. Be gentle with yourself friend.
As unfortunate as it is, I’m glad I’m not the only one who feels all of this. Sucks saying that because no one deserves feeling that way but it gives me a sort of consolation when most of the time I feel so alone and traveling no where with what I really want in life. Especially coming from someone have sought motivation from for years. I value your honesty Dylan.
I'm currently going through the same process. It feels good to know I'm not alone. Thank you for speaking out for the non spoken. 💪🏽
Shut tfk up bro we are MEN, we have shit to do nobody cares about any one's depression, are parents suffered to keep us alive and your dumb @ss is talking about depression
Bro breaks my heart to read this and praying for you, when i used to feel empty and purposeless, Jesus is the one who showed me that my purpose is in Him, it's all about God! God is real and Jesus died for you so that if you trust in Him and choose to follow Him, He will forgive you fully, give you life and you will live the purpose you were created for! Much love bro! Peace
@@jesdena8257 amen.
There is no hope in this world that’s passing away. Seek God through Jesus Christ.
2 Corinthians 4:18
18 While we look not at the things which are seen, but at the things which are not seen: for the things which are seen are temporal; but the things which are not seen are eternal.
Philippians 3:8
8 Yea doubtless, and I count all things but loss for the excellency of the knowledge of Christ Jesus my Lord: for whom I have suffered the loss of all things, and do count them but dung, that I may win Christ,
no
I feel life isn't worth living anymore.
I am 41, and this would is not the world I want to see or be part of.
I want to tell you something and i want you to live by this. We are all important because our lives affect everything we surround ourselves with. If you ever stopped existing allot changes, everything you could’ve been disappears. all of your potential is never reached, you are capable of huge things if you simply tap into yourself. it’s understandable to hate this world and the horrible people that exist, but that’s even more reason for you to make change. believe in yourself for once and do everything to overcome your suffering
I've never felt right since ever, always hated my life, always felt miserable, i am now 35 and i'm scared I will always feel this way till the day I die
I never knew you advocated for self improvement, you've earned yourself a new subscriber Dylan 💯
One of the most depressing things about being a bodybuilder/lifter is that feeling You get when You get to what You think is the ultimate goal and then nothing changes. It’s a sinking feeling to realize it’s all about the anticipation and not about the moment..and so how’s Life. Let me assure you of something. I’m in my mid 40s now so I can say this. I’ve been there with you and I’m not talking a long time ago. I’m talking only a couple of years ago. My ex left me and was with somebody else and it absolutely fucking crushed me. I could think of nothing else. Multiple therapists, a psychiatrist put me on some dumb medication, and all I did was lose a lot of weight from anxiety, gain a ton of weight from depression, got demoted at work, because I couldn’t focus or pay attention, or even show up on time, the simplest tasks, like paying bills to regular hygiene, habits seemed like overwhelming tasks, etc. etc. etc. I thought the only thing that would ever make me feel better was to be with her again and the reality that it wasn’t going to happen ate me alive. I probably will go to the rest of my life without a single day going by that I don’t think about her and that’s terrible, but if I’ve learned nothing else, I’ve learned one thing. The older you get the less it’s about all the fluff.. when I was young, it was about benching 405 pounds and it was about throwing 90 mph and it was about getting this girl in that girl and this girl in that girl and then when I got a little bit older it was some of the same things except it was softball instead of baseball etc. but the older I get the more I realize it’s really just about life man. Surviving. Living and breathing fresh air. Life itself is fucking awesome. Some people don’t have the opportunity to stick around too long. Some people obviously are not here anymore with us. I’m telling you one day this will resonate with you. Just being alive in and of itself is the best. Be well, brother. Of course if you feel like you shouldn’t be here or if they thought even crosses your mind, you definitely need to be speaking with somebody on a professional level, but from one man to another, that’s my two cents.
You are a wise man. You have found your way now. You will not get lost again. If you do you will find yourself easily.
Jesus Christ is the purpose of life, to know him. Seek God through Jesus Christ. Romans 6:23 23 For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.
First video I watched and something you said struck me so hard.
“But when today is all said and done and I’m laying in my cozy bed, I rather say I failed than I never tried”
I’m living by this from now on 💯
Glad your on a better mental path!
dawg, u inspire a shit ton of people. thats a pretty good reason to keep living
With Dylans increasingly honest videos, he's freeing himself in more ways than we can imagine. I wish nothing but the best for this man and I hope one day I can conquer my flaws just like Dylan did today.
