What makes a**holes so desirable to women
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“Trust not a woman when she weeps, for it is her nature to weep when she wants her will.” ― Socrates
Ooooohhhhh...ouch
I'm savin that
Sigma Socrates 😄
Man. You guys quote the ancients so much, one might begin to think that humanity’s knowledge and wisdom haven’t been updated in the last 2,500 years.
@@SharperPenImageConsultingSimp
I’m the perfect amount of asshole to others. I don’t let people manipulate me with crocodile tears but if I legitimately did something wrong I’m man enough to apologize and move forward
Excellent.
Thats not even asshole. Thats a good person with boundaries, what everyone should strive to be
Well said.
Nicely done.
Couldn't have said this better!
Women quickly leap to accusing a guy of being ‘emotionally unavailable’ which is just a euphemism for ‘he refuses to do what I want’.
Ouch! That really hit. I’ve never thought about it that way.
Absolute bingo 👌🏽
Imagine if men went around accusing women of being sexually unavailable....which is probably the equivalent
Yup when women say you have "commitment issues" it just means you won't do what they want.
That shouldn't suggest that "emotionally unavailable" isn't a thing; my father is an alcoholic narcissist and truly doesn't know who I am, nor does he want to and any/all attempts to genuinely connect with him always fall flat and revert to him talking about himself. He is entrenched in his own isolated misery, which I would consider being truly emotionally unavailable - in other words, someone who is terrified of intimacy, or letting someone in to their inner world, could be considered unavailable. It's protection at the expense of connection.
More often than not, her anger has no reason. It's just a primitive strategy to have men do what they want.
Yes! I am currently mapping how they use fabricated fear to do the same.
I didn’t break on my previous relationship, and yet because she wasn’t satisfied with my reaction she decided to end the relationship.
Exactly ! This was such a wake up call 😮
Best out of it then . She sounds an emotional manipulator
Sadly, modern women resort to weaponizing their emotions in order to control men. It's a way to address the constant fear of abandonment.
Crocodile tears used tactically to deceive men
They practice this from childhood, usually it's the dad that gets duped first
...And courts.
Courts are NOT deceived
Courts are corrupt.
@@joeAnon796they all engage in manipulation yet they say it’s wrong💀😂.
expose her bs and the tears will stop and be replaced by crazy 😂
Once i learned that I don't have to feel bad for people's unjustified overreactions it saved me alot of stress
Many confuse 'kind' with 'weak'.
I spent two decades trying to please my various partners - not all of them, but the ones that counted. I compromised a lot. I made several changes to my character. I bent over backwards to accommodate some. I was overly nice and overly sympathetic. What twenty years of relationships of every kind, from the one night stand with a woman whose name you don't even know to a marriage, is this: give what you can when you can, but never more than you should and never more than you would get back in return. Once you embrace this mindset, relationships - and life in general - become a lot easier.
I am sure you have lots of insight but your writing is ineligible
What never more than you should and never more then you will get back means?
@@Candlelight787 I'm both a writer and an editor. If I gave so much as a passing thought to my RUclips comments, I wouldn't neglect the odd phrase (as I have done here - sentence six omits 'has taught me') and I would take the time to edit what I write (as you have with your post). Thankfully, I have better things to do.
To answer your query, a man should only give as much as he would expect to receive in return from his partner. If he gives more than that, he is giving more than he should. It's that simple.
The term you are looking for illegible.
@davesmith826 English is my 4th language so excuuuuse me. And your first post if still written poorly. Editor or not.
@@Candlelight787 It could be your seventeenth language: you don't understand it half as well as you think you do and you'll never understand it as well as I do.
The word you're looking for is 'is', not 'if'.
Avoid starting sentences with conjunctions.
Only merge numbers and letters when describing a date, not a quantity - the 4th of July, not your 4th language.
Never use a full stop if a comma will do.
@davesmith826 Getting grammar corrections from you is comical to say the least, since you skip whole words in your moakish sssays.
It's a very frustrating Game, it sucks your JOY
Better to ENJOY your own life rather than chasing women
that's the point of being an asshole. live for yourself, fck them as a past time hobby.
