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Thanks for the audio tip👍🏼. As a person with ADHD, my focus kept getting hijacked by the animation. I’m a visual learner and would’ve benefited from some of the graphics here. But not the constant drawing in process for each little detail of the audio. I like coloring and drawing so I kept getting caught up in that. IE: instead of drawing out the a person with a checklist, just show the checklist and maybe animate when items get checked off…. Just animation that is less busy. Another suggestion to help people like myself better absorb the information: slow down the playback speed to .75. As long as the slower speed doesn’t make the narrator sound like they’d had a few too many cocktails before recording the video, it helps me tremendously.
These videos have really changed my life, I find it easier to manage my work and plan my life. I have a whole different perspective about how I deal with different situations and individuals. Thank you❤🙏
Hi Elvin, I love how you put it together for us and I’m learning a lot. Thank you. If I could I’ve one request, is there anyway you could change your white board to a different color? It’s just too bright when we watch at night. 🙏❤ keep up the good work. We subscribed you on every device we have
Honestly, I’m in love with your videos. Very informative and I never get bored. Plus honestly, you’re the only channel that I put the notification on as im eager for more videos. GOD bless you.
Hey @littlebitbetter7 I just wanted to drop by and say that I really enjoy your content! Your videos always bring a smile to my face and inspire me to pursue my own passions. Your dedication, creativity, and authenticity shine through in every video, and it's evident that you genuinely care about your audience. Keep up the fantastic work, and know that you have a supportive and grateful community cheering you on! Looking forward to what you have in store for us next. Stay amazing!
You're better off not caring what people think when it comes to you being too "honest"....Majority of society are weak and are easily programmed by the media and word-of-mouth. Push forward with your goals. Once people start admiring you, those who said you're too "honest" will come running to "support you" Lol!
But why should one want people to admire or "come running"? I would hate that. I totally agree with the comment about people easily are affected on media etc. Propaganda from interest organisations ae making humans dumber. Before we used "wikipedia" or similar,nowadays cant see/understand the difference between interest organisations and scientific organisations. Its scary.
Um, no. Don't expect them to come running to support you. Is that what you hope for? In my experience they'll avoid you, perhaps embarrassed they didn't believe you at the time. Remember all the truth tellers during covid?
"Being to Honest!" Sounds like word play for ripping people apart to achieve goals and then when you have trauma bonded them in a vocational sense, you wait for them to crawl back after being ripped apart lol. If I'm wrong, forgive me. Emotional intelligence is knowing to not abuse people: from any level, for any reason.
"Being to Honest!" Sounds like word play for ripping people apart to achieve goals and then when you have trauma bonded them in a vocational sense, you wait for them to crawl back after being ripped apart lol. If I'm wrong, forgive me. Emotional intelligence is knowing to not abuse people: from any level, for any reason.
One day it occurred to me there is a right combination of words, tone, and body language to get you anything you want. “It’s not WHAT you say, it’s HOW you say it!”
Unfortunally, a lot of people belive they can whine , cry,scream , threaten etc,to get what they want. Thats a thing one have learned from small child. People dont repeat what doesnt work. So,at one point, one got what one wanted, from such bad behaviour. And thats a clear picture on how important parenting is.
Hi this is very good summary on the books and gives much insights. It would be great if you could do the bulletpoints of main topics in the video as recap. thanks again!
Yeah Thumbs UP You got me to Subscribe at chauffeur knowledge, I loved that story, even my driver knows.. but I see much of this every day, I do love when people really really know what they are talking about.. Awesome video thanks for sharing, great work... 😊
I am totally with Clint Eastwood's philosophy of "Don't just do something: stand there!" Especially when it comes to doctors. Most of the reason I don't go to see doctors anymore is that they say "I don't know, but there's a cream (pill, shot, surgery) we can try!" and it either makes my health worse directly or indirectly, when I can't afford good food as a result of joining in the crowd-funding their next vacation.
I believe "self serving biased " is one of the greatest issues suffered by the majority of society today. When something goes wrong , most people look for someone (other then themselves) to blame. In addition, sometimes there is no one to blame. Sometimes bad stuff just happens with no one to blame and a large portion of people can't accept that and need to find someone to let anger out on to make themselves feel "off the hook". If they could learn to accept that sometimes bad stuff happens and learn to let it go, there would be a lot less angry confrontations in the world. Just my 2 cents 😁
6:22 disagree on that on as an I/O psychologist. Cognitive ability is the most significant predictor of job performance. Know-how is something you can always gain and acquire, IF your cognitive abilities such as learning ability, reasoning and analytical thinking etc are good.
