Marriage is not only about falling in love with someone but the most important thing it is about building a family and ready to take the responsibility. Marriage build base on taqwa will get blessing from Allah, innshaaAllah and will last till jannah.
وعليكم السلام ورحمة الله وبركاته. To know problems muslim woman face,look at Uyigur woman. May Allah reward them for their steadfastness and give them a speedy remedy.
Happy to see u again Samantha.when two persons are connected,it's always for a reason, love,money, tradition for some part of the world,financial need's for others and so on.....and if the reason is gone it's the end.but life always go on...always.time heal any wound.
Hi Sam! Indonesian loves you dear sis! Keep spirit! I my self also divorced rightly 10 years ago ( we have no child ) but I believe Allah knows the right thing
your thoughts or concepts are genuine and I admire your mental strength while going through difficult times. Being a muslim, I know that Islam doesnt judge or let people judge on divorce (almost negligible number of people in society may do even though times are changed as you rightly said), divorce has been a possibility in all times as people may not have compatibility as you said. Most importantly, one should settle it decently if a marriage doesnt work and move on, may Allah make it better/easier for you and all those who face this situation, ameen.
Dear Sam , I totally agree with what you said .... And unfortunately , I can mindfully testify with examples of my siblings marriages ! .... Although they all lasted some way or another ! , yet I can honestly say , most of them , are getting more miserable and sour , by the day ! Even what seems to have ended with amending their partners attitudes somehow ! .... Was just too little too late ! , And surely not worth the long years of conflicts and suffering !
My dear sister Samantha... Keep strong.. be patient.. The Almighty Allah Will give best solution for your life... InsyaAllah... Aameen.. From your brother on Jakarta Indonesia...
Assalamoalaikum Sam.I just found u today! Please be patient with me cos I m a very curious type of person.But, I do appreciate ur being so upfront n vocal about ur personal life.The first video of yours I watched was your conversion story ( the one u made in ur car). So, it came as a shock n disappointment when I came across ur divorce video cos in the previous one u seemed so much in love with ur then husband.Its sad, but I m sure, u r Allah's brave soldier.He will never burden u with more than u can bear.Hang in there.Allah ta'ala has a lot of good in store for u.In sha Allah.
Wa'alaykum Salam warrahmatullahi wa barakatuh dear sister Sam, I don't judge you, judge anybody. I love you for the sake of Allah. May Allah give you strength and keep believing in Him that there will be ease in difficulties. Take care Sam😘
Salam Alikoum, Keep going sister take your time , don’t hurry to marry . Find the right person at the right time. ALLAH won’t forget you, HE LOVES YOU more than any one on this earth .
Dear Sam, May Allah help you to find the peace and love with the right man, I know you try to be a better person, just a quick reminder to wear long sleeves when you go out of home, this will complete your Hijab.
May Allah bless you with a husband and children, you are worthy.. I divorced and never thought I would remarry.. here I am 6 years after divorce with another kid and a better partner
Being divorced is nothing to be ashamed of, unfortunately some of the cultures in Muslim countries shame divorced people especially woman....., But in islam that's prohibited, to shame people who got divorced because divorce is a very normal thing in fact the prophet pbuh most of his wives were widows or divorced, islam gave permission to women to divorce if they're getting beaten up or not treated well or they're not getting their needs from their husbands.....
Wa Alikum As Salam! right agree with your thoughts sister. But just one little problem please do cover your arms as you are doing half of hijab right now. Please don't take it as offensive.
I think you make some very good points here. There ARE indeed many more divorces today and many reasons why. What is very clear is the generations before us were constrained by social norms and the stigma of divorce (and there SHOULD be a stigma when a family breaks down ~ it's a tragedy) But the previous generations were not raised in "me me me world" where the individual is king. And the evidence is clear that we have taken a wrong turning on life's superhighway. We have lost any notion of sacrificial love. In Christ we see this on The Cross. And in Ephesians St Paul tells us "Men love your wives as Christ loved The Church". It is really only when we place God at the very centre of our marriage that we understand this sacrificial love. I would be interested to read and hear divorce from men's perspective. We always hear how awful men behave and many really DO behave terribly. But I've witnessed on many occasions in certainly the last decade where things have been quite different in my friends marriages. How ANYONE can remain married in this diabolical age is to me the greatest mystery. And I pray everyday for all married couples and also those whose marriages didn't work out. Thank you for bravely sharing your experience here. Wishing you a peaceful day.
There is even a chapter named divorce in Qur'an (Talak). So it is perfectly normal but sure it is a bit sad experience. We should grow up with our experiences.
"The lawful act that Allah hates the most is thalaq (divorce)" (HR. Abu Dawud and Ibn Majah) Islam is the perfect teaching, Outside of working together in marriage, We must study each of our obligations and rights, especially knowing our OBLIGATIONS which are written in the fiqh of marriage which are sourced from the Qur'an[Who knows what the best for Mankind] and Sunnah.[Who is the best role model for mankind] but because of our selfishness [more demanding rights] our desire dominates which causes it to not work as it should. Every Human being a sinner but we Must always remember Dunya is a test for believers and we all know our most important goal.