I say that with a beautiful lady here by my side 😂
I agree with this on many levels when dealing with women. They all too often suck the joy out of life, and hence it is not unreasonable for man or men to come to the conclusion it is better to just 'not' deal with them.
My ex Father in law once said to me as I was complaining about his daughter mildly. This is the very reason for so many Gay men. He was not being in any way judgmental or critical of this Behavior and Simply said Most Men cannot take the Abusive Pressure of being with a Woman . If you do not become the Dick you will end up sucking one 🙃🥹 😳Scared the shit out of me but it painted a picture . I became a better man with the right woman who loved me. Not one using us to mow the yard, fix, the Car. Put her on a pedestal because she has the NOOKIE and they wonder why we cheat , what the Fuck! Maybe the father in law had a point. 😢😂BUT I Love Woman , Damn it! The Good News ! Assume the Best . I’m expecting Universal Intervention to Heal Us All! ✌🏻🙏💯
You are being too cynical. This is not the whole picture. Many men have great experiences with women. When you realize that many traits that men work on developing such as non-reactiveness and stoicism are also very appealing to women, you understand that you don't have to be a bad dude to be with them.
Instead of chasing women, you can attract them.
@@proman84
I am very much AWARE that women look for "masculine TRAITS" in men rather than their looks
Because we have seen many "ugly" looking dudes having good times with "Hot" women
Women chases men who has : Sense of Mystery, Dominance, Leadership, Emotional rollercoaster, and Self-control (non-reactiveness)
BUT for us, we are the one who always has to take that "1st step" and women will act as a PRIZE
Grabbing her Attention, Saying something Interesting, Breaking Ice, Rapport-building, Push-Pull, Taking her to different locations, and finding a "covert" way to have sex
Dealing with her "SH!T tests" and "Worrying what if she gets TURNED OFF"
*It sucks our SOUL, man !!!*
Be kind and respectful, make compromises. However stand your ground with your core “things.” I’m in the best relationship I’ve been in currently and there’s been a few times where I essentially respond with “look you make me happy and I feel we can make something great here but I’m not budging on that. Ball is in your court, if you feel that isn’t acceptable or feel devalued you’re free to walk.”
Free to Bounce 😂
That's Masculinity right there
With that attitude in dating you'll Fulfill your purpose and still get Quality Women
You would let walk away your kids as well, this way. like whatever...Actually you wouldnt so ....men see partnership with women as no value... most women get emotional because estrogen makes them 10 times more emotional. Estrogen is a hormone.
@@alaalfa8839say some gibberish then a teenage girl line "like whateverrr" then make excuses for you being shitty. Just because you have an emotion and feel something doesn't mean it's right or takes priority over everything. Just because you feel sad that time doesn't make it right for you to cheat and break up the family like most women do. It's a cop out to blame estrogen, men don't get to blame testosterone making them angry and beat people up. You work on your anger and your emotions like a grown adult. Or keep being a kid and wonder why no one wants to deal with your overly emotional self.
@@alaalfa8839 the hormone that makes people have outbursts is testosterone. That's why an over-secretion of testosterone is associated with criminality, impulsiveness and explosive moodiness. The hormone that makes women "moody" during periods is also testosterone not estrogen. I dunno where you learned that from.
Lets rephrase this entire thing.
Women like it when you don't take their bullshit and hold them accountable for their poor choices.
In fact.. you are helping her.. She can't help herself.. but we can..!
As a woman I approve this message but remember this goes both ways.
Agree!
@@Portia620you mean if i start sobbing and wailing you wont see me as disgustingly weak and effeminate.? 😱👀🤪
@@Portia620 True but men don't break up with women because she was too caring.
The absolute truth. I put my foot down last year, and my relationship has gotten a lot better. She actually respects me more. The irony.
I've seen so many women in my life do this & the men get blamed even when they weren't at fault. All that was needed was some communication & self reflection. But people always assume women are right & that's so sad. Men just freeze & are traumatized dealing with hysterical women & over time they just give up. Men have their own negative points too but this is a pattern I've seen in women so I've been mindful of never letting my emotions control me ever since I was a kid. I would never want any man in my life be it my dad, brother, nephew or friend to feel that way. It's so difficult for them to express themselves unlike women. Men need a support system too rather than being burdened to just "accept everything & have a thick skin".