Thanks a million you are amazing 🎉🎉 The only channel my notification is on and i follow a lot of self improvement channel's .... Can you please recommend some good and honest social media influencers for business....
What a wonderful job you're doing. Instead of saying "most people chose option A" would be better said, "... chose option A which is ---". Since its summary usually ideas go too fast. But its ok. I can rewind 😂.
Im always getting in trouble for not remembering the work i did through the week because after i finish with it i forget it and move on! Now I have a name for it! Zeigarnik effect!
I feel like our entire society has become entranced with “chauffeur knowledge”. Those who put on the best show are believed over those who actually know their stuff. It’s disheartening.
I found that when you know somebody well enough about him or her. "I know what you are going to do next. I expect you to jump on the quick buck opportunity. But this time leave me out. You have not figured out tomorrow is the day after you burned that bridge."
My wife and I agree that we would be annoyed with both examples of getting someone to do the dishes. Both options are just passive/aggressive commands and still kill a lot of the merit/incentive. Also, the example of "toxic honesty" isn't necessarily toxic. If you need someone to dance around things and be gentle with being honest with you... that might be more a reflection of your inability to take objective criticism. If someone is making critiques that aren't actionable or blatantly non-objective then THAT would be toxic. Being blunt doesn't = toxic in and of itself.
The problem with the "Self-serving bias" is when you turn it upside down and blame yourself for everything in your life. Sometimes thing are not in your control.
Because of my divorce from a clinical narcissist, I still take all the blame when things go bad and attribute everything good to my current bf. I know it’s equal, but it’s hard to attribute anything good to myself.
i feel like there was an error in the chauffer knowledge part of the illustration. can't quite put my finger on it, still in the process of waking up, but something about it is making my co-conscience cry
Hello: if my memory serves me well, the creator has mentioned that his videos are in different languages. Does anyone know how to get to those videos? Thank you.
@@hogg_inthagame4615 thank you so much for your reply, I looked as you suggested (great idea) but I still haven’t been able to find his material in different languages.
Can you Tell me “as a native speaker” how can I learn your language? I really like your content and your thoughts and I want to hear from the natives speakers perception about learning their language
It’ll cost some money but Pimsleur is FANTASTIC. A native English speaker learning a Slavic language (Russian) is very challenging. Couldn’t have done it w/o them!!
What if I don’t have self serving bias and just found that out right now because I would say that typically I probably do… but the test I did well on I remember being really anxious because it was my first day after being moved from the 6th grade math class to the 8th grade math class and it was one of those multiplication quizzes and the teacher announced to everyone I was the only one to get 100% lol I was so embarrassed because why would you announce that I’m a nerd on my first day 🤣 The text that I did bad on I literally got ever song answer right but failed because I’m an idiot and I wrote the answers in moving left to right instead of in columns. I was too anxious to tell the teacher so I took the F. Especially since they were numbered and I just feel like that’s such a dumbass thing to do.
Strange that they say the memory is deleted. Memory's of everything we se and experienced is forever stored in ower subconscious mind. What she should say is that it's moved from ower contusions mind to the subconscious.
I almost feel like I'm wasting my time based on the content of this post. The server stores information in quickly accessible but short-term packets. It's more like a grocery list than a memory. There's not really any need to remember what you bought last time. That the server doesn't seem to even recognize her suggests even more compartmentalization. She was just a position (place holder) in a specific mental space.
@spectralprospectus i know how it works. I just say that is not deleted. It's just moved deep down in ur subconscious. And things that we move to the subconscious mind will be harder to access.
Nice, but still not thinking clearly, maybe coffee will clear my foggy head, which I assumed this was about...thumb up tho, tho the title is a Psychological Trap
Not that it matters but that example is soccer not football. And yes I know they call soccer football in a lot of other countries but it's more of a general term not the name of the game.
I get the analogy and everything but red bull and coca cola are not the same kind of drink. People drink these for diffrent reasons. Thats like comparing coffee with tea.
goalkeeper example is dead wrong... The goal keepers learn to read the players. Good Goalkeepers block Penalties well above the average. Football/soccer is NOT a game of chance.
