To be honest, I'm British and I'd be perfectly happy saying anyone of these phrases to a friend, and perfectly happy to have them said to me. It's not so much about the phrases, but more about the situation and context. A lot of people don't really realise that this is how we are. We insult each other and not only do we usually not take it seriously, it tells us a lot about our friendships and relationships. If a person can insult you and you don't really mind, then you must be friends. It can sometimes be difficult for other people to figure out as I've had a few people visit me from other countries and they often thought people were fighting/arguing, but they were just winding each other up. Maybe the most risky out of the lot is to say "You're in a bad mood" because if they're not, then it's a surefire way to put them in one 😆
This is a stupid function of your culture. Rudeness is not a good indicator of friendship, it’s just rude. Its very common in blue collar industries to have the same type of culture, and when I got into that industry, I could see that this is just for people who have trouble expressing their true affections for their friends and family by hiding behind insults and jokes. But when someone actually gets hurt when two people are *essentially* playing with knives, then it’s ok to say “oh sorry, I know we’re playing with knives but obviously I didn’t mean to cut you or stab you!” Don’t play with knives. It’s stupid.
@@Kingcrowntown Rudeness is only rude if it is interpreted that way by the reciever. What certainly is rude is trying to impose your way onto others. So, if we like to have that kind of banter with friends and work colleages, Who are you to tell us that we are wrong ? Rudeness is subjective. What one person considers rude another may not. Also, pretty coincidental that while you call out rudeness your first line is to try and insult a persons culture. Pretty rude, huh ? Luckily we're not overly sensitive about such things, maybe we've been toughened up a little by all the insults that we've had to put up with from our friends over the years. Instead of crying about it and getting offended we just laugh at it and move on..
Hello Bob I am from Poland and I enjoy learning the English language with you. Your brilliant idea to teach outside and that is so liberating, plus showing important sentences on the screen is very important for visual memory. I'm always waiting for your new episodes.
Bob, I am very grateful for this lesson. You explained with examples important culture English manners. It is so important for people, who was not born in English country, like me, so we didn't have English speaking father and mother who could explain us these delicate shades of meaning. I had an situation on my workplace, when I had to make with my co-worker a presentation together. My salary depended on this presentation. I was very nervious because it was my first time and English is not my first language. On ther other side, my collegue was native. I asked his help, if I forgot a few words accidentally and made a break in my speech to help me. I warned him that it was very important for me. First part of presentation from my collegue was fantastic, my second part was not bad. But, people started to ask additional questions to clarify some details. In one moment, I realised that I couldn't explain because I just didn't know these technical details. I organised a break and asked my co-worker help me and explain nuances to people, because it was 100% his area of competency. But, he refused to help me. He told, you should do it youself cause it is your part of presentation. I was so furious with him. Firstly, I didn't know how I could explain something if I didn't know this subject. Also, I couldn't know how to explain him that he is not right. So, at that moment I forgot all my polite English😢 and told him loudly and directly, 'You are useless'. At last, I found the way to finish this presentation in a decent way. However, we were not talking with each other for 2 months. Thank you for giving the alternative phrases for this situation. The last thing I want to do is to be rude with someone, but unfortinately, the study English book teach us to be polite and always agree and not teach us how negotaite and sometimes refuse somebody polite way.
WOW, thank you for being so polite, I mean it :) I live in a country where half of the population constantly speaks to eachother in rude, impatient, irritated tones and they think that's just normal, polite speaking 🙈 The reason being they've never heard anything else so they don't know any better. Talk about culture shock to me..
I love the way you teach English Mr.Bob the Canadian. Your English is very clear and beautiful which I love to listen to you! Thank you very much and I appreciate you for all your hard work to teach us English. ❤😅😊 I am Jafar from Afghanistan, living in Japan right now.