That’s the problem! Dont chase! Pursue don’t chase!
Yay for being stubborn! I hold my ground unless there is a reason not to :)
Reasonable is still....
...WEAK!
@@andrei2652huh nah
Was nice guy and too empathetic and was indirectly saving an emotionally unavailable person. Boom, ghosted. Disrespected x 10. Learned the hard way to walk away. Self dignity and peace first over any relationship imo.
Tell me more about what you mean by saving an emotionally unavailable person
This was something that was so difficult for me to learn and something I still struggle with. That the intensity of an emotional expression tells you nothing about whether it is reasonable and justified or not.
When she’s crying, know that she is lying.
Old world facts for ya right there 💯
Women are like a Storm, as long as you stay in the eye, everything is fine. The moment you touch the edge, it just is nature. Don't cry about rain,just wear a jacket
Love it
What is the edge of a woman is this analogy?
Nailed it
@@Dancky2 Not doing or behaving the way she wants, while not being the man she needs and respects.
Its actually simple. Just be always positive with the woman you love, do NOT reflect her negative emotions, just smile, just be silent a bit and... Everything will be OK soon.
Maintain frame
Truck on bucko, you not the first chosen
Truck on bucko, you not the first chosen
LMAO ok s_i_mp
So so so so so true. I just used this video to show mine (wife) knows I'm a nearly perfect husband. My asshole comes out when it's justifiable. It's up to others (in all fairness) if I'm an asshole or not. Love your channel and I'm a philosophical nerd. I love this brain science. You are killing it. How can I pay into what you are doing for men? We need you now more than ever.
Yep, there's a time to be a shoulder to cry on & a time to show her "tough love." ...& "the wisdom to know the difference" as the saying goes.
It happened to me yesterday. I was working in the garden, making noise with a tool and didn't hear her calling my name. He began to shout alleging that i did it on purpose. But i was calm, i really didn't hear her. It is very important to recognize what's mine and what's others.
I constantly tell myself in adverse situations with others, “The only person you have control of is yourself.”
One thing i learned from experience that works like a charm. Is telling my gf "i do not care" and "if you are that emotional about this situation, you clearly care more about your desires than our relationship, and if thats the case, i will leave you and lose absolutely no sleep" now what will it be? Im not having a conversation about it. Make your choice. And guess what. Not only is she still here. Shes happy, she trusts me as the leader, she leans on me emotionally, and sees me as not just a rock, but a mountain. Ur not being an asshole, you're being a man. A real. Unmovable. Man....the key though is truly having the success of your relationship at heart.
If a man said that to me I would not be happy because you should care about the relationship and not just saying you’ll lose no sleep if we break up.
@@OnjelieMariestfu . You can cheat on a man and or leave with zero remorse. Lines of simps ready to rescue you
@OnjelieMarie I totally get you, however she might be a match if she is sabotaging the relationship all the time, like putting in no effort to control the excessive emotions.
@@OnjelieMariesome relationships aren't worth caring about because you're dealing with an obnoxious selfish emotional brat with no accountability
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂@@OnjelieMarie
Eloquently expressed. Good job doc.
Knowing the truth sets you free from the misrepresentation of false narratives
I think I just had a bit of an epiphany, in the sense that I wonder whether the reason guys can't stand a woman crying, is because of them projecting their mother and childhood onto the situation. That they'll so easily yield, because it touches upon one of their deepest hurts and shames, namely disappointing or angering their mothers... 🤔
I think you're right.
I often did consider whether or not the tears or anger were justified or reasonable, but I cared about here and wanted the relationship to continue. She said I didn’t show enough empathy and said I was cold early in the relationship. And I had grown up constantly hearing how men are bad and took advantage or women and made them do too much work in relationships.
Because of these things I wanted to prove I was a good partner and changed for her to be what she said she wanted.