Don't fall for it. Just look at the review accounts - they're fake. You better off buying a Powerball ticket. At least you know exactly where your money went.
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Thanks for the audio tip👍🏼. As a person with ADHD, my focus kept getting hijacked by the animation. I’m a visual learner and would’ve benefited from some of the graphics here. But not the constant drawing in process for each little detail of the audio. I like coloring and drawing so I kept getting caught up in that. IE: instead of drawing out the a person with a checklist, just show the checklist and maybe animate when items get checked off…. Just animation that is less busy. Another suggestion to help people like myself better absorb the information: slow down the playback speed to .75. As long as the slower speed doesn’t make the narrator sound like they’d had a few too many cocktails before recording the video, it helps me tremendously.
Really well presented and excellent tone of voice brilliant ⭐️
These videos have really changed my life, I find it easier to manage my work and plan my life. I have a whole different perspective about how I deal with different situations and individuals. Thank you❤🙏
Excellent content!
Amazing content! We really need to be aware and conscious of these traps to successfully break out of them!
Hi Elvin, I love how you put it together for us and I’m learning a lot. Thank you. If I could I’ve one request, is there anyway you could change your white board to a different color? It’s just too bright when we watch at night. 🙏❤ keep up the good work. We subscribed you on every device we have
Love ur videos ❤
Honestly, I’m in love with your videos. Very informative and I never get bored. Plus honestly, you’re the only channel that I put the notification on as im eager for more videos. GOD bless you.
Really love point 6. resonated with me big time!
Hey @littlebitbetter7 I just wanted to drop by and say that I really enjoy your content! Your videos always bring a smile to my face and inspire me to pursue my own passions. Your dedication, creativity, and authenticity shine through in every video, and it's evident that you genuinely care about your audience. Keep up the fantastic work, and know that you have a supportive and grateful community cheering you on! Looking forward to what you have in store for us next. Stay amazing!
You're better off not caring what people think when it comes to you being too "honest"....Majority of society are weak and are easily programmed by the media and word-of-mouth. Push forward with your goals. Once people start admiring you, those who said you're too "honest" will come running to "support you" Lol!
But why should one want people to admire or "come running"?
I would hate that.
I totally agree with the comment about people easily are affected on media etc.
Propaganda from interest organisations ae making humans dumber. Before we used "wikipedia" or similar,nowadays cant see/understand the difference between interest organisations and scientific organisations.
Its scary.
Um, no. Don't expect them to come running to support you. Is that what you hope for? In my experience they'll avoid you, perhaps embarrassed they didn't believe you at the time. Remember all the truth tellers during covid?
"Being to Honest!" Sounds like word play for ripping people apart to achieve goals and then when you have trauma bonded them in a vocational sense, you wait for them to crawl back after being ripped apart lol. If I'm wrong, forgive me. Emotional intelligence is knowing to not abuse people: from any level, for any reason.
"Being to Honest!" Sounds like word play for ripping people apart to achieve goals and then when you have trauma bonded them in a vocational sense, you wait for them to crawl back after being ripped apart lol. If I'm wrong, forgive me. Emotional intelligence is knowing to not abuse people: from any level, for any reason.
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Very impressive summary on the books and super helpful. I'm gonna close one door today.
One day it occurred to me there is a right combination of words, tone, and body language to get you anything you want.
“It’s not WHAT you say, it’s HOW you say it!”
Unfortunally, a lot of people belive they can whine , cry,scream , threaten etc,to get what they want.
Thats a thing one have learned from small child. People dont repeat what doesnt work. So,at one point, one got what one wanted, from such bad behaviour.
And thats a clear picture on how important parenting is.
You get more with honey than vinegar. People react better to calm, friendly delivery of what ver message you're trying to convey.
❤I love your content 🎉😊❤
Hi this is very good summary on the books and gives much insights. It would be great if you could do the bulletpoints of main topics in the video as recap. thanks again!
The first 😢😢😊
I’d like to see too!
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Beautiful, engaging, intelligent presentation. Thank you.
Thanks. Your video helped me ❤.
