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Thank you lovely lady. Here in South Africa we say I am gonna be honest with you I don't like the way you behave yesterday. Love your videos wish there was one on how to speak Afrikaans better.
Just try to think of some past (or even upcoming) situations you could use the expressions in. Then, mentally (or even vocally), make some sentences about the situations using those expressions. ;-) For your brain it will be like as if you have used them and next time they might pop up when you need them.
Two possibilities to add to the list:- "Have you considered..." "Here's a mad idea: what if..." Of course these can sound sarcastic under some circumstances, such as: "Have you considered turning up to work on time?" or "Here's a mad idea: what if you stopped being unfaithful to your wife?"
@Mark Jones Vous êtes une bête en tout ce qui me concerne !! La façon dont vous vous adressez aux personnes est bizarre. Avec tous vos jargons et vulgarité à ma personne, j'ai pu constaté que vous appartenez à une classe très basse et impolie de votre société. Franchement, je vous prie de vous occupez de vos oignons. Bête.....
Lucy, you remind me so much of my English teacher in elementary. She was pretty close to me, felt like she was my aunt. You have the same voice, laugh the same, same body language while explaining, hell even very similar makeup. I find your videos delightful and this little nostalgia trip brought me back to those simpler days, thank you!
How to criticise politely 1. With respect / with all due respect 2. I'm going to be very honest with you / I'm gonna be honest with you... 3. Let's be frank... 4. I'm not going to lie / I'm not gonna lie 5. I don't mean to offend you but... 6. Don't get me wrong 7. I've noticed that... 8. There's room for improvement 9. If I were you, I would... 10. Could I offer you a bit of constructive criticism? 11. ...to say the least / to put it mildly
If there’s one thing I love from this channel is that Lucy teaches us how to behave or to confront in a polite way without relying on rudeness and unnecessary offence.
@@muhammadahsan4959 One technique you can use to help communicate your objections to someone who takes criticism poorly is to use the "sandwich feedback method." It's where you praise, encourage or complement the person with positive feedback then after, you inject your criticism, dislike or disapproval followed by re-enforcing your positive feedback. Like a sandwich, this takes the hard meaty criticism and covers it both ends with something light and fluffy to make your central point much easier to swallow. This way, the person is more likely to take your criticism in a much more positive light. Also, if your really want to get the most out of this technique, avoid word "but" or "however" when leading into your criticism. Instead, say "my only criticism" or "my only concern would be..." although absolutely do use "but" and "however" when leading back into positive feedback for sure 😁
l am Chinese senior high school student. most of chinese school teaches American accent English. Lucy let me fall in love with British English. the British English sounds like a gentleman. l don't mean American accent is bad , l just prefer British English. hope one day l can go to UK
The way the lesson delivered was so pleasing, clear and informative. Super helpful to use for constructing opinions and criticisms in a considerate manner. Thank you, Lucy!
I’m not British so I’LL BE HONEST WITH YOU: there should be a visit to a scaffold coming in package for using “there’s room for improvement” and all the other corporate/office b*t. People start to communicate like this in everyday life as a result! Lucy - I absolutely adore your accent and videos🙌🏼🙌🏼
Not gonna lie is what I hear very often in many RUclips videos and I didn’t quite understand what it meant. Now I totally understand it. It was a very helpful video!!
Hello Lucy! It was nice to see you! Thank you so much for the lesson on how to avoid being rude! Nevertheless, I've noticed that people sometimes need to be slightly rude to be fair.
No. 7 (6:52) also has the variations "I can't help but notice (that) ..." and "I couldn't help but notice (that) ...", which seems to kinda imply that even if you hadn't watched / observed them, you would have noticed, because they do the wrong or bad thing so often or in a so obvious manner, that you'd eventually become aware of it even without wanting to.
Hi, I thought when we say ‘ There is room for improvement ‘ means you are doing %90 right and only little left to fill the gap. While Lucy said we use this phrase if someone has lots of mistakes !! 😰 I used this phrase on my performance review about myself 😰
Another good one the runs along with "I've been noticing..." would be "... You've been observed a some others ..." My Da used to say that frequently even though there' my not have been any "observations." per se. Kjiersten
Hi hear i'm Shouq from Saudi Arabia, I already majored in "english language and literature" in collage but I really love watching your videos it's really made a big improvements for me! Lots of love💕💕💕
Is interesting how to use this expressions to reduce your criticism and trying to be nice even though you want to let the person know what you want. Thank you Lucy and let me tell you that I love your english accent.