Thanks, Bob! for teaching these interesting phrases. This was an interesting one! Although I was expecting the phrases to be a little more rude hahaha 🤣
Thanks Bob for the nice lesson, now we can be more respectful to other people yes what you had said is true we have to be nice with each other , well done sir have a nice time
That's a very useful lesson. The same word or phrase can sound rude to natives and quite mild and innocent to English learners, so it is good to point out all the shades of emotions or directness these phrases convey. One of the phrases that I just had to learn the sound of, was 'why don't you...' - which may seem like a question requiring an answer, with a dash of patronizing tone, but it turns out to be more of a suggestive statement.
Many people have told me things like that and I just laugh happily Sometimes people ask me why I smile like that and I can only answer because I don't understand what they are saying
Record 62:I told you so!,Grow up!,good for nothing,Whatever!,useless,wake up!,We don't have all day!,This is disgusting!,You snooze,you lose!,WOw!,You're in a bad mood today.
Hi teacher Bob! 🖐️😎 Even if we don't use some phrases, they are useful to know. Thank you for this very fun and useful lesson. By the way, the view of the dark sky in the background was wonderful. 💯♥️😎👍 Have a good day! Bye 👋😊💐🌹💙
I think "whatever" means something like "I find this absurd/unfair but I will comply grudgingly because I have no choice" or "you are being absurd but I won't bother explaining to you why".
Many thanks to Bob. These phrases and idioms sound simple and easy to Native speakers. In fact, many EFL teachers even don't know how to use them precisely. Well done. Peace with you.🍒🍓🍎🍗🍖🍔
My husband says it to me all the time. I have expressed how it makes me feel but it does not matter to him at all. He merely explains that growing up it was acceptable to talk that way. He's a real prince.
Bob! Thank you so much for your nice English sentences and tips to become a polite English speaker. But already lots of native English speakers used to adopt what you pointed out when they speak to non-English users. Most of them were Americans who didn't know how to say polite. They are very mean. Moreover, some of them say a few salty words or four words to non-English speakers on social media or websites if they can't speak English fluently. Not to mention, that's a kind of racial discrimination. That's the problem of native English speakers toward non-English speakers when they hear broken English. Native speakers shouldn't use those rude words in the first place in front of non-English speakers first.
Hello Bob ...very interesting and informative video especially for non native speakers because they might hear them from native speakers and might use them here and there. Question do you have suggestions for "polite alternative" for some of them at least ?
Thanks for these phrases, a few was new to me. I should rewatch it even though I am behind watching your videos hence last Saturday I planned to watch your Friday stream but with no avail. My internet connection gave up. A cord got pulled out of the modem. I found it out only in the evening but I had to go to work. I work in 12 hrs shifts nowadays. Hard. I'll watch your Friday lesson tomorrow evening. I hope you are all right.
Thank you for sharing this informative and engaging English lesson on phrases that are considered mean or rude. It's really helpful to learn about such expressions, not for usage, but for better understanding of English in various contexts like TV shows, movies, or everyday interactions. Your approach to teaching, with clear examples and explanations, makes it much easier for learners to grasp these concepts.
I agree "That (food) is disgusting" is rude. All the other phases seem to be Honest and Realistic observations that need to be expressed. When "Whatever" is used it has one of two very different meanings. One is "the person saying it (like the student with the calculator/phone out) is admitting to being wrong, not knowing what is going on, and doesn't care about the concerns of the group." A second meaning is "your objection is noted, but it is insignificant and let's move forward with our plan/action."
You are a kind teacher. Kindness is good when used to treat good people. What do you think our education now? Schools don't teach Constitution but CRT, Idendity, and many garbages. I used to respect school teachers, not any more.
As an ESL teacher of 15+ years experience, I would not stop a student using any of these phrases. They are examples of informal language which can be more than appropriate in casual settings. I would say you are highlighting cultural and regional differences in how English is used in different places especially when you come to informal language. Your "bathroom" is my "toilet" if I'm being formal, otherwise it's "dunny," "loo," "bog house," etc. 😀
Thank you for sharing this informative and engaging English lesson on phrases that are considered mean or rude. it's really helpful to learn about such expressions, not for usage, but for better understanding of English in various contexts like TV shows, movies, or everyday interactions. your approach to teaching, with clear example and explanation, makes it much easier for learners to grasp these concepTs. that's a very useful lesson. the same word or phrase can sound rude to native and quite mild and innocent to english learners, so it is good to point out all the shades of emotions or directness these phrases convey. one of the phrases i that to learn the sound of, was 'why don't you..' which may seem like a question requiring an answer, with a dash of patronizing tone, but turns out to be more of a suggestive statement sentences and
@@hykahc Oh, I see. Money is everything to you, isn't it?And not everything is measured in money in this world🙂 Hopefully, not all people are like you, mercantile Bro.