Yeah Thumbs UP You got me to Subscribe at chauffeur knowledge, I loved that story, even my driver knows.. but I see much of this every day, I do love when people really really know what they are talking about.. Awesome video thanks for sharing, great work... 😊
Wow ! That was really good info. Thanks. . I think a quick 1 or a couple word review at the end would be a good idea.
My MILis expertise in this ,it's my favourite you made it so easy,well-done ,can't wait Jay🙂
Very well explained. Thank you 💕
I am totally with Clint Eastwood's philosophy of "Don't just do something: stand there!" Especially when it comes to doctors. Most of the reason I don't go to see doctors anymore is that they say "I don't know, but there's a cream (pill, shot, surgery) we can try!" and it either makes my health worse directly or indirectly, when I can't afford good food as a result of joining in the crowd-funding their next vacation.
There are good doctors, try to find one.
More, More, More on this please!!!
Very smart
This is very helpful thanks
I believe "self serving biased " is one of the greatest issues suffered by the majority of society today. When something goes wrong , most people look for someone (other then themselves) to blame. In addition, sometimes there is no one to blame. Sometimes bad stuff just happens with no one to blame and a large portion of people can't accept that and need to find someone to let anger out on to make themselves feel "off the hook". If they could learn to accept that sometimes bad stuff happens and learn to let it go, there would be a lot less angry confrontations in the world. Just my 2 cents 😁
I just love it here ❤
Great video again!
New sub, thank you for your insight 🐾🐶🇦🇺✌️🌄🦘🌅
6:22 disagree on that on as an I/O psychologist. Cognitive ability is the most significant predictor of job performance. Know-how is something you can always gain and acquire, IF your cognitive abilities such as learning ability, reasoning and analytical thinking etc are good.
Thanks for sharing
Thanks a million you are amazing 🎉🎉
The only channel my notification is on and i follow a lot of self improvement channel's ....
Can you please recommend some good and honest social media influencers for business....
Your channel is full of Chauffeur knowledge
What a wonderful job you're doing.
Instead of saying "most people chose option A" would be better said, "... chose option A which is ---". Since its summary usually ideas go too fast. But its ok. I can rewind 😂.
In regards to most things, the median tends to be more important than the average as most things are on a spectrum
Amazing content 👏✨
I would say reliability and knowledgeable and always have room for improvement That will sum it up
Good work 🎉❤
Awesome
👏👍 11:55 Thank you for sharing.
Im always getting in trouble for not remembering the work i did through the week because after i finish with it i forget it and move on! Now I have a name for it! Zeigarnik effect!
I need more 🥰🖤
the illusion of averages explains very well the reason for the financial collapses...kudos for that.
That comic book drawing was cute for about 5 minutes the first time I saw it years ago.
You have a beautiful voice
I’m still waiting the part where the student’s scarf is found 😢
7 ?
Nice 😄
I feel like our entire society has become entranced with “chauffeur knowledge”. Those who put on the best show are believed over those who actually know their stuff. It’s disheartening.
Wow 😲
Isn't chauffer knowledge the same as Peter principle?
you are so underrated
I found that when you know somebody well enough about him or her.
"I know what you are going to do next.
I expect you to jump on the quick buck opportunity. But this time leave me out.
You have not figured out tomorrow is the day after you burned that bridge."
My wife and I agree that we would be annoyed with both examples of getting someone to do the dishes. Both options are just passive/aggressive commands and still kill a lot of the merit/incentive.
Also, the example of "toxic honesty" isn't necessarily toxic. If you need someone to dance around things and be gentle with being honest with you... that might be more a reflection of your inability to take objective criticism.
If someone is making critiques that aren't actionable or blatantly non-objective then THAT would be toxic. Being blunt doesn't = toxic in and of itself.
Zeigarnik effect doset work because before I do a test, I forget the answer, but after I finished I remember all the answers.
I like how she said. Why did I trust him so personally like is there something you want to say there lol
The problem with the "Self-serving bias" is when you turn it upside down and blame yourself for everything in your life. Sometimes thing are not in your control.
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Good video. Who is this artist?
Because of my divorce from a clinical narcissist, I still take all the blame when things go bad and attribute everything good to my current bf. I know it’s equal, but it’s hard to attribute anything good to myself.