كتب الكثير في التعليقات عن رأيه في الزّواج في الإسلام بجهل وَ للأسف دون عِلم شرعي فيه توضيح من الكِتاب و السّنة الشّريفة لهذه العلاقة الجميلة المقدّسة في ديننا .. سوف يأخذ كلّ واحد تعليقه معه إلى اللّه .
I dunno, ive always thought that marriage is more about compromise rather than compatibility... humans aren't perfect and are unique and if people always looked for 100% or even 60% compatibility i dont think a lot of us would be able to marry.... give and take from both sides, tolerance, and patience are what i picture marriage...... then again i was never married (yet inshallah :D)
nothing wrong with your option to not to get back to your previous marriage... its legal in Islam.... just dont separate your kids with their own father... that is only our concern.... the problem only between u and him.... not your kids with him....
People Don't Get Married On Purpose Anymore. Courtship Is A Custom Sorely Missed In Society.If Someone Isnt Committed To The Long Term, You Shouldn't Commit Long Term To Them.......Btw Were Those Cicadas? This Almost Sounded Like An Anime 😁.
islam doesn't shame divorce and there is a whole section that deal with divorce .. if there are people who shame it; it's because it goes to their culture and tradition
I don't love my wife with whome i married 10 years ago have a child also. But cannot hate her she is very good little bit of less carrying that is very sad but i don't hate that also cause i sometimes i get bussy and less carrying. but i don't love her. And i think its same story with her i know she don't hate me but don't love me also. Its not like now its from really start of marriage. Of course i had some issues during all this time but nothing made me to hate her. I don't know if i did big mistakes. i am praying ALLAH will put love in my both of hearts. You may love someone get married and divorced after that. You may love after marriage also. But ALL cases compromise and patience is very important and hard thing.
Of course no patience in abusive marriage case. Get ride of each other. You may get anger very much may have shouted but try to give time to each other. But continuous abuse of either is not acceptable. Get divorce
إنه التقليد الأعمى في كل شئ!.....،ولن يسير الحال على هذا الشكل أبداً. نحن نريد أن نزني فقط كما يزنِ من نراهم على شاشاتنا المضيئة ولكن بطريقة مشروعة، ثم نسميه 'زواج'؛ وهذا لا يقبله شرع أو عقل. لذلك فإن الخلاص الوحيد هو أن نقتل من يزنون أمام أعيننا ونطبق شرع الله وحدوده عليهم
OMG, the bugs in your yard are so offensive as well! 😜 I'm pretty sure that the guy, who advised you to reconcile your marriage, didn't know that your ex was cheating. Sex outside marriage, for Muslims, is one of the major sins that requires divorce and punishment. A Muslim girl must have a "Wali" who represents her in the marriage process. This would let him assess the prospected husband with reason rather than volatile emotions, and warn the girl of any critical aspects of the groom's character. In other words, the Wali prevents manipulating the girl emotionally. The purpose of the Wali is, of course, seeking a stable and happy marriage. I'm saying this to save you from another marriage failure. Thinking that you are a man, and similar junk, makes non-sense in real life. Allah has built us differently to integrate, not to fight. I wish you pick a good Muslim husband next time. You also need to broaden your knowledge of Islam, and be closer to Allah so the He would help you make the right decisions. RUclips friends who always show their admiration are not good guide. You would better talk to and older, more-experienced person for a wise advice. I would suggest talking to sister " Ruba Qewar". She had similar hard-time in her first marriage after she reverted to Islam. Now she's an activist and also got a master degree of Islamic studies, in addition to a previous degree in Biblical scriptures. She has her own RUclips channel.
I know one sister who divorce.. because of political differences She was committed to her political beliefs. And She was divorce twice.. this is general trajectory for lots of revert sisters.. my advice Converts should marry other converts Within their ethnicity.
There is a British revert sisters. Who used to be hijabi.. Please Google Myriam Francois. Her husband change his political side.. she dump him. She try halal dating. Now She is dating in club. Her Islam is gone
A divorce is a divorce. You've been 60 days away from him to detoxify your self from him and him of you. Don't go back to something you've been finished with, especially with your addictive personality. You'll end up damaging yourself or himself. I'm in a relationship and withstanding abuse due to my addictive personality. Even though I know I'm damaging myself I stick around. You're stronger than me because you've finished the 60 day period without relapsing to him. My relapse period with her is 1 day hhh. What helped me the most when I left her for the longest period was speaking to another woman, in an islamic way. In other words behind a veil and in a formal way. I think you need a new partner. Go look for one, to ground you. Also, many muslims don't wear the hijab. The most important thing in Islam is not associating partners with Allah; also your daily prayers and fasting in Ramadan. Also, many non hijabis fear Allah more than many hijabis. Just my 2 cents. Wish you all the best for the sake of Allah.
e, mercy and blessings of God be upon you. I am your sister, Umm Ali, I ask you to help me, I swear to you by God that I need it, and whoever wants to know my condition, I will contact the number shown above.