Thank you very much. I am from Ukraine in Canada for 9 months and with the help of your lessons I started to understand the language better. Your English lessons help me learn English, which is important to me. thank you
I am an optician and the mean things I have ever heard from the clients are: 1. Where are those glasses made? Are they all from China? It is unfair;2. So you do not wanna my business (after I explained that unfortunately there is no Dr available for eye exam today.) worse than that an insult like this “then why you are here by helping me not at all? “There are kinda people they might have a terrible day and would like to ruin other’s as well. I would like to stop the contagious spread by being nice but firm in response and by not taking it to my heart.
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To be honest, I'm British and I'd be perfectly happy saying anyone of these phrases to a friend, and perfectly happy to have them said to me. It's not so much about the phrases, but more about the situation and context. A lot of people don't really realise that this is how we are. We insult each other and not only do we usually not take it seriously, it tells us a lot about our friendships and relationships. If a person can insult you and you don't really mind, then you must be friends. It can sometimes be difficult for other people to figure out as I've had a few people visit me from other countries and they often thought people were fighting/arguing, but they were just winding each other up. Maybe the most risky out of the lot is to say "You're in a bad mood" because if they're not, then it's a surefire way to put them in one 😆
This is a stupid function of your culture. Rudeness is not a good indicator of friendship, it’s just rude. Its very common in blue collar industries to have the same type of culture, and when I got into that industry, I could see that this is just for people who have trouble expressing their true affections for their friends and family by hiding behind insults and jokes. But when someone actually gets hurt when two people are *essentially* playing with knives, then it’s ok to say “oh sorry, I know we’re playing with knives but obviously I didn’t mean to cut you or stab you!” Don’t play with knives. It’s stupid.
@@Kingcrowntown Rudeness is only rude if it is interpreted that way by the reciever. What certainly is rude is trying to impose your way onto others. So, if we like to have that kind of banter with friends and work colleages, Who are you to tell us that we are wrong ? Rudeness is subjective. What one person considers rude another may not. Also, pretty coincidental that while you call out rudeness your first line is to try and insult a persons culture. Pretty rude, huh ? Luckily we're not overly sensitive about such things, maybe we've been toughened up a little by all the insults that we've had to put up with from our friends over the years. Instead of crying about it and getting offended we just laugh at it and move on..
I haven't seen any English teacher warning US about some mean phrases. Thanks a lot Bob anda God bless You.
It is amazing how polite this men is if these phazes are the rudest he knows!
Bob is the perfect example of Canadian being too nice.
what ever!
He’s a nutbag
Hello Bob I am from Poland and I enjoy learning the English language with you. Your brilliant idea to teach outside and that is so liberating, plus showing important sentences on the screen is very important for visual memory. I'm always waiting for your new episodes.
Tusk's bad news, full stop.
Thanks a lot Mrs Bob you are very kind in teaching and so helpful
Bob, I am very grateful for this lesson. You explained with examples important culture English manners. It is so important for people, who was not born in English country, like me, so we didn't have English speaking father and mother who could explain us these delicate shades of meaning.
I had an situation on my workplace, when I had to make with my co-worker a presentation together. My salary depended on this presentation. I was very nervious because it was my first time and English is not my first language. On ther other side, my collegue was native. I asked his help, if I forgot a few words accidentally and made a break in my speech to help me. I warned him that it was very important for me. First part of presentation from my collegue was fantastic, my second part was not bad. But, people started to ask additional questions to clarify some details. In one moment, I realised that I couldn't explain because I just didn't know these technical details. I organised a break and asked my co-worker help me and explain nuances to people, because it was 100% his area of competency. But, he refused to help me. He told, you should do it youself cause it is your part of presentation.