We live in a society where the people that are supposed to support inspiring men and men with potential have abandoned us. We all have to stick together when feeling this way. Stay strong big bro.
Hey everyone!! I just wanted to share some good news with you all. Let's just put it this way, the Ten Commandments are called the Moral Law. Ask yourself this. How many lies have you told? Have you ever stolen anything? Have you ever used God's name in vein? Have you ever hated someone or ever looked with lust? This is for you to judge yourself, but chances are that you are a lying, thieving, blasphemous, fornicating, adulterer at heart and you HAVE to face God on judgement day. Now ask yourself this. If God judges you on judgement day by these Commandments, will you be innocent or guilty? Of course you'll be guilty because we've all done these things. The truth is that none of us are good people and we NESD God's grace to make it to heaven. We judt simply cannot do it on our own. These Commandments arecalled the Moral Law. You and I broke the law, Jesus payed the fine. So now what we must do to be saved is to repent of our sins and trust alone in Jesus Christ! To repent doesn't mean to just say I'm sorry, but to turn from our sins and let Him truly be our Lord continually. He said that many will say to Him, Lord, Lord I have done all of these things for you. And He will say I never knew you. Depart from Me, ye who work iniquity! And those will be cast into outer darkness and raging hellfire and loneliness for all of eternity!!! Because we broke His law, He is very, very just to send us to hell. If someone had murdered 4 people and said to the judge, I've done nice things too and have tried to treat people nice but it was just one time, the judge would then say, okay but you're going to jail. And the judge is very just to do that. One last thing, if you were 10,000 feet in the air and you had to jump, you wouldn't jump out and flap your arms and try to save yourself. That's ridiculous! You would put on the parachute. It is the same with Jesus. You must trust Him as you trust the parachute. We are not good and we cannot save ourselves with our own goodness. We must trust alone in Him to save us. In just a moment of time you can pass from death to life. Jesus said, "Verily, verily I say unto you, you must be born again." That is how we enter heaven. Through the blood and grace of Jesus Christ!!!!✝️If you ask someone how to enter Heaven, they will most likely say, "Be a good person." Well the Bible says that none is good, no not one. We like to compare ourselves to guys like Hitler and say, "Hey, I'm a pretty good guy compared to him." But when we compare ourselves to God's standard, we realize that the Bible speaks truth when it says that we all sinned and fallen short of the Glory of God!!! When we see this ( our sin in its TRUE light), we see how much trouble we are in and we say, "Well then there's nothing I can do. I'm going to hell for sure then." It's true that there is nothing that WE can do, but there is something that has already been done for you! God sent His One and Only Son to die on a cross as a sacrifice for our sins! So to recieve that eternal sweet sweet forgiveness, all we must do is repent of our sins (meaning to continually turn from them and confess them) and trust alone in Christ as you trust a parachute. If I was to push you out of an airplane, you'd want the parachute for sure! Don't try to flap your arms and save yourself, trust in the parachute! His finished work on the Cross IS ENOUGH!! He is the only way to Heaven, He said it Himself!! These other religions teach that we must he good and do good things and then maybe if we've been good enough, we will enter Heaven. But if that is true then we are all doomed to eternal hell because none of us are good. That's why this makes sense. Look at the Ten Commandments, they are written on your heart right now!! I promise that you have violated them. And you might still be doing that today. Therefore God is just to poor out His wrath on us because we deserve it!! But Christ died for us so that we can spend eternity in Heaven with Him! Turn to Him today, and He and only He will save your soul "Verily, verily I say unto you, you must be born again ( to go to Heaven)."✝️The true joy of Christ dwells in me!!! Does it in you? I know where I'm going when I die! Do you? I have an ETERNAL victory! Do you? I have more joy than ever because of what Christ has done. I have been down both roads. The road of the wicked and the road of Christ. Christ is way better and my cup runneth over with true joy and salvation. If you do not know the One true God and are not sure of your salvation, I promise He will never fail you. Turn to Him in repentance and faith. Repent means to confess and forsake your sins, never turning back to them. I tried changing on my own but I couldn't. It took the power of Christ on the inside of me to do it for me. He will give you a new and clean heart with new and clean desires and you shall be born again. A new creation in Christ Jesus! Hallelujah! Jesus said in order to enter the Kingdom of God, you must be born again! Thank you Lord Jesus!!✝️