Bismillah, Assalamu'alaykum, Hi sister, only shalah and sabr will save you, do 2 rakaat prayer and ask Allah for a clue and be sabr. And please cover your Hands and neck its an aurat my dear. Love you from Indonesia.
Assalamualaikum dear sis. I trust you are doing well. First, if your ex-husband sees this, he'll be like you're still not over him. Further more, it exposing his and your marriage to the world is haram. No matter what he's done to you, that's his karma. Allah is watching. But to be ranting about this for years to me, shows the state of your relationship with Allah. Subhanallah, I'm not judging you and i know your experience must have been painful for you, but you must turn back to Allah and only He can heal your pain. Sister, look at the peace in you say 4 years ago. You had sakina, peace and calm from your videos way back. Now you are so bitter, angry and simply lashing out for everything that you've been through. Sister, by Allah, we all go through painful trials. I know everyone and their trials but NONE OF US HERE CAN HELP you if you do NOT RETURN BACK TO ALLAH AND BEG HIM TO HELP YOU AND GUIDE YOU ALRIGHT. We can make dua for you but listening to a divorce vent for all these years sister is a sign that you have neglected a huge part of your relationship with Allah. My father disowned me until he died, my mum and siblings all abandoned me. I had no one except Allah and my children. And others have truly truly truly excruciating pain and trials. BUT AS MUSLIMS, WE HAVE TO ACCEPT THE QADR OF ALLAH. Sister, RETURN BACK TO ALLAH, PRAY TAHAJJUD, MAKE A LOT OF ISTIKFAR; CORRECT YOUR HIJAB. Make zikr frequently, BE ALONE WITH ALLAH. SISTER, UNTIL YOU DO THAT, YOU WILL BE SPEAKING ABOUT YOUR MARRIAGE FOR THE NEXT DECADE. Conceal your husband's faults, Allah will grant you something greater and better BUT YOU HAVE TO ACCEPT THE WILL OF ALLAH SAMANTHA. GET OVER THIS DIVORCE. IT MAY HAVE CAUSED YOU ALOT OF PAIN BUT DO YOU KNOW WHAT ALLAH HAS KEPT FOR YOU BETTER THAN WHAT YOU'VE LOST?????
Just I have a comment regarding the thoughts you had about coming back to your husband , take my advice and move on and never look back start new life look for someone else more compatible with you , because I don't think the reasons that caused the divorce will be gone , take off this scarf and make your life less complicated because it is not from Qur'an just an old traditional habit even before islam
Hi Sam you can make it happen people are judgmental too much you can get back together because you have children together right i wish you the best sister
I don’t want to make it happen. I am in a relationship with someone else. He is in a relationship with someone else. It will never happen because we don’t want it to.
I'm very honest to tell you, I'm looking Revert Muslimah for marriage. I know Revert Muslims do face lot of deficaulties after accept Islam also face deficaulties to learn about Islam. I personally feel if I marry with Revert Muslimah I can teach or share knowledge of Islam to her.
Why you wearing the hijab like it’s a culture rather then a religious wear.. i can see your nick arms and your beauty as well, i see you contradicting the concept of the Islamic hijab!
لمْ يضرِب الرّسول محمّد صلّى اللّه عليه و سلّم امرأة قطّ طول حياته ..ترك وصِيّة خير بِهِنَّ عند وفاته ..قال : استَوْصُوا بالنّساءِ خيرا ..أيّ شرف بعد هذا لها ؟ ..و ما ينطِق عن الهوى .. أنتَ المعلّم الأوّل يا حَبيب و القدوة لمَن أراد لِقاء اللّه بقلب سليم .
@@norama3998 كل المسلمين يستخدمون التقية ويدينك الله على أكاذيبك. لا تشهد على قريبك شهادة زور. خروج 20:16 محمد بيت: قال النبي (ﷺ): "لا يسأل الرجل عن سبب ضرب امرأته". رياض الصالحين 68 أصابت: صحيح مسلم (4: 2127) - ضرب محمد زوجته المفضلة عائشة في صدرها ذات مساء عندما غادرت المنزل دون إذنه. تروي عائشة: ضربني على صدري فألمني. وصفع نسائه: صحيح مسلم (9: 3506) - كان آبا محمد (أبو بكر وعمر) يسلونه بصفع زوجتيه (عائشة وحفصة) لإزعاجه. وبحسب الحديث ، ضحك نبي الإسلام عند سماعه ذلك. فاحفظوا أكاذيبكم من أجل إبليس في الجحيم تعال إلى يسوع قبل فوات الأوان يسوع ينقذ.