Eventually she lost respect and then interest for/in me, used me for resources and threw me away like trash when I wasn’t convenient anymore. In the end even though I was constantly taking care of her she said she felt like my mom sometimes. Yet I was the one doing all the work of her mom and her dad to take care of her, and yet it wasn’t enough. Completely abusive and manipulative woman who wanted me to change, didn’t like what she asked for, and then rather than making it clear what she did want, just left me (and a giant mess to clean up too). To be clear, without my help and resources, she either wouldn’t have a degree and a high paying programming job, or she’d have a giant mountain of debt. I was at least owed a respectful breakup.
I hear you, brother. Mine told me after she dumped me that my emotional support gave her the confidence to end the relationship.
You fell for the paying her degree gig? Let me guess, she left you around the time she graduated?
Don't pay for a woman's degree....rather just pay by the hour....it takes up much less of your time and money....
lmao what the fuck :DDDDDDDDDD@@Torgo1969
@@alexanderg5386
“I see you are familiar with the open fly ploy! Well sir so am I! I see you also know the flopping down on the bed with your arm on the floor ploy…” (from a pink panther movie)
I always thought I would be under the category of "nice guy" until I compared my experiences with other guy's stories. It turns out I fall under the" Sigma" personality. Others perceive me as kind instead of nice. However...since tears are a red flag, for possible Manipulation, I tend to observe crying as something suspicious. This was learned by having sociopathic in-laws. They used tears and moodiness to control their atmosphere. Oddly enough, those same people used projection to secretly tell others that I may be autistic; since I don't respond normally to crying LOL.
If you learn to dismiss labels, you can't be controlled by others.
Women & Men react emotionally to many things, sometimes reasonable & other times due to miscommunications, misunderstandings or just poor behaviour or mental state. Not escalating a teary, angry emotional situation seems sensible, as long as said partner doesn't think that the emotional reaction settles the matter in thier favour. Giving in like this is asking for a rod on your own back where women or men behave aggressively or emotionally in disagreements. There's not a cold/logical dispassionate assessment that whatever the problem is has been resolved. Being a good debator & capable of twisting matters to your side doesn't resolve things. It just creates resentment for those who dont argue well & get trampled. Winning at the cost of your relatioñship seems like poor value just to be right.
I am immune to my wife’s machinations. I have become the asshole I never wanted to be. It seems I don’t get respect or cooperation any other way.
Thank you, Orian. I've been struggling to understand the "Nice Guy" phenomenon, and working on myself for over 20 years. In this little short video you have managed to capture the heart of the problem. Now I have a solid metric to measure my success or failure at overcoming this horrendous condition. Also, too empathetic doesn't really explain "nervous system easily goes into overload due to years of childhood trauma from physical and emotional abuse".
I learned to stop caring. Let them get all twisted I their own emotional storm na not engage at all. Not my problem. If she can't get it together I'll find someone who can
What hapoens when its the opposite. A DV case.
@@ST-yc7ujWhat?! A DV case? That’s a whole nother subject.
@@shedparker when you ignore mans emotional needs.. his acting out..he becomes violent
@@ST-yc7uj That’s honestly an excuse to become violent. If your emotional needs aren’t met you leave. If you can’t leave the relationship immediately then you find some other outlet counter to being violent.
@@shedparker how many men do that..they yell or are rude instead, for starters.
Theres a line between being self assured and not caring what people think and being an asshole.
Also a line between not being manipulated by someone and being an asshole.
Socrates- "Trust not a woman when she weeps, for it is in her nature to weep when she wants her will."
A womans will was obviously never important, only mans.
What makes people desirable is self-consideration. Unfeelingness is one of the most unattractive traits, but some people are willing to endure it when it means they can be with someone who's self-considerate. Especially when they had at least one unfeeling parent and therefore think it's normal.
The most attractive men I know are very empathetic, but at the same time they take themselves into consideration before they take the other person into consideration. This way they make sure they can always pour from a filled vessel.
Empathy doesn't cause people to change even when the other person doesn't have a point. Feeling pity for someone causes that and that is a big difference. People who can't endure the sad feelings of others are usually people who can't endure their own sad feelings. That causes them to either resort to unfeelingness or to being too nice, considering others too much and changing too much.