This video is going to change my live... XD It's like understanding English speakers for the first time... (in my country we are very frank, honest and direct... now I understand why English speakers are so sensitive every time)
Another way of using "If I were you..." is when giving advice, especially if the person sounds like he made up his mind to do something unwise. e.g. "If I were you, I would apologize to her now. Don't wait until tomorrow like you want."
Very informative. Lucy - it would be great if you can do a video on communicating with peers or managers (one level up) about difficult situations, politely in a office setting
Hi..Beautiful Lucy I'm retired now, so I've practiced English for fun. I love British English because of 'Harry Potter'. I'm a woman, so it's not impolite to say 'Beautiful Lucy'. I watched many native speakers teaching English here, but I watched you most because I like you. I practiced writing before pronunciation. Sometimes, I used written English in speaking, can you believe it ? Besides practiced writing first, I also studied 'English for Lawyers' because I graduated master degree in law.
Love it! But could you do a video of phrases which are the most direct in being offensive. I must admit, there seems to be many good teachers around me as many people from my culture seems to think it's an excellent trait to be direct and honest, but I think they got it mixed up with being offensive and untacticful. Only if more people can learn to speak and behave the way Lucy is showing us, the world would go around a little bit more smoothly even if no one really agrees on the same things.
Hello, I've been following you for awhile, I've watched all your videos, I've always clicked the like button BUT I've never left a comment because of my English!! But after thinking about it and my teacher recommendation ( writing is one of the active way to pratice a language)! My biggest problem is that when it comes to speak, It's like a big blank space like if I've never learned anything!!! 😣😣😘
As a native "English" speaker, I do find that just one word to me is a "warning bell" which makes me subconsciously a little wary. It is the word "But" as in.. "You know how much I value our friendship, but....!!" or "Well we can do as you suggest, but...!". One just knows that something probably negative is coming
"I'm going to be candid..." which allows that I'm risking causing offense by cutting to the core of the matter because of the closeness of our relationship or the importance of the issue about to be discussed.
I had this issue this morning at breakfast. I voiced my opinion about something I didn't like and it came out as insulting/ridiculing. I am not happy I did that. I apologize to anyone that I ever gossiped about, talked about behind their backs, made fun of and for anything else.
It's both ways in India. The couple is usually dressed in festive colours like red. It is considered offensive if one wears a red lehenga to a wedding, but no prob if it's a red skirt or if it's a child. One doesn't really wear white to a wedding, bcoz that is worn on funerals. However, it isn't offensive if it has a few other shades, even if it's a creme shade.
Hello Lucy good English lesson yet again and may I add another such as I’m not being funny which is used a hell of a lot at the beginning of a sentence of criticism by a person to another person so that’s it thanks so take care and cheerio
In a non-formal conversation i sometimes give critical feedback in form of a counterquestion without saying much. Q: 'how do you like my new haircut?' A: 'do you want my opinion or my honest opinion?'. No idea if this is considered offensive or not. But then again, i'm from Switzerland and can use this as excuse. 😉
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Are you married ? I like blonds and wanna marry with you if you and your parents are ready then ask me my cell number ... thanks
Come...late?.good job lucy you're the better🤭
@WORST CHANNEL EVER its just for fun lol
I think any sentence with but in it negates everything before it. Like when people say "I love you, but..."
Thank you lovely lady.
Here in South Africa we say I am gonna be honest with you I don't like the way you behave yesterday. Love your videos wish there was one on how to speak Afrikaans better.
My problem is: I know all of them, I've heard them, I've read them.. But, when I speak, they never come to mind. It's frustrating 😅
So you're like me....😂😅
+1
Am not alone😅
Welcome to the world of fumblers!
Just try to think of some past (or even upcoming) situations you could use the expressions in. Then, mentally (or even vocally), make some sentences about the situations using those expressions. ;-) For your brain it will be like as if you have used them and next time they might pop up when you need them.