@@ahmedelattar8259 Did you know Mohammad is your God? Allah is your only Intercessor: Allah it is He Who has created the heavens and the earth, and all that is between them in six Days. Then He Istawa (rose over) the Throne (in a manner that suits His Majesty). You (mankind) have none, besides Him, as a Wali (protector or helper etc.) OR AN INTERCESSOR. Will you not then remember (or be admonished)? S. 32:4 Lo! your Lord is Allah Who created the heavens and the earth in six Days, then He established Himself upon the Throne, directing all things. THERE IS NO INTERCESSOR (WITH HIM) save after His permission. That is Allah, your Lord, so worship Him. Oh, will ye not remind? S. 10:3 But Mohammad is also your Intercessor: When I see Him, I will fall down in prostration before Him, and will remain in prostration as long as He will, and then He will say, ‘RAISE YOUR HEAD, O MUHAMMAD, AND SPEAK, FOR YOU WILL BE LISTENED TO, AND INTERCEDE, FOR YOUR INTERCESSION WILL BE ACCEPTED, AND ASK, FOR YOUR REQUEST WILL BE GRANTED.’ (Sahih al-Bukhari, Volume 9, Book 97, Number 532 (O Allah, I ask of You and I turn my face towards You BY VIRTUE OF THE INTERCESSION OF MUHAMMAD THE PROPHET OF MERCY. O MUHAMMAD, I have turned to my Lord BY VIRTUE OF YOUR INTERCESSION concerning this need of mine, so that it may be met. O Allah, accept HIS INTERCESSION concerning me)”. (SAHIH) (English Translation of Sunan Ibn Majah: Compiled by Imam Muhammad Bin Yazeed Ibn Majah Al-Qazwini, Ahadith edited and referenced by Hafiz Abu Tahir Zubair 'Ali Za'i, translated by Nasiruddin al-Khattab (Canada), final review by Abu Khaliyl (USA) [Darussalam Publications and Distributors, First Edition: June 2007], Volume 2, From Hadith no. 803 to 1782, 5. The Chapters Of Establishing The Prayer And The Sunnah Regarding Them, Chapter 189. What Was Narrated Concerning Prayer At Times Of Need, pp. 329-330 If you are wondering how this makes Allah a Mushrik and a Kafir, the answer is simple: By accepting Muhammad’s Intercession Allah is actually encouraging his followers to turn to a Creature for Salvation, thereby violating his very own instructions as found in both the Quran and specific ahadith. In other words, Allah is actually encouraging and promoting shirk! Place your faith in the real God Jesus Christ for the remission of your sins and you will not perish. Have a good day.
@@MrMrnavi3 i agree, but not the internet, and not marriage problems.. and i’m single ☺️ but there something called AL STIR in arabic.. naveed its her boyfriend its her fathers kid.. and i dont even know the man.. but her children will grow up one day.. try to see the bigger picture they might see this.. and etcetcetc.. 🤐 i know some people get what im saying.. i hope everything works out between them..
My dear samantha..be strong .. dont let the divorced thing broke your heart. Be a strong muslim...you can. We love you.
Your strength inspires me. I'm sorry you're went through difficult stuff and are still going through. I pray that it gets better
I’m just waiting for the next life…where we all will live in true happiness insallah 🤲🏾
Marriage is not only about falling in love with someone but the most important thing it is about building a family and ready to take the responsibility. Marriage build base on taqwa will get blessing from Allah, innshaaAllah and will last till jannah.
كلمات تعليقك على صواب.. 👍
أحسنَ اللّه إليكَ .. آمين
BarakAllahu Fik Akhi
You are right brOoo
No one is willing to compromise anymore
وعليكم السلام ورحمة الله وبركاته.
To know problems muslim woman face,look at Uyigur woman.
May Allah reward them for their steadfastness and give them a speedy remedy.
The sad but real situation when sabr is compounded into a multi-year disaster that only gets worse
THERE IS LOTS OF LIFE AFTER DIVORCE😊🙏🏾
Thank you sister for a very wonderful advice, it's amazing and I love it
Salam alaikum from Germany. Love your vids and strength to speak out 😘❣️
Thanks for sharing, that's gonna help me a lot
Happy to see u again Samantha.when two persons are connected,it's always for a reason, love,money, tradition for some part of the world,financial need's for others and so on.....and if the reason is gone it's the end.but life always go on...always.time heal any wound.
Really beneficial video. Allah bless the ummah
Hi Sam! Indonesian loves you dear sis! Keep spirit!
I my self also divorced rightly 10 years ago ( we have no child ) but I believe Allah knows the right thing
your thoughts or concepts are genuine and I admire your mental strength while going through difficult times. Being a muslim, I know that Islam doesnt judge or let people judge on divorce (almost negligible number of people in society may do even though times are changed as you rightly said), divorce has been a possibility in all times as people may not have compatibility as you said. Most importantly, one should settle it decently if a marriage doesnt work and move on, may Allah make it better/easier for you and all those who face this situation, ameen.
Dear Sam ,
I totally agree with what you said .... And unfortunately , I can mindfully testify with examples of my siblings marriages ! ....
Although they all lasted some way or another ! , yet I can honestly say , most of them , are getting more miserable and sour , by the day !
Even what seems to have ended with amending their partners attitudes somehow ! .... Was just too little too late ! , And surely not worth the long years of conflicts and suffering !
Thanks for sharing
I can understand sister. ALLAH bless you and your family
We can't know the end of the road we take, but we understand the lesson as much as we pay for it🤷
My dear sister Samantha...