Tons of videos, tons of advice, there's only 2 things i understand, have the upper hand always and be ready to let her go anytime.
I'm just missing good old times of hunters-gatherers tribes during the Stone Age. You were able to go hunt with your buddies for weeks and after you brought meat in cave - all others (kids, women, seniors) were happy and respectful, and you were happy because you had such a great time.
We need more separate activities.
Welp...I'm a guy who no longer cares about a woman's anger or displeasure with me. Bite me, dear. Lesson learned.
I'm not an asshol* ,i"m speaking softly when i called her out of her BS in nice way if she respond it well i smile and kiss her forehead but When she give me attitude i pull my self for days..When i pulled my self, i don't call or read her message...a 2 days later she apologized and knew her Mistake.. I love my woman, but i don't allowed her to disrespect me Like other girlfriends did to their boyfriends..
You are a narc. Silent treatment when not getting your way instead of talking about the problem is manipulation.
One of the best things he’s said.
Do women EVER have a POINT outside of self gain?
Nope
@@zolanddd0007 and once you know you know
Remember, your mother is a woman...❤
@louisetaylor6952 1st off...
Motherhood is merely the act of giving birth...
Next like most women my conception was the result of her satisfying her lust, not a planned out intentional act.
Next I fully understand and appreciate her sacrifice and love she has provided for me.
BUT
Given her expectation of money, service, recompense, etc. I can only surmise that yes she had kids out of self gain which given my experience it supports my point and conclusion.
Just because a woman has you and takes care of you doesn't mean it wasn't done out of selfish motives. Women literally have kids and "delete" or abandon them. Quit your virtue signaling at me and my family
BTW having kids is a selfish act because kids dont ask to be here parents choose it. And no survival instinct doesn't count here
@@louisetaylor6952 my mother told my sister that she will report her to the government if she doesn't give her monthly allowance. Lol.
Upstanding, thank you for your voice and wisdom.
Ok now I Got it. Stand your Ground and have a Nice day.
I feel it therefore it is the truth. My truth.
I’m amazed at how much this points to how psychotic women are. If they’re upset and they have a man who cars about them and wants to make it better and see them happy, she’ll wind up dumping him. If she gets the bad boy jerk she’s attracted to and he doesn’t care about her happiness, she’ll stick with him but always complain about how badly he treats her and that he doesn’t really love her. Eventually she’ll go back to the nice guy so he can take care of her but then go back to the bad boy because he makes her hot, even if she knows he’ll hurt her again.
And this is why I’d rather spend my time living in a remote cabin with no one but my dogs.
Women's energy structure goes inward (yin = yearning) thus by their very nature, they can't be satisfied and spend their entire lives trying to "fill up" the void. If the grass is greener, they'll yearn for blue, if the grass is blue, they'll yearn for green. This is why throughout history, women have been subjugated, because societies of old observed this behaviour and realised that women don't know what's best for them (structure and guidance) and that pandering and catering to their every whim (current modern gynocracy) is a fool's errand; you can't fill a bottomless pit.
Become a sweet asshole.
Dogs are the best
I think Orions advice about when a woman is upset and you must preface anything she says with “I feel” and add on “right now” at the end could completely change some relationships. He is basically saying she is throwing a tantrum and to not take her seriously at that moment which is true because of how emotional women are and you don’t need to tell her you think that way because it will help both of you.
Offer an ear and consolation, not solutions.
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Facts> Feelings
Excellent!!! Yes!!! This is healthy masculinity.
The thing is the culture is changing. I won’t be surprised if this the last era for a while when women can actually expect men to turn on a heel for their emotional outbursts unless it’s one they truly care about. The rest will be seen as someone worthless witch making noise.
Totally agree. Too many are on social media acting the same way.
Women have cheapened their tears by overusing them.
Oh ! how many men have opinions about women’s tears. Let me explain as a psychologist & woman. It is not always for control & manipulation.
Women are more emotional beings & they don’t shy away from showing them. If they are deeply sad they cry.