This video truly helped me. For weeks I have been at my lowest. It started when I got my new phone, it was all I did. It was basically my life and It took over everything. I wouldn't want to go to the gym. I wouldn't want to go see my friends. I was depressed. I was just a spiritless lump in my room watching my phone. But after seeing this video, it motivated me. More than ever before. I started making lists of things that I need to accomplish, and I've accomplished most everything that I put on the list. I don't use my phone hardly as much as I used to. I get all my workouts done every day and this is all because of this one video. It helped me so much, and I just want to thank you Dylan. You truly saved my life. Much love❤❤
Brothers, social media is destroying our society and the next generations. I'm in the exact same spot as Dylan. I went from a jacked up, strong, confident and disciplined young men, to an essentially old men, waiting to die. We need to break free and do it in a way that we can keep this addiction out of our lives forever. These are the best years of our lives spent and wasted looking at a rectangle like mindless NPC's....the world is full of wonders and opportunities, just imagine all that we missed already and all that we could still have. We need to be stronger and take radical actions to assure this won't be our future. Good luck friends, hope to see you all on the other side of this hell.
Blame it on the Government 👍It’s very important people place the blame in the right spot.It’s not the rectangle in your hand
"The workd is full of wonders"
Sory but no.. life isn't a fairy tale. Life is a mean and nasty place with the occasional good thing.
we need more honest youtubers like you. awesome video as always.
The way you are true to yourself and is willing to sharing your vulnerabilities shows that you absolutely are a man to look up to even though you feel the opposite. I find it extremely brave that you are willing to go public about this sort of stuff and i hope that you know that life is worth living
You are not alone, brother. Many of us have the same story, struggles, and thoughts. Remember that. stay strong, talk to your brothers.
Beautiful video. While I am still pretty optimistic about things, I can’t lie I’m in a very similar spot right now. Every day I’m always thinking about things I want to try but I never do it. Instead I just sit inside learning everything about it on RUclips or other social media but never actually doing it. It’s always nice to know there are other people who feel the exact same, and have found ways to get out of it and grow.
Not gonna lie. I had mixed thoughts going into the start of this video. But honestly it’s now one of the best videos I’ve ever watched on RUclips. You’ve done a lot for the boys man. Really appreciate your content. You’ve got in on lock 💪🏾
Hey Dylan, it’s been a while since I’ve checked in on your channel. Was a frequent visitor pre covid (basically another world). When I watched your channel I made immense progress as a skinny dude following the dirty bulk. Hit a very comfortable weight, covid came. Tyrannical Canada came. And I lost it all. Went right back to where I was and still currently am now 3 1/2 years later. While other aspects in life took off my personal health decreased. I have now finally found the courage.. and well. Here I am…back at ground zero. I want to thank you for being such a huge inspiration to me. Life gets hard and everyone has stuff they are dealing with. One thing that came to me over covid was finally getting right with Jesus, or at least trying my best everyday. One things for certain is spend that hour with him as much as possible. Because without him we are lost. Much love brother I wish I could say more and even hangout with ya. We are in some weird times but it sounds like you are aware of that.
You are definitely deserving of your career. Your making deep and meaningful content that us men can relate to. You’re physique and determination to self improvement is impressive. Keep at it. We all gonna make it brodie 🤙🏼
“When going through hell, keep going” just came across your material on tik tok and it’s great. Chin up brother keep chipping away
Very inspirational, the fact that you have the humility to show your weaknesses is super inspiring, so i wanna thank you for keeping it real for us. Ive been struggling with some similar issues and its very helpful to see the systematic approach you take to dealing with them. We appreciate you bro
Dylan you're honestly doing God's work here. I'm so tired of everyone posting their fake realities on social media. Thank you for using your platform to help relate to people.
The man stages a camera to brush his teeth and shop... What's not fake about that?
@@CleverGirlAAH You cannot be serious lmao. He's a content creator, so he still has to make his videos somewhat entertaining for his audience to watch. He could have got a lot more views creating a video with a girl in a bikini shaking her ass but he decided NOT to. Because for Dylan, it's not all about the money. It's about creating content that will help others. It's selfless.