Keep strong.. be patient..
The Almighty Allah Will give best solution for your life...
InsyaAllah...
Aameen..
From your brother on Jakarta Indonesia...
i support you sis, ignore some lunatics.
Peace be upon you sister...!!! ✌😇🧘♂️
Assalamoalaikum Sam.I just found u today! Please be patient with me cos I m a very curious type of person.But, I do appreciate ur being so upfront n vocal about ur personal life.The first video of yours I watched was your conversion story ( the one u made in ur car). So, it came as a shock n disappointment when I came across ur divorce video cos in the previous one u seemed so much in love with ur then husband.Its sad, but I m sure, u r Allah's brave soldier.He will never burden u with more than u can bear.Hang in there.Allah ta'ala has a lot of good in store for u.In sha Allah.
God bless you sister
You're amazing.
May Allah bless you and give you patience 🤲❤
Wat An amazing young lady may Allah'swt give u full strength in wateva u want from ur life ameen
Marriage is based on trust, love, respect and understanding, patience in addition to this each person has own role
Don't go backwards go forward.
strengthen your faith and tawakkal to Allah. may Allah Taala help you and ease your life. Aaamiinn
Wa Aleikum ASalam wa rahmatulah wa Barakatuh!
Wa'alaykum Salam warrahmatullahi wa barakatuh dear sister Sam, I don't judge you, judge anybody. I love you for the sake of Allah. May Allah give you strength and keep believing in Him that there will be ease in difficulties. Take care Sam😘
We are muslim
We are spourt
Be strong, never give up
you . I LOVE YOU
with this hejap you like angel
Salam Alikoum,
Keep going sister take your time , don’t hurry to marry . Find the right person at the right time.
ALLAH won’t forget you, HE LOVES YOU more than any one on this earth .
FROM A BLACK MAN, YES IT HURTS BUT U-R NOT THE FIRST AN WILL NOT BE THE LAST. THERE IS LIFE AFTER DIVORCE ❤🖤💚
Dear Sam, May Allah help you to find the peace and love with the right man, I know you try to be a better person, just a quick reminder to wear long sleeves when you go out of home, this will complete your Hijab.
May Allah bless you with a husband and children, you are worthy.. I divorced and never thought I would remarry.. here I am 6 years after divorce with another kid and a better partner
Wualaikum assalam Wuarahmatullah.
U r right Sis , Its all about ur choice of ur partner .
Dear Samantha we love you 😍
Being divorced is nothing to be ashamed of, unfortunately some of the cultures in Muslim countries shame divorced people especially woman....., But in islam that's prohibited, to shame people who got divorced because divorce is a very normal thing in fact the prophet pbuh most of his wives were widows or divorced, islam gave permission to women to divorce if they're getting beaten up or not treated well or they're not getting their needs from their husbands.....
وَمِنْ آيَاتِهِ أَنْ خَلَقَ لَكُم مِّنْ أَنفُسِكُمْ أَزْوَاجًا لِّتَسْكُنُوا إِلَيْهَا وَجَعَلَ بَيْنَكُم مَّوَدَّةً وَرَحْمَةً إِنَّ فِي ذَلِكَ لَآيَاتٍ لِّقَوْمٍ يَتَفَكَّرُونَ )
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When the 2 people not respect & listern eacht other and all of them have enough financial they gona leave echt other.
Wa Alikum As Salam! right agree with your thoughts sister. But just one little problem please do cover your arms as you are doing half of hijab right now. Please don't take it as offensive.
ماشاء الله
you're nice. I wish you the best
walaikum assalam
Sister...I have no doubt you will remarry to someone who loves you dearly and will bring you closer to Allah subhanawataala. Ameen.
Unrelated question..
What do you think of Sufism?
may اللہ bless you sister
I think you make some very good points here. There ARE indeed many more divorces today and many reasons why.
What is very clear is the generations before us were constrained by social norms and the stigma of divorce (and there SHOULD be a stigma when a family breaks down ~ it's a tragedy) But the previous generations were not raised in "me me me world" where the individual is king. And the evidence is clear that we have taken a wrong turning on life's superhighway. We have lost any notion of sacrificial love. In Christ we see this on The Cross. And in Ephesians St Paul tells us "Men love your wives as Christ loved The Church". It is really only when we place God at the very centre of our marriage that we understand this sacrificial love.
I would be interested to read and hear divorce from men's perspective. We always hear how awful men behave and many really DO behave terribly. But I've witnessed on many occasions in certainly the last decade where things have been quite different in my friends marriages.
How ANYONE can remain married in this diabolical age is to me the greatest mystery. And I pray everyday for all married couples and also those whose marriages didn't work out.
Thank you for bravely sharing your experience here.
Wishing you a peaceful day.
There is even a chapter named divorce in Qur'an (Talak). So it is perfectly normal but sure it is a bit sad experience. We should grow up with our experiences.
🔥💯👌🏽
Quran surah AT-Taghabun Verse 14.
