parentification

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Your childhood has a large impact on your struggles in adulthood. Lots of people have had a childhood they have NOT had to recover from but lots have.
Parentification is not just a parent talking to their child about adult things it is about including the child as if they are an adult in the family system.
Parentification is when a childs has to step in to shoes that are greater than they can fill to feel safe within a family.
Parentification is harmful but its also not widley known what it is which means it goes so unnoticed. It leads to it being passed donw through generations and know one knows the harm it causes and know one knows what they are doing.
healing comes when we reconise what has happened and how to change things or understand things from a greater perspective.
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Thank you for this video i resonate so much with it, it’s made me realise a lot - seriously I cannot thank you enough xxx

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My mother would tell me that when she ultimately k!lled herself because she couldn't stand living with my father, I'd have to become my older brother's and younger disabled sisters "mommy"...that I'd be responsible for caring for them and running the household. She also said that she didn't envy me one bit when this day finally came and I'd be better off ending myself now. I was eight years old when she told me all this. 😒