Speaking of Gods work, i think God might be just what Dylan needs
@@KomotsukiDZoro No. No, he does not have to make videos. You've correctly pinpointed the hypocrisy, yet you will make an excuse for it. His realities are fake too as long as he makes videos. That's the paradox of all social media.
@@CleverGirlAAH npc not able to even see the literal depression and lack of will to live when he said he wanted to kill himself
I don't know if you'll ever see this, but I want you to know that you are a huge inspiration. I haven't seen anyone before feeling almost the same if not the same way as I've been feeling for the past 1-2 years. It's been bad because I've been addicted to watching RUclips and losing sleep over it for 3ish years now. I've felt terrible, lost, depressed, and hopeless for a while, and have felt like giving up. I truly found the gym about 2 months ago (I've been in the gym for a year now, but wasn't really doing proper training, so it doesn't exactly count), and that's already helped me a little bit. But I still have a lot of work to do, and I still feel empty inside. Seeing someone else go through very similar struggles not only helps me to feel inspiration to make living worth it, but it also reminds me that we are all human, all going through the same/similar struggles, and that someone will always be there to lift you up. I appreciate you for going through all that you've gone through, man. I'm fucking proud of you. Let's continue to improve our lives from here on out. Love you for being real with us, takes a lot of courage.
Hey everyone!! I just wanted to share some good news with you all. Let's just put it this way, the Ten Commandments are called the Moral Law. Ask yourself this. How many lies have you told? Have you ever stolen anything? Have you ever used God's name in vein? Have you ever hated someone or ever looked with lust? This is for you to judge yourself, but chances are that you are a lying, thieving, blasphemous, fornicating, adulterer at heart and you HAVE to face God on judgement day. Now ask yourself this. If God judges you on judgement day by these Commandments, will you be innocent or guilty? Of course you'll be guilty because we've all done these things. The truth is that none of us are good people and we NESD God's grace to make it to heaven. We judt simply cannot do it on our own. These Commandments arecalled the Moral Law. You and I broke the law, Jesus payed the fine. So now what we must do to be saved is to repent of our sins and trust alone in Jesus Christ! To repent doesn't mean to just say I'm sorry, but to turn from our sins and let Him truly be our Lord continually. He said that many will say to Him, Lord, Lord I have done all of these things for you. And He will say I never knew you. Depart from Me, ye who work iniquity! And those will be cast into outer darkness and raging hellfire and loneliness for all of eternity!!! Because we broke His law, He is very, very just to send us to hell. If someone had murdered 4 people and said to the judge, I've done nice things too and have tried to treat people nice but it was just one time, the judge would then say, okay but you're going to jail. And the judge is very just to do that. One last thing, if you were 10,000 feet in the air and you had to jump, you wouldn't jump out and flap your arms and try to save yourself. That's ridiculous! You would put on the parachute. It is the same with Jesus. You must trust Him as you trust the parachute. We are not good and we cannot save ourselves with our own goodness. We must trust alone in Him to save us. In just a moment of time you can pass from death to life. Jesus said, "Verily, verily I say unto you, you must be born again." That is how we enter heaven. Through the blood and grace of Jesus Christ!!!!✝️If you ask someone how to enter Heaven, they will most likely say, "Be a good person." Well the Bible says that none is good, no not one. We like to compare ourselves to guys like Hitler and say, "Hey, I'm a pretty good guy compared to him." But when we compare ourselves to God's standard, we realize that the Bible speaks truth when it says that we all sinned and fallen short of the Glory of God!!! When we see this ( our sin in its TRUE light), we see how much trouble we are in and we say, "Well then there's nothing I can do. I'm going to hell for sure then." It's true that there is nothing that WE can do, but there is something that has already been done for you! God sent His One and Only Son to die on a cross as a sacrifice for our sins! So to recieve that eternal sweet sweet forgiveness, all we must do is repent of our sins (meaning to continually turn from them and confess them) and trust alone in Christ as you trust a parachute. If I was to push you out of an airplane, you'd want the parachute for sure! Don't try to flap your arms and save yourself, trust in the parachute! His finished work on the Cross IS ENOUGH!! He is the only way to Heaven, He said it Himself!! These other religions teach that we must he good and do good things and then maybe if we've been good enough, we will enter Heaven. But if that is true then we are all doomed to eternal hell because none of us are good. That's why this makes sense. Look at the Ten Commandments, they are written on your heart right now!! I promise that you have violated them. And you might still be doing that today. Therefore God is just to poor out His wrath on us because we deserve it!! But Christ died for us so that we can spend eternity in Heaven with Him! Turn to Him today, and He and only He will save your soul "Verily, verily I say unto you, you must be born again ( to go to Heaven)."