"The lawful act that Allah hates the most is thalaq (divorce)" (HR. Abu Dawud and Ibn Majah)
Islam is the perfect teaching,
Outside of working together in marriage,
We must study each of our obligations and rights, especially knowing our OBLIGATIONS which are written in the fiqh of marriage which are sourced from the Qur'an[Who knows what the best for Mankind] and Sunnah.[Who is the best role model for mankind]
but because of our selfishness [more demanding rights] our desire dominates which causes it to not work as it should.
Every Human being a sinner but we Must always remember Dunya is a test for believers and we all know our most important goal.
You do not know a person until you live with them.
كتب الكثير في التعليقات عن رأيه في الزّواج في الإسلام بجهل وَ للأسف دون عِلم شرعي فيه توضيح من الكِتاب و السّنة الشّريفة لهذه العلاقة الجميلة المقدّسة في ديننا .. سوف يأخذ كلّ واحد تعليقه معه إلى اللّه .
You are lovely and you are not weird
Assalam waalaikum sister be strong Allah SWT always protect you and your family.
السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته 👋
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I dunno, ive always thought that marriage is more about compromise rather than compatibility... humans aren't perfect and are unique and if people always looked for 100% or even 60% compatibility i dont think a lot of us would be able to marry.... give and take from both sides, tolerance, and patience are what i picture marriage...... then again i was never married (yet inshallah :D)
nothing wrong with your option to not to get back to your previous marriage... its legal in Islam.... just dont separate your kids with their own father... that is only our concern.... the problem only between u and him.... not your kids with him....
Howdy
❤️😍🙆♂️
An other cause of divorce. Bad eye. Sihr magic. And hassad
People Don't Get Married On Purpose Anymore. Courtship Is A Custom Sorely Missed In Society.If Someone Isnt Committed To The Long Term, You Shouldn't Commit Long Term To Them.......Btw Were Those Cicadas? This Almost Sounded Like An Anime 😁.
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islam doesn't shame divorce and there is a whole section that deal with divorce .. if there are people who shame it; it's because it goes to their culture and tradition
I don't love my wife with whome i married 10 years ago have a child also. But cannot hate her she is very good little bit of less carrying that is very sad but i don't hate that also cause i sometimes i get bussy and less carrying. but i don't love her. And i think its same story with her i know she don't hate me but don't love me also. Its not like now its from really start of marriage. Of course i had some issues during all this time but nothing made me to hate her. I don't know if i did big mistakes.
i am praying ALLAH will put love in my both of hearts.
You may love someone get married and divorced after that.
You may love after marriage also.
But ALL cases compromise and patience is very important and hard thing.
Of course no patience in abusive marriage case. Get ride of each other. You may get anger very much may have shouted but try to give time to each other. But continuous abuse of either is not acceptable. Get divorce
Single life very nice
Hi samantha i was took to you in Facebook
because modern feminism and technology
She's not feminist..
just forget all and do marriage i can help
إنه التقليد الأعمى في كل شئ!.....،ولن يسير الحال على هذا الشكل أبداً.
نحن نريد أن نزني فقط كما يزنِ من نراهم على شاشاتنا المضيئة ولكن بطريقة مشروعة، ثم نسميه 'زواج'؛ وهذا لا يقبله شرع أو عقل. لذلك فإن الخلاص الوحيد هو أن نقتل من يزنون أمام أعيننا ونطبق شرع الله وحدوده عليهم
OMG, the bugs in your yard are so offensive as well! 😜
I'm pretty sure that the guy, who advised you to reconcile your marriage, didn't know that your ex was cheating. Sex outside marriage, for Muslims, is one of the major sins that requires divorce and punishment. A Muslim girl must have a "Wali" who represents her in the marriage process. This would let him assess the prospected husband with reason rather than volatile emotions, and warn the girl of any critical aspects of the groom's character. In other words, the Wali prevents manipulating the girl emotionally. The purpose of the Wali is, of course, seeking a stable and happy marriage. I'm saying this to save you from another marriage failure. Thinking that you are a man, and similar junk, makes non-sense in real life. Allah has built us differently to integrate, not to fight.
I wish you pick a good Muslim husband next time. You also need to broaden your knowledge of Islam, and be closer to Allah so the He would help you make the right decisions.
RUclips friends who always show their admiration are not good guide. You would better talk to and older, more-experienced person for a wise advice. I would suggest talking to sister "
Ruba Qewar". She had similar hard-time in her first marriage after she reverted to Islam. Now she's an activist and also got a master degree of Islamic studies, in addition to a previous degree in Biblical scriptures. She has her own RUclips channel.
I know one sister who divorce.. because of political differences She was committed to her political beliefs. And She was divorce twice.. this is general trajectory for lots of revert sisters.. my advice
Converts should marry other converts Within their ethnicity.
There is a British revert sisters. Who used to be hijabi..
Please Google Myriam Francois. Her husband change his political side.. she dump him. She try halal dating. Now She is dating in club. Her Islam is gone
@@shawngegen8768 do you know her personally ? don' talk sh*t about people on the internet
@@lujainot5495 it may be true 'cause she started wearing the same clothes she had been waering before
@@shawngegen8768 how did you know? how did you find?