What do they expect - a hug and consoling comfort. Men - you need not say sorry, you need not accept or debate who is right or who is wrong. Just pacify and say we will talk more once you are ok.
Once you both are calm then discuss or talk more. Never when sad or angry.
However if the crying has become more often & reasonless. Convey that to her or let her get professional help.
100% learn this early it will save you a lot of pain and frustration. Mine was like this and could never appease any emotion for her, ruining your own self esteem and reality in the process
Feelings are always justified; inappropriate, degenerate, or harmful behavior is not.
Ive been called an asshole numerous times by women and men so i know im doing my job.
Women subconsciously want a man who is an unshakeable rock emotionally. If she sees she can manipulate you with her emotions, she will lose respect for you and also start feeling "unsafe" in the relationship because some part of her psyche recognizes she is with a weak man. You must train yourself to be stoic and solid. You can and should still show empathy and compassion when it's truly warranted, but do not allow yourself to be manipulated.
You can be yourself with the right woman and not have to play endless games. If you have to play games, you're chasing the wrong woman. Simple as that.
You might be the best in explaining interpersonal dynamics bro. Thanks a lot
The lighting is so perfectly 20's portrait
Manufactured indignation.
Too often after their self-insertion into something not invited into.
I was such a person because almost my entire life connected with narcissistic people. After a fresh start due to a brain issue and luck I found information on Internet I took a brake for a year now. Found peace and aware of the game women plays. I deleted all negative energy to recover and found out that for women relationship is just business😉. So if you like it okay but the peace I have now is more important
I played both parts, and honestly showing empathy and catering to her thoughts is more work that in the end doesn't equate to more affection or loyalty. Its just not worth the effort.
A man can be kind and empathetic but also authentic...he will care but not change because he is doing what is right for him, what he believes in...
PREACH BROTHER!!!
So spot on 💥👍🏾
This advice needs to be on a poster for young men.
I had a gf that was crying because I left her…in her dream. Yea that actually happened.
There have been days when mine woke up angry with me because of what I'd said _in her dream_ !
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Why is that a problem? It just showed how much she cared.
Past tense? Did she initiate the break up?
Lol It reminds me of my break up. She made it look like it was entirely my fault. I loved that woman. Anyway.
You just described the emasculated male😢. He is suffering 😢
this is a subtle thing i think about people don't think about, even i. this can be applied to a lot of emotions, is this whatever feeling is happening justified. it's best not to give empathy to a situation where someone got angry for unreasonable factors.
I needed to this hear I'm an empath and make the mistake of caring
Just coz a man is a nice guy it doesnt mean he is stupid... A good woman egzist to make men be their best version❤
Thank you.
I used to wonder why so many women claim abuse… then I got some experience and realized the ones crying are often just as guilty
Women want MASCULINITY more than ANYTHING (Yes, including LMS).
Think of masculinity as an energy, like Rasengan in Naruto. In order to perfect Rasengan, you must not just have the ability to release the energy, you must also be able to control and focus it.
There are two types of masculinity: Healthy and toxic ones. Masculinity becomes toxic if it is unable to be controlled and focused properly.
Most masculinity in the world is toxic, because it requires VERY HARD TRAINING to be able to control and focus the energy.
Healthy women love healthy masculinity a lot more, and vice versa for non-healthy ones.
Women love masculinity so much that they will ALWAYS pick a man with masculinity (doesn't matter the type) over a man with none.
So, if a woman chooses a bad boy over you, there are two options: She is damaged (less likely), or you have no masculinity (more likely).
Release, Control & Focus !
We should keep that in mind
This man said rasengan and couldn’t be anymore accurate
Mah boi used Naruto for comparison 🫡
If she chooses a bad boy over you, then there is one option only: you're not the best option for her. That "damage" stuff doesn't make much sense.
@@dott8775 It makes perfect sense, it is the reason some of them keep choosing irresponsible men. You're just too immature to see it.
I told this girl to stop being shy so we could get to know each other. I guess it pissed her off because she won’t talk to me. Yet stares at me every time I see her.