✝️The true joy of Christ dwells in me!!! Does it in you? I know where I'm going when I die! Do you? I have an ETERNAL victory! Do you? I have more joy than ever because of what Christ has done. I have been down both roads. The road of the wicked and the road of Christ. Christ is way better and my cup runneth over with true joy and salvation. If you do not know the One true God and are not sure of your salvation, I promise He will never fail you. Turn to Him in repentance and faith. Repent means to confess and forsake your sins, never turning back to them. I tried changing on my own but I couldn't. It took the power of Christ on the inside of me to do it for me. He will give you a new and clean heart with new and clean desires and you shall be born again. A new creation in Christ Jesus! Hallelujah! Jesus said in order to enter the Kingdom of God, you must be born again! Thank you Lord Jesus!!✝️
You got a new subscriber today, I think I haven't met someone in youtube that I can relate as someone as you, not cause of your phisique, shit you're jacked up as hell, but because of your way of thinking and living life
The brutal honesty in this video is very respectable. Most content on the internet only shows the best part/versions of everyones life. But this kind of video is something that can actually help
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You are a legend, man. A huge inspiration to all of us. Never doubt it.
Bro I feel this. Sucks man. Go through it not around it. Know resources are there for a reason. Talking to others, support systems and fellowship is what helped me through depression and rock bottom. You are not alone. Prayers my brother. You are a son of God. We are here for a purpose. You inspire my son to be better, so know you do make a difference
Pro tip: avoid short form content on tiktok, youtube shorts etc. they destroy your mental health.
In watching this video, I learned a lot about motivation from you. You truly inspired me man and I hope you make the best of yourself. You’ll get back into your routine we believe in you!
You're not the only one mate.
I have this problem, and I'm trying to get out of this addiction and work on self improvement. Stay strong mentally and physically ❤
No matter what you tell yourself, you ARE an inspiring young man.
Dude, you are jacked and you're a fucking good looking guy. Stop heaping shit on yourself. You seem intelligent and self -aware. You have so much going for you!
I’ve only ever casually watched your channel, but i have to say that along with myself struggling with depression on and off since i can remember it’s never worth it to give up on life. You clearly have plenty of potential, surround yourself with new things to excite you. You got this, king. 🙏
I really needed this video, thank you for being here for us.
I feel you
Man this IS EXACTLY HOW I AM! Man wtf I feel the same and I really appreciate you putting this up because I’ve felt the same for a fair few years and this year and last had made me feel the worst I love you bro
Have you gotten out of it? Or atleast made some changes?
I'm trying to change everyday but I keep getting stuck on the phone for hours a day even when my exams are literally happening right now. I'm at a point where my eye floaters are getting worse because of the phone usage.
You got any advice? It seems that everything I do fails
Hey man, look im in the same boat, what helped me was setting time to be by myself off my phone like lock it away and get back to nature go for a walk or run get your body moving in some way, even go for a hike, to the beach watch a sunset anywhere really without your phone and try and relax, and gather your mind on what is stopping you and your short falls so you can fix them, it’s not a fail if you grow from it it’s a win,
Also just idk man my state is my self being stuck in this state, im trying most things to change, I’m used to comfortably over uncomfortably and it’s been the things that fucked me, being in a comfort zone and not pushing myself really fucked everything so my advise get out change the physical and the mental will follow, get out of your head and in the real world go love do something get ya mind off things and try and do a hobby
I’m 31 years old, after watching this you got me watching to get back into fighting. You made me feel like it’s never too late to get back going, like idk what’s going on in either of our lives but man to man you made me want to try again
You are one of the people who CAN live. So many could and were never born or had to leave too soon. Just this thought of being in this world and having a FREE will to do ANYTHING you want is reason enough. Stay strong champ!!