A divorce is a divorce. You've been 60 days away from him to detoxify your self from him and him of you. Don't go back to something you've been finished with, especially with your addictive personality. You'll end up damaging yourself or himself.
I'm in a relationship and withstanding abuse due to my addictive personality. Even though I know I'm damaging myself I stick around. You're stronger than me because you've finished the 60 day period without relapsing to him. My relapse period with her is 1 day hhh.
What helped me the most when I left her for the longest period was speaking to another woman, in an islamic way. In other words behind a veil and in a formal way. I think you need a new partner. Go look for one, to ground you.
Also, many muslims don't wear the hijab. The most important thing in Islam is not associating partners with Allah; also your daily prayers and fasting in Ramadan. Also, many non hijabis fear Allah more than many hijabis. Just my 2 cents. Wish you all the best for the sake of Allah.
That colonizer came out
Being attacked by violent bugs
e, mercy and blessings of God be upon you. I am your sister, Umm Ali, I ask you to help me, I swear to you by God that I need it, and whoever wants to know my condition, I will contact the number shown above.
Bismillah, Assalamu'alaykum, Hi sister, only shalah and sabr will save you, do 2 rakaat prayer and ask Allah for a clue and be sabr. And please cover your Hands and neck its an aurat my dear. Love you from Indonesia.
samantha i need muslim girl marriage in your side
May Allah bless you. Marriages last if a wife obeys her husband, honestly, this is the solution. of course that does not apply on an abusive husbands.
Assalamualaikum dear sis. I trust you are doing well. First, if your ex-husband sees this, he'll be like you're still not over him. Further more, it exposing his and your marriage to the world is haram. No matter what he's done to you, that's his karma. Allah is watching. But to be ranting about this for years to me, shows the state of your relationship with Allah. Subhanallah, I'm not judging you and i know your experience must have been painful for you, but you must turn back to Allah and only He can heal your pain. Sister, look at the peace in you say 4 years ago. You had sakina, peace and calm from your videos way back. Now you are so bitter, angry and simply lashing out for everything that you've been through. Sister, by Allah, we all go through painful trials. I know everyone and their trials but NONE OF US HERE CAN HELP you if you do NOT RETURN BACK TO ALLAH AND BEG HIM TO HELP YOU AND GUIDE YOU ALRIGHT. We can make dua for you but listening to a divorce vent for all these years sister is a sign that you have neglected a huge part of your relationship with Allah. My father disowned me until he died, my mum and siblings all abandoned me. I had no one except Allah and my children. And others have truly truly truly excruciating pain and trials. BUT AS MUSLIMS, WE HAVE TO ACCEPT THE QADR OF ALLAH. Sister, RETURN BACK TO ALLAH, PRAY TAHAJJUD, MAKE A LOT OF ISTIKFAR; CORRECT YOUR HIJAB. Make zikr frequently, BE ALONE WITH ALLAH. SISTER, UNTIL YOU DO THAT, YOU WILL BE SPEAKING ABOUT YOUR MARRIAGE FOR THE NEXT DECADE. Conceal your husband's faults, Allah will grant you something greater and better BUT YOU HAVE TO ACCEPT THE WILL OF ALLAH SAMANTHA. GET OVER THIS DIVORCE. IT MAY HAVE CAUSED YOU ALOT OF PAIN BUT DO YOU KNOW WHAT ALLAH HAS KEPT FOR YOU BETTER THAN WHAT YOU'VE LOST?????
Did you marry a chocolate Boy ? You know you love that Chocolate, Don't front White Girl !
Just I have a comment regarding the thoughts you had about coming back to your husband , take my advice and move on and never look back start new life look for someone else more compatible with you , because I don't think the reasons that caused the divorce will be gone , take off this scarf and make your life less complicated because it is not from Qur'an just an old traditional habit even before islam
Hi Sam you can make it happen people are judgmental too much you can get back together because you have children together right i wish you the best sister
I don’t want to make it happen. I am in a relationship with someone else. He is in a relationship with someone else. It will never happen because we don’t want it to.
@@SamanthaDixon ruclips.net/video/uXMBwZo-rSQ/видео.html
@@SamanthaDixon plz watch this video
I'm very honest to tell you, I'm looking Revert Muslimah for marriage. I know Revert Muslims do face lot of deficaulties after accept Islam also face deficaulties to learn about Islam. I personally feel if I marry with Revert Muslimah I can teach or share knowledge of Islam to her.
First learn how to type properly in English, then we can talk about how you may share your knowledge of Islam with Sam.
ترجمه عربي يا اختي
You seem sad . I ask allah for you . To have better life here and in life after. Be patient and ask allah
I told you not to go for black guys and wtf did you do?
A/alikum are you married ❤️
Why you wearing the hijab like it’s a culture rather then a religious wear.. i can see your nick arms and your beauty as well, i see you contradicting the concept of the Islamic hijab!