Lol I need these friends because I don’t even make 1/2 of the guy making the least in that scenario
Mic Drop!!!!
i feel like there was an error in the chauffer knowledge part of the illustration. can't quite put my finger on it, still in the process of waking up, but something about it is making my co-conscience cry
and i'm talking about matters outside of simply agreeing/disagreeing. for the record, i disagree
Hello: if my memory serves me well, the creator has mentioned that his videos are in different languages. Does anyone know how to get to those videos? Thank you.
Try her playlists.
@@hogg_inthagame4615 thank you so much for your reply, I looked as you suggested (great idea) but I still haven’t been able to find his material in different languages.
Aren't parents teaching these things to their kids any longer? Wow, that just might explain some of the larger problems facing us all.
She presents Choefier (however you spell it) Knowledge :)
When you realise the two options at the end of the video is a psychological trap, you know you're learning!
Good to know I don't have a self serving bias
Why didn't the thumbnail figure in the lesson?
You just described Stoasism
It would be interesting to know what the psychological reason “some people” have to shout at the top of their lungs when narrating their videos…
Can you Tell me “as a native speaker” how can I learn your language? I really like your content and your thoughts and I want to hear from the natives speakers perception about learning their language
Use Duolingo app I use it to learn French. Which language do you want to learn? I can help you learn some English
@@lofiguuy I use it in the beginning, My English is not the perfect I can understand what’s people says but it’s still so basic and simple
@@Nothing9_ Continue learning by practicing, You'll get better 👍
@@lofiguuy thank you 💗
It’ll cost some money but Pimsleur is FANTASTIC. A native English speaker learning a Slavic language (Russian) is very challenging. Couldn’t have done it w/o them!!
What if I don’t have self serving bias and just found that out right now because I would say that typically I probably do… but the test I did well on I remember being really anxious because it was my first day after being moved from the 6th grade math class to the 8th grade math class and it was one of those multiplication quizzes and the teacher announced to everyone I was the only one to get 100% lol I was so embarrassed because why would you announce that I’m a nerd on my first day 🤣
The text that I did bad on I literally got ever song answer right but failed because I’m an idiot and I wrote the answers in moving left to right instead of in columns. I was too anxious to tell the teacher so I took the F. Especially since they were numbered and I just feel like that’s such a dumbass thing to do.
Strange that they say the memory is deleted. Memory's of everything we se and experienced is forever stored in ower subconscious mind. What she should say is that it's moved from ower contusions mind to the subconscious.
I almost feel like I'm wasting my time based on the content of this post.
The server stores information in quickly accessible but short-term packets. It's more like a grocery list than a memory. There's not really any need to remember what you bought last time.
That the server doesn't seem to even recognize her suggests even more compartmentalization. She was just a position (place holder) in a specific mental space.
@spectralprospectus i know how it works. I just say that is not deleted. It's just moved deep down in ur subconscious. And things that we move to the subconscious mind will be harder to access.
What does that thing in the thumbnail mean?
4:36
Nice, but still not thinking clearly, maybe coffee will clear my foggy head, which I assumed this was about...thumb up tho, tho the title is a Psychological Trap
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Dunno, coffee might fog your head up even more
can someone tell how this type of drawing video made
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Not that it matters but that example is soccer not football. And yes I know they call soccer football in a lot of other countries but it's more of a general term not the name of the game.
The examples given 4 the facts r kinda funny
median > average
This is how babies and dogs keep getting left into cars to die. 🤦♂️🤦♂️
I get the analogy and everything but red bull and coca cola are not the same kind of drink. People drink these for diffrent reasons. Thats like comparing coffee with tea.
So many ads😢
I thought that joke was from Albert Einstein
why is it another person?
the chauffeur joke
Who does does the drawings
??Open-Mindedness?? Share this new information? So that you can carefully thoroughly dissect it with answering any & all questions.
Meg… is that you? 😳
Isn't this all what they use to call Good old fashioned 'Common sense'
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goalkeeper example is dead wrong... The goal keepers learn to read the players. Good Goalkeepers block Penalties well above the average. Football/soccer is NOT a game of chance.
I only came here to know what it means to hold your hands at your back😅
Aaaaa well that’s NOT football !..
What When Where😮😅😊
Hi goal keeper dive depends on what foot the kicker is using
Soccer*
Run away!
Unfortunately the drivers story is not true...
Lost me at the football example
Don't fall for it. Just look at the review accounts - they're fake. You better off buying a Powerball ticket. At least you know exactly where your money went.