I was so furious with him. Firstly, I didn't know how I could explain something if I didn't know this subject. Also, I couldn't know how to explain him that he is not right. So, at that moment I forgot all my polite English😢 and told him loudly and directly, 'You are useless'.
At last, I found the way to finish this presentation in a decent way. However, we were not talking with each other for 2 months.
Thank you for giving the alternative phrases for this situation. The last thing I want to do is to be rude with someone, but unfortinately, the study English book teach us to be polite and always agree and not teach us how negotaite and sometimes refuse somebody polite way.
WOW, thank you for being so polite, I mean it :) I live in a country where half of the population constantly speaks to eachother in rude, impatient, irritated tones and they think that's just normal, polite speaking 🙈 The reason being they've never heard anything else so they don't know any better. Talk about culture shock to me..
I love the way you teach English Mr.Bob the Canadian. Your English is very clear and beautiful which I love to listen to you! Thank you very much and I appreciate you for all your hard work to teach us English. ❤😅😊
I am Jafar from Afghanistan, living in Japan right now.
Hi there I need your help 😢
Thanks, Bob! for teaching these interesting phrases. This was an interesting one! Although I was expecting the phrases to be a little more rude hahaha 🤣
Thanks Bob for the nice lesson, now we can be more respectful to other people yes what you had said is true we have to be nice with each other , well done sir have a nice time
That's a very useful lesson. The same word or phrase can sound rude to natives and quite mild and innocent to English learners, so it is good to point out all the shades of emotions or directness these phrases convey. One of the phrases that I just had to learn the sound of, was 'why don't you...' - which may seem like a question requiring an answer, with a dash of patronizing tone, but it turns out to be more of a suggestive statement.
Many people have told me things like that and I just laugh happily Sometimes people ask me why I smile like that and I can only answer because I don't understand what they are saying
Record 62:I told you so!,Grow up!,good for nothing,Whatever!,useless,wake up!,We don't have all day!,This is disgusting!,You snooze,you lose!,WOw!,You're in a bad mood today.
This is not my cup of tea!
saved me a lot of time
Bob you have a good video ! Your Canadian accent is very good , it makes easy for us to learn english ...I also loved the place you did the video !
You are very color coordinated today Bob! I love all the gray. Even the beard, haha! Thanks for the lesson. Cheers!
Grey from top to bottom! 😎🏋🌲
Hi teacher Bob! 🖐️😎
Even if we don't use some phrases, they are useful to know. Thank you for this very fun and useful lesson. By the way, the view of the dark sky in the background was wonderful. 💯♥️😎👍
Have a good day! Bye 👋😊💐🌹💙
Always really useful video. Thank you Bob!
I think "whatever" means something like "I find this absurd/unfair but I will comply grudgingly because I have no choice" or "you are being absurd but I won't bother explaining to you why".
Another great video, Bob. You've knocked it out of the park yet again!
Thank you Bob! Very good! From Brazil 🇧🇷
Thanks Teacher Bob ! your lessons are really helpful.
But wrong.
What ?
Many thanks to Bob. These phrases and idioms sound simple and easy to Native speakers. In fact, many EFL teachers even don't know how to use them precisely.
Well done. Peace with you.🍒🍓🍎🍗🍖🍔
Mr. Bob l'm in Toronto as a visitor. I love your method of teaching.
Thabk you dear teacher.
Please do more of such videos.
I find them to be extremely useful
Thank you for this video. I don’t think I should use any of the rude phrases you have just taught us. 🎉😊
I really didn't know that "Whatever" has a bad meaning 😮 Thanks for this useful lesson, Bob
it will depends on the context. not always it will have a bad meaning. chillex
My husband says it to me all the time. I have expressed how it makes me feel but it does not matter to him at all. He merely explains that growing up it was acceptable to talk that way. He's a real prince.