Dylan your an inspiration for us all bro 💙
I love you dylan. You inspire me. I watch you when I am sad and depressed. I am fighting my way through a hard breakup. You are a true inspiration.
'For I know the plans I have for you,' declares the Lord, 'plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you a hope and a future. ' - Jeremiah 29:11
I hear you man, I am in that dark place right now too. Main thing is we keep moving forward. We need more people as brave you. Mental health is declining worldwide and we have to be supportive. It’s hard to show your vulnerability, especially as a male. We get labeled so fast. We need to stick together. I wish you the best l and send you good vibes my bruddah! We fall, but always rise.
All I can say Dylan is at least you are aware of the patterns in your behavior, and thinking that you would like to change now at a young age and you’re willing to do the work that is necessary to make the changes that need to be made so that you can be the person you know you deserve to be I support you brother and I hope that along your journey, you fully realize how amazing you are and the potential you possess
dude its ok to feel down and crap but youve got this man, we are all here to support you even if we cant in person. dont give up man
Thank you for this Brother, I too have been feeling like this lately and I will use this video as inspiration to find my why. We are going to get through this, Much love ❤️
I’ve experienced that same emptiness and understood exactly what you are going through. Just like eating a meal it’s one bite at a time. You have the power to decide how your life goes. I too enjoyed mowing the lawn when I was growing up in Ohio. I really loved it and always look back at it with fond memories. Thanks for the reminder about these phones.
Getting into nature and keeping up the gym are two hugely positive things to keep you going. You'll get through it.
Turn to Jesus Christ.
Matthew 11:28-30
28 Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.
29 Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls.
30 For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.
@@WretchedRedeemedSinner not really for me, thanks. Not big into organized religion...
@@warlockofwordschannel7901 it’s not about organized religion get alone in your room, get on your knees, and ask God to reveal himself to you. Religion didn’t change my life, Jesus Christ changed my life. He Set me free from pornography and many other addictions.
These are all CBT/DBT skills that you've used here. Overall you've committed to a life worth living when life didn't seem worth living at all, and leading by example is a wonderful use of your RUclips channel. To you Dylan, and to anyone reading this: I know I'm nothing but a stranger to you but I'm incredibly proud of you, even when you're in a state of depression, and I love you even if no one else will. You are valuable just because you exist; you don't have to do or be anything special to be loved. Please promise me, and the rest of us, that no matter how hard it might be to stay alive, you won't hurt yourself or take your own life.
Damn, if Chad feels this way, its truly over for most of us. Wow
I’m watching you be real! The genuine emotion here is going to help so many! You are definitely bringing a unique value! I appreciate you so much and your honest-raw content! We don’t need another influencer with sunshine and warm vacation backgrounds. We need content to grow us and make us inwardly powerful! Thank you for making this possible! I can help you if you need to chat. Don’t you give up-keep growing and reaching new audiences! Much love ❤️
Dylan you are not a loser. You might think that this version of you is not 'worth following' but people don't just follow you for your self improvement content. They follow you because they like YOU and who you are as a person. This video took a lot of honesty and vulnerability, that is something most people can't do. You have made a lot of people feel so much better and less alone, just by being open and honest about your struggles. Props to you. You will make it through this.
He's relatable
He is honest ,vulnerable and wants to help people very good traits which many people don't have props to him. He is an inspiration to others he is not a loser.
I can definitely relate, I lost all of my friends, I was humiliated in front of my entire school, pretty much your average quiet kid backstory. Looking back on the times where I was popular and I knew my friend group cared about me and loved me is easily the most painful things I've ever done. But it's not over, I am filled with potential and so are you, it's never over. I like to imagine a devil watching me, every night when I go to sleep he's in the corner with glowing red eyes waiting for me to break, waiting for me to give into evil and hurt myself or others, and every night I think, "fuck you, you bastard, you can't take this from me, I won't let you have it, I refuse to break."
You can do anything you want if you have the drive and determination.