Nice guys finish last..💩💃🕺🍷😎👌
I read somewhere that female tears are engineered to make men feel empathetic towards them kinda like when children cry. its funny because i feel no emotion when a woman cries because ive been in many situations where its been faked. i never trust it at first. i react to children crying differently though im not that screwed in the head😅
I laugh when children cry 🤪
My ex went to stay w.her parents saying i was overworked (which i was) months later i changed careers had a ton more energy. Did more work around the house, watched the kids more only for her to go back to her parents only this time permanently. She abandoned the family, ghosted me, and is sleeping around.
I was a nice guy, but it wasnt workin for me. Hard times, and getting kicked around a bit was the best thing that ever happened to me.
when they start crying, most nice guys just forget reason, all they think will be... anything to make her stop😂
100%!! I agree as I was that nice guy. I always put my ex wife emotions and needs first, the result was she always unhappy no matter how much I sacrifice or do. Now, in every relationship I put myself first and l learned to say no - I became an Asshole. Being an asshole is not a bad thing per se. it shows that you are unshakeable no matter what- a man is a rock!
I was married only saw her cry together her way , never for the plight of another Human and she's not the only one tears to get their way or Anger anger anger for Gp
Agree with everything except the last sentence.
Mostly it is young women who get angry inappropriately.
Someone once said " Never try to understand women Only women understand women And they hate each other "
No. I have inoculated myself to female tears a long time ago and am thereby not affected...
Don't be a simp basically
Once you understand them, you cannot truly love them the same
This is my #1 weakness I do well until she cries and sad to say women pick up on that and just end up acting upset more.
I just had a cancer scare and one night we were waiting for results I want crazy off on my husband. He held his ground but also didn’t hold it against me. Yes I was bonkers but justifiable so. Next morning I got a hug and no recriminations for anything I said
I refuse to believe this is the only way to interact with women. How can you find joy in dating if I have to mistreat her in order for her to be in compliance. Seems like that would be energy draining. I’d feel like a prison guard.
You don’t have to do this with all women. There are good women out there. With a good woman there are no psychopathic mind games, and she will give you the respect you deserve.
It’s a trait of assholes, but you can be a good man and do the same thing. It’s the same thing with being a leader, doing what’s right and being skilled at getting things done, while also having consideration of those who follow you. Great example of this in a movie is Master & Commander. Russel Crowe is a solid leader in this. Your woman will love you more when you have backbone, and are doing it with good intentions. And yes this requires some distance from empathy at times if it will serve the greater good for you both.
Women don't cry if they are happy.
Men should stop carring about women and should do whats best for them. If they are on rught morls path whats best fir them will always be best for others good people too around him.
Too empathethic would be the wrong word more like fake pleasing to not rock the boat, for most people don't even have true empathy instead have sympathy There's a big difference
If a man knows himself, i.e. been around the block a time or two he can see through the BS and he will say no. If you haven't been around the block yet you say yes to everything not recognizing..BS, get taken advantage of and ulitmately develop contempt the further you find yourself getting pushed away from who you really are.
My business partner does this too. Getting angry inappropriately
I don't like drama so I will be a blessing for a nice guy!!! A New Yorker looking for a decent guy!!! 😊
I tellem like my dad use to tell me! If ya don’t dry that face up,I’ll give ya something to cry about. Works every time
Me after I give my wife a reason to cry:😃
Joke?
@@TheRealHerbaSchmurba whatcha tell a woman with two black eyes? Nothing ya done told her two times
Most women will express with men what their issue are but the problem with men is they don't listen and often time women get frustrated. Men need to listen that apart of communicating often time men will listen at work to their bosses, other male friends, clients but when it comes it time to listen to their wives, girlfriend etc they find listening impossible to do. For any relationship to work the 3 c's are needed comprise, communicating, Consideration and one R's respecting a woman boundaries is another one without boundaries no relationship can work whether that be boundaries with coworker, boundaries with family member etc if boundaries are crossed in any relationship that means that your partner, sister, brother simply do respect you.😂😂😂😂😂😂
Unpopular Opinion: I don't think women should be having kids after 35.
That's just too many kids.
Ayo!!