@@joycamp7451your pfp is cool
It's the first Time l learn it's négative meaning
It's very dismissive. Rejecting what you've just said and not taking you seriously. @@joycamp7451
¡Estoy encantada con este canal tan puntual y explicativo! Muchas gracias por tanto, aprendo demasiado aquí.
Best teacher I ever watch. Clearly explaination and with good example
As always ! Useful thanks Bob
From each according to his ability, yeah, Bob? I hope,you share this wisdom, dear teacher...
Bob! Thank you so much for your nice English sentences and tips to become a polite English speaker. But already lots of native English speakers used to adopt what you pointed out when they speak to non-English users. Most of them were Americans who didn't know how to say polite. They are very mean. Moreover, some of them say a few salty words or four words to non-English speakers on social media or websites if they can't speak English fluently. Not to mention, that's a kind of racial discrimination. That's the problem of native English speakers toward non-English speakers when they hear broken English. Native speakers shouldn't use those rude words in the first place in front of non-English speakers first.
Hello Bob ...very interesting and informative video especially for non native speakers because they might hear them from native speakers and might use them here and there. Question do you have suggestions for "polite alternative" for some of them at least ?
Oh thank you Bob, you are just such a nice guy!
Thanks for these phrases, a few was new to me. I should rewatch it even though I am behind watching your videos hence last Saturday I planned to watch your Friday stream but with no avail. My internet connection gave up. A cord got pulled out of the modem. I found it out only in the evening but I had to go to work. I work in 12 hrs shifts nowadays. Hard. I'll watch your Friday lesson tomorrow evening. I hope you are all right.
Amazing video, Bob, once again. Thanks. The one who snoozes on the branch, does not get the worm. 😂
Thanks. Bob. What phrases would you use when someone is interrupting you or you need to step out at work or study? Thanks
I'm glad Sensei Bob is recovering. This is a great lesson.
Thank you for sharing this informative and engaging English lesson on phrases that are considered mean or rude. It's really helpful to learn about such expressions, not for usage, but for better understanding of English in various contexts like TV shows, movies, or everyday interactions. Your approach to teaching, with clear examples and explanations, makes it much easier for learners to grasp these concepts.
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I agree "That (food) is disgusting" is rude. All the other phases seem to be Honest and Realistic observations that need to be expressed. When "Whatever" is used it has one of two very different meanings. One is "the person saying it (like the student with the calculator/phone out) is admitting to being wrong, not knowing what is going on, and doesn't care about the concerns of the group." A second meaning is "your objection is noted, but it is insignificant and let's move forward with our plan/action."
You snooze, you lose! In my family we often say it as a joke. Now I know how (not) to say it in English😅 Thanks Bob!
It can be funny to say at times! 😎🏋🌲
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You are a kind teacher. Kindness is good when used to treat good people. What do you think our education now? Schools don't teach Constitution but CRT, Idendity, and many garbages. I used to respect school teachers, not any more.
This is very interesting
And SO important for English learners
Thank you for this
Thanks Bob. The Mean and Rude English Phrases are always interesting. 😆
Hi Bob. Could you please tell us what do you usually say to your students every time they talk rude in the classroom?Thanks
Thank you very much,Bob.
❤❤❤❤ Phenomena l, humorous Bob. Thanks.❤❤❤❤
The best teacher!!!! Take care Bob!
This video is one more confirmation of the Canadian politeness 😁 From the title, I was expecting kind of stuff you can see in the Urban Dictionary.
Thank you Bob I love this lesson ❤
what a cool way to teach these useful phrases , well done :)
Thank you, Bob
You are a good teacher
Would "Grow up" mean the same as "Act your age"
Thank you
I totally agree on these. It was very interesting watching this. Sometimes, I tell some words very directly. 😄
Thank you for the interesting lesson! Greetings from Ukraine
As an ESL teacher of 15+ years experience, I would not stop a student using any of these phrases. They are examples of informal language which can be more than appropriate in casual settings.
I would say you are highlighting cultural and regional differences in how English is used in different places especially when you come to informal language.