As a 30 year old guy who is really lost in life and currently struggling with depression this video actually motivated me a lot. Thanks a lot Dylan as this was truly a really damn inspiring video and I really hope to god that you are doing better these days.
run to Christ hes been waiting much love
Bro... You are absolutely deserving of everything you have. You are struggling right now but there's always light at the end of the tunnel. Don't give up. Don't give up you know this. The fact that you were once a skinny kid and now you are absolutely jacked is because you did not give up. So even though you are currently struggling don't let go and don't give up. You'll make it ❤
The fact I relate to this video so much rn says alot, thank you for this video man and know you aren’t alone there are many of us out here struggling the same way you are.
hey Dylan I just came across this video randomly and now you have a new sub. listen to me brother things will get better, keep pushing yourself and don't accept failure. I'm 38 yrs. old, I've been done 3 combat tours combined between Iraq and Afghanistan, I suffer from ptsd/TBI. I've been married 4 times and still single to this day. I think about ending it daily but here I am I refuse to quit. when shit gets hard you get focused. hang in there brother.
The first half of the video bro I really can feel you😢
A man's legacy is to dominate. To conquer. To discover. Your work here is not finished mate, not even close. Your legacy is just beginning. In the relatively short time that you've been on RUclips you have single-handedly inspired a generation of youth to improve their mental stability and physique. I look forward to seeing how your legacy continues.
Ooook chill out! This ain’t it
How much money can i bet that youre a couch potato that believes in his head hes a god of domination but in reality youre a pasty chubby white dude
I totally get you on the phone addiction man. It’s a daily battle. Hang in there, keep pushing, keep self improving, many of us are in this fight
Dylan: You were the first video I ever saw about bulking. It's been 3 years, I've gained 55 pounds, and look the best I've ever seen. You're incredible, and a great man. I attribute a lot to you. Being seld aware enough to make this video, and actively improve your life shows you're ahead of many. You're a beast, and I know you'll get better.
Hey everyone!! I just wanted to share some good news with you all. Let's just put it this way, the Ten Commandments are called the Moral Law. Ask yourself this. How many lies have you told? Have you ever stolen anything? Have you ever used God's name in vein? Have you ever hated someone or ever looked with lust? This is for you to judge yourself, but chances are that you are a lying, thieving, blasphemous, fornicating, adulterer at heart and you HAVE to face God on judgement day. Now ask yourself this. If God judges you on judgement day by these Commandments, will you be innocent or guilty? Of course you'll be guilty because we've all done these things. The truth is that none of us are good people and we NESD God's grace to make it to heaven. We judt simply cannot do it on our own. These Commandments arecalled the Moral Law. You and I broke the law, Jesus payed the fine. So now what we must do to be saved is to repent of our sins and trust alone in Jesus Christ! To repent doesn't mean to just say I'm sorry, but to turn from our sins and let Him truly be our Lord continually. He said that many will say to Him, Lord, Lord I have done all of these things for you. And He will say I never knew you. Depart from Me, ye who work iniquity! And those will be cast into outer darkness and raging hellfire and loneliness for all of eternity!!! Because we broke His law, He is very, very just to send us to hell. If someone had murdered 4 people and said to the judge, I've done nice things too and have tried to treat people nice but it was just one time, the judge would then say, okay but you're going to jail. And the judge is very just to do that. One last thing, if you were 10,000 feet in the air and you had to jump, you wouldn't jump out and flap your arms and try to save yourself. That's ridiculous! You would put on the parachute. It is the same with Jesus. You must trust Him as you trust the parachute. We are not good and we cannot save ourselves with our own goodness. We must trust alone in Him to save us. In just a moment of time you can pass from death to life. Jesus said, "Verily, verily I say unto you, you must be born again." That is how we enter heaven. Through the blood and grace of Jesus Christ!!!!✝️If you ask someone how to enter Heaven, they will most likely say, "Be a good person." Well the Bible says that none is good, no not one. We like to compare ourselves to guys like Hitler and say, "Hey, I'm a pretty good guy compared to him." But when we compare ourselves to God's standard, we realize that the Bible speaks truth when it says that we all sinned and fallen short of the Glory of God!!! When we see this ( our sin in its TRUE light), we see how much trouble we are in and we say, "Well then there's nothing I can do. I'm going to hell for sure then." It's true that there is nothing that WE can do, but there is something that has already been done for you! God sent His One and Only Son to die on a cross as a sacrifice for our sins! So to recieve that eternal sweet sweet forgiveness, all we must do