I like her voice and accent so much that I never skip this audible recommendation repeated in 90% of her videos
Her accent is just music to my ears!! 👂🥰
Sorry, mentioning of what ?!? I think I miss it.
Also lingoda and italki 😂
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well done
English with Lucy scond!!
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Hello, I'm from Brazil and I like to watch your videos to improve my listen.
@@leonardodavid6748 eu também,and I love her accent
Two possibilities to add to the list:-
"Have you considered..."
"Here's a mad idea: what if..."
Of course these can sound sarcastic under some circumstances, such as: "Have you considered turning up to work on time?" or "Here's a mad idea: what if you stopped being unfaithful to your wife?"
@Mark Jones loooolllllll
@Mark Jones What's going on here?
@Mark Jones Vous êtes une bête en tout ce qui me concerne !! La façon dont vous vous adressez aux personnes est bizarre. Avec tous vos jargons et vulgarité à ma personne, j'ai pu constaté que vous appartenez à une classe très basse et impolie de votre société. Franchement, je vous prie de vous occupez de vos oignons.
Bête.....
I use “have you considered” with my children!
MR MILL.. I appreciate your time writing those... I made a note of those too. Thank you ❤️
Lucy, you remind me so much of my English teacher in elementary. She was pretty close to me, felt like she was my aunt. You have the same voice, laugh the same, same body language while explaining, hell even very similar makeup. I find your videos delightful and this little nostalgia trip brought me back to those simpler days, thank you!
How to criticise politely
1. With respect / with all due respect
2. I'm going to be very honest with you / I'm gonna be honest with you...
3. Let's be frank...
4. I'm not going to lie / I'm not gonna lie
5. I don't mean to offend you but...
6. Don't get me wrong
7. I've noticed that...
8. There's room for improvement
9. If I were you, I would...
10. Could I offer you a bit of constructive criticism?
11. ...to say the least / to put it mildly
If there’s one thing I love from this channel is that Lucy teaches us how to behave or to confront in a polite way without relying on rudeness and unnecessary offence.
Caution: British people may still get offended, even when using these special techniques.
They get angry TOO fast
PS. No hate
NO OFFENSE!!!!
@@muhammadahsan4959
One technique you can use to help communicate your objections to someone who takes criticism poorly is to use the "sandwich feedback method." It's where you praise, encourage or complement the person with positive feedback then after, you inject your criticism, dislike or disapproval followed by re-enforcing your positive feedback.
Like a sandwich, this takes the hard meaty criticism and covers it both ends with something light and fluffy to make your central point much easier to swallow.
This way, the person is more likely to take your criticism in a much more positive light.
Also, if your really want to get the most out of this technique, avoid word "but" or "however" when leading into your criticism. Instead, say "my only criticism" or "my only concern would be..." although absolutely do use "but" and "however" when leading back into positive feedback for sure 😁
No school will teach what you teach Lucy.!!!!
@@druscanam OK thanks for the feedback bro
Yes absolutely..!!
Thanks a lot Miss Lucy. In wich video I've learned a lot about it. At the moment I'm working at Minnesota but I am from Guatemala. Cheers!
l am Chinese senior high school student. most of chinese school teaches American accent English. Lucy let me fall in love with British English. the British English sounds like a gentleman. l don't mean American accent is bad , l just prefer British English. hope one day l can go to UK
🙂
The way the lesson delivered was so pleasing, clear and informative. Super helpful to use for constructing opinions and criticisms in a considerate manner. Thank you, Lucy!
I’m not British so I’LL BE HONEST WITH YOU: there should be a visit to a scaffold coming in package for using “there’s room for improvement” and all the other corporate/office b*t. People start to communicate like this in everyday life as a result!
Lucy - I absolutely adore your accent and videos🙌🏼🙌🏼
Polite roasting season starts now. Thank you Lucy😁
You know, as a brit myself i still find these videos really entertaining - they often point out things i do that i don't even notice
Not gonna lie is what I hear very often in many RUclips videos and I didn’t quite understand what it meant. Now I totally understand it. It was a very helpful video!!
Very good presentation and given examples.
Great Miss.Lucy
Very useful for even native English speakers! Thank you! And I love your humor. Obviously, I’m here in the States.
i m in a good way jealous of your pluck and tenacity to make your lessons over and over without repeating .its worth it
Hello Lucy! It was nice to see you! Thank you so much for the lesson on how to avoid being rude! Nevertheless, I've noticed that people sometimes need to be slightly rude to be fair.