This is embarrassing. Two years later, sharing what's sacred in a man's home to the outside world. You need therapy.
Marry me, dear
Women have become emboldened towards their husbands, he (the Prophet) gave permission to BEAT them. Sunan abi dawud 2146
Jesus is Lord
لمْ يضرِب الرّسول محمّد صلّى اللّه عليه و سلّم امرأة قطّ طول حياته ..ترك وصِيّة خير بِهِنَّ عند وفاته ..قال : استَوْصُوا بالنّساءِ خيرا ..أيّ شرف بعد هذا لها ؟ ..و ما ينطِق عن الهوى ..
أنتَ المعلّم الأوّل يا حَبيب و القدوة لمَن أراد لِقاء اللّه بقلب سليم .
@@norama3998
كل المسلمين يستخدمون التقية
ويدينك الله على أكاذيبك.
لا تشهد على قريبك شهادة زور. خروج 20:16
محمد بيت:
قال النبي (ﷺ): "لا يسأل الرجل عن سبب ضرب امرأته". رياض الصالحين 68
أصابت:
صحيح مسلم (4: 2127) - ضرب محمد زوجته المفضلة عائشة في صدرها ذات مساء عندما غادرت المنزل دون إذنه. تروي عائشة: ضربني على صدري فألمني.
وصفع نسائه:
صحيح مسلم (9: 3506) - كان آبا محمد (أبو بكر وعمر) يسلونه بصفع زوجتيه (عائشة وحفصة) لإزعاجه. وبحسب الحديث ، ضحك نبي الإسلام عند سماعه ذلك.
فاحفظوا أكاذيبكم من أجل إبليس في الجحيم
تعال إلى يسوع قبل فوات الأوان
يسوع ينقذ.
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@@ahmedelattar8259 Did you know Mohammad is your God?
Allah is your only Intercessor:
Allah it is He Who has created the heavens and the earth, and all that is between them in six Days. Then He Istawa (rose over) the Throne (in a manner that suits His Majesty). You (mankind) have none, besides Him, as a Wali (protector or helper etc.) OR AN INTERCESSOR. Will you not then remember (or be admonished)? S. 32:4
Lo! your Lord is Allah Who created the heavens and the earth in six Days, then He established Himself upon the Throne, directing all things. THERE IS NO INTERCESSOR (WITH HIM) save after His permission. That is Allah, your Lord, so worship Him. Oh, will ye not remind? S. 10:3
But Mohammad is also your Intercessor:
When I see Him, I will fall down in prostration before Him, and will remain in prostration as long as He will, and then He will say, ‘RAISE YOUR HEAD, O MUHAMMAD, AND SPEAK, FOR YOU WILL BE LISTENED TO, AND INTERCEDE, FOR YOUR INTERCESSION WILL BE ACCEPTED, AND ASK, FOR YOUR REQUEST WILL BE GRANTED.’ (Sahih al-Bukhari, Volume 9, Book 97, Number 532
(O Allah, I ask of You and I turn my face towards You BY VIRTUE OF THE INTERCESSION OF MUHAMMAD THE PROPHET OF MERCY. O MUHAMMAD, I have turned to my Lord BY VIRTUE OF YOUR INTERCESSION concerning this need of mine, so that it may be met. O Allah, accept HIS INTERCESSION concerning me)”. (SAHIH) (English Translation of Sunan Ibn Majah: Compiled by Imam Muhammad Bin Yazeed Ibn Majah Al-Qazwini, Ahadith edited and referenced by Hafiz Abu Tahir Zubair 'Ali Za'i, translated by Nasiruddin al-Khattab (Canada), final review by Abu Khaliyl (USA) [Darussalam Publications and Distributors, First Edition: June 2007], Volume 2, From Hadith no. 803 to 1782, 5. The Chapters Of Establishing The Prayer And The Sunnah Regarding Them, Chapter 189. What Was Narrated Concerning Prayer At Times Of Need, pp. 329-330
If you are wondering how this makes Allah a Mushrik and a Kafir, the answer is simple: By accepting Muhammad’s Intercession Allah is actually encouraging his followers to turn to a Creature for Salvation, thereby violating his very own instructions as found in both the Quran and specific ahadith.
In other words, Allah is actually encouraging and promoting shirk!
Place your faith in the real God Jesus Christ for the remission of your sins and you will not perish.
Have a good day.
@@ayoolukoga9829 ruclips.net/video/IYMKQKSV0bY/видео.html
Stop sharing your problem with us.. home secrets are valued in every religion.. take care stay safe..
Its ok. personally see her like sister if you are alone you should find some way to release your pressure and after sharing you feel little good.
@@MrMrnavi3 i agree, but not the internet, and not marriage problems.. and i’m single ☺️ but there something called AL STIR in arabic.. naveed its her boyfriend its her fathers kid.. and i dont even know the man.. but her children will grow up one day.. try to see the bigger picture they might see this.. and etcetcetc.. 🤐 i know some people get what im saying.. i hope everything works out between them..
Yes in this point of you you are right what we was face but trying to forward positive things