is repent of our sins (meaning to continually turn from them and confess them) and trust alone in Christ as you trust a parachute. If I was to push you out of an airplane, you'd want the parachute for sure! Don't try to flap your arms and save yourself, trust in the parachute! His finished work on the Cross IS ENOUGH!! He is the only way to Heaven, He said it Himself!! These other religions teach that we must he good and do good things and then maybe if we've been good enough, we will enter Heaven. But if that is true then we are all doomed to eternal hell because none of us are good. That's why this makes sense. Look at the Ten Commandments, they are written on your heart right now!! I promise that you have violated them. And you might still be doing that today. Therefore God is just to poor out His wrath on us because we deserve it!! But Christ died for us so that we can spend eternity in Heaven with Him! Turn to Him today, and He and only He will save your soul "Verily, verily I say unto you, you must be born again ( to go to Heaven)."✝️The true joy of Christ dwells in me!!! Does it in you? I know where I'm going when I die! Do you? I have an ETERNAL victory! Do you? I have more joy than ever because of what Christ has done. I have been down both roads. The road of the wicked and the road of Christ. Christ is way better and my cup runneth over with true joy and salvation. If you do not know the One true God and are not sure of your salvation, I promise He will never fail you. Turn to Him in repentance and faith. Repent means to confess and forsake your sins, never turning back to them. I tried changing on my own but I couldn't. It took the power of Christ on the inside of me to do it for me. He will give you a new and clean heart with new and clean desires and you shall be born again. A new creation in Christ Jesus! Hallelujah! Jesus said in order to enter the Kingdom of God, you must be born again! Thank you Lord Jesus!!✝️
hope things get better for you
"I'd rather say I failed, than I never tried"
Inside, you're this beast. You know it, you just have to give it your best so it could give you its best. Don't Give up bro, find new ways to thrive in your life.
A lot of bullshit can fuck you over at times but just know that those things are trying to bring you down simply because because you're above them. Keep pushing dawg, you'll get that W one day.
As someone who has been working on self improvement this year I’ve had many ups and downs and I’d be lying
if I said that I’ve really given it my all this year but I understand that I can’t fix the past but only look forward to the future because that’s the best way to improve is to make mistakes and learn from them!!💯
Brooooo, this video is so relatable right now. This past months i also felt like a shadow of my former self. I am a long distance cyclist and cycled 400 kms in 19 hours in september. Needless to say i felt like i was at my peak but i allowed myself to be lazy and got softer month by month. At a certain point i started to feel weak and aimless, struggled to even wake up after full nights of sleep, just like you. I've been struggling with confidence and imposter syndrome, felt like my former self was superior to the present me. Thanks for this video, can't really express how this one helped me mentally. I hope you can deal with this too bro, i really do.
damn this is lowkey everyone right now and ur right the hardest part about this is starting it. respect tho for admitting to all this cuz i know most body builders wouldn't admit to being weak in any way shape or form.
It's so crazy, I got the exact same feeling the last 2 weeks. It really sucks and I wish this upon no one. Get better soon bro!
Keep fighting through. Sometimes you just gotta get off the phone and go out and experience the world. Its rhe dopamine
Dylan please just carry on and get through this. You are needed
dude i love this, this is 100% relatable, thanks for being so brave and making this video. love from denmark
This video resonates with me. I have a small family, but I am not the best at caring for them. I love them, I just suck at being the leader. I feel as though my purpose is lost for that reason. Thank you for being open in this way, Dylan
@@Renee847 loving oneself doesn’t come easy
This is literally what I need and have been going through. Addictions to gaming and being lazy has kept me doing the things I have loved and leads me to get no sleep, have barely any friends or social interaction, be really skinny, unfit and just depressed. I really hope that soon I can have the strength to do what you have done so I can begin a more productive, happy and extroverted part of my life. Thanks.
You have the Strength right now champ dont throw IT later Do IT now you know just like me your gonna forget about IT! Not to Tell you what to Do but your way stronger than what you Tell yourself.
Im from Germany. I feel the same. Would you mind a talk?
What helps me with my tre flips sometimes is hanging the toes of your back foot off a little more and keeping your toes facing straight. It feels a little awkward but it completes the rotation so much quicker allows for you to catch it higher instead of trying to land on the board right as the rotation ends.
yes exactly.
This was actually a really well made video and i know the message isnt anything ground breaking i feel alot of ppl still need to hear it including me. Ty brotha