No. 7 (6:52) also has the variations "I can't help but notice (that) ..." and "I couldn't help but notice (that) ...", which seems to kinda imply that even if you hadn't watched / observed them, you would have noticed, because they do the wrong or bad thing so often or in a so obvious manner, that you'd eventually become aware of it even without wanting to.
frankly speaking, i love lucys channel
Thanks for the lesson which is very helpful to avoid misunderstanding with somebody.
With all due respect I don't understand why some people dislike this beautiful video. 🤔
Super helpful video, now, got to work on remembering and using them. thank you:)
Thank you so much. I like your all videos.
Thank you Lucy 💕
Hi, I thought when we say ‘ There is room for improvement ‘ means you are doing %90 right and only little left to fill the gap.
While Lucy said we use this phrase if someone has lots of mistakes !! 😰 I used this phrase on my performance review about myself 😰
I love your videos, thank you Lucy and regards from Mexico ✌️
I like this expression :
" I beg your pardon !"
For some reason I find it sarcastic and funny
I never use it. It sounds too old-fashioned
@@zacharythegod3281 yeah sounds like old English. Outdated
Me too
Another good one the runs along with "I've been noticing..." would be "... You've been observed a some others ..." My Da used to say that frequently even though there' my not have been any "observations." per se. Kjiersten
Hi hear i'm Shouq from Saudi Arabia, I already majored in "english language and literature" in collage but I really love watching your videos it's really made a big improvements for me! Lots of love💕💕💕
And to add, sure my name is kinda odd for you it means "the feeling of missing someone in Arabic" I just felt I want to explain it I don't know why 😂💛
Another good one is "not to put too fine a point on it"..... very useful.
I love it! I love this video, becose this is not only learning English but also improving our communication. Thank you Lucy
Is interesting how to use this expressions to reduce your criticism and trying to be nice even though you want to let the person know what you want. Thank you Lucy and let me tell you that I love your english accent.
This video is going to change my live... XD
It's like understanding English speakers for the first time... (in my country we are very frank, honest and direct... now I understand why English speakers are so sensitive every time)
Hi Lucy, Thank you for your audible book and I like your teaching of Polite Criticism sentences. I love then
Another way of using "If I were you..." is when giving advice, especially if the person sounds like he made up his mind to do something unwise.
e.g. "If I were you, I would apologize to her now. Don't wait until tomorrow like you want."
Very informative. Lucy - it would be great if you can do a video on communicating with peers or managers (one level up) about difficult situations, politely in a office setting
Hi.i really love your accent and the way you explain everything. Now I can speak British accent very well though I'm a srilankan.
Thank you Lucy for your videos, really helpful all of them.
a good and lovely teacher with sense of humour
Brilliant. I've also heard, "this is not easy for me to say but ..."
Greetings from Colombia south America, Miss Lucy.
I think you could also use Come to one's attention similarly as noticing something
it is important to have a healthy balance of truth & grace. either one without the other can be taken to the extreme and cause a lot of problems.
Great teacher! Very interesting vocabulary lucy!
Hi..Beautiful Lucy
I'm retired now, so I've practiced English for fun. I love British English because of 'Harry Potter'.
I'm a woman, so it's not impolite to say 'Beautiful Lucy'. I watched many native speakers teaching English here, but I watched you most because I like you. I practiced writing before
pronunciation. Sometimes, I used written English in speaking, can you believe it ? Besides practiced writing first, I also studied 'English for Lawyers' because I graduated master degree in law.
English has been spoken very well by Lucy.
Thank you Lucy, each one teach one
Good one. Thank you Lucy.
Love it! But could you do a video of phrases which are the most direct in being offensive. I must admit, there seems to be many good teachers around me as many people from my culture seems to think it's an excellent trait to be direct and honest, but I think they got it mixed up with being offensive and untacticful. Only if more people can learn to speak and behave the way Lucy is showing us, the world would go around a little bit more smoothly even if no one really agrees on the same things.