Your "bathroom" is my "toilet" if I'm being formal, otherwise it's "dunny," "loo," "bog house," etc. 😀
Mr Bob, huge thanks for the lesson 🙏
Great examples. Thanks a lot
Thank you Bob👍
Very useful phrases ❤❤❤
Excellent as usual ❤ Taking much pleasure from your lessons, Bob 🎉 Please keep doing that for us 💕💕💕
Thanks a bunch!
You're welcome Mahdi! 😎🏋🌲
Thanks for another great lesson, Bob :)!
My pleasure! 😎🏋🌲
Awesome as always! Bob can teach you the Canadian politeness 🙂
Thank you for sharing this informative and engaging English lesson on phrases that are considered mean or rude. it's really helpful to learn about such expressions, not for usage, but for better understanding of English in various contexts like TV shows, movies, or everyday interactions. your approach to teaching, with clear example and explanation, makes it much easier for learners to grasp these concepTs.
that's a very useful lesson. the same word or phrase can sound rude to native and quite mild and innocent to english learners, so it is good to point out all the shades of emotions or directness these phrases convey. one of the phrases i that to learn the sound of, was 'why don't you..' which may seem like a question requiring an answer, with a dash of patronizing tone, but turns out to be more of a suggestive statement sentences and
Thanks for your lessons. They are very useful
It definitely looks like a first aid kit for a teacher 😁 I've been using some of them in class and now gonna use the others, too 😉 Big thanks, Bob🤝
if you really want to give big thanks, just type super thanks and give money =_=
@@hykahc Oh, I see. Money is everything to you, isn't it?And not everything is measured in money in this world🙂 Hopefully, not all people are like you, mercantile Bro.
쌤 너무 귀여워요 😄
Thank you for informative video!
Hi Bob..thank you so much for charing😊
Thank you very much. I am from Ukraine in Canada for 9 months and with the help of your lessons I started to understand the language better. Your English lessons help me learn English, which is important to me. thank you
Excellent explanation
Perfect. Thank you
Thanks Teacher Bob 👍
I am an optician and the mean things I have ever heard from the clients are: 1. Where are those glasses made? Are they all from China? It is unfair;2. So you do not wanna my business (after I explained that unfortunately there is no Dr available for eye exam today.) worse than that an insult like this “then why you are here by helping me not at all? “There are kinda people they might have a terrible day and would like to ruin other’s as well. I would like to stop the contagious spread by being nice but firm in response and by not taking it to my heart.
Thanks and have nice day
very useful, thanks.
Really great video!!!
Excellent! as always...
It's all about learning self respect and control our manners before others can respect us.
Nice video ~thanks so much
Thank you so mach!!! 👍
You're welcome! 😎🏋🌲
Thanks for the advises
Sir you teach everyone should and one should uses
Very useful lesson. I've heard (and said) some of this expressions😊.....so I've learnt how to use it..or not
Thanks a lot!
You know Bob I'll be honest with you
You are unique. I think I'll learn english from you easily and quickly
Hello Bob! Thank you for the video. Could you please in the next videos show key phrases a little bit longer on the screen?
I will make a note of that. Thanks for the feedback! 😎🏋🌲
Thanks. You told me so!
Good morning my Teacher How's your weekend are you doing well thanks so much for help us
I had a good weekend. Thanks for asking! 😎🏋🌲
@@LearnEnglishwithBobtheCanadian that's great teacher may I ask you please
Thanks for your efforts
You’re just awesome!❤❤❤❤
The same thing in my country we says all this😂😂❤ thanks teacher Bob
I'm a new suscirber of this youtube channel, I'm not canadian and I'm trying to learn some english because is important. Anyway thanks Bob!
Thank you so much!!!❤
Thank you very much teacher, in the cold weather of late autumn in Kurdistan
Useful words and phrases)
A lot of love from Bangladesh ❤❤❤❤
Thanks! 😎🏋🌲
thank you so much for your help :D
I like this parson, he teaches me English.
Thanks for watching. I like you too! 😎🏋🌲
Thank you!
Thank you i learned a lot here