Hello, I've been following you for awhile, I've watched all your videos, I've always clicked the like button BUT I've never left a comment because of my English!! But after thinking about it and my teacher recommendation ( writing is one of the active way to pratice a language)! My biggest problem is that when it comes to speak, It's like a big blank space like if I've never learned anything!!! 😣😣😘
I love your videos! :D I am learning English and your videos are really helping!
Hi dear lucy, I really like to watch ur videos, they're useful and ur energy is wonderful
As a native "English" speaker, I do find that just one word to me is a "warning bell" which makes me subconsciously a little wary. It is the word "But" as in.. "You know how much I value our friendship, but....!!" or "Well we can do as you suggest, but...!". One just knows that something probably negative is coming
However, works as well and is less abrupt sounding.
I. Loooove your politeness, Lucy💕
Absolutely love it, thank you Lucy!
beautiful language taught by beautiful teacher.
Great video Lucy! I loved number 11 for being so cynical! Thanks a lot!!
You made me love British English! Cheers!!!
I did that last year with Dracula, listened to the audio while following along with the book. It made reading it faster too.
Let's be frank here.. wooow I like it. Have learned something new today
these phrases are so helpful,Lucy. Thanks!
"I'm going to be candid..." which allows that I'm risking causing offense by cutting to the core of the matter because of the closeness of our relationship or the importance of the issue about to be discussed.
I appreciate the work you are doing for us.
You're a great British teacher, thank you.
You are a good Teacher
Precious. Thanks.
Many native English speakers should take your advice and this video can help them with alternatives.
and i'm gonna tell you directly! 😁 i enjoy watching your entertaining lessons! thank you! 😊😊😊
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Hi Lucy,
thank you so much for new upload....
This is most beautiful English teacher.
That's perfect!
Lucy, would you please explain in your next videos the difference between criticism and critique?
Thank you very much in advance
Admirable accent, eloquence & concision, you got them. I love Lucy.
😏😏😏
I love your accent, it’s very pretty.
Thank you so much miss Lucy u most beautiful teacher 💐💐 I respect u all time dear
You look fantastic and your lessons are fantastic too!
Hello there, Lucy. Thank u for your always interesting videos.
Lucy is so classy :) The UK must be very proud :)
Okey..Let's be frank, we all love this lesson :)
Thats quite frankly, quite frankly :)
Yes, we do!
I love her she so amazing. We could ask her to get drunk and give lessons?
You meant: Let's be frank, we all needed this lesson.
Thank you my best teacher .❤️🌹❤️🇬🇧
Nice lesson, Lucy!! Thanks!!😊
I had this issue this morning at breakfast. I voiced my opinion about something I didn't like and it came out as insulting/ridiculing. I am not happy I did that. I apologize to anyone that I ever gossiped about, talked about behind their backs, made fun of and for anything else.
You are the best teacher!
Many thanks for examples =))It's really helpful independently native language. =))
GREAT LESSON.
It's both ways in India. The couple is usually dressed in festive colours like red. It is considered offensive if one wears a red lehenga to a wedding, but no prob if it's a red skirt or if it's a child. One doesn't really wear white to a wedding, bcoz that is worn on funerals. However, it isn't offensive if it has a few other shades, even if it's a creme shade.
I love your pronunciation and videos Lucy! I send you a bunch of kisses 😘🌷 greetings from Argentina!
Thanks miss Lucy , Love from Indonesia 💖
Good teacher 🎉
HI LUCY, IM FROM INDONESIA AND LOVE YOUR LESSON ❤
You are lovely teacher ..
I struggled for over a year to understand this concept about the British culture regarding criticism. Finally a Brit is confirming my conclusion.
🤩
Criticising politely or confronting someone - both are better than being nosy and rude which happens in Bangladeshi village areas.
Thanks a lot Lucy... Useful lesson.. Love from Indian muslim
Hello Lucy good English lesson yet again and may I add another such as I’m not being funny which is used a hell of a lot at the beginning of a sentence of criticism by a person to another person so that’s it thanks so take care and cheerio
In a non-formal conversation i sometimes give critical feedback in form of a counterquestion without saying much. Q: 'how do you like my new haircut?' A: 'do you want my opinion or my honest opinion?'.
No idea if this is considered offensive or not. But then again, i'm from Switzerland and can use this as excuse. 😉
Thankq ma'am ❤️ from India 🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